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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Fiancee [F22] and I [MTF22] have a major problem with our room mate [F21] POST: So, my mother Suzy [F55] got in a pretty serious car crash, and shattered her back, and I [MTF22], as well as my fiancee of four years [F22], have to stay with her for about two months while she convalesc...	Our room mate is taking advantage of our shitty situation by renting out our room and getting double rent. We are moving.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by putting a letter in my pocket POST: Kids this is why you do stuff immediately! Never put things off for later. So I been going to events for Rush week on campus because I was trying to join this pre-medical fraternity available in my school. I was informed of the fraternity by a frie...	Went through anixety hell all week to join a pre-med frat, got the acceptance letter, forgot to call to confirm, too late now T_T<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32M] with my SO [30F] of 5 months, how to not let insecurity of past relationship ruin this one POST: I've been seeing this great girl for the past 5 months. Everything has been amazing, way better than I thought a relationship could be. We both feel like we reciprocate and can't...	I was cheated on in my last relationship and want to not let the insecurity and bad feelings ruin the potential of this new, great, better relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Some people (redditors) POST: Was at work today (I work as a server/bartender) when a younger guy came in and proceeded to threaten, harass, insult, and attempt to start a bar fight with everyone in there. Given it was a slow night and we had started closing so it was down to just the staff...	Douche insulted about a dozen people. Used "I'm a redditor" to explain why he's a douche.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my BF [26 M] of a few months, is it okay to continue to tell him I love him even though he hasn't said it back? POST: I've been dating this guy for a few months. I'm pretty far gone, head over heels in love with him and have been for some time. I've told him so and...	I'm in love with my BF, he does not say "I love you" back. Should I never say it again until he does?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: 25F dating 22M, he never pays. I'm a feminist, it's 2014. Why do I care? Advice needed. (x-post /r/dating.) POST: I have been dating this guy for about a month. Before this we were friends and hung out in the same friend group for about a year before it became obvious I liked him mor...	I'm a feminist but it still bothers me a little bit that my new guy never offers to pay for me on dates. Please help me make sense of this /r/dating!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Negotiating a Raise w/Promotion POST: Hey everyone. Hopefully you can help some on my situation. I'm currently making $71k which is the result of two off-cycle pay raises and a large (for my company) annual pay raise. A couple of years ago I told my manager I thought I was being...	How hard to I push for a bigger raise for an internal promotion when there will be several other applicants and I've received two off cycle pay raises in the past two years?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [20 F] for 4 years, i think she loves another guy, thinking of dumping her POST: Well, i think i should start with description of both us: me, 23M, still loving her. She, 20F, says that she loves me "but my love is not that strong". She met a 16(!)M, says that...	4 years GF seems like emotional cuckoldry, today-tomorrow i'm thinking of breaking up with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by playing with my bus card inside bus POST: So this happened yesterday, I was on my way back from school, in the public bus. There's a bus card system where in you tap your card on to the machine and get in the bus. So I do that, and take a seat, and now that my phone has no charge, I...	Got into a bus, played with the bus card, bus card got into a cavity between the glass and the seat. Was really worried about a random check.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I (20m) a psychopath? Or is it something else? POST: I've been feeling very strange lately. I'm getting older and people around me are dying. And I don't care. My girlfriends grandpa just died and I met him and I liked him... But I don't feel anything. Am I sad? Sure... I guess? B...	I feel like I'm going crazy because I've never felt bad about death and now I'm becoming emotionally raw for no apparent reason. Please help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Having trouble making a huge life/career decision. What is a difficult decision you have made and how did you make it? POST: Basically, today or tomorrow I need to make the decision of whether or not to attend medical school this fall. I deferred my acceptance last year because I genuine...	Can't decide whether to go to medical or pursue another career more suited to my interests. What is a difficult decision you have made and how did you make it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M21) want a relationship with a girl (F19) who is scared of commitment. And I'm begging for help. POST: Like I said I need help. I've been talking to this girl for the summer. I feel as if she is out of my league and I'm truly blessed to have her. The problem is that she is leavi...	girl is scared of commitment and doesn't know how it feels to be in a relationship and I want to be with her. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it illegal for a person to view a full copyrighted video on Youtube prior it being removed due to a takedown notice? POST: Any law nerds around? Please do not turn this into a thread on the morality of copyright infringement. That horse has been beaten into a pulp around here. I bel...	If you are only downloading (streaming) copyrighted content and never uploading (distributing), are you breaking any laws?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Unpaid vacation. Left of good terms. Missouri. POST: Now I know Missouri and alot of states aren't required to pay out vacation. But if the director of operations guarantees to me personally that my vacation will be paid out, and I signed an employee handbook that states in there if I ...	Does signed employee handbook stating I will receive vacation payout, and verbal confirmation from Director of operations give me any legal grounds to take this to court. In the state of Missouri. Thank you.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19F] of 3 months, told me that she's going to use drugs despite denying it in the past. POST: When we started dating my girlfriend told me that she used molly (it's basically Ecstasy) once during a music festival and when I asked her if she will be using ...	She told me that she used molly once and that she will never use it again, lies about it, plans to use it again and doesn't understand that drugs are bad and that I care about her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a Facebook POST: At first I made it because this girl kept pressuring me to make one because she wanted to invite me to one of her parties through it. She is really nice so I obliged, but now I look back at what a stupid reason that was to make a Facebook. Why couldn't she ju...	Made a Facebook just so a friend can invite me to something, (what was I thinking?) I hate Facebook and vowed never to make one, I wanted to keep it quiet but somehow a bunch of people found out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Damage caused to wall and walkway by neighbor's trees POST: First I'll give some backstory: Hello, I live in Los Angeles and my house has a shared cinder block wall with a neighbor. When I moved into the house, damage was already being done to both the wall itself and my concrete walk...	Neighbor's tree messed up our shared cinder block wall and my walkway, does he have to pay for the damages and replace the wall? Can I take him to court over this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27f) think I made a huge mistake by moving in with a boyfriend too soon POST: I moved in two weeks ago with my boyfriend (28m) of five months. I quit my job (and accepted one making way less money) and moved six hours away. Since arriving, it's been nearly constant conflict. Befor...	I moved in with a boyfriend 400 miles from home after dating only 4 months. It's a huge struggle and I don't know how much conflict is normal.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I can't tell if I'm depressed or perfectly content with life POST: I know it sounds weird but that is exactly how I feel. Day to day my life seems to be going pretty well. I have a nice girlfriend, a few very close friends, a large group of extended friends and for the most part enjoy m...	happy day in and day out but feel alone in the world, dead friend, cancer, possible denial issues, hate my 4 roommates, i smoke too much pot, too lazy<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] High school romance, nearing 2 months dating 4 months total; my nervousness/anxiety making this difficult for me please help POST: So, I have this really awesome girl in my life now (first real relationship ever.) Things are going great. However, ...	I worry a lot that my girlfriend is going to leave me when I know she isn't going to and would like a way to overcome it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21F] boyfriend [31M] of 1 year called me boring in bed, he says it's no longer true but I can't get over it. POST: Sorry! First post, please excuse any mistakes. My boyfriend and I have been together a year, and it was very on/off due to lots of personal issues- his last relatio...	Boyfriend called me boring in bed. I have apparently got better but I am still insecure. How do I get over this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by wearing shorts with a hole in and loose boxers. POST: So, I have a tendency to rip the crotch in my trousers and tend to take a while to repair them. I was driving along today and felt a bit of an itch, so obviously reached down to scratch the area. Unfortunately, I then felt a sting....	a wasp flew up my shorts and stung my scrotum and I now have a hairy red balloon dangling under my cock.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by speaking Greek POST: A few years ago, I was studying in a Swedish city. Far away from home, it's always nice to get together with some fellow Greeks, so one day, some friends and I went out for coffee. Normally, when Swedes or guys/gals from other nationalities hung out with us, we us...	Three Greeks in Sweden called a random stranger 'fucker' in their native tongue; that fucker happened to be Greek as well.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[16 M] am falling back into a thing with my on again off again girlfriend [16 F] of four years, and my parents [47 M] and [50 F] (predictably) disapprove POST: DISCLAIMER: I understand that 90% of this subreddit deals with far greater issues than my own, but I need some guidance...	On again off again girlfriend and I are back on again, hopefully for the rest of highschool, and my parents are disapproving to the point of anger. pls halp.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16F] with my mum [41F] I'm regretting not leaving when she threatened to kick me out POST: Pretty much as the title says. My mum and I had an argument last night in which she called me rude, selfish and ungrateful for doing general teenager stuff (read: having a messy room, not r...	I have a rocky relationship with my mum, made worse last night and I regret not packing up my stuff there and then and going to a hotel for the night.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need Advice. I (31F) Thinking of ratting my Best Friend (30F) out to her husband (36M). POST: Let me start by saying I am fully aware this is none of my business or place to tell. Basics: My best friend of many years cheating on her husband with multiple partners, male and female, ...	I've been contemplating letting the cat out of the bag to my best friends husband about her infidelity/double life. Should i? If I do tell what is the best way without me being involved?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Should I go back to the doctor's? POST: This past Saturday I went to the ER for a pain in my lower back/abdomen. After doing blood work, a urinalysis, and a CT scan the doctor told me it was a kidney stone and gave me some anti-nausea and pain meds. The nurse told me to come back if I go...	I was diagnosed with a kidney stone on Saturday. The pain hasn't gone away. Is this normal or should I go back?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] ex [28M] is dying. I don't know what my role is. POST: It was a bad break up. We were only together for a year. I was the one who ended it because I was not happy in the relationship, he was just not good to me. I was more of a maid or a mom then his partner. Today I found ...	ex is dying. What is my role? Relationship was unhappy for one year and we've been broken up for two years. I have a new SO now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to my brothers baseball game... POST: OK reddit, this actually happened on Sunday but I've been unavailable until today. Also, not sure I'd this is the right sub to post in but I need to get this off my chest... So, just a bit of backstory. My little brother (13) has autism, an...	) Went to support special needs brother, beat the piss outta some dad for "verbally assaulting" him, proceeded to shatter life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Advice on asking out a friend 19[M] POST: (throwaway) for the last year or two I've been single, mostly because I've just been busy with school and haven't really felt like having a girlfriend. sure ive had attractions and whatnot, but I never felt compelled to enter a relationship. ...	how should or should i ask out a girl I've been hanging out with, without making it awkward in the future if she doesn't share my feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 30F with my husband 38M of 10 years, went to annual work banquet, got an award, didn't tell husband. POST: Edit: The award in question was for saving a teenager's life. My husband asked that I clarify this. 2nd TL;DR:	went to annual work banquet, didn't tell husband, he's very angry./ Opinions on what to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [20 M] of 11 months, I feel like a very low priority and it's wrecking my mental health. POST: I have been in a relationship with him for 11 months. We used to see each other every day (we live 2 minutes away by car from each other), and a month ago it stop...	Feeling like a very low priority, almost like a back up with my boyfriend. It's making me feel all sorts of negative ways.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [28/F] am very insecure but am deeply in love with my boyfriend [22/m]. How do I let go of it? POST: I'll keep this short and sweet. I've been delt a crappy hand in love and been dumped for another woman twice and then dumped for no reason without warning once. I've met an incre...	Have had crappy relationships in the past, now in love with someone I could see in the long term...how do I get rid of my paralyzing fear of losing him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Tips on how to train a dog who's obsessive over toys? POST: Good morning r/Dogtraining! First post on this subreddit, because I am looking for some help or suggestions. My Pit Bull is one of the sweetest dogs I know, and gets along very well with other dogs, cats, and all humans. I'...	Dog has an almost unbreakable focus on toys that I need to find a way to control when she's playing with other dogs, so nothing bad happens in the heat of the moment<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I am recently unemployed, have some money but also have a couple bills, and am depressed. Reddit, should I move? POST: I'm in desperate need of advice. The story goes... I am 24 years old. I finished school in December with a degree in graphic design. A few months ago, I moved from For...	I am recently unemployed, moved back home, incredibly depressed, have the money the move, but don't have the finances to last me. Should I move or not?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boot camp POST: My(16f) boyfriend(18m) of two years left for boot camp two days ago. I had no idea how I would get to his graduation but a good friend of mine offered to pay. I know he will. He flew me down to see my dad for the first time this past summer. I just need my dad's permi...	My boyfriend brother wants to go to his basic training graduation, as do I, but there is only one spot available.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Time to give up on a friendship? POST: Hey guys, throwaway account, because well, I kinda need to. So I have this friend. Let's call her Sarah. And another friend, who we'll call Ellie. The three of us have been best friends since high school, and it's been a couple of years s...	Friend has new friends, ignoring me and her other best friend because she's busy with them all the time. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I date a guy who has a seedy past- and hasn't quite let go of it? POST: I (23 F) am currently dating a guy (28 m) who has had a tumultuous past (he grew up in a broken home and got kicked out of several schools for fighting. He's also been arrested three times). We have been d...	23 F dating a 28/M who got arrested/ into trouble when he was younger. He claims this is behind him, but still dabbles in illegal things/has friends who do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [29F] LDR BF [29M] has drastically changed his amount of responsiveness and attention paid to me. POST: Me and my long-distance boyfriend have only been official for a month and a half. He was absolutely amazing - always calling, always texting me, sending gifts and just generally...	BF got in trouble at work. He's not being responsive and I'm not sure if I should stick it out or cut my losses.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 M] am struggling with comparisons of my wife's [25 F] sisters POST: I realize that this will make me sound like a horrible human being, hence the use of a throwaway. My wife and I have been married for a couple of years now. We were "high school sweethearts" who ended up toge...	I think my wife's sisters are cuter than her, and don't know what to do or how to stop feeling this way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My colleague [25/f] tried to quit smoking & asked for support. Now she has "relapsed", should I [27/m] try to get her back or track or leave her with her choice? POST: Work colleague [25/f] decided to give up smoking at the start of the year. She was pretty keen to share this with ev...	Girl at work decided to quit smoking. Said she'd appreciate any support. Now she has relapsed, do I continue to support, or move on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Got scammed by a famous-ish American fitness personality. POST: I'm based in Australia and am a full time student and work part-time to live. I saved my money for months in order to buy a 6 month online coaching package that was reduced due to a promotion this fitness personality was ha...	got scammed by a fitness personality into buying a 6 month online coaching package only to get flaked on and ignored.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Gifts for day-of wedding helpers? POST: My fiancé and I are a bit untraditional and decided to nix the wedding party idea. Instead, we have some close friends and family members helping with tasks usually delegated to bridesmaids and groomsmen: shower planning, crafts, etc., as wel...	No bridal party. We want to give gifts to our day-of helpers (readings, programs, etc). Looking for meaningful/lasting gift ideas that won't break the bank.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24M] bad insomnia problems caused a bad reaction and my girlfriend [24F] told me "Call me when you figure it out" POST: So I've been having bad sleeping problems. I never had them but about 3 weeks ago I've been having a very hard time- 0-2 hours per night. The sleep deprivation ...	Insomnia caused me to react which inadvertently startled my girlfriend, she is now completely dropping communication until I "figure it out"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by shitting myself sitting on my bed, fully aware of it. POST: So, something I need to say for starters is I have terrible knees, for a 17 year old and for probably any fucking age. Sometimes when I set on my bedside and grab something under my bed, I bend my knees or twist them and the ...	Knee cap got dislocated, too afraid to pop it back in so I cried for 3 hours while simultaneously shitting myself<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27 M] wife [26 F] has had jealousy issues, impacting my ability to make female friends. How can I make more platonic friends with women in a healthy way? POST: In my 20s. I have not made many female friends in several years (only acquaintances), particularly because of my wife's ...	I have struggled to make platonic friends with women in the past several years because it makes my wife jealous and react poorly.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I being too nice? (22f) POST: It started 9 months ago (you know where this is going), when my very good friend (at the the time FWB) and close neighbor (38m), got another girl pregnant (26f). After I got over the fact that we were over, stopped sleeping with him, and moved on- I ...	Helping out my former FWB and his pregnant girlfriend clean their apartment, among other things. I feel I'm being "too nice".<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] can't stop thinking about my husbands [24M] friend [24M]. What the heck is wrong w/ me? POST: my husband and I have been married for almost 4 years. Yes, you read that right, 4 years. We got married when I was 17. We met when I was barely 16. So you can imagine, things went f...	husband and I have been married 4 years. Recently met my husbands friend from high school, who is a very nice and funny guy. But now I can't stop thinking about him and it's making me feel terrible.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is He Shy Or Just Not Interested? (M, F, 30s) POST: This is a different situation than I usually see with this question. This isn't a guy that I have a crush on. We've actually been on dates. We (F and M in our 30s) met through online dating and have been on some various dates. Five...	He hasn't made a move after 5 dates and, with his closed body language, I can't tell if he just wants to be my friend or if he's just shy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Friend Threatened to be Sued by Previous Employer. POST: My friend, is in CA and from what I understand Noncompete is illegal. He was fired from the job for working on the side. There was no rule about this or agreement, but that has little to do with the threats. The company wishes to...	Friend being sued for allegedly using customer list, using free programs in a specific manor, conducting a competing business, soliciting prospective clients.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [19 M] having a great time with my new gf [18 F] for 3 months, however, her parents have her bubble wrapped and won't let her grow up. POST: My girlfriend has parents that won't let her do anything. I want to describe it more as bubble wrapping her. They are keeping her too safe ...	Girlfriend's parents are treating her like she is a kid and won't let her stay up late. She can't convince them otherwise.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: NSV - Donated all of my fat clothes today! POST: F/32 - 5'7" - 8 months - Down to 229 from 302 - 73 POUNDS lost and still going strong! Today I finally went through my closet and tried on every item of clothing I own. I decided if it's too big then [it's time to go.] I filled [5 trash bag...	F/32 - 5'7" - 8 months - Down to 229 from 302 - 73 POUNDS lost. I donated 5 trash bags full of my old fat clothes!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm a married guy, but have a woman friend who acts ridiculously hot and cold. Don't want to be more than friends, but not sure how to mellow things out. POST: My wife and I are both in our late 30s, married for over 16 years, with 2 kids under 10. I have a friend at work who is a ...	Friend is sometimes very friendly, and other times really cold. I just want to be friends, but don't know how to make that happen.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Have you ever won an argument only to end up feeling like a jerk? POST: I came across a [photo of Chaz Ortiz (a professional skateboarder) in a skateboarding magazine] I grew up in the same area as Chaz and met him a few times so I was pretty excited about it. I showed my dad because my ...	My dad claimed a photo to be a fake and used his 35 years of being a professional photographer as his backup, only to have me completely prove him wrong and make him embarrassed/sad. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: AskReddit: I don't know where else to look; Job/Career advice? POST: Hi Reddit, I'm faced with a bit of a conundrum and I'm unsure of where to turn. My family has never done well in the corporate world, and my friends - all being my age - are faced with the same lack of experience that ...	My employer wants me to take on additional responsibilities that include travel and trust that while it does not come with additional compensation that it will be, determined at my end of year review. Take it and trust or force something better?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] have been seeing someone [21F] for about a month and a half, communication with her has become difficult lately POST: We only started talking to each other since the tail end of December, but we've known each other for about a year and a half. We first met in class in my firs...	Used to talk to this girl all day, nearly everyday for a month and a half now, but now no talky and lots of confusion.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Connecting with a girl I cut out of my life (advice/thoughts from the Ladies). POST: Hello, I am a 30 year old male. I have had one true love in my life that I feel so strongly for. I knew her since middle school. As time went, we hung out, became close friends. She lit up my life ...	Ladies, would you reconnect with a guy that had feelings for you over 10 years ago that you rejected but he wants to reconnect with you and maybe try again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: Me [24F] with my BF [27 M] of 8 months, he moved in and we need to talk about it POST: Here is my original post. I brought up the conversation with him. He insisted that he wasn't living with me, and that as soon as he bought a bed he wouldn't be staying as often. I was very...	My bf has been unofficially living with me. When I talked to him about it he insisted he doesn't, and revealed he has no real thoughts about our future. I'm thinking maybe I should end this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18,f] wanting a relationship with a good friend [22,m] POST: I am a female, who recently enlisted in the US Army Reserves. I am a woman that is very persistent and determined in getting what I want, and achieving the path that I want my life to follow. I broke up with my bf of 8 ...	My friend [22,m] and I want to get into a relationship I feel, but both of us are hesitant because I am leaving for basic training at the end of the month. Please help!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Any stories from races? POST: My first official race was a 5k for my Aunt, who I had lost 6 months before to cancer. I'd been training for months, And raised over $120 to help the fight. On the day of the race I find the girls from our group, and we all wait together, chatting. 15 minuet...	Ran my first 5k for m aunt, finish faster than I thought at 27:32, dad cries. :) Best. Day. Yet.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26M] with my Girlfriend [24F] of nine months, found a picture of a text exchange featuring "I love you"s to another guy. POST: Hi /r/relationships, I honestly never thought I'd be posting in here but I could do with some advice from you folks. We were at a regular quiz we attend...	Saw a pic of a WhatsApp convo on my girl's phone where she exchanged "I love You"s with another guy. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help me [28 M] figure out if I should ask her [26 F] out again! POST: Met a girl a few weeks ago through orientation for a graduate program. Exchanged numbers and she implied that we should hang out. I took this and a couple of other signs as interest on her part. A couple of weeks ...	Hang out with girl on what might be a date. Goes well at first but the goodbye is quick and abrupt. Should I ask her out again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: FWB just admitted he wants more...feeling pressured. What do I do? [F19], [M22]. POST: Friends and former coworker turned friend with benefits. Hooking up on and off for two years. Both recently out of committed relationships and looking for nothing more than fun. I'm totally turned ...	Hooking up with super sexy FWB. He suddenly wants more. Not ready to commit quite yet. Do I end it now or give this a try?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Losing my boyfriend to online games... POST: Hello, I have made a post here before and I regret coming back to ask for more help. I am 17/f and he is 19/m. We have been dating for nine months. It used to never be this bad. I really do want to think for myself, but my decisions aren't...	Boyfriend plays too much League! I want to get the message across that I want him to cut it down, but I don't want to break up with him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] am clearly the third choice for her [19 F] POST: So basically I am like a girl and could see things going places with her. She hangs out with my group of friends and has since the beginning of first semester, but as I am thinking of asking her out and changing our relations...	I think I would be her third choice to date. I think she wants one of my friends to ask her out. I fear asking her out will lead to rejection and a lost friend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26 F] fiance [26 M] (engaged for 1 year, dated 1 year prior) is the biggest baby ever when sick. POST: Okay I may just need to vent. And warning part of this is might be graphic. My fiance got a bad stomach bug and was sick starting at 4 AM yesterday and it lasted all day. I wa...	my fiance is sick, shit my tub, and thinks i'm the bad caretaker for being frustrated. am i being unreasonable to think he could use the toilet and be a little bit appreciative of my efforts?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what was your "YES! WE DIDN'T GET CAUGHT!" moment, only to have actually been caught? I'll start. POST: I usually go away for the summers, to visit my dad and my step sister. My sister was always one to get into some trouble, involving boys and parties. So, one night, the parents...	Sister brought boys back to camper one night, thought we got away with it. One boy came back in the morning and asked our parents for his hat back. Big trouble.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a girl think I was stalking her POST: So today I was at my local Wal-Greens to pick up some ear plugs, as I was waiting in line I noticed a girl in front of me looked like someone I knew in Middle school. I don't live in the same area I lived when I was in middle school, I live...	Saw a girl I went to school with in a store, sent friend request, she doesn't remember me, thinks a stranger tracked her down online.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (M/19) Trying to become more than friends with college friend not over her ex (F/19) POST: There's a girl that lives very close to my home that I also go to university with, I'll call her Deb. I met Deb shortly after she broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years. Over the course of our ...	I asked out always college friend and she said she still wasn't over her ex and didn't want to jeopardize our friendship with a relationship. Should I stick around and give her time or move on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Estate, Probate, and sale POST: Hello Reddit, I am from Grand Rapids Michigan in the US and I am in desperate need of advice. My dad passed away a couple of months ago at the end of March. He owned a small business of 3 regular employees including myself as well as the building that th...	My dad passed away and my mom is trying to sell a building he owned, do I get any say in the matter?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By asking for Fabian POST: Happened like an hour ago.. I need new tires so I shopped around and made some calls. The dealership where I normally get my car serviced had the best deal after talking to them on the phone. It was about $100 cheaper than anywhere else so I went there right a...	I asked for Fabian at the dealership and they found him with mad dog 20/20 across the street in the dealer's loaner<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 F] with my SO [25 M] duration 2 months, help me make him feel as good as he makes me feel? POST: So, I first met M through mutual friends and interests about 4 years ago. Since then Id been in a fairly serious relationship that has since ended. My best friend and his best frie...	So any ideas/advice on ways I can show him through, say, acts of service that convey how I'm feeling?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should I [21/F] still believe in love? POST: I have been dating my current [also first] boyfriend for 6 months. We did date last year for 8 months, but I broke up with him before summer because he was emotionally distant. He's changed a lot now in that area I guess. He's more a...	My boyfriend loves me and is great to me, but doesn't make me happy. Should I find love somewhere else?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My Fiancé is Depressed(with good reason). What can I do? POST: I'm male, 25 years old. She's female, 27 years old. We've been together for almost 10 years and are engaged to be married next fall. She's a beautiful, friendly, compassionate person, but she's been pretty down for ...	She's depressed and has no school or career achievements or goals. She has MS. She feels stuck at her current job for insurance reasons. I don't know how to help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M25] am starting to lose faith in women and I'm not sure what to do. Cheated on by 4/4 girlfriends. Advice. POST: I've had 4 girlfriends in my life and they've all cheated on me. The first was in high school, so I wrote it off as teenage stupidity. In college I was cheated on by t...	I [M25] am starting to lose faith in women and I'm not sure what to do. Cheated on by 4/4 girlfriends. Advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20] am planning on breaking up with my bf [20] of 4 years. Can anyone help me? POST: After years and years of shit, my rose tinted glasses are finally beginning to crack and I'm beginning to see things how my friends have been telling me after all these years. He's always spoken ...	Decided its time to get rid of cheating, manipulative boyfriend, who had just gone abroad to visit family for 4 weeks. Unsure on how to break up/what to say...<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[17F] with my bf[16M] of 8 months, keeping secrets from eachother POST: Our problem is he's lying to me about things like getting a job behind my back, after we both promised to wait until next summer to both get jobs. We agreed to this so we can spend more time with each other whi...	My boyfriend is very secretive and always hides things from me and his family, and doesn't seem to want to spend as much time with me. Please help, I really think he's the one.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17f] SO is struggling to deal with stress, I [17M] don't know what to do POST: So my girlfriend of 2 years is really struggling with balancing school, me, and work. Today she texted me saying she can't do it anymore and that having a boyfriend is too much for her and she feels l...	GF feels very overwhelmed and i know that she is over working herself but i don't know how to fix this and make her feel less stress without cutting me from her life for now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: There's this boy [16M] in my [14F] class I want to be friends with. How do I approach him, if I should at all? POST: There's a boy called C in two of my classes who seems quite lonely. I don't ever see him talk to anybody, but when I have heard him talk he has an American accent. My ...	There's a lonesome quiet boy in my class who I want to make friends with, but I'm really insecure and anxious around new people. How should I approach him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: NSV - Out performed a friend during a move who has been doing P90X for a year POST: A friend of mine (we'll call him Pete) has been working out for about a year doing P90X. I don't know how consistent Pete's been, but he started roughly about a year ago, and his wife has mentioned he works ...	I kicked ass helping a friend and his wife move, while he faked exhaustion to get me to do most of the heavy lifting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [22 F] of 4 months, she was invited to hang out by one of his friends, she asked if she was allowed to, I said no. POST: Hey Everyone, My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for four months. I have known her since May 2015. > Yesterday, my girlfriend tol...	GF got asked by his ex to hang out together, she asks me how I'd feel and I said 'very uncomfortable, please don't'. Am I a being an idiot? Sorry for my english!!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Friends [21 F of 5 years \| 21 F of 4 months], Both of them want more than a friendship. POST: So I met this girl, will say her name is Sarah, on omegle 5 years ago when it was just a harmless random messaging site. We exchanged emails kept in communication for all t...	Both friends want more than a friendship and I have feelings for them both. How do I handle this situation and how do I not loose a friend in the process?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do i tell my S.O. I was taken advantage of? POST: This was a couple of months ago, it was in a foreign country- I was at a party and I got really really drunk. I blacked out and I dont remember anything except, I woke up with stranger kissing me and his pants off. My body felt somewh...	Was taken advantage of months ago, never told BF. Scared if I tell him, he may leave me because he may consider it cheating. Feel dirty with myself, lonely and scared.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (m24) admit that I messed up but I feel that my wife (f24) of 5 months, is somewhat overreacting POST: First off I just want to start off by saying I know that I am in the wrong here and that I fucked up so if you must criticize me, go for it, but I already know this problem was my...	I looked up an ex-coworker on facebook that my wife didnt like, she found out I did and flipped out on me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[24F] and my BF[21M] got in to an argument about him liking other girls photos. POST: My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 6 months and so far it is going very well. However, today while having a conversation with my boyfriend about facebook, instgram etc. I ask...	Boyfriend is "liking" inappropriate photos of his friends. Got very upset when I told him it bothered me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Missing my Atlas POST: Good morning and thank you for taking the time to read this. A little back story first, I'm 27 years old. Back in 2013, I was in the Army and was going through a medical discharge board after being diagnosed with Celiacs Disease (found out too that im not symptomat...	I was born at 27 weeks, I'm missing my Atlas vertebrae and am wondering if I will experience any crazy problems as I get older<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone delt with post-college depression? How did you get over it? POST: I graduated college a little over a month ago and I've been really depressed since. I probably cried every day for the first 2 weeks after graduation. I feel like it's a mixture of a lot of things: fear of the "...	I'm depressed because I'm leaving college and worried about my future. Has anyone else faced this? How did you get over it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Sex issues; is this worth it? I'm 25F, he is 25M POST: Any advice is appreciated. The guy I've been seeing for two or three months and I might be facing an insurmountable issue. He wants sex, like all the mother-effing time. I see him two or three days a week (staying overnight) and...	his libido is crazy high and mine is crazy low. Am I just an icy robot? is this salvageable?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, do you know anything about social movements? POST: For my Critical Thinking Persuasion class, I am to conduct a 20 minute speech along with my 3 other group members. Problem is, I have mainly incompetent and lazy people as group members who don't really try to add to the subj...	I need a social movement where persuasion is evident and can be broken down into little parts and can be cited with 4 credible sources.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Sex in the public hot tub question...(Possibly NSFW) POST: Today we went out had a fun time at the beach on the way back we stopped by a friends condo/apartment to use the community pool there and we had a great time. The problem that happened was when a couple arrived and went straight ...	Went to the beach stopped by friends condo to use the community pool random, neighbors showed up and started having sex in hot tub while we had a 6yr old with us and it was only 8pm.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] and [16 F] were becoming pretty close. We haven't talked in over a year and a half. POST: So as the title says, it's been a while since I talked to a girl I really liked - she's one of the first girls I felt that shared a lot of the same interests as me. We would talk like ...	Me and a girl were becoming pretty good friends, but we don't talk at all anymore. Not sure how to approach her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] am head over heels for this girl [24F], think of her constantly, but am not sexually attracted to her POST: I am really into this girl I know. I think of her constantly, I try my damndest to be where she's at at all times, etc. When I see her my heart beats faster, I get exci...	I am emotionally and physically head over heels for a girl, but I find that when I have crushes like this my interests lie more in being with and around them, rather than having sex with them despite my intense attraction towards them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So Netgear had us a tech support company for our router issues. They did nothing but try and sell us their $200 service plan, and installed their own programs on my PC. What other encounters of useless/scam tech support have you guys had? POST: Let me provide some more information about ...	iYogi was supposed to fix our wireless router, instead tried to sell us their $200 "service" plan, and scanned my PC with a program that falsifies information to try and push a sale. As shown here: [<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: (EU/NL) About energy & gas costs POST: So usually how you pay your electric and gas (E&G) bills is in advances. Recently my electricity usage doubled. Which led into almost the double of "adviced" monthly advance on the bill. My question would be here, what keeps me from reducing t...	Question: Does cutting the advances on E&G bills cost you more or less money at the end of the year?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (19/f) ex (19/m) is scared to commit. POST: So my ex and I broke up six months ago. He and I were fine. We broke it off because I needed to deal with some issues in my family. Now I want to get back together with him, and he wants to be with me. The problem is that he thinks he n...	How do I explain to my ex that he doesn't need to wait until we graduate from university to date me, and that we can make decisions about life together and have good results?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] am off to college soon, love my SO [17M] very much and we're going to try long distance, but very worried about communication... POST: So me and my SO met near the end of my senior year of high school and there was an instant connection. I've been in several casual relationsh...	I'm going off to college in a few months and I'm worried that my textual awkwardness is going to ruin my long distance relationship<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my now exgirlfriend [18 F] had sex on the night before she planned breaking up with me and the condom broke. POST: I went to see my ex-girlfriend and had to travel 8 hours in a car because she wanted to see me. I should've never left. Get there we act like nothings wr...	Drive 8 hours to see girlfriend to talk about our relationship. We have sex. Condom breaks. The she breaks my heart. Period hasn't happened in nearly a month. HELP<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: daughter going into jr high, please help POST: there was a post yesterday by a parent who said junior high and high school were terrible for them and were considering home school. i dont have that option, but i do agree that jr high was the toughest time in my childhood where i constant...	i hated jr high and it was a horrible time, now my daughter is going into 7th grade and id like some information or advice on what to expect.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22F) asked to be a bridesmaid in a wedding. Bridal shower/bachelorette party conflict with another wedding. POST: Hello everyone, My good friend asked me to be a bridesmaid in her upcoming wedding. She is having her bachelorette party and bridal shower on the same day, as many o...	Wedding for my boyfriend's cousin is on the same day as a bridal shower/bachelorette party for a wedding I'm standing up in. Scheduling conflict!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] have just started dating an absolutely amazing lady [23F], and she was kind enough to warn me early on that she has HPV POST: For the last couple months, I have been talking to a woman that has developed into an actual relationship. After a couple dates, she told me there was...	Girl that I'm very sure I want to continue to date advised me she has HPV. Is it not that big of a deal as I've read up on, and how can I help support her?<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Fiancee [F22] and I [MTF22] have a major problem with our room mate [F21] POST: So, my mother Suzy [F55] got in a pretty serious car crash, and shattered her back, and I [MTF22], as well as my fiancee of four years [F22], have to stay with her for about two months while she convalesc...	Our room mate is taking advantage of our shitty situation by renting out our room and getting double rent. We are moving.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by putting a letter in my pocket POST: Kids this is why you do stuff immediately! Never put things off for later. So I been going to events for Rush week on campus because I was trying to join this pre-medical fraternity available in my school. I was informed of the fraternity by a frie...	Went through anixety hell all week to join a pre-med frat, got the acceptance letter, forgot to call to confirm, too late now T_T<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32M] with my SO [30F] of 5 months, how to not let insecurity of past relationship ruin this one POST: I've been seeing this great girl for the past 5 months. Everything has been amazing, way better than I thought a relationship could be. We both feel like we reciprocate and can't...	I was cheated on in my last relationship and want to not let the insecurity and bad feelings ruin the potential of this new, great, better relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Some people (redditors) POST: Was at work today (I work as a server/bartender) when a younger guy came in and proceeded to threaten, harass, insult, and attempt to start a bar fight with everyone in there. Given it was a slow night and we had started closing so it was down to just the staff...	Douche insulted about a dozen people. Used "I'm a redditor" to explain why he's a douche.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my BF [26 M] of a few months, is it okay to continue to tell him I love him even though he hasn't said it back? POST: I've been dating this guy for a few months. I'm pretty far gone, head over heels in love with him and have been for some time. I've told him so and...	I'm in love with my BF, he does not say "I love you" back. Should I never say it again until he does?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: 25F dating 22M, he never pays. I'm a feminist, it's 2014. Why do I care? Advice needed. (x-post /r/dating.) POST: I have been dating this guy for about a month. Before this we were friends and hung out in the same friend group for about a year before it became obvious I liked him mor...	I'm a feminist but it still bothers me a little bit that my new guy never offers to pay for me on dates. Please help me make sense of this /r/dating!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Negotiating a Raise w/Promotion POST: Hey everyone. Hopefully you can help some on my situation. I'm currently making $71k which is the result of two off-cycle pay raises and a large (for my company) annual pay raise. A couple of years ago I told my manager I thought I was being...	How hard to I push for a bigger raise for an internal promotion when there will be several other applicants and I've received two off cycle pay raises in the past two years?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [20 F] for 4 years, i think she loves another guy, thinking of dumping her POST: Well, i think i should start with description of both us: me, 23M, still loving her. She, 20F, says that she loves me "but my love is not that strong". She met a 16(!)M, says that...	4 years GF seems like emotional cuckoldry, today-tomorrow i'm thinking of breaking up with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by playing with my bus card inside bus POST: So this happened yesterday, I was on my way back from school, in the public bus. There's a bus card system where in you tap your card on to the machine and get in the bus. So I do that, and take a seat, and now that my phone has no charge, I...	Got into a bus, played with the bus card, bus card got into a cavity between the glass and the seat. Was really worried about a random check.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I (20m) a psychopath? Or is it something else? POST: I've been feeling very strange lately. I'm getting older and people around me are dying. And I don't care. My girlfriends grandpa just died and I met him and I liked him... But I don't feel anything. Am I sad? Sure... I guess? B...	I feel like I'm going crazy because I've never felt bad about death and now I'm becoming emotionally raw for no apparent reason. Please help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Having trouble making a huge life/career decision. What is a difficult decision you have made and how did you make it? POST: Basically, today or tomorrow I need to make the decision of whether or not to attend medical school this fall. I deferred my acceptance last year because I genuine...	Can't decide whether to go to medical or pursue another career more suited to my interests. What is a difficult decision you have made and how did you make it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M21) want a relationship with a girl (F19) who is scared of commitment. And I'm begging for help. POST: Like I said I need help. I've been talking to this girl for the summer. I feel as if she is out of my league and I'm truly blessed to have her. The problem is that she is leavi...	girl is scared of commitment and doesn't know how it feels to be in a relationship and I want to be with her. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it illegal for a person to view a full copyrighted video on Youtube prior it being removed due to a takedown notice? POST: Any law nerds around? Please do not turn this into a thread on the morality of copyright infringement. That horse has been beaten into a pulp around here. I bel...	If you are only downloading (streaming) copyrighted content and never uploading (distributing), are you breaking any laws?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Unpaid vacation. Left of good terms. Missouri. POST: Now I know Missouri and alot of states aren't required to pay out vacation. But if the director of operations guarantees to me personally that my vacation will be paid out, and I signed an employee handbook that states in there if I ...	Does signed employee handbook stating I will receive vacation payout, and verbal confirmation from Director of operations give me any legal grounds to take this to court. In the state of Missouri. Thank you.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19M] with my girlfriend [19F] of 3 months, told me that she's going to use drugs despite denying it in the past. POST: When we started dating my girlfriend told me that she used molly (it's basically Ecstasy) once during a music festival and when I asked her if she will be using ...	She told me that she used molly once and that she will never use it again, lies about it, plans to use it again and doesn't understand that drugs are bad and that I care about her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a Facebook POST: At first I made it because this girl kept pressuring me to make one because she wanted to invite me to one of her parties through it. She is really nice so I obliged, but now I look back at what a stupid reason that was to make a Facebook. Why couldn't she ju...	Made a Facebook just so a friend can invite me to something, (what was I thinking?) I hate Facebook and vowed never to make one, I wanted to keep it quiet but somehow a bunch of people found out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Damage caused to wall and walkway by neighbor's trees POST: First I'll give some backstory: Hello, I live in Los Angeles and my house has a shared cinder block wall with a neighbor. When I moved into the house, damage was already being done to both the wall itself and my concrete walk...	Neighbor's tree messed up our shared cinder block wall and my walkway, does he have to pay for the damages and replace the wall? Can I take him to court over this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (27f) think I made a huge mistake by moving in with a boyfriend too soon POST: I moved in two weeks ago with my boyfriend (28m) of five months. I quit my job (and accepted one making way less money) and moved six hours away. Since arriving, it's been nearly constant conflict. Befor...	I moved in with a boyfriend 400 miles from home after dating only 4 months. It's a huge struggle and I don't know how much conflict is normal.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I can't tell if I'm depressed or perfectly content with life POST: I know it sounds weird but that is exactly how I feel. Day to day my life seems to be going pretty well. I have a nice girlfriend, a few very close friends, a large group of extended friends and for the most part enjoy m...	happy day in and day out but feel alone in the world, dead friend, cancer, possible denial issues, hate my 4 roommates, i smoke too much pot, too lazy<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] High school romance, nearing 2 months dating 4 months total; my nervousness/anxiety making this difficult for me please help POST: So, I have this really awesome girl in my life now (first real relationship ever.) Things are going great. However, ...	I worry a lot that my girlfriend is going to leave me when I know she isn't going to and would like a way to overcome it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21F] boyfriend [31M] of 1 year called me boring in bed, he says it's no longer true but I can't get over it. POST: Sorry! First post, please excuse any mistakes. My boyfriend and I have been together a year, and it was very on/off due to lots of personal issues- his last relatio...	Boyfriend called me boring in bed. I have apparently got better but I am still insecure. How do I get over this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by wearing shorts with a hole in and loose boxers. POST: So, I have a tendency to rip the crotch in my trousers and tend to take a while to repair them. I was driving along today and felt a bit of an itch, so obviously reached down to scratch the area. Unfortunately, I then felt a sting....	a wasp flew up my shorts and stung my scrotum and I now have a hairy red balloon dangling under my cock.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by speaking Greek POST: A few years ago, I was studying in a Swedish city. Far away from home, it's always nice to get together with some fellow Greeks, so one day, some friends and I went out for coffee. Normally, when Swedes or guys/gals from other nationalities hung out with us, we us...	Three Greeks in Sweden called a random stranger 'fucker' in their native tongue; that fucker happened to be Greek as well.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[16 M] am falling back into a thing with my on again off again girlfriend [16 F] of four years, and my parents [47 M] and [50 F] (predictably) disapprove POST: DISCLAIMER: I understand that 90% of this subreddit deals with far greater issues than my own, but I need some guidance...	On again off again girlfriend and I are back on again, hopefully for the rest of highschool, and my parents are disapproving to the point of anger. pls halp.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16F] with my mum [41F] I'm regretting not leaving when she threatened to kick me out POST: Pretty much as the title says. My mum and I had an argument last night in which she called me rude, selfish and ungrateful for doing general teenager stuff (read: having a messy room, not r...	I have a rocky relationship with my mum, made worse last night and I regret not packing up my stuff there and then and going to a hotel for the night.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need Advice. I (31F) Thinking of ratting my Best Friend (30F) out to her husband (36M). POST: Let me start by saying I am fully aware this is none of my business or place to tell. Basics: My best friend of many years cheating on her husband with multiple partners, male and female, ...	I've been contemplating letting the cat out of the bag to my best friends husband about her infidelity/double life. Should i? If I do tell what is the best way without me being involved?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Should I go back to the doctor's? POST: This past Saturday I went to the ER for a pain in my lower back/abdomen. After doing blood work, a urinalysis, and a CT scan the doctor told me it was a kidney stone and gave me some anti-nausea and pain meds. The nurse told me to come back if I go...	I was diagnosed with a kidney stone on Saturday. The pain hasn't gone away. Is this normal or should I go back?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] ex [28M] is dying. I don't know what my role is. POST: It was a bad break up. We were only together for a year. I was the one who ended it because I was not happy in the relationship, he was just not good to me. I was more of a maid or a mom then his partner. Today I found ...	ex is dying. What is my role? Relationship was unhappy for one year and we've been broken up for two years. I have a new SO now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to my brothers baseball game... POST: OK reddit, this actually happened on Sunday but I've been unavailable until today. Also, not sure I'd this is the right sub to post in but I need to get this off my chest... So, just a bit of backstory. My little brother (13) has autism, an...	) Went to support special needs brother, beat the piss outta some dad for "verbally assaulting" him, proceeded to shatter life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Advice on asking out a friend 19[M] POST: (throwaway) for the last year or two I've been single, mostly because I've just been busy with school and haven't really felt like having a girlfriend. sure ive had attractions and whatnot, but I never felt compelled to enter a relationship. ...	how should or should i ask out a girl I've been hanging out with, without making it awkward in the future if she doesn't share my feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 30F with my husband 38M of 10 years, went to annual work banquet, got an award, didn't tell husband. POST: Edit: The award in question was for saving a teenager's life. My husband asked that I clarify this. 2nd TL;DR:	went to annual work banquet, didn't tell husband, he's very angry./ Opinions on what to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [20 M] of 11 months, I feel like a very low priority and it's wrecking my mental health. POST: I have been in a relationship with him for 11 months. We used to see each other every day (we live 2 minutes away by car from each other), and a month ago it stop...	Feeling like a very low priority, almost like a back up with my boyfriend. It's making me feel all sorts of negative ways.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [28/F] am very insecure but am deeply in love with my boyfriend [22/m]. How do I let go of it? POST: I'll keep this short and sweet. I've been delt a crappy hand in love and been dumped for another woman twice and then dumped for no reason without warning once. I've met an incre...	Have had crappy relationships in the past, now in love with someone I could see in the long term...how do I get rid of my paralyzing fear of losing him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Tips on how to train a dog who's obsessive over toys? POST: Good morning r/Dogtraining! First post on this subreddit, because I am looking for some help or suggestions. My Pit Bull is one of the sweetest dogs I know, and gets along very well with other dogs, cats, and all humans. I'...	Dog has an almost unbreakable focus on toys that I need to find a way to control when she's playing with other dogs, so nothing bad happens in the heat of the moment<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I am recently unemployed, have some money but also have a couple bills, and am depressed. Reddit, should I move? POST: I'm in desperate need of advice. The story goes... I am 24 years old. I finished school in December with a degree in graphic design. A few months ago, I moved from For...	I am recently unemployed, moved back home, incredibly depressed, have the money the move, but don't have the finances to last me. Should I move or not?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boot camp POST: My(16f) boyfriend(18m) of two years left for boot camp two days ago. I had no idea how I would get to his graduation but a good friend of mine offered to pay. I know he will. He flew me down to see my dad for the first time this past summer. I just need my dad's permi...	My boyfriend brother wants to go to his basic training graduation, as do I, but there is only one spot available.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Time to give up on a friendship? POST: Hey guys, throwaway account, because well, I kinda need to. So I have this friend. Let's call her Sarah. And another friend, who we'll call Ellie. The three of us have been best friends since high school, and it's been a couple of years s...	Friend has new friends, ignoring me and her other best friend because she's busy with them all the time. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I date a guy who has a seedy past- and hasn't quite let go of it? POST: I (23 F) am currently dating a guy (28 m) who has had a tumultuous past (he grew up in a broken home and got kicked out of several schools for fighting. He's also been arrested three times). We have been d...	23 F dating a 28/M who got arrested/ into trouble when he was younger. He claims this is behind him, but still dabbles in illegal things/has friends who do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [29F] LDR BF [29M] has drastically changed his amount of responsiveness and attention paid to me. POST: Me and my long-distance boyfriend have only been official for a month and a half. He was absolutely amazing - always calling, always texting me, sending gifts and just generally...	BF got in trouble at work. He's not being responsive and I'm not sure if I should stick it out or cut my losses.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 M] am struggling with comparisons of my wife's [25 F] sisters POST: I realize that this will make me sound like a horrible human being, hence the use of a throwaway. My wife and I have been married for a couple of years now. We were "high school sweethearts" who ended up toge...	I think my wife's sisters are cuter than her, and don't know what to do or how to stop feeling this way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My colleague [25/f] tried to quit smoking & asked for support. Now she has "relapsed", should I [27/m] try to get her back or track or leave her with her choice? POST: Work colleague [25/f] decided to give up smoking at the start of the year. She was pretty keen to share this with ev...	Girl at work decided to quit smoking. Said she'd appreciate any support. Now she has relapsed, do I continue to support, or move on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Got scammed by a famous-ish American fitness personality. POST: I'm based in Australia and am a full time student and work part-time to live. I saved my money for months in order to buy a 6 month online coaching package that was reduced due to a promotion this fitness personality was ha...	got scammed by a fitness personality into buying a 6 month online coaching package only to get flaked on and ignored.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Gifts for day-of wedding helpers? POST: My fiancé and I are a bit untraditional and decided to nix the wedding party idea. Instead, we have some close friends and family members helping with tasks usually delegated to bridesmaids and groomsmen: shower planning, crafts, etc., as wel...	No bridal party. We want to give gifts to our day-of helpers (readings, programs, etc). Looking for meaningful/lasting gift ideas that won't break the bank.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24M] bad insomnia problems caused a bad reaction and my girlfriend [24F] told me "Call me when you figure it out" POST: So I've been having bad sleeping problems. I never had them but about 3 weeks ago I've been having a very hard time- 0-2 hours per night. The sleep deprivation ...	Insomnia caused me to react which inadvertently startled my girlfriend, she is now completely dropping communication until I "figure it out"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by shitting myself sitting on my bed, fully aware of it. POST: So, something I need to say for starters is I have terrible knees, for a 17 year old and for probably any fucking age. Sometimes when I set on my bedside and grab something under my bed, I bend my knees or twist them and the ...	Knee cap got dislocated, too afraid to pop it back in so I cried for 3 hours while simultaneously shitting myself<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27 M] wife [26 F] has had jealousy issues, impacting my ability to make female friends. How can I make more platonic friends with women in a healthy way? POST: In my 20s. I have not made many female friends in several years (only acquaintances), particularly because of my wife's ...	I have struggled to make platonic friends with women in the past several years because it makes my wife jealous and react poorly.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I being too nice? (22f) POST: It started 9 months ago (you know where this is going), when my very good friend (at the the time FWB) and close neighbor (38m), got another girl pregnant (26f). After I got over the fact that we were over, stopped sleeping with him, and moved on- I ...	Helping out my former FWB and his pregnant girlfriend clean their apartment, among other things. I feel I'm being "too nice".<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] can't stop thinking about my husbands [24M] friend [24M]. What the heck is wrong w/ me? POST: my husband and I have been married for almost 4 years. Yes, you read that right, 4 years. We got married when I was 17. We met when I was barely 16. So you can imagine, things went f...	husband and I have been married 4 years. Recently met my husbands friend from high school, who is a very nice and funny guy. But now I can't stop thinking about him and it's making me feel terrible.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is He Shy Or Just Not Interested? (M, F, 30s) POST: This is a different situation than I usually see with this question. This isn't a guy that I have a crush on. We've actually been on dates. We (F and M in our 30s) met through online dating and have been on some various dates. Five...	He hasn't made a move after 5 dates and, with his closed body language, I can't tell if he just wants to be my friend or if he's just shy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Friend Threatened to be Sued by Previous Employer. POST: My friend, is in CA and from what I understand Noncompete is illegal. He was fired from the job for working on the side. There was no rule about this or agreement, but that has little to do with the threats. The company wishes to...	Friend being sued for allegedly using customer list, using free programs in a specific manor, conducting a competing business, soliciting prospective clients.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [19 M] having a great time with my new gf [18 F] for 3 months, however, her parents have her bubble wrapped and won't let her grow up. POST: My girlfriend has parents that won't let her do anything. I want to describe it more as bubble wrapping her. They are keeping her too safe ...	Girlfriend's parents are treating her like she is a kid and won't let her stay up late. She can't convince them otherwise.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: NSV - Donated all of my fat clothes today! POST: F/32 - 5'7" - 8 months - Down to 229 from 302 - 73 POUNDS lost and still going strong! Today I finally went through my closet and tried on every item of clothing I own. I decided if it's too big then [it's time to go.] I filled [5 trash bag...	F/32 - 5'7" - 8 months - Down to 229 from 302 - 73 POUNDS lost. I donated 5 trash bags full of my old fat clothes!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm a married guy, but have a woman friend who acts ridiculously hot and cold. Don't want to be more than friends, but not sure how to mellow things out. POST: My wife and I are both in our late 30s, married for over 16 years, with 2 kids under 10. I have a friend at work who is a ...	Friend is sometimes very friendly, and other times really cold. I just want to be friends, but don't know how to make that happen.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Have you ever won an argument only to end up feeling like a jerk? POST: I came across a [photo of Chaz Ortiz (a professional skateboarder) in a skateboarding magazine] I grew up in the same area as Chaz and met him a few times so I was pretty excited about it. I showed my dad because my ...	My dad claimed a photo to be a fake and used his 35 years of being a professional photographer as his backup, only to have me completely prove him wrong and make him embarrassed/sad. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: AskReddit: I don't know where else to look; Job/Career advice? POST: Hi Reddit, I'm faced with a bit of a conundrum and I'm unsure of where to turn. My family has never done well in the corporate world, and my friends - all being my age - are faced with the same lack of experience that ...	My employer wants me to take on additional responsibilities that include travel and trust that while it does not come with additional compensation that it will be, determined at my end of year review. Take it and trust or force something better?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] have been seeing someone [21F] for about a month and a half, communication with her has become difficult lately POST: We only started talking to each other since the tail end of December, but we've known each other for about a year and a half. We first met in class in my firs...	Used to talk to this girl all day, nearly everyday for a month and a half now, but now no talky and lots of confusion.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Connecting with a girl I cut out of my life (advice/thoughts from the Ladies). POST: Hello, I am a 30 year old male. I have had one true love in my life that I feel so strongly for. I knew her since middle school. As time went, we hung out, became close friends. She lit up my life ...	Ladies, would you reconnect with a guy that had feelings for you over 10 years ago that you rejected but he wants to reconnect with you and maybe try again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: Me [24F] with my BF [27 M] of 8 months, he moved in and we need to talk about it POST: Here is my original post. I brought up the conversation with him. He insisted that he wasn't living with me, and that as soon as he bought a bed he wouldn't be staying as often. I was very...	My bf has been unofficially living with me. When I talked to him about it he insisted he doesn't, and revealed he has no real thoughts about our future. I'm thinking maybe I should end this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18,f] wanting a relationship with a good friend [22,m] POST: I am a female, who recently enlisted in the US Army Reserves. I am a woman that is very persistent and determined in getting what I want, and achieving the path that I want my life to follow. I broke up with my bf of 8 ...	My friend [22,m] and I want to get into a relationship I feel, but both of us are hesitant because I am leaving for basic training at the end of the month. Please help!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Any stories from races? POST: My first official race was a 5k for my Aunt, who I had lost 6 months before to cancer. I'd been training for months, And raised over $120 to help the fight. On the day of the race I find the girls from our group, and we all wait together, chatting. 15 minuet...	Ran my first 5k for m aunt, finish faster than I thought at 27:32, dad cries. :) Best. Day. Yet.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26M] with my Girlfriend [24F] of nine months, found a picture of a text exchange featuring "I love you"s to another guy. POST: Hi /r/relationships, I honestly never thought I'd be posting in here but I could do with some advice from you folks. We were at a regular quiz we attend...	Saw a pic of a WhatsApp convo on my girl's phone where she exchanged "I love You"s with another guy. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help me [28 M] figure out if I should ask her [26 F] out again! POST: Met a girl a few weeks ago through orientation for a graduate program. Exchanged numbers and she implied that we should hang out. I took this and a couple of other signs as interest on her part. A couple of weeks ...	Hang out with girl on what might be a date. Goes well at first but the goodbye is quick and abrupt. Should I ask her out again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: FWB just admitted he wants more...feeling pressured. What do I do? [F19], [M22]. POST: Friends and former coworker turned friend with benefits. Hooking up on and off for two years. Both recently out of committed relationships and looking for nothing more than fun. I'm totally turned ...	Hooking up with super sexy FWB. He suddenly wants more. Not ready to commit quite yet. Do I end it now or give this a try?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Losing my boyfriend to online games... POST: Hello, I have made a post here before and I regret coming back to ask for more help. I am 17/f and he is 19/m. We have been dating for nine months. It used to never be this bad. I really do want to think for myself, but my decisions aren't...	Boyfriend plays too much League! I want to get the message across that I want him to cut it down, but I don't want to break up with him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] am clearly the third choice for her [19 F] POST: So basically I am like a girl and could see things going places with her. She hangs out with my group of friends and has since the beginning of first semester, but as I am thinking of asking her out and changing our relations...	I think I would be her third choice to date. I think she wants one of my friends to ask her out. I fear asking her out will lead to rejection and a lost friend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26 F] fiance [26 M] (engaged for 1 year, dated 1 year prior) is the biggest baby ever when sick. POST: Okay I may just need to vent. And warning part of this is might be graphic. My fiance got a bad stomach bug and was sick starting at 4 AM yesterday and it lasted all day. I wa...	my fiance is sick, shit my tub, and thinks i'm the bad caretaker for being frustrated. am i being unreasonable to think he could use the toilet and be a little bit appreciative of my efforts?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what was your "YES! WE DIDN'T GET CAUGHT!" moment, only to have actually been caught? I'll start. POST: I usually go away for the summers, to visit my dad and my step sister. My sister was always one to get into some trouble, involving boys and parties. So, one night, the parents...	Sister brought boys back to camper one night, thought we got away with it. One boy came back in the morning and asked our parents for his hat back. Big trouble.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a girl think I was stalking her POST: So today I was at my local Wal-Greens to pick up some ear plugs, as I was waiting in line I noticed a girl in front of me looked like someone I knew in Middle school. I don't live in the same area I lived when I was in middle school, I live...	Saw a girl I went to school with in a store, sent friend request, she doesn't remember me, thinks a stranger tracked her down online.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (M/19) Trying to become more than friends with college friend not over her ex (F/19) POST: There's a girl that lives very close to my home that I also go to university with, I'll call her Deb. I met Deb shortly after she broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years. Over the course of our ...	I asked out always college friend and she said she still wasn't over her ex and didn't want to jeopardize our friendship with a relationship. Should I stick around and give her time or move on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Estate, Probate, and sale POST: Hello Reddit, I am from Grand Rapids Michigan in the US and I am in desperate need of advice. My dad passed away a couple of months ago at the end of March. He owned a small business of 3 regular employees including myself as well as the building that th...	My dad passed away and my mom is trying to sell a building he owned, do I get any say in the matter?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By asking for Fabian POST: Happened like an hour ago.. I need new tires so I shopped around and made some calls. The dealership where I normally get my car serviced had the best deal after talking to them on the phone. It was about $100 cheaper than anywhere else so I went there right a...	I asked for Fabian at the dealership and they found him with mad dog 20/20 across the street in the dealer's loaner<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 F] with my SO [25 M] duration 2 months, help me make him feel as good as he makes me feel? POST: So, I first met M through mutual friends and interests about 4 years ago. Since then Id been in a fairly serious relationship that has since ended. My best friend and his best frie...	So any ideas/advice on ways I can show him through, say, acts of service that convey how I'm feeling?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should I [21/F] still believe in love? POST: I have been dating my current [also first] boyfriend for 6 months. We did date last year for 8 months, but I broke up with him before summer because he was emotionally distant. He's changed a lot now in that area I guess. He's more a...	My boyfriend loves me and is great to me, but doesn't make me happy. Should I find love somewhere else?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My Fiancé is Depressed(with good reason). What can I do? POST: I'm male, 25 years old. She's female, 27 years old. We've been together for almost 10 years and are engaged to be married next fall. She's a beautiful, friendly, compassionate person, but she's been pretty down for ...	She's depressed and has no school or career achievements or goals. She has MS. She feels stuck at her current job for insurance reasons. I don't know how to help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M25] am starting to lose faith in women and I'm not sure what to do. Cheated on by 4/4 girlfriends. Advice. POST: I've had 4 girlfriends in my life and they've all cheated on me. The first was in high school, so I wrote it off as teenage stupidity. In college I was cheated on by t...	I [M25] am starting to lose faith in women and I'm not sure what to do. Cheated on by 4/4 girlfriends. Advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20] am planning on breaking up with my bf [20] of 4 years. Can anyone help me? POST: After years and years of shit, my rose tinted glasses are finally beginning to crack and I'm beginning to see things how my friends have been telling me after all these years. He's always spoken ...	Decided its time to get rid of cheating, manipulative boyfriend, who had just gone abroad to visit family for 4 weeks. Unsure on how to break up/what to say...<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[17F] with my bf[16M] of 8 months, keeping secrets from eachother POST: Our problem is he's lying to me about things like getting a job behind my back, after we both promised to wait until next summer to both get jobs. We agreed to this so we can spend more time with each other whi...	My boyfriend is very secretive and always hides things from me and his family, and doesn't seem to want to spend as much time with me. Please help, I really think he's the one.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17f] SO is struggling to deal with stress, I [17M] don't know what to do POST: So my girlfriend of 2 years is really struggling with balancing school, me, and work. Today she texted me saying she can't do it anymore and that having a boyfriend is too much for her and she feels l...	GF feels very overwhelmed and i know that she is over working herself but i don't know how to fix this and make her feel less stress without cutting me from her life for now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: There's this boy [16M] in my [14F] class I want to be friends with. How do I approach him, if I should at all? POST: There's a boy called C in two of my classes who seems quite lonely. I don't ever see him talk to anybody, but when I have heard him talk he has an American accent. My ...	There's a lonesome quiet boy in my class who I want to make friends with, but I'm really insecure and anxious around new people. How should I approach him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: NSV - Out performed a friend during a move who has been doing P90X for a year POST: A friend of mine (we'll call him Pete) has been working out for about a year doing P90X. I don't know how consistent Pete's been, but he started roughly about a year ago, and his wife has mentioned he works ...	I kicked ass helping a friend and his wife move, while he faked exhaustion to get me to do most of the heavy lifting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [22 F] of 4 months, she was invited to hang out by one of his friends, she asked if she was allowed to, I said no. POST: Hey Everyone, My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for four months. I have known her since May 2015. > Yesterday, my girlfriend tol...	GF got asked by his ex to hang out together, she asks me how I'd feel and I said 'very uncomfortable, please don't'. Am I a being an idiot? Sorry for my english!!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Friends [21 F of 5 years \| 21 F of 4 months], Both of them want more than a friendship. POST: So I met this girl, will say her name is Sarah, on omegle 5 years ago when it was just a harmless random messaging site. We exchanged emails kept in communication for all t...	Both friends want more than a friendship and I have feelings for them both. How do I handle this situation and how do I not loose a friend in the process?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do i tell my S.O. I was taken advantage of? POST: This was a couple of months ago, it was in a foreign country- I was at a party and I got really really drunk. I blacked out and I dont remember anything except, I woke up with stranger kissing me and his pants off. My body felt somewh...	Was taken advantage of months ago, never told BF. Scared if I tell him, he may leave me because he may consider it cheating. Feel dirty with myself, lonely and scared.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (m24) admit that I messed up but I feel that my wife (f24) of 5 months, is somewhat overreacting POST: First off I just want to start off by saying I know that I am in the wrong here and that I fucked up so if you must criticize me, go for it, but I already know this problem was my...	I looked up an ex-coworker on facebook that my wife didnt like, she found out I did and flipped out on me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[24F] and my BF[21M] got in to an argument about him liking other girls photos. POST: My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 6 months and so far it is going very well. However, today while having a conversation with my boyfriend about facebook, instgram etc. I ask...	Boyfriend is "liking" inappropriate photos of his friends. Got very upset when I told him it bothered me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Missing my Atlas POST: Good morning and thank you for taking the time to read this. A little back story first, I'm 27 years old. Back in 2013, I was in the Army and was going through a medical discharge board after being diagnosed with Celiacs Disease (found out too that im not symptomat...	I was born at 27 weeks, I'm missing my Atlas vertebrae and am wondering if I will experience any crazy problems as I get older<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone delt with post-college depression? How did you get over it? POST: I graduated college a little over a month ago and I've been really depressed since. I probably cried every day for the first 2 weeks after graduation. I feel like it's a mixture of a lot of things: fear of the "...	I'm depressed because I'm leaving college and worried about my future. Has anyone else faced this? How did you get over it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Sex issues; is this worth it? I'm 25F, he is 25M POST: Any advice is appreciated. The guy I've been seeing for two or three months and I might be facing an insurmountable issue. He wants sex, like all the mother-effing time. I see him two or three days a week (staying overnight) and...	his libido is crazy high and mine is crazy low. Am I just an icy robot? is this salvageable?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, do you know anything about social movements? POST: For my Critical Thinking Persuasion class, I am to conduct a 20 minute speech along with my 3 other group members. Problem is, I have mainly incompetent and lazy people as group members who don't really try to add to the subj...	I need a social movement where persuasion is evident and can be broken down into little parts and can be cited with 4 credible sources.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Sex in the public hot tub question...(Possibly NSFW) POST: Today we went out had a fun time at the beach on the way back we stopped by a friends condo/apartment to use the community pool there and we had a great time. The problem that happened was when a couple arrived and went straight ...	Went to the beach stopped by friends condo to use the community pool random, neighbors showed up and started having sex in hot tub while we had a 6yr old with us and it was only 8pm.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] and [16 F] were becoming pretty close. We haven't talked in over a year and a half. POST: So as the title says, it's been a while since I talked to a girl I really liked - she's one of the first girls I felt that shared a lot of the same interests as me. We would talk like ...	Me and a girl were becoming pretty good friends, but we don't talk at all anymore. Not sure how to approach her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] am head over heels for this girl [24F], think of her constantly, but am not sexually attracted to her POST: I am really into this girl I know. I think of her constantly, I try my damndest to be where she's at at all times, etc. When I see her my heart beats faster, I get exci...	I am emotionally and physically head over heels for a girl, but I find that when I have crushes like this my interests lie more in being with and around them, rather than having sex with them despite my intense attraction towards them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So Netgear had us a tech support company for our router issues. They did nothing but try and sell us their $200 service plan, and installed their own programs on my PC. What other encounters of useless/scam tech support have you guys had? POST: Let me provide some more information about ...	iYogi was supposed to fix our wireless router, instead tried to sell us their $200 "service" plan, and scanned my PC with a program that falsifies information to try and push a sale. As shown here: [<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: (EU/NL) About energy & gas costs POST: So usually how you pay your electric and gas (E&G) bills is in advances. Recently my electricity usage doubled. Which led into almost the double of "adviced" monthly advance on the bill. My question would be here, what keeps me from reducing t...	Question: Does cutting the advances on E&G bills cost you more or less money at the end of the year?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (19/f) ex (19/m) is scared to commit. POST: So my ex and I broke up six months ago. He and I were fine. We broke it off because I needed to deal with some issues in my family. Now I want to get back together with him, and he wants to be with me. The problem is that he thinks he n...	How do I explain to my ex that he doesn't need to wait until we graduate from university to date me, and that we can make decisions about life together and have good results?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] am off to college soon, love my SO [17M] very much and we're going to try long distance, but very worried about communication... POST: So me and my SO met near the end of my senior year of high school and there was an instant connection. I've been in several casual relationsh...	I'm going off to college in a few months and I'm worried that my textual awkwardness is going to ruin my long distance relationship<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my now exgirlfriend [18 F] had sex on the night before she planned breaking up with me and the condom broke. POST: I went to see my ex-girlfriend and had to travel 8 hours in a car because she wanted to see me. I should've never left. Get there we act like nothings wr...	Drive 8 hours to see girlfriend to talk about our relationship. We have sex. Condom breaks. The she breaks my heart. Period hasn't happened in nearly a month. HELP<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: daughter going into jr high, please help POST: there was a post yesterday by a parent who said junior high and high school were terrible for them and were considering home school. i dont have that option, but i do agree that jr high was the toughest time in my childhood where i constant...	i hated jr high and it was a horrible time, now my daughter is going into 7th grade and id like some information or advice on what to expect.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22F) asked to be a bridesmaid in a wedding. Bridal shower/bachelorette party conflict with another wedding. POST: Hello everyone, My good friend asked me to be a bridesmaid in her upcoming wedding. She is having her bachelorette party and bridal shower on the same day, as many o...	Wedding for my boyfriend's cousin is on the same day as a bridal shower/bachelorette party for a wedding I'm standing up in. Scheduling conflict!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] have just started dating an absolutely amazing lady [23F], and she was kind enough to warn me early on that she has HPV POST: For the last couple months, I have been talking to a woman that has developed into an actual relationship. After a couple dates, she told me there was...	Girl that I'm very sure I want to continue to date advised me she has HPV. Is it not that big of a deal as I've read up on, and how can I help support her?<\|endoftext\|>