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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [27/m] Not sure if differences w/GF [26] are terminal, what do you think? (x-post from r/Relationship_Advice)
POST: We've been together for 2 years. It's time to start thinking about rings and houses and lifelong promises. Trouble is, I have these doubts and I don't know if they're n... | I don't know if I should break up with my girlfriend, or if I'm nervous about taking the next step.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: having a rough sex life with my [22F] boyfriend [21M]. any help or advice is welcome.
POST:...bad wording in the title. rough as in bad. not rough as in FUCKYEAH ROUGH SEX...unfortunately...
Let me start by saying i am INCREDIBLY attracted to my boyfriend. I think he's the mos... | boyfriend has performance anxiety and it has resulted in MANY MANY failed sex attempts. I need sex. And i want it with him. pleease help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Relationship advice. Please help me not make a complete ass of myself.
POST: Okay, here is my situation..
In high school, I adopted two girl underclassmen because they were adorable and I am the youngest in my family. One was two years my junior, the other was three. I graduate, go to co... | I 'adopted' two younger girls in high school. Now in college, am interested in dating one. Wondering if I should go for it, and if it would break the heart of the other one.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (20, F) boyfriend (19, M) of 2 1/2 years thinks he might not identify as a male anymore and I'm not sure how I feel or what to do.
POST: My boyfriend has always been more effeminate, but he's never talked about being uncomfortable as a male before. Tonight he revealed to me that h... | Boyfriend revealed to me he's uncomfortable as a male but is also unsure if he would identify as a woman, I am confused and need help for myself and how to support him.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, my friend bought me concert tickets right near my birthday because I got in a car accident on Monday. What can I do to properly show him how much his action means to me?
POST: Long story short, I got in a car wreck and had to cancel any concert plans I had as well as any real "fu... | Friend bought me concert tickets out of nowhere after I got in an accident. I wanna do something super awesome to let him know how grateful I am for this and for his friendship. Any ideas?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Ticketed for driving while using a cellphone in Ontario, Canada. I have 15 days to decide what to do?
POST: 2 blocks from home, false sense of security, unmarked cruiser... shitty end to the day.
The ticket is for $155. I found out online it doesn't affect demerit points. I haven't h... | How will this ticket affect my insurance? Should I fight the ticket and risk a higher fine, in the hopes of a reduction?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Need to know if a girl is crazy
POST: So I've been texting this girl for about a week or so and we've only hung out once. Anyways I get a text today from a random number claiming I made out with her Friday night at a party, which I didn't cause I didn't do anything that night. So I keep ... | girl A tried to use a fake number to see if I was making out with other girls and I've only been talking to girl A for a week.... wtf<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] who still is friendly with girl he cheated on me with
POST: My boyfriend cheated on me way in the beginning on the relationship. It was emotional cheating and it was really hurtful. I felt like he really regretted it so I gave him a second chance.
... | Boyfriend emotionally cheated on me with a girl. Still says hi to her cordially. I expressed to him that this causes triggers and please not to do it, but he thinks I should get over it by now.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] like this girl [19F] but i think I screwed it up and I don't even know how
POST: Okay, so A few days ago, I messaged this girl on tumblr (we both follow each other, have a few mutual friends, and go to the same college) because she posted something about Lost in Translation a... | I messaged this girl on tumblr and she made a post saying she didn't want to engage in "deep" conversation online.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: I've finally decided to stop complaining about being fat and do something about it
POST: I'm a 5 foot 11, 280 pound male. I've been heavy my whole life. Over the course of November, I've gained about 13 pounds and now I'm at the heaviest weight of my life. Frankly, I'm tired of it. I've put... | I've reached my tipping point; I'm finally serious about weight loss and excited to join r/loseit!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Friend [27F] who seemed interested says we're just friends after I [26M] confessed feelings.
POST: Little info, I have know Julia for nearly 10 years now, we were pretty close in high school but never anything more than friends because she was in a relationship, she had a kid 6 years... | Old friend comes back into life, we go on dates, shes super flirty, everything seems amazing, I confess my feelings and get "you're perfect but I only see you as a friend."<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [22F] feel like I want to talk to my ex [23M] who I haven't seen or talked to in 2 months. Should I?
POST: It's been 2 months since things ended between my ex [23M] and me [22F] and I've been pretty firm with having no contact with him. The other night I ran into him at a par... | Feel like I want to talk to my ex but not sure if it'd be a waste of time or something actually beneficial. Should I or shouldn't I talk to him again?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I [18 F] deal with my boyfriends [19 M] random moments of depression?
POST: About maybe once a month my boyfriend gets very cold and inconsiderate, and severely upsets me. He withholds affection, pushes me away and then calls me needy, yet it's the same level of attentio... | My boyfriend gets depressed for no apparent reason and is apathetic towards me, and that in-turn makes me feel awful. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: NSFW: I'm (20/m) with (20/f), I got upset after sex
POST: Hello, I am 20/m and I am with a 20/f who I have been with for about 7 months now. I am extremely attracted to her and she is extremely attracted to me, we love each other very much and have plans to move in together wit... | 20/m and 20/f, a medication is keeping me from orgasm, got upset after sex, do I drop the situation or try to address it further?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: My (9yo)niece is sneaking my 2yo's sippy cups and pacifiers - what do I do?!
POST: I saw this post( and realized it described an experience I had with my nine year old(ten next month) niece; she is doing things like this, not with diapers, but with my two-year-old's things. The last time... | Almost ten-year-old niece is sneaking my son's sippy cups, pacifiers, toys, etc. and I don't know what to do, or if I should do anything about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Ex-girlfriend is visiting, afterwards leaving for a long trip, should I talk to her?
POST: Hi Hivemind,
I have a problem, and I need opinion of a someone smarter than I am in relationships issues.
So my exgirlfriend is visiting my city, and she asked for a place to stay for a... | My ex-girlfriend is in my apt (I agreed before of course), I'm in my office. And planning to stay there till she will leave (two days). I wondering what I can do better with this situation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Girlfriend likes blame me for things that go wrong in her life. She also hears voices. Won't go to counseling.
POST: My girlfriend of two years, who I've been living with for the past year, blames me for too many things that go wrong in her life.
For example, I bought her an ... | Girlfriend likes blame me for things that go wrong in her life. She also has auditory hallucinations and accuses me of calling her names. She won't go to couples counseling with me and stopped seeing a psychologist.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've [17F] on and off relationship with [19M]; super conflicted feelings and bad timing, and I don't know if it's worth saving
POST: He [18M now 19M] was my [16F now 17F] first for many many things, and he helped me become the person I wanted to be. But the universe or time or whatev... | I've [17F] on and off relationship with [19M]; super conflicted feelings and bad timing (college, traveling) and I don't know if it's worth saving<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with [26F], should I stick around?
POST: I met this girl through some friends and she is great. She had broken up and I was there for her to get things sorted. Long story short, flirting and good stuff happened but after a few dates, we got physical and my physique at the t... | Dated, shit hit the fan. Things are better, can't tell if she's interested due to both no's and yes's. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Was I raped? (need help)
POST: I am an 18year old, straight (I think) male and I am posting this here anonymously because I don't know what else to do. Just to clarify, I actually don't think this was rape but I'm not sure how 'rape' is actually defined...
So basically I went out drink... | I get the feeling I didn't resist but I was too drunk to even attempt to resist or have any rational judgement. So is that rape? Am I trying to shift the blame and lose accountability?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: High school girlfriend advice
POST: Not going to /r/relationships because they're pretty rude to teens.
Im a 15 year old guy shes a 15 year old girl.
We dated for a month and it was amazing, she was by far the best girlfriend I've had and she actually cared about me and treated me good an... | Girlfriend and I were on a break and she hooked up with multiple guys but said she realized thats not what she wants and she wants to be with me and is really sorry.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Not sure if we should stay together for this... (x-post from r/longdistance)
POST: A little background: I'm a 24/f and met my 27 year-old boyfriend online in the beginning of March. I wasn't really looking for anything serious, more just dating and having fun with it since I ha... | New relationship and boyfriend is going to other side of the world for work for a year or two...not sure if we should try to make it work and see what happens, or if anyone has advice to help make the distance easier.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [29/M] my medication has side effects that I don't know how to solve.
POST: Hi all,
So I suffer from schizophrenia and I have taken SSRI's for about 11 years to help me deal with the anxiety and depression related to that.
Currently I am on Paroxetine 20mg and I honestly swea... | I take antidepressants and my sex drive is below zero because of them, tell me if you've been through this and what solved it for you please.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: M(30) scared to death that I'm about to lose my wife (26)
POST: My wife has been acting distant for the past week or two. Not really lovey dovey, sort of dismissing me, and generally uninterested. I asked about it yesterday. I now have my first regret in life.
She said that she has ... | My wife wishes she would have spent more time alone before being with me. Now can't promise a future with me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 F] with my ex BF [29 M] of 3 years - found a notebook full of negativity and dishonesty
POST: Hey r/relationships. I just moved to the amazing city of San Francisco. I did a trip cross-country with my ex boyfriend, a plan to make a great send off. We have had a long relationsh... | Moved to a new city, ex BF left notebook behind that had nothing but negative words to say about me while we were together. Don't know how to move on from here.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25F] fiancé [27m] wants to meet up with with a woman he used to love. I don't know how to feel about it.
POST: My fiancé and I have been together almost three years, engaged for 1. A few days ago he mentioned that an old friend messaged him that her and her boyfriend are in town,... | fiancé wants to meet up with a woman he was in love with. He lied about their history but still wants me to meet her. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Change my last name, register my car, get a driver's license. In which order should I do these that involved the least amount of paperwork/time?
POST: I was recently married, but due to lack of research I did not automatically change my last name. A few months after the marriage, my husb... | Should I change my name to match the hubby's BEFORE I do anything else? If so, why or why not (please give me an alternative).<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 3some gone wrong, Help.
POST: This weekend, My bf and I were at a cabin with a bunch of friends,
I was getting over a cold and did not feel well. So, I went to bed before everyone else.
When I got in bed, said bf informed me that one of the girls was into me and asked about a 3s... | Bf tried to spring a 3some on me, even thought I said tomorrow would be great but not tonight, as I was sick/tired.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Have you said something too loudly about someone else and they heard you?
POST: Yesterday my father, and two friends park in a Wendy's parking lot because my father needed to use to the restroom. These two cute girls are about 50-60 feet away parked in their car with their windows rolled... | In a very loud voice told two girls they were cute on accident. got a friendly smile/wave out of it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I(22/f) let go of him(24/m)?
POST: I barely know where to start. Ive been with this man for about 1 1/2 now. Through our whole relationship he has struggled with family problems. His brother is a bad alcoholic. His dad needs his help a lot cause he's elderly etc. He dedicates ... | boyfriend going through major family struggles. I feel it's probably best for me to end everything so he'll have one less stress. But I love him and the though of losing him is breaking my heart.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [22/F] I'm a complete douchenozzle to a friend [26/M] because of a girl he used to date and now hangs out with.
POST: Thorough version: my friend and I worked at the same newspaper. A former writer came in looking for some clips. I helped. She was stubborn, rude, couldn't be wr... | Friend prioritizes girl he's sleeping with over me to the point that it's hurting our relationship. I have already bitched him out about it once. Is there anything I can do to save our friendship?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [19/m], Girl I'm into [18/f] is bad at texting or I goofed somewhere
POST: not much to write,
We went on a first date like 11/6 and have not met since then because we were super busy with schoolwork. she goes to a college like 3 miles from my college and is a hassle to get ... | girl i like and she likes me (or my money or really shy) is either a bad texter or i goofed somewhere in the brief exchange noted above.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Should I(25M) ask a girl(mid20s) out on LinkedIn that works at my company?
POST: So there is this girl at my company that I would occasionally run into lets call her Stacy. I wouldn't even consider us acquaintances or anything just someone I smile and chat with if we are both walkin... | ! Want to ask my work crush out to coffee but haven't seen her in a while. Should I ask her on LinkedIn?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend [19F] broke up with me [19M]
POST: Hello reddit. My girlfriend of nearly 5 years broke up with me. She broke up not because either of us cheated, but she broke up because she said she wants to enjoy and focus on her study (we are graduating ~2 years from now). She said tha... | my girl broke up with me to focus on her studies. She thinks it will be the best for the both of us. And I don't know how to start with my life again :(<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: keeping vs. throwing out old yearbooks?
POST: i had a really bad high school experience. I had no friends, and was teased and bullied a lot. I have all of my yearbooks from 6th grade up until the year I graduated. I don't really like to look at them because it just reminds me of all the ... | i had a bad experience in high school, should i keep or get rid of these yearbooks that only yield bad memories?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25 M] girlfriend [25 F] of 1 year wears her ex-boyfriend's boxers to bed. Is this normal?
POST: I recently moved in with my girlfriend of one year, and I found out that her pajamas that she sleeps in every night at home consist of her ex-boyfriends underwear. It's a pair of well ... | Girlfriend wears her ex-boyfriend's boxers to bed because they are comfortable. I think it's weird, how do I address this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20m] have been dating my gf [19] since we started college and I just came across some messages where her friend from high school [17 or 18m] is getting a little too flirtatious.
POST: So I found some Facebook messages between my girlfriend and this kid she went to high school with... | girlfriend of a year and a half getting overly flirty and slightly creepy messages from her HS friend, what do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my LDR GF [18F] of nearly a year, she left me out of the blue last night, and I still want to be her friend, even though it hurts, how can I force myself to move on?
POST: Hi there, i'll try and keep this short, I just need some advice or someone to tell me things will ... | LDR gf of nearly a year left me, cant bring myself to block her out. How do I man up?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [20/m] broke up with my bf [23/m] of 8 months last night. Did I do the right thing?
POST: So last night I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months and I feel completely destroyed. We were having a lot of issues that kind of built up and I just couldn't take it anymore. The way ... | bf of 8 months and I had issues, I wasn't happy, ended it. He begged for a second chance but I couldn't do it. Now I'm ignoring him. Good? Bad?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I (25M) get back with my ex gf (24F)? We dated for a year and a half.
POST: Hey folks, I dated this girl for about a year and a half but we both just fell in love at the wrong time.
We broke up and didn't communicate for a while and then started talking a bit again. Sh... | How do I get back with ex gf of 1 and 1/2 years? Break up was one year ago and we've kept in contact since and have begun hanging out alot recently.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (19M) have a very inconsistent friend (20F) and I don't know how to deal with it.
POST: I met my friend about 3 years ago. We'll call her J for short. She and I have hit it off since the day we met. Problem is, J is sort of a strange friend. We talk and get along like most normal f... | My friend J and I spend a few weeks of being the best of friends and then stop speaking for months on end. Only to continue this cycle.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29F] with my daughter [6F]. She is mixed race and has become very sensitive about it. Need advice.
POST: This might not be the right place to post this but I could really do with some advice. My husband and I recently divorced and as a result of this I had to move and so my eldes... | my mixed race 6 year old daughter has become very conscious of her skin color. I'm not sure what to say or do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27F] am scared that my bf [28 M] of 1+ years in LDR will leave me because of my anxiety disorder, depression and constant mood swings. Is there hope?
POST: Everything was great at first, met online, hit it off. Spoke every single day for 7 months or so before finally meeting for t... | I'm scared my depression/anxiety/constant moodswings are going to ruin my relationship and I need to know if anyone has been in this situation and how they managed<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not cleaning my A/C filter, exposing myself to mold that could have been toxic.
POST: My s/o and I's room is on the top floor of our duplex, so the central air has a hard time making it up there. So, when we moved in a little over a year ago, we bought a window A/C. We're both student... | Never changed A/C filter, was super moldy, had my throat so irritated I coughed/gagged and potentially stopped breathing in my sleep. Could have maybe been worse.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Umm, while just doing a photo shoot, my buddies mom flashed me her nude photos in her phone. Then she held my hand extra long/firm on the goodbye shake. Reddit, what are your good/bad flirtation stories?
POST: Ok so ill try to make a long story short. I'm an aspiring photographer.
About ... | Did a photo shoot of a friend, his bro an his mom. While walking around mom shows me her artsy bush and nips photos, on the sly, in her phone and molested my hand when I said goodbye. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [20] wants me [17,M] to go to college with him.
POST: I am a FtM going to high school (transgendered man). My boyfriend, who I met in December of 2012, is patient and understanding, but now he wants me to go to college with him. I do not want to go to the school he goes ... | My boyfriend wants me to go to the same college as him, but I don't like that college. However, I think that our relationship would flourish if I went and I can go to a much better college. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: house sitting my moms house, not to watch the house... but to be there so her cat isn't "lonely" - Help me with ideas!
POST: Long story short, my mom & stepdad are going on a 2 week vacation. My mom asked me to house sit for her, work in the day & spend the night at the house each night,... | House sitting so the cat isn't lonely, mom wants pics every 2-3 days, designer by trade, help me think of funny situations/ideas to do with pictures of her cat around the house<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 28[M] & 28 [F] - Disagreement on Attitude, Helping Each Other & PMS - Married 5 years
POST: Hello r/relationships!
Thank you in advance for your help.
I 28 [M] asked my wife for help switching cars in the driveway this morning - I needed her to pull out one car while I pulled out ... | wife gave me bad attitude. Has PMS. I did not appreciate her attitude when asking for help. Who is right?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [F/21]... He [M/26] told me he loved me for the first time right before he fell asleep?!
POST: So I'm in a newish relationship. It's been about three weeks and we see each other a lot and when we don't we talk on the phone for a couple of hours.
It's the type of new relationship whe... | Should I bring it up..? What if he meant to say it and got discouraged by my lack of response? Or should I just let it go and assume that it's something that just slipped out due to exhaustion?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [18M] tell my mum [48F] that I smoked marijuana last night?
POST: I'll start off by saying I've always been close to my mum, she's always treated me with respect and vice versa.
Last night I was out with friends for the first time in a long time, and ended up smoking for th... | Smoked pot for the first time, fairly sure my mum knows it but I don't know whether or not to admit it to her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, please help me with an awesome 1st anniversary gift for my wife... (two weeks away and counting!)
POST: Our 1st wedding anniversary is coming up just two weeks from today. We've planned a trip together for celebratory purposes, but we're still getting something smallish for each... | Looking for ideas for a first anniversary gift for my wife. Love the idea of a anniversary journal, but can't find one I like, or any custom designers who's work I like. Help!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] am losing my partner [23M] to his inner demons and I want to save him and us before it's too late
POST: Year long relationship so far and something horrible has changed. Something changed about my SO and I don't know why or what caused it, but he's beginning to accept a possi... | My SO is falling apart from his current mental state. He's majorly depressive and has gone mad. I want to help him and I want to save this relationship before its too late...or is it too late?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are your worst Revenge Stories? My friend attempted to jizz in his roommate's shampoo every morning for about 3-4 months
POST: My story is actually not my own but happened to my best friend.
He smoked pot during college and somehow the police found out and did a room search. Luckily... | My friend's roommate ratted him out for smoking pot => a) b) and c) acts of revenge were carried out.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F], need advice on getting over a guy [22M] I was rejected by.
POST: I started seeing a guy in late May, right as finals were ending. We hung out twice before he went home for the summer. It was such awful timing honestly. He came to visit a few times, but I was off to Europe f... | Started dating a guy, he rejected me shortly after. I still like him, most likely because I can't have him. How do I get over him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: This morning on my way to work a ladder flew out of the back of a Tahoe and hit a couple of cars including mine. The Tahoe did not stop. What can I do?
POST: The ladder bounced off of the windshield of two cars then hit my hood and front bumper. Then I ended up running over it. My car is... | ladder flew out of Tahoe and hit my car. have the info of the driver of the Tahoe who lied to police. need to find the other drivers that had their windshields busted. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M30] just cant seem to do anything to make her [F27] happy...
POST: To start out, I have been on and off with my girl several times over two years. We have a one year old daughter, yet we have never lived together. Since this is the case, I send her $300 a month. We live about an ... | I do everything I can for my girlfriend but she still tells me I don't do anything at all, and she gets her family at she still lives with involved. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 M] feel unsure about my relationship of 1 year with my gf [24 F], but don't know what to do if it ends.
POST: I moved to a different city hundreds of miles away from home. I was initially living with a friend, but he ended up moving away. My gf I met in the new city that I'd be... | Live with my gf and she's my only IRL friend in a new city. I feel like I know the relationship will end eventually, but should that be now?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[27/M] with desire to date a young girl
POST: Background: I am a 27 year old Asian male who have had 2 girlfriends in my dating history. Both of my ex-girlfriends were age-appropriate, both 1-2 years younger than me, and both had typical petite bodies common on Asian girls and whic... | I'm a 27 year old guy who can probably pass off for a 21 year old, and has a strong desire to date a young girl. What's the right way to approach pursuing this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [21M] and I [18F], one year together my first serious relationship I don't know whats normal
POST: Throwaway because my boyfriend knows my username.
I have been dating my boyfriend for a year now and neither of us say I love you. He tells me he cares a lot for me all th... | Boyfriend and I have been dating a year, we do things other couples who are in love do but we haven't said it. I kinda wanna say it but i'm afraid he doesn't feel the same way.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to let an old lady take my spot in line. Suddenly blood everywhere.
POST: Today I was at the grocery store. My girlfriend and I were just about to get into line when we saw an old lady with only a few things, so we decide to let her in. I turn maybe 30 degrees to start moving o... | Tried to let an old lady take my place in line, bump into older lady who falls and starts bleeding everywhere.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: So Reddit, who can diagnose my problem?
POST: I went to a physical check up and the doctor there told me himself that it is way beyond anything he has ever heard of and he could not even begin to explain or help me with this problem. Anyway, here it is. For some reason, randomly every ... | I am seeing rainbows and they are blocking my vision once every 2-3 weeks randomly and I do not know what it could be.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Fat fingered petty revenge
POST: This happened back in my uni days when I was in my early 20s and sharing a crappy unit with a friend. We had a landline and the number was one digit away from a local pizza place. At least once a week, someone would ring up and try to order some pizz... | If you are a rude prick and who is too drunk/fat fingered to dial the right number, expect to have your shit messed with.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, my coach just told a captain on my team I am a waste of space, don't help the team, and distract them. I've given up my weekends for this team for the last 2 months. Why am I so unappreciated?
POST: A few months ago I hurt my back and missed a lot of practices studying for midter... | Became a manager, worked my ass off helping the team. Find out a coach thinks I'm a waste of space.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [22/m] I don't know what to do. I'm in an unhealthy relationship with my girlfriend (21/f)
POST: I've been with this girl since May of 2013 and we've been living together in the same apartment since August of 2013 (simply because we both needed a new place to live and we were i... | Unhealthy relationship with her (also living with); Can't deal with her put-downs and anger anymore; There's another girl that's already connected with me on a much deeper level.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [21,m] crazy? She [21,f] and I did everything...
POST: Hello Reddit. Have never been on this sub before but recently has been brought to my attention. Been going with this girl for well over 3 years and she's perfect! We've been to high school prom together, graduating college, ... | I think I still love this girl but I don't think our relationship is going anywhere. Need advice on breaking up after 3 years.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (30M) cousins randomly seem to have cut off contact with me with no explanation, socially rejected
POST: This year my cousins randomly just started ignoring me who I've known all my life. One got married and didn't bother telling me, another had a kid. These made me realize how fa... | being ignored by cousins, would like to reconnect, but don't feel reciprocated, recently not invited/informed about key events in their loves<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [23 M] forgive my girlfriend [22 F]?
POST: It's a long story that I don't want to get into it, and I'm asking this more to see how other people handle relationship difficulties than asking for personal help.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. We get along pe... | Girlfriend betrayed my trust, and has been working hard to make up for it. Things are getting better over time, but I worry I'll never get over it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[21f] can't deal with my roommates[22f] relationship anymore.
POST: Alright, so. Where does one begin? Me and my room mate have been friends for a little over a year. We have many differences, but we still end up getting along at the end of the day and I thoroughly enjoy her company... | friend claims to be in a toxic relationship, does nothing about it. The boyfriend doesn't seem as bad as she says he is, I sometimes think she's lying about it. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to watch a meteor shower with my friends and providing the alcohol
POST: So TIFU by getting drunk with my friends (there's me, two other guys and two girls) and trying to watch a meteor shower.
There was a meteor shower at 2 AM and being the young and reckless people we are w... | my best friend tried to finger a girl I still have feelings for while I was in the bed with them, and I ended up spending the night in a cold af car of I guy I don't really know that well.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [25m] GF [26f] of 4 years has'secret' lists of all our fights and I'm very upset about it
POST: So as the title implies I've recently found out my gf keeps a list of ALL of the fights we've had that were'my fault' over the years. I found out about this when we were fighting about ... | GF keeps records of all our fights for later use... very upset about the fact she can't let them go and won't talk about it<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Redditors with Divorced Parents...please help me[23,F], I'm really struggling with it.
POST: My parents divorced the year I went to college (2008), but had been occasionally fighting years before that. At times my dad would leave for a couples days. I heard my parents fighting often ... | Parents divorced 6 years ago, still feels like just yesterday. Struggling with commitment issues and future optimism because of it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: i have an ex-friend who keeps harassing me and it's affecting me negatively.
POST: I have stopped feeling comfortable around my ex-guy friend (I'm a girl) because of our history in the past (I cheated on my ex-bf with him. I KNOW I WAS WRONG AND I REGRET IT. My ex-bf and I have talked i... | there's a former friend who keeps messaging me and i want it to stop but don't know how. pls help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (22 M) mother (47 F) hates every girl I date
POST: Throwaway because I don't want my girlfriend to know the extent
I have a pretty normal British upbringing. Parents divorced when I was about 11, mum has a husband who accepted her 3 children. My mum suffers from anxiety to a degr... | My mum hates girls I date, she won't shut up about it and it's putting more stress on my life than I need.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: My boss is negative and it effects my productivity and mood, even outside of work.
POST: The only time she really talks to me about anything work related is when she has something negative to say. Even when she gives me a new task, she acts like I'm burdening her, or like I should have magi... | My boss is negative, and it's effecting how much I like my job and my mood in general, even outside of work.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit, anybody have a good sleep walking story?
POST: I'll start. It was my first night living in a hotel after the place I was living at caught on fire and me and my roommate (we had to share the room) decided to go play some pool. I had a beer, played some pool then we left. It wa... | Sleep walked outside the hotel room in my underwear to pee and couldn't get back in, so I spent the night outside the door.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my roommate and his GF[20s M/F],- problems with boundaries with his GF in our hosue whilst he is away
POST: So for a quick introduction- I have lived with my roommate Ben and three other roommates (20s M/F) since last year. We are all on good terms, and chat around the ... | Am I wrong at being upset at my roommate for giving his girlfriend access to our house whilst he is away with no discussion beforehand?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Airline Lost My Luggage And I'm Abroad With Nothing - Advice Welcome!
POST: Every bag-checker's nightmare was made real for me yesterday. My luggage did not turn up in Paris after I debarked an Aeroflot flight from Washington Dulles to Paris CDG via Moscow SVO. I could use advice on how to ... | My luggage for 3-weeks in France was lost on an Aeroflot flight from Washington to Paris. Looking for advice on how to handle my situation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Credit question: closing a secured credit card
POST: In an effort to improve my credit rating two years ago this month I opened two secured credit cards.
Last July after having no late payments and acquiring an automobile loan for a new car I applied to have the cards converted ... | Does closing a secured credit card after two years have a negative impact on ones credit rating and if so for how long?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Advice for a Peruvian Honeymoon
POST: Hey r/Travel, my fiancee and I are getting married in November, and we are hoping to start planning our honeymoon. Right now, we are set on doing Peru. I was hoping this sub could give me some pointers, experiences, advice, etc.
Departure date will b... | Hoping for advice on 10 nights in Peru. Balancing Cusco, beach town (maybe Mancora?), and possibly Lima.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [22F] crushing hard on my parents personal fitness trainer [24M]...should I act on it???
POST: My parents have been going to this gym for 7 months or so. They always raved about the trainers and how great they are (there's about 5 of them I think). They invited me along in Marc... | Crushing on guy who's only ever seen me at my worst, all the while "supervised" by my parents. Should I act on it and if so...how??<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my friend with benefits [19 F] for 10 months, have been a bit conflicted with what's next.
POST: I've been having sex with this girl since January. It's been quite awesome actually. We've become really good friends in the process. Sometime in the last month though it s... | Me and my friends with benefits like each other a lot but want different things in life. Any outside thoughts of what we are doing?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[18F], short-term boyfriend [18M], I don't know what is wrong with me
POST: I have this problem that, in love, I'll become really interested in someone, but then as soon as they start being romantic, or sentimental or affectionate towards me I want to run a mile.
A few months ago... | have a history of losing interest when guys become affectionate; don't want the same thing to happen with my new boyfriend. Need help figuring out why I'm like this!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not turning around.
POST: This fuck-up happened a year ago around Christmas time.
So I was home from college and decided to take my mother out on a nice mother-son date to dinner and a movie. After dinner as my mom and I were sitting down in the theater, I noticed a few high school k... | Ignored some annoying kids at a movie, ended up with a half dozen gummy bears stuck to the back of my head<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] need advise about [20 F]
POST: So a few weeks back I made out with this girl (who I was already acquainted with) at a party and after that we started instant messaging on a frequent basis.
Thing is I am very undecided on whether I like this girl or not, don't get me wrong ... | dated a nice girl; not that into her; she's quite into me; how to ask her if she wants to be FWB without hurting her feelings?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [26 F] has been feeling really really down lately due to health problems. What can I [31 M] do to help her?
POST: Hi there,
Over the past year my girlfriend has gone through a lot of health problems. Initally she had a lump on her throat which eventually led to her bei... | Girlfriend now recovering from thyroid cancer but now has terrible mood swings what can i do to help her and cheer her up?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [21f] Am I being reasonable on my view on weed with [20m]?
POST: Hey Reddit!
My boyfriend [20] and I [21] have been dating for a little over a year now. Very happy, no problems in the relationship thus far!
Background info: He and I were friends for many years before we started dat... | Boyfriend wants to start smoking weed again, I don't like it, asked him just to not do it around me. Reasonable?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Howdy, Reddit, help me embarrass someone I love for a really good cause!
POST: So, [this is Julie] [this is her and myself] I am well aware of the large gap in looks between us so... Yeah, I won't get into how our interpersonal relationship works because I couldn't tell you why she talk... | Julie is running the NYC Marathon and will dress up and embarrass herself in public for charity and your amusement; If she makes her goal or exceeds it I will also do something particularly embarrassing based on your suggestions!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by cutting my finger.
POST: Well I cut my finger a little a couple of hours ago. Nothing major. But after a few hours, blood has hardened under the skin and it looks like a blood blister. So I decided I'm gonna pop it. I get a couple paper towels for blood, and now all I need is a band a... | cut finger, need bandaids, bandaids are in roommates room, I interrupted his meat flute lessons.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Can you guys help diagnose my problem? DAE have this issue?
POST: Hello Reddit,
I am a regular 18 year old guy, works out a lot and does martial arts. I have extremely loose joints and tendons...to the point where I can pop all my joints out of place and move my tendons in my hands. I k... | I cant help but succumb to my masochistic need to pop my joints in and out when I get anxious. It hurts but it feels good at the same time. Any suggestions or ideas to stop? Can you relate?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Question to men: have you ever been in an abusive relationship? How long did it take to get over it?
POST: Throw away as the friend I'm talking about reddits sometimes.
I (f) have a male friend(40) that I've known for about a year, during this time he has had a girlfriend - she is ... | A friend recently broke up with "the best girl hes ever been out with", because he still isn't over his abusive ex. How long does something like that take?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [F, 18] with my bf [22, M] have had trust issues since the beginning of our relationship. What are some things to do to earn each others trust back?
POST: Our relationships started about a year back. When we first started "talking" we were both involved with other people too. Even... | Trying to gain my SO trust back and I also want to be able to trust him again. What are some things we can both do in order to have a healthy relationship?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] feel like I'm emotionally cheating on my 26M boyfriend.
POST: My boyfriend is boring.
I made a post about this a few weeks ago, we talked about it, and it helped for a bit. BUT.
I have a friend[23M] who lives 6 hours away who I've always had a slight interest in, until he mov... | my boyfriend who I'm living with is boring but a great guy and this guy I'm texting is fun and adventurous and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Going to college and SO will be home, am I doing the right thing?
POST: We have been datingish (no real label on it, just spending a lot of time) together. She is 16f and going to be a senior in HS, I am 17M and going to be a freshman in college. We have been talking seriously sinc... | SO is going to be a senior in HS, I will be a freshman in college. Breaking things off when I go to college the right thing? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The girl (25F) I'm (23F) seeing is supportive and loving... and it's weirding me out.
POST: I feel like such an asshole saying this. I've been seeing a great girl "Jen" for three months, and she's incredibly beautiful and smart and funny and she treats me with warmth and affection an... | I'm seeing someone who is a supportive sweetheart and amazing in every way, but I've only ever dated emotionally unavailable people before and I'm weirded out by my partner actually being affectionate and nice to me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What potential legal repercussions could there be if my S.O. is caught using drugs in my house?
POST: (To start, I should point out I'm in the UK)
So in the past few months my S.O. has been smoking quite a lot of cannabis in my house. This doesn't bother me too much but she has also bee... | S.O. smokes cannabis in my house and has ties with a dealer. Could I get shafted if she's caught?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My brother [28M] wants to take me [18M] on a weekend of "strip clubs and bars". Problem: I'm gay and in the closet.
POST: My brother has been talking about taking me to a night on the town for the past year and a half now. He's super excited and it's come to the point where I can't s... | brother wants to take me on a weekend on the town. He doesn't know I'm gay. I don't want it to be awkward.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of 2 years, I love her but think I want to break up. I'm desperate for advice.
POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. She is an amazing person. She's beautiful, smart, and has been there for me in very tough times and we now at... | I desperately need help. I love my girlfriend very much but have been feeling tempted to end the relationship to be single and alleviate the pressure I'm feeling. I am so scared I'm making a huge mistake.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] and my husband [26M] doesn't have any sexual desires for me anymore and everytime I try to talk to him he is really deffensive. Suspicious about probable affair.
POST: So we have been married for about 4 years already and everything was all fine, but lately for about the pas... | My husband doesn't show any sexual desires anymore and even when weeks pass and I try to start something he always makes excuses up. Situation has been going on for months. Suspicious about him having an outside affair.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (22) broke up with me (F, 20) and it seems very out of the blue.
POST: So I've been talking to my boyfriend for almost 4 months now and officially dating for nearly a month but we were on an "I love you" basis. Anyways, let's say his name is John, he seemed nearly perfec... | My boyfriend just broke up with me when everything seemed perfect. Do I fight for him and our relationship or begin to move on?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Living next to a chain smoker is kind of a buzz kill
POST: Is my first post a paragraph begging for help? Yes.
Will I keep writing like this? Maybe
Heres some facts:
Resident who lives in an apt next-door to me smokes a pack a day. It is technically against our leasing agreement to smell s... | what can I do apart from taking legal action to "force" management to enforce the leasing agreement on the other resident?<|endoftext|> |
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