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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [40 M] of 4 months, His daughter's birthday is in April, should I get a gift for her?
POST: Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [40 M] of 4 months, His daughter's birthday is in April, should I get a gift for her?
Me: Rachel
My boyrfriend: Jason
Here is some bac... | Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [40 M] of 4 months, His daughter's birthday is in April, should I get a gift for her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (28m/24f) My boyfriend says he doesn't have time to wash his sheets / blankets and I'm up to my wits end...
POST: Been together for 4 months My boyfriend works 7 days a week and doesn't have a car. I drive him most places we go if we don't walk. He doesn't like to sleep on sheets so ... | (28m/25f) Been with my boyfriend for 4 months, he tells me he doesn't have time to wash sheets, I don't want to mother him & therefore don't know what to do<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26F] walked in on my husband [27M] of 1 year watching porn, lack of intimacy in our relationship, now he's blaming me! [slightly nsfw]
POST: So my husband and I have been married for a little over a year, we both work full time and I am trying to start a business on the side while... | walked in on my husband in the bathroom watching porn, expressed how upset I was with the lack of intimacy in our own relationship and now he is trying to blame me and get me to apologize for this.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25 M] need help understanding my girlfriend's [27 F] attitude towards sex.
POST: Some background: We've been dating for about 7 months (since June). She's the first girlfriend I've ever had (and my first sexual partner), so I don't really have anything to compare her to. Due to he... | Girlfriend doesn't like to cuddle (not a huge deal), and doesn't want me to spend the night after sex (a slightly bigger deal), making me feel unwanted. Is this normal?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm upset with my girlfriend, am I in the wrong?
POST: I 22 male and my girlfriend 20 female have been dating for about 4 years now. For the past month and a half she has been counseling an all girls horse camp and I have seen her once for about 2 hours since she started.
Today her... | Girlfriend I haven't seen in a month comes back from work with a camper and gives me the cold shoulder.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Student Loans
POST: I'm sure that this post must have been made many times in the past since this is an issue facing more people than one would think, so forgive me if you have already given advice on this issue in the past but I make this post at the advice of friends who cannot g... | To clarify the question is what are the consequences to not paying my loans and what other options do I have. I have $100,000 debt, and I have been unable to find work for the past year.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Was Fresh Prince as popular with black audiences as it was with white audiences?
POST: I know Fresh Prince was huge with white audiences, but I wonder if it was watched as widely by black tv viewers. On a continuum of sitcoms starring black families, ranked by percentage of viewers who w... | Black people, how many of you loved/watched The Fresh Prince as much as most of the white people I know?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17 M] with my FWB [17F] a week, wanted to ask if this is a good idea.
POST: Me and my bestfriend, who just broke up with her boyfriend 2 weeks ago have decided to to make our friendship a bit more fun. We've always been very close and love eachother, but not romantically. We have... | FWB with my bestfriend, its fun but I don't want to lose my bestfriend. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Communication Problems
POST: So, I am 18 and currently a freshman at university. Last saturday, i went to an off campus party and met a girl. She was super cool and we started hitting it off. We eventually went back to her room, as her roomate had gone home for thanksgiving already. ... | hooked up with an older girl last weekend, said she would contact me a couple times and hasn't yet. what should i do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: My 1st serious (3,5 year) relationship ended recently. Having 0 experience in dating - How I [20/m] am supposed to approach the girl I am interested in right now?
POST: Little background. As mentioned above, I've been in a relationship for 3,5 year until early November, ended by her.... | 0 experience in dating guy (due to long lasting first relationship), need adivce how not to mess up things with newly meet girl and yet try something.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Don't Want to Be Friend-Zoned (25m)
POST: Long version:
I met this girl in January, when we started working together. I started developing a crush on her mid-February. She's been giving me signs of interest, but I never went for it because of her boyfriend.
Fast forward to thi... | She just broke up with her boyfriend, and I want to get to know her better. I can be patient.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making her parents hate me for life.
POST: I am a teenage boy in America. I'm dating this girl (she's great), and her parents hate me now. On to the story....
It was a dark and stormy night, jk not really weather was great so my girl and I go walk around the local mall, which is ... | Get caught making out with GF, can't take her to dance or be around her anymore cause fuck findmyiphone.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: If everyone just donated a dollar... What a difference we could make!
POST: Hi everyone! I am a dog lover, and recently had a great experience rescuing a dog from Arizona Mastiff Rescue, which is part of an organization called Canine Rescue Coalition. They are a non profit organization... | Check out Canine Coalition; adopt a dog, or donate your money or time. If everyone donated just a dollar, what a difference we could make!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my friend [23 F] of about a year, thought she was into me but she cannot get over her ex
POST: She was actually dating my roommate when I first met her. They didn't stay together long and she started dating her current ex. They lived together for about eight months and... | Girl I like actually likes me back, but she still loves her ex and hates herself for treating him badly when she was actually great to him. I'm having trouble understanding her motives.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23F] met someone online [26M] 3 months ago, I want to hang out, but he keeps backing out.
POST: I met this guy online and we talk often. We have video chatted so I know I am not being cat fished. We live within 30 minutes of each other. I want to hang out, but he keeps chickening... | How do I politely tell a guy I met online that we either hang out, or I can no longer waist my time chatting online if its not going anywhere?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [22/M] don't always feel emotionally attracted to my girlfriend [22/F] and I'm not sure what to do...
POST: We started dating about 3 months ago and overall, the relationship has been good and things have gotten pretty serious. She's one of the kindest people I know. I could ... | I'm struggling to love one of the most lovable people I've ever met and it keeps me awake at night.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By Not Copying My Wedding Venue on an Email
POST: I'm getting married in less than a month and through the ups and downs of planning I've felt like my fiance and I have had a pretty good handle on things. Catering, band, venue, flowers, invites, guest lists, getting someone to deal with ... | What I thought was a three-way conversation turned out to be an exchange between my fiance and me alone. Because of that we currently have nowhere to stay on our wedding night.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: [Programming] Didn't get a Job because of Print Line statements
POST: Hey guys,
Not sure if this is the right place to post but just wanted to let others know (specifically programmers) that a couple of print line statements could be the difference. That's right, System.out.println("");
A... | Do exactly what you are told in a programming assignment, even if it means that isn't the best thing for the user using the program.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: I need help with communicating with my girlfriend who just moved to college.
POST: We've been dating for four months and I know that's not long, but within the first week we admitted that we felt like we were each other's "soul mates". So we're more serious than most 4 month relatio... | girlfriend went to college, has bad habit of ignoring texts for hours at a time, gets mad when I feel ignored and upset<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 F] with my Boyfriend[22 M] of 4 years, should I keep trying or move on?
POST: So, we've broken up a few times before in the past few years for cheating on each other, plenty of fights.
However, we rely on each other to live, depend on each other for basic things (get to work, ... | Is staying with my inconsiderate best friend worth my time if I'm unhappy while he makes (very gradual) progress? I'm comfortable but unsatisfied.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: How to answer opinion survey questions for a job?
POST: I am currently applying to jobs as a junior developer. I am currently taking an opinion survey and I'm not sure how to answer some of these questions...
I have to answer on a scale of 1-10. 1-5 represents strongly disagree-very slight... | I don't know how to answer some of these opinion survey questions for a job. Mostly about marijuana. Do I pretend I have never seen a weed?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what run-ins have you had with kids being smart-asses to older people?
POST: Before anything, I'd like to put it out there that I'm only 16, the same age as these kids.
On my way home from the mall my mom called and asked me to stop by Wal-Mart to pick up some milk. So on the way... | Punks need to be treated like punks, especially when they're showing off for their friends by being punks to older people.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [21m] is embarrassed of my [15f] age, and I don't know what to do.
POST: We've been together about 13 months. He's funny, charming and lovely all around, but about six months ago, when I added his family (whom I've never met in person) on facebook, he asked me to take my... | My boyfriend lies and asks me to lie about my age because he's embarrassed. I want advice on what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Boyfriend left his Gmail open at my house, confirmed he's still cheating on me. What should I do?
POST: So to be brief, back in May my boyfriend admitted he liked a new friend of his. We live together, and he was very obviously sneaking out at night and staying out all night. One time... | Boyfriend left g-mail open on my computer, found confirmation of cheating, looking for good way to use this e-mail access situation to my advantage for non-violent confrontation and vindication.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: New interest (19/f) is dropping major hints but I (21/m) still treat sex as a big deal
POST: So, I just recently broke things off with a long term girlfriend and started talking to a new girl. She's seriously my ideal girlfriend, almost identical interests and sense of humor, b... | New girl is perfect but wants to make the beasts with two backs on our first time hanging out along. I still treat sex like a big deal and want to hold off until I know her better. Halp<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [16/F] trying to ask my mom [35/F] about my biological father who I never knew
POST: I found out four years ago that the man I thought was my biological father is not. He met my mom when I was one, got married and had their actual kids, and when I started to call him dad like my l... | How do I get my mom to tell me about my biological father? Should I still try if she doesn't want to talk about it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I'm 19 - My mothers house is getting sold - Have no savings - Need advice!
POST: Hi everyone,
So, my mum went to court today over the house she partially owns/ed with her ex-husband. He got the rights to sell the house immediately and we (me, Mum, two sisters) have 7 days from whe... | mums house is getting sold; my manager says he has a way I can buy the house and is offering a increase in salary but to pay that increase back in the future; need advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] who has anxiety and OCD
POST: Excuse the lack of commas (my comma button refuses to work consistently) and grammar issues (I'm a little frantic right now)
I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this but my girlfriend of 6.5 months has anx... | Girlfriend has OCD and anxiety and refuses anyone's help and I'm worried she might shut me out along with everyone else and start to give up on school and her other pursuits<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Got sucker punched by a frat douche. I want to get him back with brains not brawn. What should I do reddit?
POST: Here is the back story. Taking a party bus coming from a local college watering hole. For those of you who have never been on a party bus...your not missing anything. It's ... | got sucker punched by frat douche and nearly jumped by his four friends. I know where they live, I know some of their names. Payback is a bitch, help me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I distance myself from him?
POST: I'm 23 F and I've been with my boyfriend (27) for the past few months (almost a year). He tells me he loves me and wants to move in with me and marry me which is great and I love knowing that he feels that way.
Here's where it gets a little ... | my bipolar disorder might be driving a rift between me and my boyfriend and making me feel too dependant, should I back off?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M22] that I have to walk away from a friendship and it's just filling me with anxiety
POST: I posted here about 2 weeks ago about my issue ( basically to sum it up I feel that I'm in a friendship with a group of people where I don't feel equal. Since my birthday the situation has ... | Friendship issues have not improved and either I have to walk away or have the friendship end because I'll piss people off for saying how I feel.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25M], can't help my SO [23F] in entering a group due to past issues with said group.
POST: So, back tracking a bit to explain the part of the work group, my uni has a huge group devoted to creating activities to younger students. Being an older student, I was a member of the grou... | SO wants to enter a group in which I got treated badly, gets mad at me for not being supportive of said decision.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my ex [18 F], can't get over her physically
POST: Dated my ex two years on and off, then half a year long distance. I broke it off with her a little over two months ago because I wanted to be with other people and she and I were arguing all the time. I was really excit... | Broke it off with a long term girlfriend, I want to be with other people but my body is having none of it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm [24/M] think my GF [22/F] is cheating. Want to bring it up and most likely with end the relationship. Nervous.
POST: So backstory. We have been together for almost 6 years. Got together in High School and have been with each other since. We were each others first. We've had... | Think GF is cheating on me. Not the first time I have thought this. Going to bring it up and most likely will end the relationship. Nervous about the conversation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [m16] told my best friend [f16] about my long crush on her and was rejected. I still want to salvage what I had.
POST: A Little background, I have know her my entire life (yes all 16 years I know I'm a bit young to ask for "relationship" advice but I wanted a second opinion). We ha... | I told my best friend that I love her. She said no and now I don't know how to fix the situation.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my (ex) gf [19 F] for 8 months, we just broke up and I am seriously not strong enough to stay away from her
POST: So let me give you a brief overview. We are one of those couples that hangs out wayyyy too muc, gets jealous all of the time, and now over summer since it ... | me and my girlfriend just broke up, it has happened before, I need to make sure I go through with it this time because I know she is wrong for me<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: [20M] At the beginning of a potential relationship, but there are communication issues.
POST: I'm a 20 year old guy at a Southern university. Before winter break this past year (December 2013), I hooked up with a girl, 21, and it was a one night thing.
When we got back for the new ... | Hooked up with a girl, asked her out, accepted but then backed out --> texted her this weekend, she didn't respond. Should I keep trying or eject?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [X-Post from AskReddit] Reddit, the guy I've been dating claims to have gotten over this girl he was in love with, yet he still makes it obvious that he gets extremely pissed at even the sight of her. He'll even practically go running in the opposite direction. What should I do?... | Boyfriend is still bitching about a girl from over a year ago that he isn't even dating. What to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [18/M] Told my crush what I felt for her.
POST: It was the end of august and school were starting. I met alot of new people this summer which is great since I am not the most social guy out there.
But I also met a girl I really started to like. We starting really talking to ... | I tell my crush I like her and she does not feel the same way though she says she is not sure how she will feel about me in the future. (romantic or just friends)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21F) may be getting into a relationship with my friend (20M). We're both really quiet and agreed that we'll need to be more open with each other if we want it to work. Can you give me some conversation topic ideas?
POST: When I say we're both really quiet, I'm pretty serious. Tyle... | We're both introverts who don't know how to be open. What are some things we can talk about to help ease into a more open/trusting relationship?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I (30F) deflect advances from male friends or acquaintances?
POST: I (30F) am recently single and am expanding my social circle with activities and generally socializing more. I'm trying not to sound conceited, but it's true...a lot of guys from my activities/friend groups end... | New friendships with a few guys and they indicate they are interested. How to I maintain the friendships/fun activities I share with them and not lead them on?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is it a bad idea for me [M,18] to tell my best friend [F, 19] how I feel about her?
POST: hi reddit
i have a friend, and she is amazing. she is one of my closest friends in the world, and i have feelings for her. how could i not? she is the closest female friend ive ever had, and sh... | i have strong feelings for my best friend but it is a beyond impractical relationship, but i feel like i dont know how to deal with my feelings, should i tell her or not?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is asking for romance unreasonable?
POST: I'm a [19/f] dating a [19/m] for 3-4 months. I enjoy doing cute things for someone I care about, and as the girl, I'm used to receiving a lot of romantic things as well. At first when this boyfriend didn't do romantic things, I mentioned that... | I guess I'm just asking if it seems unreasonable for me to want him to show me affection through actions/sentimental things rather than words?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/m] studying abroad, so is (20/f)... need advice
POST: I had a thing with a girl in high school, we broke it off, but since my junior year (her sophomore year) of college, we have gone on about 6 or 7 dates. (she goes to an out of state school so I only get to see her on hol... | I'm into this girl from high school and she agreed to a date and I want to ask her to get serious with me, any suggestions? (but seriously...read the backstory/context)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M 30is] need some advice about contacting my ex girlfriend [ 30F] of three years
POST: Really scared to post here but I need some advice. Please don't up vote.
My girlfriend broke off with me three months back after dating for three years. Reason for break up was, she was not qui... | Gf broke off after 3 years and I still don't know the exact reason. I am thinking to contact my her to understand why did she break up with me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My family and I [21/F] disagree with my sister's [23 F] decision to transfer to a lesser university but she's unwilling to listen and school starts in a few days. What do I do?
POST: My sister went to School A, a nationally ranked university, for 3 years and was unhappy so she ... | What should I do about my sister? She won't listen to me or my parents. Do you think this will be bad for her future since her degree will come from a lower ranked university?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: terrible gpa aiming for grad school
POST: I'm a biology undergrad going into my 3rd year this fall. My goal is to continue education further into a masters and lastly get a Phd; I hope to do research.
The problem I have currently is my gpa is abysmal, I've failed several classes (calc 2 th... | I need a 4.0 in the next 2 years of classes to get a cgpa of 3.0 needed for gradschool.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] having too many conflicted thoughts about a girl [19 F] that won't consider us "dating" yet
POST: First off let me explain the girl. I've had my eye on her for over a year now, have been establishing a good friendship/relationship, and let her know how I felt (awful timing ... | Would it be bad if I were to get with these 3 girls since I don't have a solid answer from the one I really want and probably won't have one for 5 months? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I am so bad at texting -- did I mess this up?
POST: I (late 20s/F) have had a flirtation with a guy (late 20s/M) at a business I patronize for around a month. He works there, so I thought it would be best for me to make the first move. So, on my way out the door one day, I slipped hi... | I have been slow in responding to texts; worried that I messed up. He hasn't gotten back to me about meeting in person; worried that he's not really that into me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [M: 23-24 yo] I do not find my girlfriend of two years [F: 21 yo] (which I am madly in love with) as pretty as the other women I have known. This is making it difficult for me to take a serious next step.
POST: I really love my girlfriend. She is smart, funny, caring, loving, and bot... | I *adore* everything about my girlfriend except for her looks. The relationship is emotionally, intellectually, and sexually fulfilling, but her looks are keeping me from fully enjoying the relationship (and taking it to the next step).<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My girlfriend [20 F] broke up with me [23 M] over text and now wants to take it back 3 days later.
POST: Reddit I need your advice!! I'll try and keep it short and simple.
basically my girlfriend broke up with me 3 days ago over text and I was really taken aback. her reasons:... | girlfriend broke up with me over text message and seemed adamant that it was the right decision. 3 days later she regrets it and wants me to take her back and I'm torn.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: Traumatic struggles administering eye drops to your kid? Try letting them hold the bottle!
POST: I'm a 49 year old guy, and up until yesterday, if you'd asked me what my biggest phobia was, I'd have said eyedrops. Every time I've ever had eyedrops, from when I had an eye infection as a ... | Someone putting something in your eye is scary. Putting something in your own eye is much easier. Let your kid control the eyedrops.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Still in my head get out of here you Siren.
POST: So, I posted here a month ago about this girl I met through Tinder. We went out once, had fun, but she wasn't interested in going out again. Which she conveyed by ignoring both texts in which I asked her out again; but still respondin... | met a girl, went out once & had fun, she's not interested, I am very much interested, what do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [29 F] want to trade my STBX [38 M] my engagement ring for the family dog.
POST: STBXDH and I are divorcing after 6 years. We have two kids, 7 mo. and 5 years. He doesn't want to divorce but is keeping it friendly so far because of the kids. We ran into a snag when he moved out... | Divorcing. The rings were his grandmothers. I gave him a dog years ago and want to trade. Am I a douche?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (22) and my girlfriend (21). Question about visiting Ex's or saying goodbye to previous relationships in person.
POST: Hey guys so very recently my SO got a message from her ex-boyfriend that he was leaving to move across the country and won't be back here probably for good. The E... | SO get a message to meet an Ex for lunch and goodbyes. Not sure what to do to settle this situation where everyone is happy at the end.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23M] dated ex [23F] for a about a month like 4 years ago. I broke up with her for another girl. Recently reconnected, and agreed to meet up.
POST: In those 4 years she apparently had two boyfriends, one of which became really serious until she broke it off for whatever reason( I ... | trying to reconnect with ex from 4 years ago. She has sent subtle hints like calling me babe and hun. I think about her all the time. What should my next move be?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (27/f) am the maid of honor at my sister's (29/f) wedding but I have a crippling public speaking phobia. What should I do?
POST: My sister is getting married this Friday and I am her maid of honor. The only problem is that I have a crippling public speaking phobia and severe genera... | I have crippling public speaking phobia but am the aid of honor at my sister's wedding. How should I handle the speech (or lack thereof)?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [ both 22] am in a position to be the rebound. Horrible idea?
POST: I've known this guy since kindergarten but we aren't close. We'll say hi if we run into each other but we don't hang out or keep in touch between accidental run ins. I'm currently living in a foreign country and ba... | friend from elementary school just broke up from a ltr. I don't want feelings but I want sex. Is this going to end badly?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 F] with my SO [27 M] of 2yrs, contemplating "cheating" so we can stay together
POST: I love my bf and see us getting married and being together when we're old. He's not there in our relationship yet. This difference in feelings has caused a few arguments and the pressure is pu... | I'm pushing my bf away because I want to marry him but he's not there yet. I'm considering going on a date with another guy to help me back off my SO and keep from driving him away.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] pitched in with my roommate [24 M] to help pay for his mom's [50's F] expensive bday present - it came out to be more expensive than what I got my own mom (whom I love a lot more) for any of her past bdays.
POST: Rommate told me about his idea for a present for his mom's bir... | Rommate's pressuring me to be extravagant regarding presents for his family during Christmas and birthdays. I realize it's nonsense and I could give them great presents for less.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my Girlfriend [21 F] of 2 years, in love, but unsure of the relationship
POST: I am definitely in love with this her. She moved in after we had been together 9 months, but she was spending all her time at my place anyway, so it was more of a formality. At the time she ... | Money problems because of unwell, unemployed Girlfriend. Should I ask her to move back in with her mother? Should I end it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: [Question] about Weddingwire RSVP tool
POST: So my sister is my first RSVP (yay!) but I look at the notification email and it's saying she prefers fish, husband prefers beef, etc. I never added these meal options. In fact, I haven't finalized my menu with the caterer yet. So I'm af... | I have tried removing weddingwire's default meal options from RSVP tool but it doesn't save and keeps offering to people when they RSVP.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: GF texts EXBF everyday!
POST: 23M here dating 24F for a little under a year, things are great other than the fact that GF texts her ex-boyfriend nearly every day. We have talked about it before and she said that she only contacts him a few times a month to check in (they had a multip... | My GF texts her EX-BF constantly, despite saying that its only a couple times a month. Is she over her ex? Should I confront her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M20] said something stupid to my GF [F19] and I don't know if it will be okay
POST: I told her that before we started dating, thinking of her killed my boners. There. I know. It's fucking dumb. But when we first started dating, I'm not sure the fact that I had these thoughts ever ... | I'm stupid and I told GF I thought she was *very* unattractive before we started dating. I'm completely in love with her though and I'm afraid it's not going to work out.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What book should everyone read?
POST: Inspired by the "What book are you reading?" thread, what book(s) have you read that made a huge impression on your life, bothered you, challenged you or for whatever reason, you think everyone should read? Bonus for explaining why.
For me:
Fictio... | Read the damn post, it's not that long, and you've got about 1000 pages ahead of you. Also, read books that disturb you.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I just got trolled epically by a job spammer and now I want payback. Wat do?
POST: Heres the email he sent me after I responded to the somewhat legit looking job posting on monster.
"Thanks for your interest in our administrative position posted online and for taking the time to email y... | I sent the dude my resume AND a fucking cover letter, and he sends me this email linking to some stupid spam survey site. Complete waste of time.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: How to have the "monogamy" talk with a FWB?
POST: For the past 4 months, I've [24/f] been in a friends with benefits situation with someone [29/m] I met through work (we don't work directly together). It's been going well so far: we've developed a friendship, we talk regularly and se... | I want to know if we're monogamous for the safety of both our bodies, but don't want it to mess up a good thing. Advice on how to approach this convo?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: $960 PayPal Credit Balance - Need advice on a trip with friends
POST: Hey r/personalfinance, I need some advice. As a warning I apologize for my horrible grammar.
My friends want to go on a trip this summer to New York, but I don't think it's a financially smart thing to do. I cur... | I have $960 credit balance, and want to go on a trip with friends. I'll be able to pay it off in full once I start working full time in January 2016. Should I go on the trip or not?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 F]with my kinda boyfriend [27 M] 2 months- I am pregnant with someone I met on R4R
POST: In February I put a post out looking for friendship on R4R. I had just moved to a new state and was feeling pretty lonely. I met a really nice guy who was being stationed in WA. We chated ... | Met someone on R4R I am now pregnant and he wants an abortion. Not sure if thay is what I want but feel forced.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 M] Getting possible mixed signals from my Girlfriends [20 F] sister [19 F]
POST: Well my girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now, and her sister that's my age has always been friendly with me.
Some people may see this as just friendly chit chat and stuff, but I feel... | Getting mixed signals from girlfriends sister. She's never had a boyfriend before so I suspect that it could be out of jealousy. Need advice on what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Saw photos of a friend I shouldn't have. Do I tell her?
POST: Very close friends with a co-worker. This woman's estranged husband died last year as a result of drugs (probable overdose). She knows I am fairly proficient with computers, so she brought her personal PC in to me... | While recovering photos from a good friend's PC, ran across 2 photos of my friend topless. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm either a stupid teenager or a genuinely horrible person, but either way loathe my existence. I have a lot of weird internal struggles that make me hate myself.
POST: I am a teenager from a very wealthy family. I go to an affluent school, and even then, I have a lot more than most of... | I see myself as an "antagonist" and a destined failure due to my constant hatred and envy towards everyone, even my close family.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My partner [21F] and I [20F] are no longer in the same'relationship stage.' Thoughts, advice?
POST: We have been dating for just over 6 months, and we were both in the happy, unrealistic enmeshment/puppy love//infatuation/etc stage until about 3 weeks ago. In the last few weeks, I ha... | After 6 months of dating, the 'puppy love hormones' have worn off for me, but not my girlfriend, and she thinks I don't love her as much anymore.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [personal issues] Me [17m] unsure how to go about dating.
POST: Context: "americanized" asian with unamericanized parents (first gen). middle class, suburbs.
So i'm a senior in High School and i've never really had much in the way of dating. I think I got a hug once from a girl hu... | If I were to ask someone on a date, I feel more unprepared for a "yes" than a "no."<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My GF (33) and I (M, 29) No issues in our relationship yet I felt I had to break up with her.. Confused..
POST: Hello everyone,
I just broke up with my girlfriend of 1 year. To describe our relationship shortly, it has always felt very casual and relaxed, us having fun and enjoying ... | Broke up with a really lovely girlfriend because I felt she missed something in our relationship that I couldnt give, and did so for her own sake. I am having second thoughts. Was it the right thing to do ?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my fiance [26f] of 7 months, together 3 1/2 years is now having doubts and I don't know how to deal with it.
POST: We met 3 1/2 years ago, and she is fairly religious and I am an agnostic. We discussed our differences very early on, and many time thereafter, however it... | Fiance has gone church crazy on me months before weddings, even though it is a topic that we have discussed at lengths many times before.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19f] am extremely lonely and seem to develop "feelings" for just about every guy I start talking to. How can I tell if these feelings are genuine?
POST: In the past couple of years, since my only serious relationship, I have been spending a lot of time fooling around. Just recentl... | I'm so lonely I can't tell if my feelings for others are real, or just me wanting to be with someone.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: What is the difference between being single and being in a relationship? [22]
POST: I have been single (with various degrees of dating) for the past three years. I have had two relationships in my life, both under a year: one in high school, one in undergrad.
I want a relationship, ... | I haven't experienced a functional relationship as an adult and I want to know what it is like and how it is different from being single.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/books
TITLE: Is the independent brick and mortar bookstore dead?
POST: I ask because I've long had dreams of opening my own bookstore. I've always felt at home in bookstores, independent or otherwise... The knowledge you're surrounded by, the people in the store who share the same love of reading... I di... | Is a bookstore a feasible small business attempt? What would you like to see from a local bookstore, were you to frequent it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do you move on when you're forced to see someone weekly [M 23]
POST: So I am part of the swing dance performance team in Houston and I met a girl on the team. We spend a lot of time together and she seemed really interested. The other night though we went dancing and she was all ... | Am trying to move on from a huge crush I had, but I still have to see the girl a few times a week at dance practice. How do I move on without making things weird?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (24f) don't know how to tell my dad (56m) I don't want to write a letter for him for court
POST: Ok this is a very odd predicament I am in. My dad is in legal trouble and is in fear of not being able to have contract with anyone under the age of 18. I am his only daughter and the m... | dad having rights to see his grandkids taken away, wants me to write a letter to the courts for him, really don't want to. How do I tell him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Kissed me, says he wants to see me [F/21] again, but avoided answering me when I asked when he [M/25] wanted to go out again...
POST: So basically I met this guy and we went out once. It went amazingly. We had a great time together and he kissed me twice.
At the end of the date he ... | I'm confused... what should I do and how long should I wait to contact him? Is the ball still in my court?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Sexual/emotional abuse in Virginia, need advice
POST: I was sexually abused by my older sister when I was about 7-8. I didn't speak up until I was 16. She denied it, and went on to tell my parents about me sneaking out to have sex with my then-boyfriend (which was not entirely true). T... | 22-year old me was sexually abused by her sister many years ago. Now feeling residual emotional trauma/abuse by her and some family members. Not sure what to do. Need help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is there any point to dating in my situation?
POST: Hi everyone, I'm a 19 year old male and just started my second year of college. I've never been with a girl before, and have never even gone on a date, mainly due to cultural and traditional values my parents established. They were ... | 19 M, awkward, have bad acne, and haven't had any relationship/dating experience ever. Both attempts at dating have failed miserably, am wondering if there's any point to keep trying.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [31/m] I'm being blackmailed into having sex with a gorgeous (24/f)
POST: Background - She's beautiful & blonde. I actually lost my virginity to her many years ago. We've been friends since then, but with very little contact over the years.
Fast-forward to the present - I wa... | I had sex with a married co-worker and she's threatening to tell her husband (and my girlfriend) if I don't continue to do so.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Credit being screwed by former employer (workman's comp)
POST: I was injured on the job in South Carolina in early 2010 (meat slicer, ouch!). I informed the ER at checkout that this was workman's comp, but somehow the bill went to my credit. My employers reviewed the security footage,... | A valid workman's comp claim from a former employer remains on my personal credit score (SC). 3 years later, I now live in CA. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining
TITLE: Dogs wake up before dawn and annoy the heck out of us
POST: Hi, I'm new to this subreddit. I tried searching for morning behavior problems but most of them were about barking. Though similar, I wanted to see if I could get a little advice about our issue. Some background: My wife and I... | Dogs getting up before we do and make commotion until we give in and feed them. Looking for ways to break the habit.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by putting English pence in the bus cash machine instead of a quarter.
POST: So I'm scrambling to get ready this morning and I need to grab cash for the bus. I check my wallet and I'm all out of one's so I go to my little plastic baggie of coins in my drawer. I grab 5 quarters (I'm under... | I accidentally had an English 10 pence in my coin stack for a bus ride and get kicked off because I didn't have enough for the ride.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: WTF! Do you want a long resume or a one pager?
POST: Sorry if this is in the wrong subreddit. If it is please point me in the right direction.
What do hiring managers want? A long resume or a one page resume?
I recently applied for a job in which I was overqualified. The reason was simple: ... | Frustrated job hunter wants to know what's more appealing: A long resume with a lot of flowery bullcrap or a one-page resume that's quick and to the point.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by connecting my Colleague to the Fire Department
POST: This happened just an hour ago and I still feel embarassed.
It all started at work. I am sitting in my office that I share with a colleague. I work at a recruitment agency as researcher and therefore need to have regular phone call... | Due to me being too stupid to use the phone my colleague blocked an emergency line asking the fire depot to stop trolling her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I need advice, should i ask her out? [21M]
POST: We're the same age, I met this girl through mutual friends. Went to the same high school but never really took notice of each other until now. Really digging her personality. She has asked me to grab lunch with her a couple of times al... | Digging this girl, but not sure if she already considers me as a friend only zone. Leaving for college and would like to go on a date with her before i go. Not sure if its appropriate in this case. Thanks.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I (22m) ask my apartment mate (22m) to compensate for damaging my property?
POST: This happened around September.
I have this Cartier money clip I bought from Japan for around 200 USD. I had left it on the dining table with all my stuff.
We were having a get together and w... | My nightmare of an apartment mate damaged my expensive money clip when we were kind of friends. We are not friends anymore and I want him to pay for repair costs<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [21/m] was a rebound for a girl [19/f] Do we still have a chance?
POST: I got to know this girl over the period of a month. At first she had a boyfriend, but they broke up and I, subconsciously moved in.
Strictly I just wanted to be support, she didn't need another guy, she... | This girl had a bad breakup, I told her I didn't want to be a rebound, but I ended up being one. I feel like we can start over and take it slower this time. Opinions?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 6 months, She wants me to go sober for a week
POST: As stated in the title, my girlfriend wants me to go sober for a week and will not have sex with me again until I do so. Her reasoning behind this is simply "because I want to know if you'll do... | Girlfriend wants me to stop smoking weed for a week, with the threat of no sex. I don't know whether I should.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: Did I(m32) go overboard..final straw was GF's(f32) email getting hacked.
POST: GFs email was hacked by some spam bot and it sent a bunch of group spam out to people in her address book. Sucks for her, but then I notice the "TO:" addresses....mine,her mother's, coworkers, friends.....respe... | broke up with a girl who lied about her fucking her best friend, and had sex site emails saved in her address book....justifiable GTFO or not?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [NJ]Blindsided by medical debt, received summons that wants me to go to court in 9 days from receipt of summons.
POST: Just got blindsided by a summons, I'm very concerned and I'm not 100% sure how to proceed while still protecting myself.
I got a summons in the mail to go to small cl... | Got summons to go to small claims court with only 10 days notice, on a debt I'm not sure is valid, at the very least need to postpone the court date to figure out what's going on!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[20M] Gf [20f] gets mad at the slightest thing and threatens breaking up.
POST: Im going to try to keep it short here and get to the point, me and my girl have been together almost 3 years now. Recently she acts as sweet as she used to when we first started going out for like 10 mi... | Asked my GF a simple question, she took it the wrong way and assumed I called her a liar when I never did and completely went from loving girlfriend to wanting to break up over nothing<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Using credit card for rewards versus using "cash"
POST: Not sure the flair to put on this post or if this is the best place but here we go. I loosely follow Dave Ramsey, but I've never been in a crazy amount of consumer debt. I had student loans of >100k and a car payment but both ... | Larger unexpected purchases - better to pay "cash" or put on credit and pay off immediately to get the credit "rewards"?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Sold house; losing job; soon to be SAHM: What is best to do with the cash?
POST: Hi everyone! Throwaway for personal reasons.
My job position (medical transcriptionist) is being eliminated and I'm considering being a stay at home mom. As of now, I work from home and have family... | Losing job, $65K cash coming, $350/month left after monthly bills, emergency fund set up, what to do with the lump sum.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (20 f) with my BF (21 M), why am I unhappy?
POST: I feel crazy posting here, because I don't understand why I feel this way.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, but we were together unofficially for a bit before then. At first, I was crazy about him! He is kind, u... | boyfriend can be selfish, which I think makes me resentful. But he has so many good qualities I'm confused why I no longer want to have sex with him or feel very happy.<|endoftext|> |
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