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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (24) know my bf (24) has "secret" accounts. POST: Hi all, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and I know he has "secret" accounts because he has told me. The extent of it, I'm not sure. He has admitted to having more than one reddit account to look at porn. ...	Boyfriend has "secret" accounts and won't tell me about them; am I being too paranoid or could there really be an issue?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's one thing looking back you feel bad for laughing at but still laugh when you think about it. POST: Mine would be during my high school graduation after we threw our hats in the air and went crazy with silly string and were leaving the gymnasium, it was this one girl on crutches tu...	Chick with crutches eats it hard during graduation and I laughed. Feel bad for laughing but can't but continue to laugh.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My bf (33m) told his mom I (25f) am pregnant along with info I didn't want shared. POST: I had 1 abortion and a miscarriage with my boyfriend, and we are again pregnant. As unbelievable as it may be, we have had different forms of birth control fail each time and apparently get...	Boyfriend shared details of past abortion with his mom and now she's interfering with a current unplanned pregnancy. How do I handle this without offending anyone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] want to get back together with a girl I used to date [20 F], not sure if a good idea. POST: Hi, so over a year ago I went on a few dates with this girl, everything was fine, she told me that she liked me after 2 dates. But after a while she avoided any questions from me abou...	After being on dates, she didn't want to anymore. Out of nowhere she goes out again and I want her again. Don't know what to do now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/books TITLE: If my book club is any sign, there seem to be a lot of readers who score a book poorly if they dislike or don't agree with the main character or narrator, why is this? POST: I feel like a classic example of this is the disdain for Catcher in the Rye due to ultimately the disdain for the na...	How often does a disagreeable protagonist put you off to the entire book? Where do you think this negative association comes from?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I recently wrote to MSNBC's Nightly News about my opinion on their coverage of the oil spill. What's your opinion, Reddit? POST: The segment I commented about was the first 8 minutes of the [June 26th broadcast] Here is what I wrote: >The first 8 minutes of tonight's broadcast (26 Jun...	Nightly news had 8 minutes of oil spill coverage and 10 seconds of a protest movement about oil drilling. We need more stories of the latter to facilitate public demand which then stimulates political will.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] has been messaging a married man [32M]. Things have gone too far and I don't know what to do. POST: This began as we were both regular posters on a sub about fitness and we started messaging each other (initiated by him). Things started very tame, mostly discussing fitness b...	I Have been messaging a married man and I think things have gone too far and I'm not sure how to deal with it<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I once'repaired' a friend's family computer. What's a funny'repair' story you have? POST: My friend's computer was getting really slow due to all of the games him and his family had installed. I told him I'd come help make his computer faster. I was going to do a defrag, registry clean, ...	My friend's family had a completely unused hard drive, twice as big as the one in use, on their desktop.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29/F] cannot date. No, seriously. Can't. Date. POST: I am a 29-year-old woman who is at her wits' end with herself and her inability to have even the most casual of relationships with men. When I was 18, I had a ten-month relationship with a guy who was a year older. While we we...	I was a stage five clinger in my first relationship at 18, it caused him to end things, and this seems to have made me gun-shy about dating for 11 years. WTF do I do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend[22F] 3months, she really is perfect for me but I still miss my ex. I feel like a jerk. POST: I've been with my current girlfriend for three months. She's everything my ex wasn't. She's gorgeous, apologetic, doesn't expect me to pay for every little thing,...	dating wonderful girl now but I know it will end. Missing my shitty ex. Should I leave now or wait it out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [18F] deal with a breakup with SO [18M] caused by going to different colleges? POST: I guess this is a question that's been asked hundreds of times before, but I'd like some advice in general on breakups where it's neccessary out of circumstances. Me and my (ex?)SO (together...	Had to split with HS BF because college. It's been a semester and i'm still not over him (and vice versa). What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/books TITLE: I'm buying books for a charity and need some advice. POST: I am participating in a charity evant called a "Giving Tree". We have a small tree in our office and a local church comes to give us "ornaments" which has the gender, age, and 1 wish from a child in need. I found 2 tags on the tree ...	I need book suggestions for 2 15 year old boys I've never met before. I don't know their hobbies or preferences and need something that would help make them a lovely Christmas.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (M,19) and I (F,19) of 5 years have decided to consider a threesome. Opinions? POST: So my long term guy and I have been together since middle school. We are entirely comfortable with each other and our relationship, and since we are still young (I'm in college) we have ...	My boyfriend and I are considering a threesome; what does everyone think of threesomes, our relationship considered? Where would I even start?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I'm a male (23) she's a female (22). Just came back from my second date with her. Things were going so well! Then I wen't full retard. POST: Ok. So I just came back from my second date with her. I took her out to a museum which she seemed to enjoy a lot. Then afterwards, I took her o...	Things seemed like they were going well. Had a nice date going to the museum and had a long picnic. I felt I screwed it up by asking her if I could kiss her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my boyfriend [24M] of 2 years, he has no motivation to get a job after taking a year off. POST: My boyfriend of 2 years had a rough year with multiple family deaths and his previous jobs really ran him into the ground with menial compensation. I've been supportive and I...	Boyfriend took a year off work, has no motivation to get back into employment. how to I coax him into a positive perspective?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Bearded Ladies of Reddit – I need some advice POST: My wife's has asked me if I could help set up her friend on a date with one of the guys I work with– I've procrastinated quite bad, and now the time has come – but I don't want to. My wife keeps asking me why, and I just say, "I'm sti...	Single friend of my wife can't get a date as she has a lady beard - why doesn't she shave it off.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my friend(for now) [18 F] of 6 months, recently broke up, do I give her the D? POST: Should I let this girl stay at mine for 3 days at New Years? So basically there's this girl at uni who likes me a lot, and I like her a lot. We get on ridiculously well. What makes it...	Should I just let her stay? Or should I say she can't stay if she's serious about having time off? Cheers guys.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by eating an avocado POST: Happened about a year ago. Background: Every year for our birthday, our company gives employees a [lunchbox] with the company's logo as a present. I was at work, when the best time of the day came around: lunchtime! I know it's a bit namby-pamby of my part, ...	Confused my coworker's lunchbox with mine and ate his delicious avocado his wife had sent him. Now known as the The Avocado Robber of the Night and other variations.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Think I finally found someone, but what do I do now? POST: Hi Redditors: I admit this is a throw away account. Please don't hold that against me. Anyway, I've had a lot of shit happen to me in the last few years, and as a result, for better or worse, I have distanced myself ...	I'm a guy. Have had mostly sexual relationships. Really like someone for more than sex for once. Unsure what to do. Please help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How should I react to this? POST: So I have a small sap story from a very committed worker. I work hard. Not saying my job is easy. It's not; my job is very hard. I work at a corporate pizza place. It's very under staffed and often busy. I have worked there for 2 and a half years and gai...	An older employee is less experienced than me but getting the same wage, for half the work because she is friends with my manager.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: DBL - Don't be lazy POST: I have a little thing I do. It used to be that everytime I thought about doing something this little voice in my head would always think 'ugh thats so hard' or'man that's a lot of work' I was always putting things off and never accomplishing the things I want...	Whenever the voice in your head tells you something is too much work, tell it DONT BE LAZY, then just do it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [F18] boyfriend [M18] has recently shown interest in cross-dressing. Is this innocent exploration, or could this lead to problems down the road? POST: My boyfriend [M18] and I [F18] have been dating for about 7 months now. Early in the relationship he told me that he has some vari...	My boyfriend has started cross-dressing. Is this innocent exploration or could this be a sign that a traditional relationship may not be what he wants in the future?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: f[26] isn't sure why he [27] doesn't want the girlfriend/boyfriend title. POST: I (f, 26) have dated a man (27) for almost three years. Our relationship began while we were both in college/grad school. While we were together, he said we were dating, and weren't official. We had (a...	man doesn't want to be my boyfriend. Why the hell not, I am awesome, and how long should I wait before I broach the conversation again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: Having sex with me[23M] is like doing a pile of dirty dishes for her [19F] POST: Old link: TL;DR:	big blow up, almost broke up because of libido mismatch. is the dr visit going to help? what do we ask or say to the Dr.?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[27M],'s GF [24F] of a year, cheated, but told me. POST: We've been going out for just short of a year, we started going out about a month after she had moved into town. (11 months later)She took a trip to LA before she started school and ran into an old fling who she says she did...	Girlfriend warned me, cheated on me, told me, and says she still loves me and wants to stay together.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Women of Reddit: How intimately is a fight for women's rights to pro-choice legislation? POST: I am asking because I am a bit torn on the subject. My argument is not faith/religion based. I consider myself a feminist and I work in a women's rights organization. I am uncomfortable wit...	I feel that in the women's rights debate, abortion and 'pro-choice' tends to come first at the expense of a whole bunch of other massively important issues.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19/F] I'm renting in a basement and my landlord [35?/M] is doing perverted things to my laundry POST: I'm a first year university student and I live near my campus in a house, the landlord was renting rooms in the basement for cheap and the location was close to the uni so I took th...	I share a laundry room with my landlord who I suspect has been having fun with my dirty thongs and other undergarments<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm having difficulties communicating with my Girlfriend POST: Please help. I'm a Male (29) and she is a Female (23). We are both very new to relationships and opening up to people, something we were upfront about from the beginning. In a lot of ways our relationship is on a young...	Having difficulties getting my GF to communicate and share with me and am worried it will lead to her bottling things up and leaving cause we don't talk about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[27F] look rather like his [28M] ex (1 year) POST: We've been dating for a year, I love you, yadda yadda. About 3 months before we met he was living abroad as an exchange student and was dating another girl. He returned home, they broke up because she didn't want to move here. T...	I feel he's stuck in the past with an ex, he disagrees but refuses to change things to reflect his current life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Marathon training and a swollen ankle - how can I make up the training? POST: Hey /r/running, I'm currently training for my first full marathon (OBX Marathon on NOv 10th) using an adapted version of [this plan] The biggest difference is that my Tuesday runs are either tempo runs, interva...	Have now missed 3 weekends of long runs and one, going on two weeks of mid week runs. How can I change up the schedule so I can still be properly trained by my marathon?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: MA - Stupid question but what is a prenup? POST: This is a general question that has nothing to do with me personally, but I live in MA in case that matters to you :). I read a comment on another website that made me realize I'm not sure I fully understand what a prenup is. My belief...	Do couples decide how to divide things in a prenup or does it always mean you just leave with your own income? Can you explain the range/variety of arrangements you have seen in prenups?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my boyfriend [21 M] 6months, Should I be nervous about him spending time. W his ex? POST: I've been in a long distance relationship with a boy and we recently decided I should move to him. It's a big move, cross-country. I'm fine / very happy with it. When we first me...	I'm nervous about my boyfriend spending time with his EX that gave him a STD. Especially because of the big commitment I just made to him and the newness of our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] found a note in my locker from friend [17 F], please help! POST: Important parts of the note: - Say's she likes me, specifically the word "like". - Was too embarrassed to come forward herself. - Say's to "do something" if "I feel the same way". - Also says to "ignore the n...	Friend left note admitting she likes me, and I don't want to hurt her feelings but at the same time want to remain just friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend [29M] LDR of 18 months - advice to minimise the arguing please please! POST: We're not unique. I know every couple argues and I know you just have to deal with it. But good people of r/relationships, you are always full of the best advice so I'm sure some o...	Boyfriend and I are utterly in love, yet get into horrible arguments when apart for long periods, does anyone have advice on how to avoid this? Thankyou!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Mixed signals, or is he being a tease? POST: Female here. We're are both in our mid 20's, known him for about four years now. Met at a friend's Christmas function, WA area. Strong instant mutual attraction (as he admitted within a day of our meeting). He tried starting a relationsh...	known guy for a few years, haven't progressed past phone flirting. Is he still interested in dating, or just being a tease because he's used to flirting with me for so long?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [30/M]I'm almost at wits end.. POST: Hi Reddit, I'll try to condense a long story to short. First off, throwaway account. Secondly, the story that is driving a stake in my heart. I've been married for 3 years now. Physically, my wife is gorgeous. I find her attractive in ever...	reddit, is omitting part of your activities or anything of that sort lying? when did "not telling the whole truth" become something completely different than lying?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28M] have been in a relationship with my girlfriend [28F] for 8 years. I've never been in another relationship, and I'm starting to feel like I need to be alone. POST: This is the only relationship I've ever been in. We have been through a lot together and have a lot of memories a...	I'm considering ending my only (longterm) relationship to hopefully make myself happy, but it will destroy my girlfriend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (23M) have virtually no dating experience, went on several dates with someone (27F) but don't know how to advance POST: Background: Prior to this I haven't really been on a true date. Hooked up with some girls in college but was in love with my best friend. I've worked on getting...	I have virtually no dating/relationship experience, met a girl I think I like and went on two dates with her. Not sure what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Just venting - here is how you DON'T manage volunteers POST: If I volunteer for a specific task during a specific time-frame then I really don't fucking appreciate being emailed at the last minute being told "oh by the way, we signed you up for this other thing too". Granted I could just say...	Don't randomly sign volunteers up for things at the last minute without asking them first, you're really just screwing your organization over by alienating a supporter.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to break off a friendship as an adult? [20sFs&Ms] POST: My boyfriend and I are part of a friend group that has grown over time. We all used to hang out on a weekly basis at my boyfriend and my place. Recently one friend invited a new person, Julie. Julie seemed nice enoug...	One of the people in our friend group is someone we don't want to be friends with anymore. How to break it off with her in an adult manner without alienating the rest of the group, or being dicks?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Need help digging myself out of a hole, please. POST: Reddit, I'm in a situation and I need some advice: An ex is coming into town and asked me if I wanted to grab coffee tomorrow, and I agreed not really thinking. Now, I want to be honest and open with these kinds of situations with my ...	casual plans with ex could potentially harm relationship with current SO, so to avoid any catastrophe, I need a good excuse to break plans.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24 M] relationship with GF [23 F] is good but I am left wanting more out of the relationship. Not sure what to do. POST: First off, she is in love with me. She would marry me if I were to ask (not that I would ask even remotely soon). She is the epitome of what I imagine a loving...	Have a pretty good relationship with the GF. Wish she would show me more love. Am left wanting more out of the relationship. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [33M] think my GF [31F] of 2 years is hiding that she is always keeping a bunch of guys in reserve. POST: I don't think that she is actually cheating on me, but the other day I happened to see a text message (left her phone unlocked on a table when she went to the bathroom - it was...	Accidentally saw some texts between girlfriend and a guy, contact camouflaged with name of a girlfriend. Situation messing with my head.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] still lover her [17F] but I dont think I like her... POST: Ive been dating my girlfriend for over 6 months. Lately I don't enjoy spending time with her, nothings changed between us that would lead to this. I don't look forward to seeing her at school or staying over her house...	I think I still love my girlfriend but I don't enjoy spending time with her, I feel like this may only be because I'm depressed though.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my roommate [19F], she is always home and I am not getting any personal time. POST: I share an apartment with my roommate, Jessica, the person I share a room with, and another girl, Molly, who has her own room in the apartment. I am in class for at least 4 hours each d...	Roommate is always home so I never get quiet time to relax and be alone and I can never be alone with my LDR SO over Skype. Help is appreciated!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my co-worker [22 F] It's been a couple of months and I have a crush on her[q POST: Hey guys! some help here! I've started working a couple of months ago in this institute, and there are 2 buildings apart from each other, both from the same company I work for. I'm in on...	She has a boyfriend. Do I keep making interaction with her, keep talking o trying to make her laugh? what happens if I get hurt doing those things?.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19/m] She [19/f] doesn't enjoy sex due to a 'rough' past, yet will do things like show up in only lingerie? POST: Their girlfriend does not enjoy sex. She'll always be seductive and whatnot to lead up to having sex, she does enjoy fore-play and all, but during actual penetrative sex...	GF will be supposedly super interested in pursuing sex right up until the point where it's about to happen, every single time. What's the deal?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl (16) told me (16) that she likes me(16) but friend say she doesnt date POST: We've known each other for 3 years and ive liked her since day one. Her sister told me when we first met that the girl liked me. I didn't persue in fear of rejection. The girl told me last week that she...	known girl for 3 years girl likes me i like girl. Her friend tells me that the girl wouldnt date becuase of religion. What do i do??!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Don't know what I'm feeling, help! POST: Okay so I'm at a bit of a dilemma with my girlfriend (17) (I'm 16) who I've been with for about 3 months now. So we were on my bed cuddling with each other just talking about stuff when we get talking about the previous summer. Now I'd a...	Girlfriend talked about all the boys she made out with last holidays when we weren't together and it gave me a horrible feeling in my stomach, seems irrational for me to feel like that. wondering why. Any input is greatly appreciated :)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: i've (20F) been messing around with my 27m roommate/friend on and off for about a year, and he's in a relationship. I sort of caused a temporary breakup, and I just feel so lost. POST: My friend and I hit it off the day we met, but just never dated because we valued our friendship to...	rpommates gf found out he's cheating with me, denies it, it's still going on and i feel weird<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by ignoring the due date of a classwork POST: I'm taking this "Environmental Education" course at college and since day one, the teacher said the most of the points of the class were going to be earned by writing a text containing stuff about pollution, ecology, and environmental topics....	I had a classwork to do, wasn't aware when the real due date was, got drunk the night before due date, got text from a friend saying it was due the next day, didn't sleep finishing the work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Why do I keep getting sick? POST: Hi! I am a 29 yo caucasian female, 5'3", ~130 lbs. In the past 6 months, I have gotten the same type of cold about 1 time each month. It happens in this order: 1. sore through 2. sneezing and a runny nose 3. sinus congestion 4. tickle in my throat 5. m...	I am getting sick 1 time each month for the past 6 months. What is going on and how can I stop this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Neighbor is blocking my mine (and others) mailboxes. Is it legal POST: So my neighbor stopped my car the other day asking if I have been receiving my mail regularly. I thought I had been but I have noticed days where I received nothing and then one day I got a ton more than usual. She to...	Neighbor is a dick and mail person is lazy. I am not getting mail because of it. Also from Oregon if that helps.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to be a nice person and ended up hitting a baby POST: So it was Saturday night, I pulled into the Target parking lot with my girlfriend. I get out of the car and start walking towards the Target entrance. A was woman carrying a child and pushing her cart was struggling as she c...	I tried being a nice person, I picked something up for a lady that dropped something, when putting it back into her cart I hit her baby that was in the cart. I didnt realize I hit her baby until my girlfriend told me<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me (20F) Confused about why my boyfriend of 2 years (27M) wont invite me to family events POST: So I have been dating a guy in his mid twenties for about 2 years now, he is sweet and seems like he has genuine intentions. I got upset the first time he went to a family gathering ...	boyfriend didn't invite me to wedding, gathering, holiday parties. Told him about feelings, he did not invite me again this thanksgiving<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my EX GF [21 F] 3 yrs together, 4 months apart. General break up question POST: My EX and I were together 3 yrs, broke up 4 months ago. We had a fantastic relationship. She ended up emotionally cheating and leaving me for him because LDR (dont try that at home, kids) ...	Do people always say "dont worry she'll regret this" post break up to make the dumpe feel better?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 22f with my boyfriend 25 for a little over a year need some advice POST: I've been with my bf for around 15 months. About 6 months ago, I moved an hour further away from my family to move in with him and we have a nice, quiet life together. Lately, though, I've been feeling detached ...	Feeling emotionally detached and guilty for being critical. Not sure how to make things better/stronger or when to say we're just too different to work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by missing an e-mail POST: I'm usually on top of all my college e-mails but if I'm making this post that probably means I messed up. Turns out I missed an e-mail from one of my professors telling me that he needed a file or else I would receive a 0 for my final. This was from 9 days ag...	e-mail didn't go through, missed e-mail from 9 days ago asking for file, most likely failed final and will have to take class again<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [20 F], is fine with other guys calling her "baby", "babe", and other pet names POST: For a while now, I've felt fairly uncomfortable about something in my relationship. My girlfriend has a lot of guy friends, which is fine by me, but a lot of them still ...	Girlfriend has a lot of guy friends, many of them flirt. Not sure if I should ask her to tell them to stop or if this is just something I'm being silly about.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Close friend [F25] became distant since she got a BF [27M] and now messaging me [F27] randomly POST: So i was good friends with this girl and she started dating this guy last spring which is all cool. He was a nice guy too. She went away for the summer out of town and cheated on him ...	friend got a bf and cheated on him and told me but then became distant and never reached out, now 7 months later is asking me why im distant without acknowledging her part.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Girlfriend [20 F] of 6+ years recently broke up with me [20 M] and I just want her back. POST: As the title says my long time girlfriend and I just broke up. We're both college juniors and this happened one of the first days we got here. To give you some context we had been great...	My long time girlfriend broke up with me and I can't cut her out of my life completely. I just want her back and need helping figuring out what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (23f) boyfriend (23m) of just over a year still has OKCupid on his phone and I saw that he logged in only a couple of days ago. POST: I need some advice because I've been stressing out about what to do since I found out this morning. Backstory: Boyfriend and I were together for a...	On/off boyfriend and I have recently been back together for 2 months. Saw that he logged into OkCupid 4 days ago. Need to know if I should get him to show me his account messages.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Moral Dilemma. POST: hey reddit...need some advice. kind of a long story with my current roommate. so i work with him at a private club i am a member of, we both lifeguard there, and a couple of weeks ago i found out he was charging on my account at the club (it charges you at the end of...	my roommate used an account to basically steal from me, probably going to get him fired...but need a way out of lease<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] going down the same path as every relationship with someone im seeing [22 F]. What's wrong with me? POST: All my relationships do not last past 2 months, because of me. I 'think' i like someone, i get on with them, but the moment commitment is needed i freak. I have serious...	My attitude towards relationships are bipolar rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19M] with my Long Distance Girlfriend [19F] of 5 months. I'm having trust issues while I'm really busy. POST: Here's a little backstory - I'm currently in College with a part time job working on campus (Don't want to say too much info sorry) and I'm insanely busy, I don't have to...	Girlfriends talking/spending a lot of time watching shows with a friend while I'm busy at class, this is making me feel bad because of insecurities, am I in the wrong here?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my boyfriend [20M] for a year+, Am I too clingy? -and if so, how do I remedy this? POST: During the school year, we spend a lot of time with each other (i.e. studying in the same room, hanging out with friends, etc.) so I don't really feel too needy and everything's goo...	Boyfriend doesn't value time together over breaks as much as I do, which makes me feel pretty lonely. How do I fix this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my Girlfriend [23 F] - 2 Years - Haven't had sex in months. POST: We've been dating for almost two years now. Our sex life was UNREAL for both of us the first year or so, then it kind of dropped off a bit, as it usually does as a relationship progresses. But lately it'...	We're truly in love, sex life used to be 100% top notch, I was manically depressed due to family issues, she supported me and now we can't get back into regular sex.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24/F] with my boyfriend [26/M] 1.5 yrs, am I making this a bigger deal than it is? Possibly NSFW. POST: I've known my boyfriend for 4 years now & we've been dating for a year & a half. We've had our ups & downs, but we've been able to work through them together; he's my best frie...	Boyfriend has been looking at personal ads on Craigslist after a threesome conversation a few months ago. We decided against it. What gives?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I stay or should I go? POST: I'm a 28/F and have been dating "J" – 30/M – for 3 months. He's a fantastic guy. He's well-versed, genuine, funny and I'm very comfortable (both inside and out) around him. However, in our 3 months of dating, he has yet to come over to my house (...	Boyfriend is showing little effort in the relationship and though I want to be with him, putting in all the effort is becoming mentally/emotionally draining.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24F] boyfriend [26M] really likes his alone time POST: My boyfriend Jared and I have been together for eight months. Things have been going really well with us for the most part, except for one thing. Jared is REALLY introverted. At first, I thought it was a blessing. I've always...	My boyfriend is so introverted that he needs to be by himself multiple days a week. He'll go days without trying to even see me. It's starting to hurt my feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [20] break-up a once-in-a-lifetime partner [21] of two years, when they are perfect? POST: I feel awful for doing this. The person I'm dating right now is absolutely wonderful - truly, a beacon of light. Our relationship of two years has been absolutely stellar. On top of t...	Literal perfect partner, a saint. The spark is gone. I need to end it. I'm too scared to do so. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Getting Girlfriend Reddit for Christmas, Need suggestions for Subreddits… POST: To Clarify: I've been pestering my girlfriend about getting on Reddit for weeks, and she finally said that when I get home from school for winter break, she'd get on with me. I want to surprise her with an acc...	I'm starting my girlfriend a Reddit account and need good subreddits to populate her front page! Help me on my noble quest!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by slapping selfie stick into my hand POST: This happened about month and a half ago when I was on a trip to Las Vegas with my girlfriend. When we arrived, we checked into the hotel and started to walk down the strip. Then in front of Bellagio hotel (where the huge fountains are), my gir...	In Vegas, selfie stick got stuck. Palm slapped at the bottom and plastic broke off and the rod dug into my hand. Luckily, wound healed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [23M] 3 years, both unsure of our relationship and now the ball's in my court POST: The past few nights my long-distance boyfriend and I have been talking about doubts we have in the relationship. From this, we've determined that we're not sure if we're in ...	Is it necessary to have a lot of things in common with your SO? How do you know that you're happy in a relationship because of who it's with, not just because you have someone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not listening during an award ceremony POST: This happened a few hours ago. So today was our award presentation day and I was getting a few awards. I didn't receive a text, email or letter saying I was getting any sort of award but I had the idea I was going to get an award. I he...	Me and my friends thought I got another award so i walked up and it wasnt mine. Had to walk back in front of 500+ students and parents in a formal assembly.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (26M) think my girlfriend(24F) is using snapchat for things.. POST: I've been with my girl for just over three years. We've been living together and overall things have been decent. About the normal ups and downs of any relationship. Until lately. I noticed about a week ago that s...	Girlfriend of 3+ years just started acting shady with her phone. Saw a cute text from a guy. Went through her phone (I know, I know) and found suspicious behaviors.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Adopted a new cat and unable to pick her up to sync with the microchip flap. POST: Hi there, we adopted a new cat and we was told it was going to be a challenge because she takes time to get used to people and isn't the type to want to be stroked a lot. She is the opposite of what the centre ...	unable to pick up or even attempt picking up the cat to get her to the catflap to sync her microchip and doesn't even show any interest in going outside.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm going to have 19 girls at my apartment this Friday, but I cannot be here. How can I make this interesting? POST: I am a male in college. This Friday, a female friend of mine, who is pledging for a sorority, is going to host a sorority event with about 19 college girls at my place. ...	Many girls are coming to our apartment, we cannot be there to meet them, but we want to meet some, how do we decorate our apartment so that they'll be interested in us without meeting us?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: How should I ask for a raise? POST: I've been employed here for nearly a year and like it but the pay is not enough. I can pay bills but When I was hired I felt they lowballed the offer, i countered and they accepted. That being said i still feel it is too low for a few reasons. First,...	My boss is lazy, i pick up his slack, but really only report directly to him. How/when do i go about asking for a raise?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [33m] wife [34f] of 7 years complains about being sick or in pain every other day and I'm getting fed up. POST: I'll keep this short. Throwaway because a couple of friends know my other reddit account. For as long as I've known her, my wife has been in poor health. She has lupus,...	Wife suffers from multiple diagnosed ailments and complains about pain constantly, but refuses to see doctors or take meds for them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Neighbor in need POST: Our neighbors are having to move out because the husband has Alzheimer disease and their house has to be gutted. They have been totally nice to us for 7 years and I feel horrible they are having to be completely uprooted like this. The wife left us a note pleading for...	neighbor offering $100 month to care for cat, desperate. How can I convince my house to do it and make sure new cat gets along with my cat?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Broke up before college, the ex is back in town and wants to see me. POST: We had been dating for a year and a half in high school, and I broke it off with her soon before she left for college. We both lived in the same city, I'm going to college in the city, she went off to pr...	Broke up with an OAG, she's coming back to town, wants to see me, how do I manage this situation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [28 M] tell my ex of one year [24 F] that I still love her POST: I was with her (long distance) for two years. Things started to collapse a bit due to the distance, the spark we once had was lost, things started to descend into routine, and eventually she broke up with me. I ca...	Broke up, stayed as friends, went on holiday, had a perfect time together. But she's seeing someone else. Do I say anything?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice to not lead a girl on who I think would be a great friend. POST: I am a male (29m) with very little success in the dating world. As I get older I do not met many new people and my social circle has gotten smaller as friends get married or move. This had resulted in me being a ...	Met a girl online. I feel like she would be a better friend than romantic partner. I do not want to lead her on, but enjoy hanging out and would continue to if it did not hurt her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] matched with my friend [19F] I already knew on Tinder. What do? POST: I'm a pretty good rock climber. Had a climber friend introduce me to this really cute climber girl one day. A couple weeks later I ran into her again at the climbing gym and we talked a bunch and she added ...	Matched with someone I already knew (although not well) on Tinder, looking for advice on how to get things moving with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23M] with [22F] feel unappreciated in our almost year relationship. POST: Been together with my wonderful girl for almost a year now, before it didnt bother me and i rarely noticed it but lately especially with something like valentines coming up i feel like im the one who puts al...	I plan all dates, i suprise visit her, and do lots of cutsy stuff for her but never get anything back like that, how do i bring it up to her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[20m] girlfriend[20f] is lying and I caught her. Will she cheat? POST: My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 3.5 months. When we first started hanging out, she had a boyfriend. I had no intention of stealing her away from. At the beginning, all I really wanted w...	Girlfriend is lying. She has cheated before. Read her facebook (because I'm white trash) And saw a conversation of what the beginning of our relationship looked like when she had a boyfriend, with another dude.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by breaking gf's new contacts POST: So this happened today, (bonus points?) And I'm not too proud of it. To start things off my gf and I were cuddling up watching the tele, kissing, and all that jazz. She had been over for about 4 hours, and we were just about to end the night when she ...	poked a contact that wanted to be a wall climbing spiderman, ended up breaking it and now my gf is pissed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think my boyfriend [M22] is lying to me[F20] about smoking but I have no evidence other than the taste of his mouth. POST: Hello reddit. Made a throwaway. So my boyfriend(22M), of 3 on and off years with me (20F), has quit smoking for about 10 months now. However when he goes to wo...	boyfriend's mouth tastes and smells like tobacco sometimes after coming home from work. Says he isn't smoking or doing anything. I don't believe him but don't have evidence.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex [23 F] contacts me [26 M] on Facebook POST: We were each other's first real boyfriend and girlfriend. We broke up around 2 years ago and we had had contact before now in those two years but not quite the same way. We were together for two years and we broke up because I was a m...	Ex of two years breaks up with me. Two years go by with maybe 4 conversations between us. Contacts me out of the blue.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Excluding relatives...or bite the bullet and have them there? POST: I know there have been a few posts about this, but my situation is a bit different and I didn't want to commandeer those nice people's posts! Basically my dad's brothers have been downright assholes to him and we...	I don't want to invite some of my relatives on my dad's side, but some I do. Am I just being a bitch?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [35 M] with my ladyfriend/fwb/v-card taker? [35 F] of a month took my v-card and 4 weeks later says she loved from first sight POST: I want to thank /r/relationships, and others, for helping me out. So this lady I met took my v-card about a month ago. We got along pretty well. We...	Unemotional man worried about woman who took my virginity after she says she loves me. Don't know to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20f] can't trust my [30m] husband of 2yrs. POST: My husband of 2 years and I had a really rough first year due to his past. A lot of things I didn't know about him slowly came up through friends and drunk talks. I try to get over them seeing how it happened before we got married. ...	think my husband of 2 years is slightly cheating on me, not physical, he thinks I'm overreacting, am I ?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why do Gamestop employees get so much heat on the internet? POST: I've seen a bunch of articles, especially around the holiday season, telling people how to shop at Gamestop. A lot of the time the author of these articles make little comments like, "Just laugh at the clerk when he tries ...	Please don't hate Gamestop employees for asking you to reserve something. They're only as important to the company as their reserve and Game Informer numbers.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are fun/creative/interesting things you can do with, for, or to your roommates in college? POST: I'll go first: I bought this large chest that I painted gold. It sits in our living room as a coffee table. My roommates don't know that it opens (or at least, they never DO open it). ...	I hide my roommates' leftover beer from parties in a chest. I'm gonna reveal it at the end of the year<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going a whole week thinking most men hide their nipples behind their shirt with tape POST: Definitely did not make a new account just to post this while still face red in my bedroom. This started about a week ago, when I thought it would be "okay" to text my boyfriend asking how do ...	Got fooled by boyfriend and brother that men cover their nipples behind their shirt with tape to keep them from poking out / went a week thinking so before blurting it out at a friend's house, resulting in an embarrassing mess.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: My fiancee has to deal with her abuser or be out of her "best friend's" wedding. POST: My fiancee is having a hard time with a situation regarding her former best friend and said friend's impending wedding. Her friend has a very lax attitude and lets most things slide with very minimal ...	Fiancee used to be friends with bride, abusive ex is in wedding party and fiancee doesn't wanna deal with it, and feels the wedding invite is based on anything but a current friendship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [m19] might have missed the last chance to ask a girl [F18] out POST: OK... don't know if this is the right place to put this but anyway. I have been volunteering for that last month where i met this girl; she was fantastic she's funny, kind, cute although a bit short :) all could...	Missed the chance to ask a girl out now dont know when I'll get another chance and want to know if I should just move on so I can concentrate on work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is my boss being too personally intrusive/manipulative? POST: I have been a freelance production artist/independent contractor for a year now and was offered a contractor-for-hire job at a production company that a client owns. There are only 2 employees (the CEO and the CTO/wife of CE...	A company hires me with little to no experience then buys me clothes, food, and equipment. After signing a contract, CEO begins to stalk me on facebook and twitter and making comments about my personal life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I am going on a 'fake' date with someone I want to actually date POST: I am friends with this girl I like and one of our mutual friends (lets call her Jess) is trying to set us up. Whenever Jess mentions about us two dating the girl always seems to say no (I also say no but that's ju...	I am going on a fake date with a girl I like with the intention of 'accidentally' sending pics of us together to our friend who is trying to set us up. Did I ruin my chances?<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (24) know my bf (24) has "secret" accounts. POST: Hi all, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and I know he has "secret" accounts because he has told me. The extent of it, I'm not sure. He has admitted to having more than one reddit account to look at porn. ...	Boyfriend has "secret" accounts and won't tell me about them; am I being too paranoid or could there really be an issue?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's one thing looking back you feel bad for laughing at but still laugh when you think about it. POST: Mine would be during my high school graduation after we threw our hats in the air and went crazy with silly string and were leaving the gymnasium, it was this one girl on crutches tu...	Chick with crutches eats it hard during graduation and I laughed. Feel bad for laughing but can't but continue to laugh.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My bf (33m) told his mom I (25f) am pregnant along with info I didn't want shared. POST: I had 1 abortion and a miscarriage with my boyfriend, and we are again pregnant. As unbelievable as it may be, we have had different forms of birth control fail each time and apparently get...	Boyfriend shared details of past abortion with his mom and now she's interfering with a current unplanned pregnancy. How do I handle this without offending anyone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] want to get back together with a girl I used to date [20 F], not sure if a good idea. POST: Hi, so over a year ago I went on a few dates with this girl, everything was fine, she told me that she liked me after 2 dates. But after a while she avoided any questions from me abou...	After being on dates, she didn't want to anymore. Out of nowhere she goes out again and I want her again. Don't know what to do now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/books TITLE: If my book club is any sign, there seem to be a lot of readers who score a book poorly if they dislike or don't agree with the main character or narrator, why is this? POST: I feel like a classic example of this is the disdain for Catcher in the Rye due to ultimately the disdain for the na...	How often does a disagreeable protagonist put you off to the entire book? Where do you think this negative association comes from?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I recently wrote to MSNBC's Nightly News about my opinion on their coverage of the oil spill. What's your opinion, Reddit? POST: The segment I commented about was the first 8 minutes of the [June 26th broadcast] Here is what I wrote: >The first 8 minutes of tonight's broadcast (26 Jun...	Nightly news had 8 minutes of oil spill coverage and 10 seconds of a protest movement about oil drilling. We need more stories of the latter to facilitate public demand which then stimulates political will.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] has been messaging a married man [32M]. Things have gone too far and I don't know what to do. POST: This began as we were both regular posters on a sub about fitness and we started messaging each other (initiated by him). Things started very tame, mostly discussing fitness b...	I Have been messaging a married man and I think things have gone too far and I'm not sure how to deal with it<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I once'repaired' a friend's family computer. What's a funny'repair' story you have? POST: My friend's computer was getting really slow due to all of the games him and his family had installed. I told him I'd come help make his computer faster. I was going to do a defrag, registry clean, ...	My friend's family had a completely unused hard drive, twice as big as the one in use, on their desktop.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29/F] cannot date. No, seriously. Can't. Date. POST: I am a 29-year-old woman who is at her wits' end with herself and her inability to have even the most casual of relationships with men. When I was 18, I had a ten-month relationship with a guy who was a year older. While we we...	I was a stage five clinger in my first relationship at 18, it caused him to end things, and this seems to have made me gun-shy about dating for 11 years. WTF do I do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend[22F] 3months, she really is perfect for me but I still miss my ex. I feel like a jerk. POST: I've been with my current girlfriend for three months. She's everything my ex wasn't. She's gorgeous, apologetic, doesn't expect me to pay for every little thing,...	dating wonderful girl now but I know it will end. Missing my shitty ex. Should I leave now or wait it out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [18F] deal with a breakup with SO [18M] caused by going to different colleges? POST: I guess this is a question that's been asked hundreds of times before, but I'd like some advice in general on breakups where it's neccessary out of circumstances. Me and my (ex?)SO (together...	Had to split with HS BF because college. It's been a semester and i'm still not over him (and vice versa). What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/books TITLE: I'm buying books for a charity and need some advice. POST: I am participating in a charity evant called a "Giving Tree". We have a small tree in our office and a local church comes to give us "ornaments" which has the gender, age, and 1 wish from a child in need. I found 2 tags on the tree ...	I need book suggestions for 2 15 year old boys I've never met before. I don't know their hobbies or preferences and need something that would help make them a lovely Christmas.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (M,19) and I (F,19) of 5 years have decided to consider a threesome. Opinions? POST: So my long term guy and I have been together since middle school. We are entirely comfortable with each other and our relationship, and since we are still young (I'm in college) we have ...	My boyfriend and I are considering a threesome; what does everyone think of threesomes, our relationship considered? Where would I even start?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I'm a male (23) she's a female (22). Just came back from my second date with her. Things were going so well! Then I wen't full retard. POST: Ok. So I just came back from my second date with her. I took her out to a museum which she seemed to enjoy a lot. Then afterwards, I took her o...	Things seemed like they were going well. Had a nice date going to the museum and had a long picnic. I felt I screwed it up by asking her if I could kiss her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my boyfriend [24M] of 2 years, he has no motivation to get a job after taking a year off. POST: My boyfriend of 2 years had a rough year with multiple family deaths and his previous jobs really ran him into the ground with menial compensation. I've been supportive and I...	Boyfriend took a year off work, has no motivation to get back into employment. how to I coax him into a positive perspective?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Bearded Ladies of Reddit – I need some advice POST: My wife's has asked me if I could help set up her friend on a date with one of the guys I work with– I've procrastinated quite bad, and now the time has come – but I don't want to. My wife keeps asking me why, and I just say, "I'm sti...	Single friend of my wife can't get a date as she has a lady beard - why doesn't she shave it off.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my friend(for now) [18 F] of 6 months, recently broke up, do I give her the D? POST: Should I let this girl stay at mine for 3 days at New Years? So basically there's this girl at uni who likes me a lot, and I like her a lot. We get on ridiculously well. What makes it...	Should I just let her stay? Or should I say she can't stay if she's serious about having time off? Cheers guys.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by eating an avocado POST: Happened about a year ago. Background: Every year for our birthday, our company gives employees a [lunchbox] with the company's logo as a present. I was at work, when the best time of the day came around: lunchtime! I know it's a bit namby-pamby of my part, ...	Confused my coworker's lunchbox with mine and ate his delicious avocado his wife had sent him. Now known as the The Avocado Robber of the Night and other variations.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Think I finally found someone, but what do I do now? POST: Hi Redditors: I admit this is a throw away account. Please don't hold that against me. Anyway, I've had a lot of shit happen to me in the last few years, and as a result, for better or worse, I have distanced myself ...	I'm a guy. Have had mostly sexual relationships. Really like someone for more than sex for once. Unsure what to do. Please help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How should I react to this? POST: So I have a small sap story from a very committed worker. I work hard. Not saying my job is easy. It's not; my job is very hard. I work at a corporate pizza place. It's very under staffed and often busy. I have worked there for 2 and a half years and gai...	An older employee is less experienced than me but getting the same wage, for half the work because she is friends with my manager.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: DBL - Don't be lazy POST: I have a little thing I do. It used to be that everytime I thought about doing something this little voice in my head would always think 'ugh thats so hard' or'man that's a lot of work' I was always putting things off and never accomplishing the things I want...	Whenever the voice in your head tells you something is too much work, tell it DONT BE LAZY, then just do it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [F18] boyfriend [M18] has recently shown interest in cross-dressing. Is this innocent exploration, or could this lead to problems down the road? POST: My boyfriend [M18] and I [F18] have been dating for about 7 months now. Early in the relationship he told me that he has some vari...	My boyfriend has started cross-dressing. Is this innocent exploration or could this be a sign that a traditional relationship may not be what he wants in the future?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: f[26] isn't sure why he [27] doesn't want the girlfriend/boyfriend title. POST: I (f, 26) have dated a man (27) for almost three years. Our relationship began while we were both in college/grad school. While we were together, he said we were dating, and weren't official. We had (a...	man doesn't want to be my boyfriend. Why the hell not, I am awesome, and how long should I wait before I broach the conversation again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: Having sex with me[23M] is like doing a pile of dirty dishes for her [19F] POST: Old link: TL;DR:	big blow up, almost broke up because of libido mismatch. is the dr visit going to help? what do we ask or say to the Dr.?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[27M],'s GF [24F] of a year, cheated, but told me. POST: We've been going out for just short of a year, we started going out about a month after she had moved into town. (11 months later)She took a trip to LA before she started school and ran into an old fling who she says she did...	Girlfriend warned me, cheated on me, told me, and says she still loves me and wants to stay together.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Women of Reddit: How intimately is a fight for women's rights to pro-choice legislation? POST: I am asking because I am a bit torn on the subject. My argument is not faith/religion based. I consider myself a feminist and I work in a women's rights organization. I am uncomfortable wit...	I feel that in the women's rights debate, abortion and 'pro-choice' tends to come first at the expense of a whole bunch of other massively important issues.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19/F] I'm renting in a basement and my landlord [35?/M] is doing perverted things to my laundry POST: I'm a first year university student and I live near my campus in a house, the landlord was renting rooms in the basement for cheap and the location was close to the uni so I took th...	I share a laundry room with my landlord who I suspect has been having fun with my dirty thongs and other undergarments<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm having difficulties communicating with my Girlfriend POST: Please help. I'm a Male (29) and she is a Female (23). We are both very new to relationships and opening up to people, something we were upfront about from the beginning. In a lot of ways our relationship is on a young...	Having difficulties getting my GF to communicate and share with me and am worried it will lead to her bottling things up and leaving cause we don't talk about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[27F] look rather like his [28M] ex (1 year) POST: We've been dating for a year, I love you, yadda yadda. About 3 months before we met he was living abroad as an exchange student and was dating another girl. He returned home, they broke up because she didn't want to move here. T...	I feel he's stuck in the past with an ex, he disagrees but refuses to change things to reflect his current life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Marathon training and a swollen ankle - how can I make up the training? POST: Hey /r/running, I'm currently training for my first full marathon (OBX Marathon on NOv 10th) using an adapted version of [this plan] The biggest difference is that my Tuesday runs are either tempo runs, interva...	Have now missed 3 weekends of long runs and one, going on two weeks of mid week runs. How can I change up the schedule so I can still be properly trained by my marathon?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: MA - Stupid question but what is a prenup? POST: This is a general question that has nothing to do with me personally, but I live in MA in case that matters to you :). I read a comment on another website that made me realize I'm not sure I fully understand what a prenup is. My belief...	Do couples decide how to divide things in a prenup or does it always mean you just leave with your own income? Can you explain the range/variety of arrangements you have seen in prenups?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my boyfriend [21 M] 6months, Should I be nervous about him spending time. W his ex? POST: I've been in a long distance relationship with a boy and we recently decided I should move to him. It's a big move, cross-country. I'm fine / very happy with it. When we first me...	I'm nervous about my boyfriend spending time with his EX that gave him a STD. Especially because of the big commitment I just made to him and the newness of our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] found a note in my locker from friend [17 F], please help! POST: Important parts of the note: - Say's she likes me, specifically the word "like". - Was too embarrassed to come forward herself. - Say's to "do something" if "I feel the same way". - Also says to "ignore the n...	Friend left note admitting she likes me, and I don't want to hurt her feelings but at the same time want to remain just friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend [29M] LDR of 18 months - advice to minimise the arguing please please! POST: We're not unique. I know every couple argues and I know you just have to deal with it. But good people of r/relationships, you are always full of the best advice so I'm sure some o...	Boyfriend and I are utterly in love, yet get into horrible arguments when apart for long periods, does anyone have advice on how to avoid this? Thankyou!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Mixed signals, or is he being a tease? POST: Female here. We're are both in our mid 20's, known him for about four years now. Met at a friend's Christmas function, WA area. Strong instant mutual attraction (as he admitted within a day of our meeting). He tried starting a relationsh...	known guy for a few years, haven't progressed past phone flirting. Is he still interested in dating, or just being a tease because he's used to flirting with me for so long?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [30/M]I'm almost at wits end.. POST: Hi Reddit, I'll try to condense a long story to short. First off, throwaway account. Secondly, the story that is driving a stake in my heart. I've been married for 3 years now. Physically, my wife is gorgeous. I find her attractive in ever...	reddit, is omitting part of your activities or anything of that sort lying? when did "not telling the whole truth" become something completely different than lying?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28M] have been in a relationship with my girlfriend [28F] for 8 years. I've never been in another relationship, and I'm starting to feel like I need to be alone. POST: This is the only relationship I've ever been in. We have been through a lot together and have a lot of memories a...	I'm considering ending my only (longterm) relationship to hopefully make myself happy, but it will destroy my girlfriend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (23M) have virtually no dating experience, went on several dates with someone (27F) but don't know how to advance POST: Background: Prior to this I haven't really been on a true date. Hooked up with some girls in college but was in love with my best friend. I've worked on getting...	I have virtually no dating/relationship experience, met a girl I think I like and went on two dates with her. Not sure what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Just venting - here is how you DON'T manage volunteers POST: If I volunteer for a specific task during a specific time-frame then I really don't fucking appreciate being emailed at the last minute being told "oh by the way, we signed you up for this other thing too". Granted I could just say...	Don't randomly sign volunteers up for things at the last minute without asking them first, you're really just screwing your organization over by alienating a supporter.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How to break off a friendship as an adult? [20sFs&Ms] POST: My boyfriend and I are part of a friend group that has grown over time. We all used to hang out on a weekly basis at my boyfriend and my place. Recently one friend invited a new person, Julie. Julie seemed nice enoug...	One of the people in our friend group is someone we don't want to be friends with anymore. How to break it off with her in an adult manner without alienating the rest of the group, or being dicks?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Need help digging myself out of a hole, please. POST: Reddit, I'm in a situation and I need some advice: An ex is coming into town and asked me if I wanted to grab coffee tomorrow, and I agreed not really thinking. Now, I want to be honest and open with these kinds of situations with my ...	casual plans with ex could potentially harm relationship with current SO, so to avoid any catastrophe, I need a good excuse to break plans.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24 M] relationship with GF [23 F] is good but I am left wanting more out of the relationship. Not sure what to do. POST: First off, she is in love with me. She would marry me if I were to ask (not that I would ask even remotely soon). She is the epitome of what I imagine a loving...	Have a pretty good relationship with the GF. Wish she would show me more love. Am left wanting more out of the relationship. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [33M] think my GF [31F] of 2 years is hiding that she is always keeping a bunch of guys in reserve. POST: I don't think that she is actually cheating on me, but the other day I happened to see a text message (left her phone unlocked on a table when she went to the bathroom - it was...	Accidentally saw some texts between girlfriend and a guy, contact camouflaged with name of a girlfriend. Situation messing with my head.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] still lover her [17F] but I dont think I like her... POST: Ive been dating my girlfriend for over 6 months. Lately I don't enjoy spending time with her, nothings changed between us that would lead to this. I don't look forward to seeing her at school or staying over her house...	I think I still love my girlfriend but I don't enjoy spending time with her, I feel like this may only be because I'm depressed though.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my roommate [19F], she is always home and I am not getting any personal time. POST: I share an apartment with my roommate, Jessica, the person I share a room with, and another girl, Molly, who has her own room in the apartment. I am in class for at least 4 hours each d...	Roommate is always home so I never get quiet time to relax and be alone and I can never be alone with my LDR SO over Skype. Help is appreciated!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my co-worker [22 F] It's been a couple of months and I have a crush on her[q POST: Hey guys! some help here! I've started working a couple of months ago in this institute, and there are 2 buildings apart from each other, both from the same company I work for. I'm in on...	She has a boyfriend. Do I keep making interaction with her, keep talking o trying to make her laugh? what happens if I get hurt doing those things?.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19/m] She [19/f] doesn't enjoy sex due to a 'rough' past, yet will do things like show up in only lingerie? POST: Their girlfriend does not enjoy sex. She'll always be seductive and whatnot to lead up to having sex, she does enjoy fore-play and all, but during actual penetrative sex...	GF will be supposedly super interested in pursuing sex right up until the point where it's about to happen, every single time. What's the deal?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl (16) told me (16) that she likes me(16) but friend say she doesnt date POST: We've known each other for 3 years and ive liked her since day one. Her sister told me when we first met that the girl liked me. I didn't persue in fear of rejection. The girl told me last week that she...	known girl for 3 years girl likes me i like girl. Her friend tells me that the girl wouldnt date becuase of religion. What do i do??!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Don't know what I'm feeling, help! POST: Okay so I'm at a bit of a dilemma with my girlfriend (17) (I'm 16) who I've been with for about 3 months now. So we were on my bed cuddling with each other just talking about stuff when we get talking about the previous summer. Now I'd a...	Girlfriend talked about all the boys she made out with last holidays when we weren't together and it gave me a horrible feeling in my stomach, seems irrational for me to feel like that. wondering why. Any input is greatly appreciated :)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: i've (20F) been messing around with my 27m roommate/friend on and off for about a year, and he's in a relationship. I sort of caused a temporary breakup, and I just feel so lost. POST: My friend and I hit it off the day we met, but just never dated because we valued our friendship to...	rpommates gf found out he's cheating with me, denies it, it's still going on and i feel weird<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by ignoring the due date of a classwork POST: I'm taking this "Environmental Education" course at college and since day one, the teacher said the most of the points of the class were going to be earned by writing a text containing stuff about pollution, ecology, and environmental topics....	I had a classwork to do, wasn't aware when the real due date was, got drunk the night before due date, got text from a friend saying it was due the next day, didn't sleep finishing the work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Why do I keep getting sick? POST: Hi! I am a 29 yo caucasian female, 5'3", ~130 lbs. In the past 6 months, I have gotten the same type of cold about 1 time each month. It happens in this order: 1. sore through 2. sneezing and a runny nose 3. sinus congestion 4. tickle in my throat 5. m...	I am getting sick 1 time each month for the past 6 months. What is going on and how can I stop this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Neighbor is blocking my mine (and others) mailboxes. Is it legal POST: So my neighbor stopped my car the other day asking if I have been receiving my mail regularly. I thought I had been but I have noticed days where I received nothing and then one day I got a ton more than usual. She to...	Neighbor is a dick and mail person is lazy. I am not getting mail because of it. Also from Oregon if that helps.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to be a nice person and ended up hitting a baby POST: So it was Saturday night, I pulled into the Target parking lot with my girlfriend. I get out of the car and start walking towards the Target entrance. A was woman carrying a child and pushing her cart was struggling as she c...	I tried being a nice person, I picked something up for a lady that dropped something, when putting it back into her cart I hit her baby that was in the cart. I didnt realize I hit her baby until my girlfriend told me<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me (20F) Confused about why my boyfriend of 2 years (27M) wont invite me to family events POST: So I have been dating a guy in his mid twenties for about 2 years now, he is sweet and seems like he has genuine intentions. I got upset the first time he went to a family gathering ...	boyfriend didn't invite me to wedding, gathering, holiday parties. Told him about feelings, he did not invite me again this thanksgiving<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my EX GF [21 F] 3 yrs together, 4 months apart. General break up question POST: My EX and I were together 3 yrs, broke up 4 months ago. We had a fantastic relationship. She ended up emotionally cheating and leaving me for him because LDR (dont try that at home, kids) ...	Do people always say "dont worry she'll regret this" post break up to make the dumpe feel better?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 22f with my boyfriend 25 for a little over a year need some advice POST: I've been with my bf for around 15 months. About 6 months ago, I moved an hour further away from my family to move in with him and we have a nice, quiet life together. Lately, though, I've been feeling detached ...	Feeling emotionally detached and guilty for being critical. Not sure how to make things better/stronger or when to say we're just too different to work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by missing an e-mail POST: I'm usually on top of all my college e-mails but if I'm making this post that probably means I messed up. Turns out I missed an e-mail from one of my professors telling me that he needed a file or else I would receive a 0 for my final. This was from 9 days ag...	e-mail didn't go through, missed e-mail from 9 days ago asking for file, most likely failed final and will have to take class again<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [20 F], is fine with other guys calling her "baby", "babe", and other pet names POST: For a while now, I've felt fairly uncomfortable about something in my relationship. My girlfriend has a lot of guy friends, which is fine by me, but a lot of them still ...	Girlfriend has a lot of guy friends, many of them flirt. Not sure if I should ask her to tell them to stop or if this is just something I'm being silly about.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Close friend [F25] became distant since she got a BF [27M] and now messaging me [F27] randomly POST: So i was good friends with this girl and she started dating this guy last spring which is all cool. He was a nice guy too. She went away for the summer out of town and cheated on him ...	friend got a bf and cheated on him and told me but then became distant and never reached out, now 7 months later is asking me why im distant without acknowledging her part.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Girlfriend [20 F] of 6+ years recently broke up with me [20 M] and I just want her back. POST: As the title says my long time girlfriend and I just broke up. We're both college juniors and this happened one of the first days we got here. To give you some context we had been great...	My long time girlfriend broke up with me and I can't cut her out of my life completely. I just want her back and need helping figuring out what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (23f) boyfriend (23m) of just over a year still has OKCupid on his phone and I saw that he logged in only a couple of days ago. POST: I need some advice because I've been stressing out about what to do since I found out this morning. Backstory: Boyfriend and I were together for a...	On/off boyfriend and I have recently been back together for 2 months. Saw that he logged into OkCupid 4 days ago. Need to know if I should get him to show me his account messages.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Moral Dilemma. POST: hey reddit...need some advice. kind of a long story with my current roommate. so i work with him at a private club i am a member of, we both lifeguard there, and a couple of weeks ago i found out he was charging on my account at the club (it charges you at the end of...	my roommate used an account to basically steal from me, probably going to get him fired...but need a way out of lease<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] going down the same path as every relationship with someone im seeing [22 F]. What's wrong with me? POST: All my relationships do not last past 2 months, because of me. I 'think' i like someone, i get on with them, but the moment commitment is needed i freak. I have serious...	My attitude towards relationships are bipolar rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19M] with my Long Distance Girlfriend [19F] of 5 months. I'm having trust issues while I'm really busy. POST: Here's a little backstory - I'm currently in College with a part time job working on campus (Don't want to say too much info sorry) and I'm insanely busy, I don't have to...	Girlfriends talking/spending a lot of time watching shows with a friend while I'm busy at class, this is making me feel bad because of insecurities, am I in the wrong here?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my boyfriend [20M] for a year+, Am I too clingy? -and if so, how do I remedy this? POST: During the school year, we spend a lot of time with each other (i.e. studying in the same room, hanging out with friends, etc.) so I don't really feel too needy and everything's goo...	Boyfriend doesn't value time together over breaks as much as I do, which makes me feel pretty lonely. How do I fix this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my Girlfriend [23 F] - 2 Years - Haven't had sex in months. POST: We've been dating for almost two years now. Our sex life was UNREAL for both of us the first year or so, then it kind of dropped off a bit, as it usually does as a relationship progresses. But lately it'...	We're truly in love, sex life used to be 100% top notch, I was manically depressed due to family issues, she supported me and now we can't get back into regular sex.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24/F] with my boyfriend [26/M] 1.5 yrs, am I making this a bigger deal than it is? Possibly NSFW. POST: I've known my boyfriend for 4 years now & we've been dating for a year & a half. We've had our ups & downs, but we've been able to work through them together; he's my best frie...	Boyfriend has been looking at personal ads on Craigslist after a threesome conversation a few months ago. We decided against it. What gives?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I stay or should I go? POST: I'm a 28/F and have been dating "J" – 30/M – for 3 months. He's a fantastic guy. He's well-versed, genuine, funny and I'm very comfortable (both inside and out) around him. However, in our 3 months of dating, he has yet to come over to my house (...	Boyfriend is showing little effort in the relationship and though I want to be with him, putting in all the effort is becoming mentally/emotionally draining.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24F] boyfriend [26M] really likes his alone time POST: My boyfriend Jared and I have been together for eight months. Things have been going really well with us for the most part, except for one thing. Jared is REALLY introverted. At first, I thought it was a blessing. I've always...	My boyfriend is so introverted that he needs to be by himself multiple days a week. He'll go days without trying to even see me. It's starting to hurt my feelings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [20] break-up a once-in-a-lifetime partner [21] of two years, when they are perfect? POST: I feel awful for doing this. The person I'm dating right now is absolutely wonderful - truly, a beacon of light. Our relationship of two years has been absolutely stellar. On top of t...	Literal perfect partner, a saint. The spark is gone. I need to end it. I'm too scared to do so. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Getting Girlfriend Reddit for Christmas, Need suggestions for Subreddits… POST: To Clarify: I've been pestering my girlfriend about getting on Reddit for weeks, and she finally said that when I get home from school for winter break, she'd get on with me. I want to surprise her with an acc...	I'm starting my girlfriend a Reddit account and need good subreddits to populate her front page! Help me on my noble quest!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by slapping selfie stick into my hand POST: This happened about month and a half ago when I was on a trip to Las Vegas with my girlfriend. When we arrived, we checked into the hotel and started to walk down the strip. Then in front of Bellagio hotel (where the huge fountains are), my gir...	In Vegas, selfie stick got stuck. Palm slapped at the bottom and plastic broke off and the rod dug into my hand. Luckily, wound healed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [23M] 3 years, both unsure of our relationship and now the ball's in my court POST: The past few nights my long-distance boyfriend and I have been talking about doubts we have in the relationship. From this, we've determined that we're not sure if we're in ...	Is it necessary to have a lot of things in common with your SO? How do you know that you're happy in a relationship because of who it's with, not just because you have someone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not listening during an award ceremony POST: This happened a few hours ago. So today was our award presentation day and I was getting a few awards. I didn't receive a text, email or letter saying I was getting any sort of award but I had the idea I was going to get an award. I he...	Me and my friends thought I got another award so i walked up and it wasnt mine. Had to walk back in front of 500+ students and parents in a formal assembly.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (26M) think my girlfriend(24F) is using snapchat for things.. POST: I've been with my girl for just over three years. We've been living together and overall things have been decent. About the normal ups and downs of any relationship. Until lately. I noticed about a week ago that s...	Girlfriend of 3+ years just started acting shady with her phone. Saw a cute text from a guy. Went through her phone (I know, I know) and found suspicious behaviors.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Adopted a new cat and unable to pick her up to sync with the microchip flap. POST: Hi there, we adopted a new cat and we was told it was going to be a challenge because she takes time to get used to people and isn't the type to want to be stroked a lot. She is the opposite of what the centre ...	unable to pick up or even attempt picking up the cat to get her to the catflap to sync her microchip and doesn't even show any interest in going outside.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm going to have 19 girls at my apartment this Friday, but I cannot be here. How can I make this interesting? POST: I am a male in college. This Friday, a female friend of mine, who is pledging for a sorority, is going to host a sorority event with about 19 college girls at my place. ...	Many girls are coming to our apartment, we cannot be there to meet them, but we want to meet some, how do we decorate our apartment so that they'll be interested in us without meeting us?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: How should I ask for a raise? POST: I've been employed here for nearly a year and like it but the pay is not enough. I can pay bills but When I was hired I felt they lowballed the offer, i countered and they accepted. That being said i still feel it is too low for a few reasons. First,...	My boss is lazy, i pick up his slack, but really only report directly to him. How/when do i go about asking for a raise?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [33m] wife [34f] of 7 years complains about being sick or in pain every other day and I'm getting fed up. POST: I'll keep this short. Throwaway because a couple of friends know my other reddit account. For as long as I've known her, my wife has been in poor health. She has lupus,...	Wife suffers from multiple diagnosed ailments and complains about pain constantly, but refuses to see doctors or take meds for them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Neighbor in need POST: Our neighbors are having to move out because the husband has Alzheimer disease and their house has to be gutted. They have been totally nice to us for 7 years and I feel horrible they are having to be completely uprooted like this. The wife left us a note pleading for...	neighbor offering $100 month to care for cat, desperate. How can I convince my house to do it and make sure new cat gets along with my cat?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Broke up before college, the ex is back in town and wants to see me. POST: We had been dating for a year and a half in high school, and I broke it off with her soon before she left for college. We both lived in the same city, I'm going to college in the city, she went off to pr...	Broke up with an OAG, she's coming back to town, wants to see me, how do I manage this situation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [28 M] tell my ex of one year [24 F] that I still love her POST: I was with her (long distance) for two years. Things started to collapse a bit due to the distance, the spark we once had was lost, things started to descend into routine, and eventually she broke up with me. I ca...	Broke up, stayed as friends, went on holiday, had a perfect time together. But she's seeing someone else. Do I say anything?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice to not lead a girl on who I think would be a great friend. POST: I am a male (29m) with very little success in the dating world. As I get older I do not met many new people and my social circle has gotten smaller as friends get married or move. This had resulted in me being a ...	Met a girl online. I feel like she would be a better friend than romantic partner. I do not want to lead her on, but enjoy hanging out and would continue to if it did not hurt her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] matched with my friend [19F] I already knew on Tinder. What do? POST: I'm a pretty good rock climber. Had a climber friend introduce me to this really cute climber girl one day. A couple weeks later I ran into her again at the climbing gym and we talked a bunch and she added ...	Matched with someone I already knew (although not well) on Tinder, looking for advice on how to get things moving with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23M] with [22F] feel unappreciated in our almost year relationship. POST: Been together with my wonderful girl for almost a year now, before it didnt bother me and i rarely noticed it but lately especially with something like valentines coming up i feel like im the one who puts al...	I plan all dates, i suprise visit her, and do lots of cutsy stuff for her but never get anything back like that, how do i bring it up to her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[20m] girlfriend[20f] is lying and I caught her. Will she cheat? POST: My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 3.5 months. When we first started hanging out, she had a boyfriend. I had no intention of stealing her away from. At the beginning, all I really wanted w...	Girlfriend is lying. She has cheated before. Read her facebook (because I'm white trash) And saw a conversation of what the beginning of our relationship looked like when she had a boyfriend, with another dude.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by breaking gf's new contacts POST: So this happened today, (bonus points?) And I'm not too proud of it. To start things off my gf and I were cuddling up watching the tele, kissing, and all that jazz. She had been over for about 4 hours, and we were just about to end the night when she ...	poked a contact that wanted to be a wall climbing spiderman, ended up breaking it and now my gf is pissed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think my boyfriend [M22] is lying to me[F20] about smoking but I have no evidence other than the taste of his mouth. POST: Hello reddit. Made a throwaway. So my boyfriend(22M), of 3 on and off years with me (20F), has quit smoking for about 10 months now. However when he goes to wo...	boyfriend's mouth tastes and smells like tobacco sometimes after coming home from work. Says he isn't smoking or doing anything. I don't believe him but don't have evidence.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex [23 F] contacts me [26 M] on Facebook POST: We were each other's first real boyfriend and girlfriend. We broke up around 2 years ago and we had had contact before now in those two years but not quite the same way. We were together for two years and we broke up because I was a m...	Ex of two years breaks up with me. Two years go by with maybe 4 conversations between us. Contacts me out of the blue.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Excluding relatives...or bite the bullet and have them there? POST: I know there have been a few posts about this, but my situation is a bit different and I didn't want to commandeer those nice people's posts! Basically my dad's brothers have been downright assholes to him and we...	I don't want to invite some of my relatives on my dad's side, but some I do. Am I just being a bitch?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [35 M] with my ladyfriend/fwb/v-card taker? [35 F] of a month took my v-card and 4 weeks later says she loved from first sight POST: I want to thank /r/relationships, and others, for helping me out. So this lady I met took my v-card about a month ago. We got along pretty well. We...	Unemotional man worried about woman who took my virginity after she says she loves me. Don't know to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20f] can't trust my [30m] husband of 2yrs. POST: My husband of 2 years and I had a really rough first year due to his past. A lot of things I didn't know about him slowly came up through friends and drunk talks. I try to get over them seeing how it happened before we got married. ...	think my husband of 2 years is slightly cheating on me, not physical, he thinks I'm overreacting, am I ?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why do Gamestop employees get so much heat on the internet? POST: I've seen a bunch of articles, especially around the holiday season, telling people how to shop at Gamestop. A lot of the time the author of these articles make little comments like, "Just laugh at the clerk when he tries ...	Please don't hate Gamestop employees for asking you to reserve something. They're only as important to the company as their reserve and Game Informer numbers.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are fun/creative/interesting things you can do with, for, or to your roommates in college? POST: I'll go first: I bought this large chest that I painted gold. It sits in our living room as a coffee table. My roommates don't know that it opens (or at least, they never DO open it). ...	I hide my roommates' leftover beer from parties in a chest. I'm gonna reveal it at the end of the year<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going a whole week thinking most men hide their nipples behind their shirt with tape POST: Definitely did not make a new account just to post this while still face red in my bedroom. This started about a week ago, when I thought it would be "okay" to text my boyfriend asking how do ...	Got fooled by boyfriend and brother that men cover their nipples behind their shirt with tape to keep them from poking out / went a week thinking so before blurting it out at a friend's house, resulting in an embarrassing mess.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: My fiancee has to deal with her abuser or be out of her "best friend's" wedding. POST: My fiancee is having a hard time with a situation regarding her former best friend and said friend's impending wedding. Her friend has a very lax attitude and lets most things slide with very minimal ...	Fiancee used to be friends with bride, abusive ex is in wedding party and fiancee doesn't wanna deal with it, and feels the wedding invite is based on anything but a current friendship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [m19] might have missed the last chance to ask a girl [F18] out POST: OK... don't know if this is the right place to put this but anyway. I have been volunteering for that last month where i met this girl; she was fantastic she's funny, kind, cute although a bit short :) all could...	Missed the chance to ask a girl out now dont know when I'll get another chance and want to know if I should just move on so I can concentrate on work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is my boss being too personally intrusive/manipulative? POST: I have been a freelance production artist/independent contractor for a year now and was offered a contractor-for-hire job at a production company that a client owns. There are only 2 employees (the CEO and the CTO/wife of CE...	A company hires me with little to no experience then buys me clothes, food, and equipment. After signing a contract, CEO begins to stalk me on facebook and twitter and making comments about my personal life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I am going on a 'fake' date with someone I want to actually date POST: I am friends with this girl I like and one of our mutual friends (lets call her Jess) is trying to set us up. Whenever Jess mentions about us two dating the girl always seems to say no (I also say no but that's ju...	I am going on a fake date with a girl I like with the intention of 'accidentally' sending pics of us together to our friend who is trying to set us up. Did I ruin my chances?<\|endoftext\|>