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SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Is a handmade gift inappropriate? Help! POST: The gift is not for the happy couple, it's for the mother of the groom. My best friend is having her wedding at the end of October, and it's a "destination" wedding of sorts. It will be in California, and we both live in different sta...	best friends MIL was incredibly gracious and paid for my accommodations for the wedding. Want to show my thanks with gift; not sure of handmade is thoughtful or tacky in this situation!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I think he isn't over his ex POST: Ok, I'm [23/f], and I met this guy [25/m] about 2 months ago. We've been hanging out almost everyday. We don't really run out of things to say. I enjoy his company a lot, BUT..... almost every time I've hang out with him he has worked somethin...	Should I just tell my head to shut the f up, and just enjoy this new relationship? Or am I just the rebound, and I should I get out before I get hurt? Please help reddit<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Having second thought about engagement. Please help. POST: I am 26(m) she's 25(f). Been engaged for a few months. She has two siblings and lives with her mother. Her mother and her have a toxic relationship and I'm being put in the middle of it sometimes to put out the fires that e...	I am having second thoughts about my engagement due to being too much of a caregiver/father figure and her family is messed up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28f] boyfriend [28m] of 1 year has tourettes/tics and it's affecting my feelings towards him. POST: First of all, I feel terrible about this. I am fully aware that his tics are not within his control. I am writing here because I want help in being okay with the constant movement ...	Boyfriend's tourettes is making me not want to be around him. I want t change but don't know how.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think something is fishy with my boyfriend :S POST: I'm 21 almost 22, he is 23. We have been in a relationship for approx 6months. When we were first dating.. I should have (now done like within the 1st month of dating) broken all contact with any hookups (kissing, sex, people who ...	Boyfriend has a previous friend (whom he slept with) & girl he previous dated and keeps in contact every so often.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 M] don't know what to do with my [60 F] mother. POST: Hey /r/relationships, I'm having an issue with my mom and I'm not sure how to handle it. Lately, my mom has been talking about what happens when my father dies. It's gotten to the point where it is the opening line in almo...	My mother constantly talks about my father dying, and I don't know how to her talking about it, or how to handle it if it actually happens.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: A friend [20,f] of mine [23,m] is showing strong interest in me even while her boyfriend is present. What might she feel? POST: I met a girl about half a year ago and, despite being a little bit shy, since that moment she was very flirty to me. She always says that it's a joy for her...	She's cuddling with him but looks at me. When he's not present, we're cuddling like I never did before. She's in love with him. Wait... What?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] love interest and best friend [22F] is losing sleep/happiness over her psycho of an ex. POST: My close female friend of 6 months (I'd say we're more than friends, she probably would aswell) broke up with her ex about a month ago. He's still hounding her with 50+ missed calls...	Very close female friend's ex is trying to manipulate her into giving him time to talk to her. It's affecting her really badly which is in turn affecting our friendship. How do I help her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Going freelance to full-time... how much should I ask for? POST: I'm a freelance web designer/developer. Business has been pretty damn steady for the last year and a half, and I'm starting to branch out into sub-contracting to bring in additional income. My current situation: a regular clien...	If a freelance client wants to hire you as a full-time employee, how should your employee salary compare to your freelance rate?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [22M] bring flowers to my ex-gf's [21F] house since she was in the hospital? POST: To make things simple, we dated for almost 4 years now. We spent almost every day together. We were a very big part of each other's lives. I was very stubborn with her, and every time we had...	Should I bring my ex gf flowers to her house since she was in the hospital with a minor injury? Things haven't been great lately..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [28M] have told my girlfriend [29F] that I want to take her last name when we get married, but she does not feel good about the idea. POST: Nine months ago, my girlfriend proposed to me while we were at a music festival. It was a fantastic moment for the both of us and we hav...	I have told my girlfriend that I want to take her last name when we get married, but she is not sure about the idea, any advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: In response to "typing your link into the search bar before making a new post...": POST: Hey guys, so this is the problem I've run into. I ALWAYS check if my link is already posted before I decide to make my own post about it. My friend just shared a "Peter Chao" youtube video with me on th...	I want to give [this video] another chance and give those nine redditors who downvoted it without saying a word a big "fuck you."<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I get paid crap but really enjoy my job. What should I do? POST: I got a degree in biology this past May. My GPA was just below a 3.5 do to a crappy freshman year. I'm pretty damn smart but am a classic procrastinator. I really like science, but I have a hard time figuring out specifical...	I'm probably overqualified for my job, make very little money, but really enjoy working here. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [26M] have the right to be upset with my girlfriend [23F] late period, but still drinking POST: My girlfriend went to Colorado with her friends to surprise her friend who just got engaged. My girlfriend's period is over 2 weeks late now and i told her to take a pregnancy test b...	My girlfriend's period is 2 weeks late and she had a weekend of binge drinking. Do i have the right to be upset with her irresponsible behavior?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by thinking my coworker was talking about bees, not babies. POST: To start, I work at a Factory Store Doughnut Shop. That means we measure, mix, cut, fry, glaze and decorate doughnuts, and we have a giant machine that is on display while we use it. Anyways, as I was walking from the ma...	I made my coworker yell about how she is extremely pro-chioce across the store and in front of a customer. I seemed more embarrassed than she was.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: How can I help my dog develop healthy eating habits? POST: A little background: I adopted Oliver from the local shelter on September 18th. He is a Shiba Inu mix. Originally, the shelter staff thought he was around two years old, but the vet thinks he may be a little older than that. When I b...	My dogs has reverted to snubbing his food and seems to only want to eat from my hand. I'd like him to become more independent and eat on his own.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/f] can't get over ex [22/m] POST: We were together just under a year when we broke up last May. The relationship had been great, we never fought and there were no signs of trouble (that I was aware of at least). The break up caught me by surprise, and his reasons were that ...	I haven't been able to get any space from my ex after he dumped me 8 months ago and I don't know if I should confront him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU my boyfriend's favorite soup POST: So the FU itself happened a few weeks ago, but we only found out that there even was a FU about two hours ago. Over the holidays my boyfriend caught a nasty case of the flu, so he had to stay home while I left to visit my family for a few days. Being t...	Tried taking care of my boyfriend with his favorite soup when he was sick, now he can probably never eat or smell it again without wanting to throw up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (21/M) want to get back with my crush (22/f) POST: There was this international student at my college that I was "talking" to and we were hanging out alot. We went on a couple dates and she said she liked me but wanted to take it slow. She was an innocent girl so I didn't mind. H...	I was needy in relationship, she ended it because of that. I want her bacj but don't want to seem desperate and have her be pushed away more<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: How dumb of me is it to choose social life over academic quality when choosing a college? POST: I'm a high school senior, and I've narrowed down my college choices to UCLA, USC (SoCal, not South Carolina), and Georgia Tech. I want an urban surrounding and a school spirit that goes wild for...	I wanna go to a party school in SoCal but I'm scared that it might be really dumb of me to choose a school based on its social aspects even though another school is far superior in academics. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [21/m] am in a relationship with [21/f] and love her, but have arranged to cheat POST: I have been in a relationship with my gf for over a year now, and all has been wonderful. It's the first relationship for the both of us, and we have fallen pretty hard for each other. We t...	In a relationship with a girl I love very much for over a year. Have made arrangements to cheat that can be completely avoided if I choose to do so. Not sure if my actions so far are already extremely damaging to the relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[22F] found websites my boyfriend[25M] is using my pictures to get naked pictures of other girls, I have no where to go, what do I do? POST: Hey everyone, thanks in advance for the advice. Here's a little history, I've been dating him for 2 years now. I moved from the west coast to...	! I[22F] found websites my boyfriend[25M] is using my pictures to get naked pictures of other girls, I have no where to go, what do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: No horrible relationship question. Just a general question about... "love" POST: Been dating a guy for 2.5 years, we both our in our mid 20s & im the girlfriend. Ive never said I love you, wither it be to friends, faimly, or to any guy. I dont even say it in jest too much. No Ive ne...	Never said "love" to anyone, raped/molested numerous times but over it, in a great relationship, wondering if never saying I love you is normal I guess.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Im [16/m] and she's [17/f]. I need some advice. How do I get her to break it off? POST: It all started when I was dating this other girl in my class. For some very good reasons she broke up with me. I felt hurt and very insecure. And after a couple of days i started talking to ...	got together, she forces me to still go out with her and threatens me that she will get other people to hurt me. How to make her break up with me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [25F] says she'd give up ANYTHING important to her, if I [25M] didn't think it was good for her, and expects the same from me. How do I make her understand that this isn't healthy? Or, is it? POST: This is hard to explain... Last month we were on a walk and she said she didn...	My wife says she'd give up almost anything important to her, if I didn't think it was good for her, and expects the same from me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unplanned pregnancy. Abortion. I [22m] want. She [22f] doesn't. Anything I can do to change her mind? POST: requirements: Me, 22m, FightingI GF, 22f, Sarah Together since March 2010 - 2.5 years Sarah and I have been dating for 2+ years and we are very close and in a happy rel...	Girlfriend is pregnant. I would prefer an abortion. She isn't really feeling the same way. Anything I can say or do to get her to see the light?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F24] burn with revenge for my ex-boyfriend [M24] after years of betrayal and manipulation POST: My ex-boyfriend [M24] cheated on me [F24] for the 4 years we were together with chatroom sex, strip clubs and prostitutes. In that time we broke up and then got back together after he c...	I burn with revenge against my ex's new relationship after years of being manipulated and lied to. Help me see sense!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Love Triangle Advice? I like her, and she likes me, but also likes her ex? POST: I have been friends with this girl for 2-3 years. We are both roughly the same age. I'm a 19 year old male and she's 17 as of now. And since we met we considered ourselves very close, if not, best ...	me and Alice become close friends. Feelings begin to develop. Alice hooks up with best friend. Three years later Alice likes me and is conflicted on who to like. what do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Sexted with my [25/M] boyfriend and exchanged explicit photos, woke up feeling disgusted with him and myself [23/F] POST: So yeah, me and my long-distance boyfriend of about 4 months were both feeling a little bit frisky and started sexting a bit. We got really into it and he sent me...	Boyfriend and I sexted and exchanged explicit photos, woke up feeling disgusted both at myself and with him. Don't know what to do now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by faking I was sick so I didn't gave to go to school. POST: As 99% of the posts here, this didn't happen today but, 4/5 years ago. I was chilling in my bed before going to school and I thought to myself "You know what I can't be arsed to go in today". So as always I call my mum so she ...	Tried to skip school,was forced into going to the doctor, had to piss in a container and prescribe with stomach flu. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Friend [18/F] cheated on her SO[18/M] while he was at basic training. She insists that she send him a letter instead of telling him in person. POST: My friend of a few years just confided in me that she has cheated on her boyfriend (on and off for about two years?) with someone he kn...	Friend cheated on SO while he was at basic training. Wants to send a letter telling him instead of telling him in person. Became angry when I didn't throw a pity party with her for cheating.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19f] Trying to figure out if he [20] wants to be in a relationship with me POST: Back in December, I met this guy at a mutual friend's party. We got to talking, got pretty drunk and ended up making out. This went on at every party until the middle of February when we finally slept t...	Hooked up with a guy I've known for 4 months. We've hung out since then, but nothing physical has happened between us<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So I'm about to purchase health insurance for the first time. I have a few questions about Obamacare and spousal coverage. POST: Hey Reddit, So I recently got a new job, that offers a worthwhile health insurance program in which I plan on enrolling. I am 26, and am no longer covered on ...	I'm 26, buying health insurance through work. Does my 23 year old wife have to be put on my plan, or can she stay on her parents until the age of 26?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26M] have been with my girlfriend [25F] for just a couple months, but I'm really unsure what I actually feel for her. What kind of questions can I ask myself to better understand what I feel? POST: Some family friends introduced me to their niece back in September. We went out for...	I might want to break up with my gf but don't know why. How can I figure out why I feel the way I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, help me out with my study habits? I'm one of those kids who breezed through advanced high school courses & is now stuck in college pursuing a difficult major while dealing with ADD & anxiety. POST: Yep so, I'm getting pretty stuck in college. I'm an ecological Biology major t...	I am poopy & fail hard classes. Struggling with ADD, anxiety, & poor study habits. How do I get good grades?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Need Help! In a Fuzzy Rental situation!!!! POST: Hello Reddit. I live in the state of Florida. Currently my girlfriend and I live in an RV in her Fathers back yard. We are originally from Ohio, and he offered us the RV rent free to come and live down here and find a place. We have had ...	I need help to fight against my (father) for the rent I should legally not owe him. Can someone please help me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25/m/straight) am like 95% sure that a new friend of mine (19/m) is gay and either doesn't know/is in denial, and has a crush on me. POST: Okay so in brief... • He has a girlfriend who he started dating relatively recently. They are almost never seen together. When in the same pl...	new friend is probably gay, probably doesn't know it, probably into me, I don't know how to address it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Job offer from "prepackaged" chapter 11? POST: I recently received a job offer from an international incorporation that is currently in chapter 11, packaged at 90 days. They've experience hard losses over the last few years, and currently are restructuring the company from bottom to top. ...	Company in Prepackaged Chapter 11 offering me a better paying job (by 18%), but is in massive restructure. Worth the risk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: (19M) biggest crush of my life, not sure she's into me POST: My story is quite simple, I broke up with my ex about 3 weeks ago, 2 weeks ago I met a girl. She's the biggest crush I've ever had in my life, she's not perfect at all, however Iike her imperfections and I feel ALOT for...	I really like this girl I met more than even any previous girlfriend. I get mixed signals. Contribute to my happiness by giving me an opinion<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking TITLE: r/ Cooking, help me win Come Dine With Me (flat edition)! POST: Hi, I am an average cook and my flat has decided to replicate the 'Come Dine With Me' TV show. There is four of us in our flat and I have to cook the first week (this Sunday). I have to use three random delegated ingredient...	Suggest ideas/recipes for the best meal possible so that I can beat my chef flatmates with Sun-dried tomato, Salmon and Mozzarella.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21f) have been falling for my best friend (m) but he is 34 years older than me! POST: All my life I've said that age is just a number. I've known him for a year and a half. We work together, and spend a lot of time with each other. He always makes me laugh and we joke about dating...	I feel like I have found someone that I am connected to on a higher level, but he's 34 years older than me. I just don't want my family to freak out, and have it spoil our fun!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf [f19] of 5 years is contemplating breaking up with me [m19] because I want to wait 1-2 more years until our junior or senior year of college to get engaged. POST: We have talked about it multiple times what my plan for our engagement is. I want to become engaged in our junior o...	My girlfriend is contemplating breaking up with me because I don't want to get engaged at 19. She has has some recent family issues that could be affecting her judgement. Please help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [23 F] of six months, First Relationship, spark lost or communication issues? POST: Okay, hi reddit longtime lurker first time poster so here goes. A little background info, I'm 22 with almost no dating experience because I'm kinda dense when it comes to picking...	First relationship, good communication turns bad, is it in of need of duct tape or should I find an exact o knife?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [19/M] have been dating this girl [19/F] for 3 years and have known her for 9 years and can't bring myself to leave her. POST: I know, I have no balls, but I love who I am around her and when we aren't arguing (which happens ALL the time because she has trust issues regarding...	Not in love anymore with my best friend, can't imagine life without her, but can't deal with the relationship anymore<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [22 M] let my co worker/friend [22 F] know that I like her? POST: Don't know if this is the right spot or not but here goes. I am absolutely crazy about my co worker, not to sound cliche but I think about her all the time. We go out and have drinks every once in a while, we ...	Like my Co Worker, don't know how to go about finding out if she likes me or if I should let her know how I feel.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend [24M] 18months, whenever I bring up an issue, just apologises and won't talk about it POST: Apologies are great, and more than some get, I get it. However, I have a reeeeeeally hard time expressing myself so if I'm bringing up an issue, it's a really big de...	Whenever I bring up an issue with him, he just says, "I know, I'm sorry" and then refuses to say anything further for it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need some legal advice... POST: So a little while back I was charged with possession of Marijuana in NY (it's decriminalized here). The DA lowered the charge to "Disturbing the peace" and I was to pay a $200 fine (the possession ticket being about $280). The court date on which thi...	Had to pay a $200 fine, didn't, but got a receipt of my payment in the mail. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Locker troubles. Am I humaning wrong? POST: So my locker section is 3x3 me being in the top middle, my friend being in top right, and underclass men being in bottom middle, bottom right and top left. Constantly the top left girl (let's call her Lindsey) has her friends and boy toy (who appa...	Girl next to my locker constantly has friends blocking my way and gets mad that I'm getting mad at her friends/boyfriend always being in the way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is there a way to turn your check engine light off? (details inside) POST: My car's check engine will come on for like 3 months and then turn off for a couple weeks. I had my car looked at and my family mechanic told me that a sensor in my car was broken and that's why it does this. I do...	I need to pass an emissions test, but my check engine light is on due to a broken sensor that is too expensive to replace. What is the cheapest way to get around this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20/m] don't know how to feel about my "friend" [20/f] who is now 3,000 miles away POST: My friend and I are both starting our 2nd year at universities on opposite coasts. This friend and I have known each other and were pretty good friends through high school, and this summer she ...	I think we both have feelings for each other, but are 3,000 miles away from each other. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: What is the protocol for unfollowing friends on social media? POST: There is a girl I've been friends with since high school (about 10 years). Over the past couple years we've really drifted, but there was a long period of time where I would have said she was my best friend. Life stuff has ...	Old friend has an annoying instagram but I am told I can't unfollow her because of friend rules. Please advise.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How, exactly, does one spend $5,000 at a strip club? POST: My husband recently went on a weekend outing with his friends to celebrate his birthday. During the night, excessive drinking occurred and he apparently blacked out shortly after dinner. Now, I try to be a supportive wife and n...	Husband went to a strip club, racked up $5k on the credit card... How can you even spend that much money at a strip club? And how the hell do I deal with this? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: There is an undercurrent of anger over tipping culture in the United States. Non-Americans and servers of Reddit, how much do you make per hour? POST: As a server, I make about $15 to $20 per hour, including tips. I make an hourly wage from my employer of $5.60. I know the menu through a...	Would you prefer higher costs for less efficient, un-talented workers, or would you just prefer to pony up 18% for talent, efficiency, and professionalism?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I could use a little advice POST: So I lost my ID last night after going to a bar (I believe it was lost on the cab ride home) and this morning I receive a message on Facebook from a girl saying she found it and if I'm still looking for it to come to her dorm since we go to the s...	Cute girl finds my ID and offers to return it, is this an act of random kindness or do I try work a date out of this somehow?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Transferring student seeks to cheer up/reassure best friend. Ideas? POST: Reddit, I've decided I cannot do this alone. I met her before I went away to college last year (we both went to same school) anyways she and I have been through hell together, and she's my best friend and is devastated ...	Transferring schools and want to show my best friend I love her/gonna miss her/everything's going to be alright<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Parents: Why do you pay for photos of your kids screaming their heads off with Santa? POST: This is probably my mom talking (my mom is a horrible person, that's why I bring it up), but I just think it's a waste of money. If I had kids of my own, I would not want to hang up pictures of th...	Why do you allow and pay for photos of your child to be taken with Santa while they are screaming their heads off?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: One of my best friends [20M] said we could party at his appartment, until his girlfriend [20F] of a year came home and kicked me[20M] out POST: Me and my group of friends since middle school we are all 20 now so about 8ish years decided to get together to play games and hang out in...	My friend invited everyone over for a party, when his girlfriend makes an unexpected visit during her lunch break and makes him kick me out. I feel betrayed and wondering what I need to say/do to save this friendship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Dating my best friend who is my really good friend's ex POST: So my best friend [18/f] dated my really close friend [18/m] around 8 months ago. They were together on and off for around 2 years in highschool. Me [18/m] and the girl have known each other for years and I have known her ...	Fell in love with my good friend's ex who is my best friend and now we're dating. Good friend shut me out of his life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [m22] If i've cheated in my past, how do i tell the person i'm seeing now? POST: During my last relationship i cheated on my boyfriend (of one year) with someone else. It was with a stranger and it didn't mean anything to me really, but I regreted it. As you can guess, i was caught, ...	I cheated on a bf the past. I got myself help. I'm ready for a relationship again, and seeing someone now. How and when should i tell him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by nearly fainting on the subway. POST: I agreed to post 50 fliers for my sister's choir for some money, but I completely forgot and ended up rushing out the door having only eaten a small bowl of cereal and gotten very inadequate sleep. This was at about 10 AM. Then, four hours later, I...	Ate and drank almost nothing after a bad sleep and spent 4 hours in the sun on a hot humid day and nearly crashed... into the floor of the subway on the way home. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] dealing with friend's [28/f] lack of self confidence and dating disasters POST: I'm at the end of my wit and I need advice. I have a very dear friend that wants nothing more than be in a dating relationship. She's attractive, fit, well-educated, and has a great job. What co...	Smart and attractive friend desperately wants a relationship but only falls for attractive flakes and spends hours obsessing with friends about it and putting herself down. How do we get through to her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Would you quit in this situation? (Me 41 M & Her 42 F) POST: We've been dating for about 6 months and I'm on the verge of calling it quits. I flew solo most of my life while she came from a pretty abusive longterm relationship. We've been physical with each other and about a mo...	Falling out of love partly due to mini pill derailing emotions, partly due to losing tolerance for annoyances. Quickly approaching the quitting point. Am I a jerk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Feelings came back for an ex after she decided she didn't want to move out of state after college. Not sure if I should tell her about these feelings. POST: So my ex (F23) and I (M23) have been broken up for almost two years now. I broke it of because I didn't see a future between us...	Rehashed feeling for an ex of 2 years after a wedding we went to and finding out she might be dating someone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: [Text] "Remember, you're the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with" POST: this is something I saw in here There's a lot of good advice in this article, but this particular comment resonated with me. All of my lifestyle choices so far were strongly influenced by the peo...	Was young and clueless. Grew up and surrounded myself with motivated ppl. Life is good now. GG pound sign coolstorybro<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my __girlfriend_ [20 F] 1 month, what should I do about my bitch girlfriend? POST: she is very cute and sexy and i asked her out after being friends with her for about a year. on this Christmas she asked me if i would like to have a threesome including her friend (23...	refused a threesome offer by my gf , caught her sexting , she made fun of my anxiety , i broke up , now she wants to be back together<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What will you never get sick of? How can you make a temporary enjoyment last longer? POST: You know the lesson,"you don't appreciate the things until they are gone." That advises people to appreciate the little things. I know that helps develop a healthy mentality towards life, but how, ...	How can you keep doing the same thing over and over again and still love what you are doing is what I'm asking<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Advice needed: How do you tactfully take a meeting with another company while employed? POST: I've been at my startup job for about 2 years now. I'm 27 and it's my first "adult" job. My role started off in community and now I'm starting to work more product side of things. It feels like a gre...	I'm being recruited by another company and I'm not sure if I want to go. I need advice on how to play it cool during my meeting and am wondering if there are any hard and fast do's and don'ts.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [19 M] I'm having a hard time figuring out if he is in love or obsessed... POST: Hello. Thanks for taking your time to read this, I am having troubles with my boyfriend who I have been dating for almost 4 months now. He lives all the way in New York and I ...	Boyfriend of 4 months devoting every second, every minute and every day with me, getting angry over me not responding to texts quick enough and says he doesn't need friends if he has me. Is he obsessed or in love?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Recruiting services found out one of my references was a relative, said that wasn't allowed even though for 10 years I worked for a family business? POST: I used a different name for a relative supervisor and forgot she still said her other name in her voice mail when they tried to leave her ...	What happens when 10 years of experience is under a family business and they ask for a reference supervisor? Well, that was...my parents, lol, Has anyone else ever been in this position?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Would you tell a friend if they had been cheated on, even if their lover had stopped cheating? POST: This may be a long and unraveling story, but here it goes: I have a friend who I know was cheated on by his girlfriend. Then later he caught her sending dirty pictures to the person she ...	Friend A cheated on Friend B. Friend B found some evidence, and Friend A fessed up to the evidence, but not the whole crime. Do I tell Friend B the whole truth?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M/F] with my ex [23 M/F] 7 mo, I'm watching the porn we made POST: I'm watching the porn we made from my laptop and I'm just smiling at how faded we were and reminiscing about how great we were together. It's been 3 months since we've broken up and I still can't seem to move...	My ex and I have been broken up for 3 months now but I want to get back with him or at least be friends. What do I do? What can I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by eating apples on Easter POST: I was at a family event on Easter, doing the normal tradition that my family does; lots of food, lots of alcohol. I'm not a big drinker anymore, but I will have the occasional social drink or two... This year there was a big punch bowl of sangria with fru...	I idiotically ate a lot of apple slices, which I'm allergic to. Suddenly can't breathe. I smoke some weed, and my throat stops swelling immediately.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my Girlfriend [ 18 F] 6 Months, She says I'm not experienced enough... POST: So me and my GF just talked and she started crying and saying "shes tired of my not knowing what I am doing and not being experienced in relationships" (i.e When to hug her when shes feeling b...	First relationship, GF is sad that I don't do things I should know to be doing. Says she tired of it, I feel like she wants an older guy, how can I give her that experience without chasing her away?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [31 M] ruined relationship with my fiancé [30 F] of four years, I've spent a year thinking she hated me and now it's actually the opposite. But I knocked up a girl and now it's complicated POST: Which is worse? thinking that the love of your life that you screwed things up with RO...	what is worse? Thinking my ex hated me or knowing I could've fixed it but I knocked up another girl and now everything is a mess.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: How can I tell if my cat is just playing with me? POST: Last month my SO and I rescued a starving, pregnant, stray cat. She is absolutely wonderful. She loves being an indoor cat, never tries to get back outside, constantly wants to snuggle, etc. She is also incredibly playful. She does the n...	Sometimes my wild-turned-indoor kitten will spit at me when she wants to play, and will put her ears back when playing. Is this aggression, or just play-time?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Help With Affairs, Or Love Triangles. POST: I am a twenty year old man, she's the same age as me, her boyfriend just turned twenty two and has been with him for two years. I've known both of them for three years and some months at the very least. I've been with her for the last...	I want her to leave him for me, I'm sure of it. Well maybe not, am I doing what is really best for myself?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How much does Facebook matter? POST: My current boyfriend and I are both in our early twenties and have been dating each other for a few months. He is effusively affectionate and has made it very clear that he loves me intensely. His family and friends all really like me, he's not sh...	Boyfriend is great in the real world but not big on being Facebook "official." Not sure if this should matter or bother me as much as it does?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend[22M] 6.5 years, how to deal with break up? POST: Hi everyone, I recently split from my boyfriend of 6.5 because he wasn't treating me with respect, communicating to me about his/our problems, and many more issues. I've blocked him from all social media s...	Ended 6.5 year relationship, struggling to move on because I keep thinking about us, what can I do to help myself?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18m] My [18f] girlfriend having self harm issues POST: My girlfriend and I are having some troubles in our relationship and things aren't looking very bright. After an argument today, she text me and told me not to talk to her and not text her until she did and that she didnt want ...	girlfriend and I argue, I find out she used scissors to cut herself (no blood or anything), think seeing a counsellor would be good, not sure what else to do..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: [Serious] What are your idea's for fixing how the government is run? (More info inside) POST: I don't want to post this in r/politics because I am afraid of the answers I would receive, and I think r/AskReddit, because of its size, has a better general population of Reddit. I ask because...	I want to hear honest opinions because I am tired of the 24 hour news channels opinions and I am genuinly interested in hearing what other people have to say.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24/m] like having relationships with random ppl from the internet than in real life POST: I am a 24 year old male student in NYC. There's plenty of things to do, plenty of things to see and plenty of people to meet. I like meeting new people but I find that 90% of the time, they e...	Am I just an extremely egotistical person that can't respect and befriend others because they're not "good enough" for me? How can I overcome this.... "handicap" and enjoy my life?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, Am I Screwing Myself By Buying Kindle eBooks? POST: I read dozens of books every year and I travel often. Recently I purchased a Kindle. The concept is so seductive, global wireless delivery of hundreds of thousands of ebooks for less than the paper copy. And, I can carry 150...	If computer games just 15 years old are unplayable, how can Amazon's AZW format have even the slightest chance in hell of lasting 20, 40, or 60 years?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/f] Is my boyfriend [21/m] taking advantage of me? POST: I have been taking my SO for about 2 months. We spent a lot of time together for several months before we actually started dating. A little background: -I am from an upper-middle class family, I do not act spoiled ...	boyfriend has been in tough times and needs me to pay for "dates" I am afraid it isn't completely legit and I am being taken advantage of<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: M/22 and F/19, am I in a unordinary relationship? POST: Hi guys, I've been with my girlfriend (Jess) for 2yrs 5 months. She still lives with her parents and I live with two friends. I work full time and she studies full time. Lately I've been thinking about our relationship and...	myself and SO have never seriously communicated in 2 years, and we both have very different future goals, not sure what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (24F) start getting over a crush when I have to spend almost all my time with them (25M)? (0 years) POST: My boyfriend (24M) and I of three years are starting to explore polyamory. I had come out to my best friend about it, and he seemed generally supportive. When I asked hi...	Have a crush and was turned down by my BFF, who is in close proximity to me all day due to classes. Any suggestions for healing besides distance?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my boyfriend [30] of 5 years. I feel like I'm compromising so much on where to live and he isn't at all. Are we incompatible? POST: I moved to a college town to be with my boyfriend 2 years ago. He knew that I really didn't like this town and was just planning to be her...	I'm compromising on living location, but now he wants a bunch of land and I won't be happy in rural environment.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my best-friend [25 F] since childhood, keeps telling me I don't understand her struggles; I'm not sure how to respond POST: My friend and I have had different childhoods growing up. My life has been drama free (went to college, left debt free, went to med school, no m...	Friend with a harder life than mine keeps saying to me "I don't understand the hustle/struggle," in an angry tone. Unsure of how to respond.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [28F] know whether I need to become more feminine? POST: I am single for the last four years with occasional short relationships. I'd like to start dating someone but only someone I like. I don't mind and even enjoy living on my own as long as it takes to find a guy whom I e...	How do I identify, whether or not I need to become more feminine? And if I do need to, then how to become more feminine?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I need advice about trying to hook up with an ex POST: This is a throw away account. I want to try and hook back up with my ex girlfriend. It wasn't a bad break up and I was told it was becuase we never spent enough time together. She was right, if we saw each other twice in ...	I've been broken up with a girl for a while and want to ask her on a date but I don't want to completely surprise her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21m] am a relatively recently single dad. I met a girl [23f] who is ridiculously attractive single mom. I'm worried? POST: So I met a girl through work (she doesn't work with me but our companies do a lot of business near each other) who is like really really beautiful and interes...	I feel like I fucked up my last relationship sorta, afraid if I messed this up I would be really beat up about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] with my boyfriend [18M] of 2 years; I'm very happy with him, but I think I want to break up. Help? POST: My boyfriend (we'll call him Hunter) and I have been dating since our junior year of high school. Our relationship isn't perfect, but we've generally been very happy bei...	I may want to start college single, but I really don't want to leave my current boyfriend. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I, wife, [22/F] need to divorce husband [26/M] but I have never even broken up with someone before. POST: [breakups] My current husband was a rebound... a good looking rebound that I quickly moved in with and married the first time he asked me. I had every intention of being with ...	Got married young. I've never even broken up with someone before but I need to figure out how to divorce my husband. (And try not to break his heart)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [25/m] Depressive gf [19/f] doesn't feel love for me anymore. Don't know what to do POST: I could use some advice :( My gf and i are together for 7 months now. We have many happy days together, but her depression is slowly killing our relationship. We had a chat yesterday and...	gf is depressive and i don't know if she doesn't love me because of her depression or she just doesn't love me anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [22/f] don't know how to deal with my gf's [27/f] bragging without causing drama. POST: We've both been on reddit for a good three years, at least. Both pretty nerdy, typically have a great relationship (4+ years, props to my matchmaking bff haha), etc. Long story short, she'...	more sexually experienced gf is boosting her ego through stories, some of which are starting to worry me because they imply she's not entirely honest w/me<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (19M) and my girlfriend (18F) finished high school in June. We've been dating for 6 months and she doesn't feel we have a future together. What do I do? POST: Me (19M) and my girlfriend of 6 months have been dating ever since high school has finished. We get along very well, our ...	GF and I have to go our separate ways due to POSSIBLE different life paths and I don't want to lose her now, or in the future.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27M] can't seem to fall in love with any of my partners. What's going on? POST: I grew up in a stable family, but we have never been the hugs and loving type. We don't say "I love you", and we're often independent of each other on most days minus the occasional go out to eat on a ...	Several successful relationships in the past. However, never fallen in love, and leads to breakup. Tired of not being able to fall in love.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: How can I start my IT Career? POST: I am a fresh Graduate with my Bachelors of Science in Computer Science and I know that Degree =! Dream Job. I know i have to work my way to the top since I can't think of any network admin that was picked up off the street. I'm sure they all had to st...	My question to you reddit, how can I start my IT career with a college degree and about a year's worth of field related experience?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: As humans, should it really be up to us to determine when our beloved pets should die? POST: [My cat Bear] has cancer in his head. He has a tumor behind his eye and one just above the bridge of his nose. Presumably the cancer has also spread to other parts of his body. Bear stopped eatin...	My cat is dying of cancer and I don't know if it's ethically my place to say, "today you die."<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: how do I (24) get my boyfriend (20) of almost two years, to open up about what he wants out of our relationship? POST: My boyfriend will be leaving for basic in about a week and it's been hard on the both of us. I just want to know where we stand and what he wants out of me while ...	Boyfriend will be leaving for basic, I can't get him to open up about what he wants out of our relationship<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I become a better listener? POST: OK. I've read through some "help I have no friends and my family hates me" type posts and I see a theme about people my age(college) joining clubs and listening to people and reaching out. So I joined come clubs and reached out and I'm trying to l...	I guess what I'm asking is how do I get out of my own way enough to just be a part of the group?<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Is a handmade gift inappropriate? Help! POST: The gift is not for the happy couple, it's for the mother of the groom. My best friend is having her wedding at the end of October, and it's a "destination" wedding of sorts. It will be in California, and we both live in different sta...	best friends MIL was incredibly gracious and paid for my accommodations for the wedding. Want to show my thanks with gift; not sure of handmade is thoughtful or tacky in this situation!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I think he isn't over his ex POST: Ok, I'm [23/f], and I met this guy [25/m] about 2 months ago. We've been hanging out almost everyday. We don't really run out of things to say. I enjoy his company a lot, BUT..... almost every time I've hang out with him he has worked somethin...	Should I just tell my head to shut the f up, and just enjoy this new relationship? Or am I just the rebound, and I should I get out before I get hurt? Please help reddit<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Having second thought about engagement. Please help. POST: I am 26(m) she's 25(f). Been engaged for a few months. She has two siblings and lives with her mother. Her mother and her have a toxic relationship and I'm being put in the middle of it sometimes to put out the fires that e...	I am having second thoughts about my engagement due to being too much of a caregiver/father figure and her family is messed up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28f] boyfriend [28m] of 1 year has tourettes/tics and it's affecting my feelings towards him. POST: First of all, I feel terrible about this. I am fully aware that his tics are not within his control. I am writing here because I want help in being okay with the constant movement ...	Boyfriend's tourettes is making me not want to be around him. I want t change but don't know how.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think something is fishy with my boyfriend :S POST: I'm 21 almost 22, he is 23. We have been in a relationship for approx 6months. When we were first dating.. I should have (now done like within the 1st month of dating) broken all contact with any hookups (kissing, sex, people who ...	Boyfriend has a previous friend (whom he slept with) & girl he previous dated and keeps in contact every so often.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 M] don't know what to do with my [60 F] mother. POST: Hey /r/relationships, I'm having an issue with my mom and I'm not sure how to handle it. Lately, my mom has been talking about what happens when my father dies. It's gotten to the point where it is the opening line in almo...	My mother constantly talks about my father dying, and I don't know how to her talking about it, or how to handle it if it actually happens.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: A friend [20,f] of mine [23,m] is showing strong interest in me even while her boyfriend is present. What might she feel? POST: I met a girl about half a year ago and, despite being a little bit shy, since that moment she was very flirty to me. She always says that it's a joy for her...	She's cuddling with him but looks at me. When he's not present, we're cuddling like I never did before. She's in love with him. Wait... What?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] love interest and best friend [22F] is losing sleep/happiness over her psycho of an ex. POST: My close female friend of 6 months (I'd say we're more than friends, she probably would aswell) broke up with her ex about a month ago. He's still hounding her with 50+ missed calls...	Very close female friend's ex is trying to manipulate her into giving him time to talk to her. It's affecting her really badly which is in turn affecting our friendship. How do I help her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Going freelance to full-time... how much should I ask for? POST: I'm a freelance web designer/developer. Business has been pretty damn steady for the last year and a half, and I'm starting to branch out into sub-contracting to bring in additional income. My current situation: a regular clien...	If a freelance client wants to hire you as a full-time employee, how should your employee salary compare to your freelance rate?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [22M] bring flowers to my ex-gf's [21F] house since she was in the hospital? POST: To make things simple, we dated for almost 4 years now. We spent almost every day together. We were a very big part of each other's lives. I was very stubborn with her, and every time we had...	Should I bring my ex gf flowers to her house since she was in the hospital with a minor injury? Things haven't been great lately..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [28M] have told my girlfriend [29F] that I want to take her last name when we get married, but she does not feel good about the idea. POST: Nine months ago, my girlfriend proposed to me while we were at a music festival. It was a fantastic moment for the both of us and we hav...	I have told my girlfriend that I want to take her last name when we get married, but she is not sure about the idea, any advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: In response to "typing your link into the search bar before making a new post...": POST: Hey guys, so this is the problem I've run into. I ALWAYS check if my link is already posted before I decide to make my own post about it. My friend just shared a "Peter Chao" youtube video with me on th...	I want to give [this video] another chance and give those nine redditors who downvoted it without saying a word a big "fuck you."<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I get paid crap but really enjoy my job. What should I do? POST: I got a degree in biology this past May. My GPA was just below a 3.5 do to a crappy freshman year. I'm pretty damn smart but am a classic procrastinator. I really like science, but I have a hard time figuring out specifical...	I'm probably overqualified for my job, make very little money, but really enjoy working here. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [26M] have the right to be upset with my girlfriend [23F] late period, but still drinking POST: My girlfriend went to Colorado with her friends to surprise her friend who just got engaged. My girlfriend's period is over 2 weeks late now and i told her to take a pregnancy test b...	My girlfriend's period is 2 weeks late and she had a weekend of binge drinking. Do i have the right to be upset with her irresponsible behavior?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by thinking my coworker was talking about bees, not babies. POST: To start, I work at a Factory Store Doughnut Shop. That means we measure, mix, cut, fry, glaze and decorate doughnuts, and we have a giant machine that is on display while we use it. Anyways, as I was walking from the ma...	I made my coworker yell about how she is extremely pro-chioce across the store and in front of a customer. I seemed more embarrassed than she was.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: How can I help my dog develop healthy eating habits? POST: A little background: I adopted Oliver from the local shelter on September 18th. He is a Shiba Inu mix. Originally, the shelter staff thought he was around two years old, but the vet thinks he may be a little older than that. When I b...	My dogs has reverted to snubbing his food and seems to only want to eat from my hand. I'd like him to become more independent and eat on his own.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/f] can't get over ex [22/m] POST: We were together just under a year when we broke up last May. The relationship had been great, we never fought and there were no signs of trouble (that I was aware of at least). The break up caught me by surprise, and his reasons were that ...	I haven't been able to get any space from my ex after he dumped me 8 months ago and I don't know if I should confront him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU my boyfriend's favorite soup POST: So the FU itself happened a few weeks ago, but we only found out that there even was a FU about two hours ago. Over the holidays my boyfriend caught a nasty case of the flu, so he had to stay home while I left to visit my family for a few days. Being t...	Tried taking care of my boyfriend with his favorite soup when he was sick, now he can probably never eat or smell it again without wanting to throw up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (21/M) want to get back with my crush (22/f) POST: There was this international student at my college that I was "talking" to and we were hanging out alot. We went on a couple dates and she said she liked me but wanted to take it slow. She was an innocent girl so I didn't mind. H...	I was needy in relationship, she ended it because of that. I want her bacj but don't want to seem desperate and have her be pushed away more<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: How dumb of me is it to choose social life over academic quality when choosing a college? POST: I'm a high school senior, and I've narrowed down my college choices to UCLA, USC (SoCal, not South Carolina), and Georgia Tech. I want an urban surrounding and a school spirit that goes wild for...	I wanna go to a party school in SoCal but I'm scared that it might be really dumb of me to choose a school based on its social aspects even though another school is far superior in academics. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [21/m] am in a relationship with [21/f] and love her, but have arranged to cheat POST: I have been in a relationship with my gf for over a year now, and all has been wonderful. It's the first relationship for the both of us, and we have fallen pretty hard for each other. We t...	In a relationship with a girl I love very much for over a year. Have made arrangements to cheat that can be completely avoided if I choose to do so. Not sure if my actions so far are already extremely damaging to the relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[22F] found websites my boyfriend[25M] is using my pictures to get naked pictures of other girls, I have no where to go, what do I do? POST: Hey everyone, thanks in advance for the advice. Here's a little history, I've been dating him for 2 years now. I moved from the west coast to...	! I[22F] found websites my boyfriend[25M] is using my pictures to get naked pictures of other girls, I have no where to go, what do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: No horrible relationship question. Just a general question about... "love" POST: Been dating a guy for 2.5 years, we both our in our mid 20s & im the girlfriend. Ive never said I love you, wither it be to friends, faimly, or to any guy. I dont even say it in jest too much. No Ive ne...	Never said "love" to anyone, raped/molested numerous times but over it, in a great relationship, wondering if never saying I love you is normal I guess.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Im [16/m] and she's [17/f]. I need some advice. How do I get her to break it off? POST: It all started when I was dating this other girl in my class. For some very good reasons she broke up with me. I felt hurt and very insecure. And after a couple of days i started talking to ...	got together, she forces me to still go out with her and threatens me that she will get other people to hurt me. How to make her break up with me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [25F] says she'd give up ANYTHING important to her, if I [25M] didn't think it was good for her, and expects the same from me. How do I make her understand that this isn't healthy? Or, is it? POST: This is hard to explain... Last month we were on a walk and she said she didn...	My wife says she'd give up almost anything important to her, if I didn't think it was good for her, and expects the same from me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unplanned pregnancy. Abortion. I [22m] want. She [22f] doesn't. Anything I can do to change her mind? POST: requirements: Me, 22m, FightingI GF, 22f, Sarah Together since March 2010 - 2.5 years Sarah and I have been dating for 2+ years and we are very close and in a happy rel...	Girlfriend is pregnant. I would prefer an abortion. She isn't really feeling the same way. Anything I can say or do to get her to see the light?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F24] burn with revenge for my ex-boyfriend [M24] after years of betrayal and manipulation POST: My ex-boyfriend [M24] cheated on me [F24] for the 4 years we were together with chatroom sex, strip clubs and prostitutes. In that time we broke up and then got back together after he c...	I burn with revenge against my ex's new relationship after years of being manipulated and lied to. Help me see sense!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Love Triangle Advice? I like her, and she likes me, but also likes her ex? POST: I have been friends with this girl for 2-3 years. We are both roughly the same age. I'm a 19 year old male and she's 17 as of now. And since we met we considered ourselves very close, if not, best ...	me and Alice become close friends. Feelings begin to develop. Alice hooks up with best friend. Three years later Alice likes me and is conflicted on who to like. what do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Sexted with my [25/M] boyfriend and exchanged explicit photos, woke up feeling disgusted with him and myself [23/F] POST: So yeah, me and my long-distance boyfriend of about 4 months were both feeling a little bit frisky and started sexting a bit. We got really into it and he sent me...	Boyfriend and I sexted and exchanged explicit photos, woke up feeling disgusted both at myself and with him. Don't know what to do now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by faking I was sick so I didn't gave to go to school. POST: As 99% of the posts here, this didn't happen today but, 4/5 years ago. I was chilling in my bed before going to school and I thought to myself "You know what I can't be arsed to go in today". So as always I call my mum so she ...	Tried to skip school,was forced into going to the doctor, had to piss in a container and prescribe with stomach flu. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Friend [18/F] cheated on her SO[18/M] while he was at basic training. She insists that she send him a letter instead of telling him in person. POST: My friend of a few years just confided in me that she has cheated on her boyfriend (on and off for about two years?) with someone he kn...	Friend cheated on SO while he was at basic training. Wants to send a letter telling him instead of telling him in person. Became angry when I didn't throw a pity party with her for cheating.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19f] Trying to figure out if he [20] wants to be in a relationship with me POST: Back in December, I met this guy at a mutual friend's party. We got to talking, got pretty drunk and ended up making out. This went on at every party until the middle of February when we finally slept t...	Hooked up with a guy I've known for 4 months. We've hung out since then, but nothing physical has happened between us<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So I'm about to purchase health insurance for the first time. I have a few questions about Obamacare and spousal coverage. POST: Hey Reddit, So I recently got a new job, that offers a worthwhile health insurance program in which I plan on enrolling. I am 26, and am no longer covered on ...	I'm 26, buying health insurance through work. Does my 23 year old wife have to be put on my plan, or can she stay on her parents until the age of 26?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26M] have been with my girlfriend [25F] for just a couple months, but I'm really unsure what I actually feel for her. What kind of questions can I ask myself to better understand what I feel? POST: Some family friends introduced me to their niece back in September. We went out for...	I might want to break up with my gf but don't know why. How can I figure out why I feel the way I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, help me out with my study habits? I'm one of those kids who breezed through advanced high school courses & is now stuck in college pursuing a difficult major while dealing with ADD & anxiety. POST: Yep so, I'm getting pretty stuck in college. I'm an ecological Biology major t...	I am poopy & fail hard classes. Struggling with ADD, anxiety, & poor study habits. How do I get good grades?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Need Help! In a Fuzzy Rental situation!!!! POST: Hello Reddit. I live in the state of Florida. Currently my girlfriend and I live in an RV in her Fathers back yard. We are originally from Ohio, and he offered us the RV rent free to come and live down here and find a place. We have had ...	I need help to fight against my (father) for the rent I should legally not owe him. Can someone please help me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25/m/straight) am like 95% sure that a new friend of mine (19/m) is gay and either doesn't know/is in denial, and has a crush on me. POST: Okay so in brief... • He has a girlfriend who he started dating relatively recently. They are almost never seen together. When in the same pl...	new friend is probably gay, probably doesn't know it, probably into me, I don't know how to address it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Job offer from "prepackaged" chapter 11? POST: I recently received a job offer from an international incorporation that is currently in chapter 11, packaged at 90 days. They've experience hard losses over the last few years, and currently are restructuring the company from bottom to top. ...	Company in Prepackaged Chapter 11 offering me a better paying job (by 18%), but is in massive restructure. Worth the risk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: (19M) biggest crush of my life, not sure she's into me POST: My story is quite simple, I broke up with my ex about 3 weeks ago, 2 weeks ago I met a girl. She's the biggest crush I've ever had in my life, she's not perfect at all, however Iike her imperfections and I feel ALOT for...	I really like this girl I met more than even any previous girlfriend. I get mixed signals. Contribute to my happiness by giving me an opinion<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking TITLE: r/ Cooking, help me win Come Dine With Me (flat edition)! POST: Hi, I am an average cook and my flat has decided to replicate the 'Come Dine With Me' TV show. There is four of us in our flat and I have to cook the first week (this Sunday). I have to use three random delegated ingredient...	Suggest ideas/recipes for the best meal possible so that I can beat my chef flatmates with Sun-dried tomato, Salmon and Mozzarella.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21f) have been falling for my best friend (m) but he is 34 years older than me! POST: All my life I've said that age is just a number. I've known him for a year and a half. We work together, and spend a lot of time with each other. He always makes me laugh and we joke about dating...	I feel like I have found someone that I am connected to on a higher level, but he's 34 years older than me. I just don't want my family to freak out, and have it spoil our fun!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf [f19] of 5 years is contemplating breaking up with me [m19] because I want to wait 1-2 more years until our junior or senior year of college to get engaged. POST: We have talked about it multiple times what my plan for our engagement is. I want to become engaged in our junior o...	My girlfriend is contemplating breaking up with me because I don't want to get engaged at 19. She has has some recent family issues that could be affecting her judgement. Please help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my GF [23 F] of six months, First Relationship, spark lost or communication issues? POST: Okay, hi reddit longtime lurker first time poster so here goes. A little background info, I'm 22 with almost no dating experience because I'm kinda dense when it comes to picking...	First relationship, good communication turns bad, is it in of need of duct tape or should I find an exact o knife?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [19/M] have been dating this girl [19/F] for 3 years and have known her for 9 years and can't bring myself to leave her. POST: I know, I have no balls, but I love who I am around her and when we aren't arguing (which happens ALL the time because she has trust issues regarding...	Not in love anymore with my best friend, can't imagine life without her, but can't deal with the relationship anymore<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [22 M] let my co worker/friend [22 F] know that I like her? POST: Don't know if this is the right spot or not but here goes. I am absolutely crazy about my co worker, not to sound cliche but I think about her all the time. We go out and have drinks every once in a while, we ...	Like my Co Worker, don't know how to go about finding out if she likes me or if I should let her know how I feel.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend [24M] 18months, whenever I bring up an issue, just apologises and won't talk about it POST: Apologies are great, and more than some get, I get it. However, I have a reeeeeeally hard time expressing myself so if I'm bringing up an issue, it's a really big de...	Whenever I bring up an issue with him, he just says, "I know, I'm sorry" and then refuses to say anything further for it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need some legal advice... POST: So a little while back I was charged with possession of Marijuana in NY (it's decriminalized here). The DA lowered the charge to "Disturbing the peace" and I was to pay a $200 fine (the possession ticket being about $280). The court date on which thi...	Had to pay a $200 fine, didn't, but got a receipt of my payment in the mail. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Locker troubles. Am I humaning wrong? POST: So my locker section is 3x3 me being in the top middle, my friend being in top right, and underclass men being in bottom middle, bottom right and top left. Constantly the top left girl (let's call her Lindsey) has her friends and boy toy (who appa...	Girl next to my locker constantly has friends blocking my way and gets mad that I'm getting mad at her friends/boyfriend always being in the way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is there a way to turn your check engine light off? (details inside) POST: My car's check engine will come on for like 3 months and then turn off for a couple weeks. I had my car looked at and my family mechanic told me that a sensor in my car was broken and that's why it does this. I do...	I need to pass an emissions test, but my check engine light is on due to a broken sensor that is too expensive to replace. What is the cheapest way to get around this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20/m] don't know how to feel about my "friend" [20/f] who is now 3,000 miles away POST: My friend and I are both starting our 2nd year at universities on opposite coasts. This friend and I have known each other and were pretty good friends through high school, and this summer she ...	I think we both have feelings for each other, but are 3,000 miles away from each other. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: What is the protocol for unfollowing friends on social media? POST: There is a girl I've been friends with since high school (about 10 years). Over the past couple years we've really drifted, but there was a long period of time where I would have said she was my best friend. Life stuff has ...	Old friend has an annoying instagram but I am told I can't unfollow her because of friend rules. Please advise.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How, exactly, does one spend $5,000 at a strip club? POST: My husband recently went on a weekend outing with his friends to celebrate his birthday. During the night, excessive drinking occurred and he apparently blacked out shortly after dinner. Now, I try to be a supportive wife and n...	Husband went to a strip club, racked up $5k on the credit card... How can you even spend that much money at a strip club? And how the hell do I deal with this? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: There is an undercurrent of anger over tipping culture in the United States. Non-Americans and servers of Reddit, how much do you make per hour? POST: As a server, I make about $15 to $20 per hour, including tips. I make an hourly wage from my employer of $5.60. I know the menu through a...	Would you prefer higher costs for less efficient, un-talented workers, or would you just prefer to pony up 18% for talent, efficiency, and professionalism?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I could use a little advice POST: So I lost my ID last night after going to a bar (I believe it was lost on the cab ride home) and this morning I receive a message on Facebook from a girl saying she found it and if I'm still looking for it to come to her dorm since we go to the s...	Cute girl finds my ID and offers to return it, is this an act of random kindness or do I try work a date out of this somehow?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Transferring student seeks to cheer up/reassure best friend. Ideas? POST: Reddit, I've decided I cannot do this alone. I met her before I went away to college last year (we both went to same school) anyways she and I have been through hell together, and she's my best friend and is devastated ...	Transferring schools and want to show my best friend I love her/gonna miss her/everything's going to be alright<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Parents: Why do you pay for photos of your kids screaming their heads off with Santa? POST: This is probably my mom talking (my mom is a horrible person, that's why I bring it up), but I just think it's a waste of money. If I had kids of my own, I would not want to hang up pictures of th...	Why do you allow and pay for photos of your child to be taken with Santa while they are screaming their heads off?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: One of my best friends [20M] said we could party at his appartment, until his girlfriend [20F] of a year came home and kicked me[20M] out POST: Me and my group of friends since middle school we are all 20 now so about 8ish years decided to get together to play games and hang out in...	My friend invited everyone over for a party, when his girlfriend makes an unexpected visit during her lunch break and makes him kick me out. I feel betrayed and wondering what I need to say/do to save this friendship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Dating my best friend who is my really good friend's ex POST: So my best friend [18/f] dated my really close friend [18/m] around 8 months ago. They were together on and off for around 2 years in highschool. Me [18/m] and the girl have known each other for years and I have known her ...	Fell in love with my good friend's ex who is my best friend and now we're dating. Good friend shut me out of his life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [m22] If i've cheated in my past, how do i tell the person i'm seeing now? POST: During my last relationship i cheated on my boyfriend (of one year) with someone else. It was with a stranger and it didn't mean anything to me really, but I regreted it. As you can guess, i was caught, ...	I cheated on a bf the past. I got myself help. I'm ready for a relationship again, and seeing someone now. How and when should i tell him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by nearly fainting on the subway. POST: I agreed to post 50 fliers for my sister's choir for some money, but I completely forgot and ended up rushing out the door having only eaten a small bowl of cereal and gotten very inadequate sleep. This was at about 10 AM. Then, four hours later, I...	Ate and drank almost nothing after a bad sleep and spent 4 hours in the sun on a hot humid day and nearly crashed... into the floor of the subway on the way home. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] dealing with friend's [28/f] lack of self confidence and dating disasters POST: I'm at the end of my wit and I need advice. I have a very dear friend that wants nothing more than be in a dating relationship. She's attractive, fit, well-educated, and has a great job. What co...	Smart and attractive friend desperately wants a relationship but only falls for attractive flakes and spends hours obsessing with friends about it and putting herself down. How do we get through to her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Would you quit in this situation? (Me 41 M & Her 42 F) POST: We've been dating for about 6 months and I'm on the verge of calling it quits. I flew solo most of my life while she came from a pretty abusive longterm relationship. We've been physical with each other and about a mo...	Falling out of love partly due to mini pill derailing emotions, partly due to losing tolerance for annoyances. Quickly approaching the quitting point. Am I a jerk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Feelings came back for an ex after she decided she didn't want to move out of state after college. Not sure if I should tell her about these feelings. POST: So my ex (F23) and I (M23) have been broken up for almost two years now. I broke it of because I didn't see a future between us...	Rehashed feeling for an ex of 2 years after a wedding we went to and finding out she might be dating someone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: [Text] "Remember, you're the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with" POST: this is something I saw in here There's a lot of good advice in this article, but this particular comment resonated with me. All of my lifestyle choices so far were strongly influenced by the peo...	Was young and clueless. Grew up and surrounded myself with motivated ppl. Life is good now. GG pound sign coolstorybro<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my __girlfriend_ [20 F] 1 month, what should I do about my bitch girlfriend? POST: she is very cute and sexy and i asked her out after being friends with her for about a year. on this Christmas she asked me if i would like to have a threesome including her friend (23...	refused a threesome offer by my gf , caught her sexting , she made fun of my anxiety , i broke up , now she wants to be back together<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What will you never get sick of? How can you make a temporary enjoyment last longer? POST: You know the lesson,"you don't appreciate the things until they are gone." That advises people to appreciate the little things. I know that helps develop a healthy mentality towards life, but how, ...	How can you keep doing the same thing over and over again and still love what you are doing is what I'm asking<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Advice needed: How do you tactfully take a meeting with another company while employed? POST: I've been at my startup job for about 2 years now. I'm 27 and it's my first "adult" job. My role started off in community and now I'm starting to work more product side of things. It feels like a gre...	I'm being recruited by another company and I'm not sure if I want to go. I need advice on how to play it cool during my meeting and am wondering if there are any hard and fast do's and don'ts.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [19 M] I'm having a hard time figuring out if he is in love or obsessed... POST: Hello. Thanks for taking your time to read this, I am having troubles with my boyfriend who I have been dating for almost 4 months now. He lives all the way in New York and I ...	Boyfriend of 4 months devoting every second, every minute and every day with me, getting angry over me not responding to texts quick enough and says he doesn't need friends if he has me. Is he obsessed or in love?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Recruiting services found out one of my references was a relative, said that wasn't allowed even though for 10 years I worked for a family business? POST: I used a different name for a relative supervisor and forgot she still said her other name in her voice mail when they tried to leave her ...	What happens when 10 years of experience is under a family business and they ask for a reference supervisor? Well, that was...my parents, lol, Has anyone else ever been in this position?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Would you tell a friend if they had been cheated on, even if their lover had stopped cheating? POST: This may be a long and unraveling story, but here it goes: I have a friend who I know was cheated on by his girlfriend. Then later he caught her sending dirty pictures to the person she ...	Friend A cheated on Friend B. Friend B found some evidence, and Friend A fessed up to the evidence, but not the whole crime. Do I tell Friend B the whole truth?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M/F] with my ex [23 M/F] 7 mo, I'm watching the porn we made POST: I'm watching the porn we made from my laptop and I'm just smiling at how faded we were and reminiscing about how great we were together. It's been 3 months since we've broken up and I still can't seem to move...	My ex and I have been broken up for 3 months now but I want to get back with him or at least be friends. What do I do? What can I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by eating apples on Easter POST: I was at a family event on Easter, doing the normal tradition that my family does; lots of food, lots of alcohol. I'm not a big drinker anymore, but I will have the occasional social drink or two... This year there was a big punch bowl of sangria with fru...	I idiotically ate a lot of apple slices, which I'm allergic to. Suddenly can't breathe. I smoke some weed, and my throat stops swelling immediately.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my Girlfriend [ 18 F] 6 Months, She says I'm not experienced enough... POST: So me and my GF just talked and she started crying and saying "shes tired of my not knowing what I am doing and not being experienced in relationships" (i.e When to hug her when shes feeling b...	First relationship, GF is sad that I don't do things I should know to be doing. Says she tired of it, I feel like she wants an older guy, how can I give her that experience without chasing her away?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [31 M] ruined relationship with my fiancé [30 F] of four years, I've spent a year thinking she hated me and now it's actually the opposite. But I knocked up a girl and now it's complicated POST: Which is worse? thinking that the love of your life that you screwed things up with RO...	what is worse? Thinking my ex hated me or knowing I could've fixed it but I knocked up another girl and now everything is a mess.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: How can I tell if my cat is just playing with me? POST: Last month my SO and I rescued a starving, pregnant, stray cat. She is absolutely wonderful. She loves being an indoor cat, never tries to get back outside, constantly wants to snuggle, etc. She is also incredibly playful. She does the n...	Sometimes my wild-turned-indoor kitten will spit at me when she wants to play, and will put her ears back when playing. Is this aggression, or just play-time?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Help With Affairs, Or Love Triangles. POST: I am a twenty year old man, she's the same age as me, her boyfriend just turned twenty two and has been with him for two years. I've known both of them for three years and some months at the very least. I've been with her for the last...	I want her to leave him for me, I'm sure of it. Well maybe not, am I doing what is really best for myself?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How much does Facebook matter? POST: My current boyfriend and I are both in our early twenties and have been dating each other for a few months. He is effusively affectionate and has made it very clear that he loves me intensely. His family and friends all really like me, he's not sh...	Boyfriend is great in the real world but not big on being Facebook "official." Not sure if this should matter or bother me as much as it does?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend[22M] 6.5 years, how to deal with break up? POST: Hi everyone, I recently split from my boyfriend of 6.5 because he wasn't treating me with respect, communicating to me about his/our problems, and many more issues. I've blocked him from all social media s...	Ended 6.5 year relationship, struggling to move on because I keep thinking about us, what can I do to help myself?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18m] My [18f] girlfriend having self harm issues POST: My girlfriend and I are having some troubles in our relationship and things aren't looking very bright. After an argument today, she text me and told me not to talk to her and not text her until she did and that she didnt want ...	girlfriend and I argue, I find out she used scissors to cut herself (no blood or anything), think seeing a counsellor would be good, not sure what else to do..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: [Serious] What are your idea's for fixing how the government is run? (More info inside) POST: I don't want to post this in r/politics because I am afraid of the answers I would receive, and I think r/AskReddit, because of its size, has a better general population of Reddit. I ask because...	I want to hear honest opinions because I am tired of the 24 hour news channels opinions and I am genuinly interested in hearing what other people have to say.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24/m] like having relationships with random ppl from the internet than in real life POST: I am a 24 year old male student in NYC. There's plenty of things to do, plenty of things to see and plenty of people to meet. I like meeting new people but I find that 90% of the time, they e...	Am I just an extremely egotistical person that can't respect and befriend others because they're not "good enough" for me? How can I overcome this.... "handicap" and enjoy my life?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, Am I Screwing Myself By Buying Kindle eBooks? POST: I read dozens of books every year and I travel often. Recently I purchased a Kindle. The concept is so seductive, global wireless delivery of hundreds of thousands of ebooks for less than the paper copy. And, I can carry 150...	If computer games just 15 years old are unplayable, how can Amazon's AZW format have even the slightest chance in hell of lasting 20, 40, or 60 years?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/f] Is my boyfriend [21/m] taking advantage of me? POST: I have been taking my SO for about 2 months. We spent a lot of time together for several months before we actually started dating. A little background: -I am from an upper-middle class family, I do not act spoiled ...	boyfriend has been in tough times and needs me to pay for "dates" I am afraid it isn't completely legit and I am being taken advantage of<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: M/22 and F/19, am I in a unordinary relationship? POST: Hi guys, I've been with my girlfriend (Jess) for 2yrs 5 months. She still lives with her parents and I live with two friends. I work full time and she studies full time. Lately I've been thinking about our relationship and...	myself and SO have never seriously communicated in 2 years, and we both have very different future goals, not sure what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (24F) start getting over a crush when I have to spend almost all my time with them (25M)? (0 years) POST: My boyfriend (24M) and I of three years are starting to explore polyamory. I had come out to my best friend about it, and he seemed generally supportive. When I asked hi...	Have a crush and was turned down by my BFF, who is in close proximity to me all day due to classes. Any suggestions for healing besides distance?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my boyfriend [30] of 5 years. I feel like I'm compromising so much on where to live and he isn't at all. Are we incompatible? POST: I moved to a college town to be with my boyfriend 2 years ago. He knew that I really didn't like this town and was just planning to be her...	I'm compromising on living location, but now he wants a bunch of land and I won't be happy in rural environment.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my best-friend [25 F] since childhood, keeps telling me I don't understand her struggles; I'm not sure how to respond POST: My friend and I have had different childhoods growing up. My life has been drama free (went to college, left debt free, went to med school, no m...	Friend with a harder life than mine keeps saying to me "I don't understand the hustle/struggle," in an angry tone. Unsure of how to respond.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [28F] know whether I need to become more feminine? POST: I am single for the last four years with occasional short relationships. I'd like to start dating someone but only someone I like. I don't mind and even enjoy living on my own as long as it takes to find a guy whom I e...	How do I identify, whether or not I need to become more feminine? And if I do need to, then how to become more feminine?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I need advice about trying to hook up with an ex POST: This is a throw away account. I want to try and hook back up with my ex girlfriend. It wasn't a bad break up and I was told it was becuase we never spent enough time together. She was right, if we saw each other twice in ...	I've been broken up with a girl for a while and want to ask her on a date but I don't want to completely surprise her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21m] am a relatively recently single dad. I met a girl [23f] who is ridiculously attractive single mom. I'm worried? POST: So I met a girl through work (she doesn't work with me but our companies do a lot of business near each other) who is like really really beautiful and interes...	I feel like I fucked up my last relationship sorta, afraid if I messed this up I would be really beat up about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] with my boyfriend [18M] of 2 years; I'm very happy with him, but I think I want to break up. Help? POST: My boyfriend (we'll call him Hunter) and I have been dating since our junior year of high school. Our relationship isn't perfect, but we've generally been very happy bei...	I may want to start college single, but I really don't want to leave my current boyfriend. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I, wife, [22/F] need to divorce husband [26/M] but I have never even broken up with someone before. POST: [breakups] My current husband was a rebound... a good looking rebound that I quickly moved in with and married the first time he asked me. I had every intention of being with ...	Got married young. I've never even broken up with someone before but I need to figure out how to divorce my husband. (And try not to break his heart)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [25/m] Depressive gf [19/f] doesn't feel love for me anymore. Don't know what to do POST: I could use some advice :( My gf and i are together for 7 months now. We have many happy days together, but her depression is slowly killing our relationship. We had a chat yesterday and...	gf is depressive and i don't know if she doesn't love me because of her depression or she just doesn't love me anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [22/f] don't know how to deal with my gf's [27/f] bragging without causing drama. POST: We've both been on reddit for a good three years, at least. Both pretty nerdy, typically have a great relationship (4+ years, props to my matchmaking bff haha), etc. Long story short, she'...	more sexually experienced gf is boosting her ego through stories, some of which are starting to worry me because they imply she's not entirely honest w/me<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (19M) and my girlfriend (18F) finished high school in June. We've been dating for 6 months and she doesn't feel we have a future together. What do I do? POST: Me (19M) and my girlfriend of 6 months have been dating ever since high school has finished. We get along very well, our ...	GF and I have to go our separate ways due to POSSIBLE different life paths and I don't want to lose her now, or in the future.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27M] can't seem to fall in love with any of my partners. What's going on? POST: I grew up in a stable family, but we have never been the hugs and loving type. We don't say "I love you", and we're often independent of each other on most days minus the occasional go out to eat on a ...	Several successful relationships in the past. However, never fallen in love, and leads to breakup. Tired of not being able to fall in love.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: How can I start my IT Career? POST: I am a fresh Graduate with my Bachelors of Science in Computer Science and I know that Degree =! Dream Job. I know i have to work my way to the top since I can't think of any network admin that was picked up off the street. I'm sure they all had to st...	My question to you reddit, how can I start my IT career with a college degree and about a year's worth of field related experience?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: As humans, should it really be up to us to determine when our beloved pets should die? POST: [My cat Bear] has cancer in his head. He has a tumor behind his eye and one just above the bridge of his nose. Presumably the cancer has also spread to other parts of his body. Bear stopped eatin...	My cat is dying of cancer and I don't know if it's ethically my place to say, "today you die."<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: how do I (24) get my boyfriend (20) of almost two years, to open up about what he wants out of our relationship? POST: My boyfriend will be leaving for basic in about a week and it's been hard on the both of us. I just want to know where we stand and what he wants out of me while ...	Boyfriend will be leaving for basic, I can't get him to open up about what he wants out of our relationship<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I become a better listener? POST: OK. I've read through some "help I have no friends and my family hates me" type posts and I see a theme about people my age(college) joining clubs and listening to people and reaching out. So I joined come clubs and reached out and I'm trying to l...	I guess what I'm asking is how do I get out of my own way enough to just be a part of the group?<\|endoftext\|>