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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it reasonable to get mad at my boyfriend for his bad eating habits? POST: My boyfriend eats horribly, to the extent that he'll go days without having a full serving of fruits or veggies. I know to some extent, it's normal (first year university, in Rez), but his caf has tons have heal...	My boyfriend has reeeeally bad eating habits and it frustrates me that he has no motivation to fix them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18/F] just wanted to hook up with him [23/M] but he's acting weird. POST: I've [18 F] been talking to this dude [23 M] (Tom) off and on through a pretty messy breakup lasting several months. Now that things with the other guy [21 M] have actually ended, I figured I'd go ahead and ...	I banged a guy, thought we were hooking up, he said some stuff to make me believe otherwise, now I feel weird<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Having trouble with identity POST: I don't who I am or who or want to become. I have been called white even though I am black and people call me white. I listen to some rock and pop music and I do things some black people don't do like watch anime and some "nerdy white stuff" and it hur...	I'm black. People say I act white and it makes me feel bad I don't know what to do.In school I'm just a floater between white kids and black kids and I just want to Pick a side.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Does working off shift hours always lead to problems in a relationship? POST: So glad this subreddit exists! When I first got out of college, I worked third shift. Third shift unequivocally sucks, but I put in my two years and moved on. Thank God I was a college night owl because I...	My boyfriend doesn't like my work schedule and frequently complains about it. Is working the same schedule important for relationship harmony? Am I selfish that I don't want to give up a job I really enjoy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my close friend [22F] of many years, first date went well...not sure about what now. POST: So as I said I asked her on a date, about 3 weeks ago now. It went very well. Found out she had a crush on me since freshmen year of high school, and she said she couldn't belie...	had an excellent first date, struggling to get a second even though she says she cant wait for it. Getting frustrated, looking for some insight.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: HELP: I have a rapist's information and don't know what to do with it! POST: Hello! I used to be a casual lurker of this site, but recent information about my niece's best friend's plight urged me to make an account and come to you for help. My niece and her best friend, both 14, were g...	my question for you, Reddit, is what can I do with this information? What would you do with this? How would you handle this? Can anyone help me? Can someone help a scared teenager?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am often the object of blame in my relationship. Am I actually the one doing wrong most of the time, or is my bf staving off taking responsibility? POST: Hey Reddit. My relationship is at a breaking point right now. One of the problems I have with my BF (we are a m/f couple, both ...	my bf says that I am the source of most arguments and he continuously blames me for them. Am I doing that much wrong, or is he not taking responsibility?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/m] Regret "Breaking up" with long time gf [21/f]... maybe. POST: So me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 years. We transferred to different schools and have tried to keep together for a year. I was not feeling too good about the distance so I broke up with her yester...	Broke up with amazing girl, because of distance. Should I date awhile, get her back, contact her, or something else?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Kinda sorta ex-girlfriend [17 F] of a couple of months has been lying to me POST: I know I am young-ish compared to some on here but me and this girl we dated for up to 2 weeks I found her to tick most of the early stages boxes for me and thought "Yeah I hope me and...	Went out with girl, liked girl. Girl wanted to focus on college work, I let her while still being friends and even though she says she still has feelings is seeing another guy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why do I have to enter a guess for the IRR command in Excel? POST: I understand that it calculates on some sort of guessing system, but here's what I don't understand. According to Micro$hit's website, it only makes 20 guesses and then gives up. TWENTY!!! First of all, it uses 6 threads ...	Excel uses 6 threads and 83.06 megabytes of ram, so why does it only make 20 guesses at calculating the IRR, when that just makes me have to do all the work myself?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Stock options nullified POST: Started at a company 7 months ago. (Seattle, WA) Recruiter told me the salary was XXX dollar amount, after interview, company offered me about 10% less. I said that wasn't going to fly, so they "compromised" at about 5% less than the original with this ...	Accept job offer based on stock option potential. CFO tells me my stock options aren't going to happen, ever.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] feel anxious when hanging out with my friends except for two people, is this normal? POST: I dont know why this worries me lately. I would say im introverted, I haven't had many friends all my life. I get this weird anxious or nervous feeling when I go out with any of my fr...	Every friend except two I feel anxious to hang out with, is this pretty normal, or am I just too attached to those two people?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28M] have told my girlfriend [29F] that I want to take her last name when we get married, but she does not feel good about the idea. POST: Nine months ago, my girlfriend proposed to me while we were at a music festival. It was a fantastic moment for the both of us and we have been...	I have told my girlfriend that I want to take her last name when we get married, but she is not sure about the idea, any advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] of 6 months childhood sweethearts, but she wants to go back to friends. POST: Hello. My girlfriend of 6 months just gave me the "we should just be friends " line. She says she still likes me, but isn't ready for a relationship. We have practically ...	Girlfriend wants to just be friends, but stay close. Do I wait, try and get her to love me again, move on, or just stay friends?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm in the middle of college and have a good job going for me, and now my parents want me to drop everything and move from Seattle back to Detroit. What can I do? POST: Some background: My family moved from Michigan in 2007 leaving all of our family there. I am 19 female and just fin...	I feel like I have a lot of things going for me in Seattle (job, college, friends) and my parents want me to suddenly move back to Michigan to be with their parents. Not sure what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Alot of strange resistance? POST: Hello everyone. I've been chatting with a F17 while im M23, for about 4 months. I met her on a website, and since then we've moved onto skype and texting via. phone. The issue is; she recently told me that she has an abusive ex boyfriend who during...	Female girl, was in abusive relationship. The ex is still dominating her life with threats. Convinced her i'd protect her, and she accepts. She still denies my every suggestion of 'moving forward' with me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [34/F] with my "crush"/friend [25 M/] 3 months of something between us POST: I met this younger guy some months ago through work and we really hit it off well. We started talking and noticed that we were able to talk for hours and actually reveal our deepest and darkest secrets ev...	We hit it off really well with this guy but something happened, he broke all contact and I don't know how to fix things.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Dating [30F] Trying to pinpoint the kind of relationship I want but lost and confused POST: I'm a 30 year old single mom. I have a 5 year old, a great job, a life that runs like clockwork - efficient, successful, full of hobbies, responsibilities and fun. I have money to spend and ...	Is this scenario realistic? So far, I either attract unavailable fuck buddies who frustrate me and play games or men who eventually move on to be in a more involved relationship, or because I have a kid and the fun is over.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17m] want to be affectionate with her [17f] (and she might want to be with me), but we agreed to take things 'day-by-day' POST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost three months, and things have been going great. We actually talked about our feelings on Saturday - thing...	We recently told each other how we feel, and we agreed to take things "day-by-day." I don't know what "day-by-day" entails for her though.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26M] with [28F]. Dated for 3 years, she cheated and is now with the guy she cheated with. How do I get over this? POST: We were together for 3 years and had lots of amazing times together. We were discussing our future and seemed to be on the same path. Then she just suddenly cha...	Dated a girl for 3 years, she cheated with a coworker, and now they are together. How can I get over this feeling of betrayal?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] might be falling for my freind [20 F] who I sometimes sleep with. POST: So, me and my freind have been talking for a while, kinda flirty. We started adressing the fact we were flirting, and we both tell eachother we think the other is really attractive. Eventually we came t...	Sleep with freind, but might be falling for her. Shes taller and wont date me because i am shorter. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My [F22] "bestfriend" [F23] won't stop talking to my soon to be ex husband [M25] POST: Alright, my ex (well call him rob) and I met about 4 years ago. We dated for 3 before he proposed. Anyways, before we got married (well call her sam) and Rob were strangely close. For awhile ...	My ex and one of my best friends were strangely close and continue to be close even though I've expressed how much it bothers me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Women of Reddit, make me [21 / M] boyfriend material! POST: Sorry for the trite title, but I need your advice. I'm a 21 year old British guy and I've never had a proper relationship. So here's the deal: I'm looking to PM one or two female heterosexual redditors more info about me, qu...	Seeking female advice via PM. Will elaborate once we get chatting. I'm uncomfortable with blowing my 'personal life' load publicly.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How do I [19f] let him [21m] down easy? POST: Before I start, thanks for taking the time to read this. Also I'm trying to convey my feelings best I can but my thoughts are all jumbled right now so bare with me. My guy and I have been seeing each other for a few months now. We aren'...	Been seeing a guy for awhile, there are a few issues and I see him as just a friend. How can I address this with him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom [50/F] is in an abusive relationship. She wants me to come to her birthday dinner, and her boyfriend [50/M] will be there. [I am 24/F] POST: Background I recently found out that my mothers boyfriend of 2 years has become increasingly abusive towards her. It is mostly emo...	I want nothing to do with my mom's asshole of a boyfriend but I want to make her feel special and loved on her birthday. Should I go?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My best friends(f/20) keep mentioning that I(f/20) have no other friends POST: I have two best girl friends, and I have a fiancé. (We are all 20, and I met them all 4 years ago when I moved to this town) All three of them are very social people, and I am not. They have all grown up w...	I have two best friends and a fiancé. My friends think it's weird I only have them 3. Now I'm insecure about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Today is the last time I shed a tear for you. Here's the always sought out goodbye POST: I never stopped loving you. I was not mature enough to know what a girl means when she says this or says that. I cussed you. I made fun of you. I said things to you not because I didn't care for you...	I will love you always. And beyond. And I wish someday you feel the same and life me off my misery.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Oh, so you like your Brights? POST: Alright, so a bit of backstory: I'm a cashier at a fast-food restaurant. I don't think my job is in any way difficult, but I have to deal with some VERY irritating people. After a long shift, I'd like to have a peaceful ride home so that I can catc...	Some moron decided to flash his brights at me, so I pulled over and got behind him to do the same.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Dont know what to do about crush anymore POST: I (21 male) meet this girl (22 Female) at the beginning of the school year through work. I asked her out and she said no but we were still cool and became friends. Over Christmas break I had surgery and when I was on the drugs I sent her...	Ive been crushing hard over a girl for this entire year and she has now graduated and I wont see her as often and I dont know what to do about my feeling anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Both of my grandmothers have been diagnosed with cancer. I [20F] am unsure whether or not to tell my boyfriend [22M] now, or until he returns from holiday. POST: As the title says. This has come as a bit of a shock, so apologies if my formatting/spelling isn't the best right now. I ...	Grandmothers have cancer, do i tell my boyfriend now and risk ruining his holiday or when he's back? Also any advice on how to handle the cancer situation in general. Thanks.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24F) boyfriend (25M) went back to his hometown for a funeral, and can't tell me when he's coming back. POST: My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost two months - which I realize isn't a very long time, but we became really serious with each other very quickly, w...	My boyfriend left for a funeral two weeks ago, and hasn't given me a solid answer on when he's coming back yet. How can I talk to him about this while still being respectful of him being in mourning?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend is severely depressed due to past relationship, what can i do to help her? POST: Ive been going out with her for two months now, i am 17 she is 16. It is my first relationship so i'm not very good at dealing with a situation like this. The source of her depression is lin...	girlfriend is severely depressed to a horrible relationship she was in, destroyed her completely and now our relationship is lacking growth. Help please.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: My[21/M] father[60'sM] transferred the family company to my name and I don't know what to do! POST: I lot of people told me to come here but I'm not sure you guys can help me since most of you maybe not familiar with my country laws. I'm a Brazilian university student. When I turned 1...	Self-destructive and controlling father transferred the company to my name. Worried about my future, what should I look for in the company files to make sure I will be OK?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19M ] with my ex [22F] broken up for 3 years yet she's still into me. POST: Sorry if this is a little long. I won't go into too much personal details, but the story goes we met in High School. I was a Freshman and she was a Junior. We both instantly hit it off and we were togethe...	My ex still likes me, but I've moved on and I'm debating whether to ignore her, or try to stay friends because I do still see her as a friend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My housemates lock me out of the house when I visit my bf for the night, am I right to be annoyed? [all early 20s F] POST: I often go to stay the night at my boyfriend's house (he lives about 5 mins away), leaving my three housemates in our house. They tend to bolt the door as soon a...	Housemates are really paranoid about security, ends up with me not being able to get back into my own house. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am a 19M virgin, and my 19F friend is into me, and I'm not sure if I'm attracted to her, but I wish I was cause she's neat. POST: I'm a virgin, but like most 19 year old dudes, I REALLY wanna have sex. I also feel a kind of constant pressure to lose my virginity. Recently, I was ha...	I'm a virgin, want to have sex bad. Friend is pretty and cool and definitely into wanting to have sex. Not sure if I want to with her. Don't know why. Confused.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] am dealing with a crisis about opening up to a relationship. POST: I have never been a social butterfly. All of my life I have been to myself and have a difficult time having many friends because of my bluntness and social awkwardness. It's not that I cannot be social it's j...	Am I coveting what my social circle is having or have I come to the realization that there is more to life than what I am doing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, which song carries sentimental value for you? POST: [Simon and Garfunkel's Bridge Over Troubled Water] does it for me. From 8 years old on, I had zero contact with my father. When I was 21 he added me on facebook. It was a shock but I tried to keep our relationship light and ca...	Estranged father enjoys this song. So do I. He passes before I get a chance to know him. Now whenever I play this song [this happens to me.](<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] desperately need to break up with my depressed BF [25 M] of a year and end this negative influence in my life. Looking for advice/help from anyone who has experienced something similar. POST: Hello world, I'm looking for some support and or advice right now. I need to end m...	I need to break up with my emotionally manipulative boyfriend of a year and move on with my life. Looking for advice/encouragement.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20M] Just a question about dating women in general. POST: I'm not looking to give my life story here, but I just read a comment in /r/bestof about how confidence in a man is so attractive because it allows him to treat a woman that he's involved with as an equal as opposed to puttin...	What's the line between allowing a woman to know that she means a lot to you, and not "putting her on a pedestal" as opposed to "treating her as an equal" which is apparently preferable.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [28 M] have a right to be mad at my friend [26 F] for sleeping with my cousin? POST: To make a long story short me and this girl have been very close friends for about 6 years. after year 1 i told her i had feelings for her, unfortunately she didn't feel the same. whatever, our ...	very close friend of 6 years who knows i have strong feelings for her slept with my cousin do i have a right to be mad/hurt by this and is she wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/M] Struggling to become a person i'm proud of POST: I'm still confused about my relationship with my ex which has broken me down and hurt me emotionally. The constant arguments have always brought up my insecurities and my flaws that I didn't notice before. 1. I never handle...	Done with my past relationship and I'm trying to find myself to be a better person. I have a lot of flaws but these are just some problems I want to fix.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU When trying to describe someone to my gf POST: As is the norm this didn't happen today but here goes. I play american football in Britain and recently we had a girl (for the rest of the story shall be known as Lucy) who had joined and started the initial stages of forming a woman's team....	Described the new girl on american football team as "The girl with tits doing the water" to my girlfriend when 'Tits' is the nickname of the guy being the water boy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] feel more insecure with my [25M] bf of 1 month than when we first met. POST: Background: I have not dated in a verrrry long time-and even to the point where my first bf didn't even really count because it was 2 months in sophomore year of high school. But even still, I feel l...	I feel like I'm getting more insecure as my relationship continues and I need advice in maintaining my self-confidence and trust in my bf. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] duration, 9 months fighting about smoking too much weed POST: I'm in my last semester of college, and I'm becoming really comfortable with myself. I have job offers on the table and I kicked ass at my internship. However, now that I'm back at schoo...	I smoke weed once a day, she thinks it's unattractive. What should I do? I even offered to throw it away. She still just fights and complains.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: What's the best way to look for an advertising job that isn't based in my home state? POST: I just want to preface by saying that I am not 100% sure if this is the correct subreddit, and any advice you are willing and/or able to give (including guiding me to the correct subreddit) would be gr...	College senior from New York looking for the best way to go about job hunting for a position at an ad agency across the US.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (19M) want to start a relationship/dating scene with this shy/introverted girl(20F) I like. Both inexperienced. not sure what to do. POST: I'm (19M) met her (20F)* she turns 20 in a few weeks * in my Japanese class. We've known each other for about 7 months. She's on the shy intr...	I like this introverted/shy girl I've known for 7 months that's been dropping subtle hints that she likes me. What do? How do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26M] with erectile disfunction, how do I approach dating? POST: So I've had significant performance issues with both erectile disfunction and premature ejaculation my whole life, and I'm not sure how I should handle this with dating. I was in a long term relationship for a very lon...	Should I broach the subject of being bad in bed earlier on in dating? And if so when and how?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The [26F] I [25M] have been seeing for a month has openly admitted to talking to other guys. POST: We are dating pretty seriously, but have agreed to avoid the relationship talk for a while. She was betrayed by her last serious relationship and is therefor afraid of commitment. I, on...	Is it okay to feel jealous that my non-committed lady is talking to another guy until she's ready to commit to me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should I (20/f) keep waiting for the guy (25/m) I'm seeing to make up his mind? POST: I've been seeing him for two and a half months total and I like him quite a lot. We're compatible and have a lot fun together but I'm worried about bringing up the what-are-we talk. A month i...	I've been seeing this guy for 10ish weeks and want to know where he stands but after a foolish attempt a month in that flopped: I'm scared to try again. Should I keep waiting?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (f/21) thought I was on my account but was on his (m/24), I found stuff I didn't like. POST: I just got on to check my messages (I post in GWP so I get a few), I don't know why I didn't notice the name, but in his messages there was some a few from girls, one was his buying p...	I found messages on my SO's reddit of him buying panties. How do I bring it up to him or let it slide?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My frustrating overzealous mod experience. Does it seem fair to you reddit? POST: Hey guys, Recently, I submitted a link to a video I made to a small subreddit and it got upvoted to the top. I figured "Okay, maybe this would appeal to a wider audience then". So I went up to another, ...	I submitted a link to a video I made that got upvoted to the front page, and since I submit all my vids with same account and didn't use a throwaway, it got taken down. Fair?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Looking for career ideas for a burnt programmer POST: After 13 years of programming and almost all of it the same type of stuff - apps that jam stuff in a database and regurgitate it onto a webpage/winform app. The usual suggestions when I talk to people or google are: 1.) take time off...	Burnt out coder looking for suggestions besides the standard "be a manager or take time off" answers. I've thought of TFS admin or automated testing so far.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my ex [26 F] broke up, her stuff is at mine, it's complicated POST: Hi there. So the first thing to say is that I'm a terrible person. Me and my ex hooked up, moved in together too soon, and had serious personality clashes. Many of these were at least partially my fau...	horrible breakup, ex's stuff is still here, she won't talk to me, I want to arrange it being removed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is focusing on the negatives and thinking they would mean a relationship would never work, a good idea? I'm 20/f POST: Not only am I now battling intimacy issues with guys due to my first ever boyfriend and how he treated me, I'm also trying to make sure I'm over the most recent guy ...	is focusing on the negatives of a guy/relationship, thinking they would mean it would never work out, a good way to get over him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] coworkers are talking shit about me behind my back. What am I doing wrong? POST: I am a cashier at a hardware store. Today, my immediate supervisor asked me to help her with some returns that needed to be brought to the back of the store. After I finished taking the returns...	Coworker slipped up and revealed that people have been talking behind my back, I have no idea what I could be doing to cause this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I(23/f) want to get back with my ex, need help with contacting him(23/m) again. POST: So a little background on us. We dated for 2 years. We broke up around 4 years ago because I had trust issues and self esteem issues. I'ved dated one guy seriously(1.5 years) since him, but I...	I want my ex to know I've changed and want to try and possibly try to get know each other again/possible date.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 23 M I need advice with my 20 F crush, can i ask her this without ruining the relationship so far? POST: alright so a quick summery, begining of the semester i was paired up with a cute girl in class who turns out is really awesome and has alot of the same interest and view points as...	i want to ask girl im talking to if she s actually interested in me or if we're just friends - is this a bad idea?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I think I may have a drinking problem and need advice. POST: I've been drinking for about 6 years and usually drink once or twice a month with friends. I have gotten myself into trouble on multiple occasions. I've broken the law but have never been caught, have broken up with my ...	I don't like the person I become when I drink sometimes. I don't believe I'm an alcoholic but need advice on how to control the amount I intake when I do drink.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me M25, suffering almost bi-polar tendencies over my situation with F25. POST: So I really don't know what to do here. I was hoping the people of Reddit could help. I broke up with my ex a month and a half ago. We'd been talking about reconciling but then she met a guy on OkCupid a...	Fell in love with a girl, proposed, engaged, she cheated, broke up, got back together, broke up, she moved on, now feeling like a human see-saw emotionally. Trying to work out her actions.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] mixed feelings about relationship with GF [24 F] after 6 months POST: I've been together with my gf for about 6 months, and this is my first serious relationship. We have fun together and our personalities seem to match, but due to my lack of experience in relationships I fe...	Not sure what to do with gf who wants serious commitment where I don't feel comfortable with it, especially as I'm unsure about what my feelings for her are. Yet, I don't want to lose her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28m] friend [25m] said something the other day that bothered me, tonight i will confront him about it. POST: My buddy, who we will call Justin and I have been friends for just about a decade, have gotten closer over the last four years. He is like a little brother to me, I love h...	long time friend said some sexist things to me, going to talk with him about it tonight, how to properly handle the conversation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why do servers get paid so much in the USA? POST: Seriously, the cooks and the rest of the staff out back don't see tips. Maybe servers tip them out a couple bucks but they keep 90% of the cash for themseves. Why do servers feel so entitled to these rediculous tips for just carrying pl...	Servers have rigged the system by blaming customers and their employers of not getting paid enough while they rake in the cash for themselves.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Recommendation on a hydration pack? POST: This year, my goal is to run longer and more trail. Until now, my main problem in this regard has been that I dehydrate after 90 minutes or so as I am sweating very easily and heavily. A bottle belt would be one solution, but I'd like to bring alon...	I am looking for a hydration pack for long trail runs that can also pack a light jacket and some food. Any recommendations?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: I got petty revenged so hard by a random grandmother today and I deserved it POST: At the moment I'm staying at my grandmothers retirement house. It is a huge building in the city with many residents. I am here to help take care of her dog while she goes to some event in another state...	I made a joke about my dog being as old as these two kind grandmothers. One got me back by pushing the elevator button to the wrong floor.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. I need Advice. POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. She is 17, I'm 16. Her parents are divorced, and her dad hates me because he found out we had sex, so it makes things really hard. He refuses to let her see me or...	Girlfriend problems. Her dad hates me. It's hard to talk at and after school. She randomly gets mad at me. People say I don't deserve it. I love her, but I agree. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm about to be promoted at work and my friend [23F] will be my [28F] direct report. I need suggestions on how to maintain our friendship while being a good boss. POST: I've had a really great friendship with a girl (Liz) when she started working in my department about 16 months ago....	My really close friend and I both got promoted, and I will be her manager. This is also my first managerial position ever. How do I maintain our friendship AND be a good, unbiased boss?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need help, reddit. Should I quit my job where I'm verbally abused by the manager and abused by a coworker? POST: I work at Wendy's part time while I go to high school. It's for a Work Based Learning class. I usually do fries and nuggets. I was doing my regular "scoop the fries and put...	My co-worker hits me in the balls every time I walk by him and my manager called me fucker twice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: What's the best way to pay off my credit cards? POST: Hello Personal Finance! I recently put myself in quite a sticky situation and I'm wondering what's the best plan of attack to tackling my credit card debt. A few months ago I paid off all my cards ( I currently have three). I w...	I make roughly $1100 a month. I need to pay off about $1000 dollars in CC debt. What's the most effective way to pay this debt off?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Both early 20's, cannot get myself to grab her hand or hold my arm around her waist. POST: Hi guys, So i'm seeing this girl for half a year now, and by seeing i mean just hanging out. I got signs she likes me.. Asks me out, we go to the cinemas, goof around etc. But I'm a total a...	unable to grab her hand or put my arm around her waist, logic says to do so, early experiences with women hold me back with depressing feelings/thoughts, almost panic. How do I go at it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By finishing my PhD. POST: So this happened last December, but it still is going on (please excuse my English, it is not my native language [or area]). So I was a high school teacher and decided to pursue a PhD, got accepted in several universities, went for the one with the best fundin...	If you are doing a PhD, don't finish it. If you finish it, apply for another one. The only time you will be in Academia is if you are a student.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Need advice on girl giving me mixed signals. Me [29/M] her [27/F] POST: So this girl and I have this on-going friendship. We've known each other for a number of years and have always had fun on nights out, including a couple of kisses, but only recently have we started hanging ...	Girl claims she likes me, thinks about me, but it isnt enough and "something is missing". I feel like she's holding back. Do I need to step up my game ?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Need some direction.. POST: Hey /r/personalfinance, I'm starting to realize that budgeting and financial responsibility is very important for my future comfort level. I'm a 24 years old. I've taken some serious thought in my goals and potential way of saving for the future (house,...	I'm 24 years old, have about $5,000 that I'm willing to invest in 2015. Want to buy a home within 5 years but also want to prepare for retirement.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 M] girlfriend [19 F] of almost 2 yeats broke up with me recently and I am kind of lost right now POST: Hi. First off I guess I should mention she is... Or rather was, my first girlfriend, literally my first kiss and everything. So me and my gf were going to take a break so sh...	my gf of two years broke up with me who was my first everything and now I am on a roller coaster of emotions and have no idea what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Compatibility and Needs POST: My SO (29f) and I (30m) had a talk tonight regarding needs, comparability and fulfilling each others needs. It was a highly emotional day for both of us due to a big future conversation last night. I am a very understanding partner and accommodate her ...	I tend to love daily contact and my girlfriend is more independent not needing those things in a relationship. How can we adopt the positive qualities of one another's traits? I feel neither of us are wrong here but can make it work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend [19F] of 6 months won't have sex with me [20M] anymore. POST: This has been going on for a few weeks now. I'm not entirely positive why, but I am nearly it's because of a fairly isolated instance of erectile dysfunction on my part (it's only happened on two other occasions...	Girlfriend doesn't want to have sex so much she suggest I 'go elsewhere' for it and won't really tell me why.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being a good friend. POST: So my buddy has a girl he has been talking to for about a month now and she invites him over...but there is a catch...her best friend was over there...so him not wanting to have a 3rd Wheel he suggests bringing me to keep her busy while he tries his luck at ...	Tried to be a bro...ended up with me getting a bj from a transgender who didn't finish the process and me trying to finger a ballsack...<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: She [18/F] slept with a mutual co-worker before we started talking. How do I [22/M] deal with this? POST: Soon after we started dating, a friend of mine told me he heard that she was 'fuck buddies' with our'mutual co-worker', I assumed it was people talking shit and told her ab...	My girlfriend hooked up with a mutual co-worker before we started talking, even though she doesn't talk to him anymore it still bothers me that she did. How do I deal with this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] with my boyfriend [20 M] 7 years, He is having health problems and supported by his parents but his mother will not support a visit to the doctor and is generally emotionally abusive toward him POST: My boyfriend has been feeling sick lately. He is supported financially by ...	My boyfriend is feeling ill but is unable to go to the doctor for both financial reasons and parental control reasons. I want to help but I do not know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Probably not interested POST: I(19M) met this girl(18 F) this semester in school. For some reason she told me she thought I was sweet when we got into a conversation in class. I thought she had a crush on me or something. Now I'm a rather introverted and somewhat pessimistic person. ...	This girl called me sweet for no reason, thought she had a crush on me, but isn't really showing any signs now. Please help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Question about dating site etiquette... POST: So, I had an account on an online dating site. For a while I was talking to several different people, but none of them really "clicked" and I didn't see any of it becoming more than friendly. Recently though, I met the girl that I'm...	was on a dating site, now in a serious relationship, what is the appropriate way to cut off other contacts from the site without being rude?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: You have a blank slate - what running program do you give the person? POST: Hey /r/running I'm a blank slate for you. A 19 year old male college student, physically fit in terms of strength, fairly lean, but absolutely crap cardio. Assume I haven't played sports regularly or ran since high...	What running program would you give a college Everyman to give the most efficient benefits for heart, lungs, and short term endurance?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My roommate broke up with his girlfriend, I don't know how to help POST: Ok so last week my roommate/friend M[19] broke up with his girlfriend F[18], they had been going out for about two years. They go to different schools so for 8 of the last 12 months it was long distance. Thing i...	roommate's gf of two year breaks up with him, he doesn't talk about, I don't know how to help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to the bar with friends. POST: Like most posts on TIFU, this didn't happen today, but it happened 2 days ago. However, I was out with two friends at a bar in the town next to mine, which I'm not too familiar with. They both left and took a cab because they were pretty drunk. I ...	Went to bar in area I've never been, someone pick-pocketed phone and wallet, left on the street for an hour in the cold.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [30m] been having regular dreams of having an affair. I am also getting very angry with my wife [30f] lately, 10+ years married POST: My wife and I had kids early and were married quite young. We've made it work so far, but have plenty of mental scars to show for it. Recently ...	my wife and are experiencing some really bumpy moments after a life changing move to another country. I have a history of emotional cheating, she had a history of depression.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are some good careers to pursue instead of going to college? POST: I'm 26, I dropped out of college twice. Last October I got laid off from an amazing job that was supposed to be my career. A year later and I've worked at 4 dead end jobs. I am currently in debt and pay for m...	I'm broke and can't afford to go back to college, what are some good places to find steady employment and good pay?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [F, 20] in a new relationship with great guy [M, 20]... but having some reservations because I feel like I should be completely self-focused at this point in my life? POST: So I recently got into a relationship with a guy. He's great, I feel a truly deep connection with him that I...	Is it possible to be in a relationship while also being self-focused and further developing one's true sense of self?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/f] I need help with friends relationship...Sorry if it's long POST: To make a long story short, many of my friends come to me with relationship advice. The ironic twist I've been single for most of my life. But besides the point I help a lot of my friends, and somehow I'll ...	My friend and her boyfriend like each other a lot. But due to him being very busy, he's thinking about breaking up with her. And she has plans to go to the ball, I'm the one stuck in the middle.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: This girl told me I am not interested, yet I am going to still pursue her. POST: So I am a boy (16) and I have been trying to get this girl for a while (15.8). I was going to ask her to homecoming but it fell through. So recently I started texting her. So last night I texted her and ...	I told this girl that I liked her, but she doesnt feel the same way. I am still going to pursue her though. Any tips or thoughts?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'[m] eighteen, she's nineteen, and I suspect that we are the wrong people for our relationship POST: We've been dating for nine-months now, and I don't know if it's going to work out. See, I'm 18, and am a very, very private person with mild trust issues and a tendency towards facin...	Girlfriend and I fight frequently, I feel like these fights are my fault, and she tells all of her friends about them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Is She sending mixed signals? POST: Background: My ex and I had been dating for 5 months. She recently moved about 5 hours away from me to start a new job. I had known about it for months and put in paperwork to transfer my job to move up there with her. During these 5 months, she broke up wi...	Broke up due to her believing I cheated or had intentions. She wants to be friends with benefits. Job transfer went through and she still wants me to live with her. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M with my friend/partner [34 F] 3 months, is town too small for my ex? POST: Town is too small for ex? Hi, I wen't through a break up/dumped last year. I decided to spend the year away from home to give myself enough time to heal and move over it. I recently came back to my ...	break up happened over a year ago, my whole life changed, left home then came back. Feel the city is to small<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do i reclaim money from Microsoft POST: Hi, i recently purchased microsoft points to buy a deal involving GTA:San Andreas. Since i only have a 4gb black xbox i had to delete alot of saves and stuff to make room, but i assumed it would be worthit to play such a great game. Anyway i do...	Bought microsoft points, downloaded game, turns out it wont play without old xbox and it never said. help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How can you tell if a guy actually likes you, and is not just a hookup buddy? POST: So I (16/F) started talking to this guy Stephen (17/M) about two months ago when we meet through Facebook. We talked often over text and Facebook, but we really wanted to meet in person. So th...	guy and girl meet online, finally meet, talk a lot, kiss, text even more than before, is this guy just a hook up buddy or could this lead to something more?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: 4 months progress pic! 22/f/5'4" POST: Since this subreddit has really helped to motivate me through both great advice and your progress pictures, I thought I would post some progress pictures of my own. And honestly, if I can do it, ANYONE can. I never thought I could lose weight, and I l...	1200 calories a day, exercise 3+ days a week, if I can do it you can too! Oh and you're all great and I love you, thanks for being super r/loseit :3<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: manipulated into adding another phone line to my mobile phone service. [Canada] POST: Before I begin, I would like to state that I'm aware I made a stupid mistake in doing this. I was out with my friend and she was phone shopping, originally looking for a new pay-as-you-go phone, we ...	was lied to by sales guy, added a new line to my account without the knowledge that it would be I who was responsible for all unpaid bills from this new line, need advice<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] told a girl [18F] that I didn't like her, but I actually do. POST: I [19M] told a girl [18F] that I didn't like her, but I actually do. I've known this girl for a few months now, we were just friends at first and didn't go out on any dates. We seemed to connect pretty well, a...	Told a girl I didn't like her but I actually do. Reluctant to start a relationship for unknown reason.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's something that you are truly ashamed of? POST: I'll start, when I was in highschool, grade 9, I had a started with a very close nit group of friends, around 6 of us. We had all gotten to know each other the previous year in one class, and before then, I honestly had 0 frie...	Had medium group of friends entering high school, as a group we somehow decided to cut off communication with one specific person, I felt like a dirtbag for going along with it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Keeping large amounts of small denominations in closet POST: As a preface, I'm a bank teller. Anyways, one of our customers likes to come in and get a lot of coin (pennies, nickles, etc.), 1 dollar bills, and 2 dollar bills. He told me that he keeps it all in the top of his closet ...	I'm a bank teller, customer keeps a lot of small denominations in closet, what are the repercussions of holding onto all that?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27M] gf [27F] tells me about male movie stars who she finds attractive. Is there something wrong with me for not liking it? POST: My gf (of 1.5 years) often gushes to me about male movie stars who she finds attractive. She tells me that she goes to see all their movies just to se...	My GF gushes about male movie stars who she finds attractive and it bothers me. Am I just being insecure, or should I confront her about it?<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it reasonable to get mad at my boyfriend for his bad eating habits? POST: My boyfriend eats horribly, to the extent that he'll go days without having a full serving of fruits or veggies. I know to some extent, it's normal (first year university, in Rez), but his caf has tons have heal...	My boyfriend has reeeeally bad eating habits and it frustrates me that he has no motivation to fix them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18/F] just wanted to hook up with him [23/M] but he's acting weird. POST: I've [18 F] been talking to this dude [23 M] (Tom) off and on through a pretty messy breakup lasting several months. Now that things with the other guy [21 M] have actually ended, I figured I'd go ahead and ...	I banged a guy, thought we were hooking up, he said some stuff to make me believe otherwise, now I feel weird<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Having trouble with identity POST: I don't who I am or who or want to become. I have been called white even though I am black and people call me white. I listen to some rock and pop music and I do things some black people don't do like watch anime and some "nerdy white stuff" and it hur...	I'm black. People say I act white and it makes me feel bad I don't know what to do.In school I'm just a floater between white kids and black kids and I just want to Pick a side.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Does working off shift hours always lead to problems in a relationship? POST: So glad this subreddit exists! When I first got out of college, I worked third shift. Third shift unequivocally sucks, but I put in my two years and moved on. Thank God I was a college night owl because I...	My boyfriend doesn't like my work schedule and frequently complains about it. Is working the same schedule important for relationship harmony? Am I selfish that I don't want to give up a job I really enjoy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my close friend [22F] of many years, first date went well...not sure about what now. POST: So as I said I asked her on a date, about 3 weeks ago now. It went very well. Found out she had a crush on me since freshmen year of high school, and she said she couldn't belie...	had an excellent first date, struggling to get a second even though she says she cant wait for it. Getting frustrated, looking for some insight.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: HELP: I have a rapist's information and don't know what to do with it! POST: Hello! I used to be a casual lurker of this site, but recent information about my niece's best friend's plight urged me to make an account and come to you for help. My niece and her best friend, both 14, were g...	my question for you, Reddit, is what can I do with this information? What would you do with this? How would you handle this? Can anyone help me? Can someone help a scared teenager?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am often the object of blame in my relationship. Am I actually the one doing wrong most of the time, or is my bf staving off taking responsibility? POST: Hey Reddit. My relationship is at a breaking point right now. One of the problems I have with my BF (we are a m/f couple, both ...	my bf says that I am the source of most arguments and he continuously blames me for them. Am I doing that much wrong, or is he not taking responsibility?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/m] Regret "Breaking up" with long time gf [21/f]... maybe. POST: So me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 years. We transferred to different schools and have tried to keep together for a year. I was not feeling too good about the distance so I broke up with her yester...	Broke up with amazing girl, because of distance. Should I date awhile, get her back, contact her, or something else?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Kinda sorta ex-girlfriend [17 F] of a couple of months has been lying to me POST: I know I am young-ish compared to some on here but me and this girl we dated for up to 2 weeks I found her to tick most of the early stages boxes for me and thought "Yeah I hope me and...	Went out with girl, liked girl. Girl wanted to focus on college work, I let her while still being friends and even though she says she still has feelings is seeing another guy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why do I have to enter a guess for the IRR command in Excel? POST: I understand that it calculates on some sort of guessing system, but here's what I don't understand. According to Micro$hit's website, it only makes 20 guesses and then gives up. TWENTY!!! First of all, it uses 6 threads ...	Excel uses 6 threads and 83.06 megabytes of ram, so why does it only make 20 guesses at calculating the IRR, when that just makes me have to do all the work myself?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Stock options nullified POST: Started at a company 7 months ago. (Seattle, WA) Recruiter told me the salary was XXX dollar amount, after interview, company offered me about 10% less. I said that wasn't going to fly, so they "compromised" at about 5% less than the original with this ...	Accept job offer based on stock option potential. CFO tells me my stock options aren't going to happen, ever.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] feel anxious when hanging out with my friends except for two people, is this normal? POST: I dont know why this worries me lately. I would say im introverted, I haven't had many friends all my life. I get this weird anxious or nervous feeling when I go out with any of my fr...	Every friend except two I feel anxious to hang out with, is this pretty normal, or am I just too attached to those two people?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28M] have told my girlfriend [29F] that I want to take her last name when we get married, but she does not feel good about the idea. POST: Nine months ago, my girlfriend proposed to me while we were at a music festival. It was a fantastic moment for the both of us and we have been...	I have told my girlfriend that I want to take her last name when we get married, but she is not sure about the idea, any advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] of 6 months childhood sweethearts, but she wants to go back to friends. POST: Hello. My girlfriend of 6 months just gave me the "we should just be friends " line. She says she still likes me, but isn't ready for a relationship. We have practically ...	Girlfriend wants to just be friends, but stay close. Do I wait, try and get her to love me again, move on, or just stay friends?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm in the middle of college and have a good job going for me, and now my parents want me to drop everything and move from Seattle back to Detroit. What can I do? POST: Some background: My family moved from Michigan in 2007 leaving all of our family there. I am 19 female and just fin...	I feel like I have a lot of things going for me in Seattle (job, college, friends) and my parents want me to suddenly move back to Michigan to be with their parents. Not sure what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Alot of strange resistance? POST: Hello everyone. I've been chatting with a F17 while im M23, for about 4 months. I met her on a website, and since then we've moved onto skype and texting via. phone. The issue is; she recently told me that she has an abusive ex boyfriend who during...	Female girl, was in abusive relationship. The ex is still dominating her life with threats. Convinced her i'd protect her, and she accepts. She still denies my every suggestion of 'moving forward' with me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [34/F] with my "crush"/friend [25 M/] 3 months of something between us POST: I met this younger guy some months ago through work and we really hit it off well. We started talking and noticed that we were able to talk for hours and actually reveal our deepest and darkest secrets ev...	We hit it off really well with this guy but something happened, he broke all contact and I don't know how to fix things.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Dating [30F] Trying to pinpoint the kind of relationship I want but lost and confused POST: I'm a 30 year old single mom. I have a 5 year old, a great job, a life that runs like clockwork - efficient, successful, full of hobbies, responsibilities and fun. I have money to spend and ...	Is this scenario realistic? So far, I either attract unavailable fuck buddies who frustrate me and play games or men who eventually move on to be in a more involved relationship, or because I have a kid and the fun is over.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17m] want to be affectionate with her [17f] (and she might want to be with me), but we agreed to take things 'day-by-day' POST: So this girl and I have been talking for almost three months, and things have been going great. We actually talked about our feelings on Saturday - thing...	We recently told each other how we feel, and we agreed to take things "day-by-day." I don't know what "day-by-day" entails for her though.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26M] with [28F]. Dated for 3 years, she cheated and is now with the guy she cheated with. How do I get over this? POST: We were together for 3 years and had lots of amazing times together. We were discussing our future and seemed to be on the same path. Then she just suddenly cha...	Dated a girl for 3 years, she cheated with a coworker, and now they are together. How can I get over this feeling of betrayal?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] might be falling for my freind [20 F] who I sometimes sleep with. POST: So, me and my freind have been talking for a while, kinda flirty. We started adressing the fact we were flirting, and we both tell eachother we think the other is really attractive. Eventually we came t...	Sleep with freind, but might be falling for her. Shes taller and wont date me because i am shorter. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My [F22] "bestfriend" [F23] won't stop talking to my soon to be ex husband [M25] POST: Alright, my ex (well call him rob) and I met about 4 years ago. We dated for 3 before he proposed. Anyways, before we got married (well call her sam) and Rob were strangely close. For awhile ...	My ex and one of my best friends were strangely close and continue to be close even though I've expressed how much it bothers me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Women of Reddit, make me [21 / M] boyfriend material! POST: Sorry for the trite title, but I need your advice. I'm a 21 year old British guy and I've never had a proper relationship. So here's the deal: I'm looking to PM one or two female heterosexual redditors more info about me, qu...	Seeking female advice via PM. Will elaborate once we get chatting. I'm uncomfortable with blowing my 'personal life' load publicly.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How do I [19f] let him [21m] down easy? POST: Before I start, thanks for taking the time to read this. Also I'm trying to convey my feelings best I can but my thoughts are all jumbled right now so bare with me. My guy and I have been seeing each other for a few months now. We aren'...	Been seeing a guy for awhile, there are a few issues and I see him as just a friend. How can I address this with him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom [50/F] is in an abusive relationship. She wants me to come to her birthday dinner, and her boyfriend [50/M] will be there. [I am 24/F] POST: Background I recently found out that my mothers boyfriend of 2 years has become increasingly abusive towards her. It is mostly emo...	I want nothing to do with my mom's asshole of a boyfriend but I want to make her feel special and loved on her birthday. Should I go?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My best friends(f/20) keep mentioning that I(f/20) have no other friends POST: I have two best girl friends, and I have a fiancé. (We are all 20, and I met them all 4 years ago when I moved to this town) All three of them are very social people, and I am not. They have all grown up w...	I have two best friends and a fiancé. My friends think it's weird I only have them 3. Now I'm insecure about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Today is the last time I shed a tear for you. Here's the always sought out goodbye POST: I never stopped loving you. I was not mature enough to know what a girl means when she says this or says that. I cussed you. I made fun of you. I said things to you not because I didn't care for you...	I will love you always. And beyond. And I wish someday you feel the same and life me off my misery.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Oh, so you like your Brights? POST: Alright, so a bit of backstory: I'm a cashier at a fast-food restaurant. I don't think my job is in any way difficult, but I have to deal with some VERY irritating people. After a long shift, I'd like to have a peaceful ride home so that I can catc...	Some moron decided to flash his brights at me, so I pulled over and got behind him to do the same.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Dont know what to do about crush anymore POST: I (21 male) meet this girl (22 Female) at the beginning of the school year through work. I asked her out and she said no but we were still cool and became friends. Over Christmas break I had surgery and when I was on the drugs I sent her...	Ive been crushing hard over a girl for this entire year and she has now graduated and I wont see her as often and I dont know what to do about my feeling anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Both of my grandmothers have been diagnosed with cancer. I [20F] am unsure whether or not to tell my boyfriend [22M] now, or until he returns from holiday. POST: As the title says. This has come as a bit of a shock, so apologies if my formatting/spelling isn't the best right now. I ...	Grandmothers have cancer, do i tell my boyfriend now and risk ruining his holiday or when he's back? Also any advice on how to handle the cancer situation in general. Thanks.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24F) boyfriend (25M) went back to his hometown for a funeral, and can't tell me when he's coming back. POST: My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost two months - which I realize isn't a very long time, but we became really serious with each other very quickly, w...	My boyfriend left for a funeral two weeks ago, and hasn't given me a solid answer on when he's coming back yet. How can I talk to him about this while still being respectful of him being in mourning?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend is severely depressed due to past relationship, what can i do to help her? POST: Ive been going out with her for two months now, i am 17 she is 16. It is my first relationship so i'm not very good at dealing with a situation like this. The source of her depression is lin...	girlfriend is severely depressed to a horrible relationship she was in, destroyed her completely and now our relationship is lacking growth. Help please.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: My[21/M] father[60'sM] transferred the family company to my name and I don't know what to do! POST: I lot of people told me to come here but I'm not sure you guys can help me since most of you maybe not familiar with my country laws. I'm a Brazilian university student. When I turned 1...	Self-destructive and controlling father transferred the company to my name. Worried about my future, what should I look for in the company files to make sure I will be OK?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19M ] with my ex [22F] broken up for 3 years yet she's still into me. POST: Sorry if this is a little long. I won't go into too much personal details, but the story goes we met in High School. I was a Freshman and she was a Junior. We both instantly hit it off and we were togethe...	My ex still likes me, but I've moved on and I'm debating whether to ignore her, or try to stay friends because I do still see her as a friend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My housemates lock me out of the house when I visit my bf for the night, am I right to be annoyed? [all early 20s F] POST: I often go to stay the night at my boyfriend's house (he lives about 5 mins away), leaving my three housemates in our house. They tend to bolt the door as soon a...	Housemates are really paranoid about security, ends up with me not being able to get back into my own house. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am a 19M virgin, and my 19F friend is into me, and I'm not sure if I'm attracted to her, but I wish I was cause she's neat. POST: I'm a virgin, but like most 19 year old dudes, I REALLY wanna have sex. I also feel a kind of constant pressure to lose my virginity. Recently, I was ha...	I'm a virgin, want to have sex bad. Friend is pretty and cool and definitely into wanting to have sex. Not sure if I want to with her. Don't know why. Confused.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] am dealing with a crisis about opening up to a relationship. POST: I have never been a social butterfly. All of my life I have been to myself and have a difficult time having many friends because of my bluntness and social awkwardness. It's not that I cannot be social it's j...	Am I coveting what my social circle is having or have I come to the realization that there is more to life than what I am doing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, which song carries sentimental value for you? POST: [Simon and Garfunkel's Bridge Over Troubled Water] does it for me. From 8 years old on, I had zero contact with my father. When I was 21 he added me on facebook. It was a shock but I tried to keep our relationship light and ca...	Estranged father enjoys this song. So do I. He passes before I get a chance to know him. Now whenever I play this song [this happens to me.](<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] desperately need to break up with my depressed BF [25 M] of a year and end this negative influence in my life. Looking for advice/help from anyone who has experienced something similar. POST: Hello world, I'm looking for some support and or advice right now. I need to end m...	I need to break up with my emotionally manipulative boyfriend of a year and move on with my life. Looking for advice/encouragement.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20M] Just a question about dating women in general. POST: I'm not looking to give my life story here, but I just read a comment in /r/bestof about how confidence in a man is so attractive because it allows him to treat a woman that he's involved with as an equal as opposed to puttin...	What's the line between allowing a woman to know that she means a lot to you, and not "putting her on a pedestal" as opposed to "treating her as an equal" which is apparently preferable.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [28 M] have a right to be mad at my friend [26 F] for sleeping with my cousin? POST: To make a long story short me and this girl have been very close friends for about 6 years. after year 1 i told her i had feelings for her, unfortunately she didn't feel the same. whatever, our ...	very close friend of 6 years who knows i have strong feelings for her slept with my cousin do i have a right to be mad/hurt by this and is she wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20/M] Struggling to become a person i'm proud of POST: I'm still confused about my relationship with my ex which has broken me down and hurt me emotionally. The constant arguments have always brought up my insecurities and my flaws that I didn't notice before. 1. I never handle...	Done with my past relationship and I'm trying to find myself to be a better person. I have a lot of flaws but these are just some problems I want to fix.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU When trying to describe someone to my gf POST: As is the norm this didn't happen today but here goes. I play american football in Britain and recently we had a girl (for the rest of the story shall be known as Lucy) who had joined and started the initial stages of forming a woman's team....	Described the new girl on american football team as "The girl with tits doing the water" to my girlfriend when 'Tits' is the nickname of the guy being the water boy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] feel more insecure with my [25M] bf of 1 month than when we first met. POST: Background: I have not dated in a verrrry long time-and even to the point where my first bf didn't even really count because it was 2 months in sophomore year of high school. But even still, I feel l...	I feel like I'm getting more insecure as my relationship continues and I need advice in maintaining my self-confidence and trust in my bf. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] duration, 9 months fighting about smoking too much weed POST: I'm in my last semester of college, and I'm becoming really comfortable with myself. I have job offers on the table and I kicked ass at my internship. However, now that I'm back at schoo...	I smoke weed once a day, she thinks it's unattractive. What should I do? I even offered to throw it away. She still just fights and complains.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: What's the best way to look for an advertising job that isn't based in my home state? POST: I just want to preface by saying that I am not 100% sure if this is the correct subreddit, and any advice you are willing and/or able to give (including guiding me to the correct subreddit) would be gr...	College senior from New York looking for the best way to go about job hunting for a position at an ad agency across the US.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (19M) want to start a relationship/dating scene with this shy/introverted girl(20F) I like. Both inexperienced. not sure what to do. POST: I'm (19M) met her (20F)* she turns 20 in a few weeks * in my Japanese class. We've known each other for about 7 months. She's on the shy intr...	I like this introverted/shy girl I've known for 7 months that's been dropping subtle hints that she likes me. What do? How do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26M] with erectile disfunction, how do I approach dating? POST: So I've had significant performance issues with both erectile disfunction and premature ejaculation my whole life, and I'm not sure how I should handle this with dating. I was in a long term relationship for a very lon...	Should I broach the subject of being bad in bed earlier on in dating? And if so when and how?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The [26F] I [25M] have been seeing for a month has openly admitted to talking to other guys. POST: We are dating pretty seriously, but have agreed to avoid the relationship talk for a while. She was betrayed by her last serious relationship and is therefor afraid of commitment. I, on...	Is it okay to feel jealous that my non-committed lady is talking to another guy until she's ready to commit to me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should I (20/f) keep waiting for the guy (25/m) I'm seeing to make up his mind? POST: I've been seeing him for two and a half months total and I like him quite a lot. We're compatible and have a lot fun together but I'm worried about bringing up the what-are-we talk. A month i...	I've been seeing this guy for 10ish weeks and want to know where he stands but after a foolish attempt a month in that flopped: I'm scared to try again. Should I keep waiting?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (f/21) thought I was on my account but was on his (m/24), I found stuff I didn't like. POST: I just got on to check my messages (I post in GWP so I get a few), I don't know why I didn't notice the name, but in his messages there was some a few from girls, one was his buying p...	I found messages on my SO's reddit of him buying panties. How do I bring it up to him or let it slide?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My frustrating overzealous mod experience. Does it seem fair to you reddit? POST: Hey guys, Recently, I submitted a link to a video I made to a small subreddit and it got upvoted to the top. I figured "Okay, maybe this would appeal to a wider audience then". So I went up to another, ...	I submitted a link to a video I made that got upvoted to the front page, and since I submit all my vids with same account and didn't use a throwaway, it got taken down. Fair?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Looking for career ideas for a burnt programmer POST: After 13 years of programming and almost all of it the same type of stuff - apps that jam stuff in a database and regurgitate it onto a webpage/winform app. The usual suggestions when I talk to people or google are: 1.) take time off...	Burnt out coder looking for suggestions besides the standard "be a manager or take time off" answers. I've thought of TFS admin or automated testing so far.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my ex [26 F] broke up, her stuff is at mine, it's complicated POST: Hi there. So the first thing to say is that I'm a terrible person. Me and my ex hooked up, moved in together too soon, and had serious personality clashes. Many of these were at least partially my fau...	horrible breakup, ex's stuff is still here, she won't talk to me, I want to arrange it being removed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is focusing on the negatives and thinking they would mean a relationship would never work, a good idea? I'm 20/f POST: Not only am I now battling intimacy issues with guys due to my first ever boyfriend and how he treated me, I'm also trying to make sure I'm over the most recent guy ...	is focusing on the negatives of a guy/relationship, thinking they would mean it would never work out, a good way to get over him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] coworkers are talking shit about me behind my back. What am I doing wrong? POST: I am a cashier at a hardware store. Today, my immediate supervisor asked me to help her with some returns that needed to be brought to the back of the store. After I finished taking the returns...	Coworker slipped up and revealed that people have been talking behind my back, I have no idea what I could be doing to cause this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I(23/f) want to get back with my ex, need help with contacting him(23/m) again. POST: So a little background on us. We dated for 2 years. We broke up around 4 years ago because I had trust issues and self esteem issues. I'ved dated one guy seriously(1.5 years) since him, but I...	I want my ex to know I've changed and want to try and possibly try to get know each other again/possible date.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 23 M I need advice with my 20 F crush, can i ask her this without ruining the relationship so far? POST: alright so a quick summery, begining of the semester i was paired up with a cute girl in class who turns out is really awesome and has alot of the same interest and view points as...	i want to ask girl im talking to if she s actually interested in me or if we're just friends - is this a bad idea?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I think I may have a drinking problem and need advice. POST: I've been drinking for about 6 years and usually drink once or twice a month with friends. I have gotten myself into trouble on multiple occasions. I've broken the law but have never been caught, have broken up with my ...	I don't like the person I become when I drink sometimes. I don't believe I'm an alcoholic but need advice on how to control the amount I intake when I do drink.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me M25, suffering almost bi-polar tendencies over my situation with F25. POST: So I really don't know what to do here. I was hoping the people of Reddit could help. I broke up with my ex a month and a half ago. We'd been talking about reconciling but then she met a guy on OkCupid a...	Fell in love with a girl, proposed, engaged, she cheated, broke up, got back together, broke up, she moved on, now feeling like a human see-saw emotionally. Trying to work out her actions.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] mixed feelings about relationship with GF [24 F] after 6 months POST: I've been together with my gf for about 6 months, and this is my first serious relationship. We have fun together and our personalities seem to match, but due to my lack of experience in relationships I fe...	Not sure what to do with gf who wants serious commitment where I don't feel comfortable with it, especially as I'm unsure about what my feelings for her are. Yet, I don't want to lose her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28m] friend [25m] said something the other day that bothered me, tonight i will confront him about it. POST: My buddy, who we will call Justin and I have been friends for just about a decade, have gotten closer over the last four years. He is like a little brother to me, I love h...	long time friend said some sexist things to me, going to talk with him about it tonight, how to properly handle the conversation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why do servers get paid so much in the USA? POST: Seriously, the cooks and the rest of the staff out back don't see tips. Maybe servers tip them out a couple bucks but they keep 90% of the cash for themseves. Why do servers feel so entitled to these rediculous tips for just carrying pl...	Servers have rigged the system by blaming customers and their employers of not getting paid enough while they rake in the cash for themselves.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Recommendation on a hydration pack? POST: This year, my goal is to run longer and more trail. Until now, my main problem in this regard has been that I dehydrate after 90 minutes or so as I am sweating very easily and heavily. A bottle belt would be one solution, but I'd like to bring alon...	I am looking for a hydration pack for long trail runs that can also pack a light jacket and some food. Any recommendations?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: I got petty revenged so hard by a random grandmother today and I deserved it POST: At the moment I'm staying at my grandmothers retirement house. It is a huge building in the city with many residents. I am here to help take care of her dog while she goes to some event in another state...	I made a joke about my dog being as old as these two kind grandmothers. One got me back by pushing the elevator button to the wrong floor.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. I need Advice. POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. She is 17, I'm 16. Her parents are divorced, and her dad hates me because he found out we had sex, so it makes things really hard. He refuses to let her see me or...	Girlfriend problems. Her dad hates me. It's hard to talk at and after school. She randomly gets mad at me. People say I don't deserve it. I love her, but I agree. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm about to be promoted at work and my friend [23F] will be my [28F] direct report. I need suggestions on how to maintain our friendship while being a good boss. POST: I've had a really great friendship with a girl (Liz) when she started working in my department about 16 months ago....	My really close friend and I both got promoted, and I will be her manager. This is also my first managerial position ever. How do I maintain our friendship AND be a good, unbiased boss?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need help, reddit. Should I quit my job where I'm verbally abused by the manager and abused by a coworker? POST: I work at Wendy's part time while I go to high school. It's for a Work Based Learning class. I usually do fries and nuggets. I was doing my regular "scoop the fries and put...	My co-worker hits me in the balls every time I walk by him and my manager called me fucker twice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: What's the best way to pay off my credit cards? POST: Hello Personal Finance! I recently put myself in quite a sticky situation and I'm wondering what's the best plan of attack to tackling my credit card debt. A few months ago I paid off all my cards ( I currently have three). I w...	I make roughly $1100 a month. I need to pay off about $1000 dollars in CC debt. What's the most effective way to pay this debt off?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Both early 20's, cannot get myself to grab her hand or hold my arm around her waist. POST: Hi guys, So i'm seeing this girl for half a year now, and by seeing i mean just hanging out. I got signs she likes me.. Asks me out, we go to the cinemas, goof around etc. But I'm a total a...	unable to grab her hand or put my arm around her waist, logic says to do so, early experiences with women hold me back with depressing feelings/thoughts, almost panic. How do I go at it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By finishing my PhD. POST: So this happened last December, but it still is going on (please excuse my English, it is not my native language [or area]). So I was a high school teacher and decided to pursue a PhD, got accepted in several universities, went for the one with the best fundin...	If you are doing a PhD, don't finish it. If you finish it, apply for another one. The only time you will be in Academia is if you are a student.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Need advice on girl giving me mixed signals. Me [29/M] her [27/F] POST: So this girl and I have this on-going friendship. We've known each other for a number of years and have always had fun on nights out, including a couple of kisses, but only recently have we started hanging ...	Girl claims she likes me, thinks about me, but it isnt enough and "something is missing". I feel like she's holding back. Do I need to step up my game ?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Need some direction.. POST: Hey /r/personalfinance, I'm starting to realize that budgeting and financial responsibility is very important for my future comfort level. I'm a 24 years old. I've taken some serious thought in my goals and potential way of saving for the future (house,...	I'm 24 years old, have about $5,000 that I'm willing to invest in 2015. Want to buy a home within 5 years but also want to prepare for retirement.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 M] girlfriend [19 F] of almost 2 yeats broke up with me recently and I am kind of lost right now POST: Hi. First off I guess I should mention she is... Or rather was, my first girlfriend, literally my first kiss and everything. So me and my gf were going to take a break so sh...	my gf of two years broke up with me who was my first everything and now I am on a roller coaster of emotions and have no idea what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Compatibility and Needs POST: My SO (29f) and I (30m) had a talk tonight regarding needs, comparability and fulfilling each others needs. It was a highly emotional day for both of us due to a big future conversation last night. I am a very understanding partner and accommodate her ...	I tend to love daily contact and my girlfriend is more independent not needing those things in a relationship. How can we adopt the positive qualities of one another's traits? I feel neither of us are wrong here but can make it work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend [19F] of 6 months won't have sex with me [20M] anymore. POST: This has been going on for a few weeks now. I'm not entirely positive why, but I am nearly it's because of a fairly isolated instance of erectile dysfunction on my part (it's only happened on two other occasions...	Girlfriend doesn't want to have sex so much she suggest I 'go elsewhere' for it and won't really tell me why.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being a good friend. POST: So my buddy has a girl he has been talking to for about a month now and she invites him over...but there is a catch...her best friend was over there...so him not wanting to have a 3rd Wheel he suggests bringing me to keep her busy while he tries his luck at ...	Tried to be a bro...ended up with me getting a bj from a transgender who didn't finish the process and me trying to finger a ballsack...<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: She [18/F] slept with a mutual co-worker before we started talking. How do I [22/M] deal with this? POST: Soon after we started dating, a friend of mine told me he heard that she was 'fuck buddies' with our'mutual co-worker', I assumed it was people talking shit and told her ab...	My girlfriend hooked up with a mutual co-worker before we started talking, even though she doesn't talk to him anymore it still bothers me that she did. How do I deal with this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] with my boyfriend [20 M] 7 years, He is having health problems and supported by his parents but his mother will not support a visit to the doctor and is generally emotionally abusive toward him POST: My boyfriend has been feeling sick lately. He is supported financially by ...	My boyfriend is feeling ill but is unable to go to the doctor for both financial reasons and parental control reasons. I want to help but I do not know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Probably not interested POST: I(19M) met this girl(18 F) this semester in school. For some reason she told me she thought I was sweet when we got into a conversation in class. I thought she had a crush on me or something. Now I'm a rather introverted and somewhat pessimistic person. ...	This girl called me sweet for no reason, thought she had a crush on me, but isn't really showing any signs now. Please help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Question about dating site etiquette... POST: So, I had an account on an online dating site. For a while I was talking to several different people, but none of them really "clicked" and I didn't see any of it becoming more than friendly. Recently though, I met the girl that I'm...	was on a dating site, now in a serious relationship, what is the appropriate way to cut off other contacts from the site without being rude?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: You have a blank slate - what running program do you give the person? POST: Hey /r/running I'm a blank slate for you. A 19 year old male college student, physically fit in terms of strength, fairly lean, but absolutely crap cardio. Assume I haven't played sports regularly or ran since high...	What running program would you give a college Everyman to give the most efficient benefits for heart, lungs, and short term endurance?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My roommate broke up with his girlfriend, I don't know how to help POST: Ok so last week my roommate/friend M[19] broke up with his girlfriend F[18], they had been going out for about two years. They go to different schools so for 8 of the last 12 months it was long distance. Thing i...	roommate's gf of two year breaks up with him, he doesn't talk about, I don't know how to help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to the bar with friends. POST: Like most posts on TIFU, this didn't happen today, but it happened 2 days ago. However, I was out with two friends at a bar in the town next to mine, which I'm not too familiar with. They both left and took a cab because they were pretty drunk. I ...	Went to bar in area I've never been, someone pick-pocketed phone and wallet, left on the street for an hour in the cold.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [30m] been having regular dreams of having an affair. I am also getting very angry with my wife [30f] lately, 10+ years married POST: My wife and I had kids early and were married quite young. We've made it work so far, but have plenty of mental scars to show for it. Recently ...	my wife and are experiencing some really bumpy moments after a life changing move to another country. I have a history of emotional cheating, she had a history of depression.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are some good careers to pursue instead of going to college? POST: I'm 26, I dropped out of college twice. Last October I got laid off from an amazing job that was supposed to be my career. A year later and I've worked at 4 dead end jobs. I am currently in debt and pay for m...	I'm broke and can't afford to go back to college, what are some good places to find steady employment and good pay?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [F, 20] in a new relationship with great guy [M, 20]... but having some reservations because I feel like I should be completely self-focused at this point in my life? POST: So I recently got into a relationship with a guy. He's great, I feel a truly deep connection with him that I...	Is it possible to be in a relationship while also being self-focused and further developing one's true sense of self?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/f] I need help with friends relationship...Sorry if it's long POST: To make a long story short, many of my friends come to me with relationship advice. The ironic twist I've been single for most of my life. But besides the point I help a lot of my friends, and somehow I'll ...	My friend and her boyfriend like each other a lot. But due to him being very busy, he's thinking about breaking up with her. And she has plans to go to the ball, I'm the one stuck in the middle.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: This girl told me I am not interested, yet I am going to still pursue her. POST: So I am a boy (16) and I have been trying to get this girl for a while (15.8). I was going to ask her to homecoming but it fell through. So recently I started texting her. So last night I texted her and ...	I told this girl that I liked her, but she doesnt feel the same way. I am still going to pursue her though. Any tips or thoughts?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'[m] eighteen, she's nineteen, and I suspect that we are the wrong people for our relationship POST: We've been dating for nine-months now, and I don't know if it's going to work out. See, I'm 18, and am a very, very private person with mild trust issues and a tendency towards facin...	Girlfriend and I fight frequently, I feel like these fights are my fault, and she tells all of her friends about them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Is She sending mixed signals? POST: Background: My ex and I had been dating for 5 months. She recently moved about 5 hours away from me to start a new job. I had known about it for months and put in paperwork to transfer my job to move up there with her. During these 5 months, she broke up wi...	Broke up due to her believing I cheated or had intentions. She wants to be friends with benefits. Job transfer went through and she still wants me to live with her. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M with my friend/partner [34 F] 3 months, is town too small for my ex? POST: Town is too small for ex? Hi, I wen't through a break up/dumped last year. I decided to spend the year away from home to give myself enough time to heal and move over it. I recently came back to my ...	break up happened over a year ago, my whole life changed, left home then came back. Feel the city is to small<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do i reclaim money from Microsoft POST: Hi, i recently purchased microsoft points to buy a deal involving GTA:San Andreas. Since i only have a 4gb black xbox i had to delete alot of saves and stuff to make room, but i assumed it would be worthit to play such a great game. Anyway i do...	Bought microsoft points, downloaded game, turns out it wont play without old xbox and it never said. help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How can you tell if a guy actually likes you, and is not just a hookup buddy? POST: So I (16/F) started talking to this guy Stephen (17/M) about two months ago when we meet through Facebook. We talked often over text and Facebook, but we really wanted to meet in person. So th...	guy and girl meet online, finally meet, talk a lot, kiss, text even more than before, is this guy just a hook up buddy or could this lead to something more?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: 4 months progress pic! 22/f/5'4" POST: Since this subreddit has really helped to motivate me through both great advice and your progress pictures, I thought I would post some progress pictures of my own. And honestly, if I can do it, ANYONE can. I never thought I could lose weight, and I l...	1200 calories a day, exercise 3+ days a week, if I can do it you can too! Oh and you're all great and I love you, thanks for being super r/loseit :3<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: manipulated into adding another phone line to my mobile phone service. [Canada] POST: Before I begin, I would like to state that I'm aware I made a stupid mistake in doing this. I was out with my friend and she was phone shopping, originally looking for a new pay-as-you-go phone, we ...	was lied to by sales guy, added a new line to my account without the knowledge that it would be I who was responsible for all unpaid bills from this new line, need advice<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] told a girl [18F] that I didn't like her, but I actually do. POST: I [19M] told a girl [18F] that I didn't like her, but I actually do. I've known this girl for a few months now, we were just friends at first and didn't go out on any dates. We seemed to connect pretty well, a...	Told a girl I didn't like her but I actually do. Reluctant to start a relationship for unknown reason.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's something that you are truly ashamed of? POST: I'll start, when I was in highschool, grade 9, I had a started with a very close nit group of friends, around 6 of us. We had all gotten to know each other the previous year in one class, and before then, I honestly had 0 frie...	Had medium group of friends entering high school, as a group we somehow decided to cut off communication with one specific person, I felt like a dirtbag for going along with it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Keeping large amounts of small denominations in closet POST: As a preface, I'm a bank teller. Anyways, one of our customers likes to come in and get a lot of coin (pennies, nickles, etc.), 1 dollar bills, and 2 dollar bills. He told me that he keeps it all in the top of his closet ...	I'm a bank teller, customer keeps a lot of small denominations in closet, what are the repercussions of holding onto all that?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27M] gf [27F] tells me about male movie stars who she finds attractive. Is there something wrong with me for not liking it? POST: My gf (of 1.5 years) often gushes to me about male movie stars who she finds attractive. She tells me that she goes to see all their movies just to se...	My GF gushes about male movie stars who she finds attractive and it bothers me. Am I just being insecure, or should I confront her about it?<\|endoftext\|>