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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17 M] Ex Crush [17 F] won't stop harassing me and making my life hell. POST: I already posted the story of my crush and how she toyed with my emotions : Well now she is back from her vacation in which she dated another guy even though she told me she had feelings for me and It ...
My ex crush who toyed with my emotions is trying to make me look like the bad guy and turn everyone we know against me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 F] with my boyfriend [14 M] of almost 3 months, I have depression and I want to end it. POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 months now, nothing too long but i have waited a long time to date him. I'm still really young but I'm still struggling with this...
Family deaths, tragedies, and friend trying to kill himself drove me into depression. I want to be alone. Am i a bad person for wanting to at least take a break from a relationship?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the creepiest thing that has actually happened to you? POST: When I was 13 I was visiting my sister's house and we were spending the night. I was the first one up in the morning maybe around 7:30am and as I went to the door (which was a glass sliding door) I looked into the reflec...
I saw a girl in the window, looked and she wasn't there. Grandma played with a dead girl and her grandfather.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] having a reoccuring argument with my brother [19 M] over sharing a room for studying POST: I share a room with my brother and we are constantly arguing about sharing the room while we both study. Today he had to study theory, while I wanted to do my assignments (mainly math...
My brother does not want me in the same room as him when studying theory out loud. How should I approach him or the situation in a better way in hopes of finding a solution and cease our arguing?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18F] like this guy [19M] and not sure if he's just being super friendly POST: I think I'm overthinking this and my friend said to just let shit happen but like.... I really do overthink things and I'd like other opinions. Ok, so one of my best friend's very close friends is this ...
super awesome guy that i'm very into is acting extremely friendly lately; not sure if just regular friendliness or something more.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [19M] scared I'm in an unhealthy relationship with my girlfriend [20F] of two and a half years POST: I've been seeing GF for two and a half years, and I'm scared the relationship is becoming unhealthy. I suffer from depression, and over the past four months it's been getting wor...
I'm so scared I'm in an unhealthy relationship, but I don't know what to do about it without losing her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: 6months ago best friend married an total cow. He just asked me why I and our others friends don't hang out with him any more. Do I tell him it's her. Reddit, advice please? POST: We all love the kid to death, but he married a total bitch. I won't go into the laundry list of stories tha...
How do I tell buddy the reason his friends have stopped including him in our lives is because we all can't stand his new wife?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Lost looking at Gym Machines. POST: So I decided I want to lose weight a while ago and started eating right and exercising at home (running, push-up and sit-ups) As my Stamina improved I decided it was time to go to a Gym so I got a subscription and started going every other day. I would ...
Ate Right, Lots of swimming to lose weight, bad for hair so I stopped swimming. Need to use Gym Machines I don't know how to operate, help?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16M] get really jealous about everything my gf [17F] does, and it's quite hypocritical. POST: My gf and I have been dating for about 6 months. She has a past history of partying and was going through a rough time in her life before I met her. She was even gonna begin sleeping arou...
My gf and I do the same things and it bothers me when she does them, which ultimately leads to fighting.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my ex [30M]; 12 months, broken up for 3, work together, can't do no contact, can't get over him POST: He broke up with me because he fell out of love with me (I was still in love with him). It's been several months and he's doing fine, but I'm completely heartbroken aga...
can't avoid seeing ex boyfriend, can't get over ex boyfriend after months, am an internal trainwreck as a result.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by judging somebody by face value. POST: Before you read, this is a pretty shitty and boring story. I had to hand back some take home assessments for my Security license today. When I went to the training center there was a group doing a first aid course. As I was approaching the fro...
Thought a man in a suit was in charge of a training group when it was in actual fact the guy in shorts and t shirt.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: 26/M pre-engineering student, living with my Father (and it's driving me crazy) POST: The reason I'm positing this is because I'm terribly conflicted in terms of how I'm feeling about my situation. I'm a student, and I'm working full-time (though I'm trying to start working part-time for sc...
Living with my Dad is driving me insane, but it's good for me financially. Should I stay til I transfer to University (1 year) or move and rely on financial aid for rent?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Help with more job/career possibilities POST: I graduated this summer with a BA in poli sci from a good school but now I am thinking I need to expand the types of jobs I'm looking for. My ideal job is working as a research assistant for a think tank that deals in foreign policy, especially ...
I need help coming up with ideas for jobs/careers that possess similar characteristics to my ideal job of working as a research assistant in a foreign policy think tank because I don't really know where to begin.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my "girlfriend" [22F] ~3weeks. Wake up to "I love you, babe!!" text from guy on her phone. POST: So we like each other. Met during this internship we have abroad for our last college semester. She doesn't want to make it "facebook official" but that's okay, I guess. ...
I like a girl. She likes me. Wake up and she has "I love you" text from another guy after seeing her for 3 weeks. Don't know if I should ignore it and try and just live in the present.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my GF [21 F] of 6 months, lying to me about her ex boyfriend and not sure what to do POST: Hi all! Using a throwaway cause she sometimes browses and don't want her to see! My GF and I have been together about 6 months now and its been really really good. She has told ...
GF and her ex have been messaging again after I had told her it makes me uncomfortable and to tell me if he contacts her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (m23) is insecure about his intelligence compared to mine (f20) and constantly puts himself down POST: Some background: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. He is out of college and working as a teacher, which is what he wants to do while he writes, which i...
My boyfriend is insecure in his intelligence, and he feels inadequate to me. How do I help him with his aspirations?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Is it actually not uncommon for black people to leave bad or no tips? POST: Before you go calling me a racist, please read the entire details. I have nothing against blacks (or any race for that matter), and I am well aware that plenty of blacks leave tips for service staff. This question ca...
Black people never seem to tip me and my coworkers even after we provide them good service that they clearly enjoyed and I want to know if the stereotype is actually (somewhat) true.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] seeking advice for my complicated relationship with unavailable [25M] friend thats been going on for 6 months POST: So I have a friend. Oh, and we work at the same facility but never "together." I really feel a lot towards him, more than I have anyone Ive met. And the strange...
Should I talk to him? He basically knows how I feel but we agreed on friendship and I didnt expect it to hurt so bad.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] and one [16 F] from my class slept together - now i don't how i feel about it. POST: So me and one from my class(more or less all classes) slept together recently, we didn't really do anything sexsually or anything like that. We've cuddled togther a few times but never more...
Slept with a girl from my class that i really like, nothing sexsual happened even though we've talked about it, know i don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] dating a [31 F] for just under a month; I think it's too soon for 'the talk' but is it OK to ask what she's looking for? POST: Some background: Prior to dating this woman, I was out of the dating game for a couple years on a self-imposed hiatus and am overall pretty inexper...
Can I get away with asking about her relationship goals without discussing where our relationship is going? Or should I just do both?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by taking a 6 pound shit. POST: This happened on Wednesday but because of rules i had to wait to post it. I have been doing a ketogenic diet to lose weight and so far it is going great. one thing about keto is that you can produce massive poops. I have this little game I play where I ho...
On a diet which promotes massive turds, pushed a 6 pound shit out to hard ripping me a new one.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to church POST: Here is a brief brief: I am a volunteer working in africa, in a particularly christian area. Before I came, I went to church twice a year: Chrismas and Easter (sorry I'm going to hell I know), but I thought I'd try something new... this happened yesterday and wil...
went to a church in a language I didn't understand, sticking out like a sore thumb, for almost five hours.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [34M] with my girlfriend [29F], been dating 5 months, we have trouble sleeping properly when we share a bed. POST: Just for clarity since it involves "sharing a bed", this is not a sex life question, this is sleeping related. So, my girlfriend and I live an hour apart, and someti...
My girlfriend doesn't get a good night's sleep because I hog the bed. How can I change how I sleep?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25f] want to be comfortable with his [24m] porn watching. POST: Let me say this first: I do not mind him watching porn. I know he has a ton of porn and regularly downloads it. I know that he even wanks when I go to sleep, whatever. If he needs to get off and I'm not doing it, he c...
He watched live streaming girls while I was next to him in bed, I don't think either of us is wrong. Can you share your thoughts and help me figure out to get him to understand my thought process?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] been considering breaking up with my GF [20] after 3 years for some time now. Don't know what to do. POST: Hi /r/relationships, little backstory: Me and my GF have been together for a little over 3 years now. After a year she broke up with me since she found i wasn't matur...
Relationship of 3 years, don't know wether to break up or not due to not knowing if it's the best thing to do and feeling very bad for leaving her behind.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I (21m) wrong for being upset with my sister (25f) for rearranging our living room furniture without asking me? POST: We live in a two bedroom two bath apartment splitting the rent and utilities. I came home tonight to find her rearranging the furniture in the living room, having ...
Sister moved furniture that I thought was perfect without asking me first. Got into a fight after I got angry. Am I wrong for being angry?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I bring up this conversation? POST: This is a hard topic for me to bring up to my brother. My older brother (age 29) and I (age 17) have been close for many years. He has been very successful in his business career and I have helped him whenever I could. He is a franchisee and ow...
How do I ask my brother to borrow his lambo for prom without it seeming like im trying to use him? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29/M] with my wife [28/F] of four years, marriage failing in part because I posted too many selfies to a discussion forum. POST: Like the title says, been married for a few years and having marital difficulty. My wife has some issues with me posting pictures of myself to a websit...
My wife has an issue with me posting harmless selfies on a forum that is behind a paywall. She says I am vain and trying to get online validation, but that isn't true.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Help a young "player" learn what it means to be a boyfriend! POST: I've never really had a successful lasting relationship. Longest was 6 months (I'm in my early 20's right now). I've spent a lot of time in the last year either short-term dating, or partying/hooking-up. Girls l...
Never really been in a relationship; Infatuated with a girl, made her my girlfriend... please give advice on how I can be the best boyfriend in town!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, today I learned that society sucks. I could use some advice. POST: People of Reddit, partially to ask for advice, and partially to vent. In November of last year, I lost my job because I applied for another job. I did this on my own time, in my own home, and when they called to v...
Lost my job, couldn't pay rent; cut a deal that allowed me to push it out, and landlord backed out of deal and served eviction hearing papers.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [late 30s F] with my friends/family [30-40 M/F] and postcards POST: I guess this is going to come across as petty, but it hurt my feelings and I'm not sure what do about this in the future. Almost every year for at least 10 years I've been going on vacation to various places and ...
I always thought it was a nice thing to send people postcards when I go on vacation, maybe nobody else does. What to do in the future?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (18F) with my (21M) boyfriend of 2 months. Unsure if I'm over reacting POST: Me and let's call him Jim, met through Tinder (he deleted after we met) a few months ago and what was suppose to be a fling lead to a relationship. What irritates me is that he still has pictures of his p...
boyfriend of 2 months still have pictures of past two ex girlfriends on social media , doesn't post or talk about me on social media , doesn't want to seem like a crazy girlfriend<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what good deed didn't quite turn out as you anticipated? POST: Earlier this afternoon I was out cycling around town, when I came to a set of traffic lights that were out. As I was waiting for a safe time to cross and seeing many a near-miss, I remembered seeing [this] video a whi...
Tried to be a hero, failed at directing traffic, got laughed at, came to Reddit to reap the karma and make myself feel better.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] have been offered a job at a school where my [18F] girlfriend still attends. POST: Some back story, I've been dating my childhood sweetheart for the past 4 years after I met her through friends of friends, she goes to a school which is a 20 minutes drive from where I live and...
offered job I really want, however it's at a school where my girlfriend of four years is still a student, not sure what to do as my induction pack suggests to delete all students off of Facebook never mind date them.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [32 M] wife [32 F] doesn't like it when I spend our money on stuff I like (electronics and typical guy stuff). POST: We've been living together for 7 years (no kids). We founded and operate our own business together - I'm in charge of finance and operational and she is the creativ...
When she spends money on her hobbies she says it's justified. When I spend money on my hobbies she says it's money down the drain and I'm a 'big spender'. How do I fix this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my ex gf [19 F] 2 years, very hard break up POST: Hi everyone, I'm not sure what I expect writing this here, but I need to get it off, like very hard. So I was with this girl for 2 years and 4 months, I was very much in love, there was some trouble and in the end we bo...
Hard break-up, can't get over it. Please help me with any thing that you can come up with !<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] got dumped by my boyfriend of 6 years [23 M] and I want to fight for us to get back together. POST: He broke if off with me back in early December. He's trying to evaluate what he wants. I know that sometimes, especially at this age, you wonder if you missed out on somethin...
Love of my life dumped me because he wants to evaluate what he wants out of life. I am willing to be patient for awhile and see if I can fight for us to get back together. I think it's worth it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18M] Girlfriend [18F] is starting to think about her ex, what to do? POST: Reposting this since I didn't get many responses in /r/relationships. In July, I met this girl and she really blew me off of my feet. I knew since I met her that she would be mine. Prior to meeting me...
Me and my girlfriend have been great until recently, when what would've been her and her exs 2 year has her thinking about him again. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Muscle shakiness and near tears during and after work-outs. Something to worry about, or normal? POST: So in an effort to get healthier I've enrolled in a Tuesday / Thursday weight training class and an aerobic yoga class. They're back to back, which means I'm working out for a solid 2 1/2 ...
Listen to your body and if you don't like a personal trainer, don't be afraid to stop working with her/him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Concerned about a friend's expectations of me... POST: I have a friend who is in the army, and is about midway through a deployment in Eastern Europe. We are both 26. We've been friends for about 5 years. It had always been plutonic. He has dated or hooked-up about 4 of my friend...
I sent my friend in the army some naked pics, and I'm worried that he thinks we are going to hook up when he gets back.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should I stay in my long distance relationship? POST: So, I am currently in a long distance relationship with a girl who lives in France. We've been together for almost a year now and we've both done so much for each other. We've been there for each other through bad days, trag...
I can't decide weather to stay in a long distance relationship that makes me and my partner happy or to leave it for someone who I can actually interact with.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is my family wrong or am I wrong? POST: So long story short. My brother [23 M] and I [18 M] got into a fight and I told his GF [23 F] that he cheated on her. Now they sat me down and insulted me about everything I do. my dad [44 M] and other brother [26 M] said I was in the wrong f...
got told I was being the problem when I told my brothers GF he cheated on her, and was told in the only issue. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my husband [24M] of 3 years, estranged half-brother contacted him, not sure what to do POST: To begin, I am writing this on behalf of my SO, who asked me to, because he doesn't know how to use Reddit. I will not act on anything, decisions and actions on this are complet...
Husband's estranged brother contacted him and they met up, didn't tell husbands mom. Don't know what caused the brother to become estranged. Husbands mom is a biological grandma.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [27F] extrovert and [28M] SO see the world differently but want to find a middle. POST: SO and I have been together almost 3 years in total. As we've gotten closer (physically, it was long distance for a while; socially, with mutual friends; and personally, talking about the re...
Some things you can't control. So when you and your SO view the world differently, how do you come together? We tend to end these conversations not knowing what the solution is.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Probably going to get laid off, and not stressing. Am I an idiot? POST: Hey folks. I'm by no means a PF master, and I think I'm C+ level on my finances, so I wanted to get your opinions given my (potential) approaching situation (layoff?). First here's the particulars: * 37 year...
Might get laid off with severance, think my finances are OK, and low unemployment in my sector. So I'm not stressing and actually sorta hoping to get laid off and then go on vacation<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by calling my boss a "hateful biznatch" POST: Like most TIFU posts, this actually happened long before I ever heard of this sub (about 5 years ago). I was temping at a place that processes college applications. My friend/coworker, who was an incorrigible flirt, started getting very fri...
called boss a hateful biznatch over instant messenger, pussied out and called in sick the next day.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He [27m] said 'I love you' to me [21f] but he said it while his dick was in me POST: A little background: we've been friends with benefits for a few months. Friday night, we were having some rough sex, he would sit up look at my body and say "I don't just want this (kinky sex) I wan...
FWB who I have feelings for said I love you but not sure if genuine because we were having sex when he said it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years, are going to have a longdistance relationship. POST: Backstory: When we met I had bad friends, no job and somked a hell of a lot of weed and was very much in need of someone to talk to. Our relationship has helped me enourmously to get...
Broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, saw my sisters shitty relationship and had a change of heart. We are now back together and I want to break up again.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29/M] met her [36/F]; different city as well, need advice on possbile future POST: We met a few weeks ago on a party. there was instant attraction which ended in a hookup a week later (whole weekend). a few weeks have passed and we texted but also due to work related time issues ...
met girl at party, instant attraction, we spent a great weekend. Downside: 150 miles in between; she is 10 years older. Should i pursue it or is the age difference too great in the end?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Do I tell my friend/boss that her boyfriend has kids? POST: I moved into a shared house a couple months ago with my best friend and my boyfriend and his cousin. I've known my boyfriend for my whole life as our mothers are friends....I know his cousin as an acquaintance as I am also frien...
Boyfriend's cousin is a douche- seeing my boss/friend for 6months hasn't told her he has kids- what do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Can a landlord charge separate for hot water? POST: First off, i'm not sure if this is where I should be posting this. So, if there's a better place, please let me know, and i'll move it. A little background: We moved to the area about two years ago, and this is our second apartm...
Getting charged more for just hot water, than I have ever paid for full water, and wondering what (if anything) i can do about it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (19/M) still not over my ex-gf. It's been two years. Is that normal? POST: So basically we've been broken up for around two years now. We were friends for 6 months before dating and we were only "boyfriend/girlfriend" for 4 months. Even after we brokeup and we moved on to differe...
How the hell do I stop thinking about my ex-gf? I've tried dating other people but I still think about her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24/f) boyfriend (27/m) seems to have no boundary when it comes to touching. POST: My boyfriend, Alex and I have been together for about a month now. One thing that I find unusual is how he seems to have no boundary when it comes to touching. Out of three boyfriends I had so far...
My boyfriend would touch me anywhere as a sign of affectionate. Even in sexual spots yet doesn't always mean it to be that way. Is this normal?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (m/25) depressed girlfriend (f/23) of 3 years asked me for time apart today. I don't know how to deal with that. POST: I'll be as brief as possible. My girlfriend told me she needs time apart from me, to focus on getting better. She has anxiety, depression, probably some PTSD, a...
my depressed girlfriend asked for some time apart from me. I don't want her to go away, and I don't have much left to sacrifice for her after a difficult year of unequivocal support. I'm scared about the future.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Please help. Leaving for Europe next week. Washed my passport. POST: So I washed my passport. Needless to say I am not the first, and won't be the last. I dried it as well, naturally I didn't realize it was in the laundry til it was too late. After leaving it under a heavy object for the la...
freaking out about maybe not being able to take a trip I planned for the last 6 months. Passports are not waterproof. Do not attempt to machine wash clean.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by playing football POST: Okay this happened about 5 years ago. A little background information: I; along with a few of my friends from the building i live in tend to play what could be classified as street football (soccer for americans) on a relatively wide and long segment on the buil...
Fell and hit my head, forgot everything for one whole day, regained memory after that day, but still don't remember what happened that day.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21M] brother [19M] is having the exact same problems I had adjusting to university and he broke down over the phone. I'm not sure what I can do to help him. POST: Unlike me my brother is **NOT** autistic. And hasn't been diagnosed with depression. For people who have seen posts...
My brother is going through the exact same things I went through my first semester at university and I don't want him to repeat my mistakes when he won't have a second chance.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Torn and looking for advice POST: I(27/F) was in a relationship with a man, we will call him D(26/M), for 6 years. We have had a lot of rough times. A lot of good times too. He broke up with me about four months ago and it was messy, he was horrible about everything, and though he ...
Man I have been seeing for some months is leaving in two years more than likely. Should I go back to my former relationship that hurt me or sit with something that will probably end in two years?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How to settle a sad tummy? POST: AskReddit, I don't know if I've got a virus or just some weird IBS-ish thing going on, but... Nothing I eat stays with me. About two hours after I eat, I have to poop. I assure you, it isn't "normal". It was like this ever since this morning, so I've cu...
My tummy is unsettled today, and nothing I eat stays with me. Aside from things similar to/on the BRAT diet...what else can I try?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (21F) Boyfriend (M23) Is Getting Messages From His Now-Single Ex Girlfriend. Ulterior motive? POST: My boyfriend of a year and a half has been getting text messages, and sometimes calls, from his newly-single ex girlfriend. Some of these messages come in the middle of the nigh...
Boyfriend of a year and a half is getting messages from his newly single ex girlfriend... snake in the grass? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: New mattress and we're both suddenly coughing. How can I avoid selection/confirmation bias in my research on this? POST: We just bought a new memory foam mattress, and now we're both sick. There could be a myriad of reasons for this. It's finals season, so stress has been high. We're...
I can't tell whether to be concerned or not, because many sources on this topic seem suspect. Any tips on sorting through them?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Any books/Advice For a Couple With No Examples? POST: Hello RA Community, I am 28/m and have been dating my 24/f gf for 4 years. Recently, we've hit a rocky patch in our relationship and we want to fix things so that we feel comfortable being in the relationship again. One ...
Me and girl hit rough patch in relationship of 4 years. Both didn't have solid examples of how to be in one from single parent homes. Communication a huge issue.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: It's happening again and I don't care for it. POST: I just need to vent I guess. Rant. I don't know where else or who else to say it to without feeling like people would judge or hate me for it. I recently lost my dream job. Seriously. It's the job I've wanted since I was a kid. I neve...
Lost my job and can't find another. Don't know where I'm going or how I'll get there. Just feeling lost.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: My dog has reverted back into a puppy! POST: I posted here about a week ago about having to put my dog Samson down. When I posted it, my other dog (11 years), Sam's son, was not handling it very well. At all. I was really worried about the little dingus, but I guess I didn't need to be. The l...
My 11 year old dog has been acting like a puppy again since I put down his dad 2 weeks ago but it's a good thing I think<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My brother's friend (15M) has been doing questionable things to me (13F). POST: So we have known this guy most of our lives, i'll call him M. Him and my brother (same age) met at school and us and our familes have become pretty close. Whenever he comes over usually I hang out with th...
My brother and I's lifelong friend put his arm around me multiple times and rubbed his hand up and down my thigh under a blanket, but I think he was just doing it by accident.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] girlfriend of 8 months decided to put our relationship on pause with me [22 M]. Feedback? POST: My girlfriend left to work out of state for the summer a couple weeks ago. We spoke the day before and she told me, essentially, that she is not pushing herself as much as she sho...
We both love each other very much, I support her and my decision but I am just so uncertain about where things will go from here. Thoughts?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is he [24/M] interested in me [24/F]? POST: I randomly bumped into a guy I knew from school at the mall last week. I didn't know him that well but we played games online on the Xbox a couple of times about 2/3 years ago. We hadn't spoke or seen each other since. Anyway, we made eye ...
Bumped into a guy from school last week I haven't seen or spoke to in years and today he sends me a Facebook message saying 'Merry christmas missy'. Is he interested?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Guy I've [22F] been seeing [21 M] is extremely close to his friends, which include girls. How close is too close? POST: So I started seeing this guy (Josh) fairly recently. We met online and have had wonderful dates over the past couple of weeks and are at the point of talking about ...
Guy I'm dating is very close to female friends, talks about sex with them, tells them he loves them. I'm paranoid because of my past. How do I give him a chance without getting fucked over?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU Nearly died in a Christmas tornado POST: This is the account of our run-in with the tornado I wrote on Dec. 23rd when it happened: We were on the way to a local fast food place, The Deck 2, on Old Highway 98, but at the last second we decided to stop off just before it at Woodlawn Cemete...
Arrived at a cemetery right when it got hit by an EF3 tornado - dodged trees and ran for our lives.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [25m] in love with my best friend [23f] of about 6 months and she's moving very, very, very far away and I don't know how to be happy for her. Any advice is appreciated. POST: So I (25m) recently reconnected with a friend (23f) from school a few months ago around August and thing...
My best friend is leaving the country and I feel so guilty about being hurt because she is hurting because she hurt me and never meant to. How do I try to feel less guilty and more happy for her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend [19/F] complains we don't talk much, but to be honest I [19/F] don't have much to say to her anymore. POST: We've been friends all throughout high school and we used to talk everyday. In fact we had long skype calls after school and we would talk about nothing, most of the ...
I talk to my friend so much less than before and she's getting angry at me now. How can I solve this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: SO(23M) broke up with me(24F) because they do not want to try long distance, but we do remain friends. What boundaries should be set in our current relationship as friends? Is it wrong to be upset they didn't want to give long distance a chance? POST: As in the title my SO broke up w...
Still friends with an ex. Had an amicable break up for the most part. It is hard to talk to them and still have feelings. Is it ok to be upset they didn't attempt long distance?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] neighbors [?] keep parking in my assigned spot POST: Throwaway because I feel really stupid and selfish about this whole thing. My partner and I recently moved into an apartment complex with assigned parking. We get two spots assigned to us, plus there's plenty of street pa...
Neighbors keep parking in our extra spot. I feel like a bad person for wanting them to cut it out. Please let me know if I am just being unreasonable.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I'm a [17m] and need help with a [15f] POST: Alright so here's the quick rundown of our story. We were both friends and one weekend we spend the night at our friends house. We stayed up together all night alone and after all the fun stuff we talked about our feelings and well yeah ...
ask a girl out she says yes, week later she doesn't know what she wants, need to make her see what she wants is me. I'm too nice I feel like so not sure how to act<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Asked my FWB [29/m] to be in an LDR [27/f] and he said no. Now what? POST: We have been FWB for a few months and I am moving a few states away for a year-long fellowship. I didn't know going into this I would start to have feelings and neither did he. I guess I understand why h...
FWB said no to long distance -- does that rule out a future local relationship if we end up living near each other again in a year?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of about one month broke up with me as she said she needs to focus on herself for now. Advice on whether or not i should wait for her. POST: So, my girlfriend of about a month broke up with (I realize its not as crazy as some of these other posts b...
Girl broke up with me to deal with her anxiety. Should i wait for to be better and see if she's willing to try again?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Thoughts on S.O. watching Porn. (possible NSFW) POST: Does anyone not like their S.O. to watch porn? I mean come on, I make sure you are happy/satisfied with the amount of sexytime that goes on between us (which is a lot), but it really urks me when you feel the need to go and watch pro...
Your S.O. DOES get horny probably just as much as you do, but you fail to realize it, instead you resort to porn. How Sad.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: 2 months post-break up, I [25M] am feeling mixed up. Went back into the'scene' too fast. POST: After 4 years of being together (lived together for 2), she was emotionally distant in our last month. I discovered [via her FB messages] she was emotionally cheating on me for 2 months prior, a...
Bad breakup 2 mos. ago, Met a girl that wants a LTR with me, but I don't feel ready to move forward, and I need to express this to her properly.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I have had several Romantic Friendships. Is this a normal thing? POST: I'm gonna keep this short and sweet. I'm a guy, and I have a circle of close friends of both genders. With one of the girls I'm good friends with, we have this tendency to make out and kiss on random occasions. ...
Guy here. I have had make-out / kissing sessions with several of my close girl friends. We never go past kissing, and we're still close. These incidents still occur, too. Does anyone have any similar experiences?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [19/F] was just a bitch to my boyfriend [17/M] & I'm not sure why. I feel bad. POST: My boyfriend and I not long had sex but he never usually lasts long which is okay, we just do it a second time. We were trying new positions but he couldn't "get up". Now this situation happe...
Got angry at boyfriend when he couldn't perform and I'm not sure why. I'm pretty sure he feels terrible right now too.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am scared (f31) needing advice with parents POST: I (f31) am going for a serious bone reconstruction surgery in a few weeks. I live alone, I'm single, I'm scared, and I will be totally incapacitated for some time after. I am independent and very self-sufficient. I have generally ha...
I (f31) am hurt that my parents chose to go on a luxury vacation rather than be there for me during a serious surgery. How should I respond?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help me (24f) cope with my boyfriends (33m) baggage. POST: Hey guys, Firstly, I'm sorry if this is vague, I don't want people finding out who I am. I've never posted to this sub before, I'm also on my phone so please bare with me. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for...
boyfriend keeps getting some pretty hefty bills from mistakes he made before we met and I don't know how to deal with it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by tripping into my best friend POST: Fresh off of the vine of my dumbassery, this is one for reddit if I've ever experienced a proper fuck-up... A little bit of back story for the week... I've been sick with a horrible stomach flu for the last two days, which has rendered me completely...
Here's SheWantsTheEG's guide to making sure both your girlfriend and best friend don't speak to you for the rest of eternity.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] with my girlfriend [22F] of a year, she is a bit offended that I don't post much about us on Facebook. POST: To give her credit, I posted a lot about my exes. But then a family member made fun of me for posting so much about my exes, so I decided not to (before I met my girl...
What can I do about my girlfriend who told me she feels I'm not proud of her like I was my exes because I don't post much about us on Facebook?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU my day. POST: *This happened yesterday, but it's still memorable.* The day went normal. Walk to the bus stop, take the bus, and get off at the stop a few paces from school. Everything went normal until it was physical education class. I just discovered we're practicing for the Turkey Tr...
I ended up telling my group to do the whole route, and I was a *toy* for the robotics team.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] am having a hard time coping with my ex [22 F] being the only true friend I've ever had. POST: I have always been a bit of a loner. Not by choice, but because people generally just don't like me. But that's a whole other story. My ex and I met several years ago, and dated...
Me and my ex were the best of friends, and I don't know how to deal with the feeling of never being able to have that sort of friendship again.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Advice for an online relationship POST: So I [M/20] became friends with someone [F/19] on a online forum and we've grown pretty close in the past month or so. We both know what the other looks like, we've talked to each other for hours over skype while playing games, we know each oth...
MET GIRL ONLINE. I LIKE GIRL. SHE LIVE FAR AWAY, BUT I CAN FIND WORK BY HER. SCARED OF FUCKING UP. WAT DO?[/b]<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He (21M) left me last night, I (19F) find out if I'm pregnant today. Do I even tell him? POST: Last night my childhood sweetheart and fiance of 8 months left me, claiming that he "Just doesnt love me the same anymore, in order for him to be happy he would have to change, and he's no...
Fiance left me at the drop of a hat with no warning after 8 months of happiness, I may be carying his child, Do I let that type of influence in to my childs life?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (16F) am very confused about my crush's (17M) extreme mixed signals? POST: So, I've been talking to this fantastic guy for a few weeks now. He showed hints of being attracted to me when I first met him(6 weeks ago), but circa 2 weeks ago he told me he had a crush on me, which made ...
Crush is giving mixed signals, some days he acts like he wants to be with me and other days he acts like he wants to be friends. Was super romantic at homecoming, normal today.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my live in bf [28 M] of 2.5 years...break up aftermath, wants second chance, but... POST: Back story if you need it: I talked to my bf last night. Told him I wanted to break up because of the fights we've had, because the whole relationship feels like parent-child, an...
attempted to break up last night with emotionally abusive boyfriend. He broke down and admitted to everything, wants second chance. I don't know if I can do it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not looking before turning. POST: More like last Friday though. I've only been driving for a year and a half. Ever since I got my license, I've been the taxi for my brother. So last Friday, I had to take him to work. As usual, I had about 5 minutes to get him there due to him draggi...
In hurry to get bro to work. Turned corner when I shouldn't have, got ran into, parents really upset with me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: I (28/M) messed up big time with my gf(26) after she had a threesome. POST: Basically, I felt betrayed because my girlfriend had sex with someone else before we were a couple even though I asked her not to. Relevant links: [Post threesome relationship advice]( [Feeling be...
I was so upset at my current gf having sex with someone else when I had come back into her life, I convinced myself and her that it was cheating.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Pre medical student, why do I feel like I didn't earn it? POST: Throwaway here as I want some anonymity. I am in the process of applying to medical school and have gained admission to 3 schools at this point, one of which is a pretty decent school, (UCONN). I grew up in poverty, moving a...
Poor, Puerto Rican, 3.92 GPA, 26 MCAT (2 attempt), medical school acceptance, why do I feel like I haven't earned it? And so bad about it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Just got out of 1 and a half year relationship. When to get back out there? What to do in the meantime? POST: 29/F. Late bloomer in the dating world. Had a few interactions with guys throughout my life, but didn't have my first real relationship until I was 27. That one ended, and I immedia...
Hole in my life after splitting with boyfriend. I'm still dealing with the loss, but want to fill the space.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by ruining FWB (friends with benefits) POST: Not today, but a series of days, I fucked up. It was the 2nd last week of college and my friend down the hallway and I were enjoying each others company, very much. The sex was great. However as we both knew, we weren't for each other and fuc...
Friends with benefits, going great, got drunk, wanted sex, declined by chicks, wanted friend with benefit to have sex, had competition, eliminated competition, eliminated friend with benefits.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] with my wife [30 F] together for 10 years, married for 3, she considers it ok to be flirty at work for career purposes. POST: As the title says, my wife considers it ok to be innocently flirty at work. This includes the whole array: "haha" responses, not explictly shutting...
My wife considers it ok to be flirty at work for career purposes. Can her actions reflect poorly on me, from her coworkers' perspective?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my mother[45 F] my mom tried to get pregnant and now i find that i can't trust her. POST: My Mom started dating a a guy who was 20 years her junior. They were together for about three years and then things started getting rocky. They were on and off for about 6 months ...
Mom tried to get pregnant with her toy boy and now i'm finding it difficult to trust her, am i being unfair?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [27/m] think my girlfriend [29/f] is going to leave me, been together 2 years, need help! POST: Well Reddit I'm in a pickle. I have this overbearing feeling that my girlfriend is going to leave me for somebody else and is just biding time. She's been talking to a mutual friend ...
Gf has been seemingly getting uncomfortably close with my friend, not sure if I'm paranoid or preparing for the worst.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] just over a month, not exactly sure what she means by slow POST: So I started dating this girl about a month ago, our relationship I would imagine is pretty healthy, we have a lot in common but we also have enough differences to the point where we ...
girlfriend told us she wanted to take things slow before. Last date I went on her tits and she liked it. Not sure if she still thinks the same way or if it was just the heat of the moment. Opinions?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [M23] Not sure if my girlfriend even loves me anymore. (possible NSFW) POST: First some background. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. Our relationship, like most, started off perfectly. We like a lot of the same stuff and we are basically best friends. Fas...
GF says she wants to go on "break", we havn't had sex in ever, and she likes to flirt with other guys.<|endoftext|>