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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[22M] talking to a girl for a few weeks and we really clicked. Hang out and she loses interest. Help. POST: I have a problem that seems to keep recurring in my dating life. I start talking to someone on OKC or Tinder and we have good conversation and we seem to be into each other an...	I click great with girls I meet online until they actually hang with me and lose interest. I feel like I'm not good enough and less of a man. What am I doing wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by holding in my farts at my (ex) girlfriends house POST: So I was at my girlfriends house for the first time, and we were upstairs in her room and stuff was going really good, we were cuddling and watching a movie when I reallllly had to fart, but her being a new girlfriend and not bein...	I went to my gfs house, held in my farts, got punched in the stomach, farted very loudly, now we are broken up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] broke up with my boyfriend [21M] of 3 years, and now I son't know how to act. POST: My (now ex) boyfriend is a great guy. Always treated me well. Never fought. But 3 years into the relationship, I realized he wasn't fulfilling me on an emotional or intellectual level. It wasn...	My boyfriend and I broke up, but we're basically acting like nothing has changed. Is this okay, or should I cut him off to avoid the relationship becoming confusing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 F] with my SO [33 M] new relationship, posts #tbt with ex gf literally days after we become an item. how annoyed should I be? POST: Started seeing someone I met online in August. We'd been hanging out for about a month or so before things got romantic. We recently had the conv...	Me [28 F] with my SO [33 M] new relationship, posts #tbt with ex gf literally days after we become an item. how annoyed should I be?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] I [18 M] want to make up with my ex [17 F], but I don't know how. POST: Original: It's been about a month since my ex broke up with me, and I'm starting to recover. Still miss her quite a bit, but it's getting better. Last I spoke to her, she said she wants to move on. As ...	How do I approach my ex that I want to make up with her and be clear I don't want to erase the past?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Have you ever found money or an item and returned it to its rightful owner? POST: Today, during school, three friends and I were walking through the school when I spotted an envelope on the ground. I rushed over to it before someone else could pick it up because I saw what looked like a ...	Found $100 with friends. Turned money in. Got thanked over intercom/morning show. Got free softball t-shirt. Doing good rewards you.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [26M] move out with my gf [25F]? POST: Hello reddit, My girlfriend of 8 months recently sparked the idea of living together and I'm not sure if it's a good idea/the right time. In need of Reddit's advice! Throwaway account as she's also a redditor. We are both financially ...	Been with girl for 8months, great potential for lasting relationship but with a major recent fallout that was fixed, gf asked me to move out with her, unsure if it's the right time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29 M] made a dismissive remark towards my co-worker [28 F] and now I feel I should apologize. POST: My co-worker of one year expressed to me today that she misses having deep, intellectual conversations about society and politics. She proceeded to read a civil discourse/conversati...	Made a poor joke about a girl's intellectual interests, didn't make it clear I was just teasing. How should I apologize to her? Should I text her soon or wait until tomorrow? Should I leave it alone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How i prove to a girl im serious about dating her POST: There's this girl(18 f) I (18 m)would always mess around with and just like hook up and that's it. This was a about a year and a half ago. I got into a relationship and then it ended now I kind of want to get with this girl sinc...	I want to show a hook up that I'm serious about dating her. We haven't hooked up in about a couple months.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26F) (now) ex (27M) dated for almost 5 years; I'm trying to figure out how to move on. POST: First and foremost, I would like to say that I'm already in counseling and have been for several months. No reason to hit my lawyer or delete my gym or even facebook up. I have no need fo...	Boyfriend of five years and I broke up a few weeks ago. Things aren't getting any easier. How can I pick myself up and move on, or at least, how can I make things easier?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [24/m] wondering how to deal with sex-less relationship. POST: Reddit, I need some advice. I've been dating my girlfriend [22] for a little over a year. We've had our ups and downs but it seems like the hard times have only made us closer. One problem - we don't have sex. N...	Girlfriend used to be a nympho, now we don't have sex at all - is this a sign our relationship is doomed to fail?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Family owned property deed question. [USA, NY] POST: So one thing I learned in college is that you should ALWAYS have a roommate agreement/contract. No matter how close of friends you are. I have let this idea flow into the rest of my life too. Background: My Grandfather, Father...	Family owns a cabin together, cousins being added as owners. How can we setup a contract to prevent each other from not paying their fair share.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My new man [35/m] is a cigarette smoker, I [34/f] can't deal with it, what can I do? POST: He doesn't smoke in my house when he comes over, but his clothes sometimes smell of secondhand smoke, and when he comes in from smoking on my back porch his breath smells like cigarettes and it...	My new BF is a smoker, it makes me want to barf, it's a dealbreaker, what can I do? I really like this guy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I'm being brushed off and work and I want to speak up about it POST: If there's a professional subreddit this could go on please let me know! I definitely need advice though so this feels like a good place to ask. I work as the Director of Marketing at a start up medical tech company that'...	My office is moving to a new space, everyone has a private office but me. People below me have offices. There are 3 empty offices right now and I'm being put in a cube. How do I address this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [19M] Sent Anonymous Valentine To Girl [19F]. What's She Thinking Of? (long) POST: Ok, so I sent a girl an anonymous Valentine last Thursday. My dorm hall was doing them so I sent her one. It was just a piece of candy and a little note. I know she thinks I'm annoying so I just wanted...	Sent anonymous Valentine, ended up saying it was from me, she talked vaguely and I don't know how she feels about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (33F) want a better relationship with my family particularly my nephews (8 & 3 M) and sister (22F) POST: My family are extremely apathetic about most things including relationships with one another. I have two sisters (30 and 22) the younger one has downs syndrome and the older i...	want to spend more time with nephew (and other family) but long history of crappy relationship patterns in the family + being a long way away.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Looking for some feedback on my gameplan. POST: I've been working on getting in better shape recently and I've made some good progress and want to continue to maximize my results. I'm a 28 year old male, about 178 lbs., 5'11" and pretty sure I would be considered a mesomorph. I'm focusing...	Daily calorie deficit of about 800 cals. Doing weight training and cardio in order to lose weight and build muscle. Trying to get a lot of protein in my daily 1500 cals.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my best friend [20 F] of over 2 years, she's unhappy with her relationship and using me to fulfil her emotional needs, somewhere along the way I developed feeling for her. Am I helping her emotionally cheat? What can I do when no contact is not an option? POST: I know ...	Classic boy falls in love with female best friend, except there's an emotionally disattached boyfriend in the picture to complicate things. How do I get through this without breaking down myself/the friendship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [25F] struggling with how to gracefully start working for my boyfriend's cousin [40M] POST: Throwaway since this is a personal family question! My boyfriend and I have been dating for years and I am close with his parents, brother, aunts, uncles, etc. We are moving in together so...	Thinking of babysitting/tutoring my boyfriend's cousin's young daughters. Don't want to create family tension, and want to enter the arrangement responsibly... am I overthinking this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26M] am in love with my best friend [25F] who likes me, but has disappeared POST: Throwaway as she know my normal username. I met this girl a few years ago. We live in different cities about an hour apart. I kinda had a thing for her from the start. Over the past year we've go...	In love with my best friend. She likes me. She blew up over nothing and is ignoring me. IDK WTF to do. I feel hurt.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [23/F] of three years, long distance. relationship personal issues. POST: So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, we met in college and earlier this year she moved to grad school 8 hours away. Ive been down to visit her 5 maybe 6 times in t...	girlfriend of 3 years, long distance for 8m, went on vacation we had talked about with a girlfriend instead of me and now im butt hurt, should i be?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: The bank accidentally sent my mom her mortgage papers labels "PAID IN FULL" when they are anything but. What should we do now? POST: No one in my family is particularly versed in law like this, and we don't really have the money to pay anyone for advice that may not get us any benefit in...	the bank fucked up and gave us our mortgage papers (and labeled them paid as full) when they weren't. What can we do to make sure they can't take them back?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M35] having troubles identifying who I'm in love with. Right now I've been dating a girl [F29] for a while but keep thinking of my ex [F23] POST:...and when I was with my ex [F23] I broke it off with her after 7 months of a rushed relationship because I thought I was in love with ...	I'm curious why I keep falling back in love with my exes when I'm in new relationships that are starting to turn a bit serious.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by drinking on antidepressants. POST: Back story: I'm on antidepressants and don't often drink. There's a reason they tell you not to drink on them. You get weird. The night started with my friends and I deciding to turn it up. I head to the liquor store and get booze and we start takin...	Got wasted, fell down the stairs at a party and broke my hand. Now everyone thinks I'm a wino.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by taking my mom to a rub n tug POST: So this embarrassing-as-fuck little mishap happened earlier today. I've been having some back issues for the last few months and I finally decided to do something about it. I finished my night shift and started looked around online before finding thi...	booked an appointment at a physio place and got a ride from my mom, walked in to see three women wearing see through shirts and sexy lingerie - mom thinks I'm a perv now<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [OH] Ex wife has yet to pay money owed to my father, any advice? POST: kind of a long story but here goes nothin'... Separated in DEC of 13, finally divorced in JUN of 14. When we were married, my wife got into day trading and playing the market. My father is well off and decided to ...	Ex wife hasn't paid my father yet 6 mos after divorce, is there any way to collect without an attorney involved? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My mechanic told me, yeah honey, sure. Did I lock up my engine? POST: I've got a mustang with an obviously dead battery and very little gas in it. I've turned it over so many times that it neither clicks nor attempts to turn over. I called my mechanic (who is on the corner, near enough...	no gas, no clicks of the starter, no more feeble attempts at turning over. Should I try and jump it anyway?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my Girlfriend [20 F] of 3 months, She has been snappy today and i understand why but i'm still annoyed POST: I want to address this first as we have a great relationship and she makes me really happy. Today however, Girlfriend is a bit more snappy and rude but it's als...	Girlfriend is snappier than usual today, I'm annoyed. How do i bring it up in a constructive way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: I need a little help with the kids I'm babysitting. POST: I'm babysitting my 4-year-old cousin Lauren and my almost 3-year-old cousin Joshua. The Lauren goes to preschool and is gone from 9 - 4:30, and their parents get home by 5:30, so I don't see a whole lot of her. So it would be nice...	I would like some ideas for activities to do with my 3yo[m] and 4yo[f] cousins.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 F] with my fuckbuddy [42 M]. Recently started calling me petnames and sending me flowers? POST: I've been sleeping with this guy for a little over a year now, we would probably be dating if we lived nearby but I live in the midwest and he's on the east coast. We work for the s...	after a year of "nsa sex" this guy sends flowers every week and calls me petnames, but acts like nothing changed<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you put "education failure" on your resume? POST: I used to be enrolled in a teacher training course that would take up three years. The first two and a half year went perfectly: always had good grades, worked hard, and came really close to graduation. The last six months, howe...	I wasted five years on a course from which I didn't graduate - how do I justify the lost five years on a resume?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21M] am falling hard for friend, [20F]. Lots of touching, flirting, but mixed signals. POST: I have been friends with 20F for the last 5 or so months and our friendship has become extremely close. Lots of touching and flirting, cuddling together in bed while watching movies. Hanging...	Very touchy,flirty friends, kissed once but said only wanted to stay friends, was 5 months ago. Recoils when anything is mentioned about us acting like a couple in public. Dont know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19m] don't know what to do anymore with my girlfriend [23f] POST: Me and my girlfriend have been going through a lot of crap lately and we recently kinda separated. She has a lot of insecurities and mental issues which aren't really a problem for me because I know how to deal with...	I'm kinda out of ideas and I want to get my girlfriend to stop being insecure about our relationship, #gondorcallsforaid<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Looking for a good travel backpack for 1-month field school. POST: In July I'll be going to Fiji (Vanua Levu) to do ethnographic research in a village for a month. I'm trying to find a decent-sized backpack that can fit: A sleeping bag (Compressed) thermarest clothes 2 pairs of hiking s...	need moderately-sized backpack to fit 1 month of things inside of it. Prefer to have detachable daypack, but not required. Am I packing too much?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Cliché (17 F) that feels complete guilt about not desiring (19 M) boyfriend of 1 year in a few days POST: So the past few months I believe I've been subconsciously starting to resent my boyfriend. I haven't been interesting in having sex with him but I get the "hots" for other ...	girlfriend is annoyed with boyfriend, doesn't want to have sex. wants to break things off but is also a huge baby for boyfriend<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] am still attached to my ex [25 F] of five months. Don't know what to do. POST: So, my ex broke up with me about five months ago, and a month later she was already in another relationship. We dated for a little over a year, and with it being my first relationship I made a lot...	My ex has a new BF (who I assume was either a rebound or was an asshole who was stealthily wooing her during our relationship), but my feelings are returning. The fuck do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18m&f] Not paying full attention? POST: 18 m and f in relationship for almost a year. We are currently in a LDR for now. When i [m] talk to her, i am always 100% focused on her. I always put down what I'm doing, whatever that may be. (And by talk, I mean gchat, fb chat, skype, etc.)...	gf doesn't pay much attention to me when she talks to me. i always pay all my attention to her. should i do anything about this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] am trying to figure out if I'm interested in someone [16 F] POST: A bit of context. I have never dated before. I have found girls attractive all throughout school but I've never really had any experience with dating them. Recently, I started seeing one and initially it was u...	Inexperienced. Started seeing a girl. Lost what I think was interest though I don't really know. Any help is appreciated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I have a doozy for ya' reddit POST: So I have liked this girl since freshman year of high school (14 years old). I am now 21 years old, and we still talk all the time. We would hookup all the time, off and on in high school although we never really "Dated." A couple years ago she s...	Liked a girl in highschool. Bestfriend dated her. They broke up. Now she wants my nuts again.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 F] with my party guests [various M/F] what's the polite way to handle people who didn't RSVP that may still show up? POST: This is for a 3-year-olds birthday. I know, not generally the fanciest of events, but we're throwing a big-ish party for various reasons (another daughter...	people who didn't RSVP for a kid party are suddenly sounding like they might show up, but I didn't buy enough cake or passes to the park. Wondering what proper etiquette is if they show up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M 21] past relationships have left me heartbroken and emotionless. Not sure what to expect. POST: In before "emo kid/ grow up/ stop being a drama queen" I assure you in the next paragraph I will convince you I am not so. I have had a wild adventure with relationships in the pas...	past relationships include incurable diseases/cheating/self harm that have left me heartbroken, will I ever find someone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] am frustrated by SO [30M] not committing to plans and changing his mind at the last minute. POST: 21F, 30M, ~13 months. My fella and I get along quite well and vastly enjoy each others company without any major friction. However, there's been a behavior that's started to bug ...	SO changes his mind about plans together and it hurts me, because I look forward to spending time with him. I don't think there's ill intention, but I need to express my feelings to him somehow without sounding possessive.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my SO [29M], death in his family and I'm not there POST: My SO's uncle died last night. I'm 4 hours away on business and am scheduled to be here until Thursday pm. (Currently Tuesday am). He's completely devastated but he's telling me he doesn't want me to cut my tri...	I want to help my SO through the death of his uncle but am away on business. Should I go home even though he says he doesn't want me there?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Still feel guilty every time my mom (52F) asks if I'm (24F) going to church. POST: I grew up Catholic, went to Catholic school all the way through college. Sometime late high school/early college I decided I didn't believe most of the doctrines, but still occasionally participated in...	I definitely don't plan on living or promoting a religious lifestyle and neither does my SO but I think mom still has hope.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (21M) really tempted to send a rant message/email to my ex (21F); 4 months ago; 3 year relationship POST: She cheated on me after emotionally manipulating me. I still love her, I have loved her for 8 years. We broke up a few months ago and trying to be the bigger man I never got a...	Can't stop thinking about sending an anonymous message to my cheating ex and her new boyfriend. Don't want to act on impulse of revenge and anger.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the biggest let-down you've ever experienced? POST: Could be anything whatsoever. For me it probably was my first experience with the German Agency for Work (Arbeitsamt), only a month ago. I was fresh out of school after having finished the IB, and I planned to apply to Lufthansa...	I went to the German Work Agency dreadfully tired and with naively high expectations, and signed a contract forcing me to apply to loads of places per month instead.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Today (Valentine's Day) is the 5-year anniversary of the first date I had with the girl who ended up breaking my heart. How do I deal with the memories? POST: 5 years ago today, I went on my first date with a girl who ended up being the love of my life. Here's some background informati...	Was going to propose to girl of my dreams, she cheated on me, then dumped me. Valentine's Day is the anniversary of our 1st date. I hate this "holiday".<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone ever experienced these concussion symptoms before? POST: So I was playing football in 9th grade and hit a dude. No need to explain the story behind the hit, suffice to say he was short so the top of his helmet caught me right in the chin (ok so maybe he hit me a bit too). As I...	got hit playing football, experienced double vision, but instead of normal double vision one part was normal and the other part of the double vision was vertical.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What should I do for the second half of summer? POST: Alright, so I was planning on just working and taking classes all summer. Note that I go to school ~2 hours from my parents house. I'm living at a cousins house for summer A while taking classes and working, so I won't be paying much...	Taking classes/working during summer A, can't figure out if I want to do this or do something else for summer B.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by shaving my pubes in the shower. POST: Ok, so a little back story- At the time I was a fairly inexperienced 14 year old guy who didn't know much about puberty or sex at the time. Cue the story. Ok, so it's getting around time to go to bed for school tomorrow. I hop in the shower, look...	Shaved my pubes in the shower and didn't clear all the evidence. My parents corner me, and I have a close shave with punishment.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19F] am pretty sure he [19M] is digging me.How can I be sure and how do I move forward? POST: This is a pretty typical story. I got hired at the library on my campus. I was hired alongside three other new employees, including this guy Seth. He's super adorable and super nerdy. Tal...	This guy at work and I spend forever flirting. I want to make a move but I'm not exactly sure how.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm the kinda guy that likes to plan ahead... POST:...and so today, I began saving up to buy my girlfriend an engagement ring. I don't plan on proposing for another 8-10 months, but hey, that's me. My problem is not unique: I've never done this before. So I put it to you, good people...	Saving for an engagement ring, don't wanna get raped on the price, help me save some money and I may or may not give you some of it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [18/m] and I need advice for valentines day about a [18/f] girl POST: So I have this girl in my class who is everything I look for in a girl, and things have been hot and cold between us for some time but I dont know where we're currently standing. So my question is, shoul...	Should I try something with a classmate that I am very good with, or should I not so I dont make our friendship weird if she doesnt like the sentiment.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'd [23F] love to ask [29M] out, "crush at second sight" type of deal, but can't gauge interest. POST: Met a guy in a small town mall last year. Connected briefly over a common professional interest and left it at that. Fast forward to present day and we are working together (not in...	Crush at second sight". Amazing guy vibes. I'm def interested, but can't tell if he is. How best to proceed on asking him out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Looking for some help on Nike free run 3s... POST: Hey, ok so I'm a total newbie here - I did check the FAQ and do a search but didn't come up with much, but if I should be posting somewhere else please let me know. So I ordered 2 pairs of nike free run 3s in youth sizing, because my oth...	is it better to get a size which fits more 'glovelike' or have lots of space for my toes, even though it feels like maybe too much space?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I like doing things, but I simply can't push myself to start doing things.. POST: The title might sound a little confusing, but I had no idea how to put it more clear. I'm not just 'lazy', I'd like to say that I have a lot of trouble pushing myself to start doing things.. I study Sociolo...	I don't dislike doing things that I have to do, but it takes me an extreme amount of effort/energy to finally get myself to doing things and therefore I procrastinate everything I have to do and I am always stressed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [25/M] just found out my girlfriend [21/F] goes to a pro-anorexia website fairly often POST: Relationship length: 2 months Background: I was at her place and wanted to look up a song on youtube that she mentioned. I opened a new tab in Firefox, which then shows previews of s...	Girlfriend went to a pro-anorexia website, I found out because of Firefox previews (1st in the list, most visited?).. What to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: any suggestions for my outrageous summer to do list? POST: i've had a traumatic semester (literal trauma) and it's been a truly horrible few months. after thursday i've somehow survived six classes while dealing with serious depression and anxiety and a host of other psychological issues...	bold if you lived in nyc/the jersey shore what would you put on your summer to do list to make it the best summer of your life?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a crush on a 10-year-old POST: I'm 18 years old. I've been friends with this one guy for 4 years, his girlfriend and her 3 kids for maybe 3 years. Her kids are 10, 7, and 5 and I've always loved them and played games with them, showed them the ropes on the school they just moved t...	I spend a lot of time with this 10-year-old and see a lot of good things in her that I think would make her an excellent mate years down the line and that seems really creepy to me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (19/m) been struggling to keep it together with my gf (19/f) for months and just told her how I feel. Wondering if I made the right decision. POST: So my gf and I have been together off and on for about 14 months now. The first ten months were great but then she went away to co...	Gf slept around when we were on break, hard to trust her in long distance relationship especially since her attitude towards me changes on weekends. Told her that, she's pissed. Don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] having conflicting feelings about maybe-ex girlfriend [17 F] of 3 months, she broke up but wants to get back together POST: My girlfriend and I had been dating since mid-May, and this was my first relationship. As we tried to get physical I realized that I really wasn't com...	Conflicting feelings about my bipolar girlfriend who broke up with me, now she wants to get back together. Should I?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The friendship component disappeared from my [23F] 8 month relationship with my bf [24M]. Advice on rekindling? POST: My SO and I met in February, and have been virtually inseparable since. We moved in together within a month of dating, which was great at first, but we quickly became...	Bf & I have been together for about 8 months, are still in love, but stopped being friends. How do you keep that part of a relationship alive?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19 F] Having issues with relationships with guys in general - scared it might become far more serious in the future POST: To put things bluntly despite my young life so far, with all my relationships a negative pattern is seemingly emerging. I've only had two serious relationships i...	Had brief experience with serious relationships, then slept around a lot - now second guessing self worth. Why can't I seem to form or find someone wishing to enter into a serious relationship with me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Don't know who to talk to, might be pregnant again. POST: Hey, sorry if this isn't an appropriate post but I've been lurking for a while now. First thing first, I'm not the one maybe pregnant, but my fiancé seems to be having some symptoms. So my fiancé and I had an unplanned baby girl ...	fiancé and I have very protected sex, but she is getting symptoms of pregnancy and don't now who to turn to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17m] am in a sexual relationship with my gf. My mother [55f] is slowly putting together pieces. She is extremely against it. POST: So this post will be very short. I am currently in a sexual relationship with my girlfriend of 8 months and we are planning a future (I know we're sti...	I am intimate with my gf regularly. I want to disclose to my mother what's happening since she is slowly catching on. How do I without her going berzerk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What would you do reddit? POST: I've been chasing after this girl for close to 2 years now, she's against weed and every time we stop talking for a while I smoke up again because really I enjoy it, I only stop for her because of her personal stance on it, and of course the hinted idea of...	Girl problems, want to smoke weed as result, girl has problem with weed, do anyways? possibly even move on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 22m and 22f having a problem with relationship of almost 8 months. POST: From 22m. Last night she reveled to me that during our first month together she was still messing around with her Ex of three years. I'm not sure how to respond to or handle the news. She said that she has cut ...	girlfriend of almost 8 months told me she was messing with her ex of three years until a month into our relationship. I don't know how to handle it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (23/m) believe I'm carrying the relationship with my girlfriend (23/f) and I'm starting to feel pushed away. POST: First of all, I love my girlfriend very much, getting to be with her is practically a dream come true. With that out of the way, I've always felt like I'm putti...	I feel like I put more effort into our relationship, which seems to be growing colder, and I want to address it without judging her personality.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Starting from the bottom and not sure what to do POST: Throwaway acct here. So basically, I am 24, and have been living with my parents for 2 years now. My father owns a small business on the side of a corporate job, which I have been managing in exchange for living rent free. Mean...	might be homeless very very soon (tomorrow), have no money, car, friends, family and don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my 'friend' [18 F] 2-3 weeks, trying to figure out what she wants. POST: So there is a girl who's family are very close to mine, parents do everything together and i recently uploaded a picture to Facebook in which she told her mum that I looked attractive, I took it a...	Women confuse the fuck outta me, seems interested then not then she kisses me and then she doesn't seem interested anymore. Don't want to creep her out by trying to initiate conversation. Fuck.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Received a random amount of money from previous college, what to do? POST: Please let me know if this should be posted elsewhere instead, I can't seem to think of any other subreddit to ask in. I am a sophomore in my university, but I am a transfer student after spending a year a...	Received money from school I'm no longer attending, can I keep it or will it be taken back out of my account?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: GF (18) broke up with me (18M) after 17 months for complicated reasons, but still wants to be friends. what should I do? POST: Long term GF broke up with me last week because she wants to focus on college/her future, and said that we can resume our relationship once she has achieved what ...	GF broke up with me to focus on career and still loves me and wants to hang out and talk but also see other people. What should I do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Let's MindMeld. Help with 3.5 yr old fighting sleep. POST: Hello Parents. My husband and I are having an issue with our daughter at bedtime and I need your insight, advice, stories of victory, and wisdom. Our daughter is 3.5 and she has always been good about sleeping. Normally she will ...	3.5 yr old daughter catches the giggles until 1-2am despite being tired from her day. It's like she is fighting sleep but stays in her bed and doesn't play, just entertains herself. HELP!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16F] just discovered I'm pregnant with my boyfriend [19M] of one year. I want an abortion. the thought of it brings him to tears POST: The title is pretty self explanatory. I never thought this would happen to me. I found out today and am still in shock. I sat my boyfriend down, l...	I'm 16 and pregnant. I want an abortion but my boyfriend gets so emotional at the notion of it, and my own emotions are tearing me apart.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] received some inheritance. Family are upset that I'm not treating them to something. I already am. POST: My biological dad was never in my life in a meaningful way. I was raised by my mother and my step dad. My biological dad would sometimes visit and spend a day or two with ...	I received some inheritance from my dad and shared some of it with my family. They expect more. I don't know how to approach this whole thing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I (22m) get my girlfriend's (22f) self-esteem and confidence up? POST: I've seen a lot of good advice on this subreddit, so hopefully you guys can help me out too. I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 and a half years. I knew she had self-esteem issues from the start, b...	Girlfriend's self-esteem issues stem from verbal and psychological abuse from her father as a child, need to find a way to boost her confidence and self-esteem.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22M] about to go on a first date with [21F] whose never been on a date. I am also inexperienced on dating. Any tips or suggestions to have a fun/comfortable night? POST: My friends set me up to meet this chick at a party, and yada yada yada we got to talking and she said yes to a da...	tips or suggestions for a first date. Both socially awkward. Shes excited but nervous, I want her to have fun and feel comfortable around me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25 F] Fiance [25 M] has let his ex-convict brother basically move in with us without asking me. POST: My fiance and I have been together for five years. We live together, though this is a fairly recent arrangement... as in the past six months. Overall our relationship is good. T...	Fiance has all but let his half brother move in with us, half brother was convicted of rape a while ago.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: My neighbor poured her coffee all over my car today. What should I do from here? POST: I recently moved into a small apartment complex in California. I live on the side of the building, away from the assigned parking lot. So I park on a curb that's a bit closer to my unit, along with a...	My neighbor is getting mad that I'm parking in her spot even though it's not an assigned parking area, so she poured her starbucks all over my car today.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20 F] My SO [21 M] treats his friends better than me. How should I address it? POST: Whenever my boyfriend does things with his friends or our shared friends, he is so gracious and generous. He drives without asking for gas money, he goes out to dinner with them, he makes and shares...	My SO is incredibly gracious and accomodating toward his friends and I dont feel like he treats me in the same manner.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by showing my Virtual Reality headset to a cute girl, that I used the night before for "Adult VR Experiences" POST: [Got the Google Cardboard VR and super stoked.] Had a quick session last night with some lotion and other things. This VR is great, and made out of cardboard, so scents l...	Used VR for adult things, scented lotion got on it, girl straps on ready to enjoy a roller coaster VR experience only to smell my sins.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Need help with this insanely hot chick at work POST: So I work at a store and my job is to basically fill the shelves, her job is to put back returns and to make sure all the shelves are neat etc. She follows me around every shift we are on together and always laughs at what I ...	Hot girl at work i can tell is into me and wants the D but doesn't reply when I asked her out for coffee before work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[27M] and my girlfriend [25F] of 5 years just split up. I have been by myself in a hotel for almost 50 days now, and I think I realized some things. Help? POST: So after 5 great years together, we broke up almost 2 months ago. A week afterwards I was sent out of town to work on a l...	Broke up with girly because we werent taking the next steps, and after two months of self-introspection I realized I was a child about it all. Need advice, because Im still in love.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He(29M) told me(23F) he would be home hours ago.. Now he won't return my calls or my texts POST: Maybe not the best place or time but I have massive anxiety and It's now almost 1. I probably won't get any sleep tonight. I suffer from extreme anxiety problems and I feel like I can't b...	Boyfriend was supposed to come home from work hours ago. Now he's not responding to texts, calls, and his fb said he checked it not too long ago. What should I think?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Not sure what I [18F] should make of this friendship with [17M] POST: We're both seniors in high school and have recently gotten out of bad relationships within the past 6 months. We became very close friends over the summer, and often do things couples would do, like get food or cat...	My guy best friend who had been flirting with me said we're just friends, and now I don't know how to approach the friendship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Need help combining finances. POST: I am freshly engaged and a relatively new graduate just starting my career. My fiancé and I recently started talking about combining our finances since starting my new job. (He's had a steady one for about 4 years making 40ish a year) I am very w...	My non-finance savvy fiancé and I are thinking about combining finances. Any advice on best way to handle this and dealing with credit cards??<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my first everything [25 M] four months, should I tell him I love him before leaving? POST: I'm on exchange and about to go back to my country. I met a guy I really like and we have been seeing each other for most of my stay. I'm about to go back to my country and he al...	I've been dating a guy but I'm leaving the country, is it a bad idea to tell him I love him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (18m) like this one girl (18f), but I get really paranoid on almost everything she does. POST: Hey Reddit, I'm starting to like this one girl, but before I go any further I want to try and get to know her better. So the problem is that (that I've always had) I get really paranoid ...	I get paranoid about every little negative thing that happens, and I end up dwelling on these things unable to concentrate on anything, and just generally feeling bad.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[20/F] with my "friend" [25m] around 8 months, he lost interest. Is it okay for me to feel this sad? POST: I don't want to go into too much detail, because that's not what really matters here. Basically we became long distance friends through a mutual hobby, we texted every single ...	Guy lost interest and it was finalized, we no longer talk. Is it normal and acceptable to feel this bummed?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (20f) boyfriend (21m) get annoyed with each other over little things and I need this to change. POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for three months and everything has been completely wonderful except it seems like every week or so we get annoyed with one another over litt...	boyfriend and I get annoyed over not seeing each other and take it out on one another. I need help making it stop.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25/M] and my SO's [24/F] hobbies do not align - what does the future hold? POST: Hello all, after some lurking it seems like this is a very helpful subreddit from which I can glean some insight... Background: My current girlfriend and I originally started dating in high school. ...	Girlfriend is perfect for me (and I think she feels the same!), but our hobbies don't match up - what does the future entail?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Hedgehog ownership POST: Hey everyone, I just went through a really nasty breakup and need to make some changes. I decided I wanted to look into owning a pet. Although a dog would be nice, I am not sure about it as I've never taken care of dogs before, only cats and hamsters. I've been doing...	Does anyone have any experience with caring for and owning a hedgehog, and would like to share some information stories, or tips with me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What questions posted on AskReddit have you developed a general rubric for answering? POST: I see a lot of questions popping up repeatedly on AskReddit, and I've realized that my answers are almost nearly the same every time they come up. What generic answers have you developed that you ...	Basically for any relationship advice where the person doesn't know how to tell their SO something, I repeat exactly what they say back to them and add a couple of reassuring words.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Advice on telling my boss I'm quitting POST: So I know the universal rule on telling your current employer that you're leaving is basically "Don't" but I have a somewhat unique situation. I've been with my current (shitty retail) employer for 3 years. I'm currently a Department Supervisor. ...	I have a very good and very caring boss who is worried I might be leaving. I probably am leaving very soon. Do I tell him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Gf (22f) thinks I (25m) need to call her more during the week day. But I feel like its not necessary EVERYDAY. POST: Hey all, So my gf and I don't get to see each other during the weekday since we both work full time jobs. We've been dating for about 5 months now and have gotten pret...	My gf and I can only see each other on weekends. She likes to chat every day and I didn't call her last night. She mad..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [24F] approach my boyfriend [28M] of 6 months about his weight loss/obesity issues? POST: Hey all. I have been dating my boyfriend for about six months now. We had been friends for about a year before we dated, and have moved in together and everything is going extremely wel...	boyfriend is obese, was making fitness progress before we were dating, now isn't. I don't want to marry him unless he continues to make progress. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: writing a letter to cancel sending of mortagge loan to collections POST: Hello, I have recently missed 2 consecutive mortgage payments which led to my account being sent to collections. I was out of the country and left someone in charge of paying my bills online...somehow they ove...	missed 2 mortgage payments, account was sent to collections. have good history and brought the account to current. need to protect credit score and "reverse/cancel" the sending to collections.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Relationship ambivalence with a LTR: normal or a sign? POST: Ages: I'm 32, he's 37 We've been together 6.5 years, unmarried, living together for 5. Things are good overall. Lots in common, we make each other laugh, fight fairly, and he pulls equal weight around the home. I still fi...	I'm having doubts and crushes on other guys. He doesn't want to marry but wants full commitment. I don't know if this is normal or if I should bail.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my teammate/mentee [16 F] power dynamic issues? POST: When I was a junior, I was the captain of my debate team, and met a girl who was a freshman at the time when she joined the team. We became friends, but never really spent time together outside of debate. I just gra...	Became "adult" mentor of my schools debate team and have a crush on former classmate. Best to let this go, or should I pursue?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Mother takes ativan and ambien with two bottles of wine. Dr assured me they would not give her Rx anymore. EMS was called for second time last night and she has new script from same Dr. (eastern NC) POST: She is 49 and has developed a bad drinking problem the past couple years. She has...	Asked dr to not give prescription because it is being abused, they agreed, then gave her refills. She has majorily injured herself 3 times because of intentionally mixing pills with alcohol.<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[22M] talking to a girl for a few weeks and we really clicked. Hang out and she loses interest. Help. POST: I have a problem that seems to keep recurring in my dating life. I start talking to someone on OKC or Tinder and we have good conversation and we seem to be into each other an...	I click great with girls I meet online until they actually hang with me and lose interest. I feel like I'm not good enough and less of a man. What am I doing wrong?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by holding in my farts at my (ex) girlfriends house POST: So I was at my girlfriends house for the first time, and we were upstairs in her room and stuff was going really good, we were cuddling and watching a movie when I reallllly had to fart, but her being a new girlfriend and not bein...	I went to my gfs house, held in my farts, got punched in the stomach, farted very loudly, now we are broken up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] broke up with my boyfriend [21M] of 3 years, and now I son't know how to act. POST: My (now ex) boyfriend is a great guy. Always treated me well. Never fought. But 3 years into the relationship, I realized he wasn't fulfilling me on an emotional or intellectual level. It wasn...	My boyfriend and I broke up, but we're basically acting like nothing has changed. Is this okay, or should I cut him off to avoid the relationship becoming confusing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 F] with my SO [33 M] new relationship, posts #tbt with ex gf literally days after we become an item. how annoyed should I be? POST: Started seeing someone I met online in August. We'd been hanging out for about a month or so before things got romantic. We recently had the conv...	Me [28 F] with my SO [33 M] new relationship, posts #tbt with ex gf literally days after we become an item. how annoyed should I be?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] I [18 M] want to make up with my ex [17 F], but I don't know how. POST: Original: It's been about a month since my ex broke up with me, and I'm starting to recover. Still miss her quite a bit, but it's getting better. Last I spoke to her, she said she wants to move on. As ...	How do I approach my ex that I want to make up with her and be clear I don't want to erase the past?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Have you ever found money or an item and returned it to its rightful owner? POST: Today, during school, three friends and I were walking through the school when I spotted an envelope on the ground. I rushed over to it before someone else could pick it up because I saw what looked like a ...	Found $100 with friends. Turned money in. Got thanked over intercom/morning show. Got free softball t-shirt. Doing good rewards you.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [26M] move out with my gf [25F]? POST: Hello reddit, My girlfriend of 8 months recently sparked the idea of living together and I'm not sure if it's a good idea/the right time. In need of Reddit's advice! Throwaway account as she's also a redditor. We are both financially ...	Been with girl for 8months, great potential for lasting relationship but with a major recent fallout that was fixed, gf asked me to move out with her, unsure if it's the right time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29 M] made a dismissive remark towards my co-worker [28 F] and now I feel I should apologize. POST: My co-worker of one year expressed to me today that she misses having deep, intellectual conversations about society and politics. She proceeded to read a civil discourse/conversati...	Made a poor joke about a girl's intellectual interests, didn't make it clear I was just teasing. How should I apologize to her? Should I text her soon or wait until tomorrow? Should I leave it alone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How i prove to a girl im serious about dating her POST: There's this girl(18 f) I (18 m)would always mess around with and just like hook up and that's it. This was a about a year and a half ago. I got into a relationship and then it ended now I kind of want to get with this girl sinc...	I want to show a hook up that I'm serious about dating her. We haven't hooked up in about a couple months.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26F) (now) ex (27M) dated for almost 5 years; I'm trying to figure out how to move on. POST: First and foremost, I would like to say that I'm already in counseling and have been for several months. No reason to hit my lawyer or delete my gym or even facebook up. I have no need fo...	Boyfriend of five years and I broke up a few weeks ago. Things aren't getting any easier. How can I pick myself up and move on, or at least, how can I make things easier?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [24/m] wondering how to deal with sex-less relationship. POST: Reddit, I need some advice. I've been dating my girlfriend [22] for a little over a year. We've had our ups and downs but it seems like the hard times have only made us closer. One problem - we don't have sex. N...	Girlfriend used to be a nympho, now we don't have sex at all - is this a sign our relationship is doomed to fail?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Family owned property deed question. [USA, NY] POST: So one thing I learned in college is that you should ALWAYS have a roommate agreement/contract. No matter how close of friends you are. I have let this idea flow into the rest of my life too. Background: My Grandfather, Father...	Family owns a cabin together, cousins being added as owners. How can we setup a contract to prevent each other from not paying their fair share.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My new man [35/m] is a cigarette smoker, I [34/f] can't deal with it, what can I do? POST: He doesn't smoke in my house when he comes over, but his clothes sometimes smell of secondhand smoke, and when he comes in from smoking on my back porch his breath smells like cigarettes and it...	My new BF is a smoker, it makes me want to barf, it's a dealbreaker, what can I do? I really like this guy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I'm being brushed off and work and I want to speak up about it POST: If there's a professional subreddit this could go on please let me know! I definitely need advice though so this feels like a good place to ask. I work as the Director of Marketing at a start up medical tech company that'...	My office is moving to a new space, everyone has a private office but me. People below me have offices. There are 3 empty offices right now and I'm being put in a cube. How do I address this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [19M] Sent Anonymous Valentine To Girl [19F]. What's She Thinking Of? (long) POST: Ok, so I sent a girl an anonymous Valentine last Thursday. My dorm hall was doing them so I sent her one. It was just a piece of candy and a little note. I know she thinks I'm annoying so I just wanted...	Sent anonymous Valentine, ended up saying it was from me, she talked vaguely and I don't know how she feels about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (33F) want a better relationship with my family particularly my nephews (8 & 3 M) and sister (22F) POST: My family are extremely apathetic about most things including relationships with one another. I have two sisters (30 and 22) the younger one has downs syndrome and the older i...	want to spend more time with nephew (and other family) but long history of crappy relationship patterns in the family + being a long way away.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Looking for some feedback on my gameplan. POST: I've been working on getting in better shape recently and I've made some good progress and want to continue to maximize my results. I'm a 28 year old male, about 178 lbs., 5'11" and pretty sure I would be considered a mesomorph. I'm focusing...	Daily calorie deficit of about 800 cals. Doing weight training and cardio in order to lose weight and build muscle. Trying to get a lot of protein in my daily 1500 cals.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my best friend [20 F] of over 2 years, she's unhappy with her relationship and using me to fulfil her emotional needs, somewhere along the way I developed feeling for her. Am I helping her emotionally cheat? What can I do when no contact is not an option? POST: I know ...	Classic boy falls in love with female best friend, except there's an emotionally disattached boyfriend in the picture to complicate things. How do I get through this without breaking down myself/the friendship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [25F] struggling with how to gracefully start working for my boyfriend's cousin [40M] POST: Throwaway since this is a personal family question! My boyfriend and I have been dating for years and I am close with his parents, brother, aunts, uncles, etc. We are moving in together so...	Thinking of babysitting/tutoring my boyfriend's cousin's young daughters. Don't want to create family tension, and want to enter the arrangement responsibly... am I overthinking this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26M] am in love with my best friend [25F] who likes me, but has disappeared POST: Throwaway as she know my normal username. I met this girl a few years ago. We live in different cities about an hour apart. I kinda had a thing for her from the start. Over the past year we've go...	In love with my best friend. She likes me. She blew up over nothing and is ignoring me. IDK WTF to do. I feel hurt.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my girlfriend [23/F] of three years, long distance. relationship personal issues. POST: So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, we met in college and earlier this year she moved to grad school 8 hours away. Ive been down to visit her 5 maybe 6 times in t...	girlfriend of 3 years, long distance for 8m, went on vacation we had talked about with a girlfriend instead of me and now im butt hurt, should i be?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: The bank accidentally sent my mom her mortgage papers labels "PAID IN FULL" when they are anything but. What should we do now? POST: No one in my family is particularly versed in law like this, and we don't really have the money to pay anyone for advice that may not get us any benefit in...	the bank fucked up and gave us our mortgage papers (and labeled them paid as full) when they weren't. What can we do to make sure they can't take them back?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M35] having troubles identifying who I'm in love with. Right now I've been dating a girl [F29] for a while but keep thinking of my ex [F23] POST:...and when I was with my ex [F23] I broke it off with her after 7 months of a rushed relationship because I thought I was in love with ...	I'm curious why I keep falling back in love with my exes when I'm in new relationships that are starting to turn a bit serious.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by drinking on antidepressants. POST: Back story: I'm on antidepressants and don't often drink. There's a reason they tell you not to drink on them. You get weird. The night started with my friends and I deciding to turn it up. I head to the liquor store and get booze and we start takin...	Got wasted, fell down the stairs at a party and broke my hand. Now everyone thinks I'm a wino.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by taking my mom to a rub n tug POST: So this embarrassing-as-fuck little mishap happened earlier today. I've been having some back issues for the last few months and I finally decided to do something about it. I finished my night shift and started looked around online before finding thi...	booked an appointment at a physio place and got a ride from my mom, walked in to see three women wearing see through shirts and sexy lingerie - mom thinks I'm a perv now<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [OH] Ex wife has yet to pay money owed to my father, any advice? POST: kind of a long story but here goes nothin'... Separated in DEC of 13, finally divorced in JUN of 14. When we were married, my wife got into day trading and playing the market. My father is well off and decided to ...	Ex wife hasn't paid my father yet 6 mos after divorce, is there any way to collect without an attorney involved? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My mechanic told me, yeah honey, sure. Did I lock up my engine? POST: I've got a mustang with an obviously dead battery and very little gas in it. I've turned it over so many times that it neither clicks nor attempts to turn over. I called my mechanic (who is on the corner, near enough...	no gas, no clicks of the starter, no more feeble attempts at turning over. Should I try and jump it anyway?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my Girlfriend [20 F] of 3 months, She has been snappy today and i understand why but i'm still annoyed POST: I want to address this first as we have a great relationship and she makes me really happy. Today however, Girlfriend is a bit more snappy and rude but it's als...	Girlfriend is snappier than usual today, I'm annoyed. How do i bring it up in a constructive way.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: I need a little help with the kids I'm babysitting. POST: I'm babysitting my 4-year-old cousin Lauren and my almost 3-year-old cousin Joshua. The Lauren goes to preschool and is gone from 9 - 4:30, and their parents get home by 5:30, so I don't see a whole lot of her. So it would be nice...	I would like some ideas for activities to do with my 3yo[m] and 4yo[f] cousins.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 F] with my fuckbuddy [42 M]. Recently started calling me petnames and sending me flowers? POST: I've been sleeping with this guy for a little over a year now, we would probably be dating if we lived nearby but I live in the midwest and he's on the east coast. We work for the s...	after a year of "nsa sex" this guy sends flowers every week and calls me petnames, but acts like nothing changed<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you put "education failure" on your resume? POST: I used to be enrolled in a teacher training course that would take up three years. The first two and a half year went perfectly: always had good grades, worked hard, and came really close to graduation. The last six months, howe...	I wasted five years on a course from which I didn't graduate - how do I justify the lost five years on a resume?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21M] am falling hard for friend, [20F]. Lots of touching, flirting, but mixed signals. POST: I have been friends with 20F for the last 5 or so months and our friendship has become extremely close. Lots of touching and flirting, cuddling together in bed while watching movies. Hanging...	Very touchy,flirty friends, kissed once but said only wanted to stay friends, was 5 months ago. Recoils when anything is mentioned about us acting like a couple in public. Dont know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19m] don't know what to do anymore with my girlfriend [23f] POST: Me and my girlfriend have been going through a lot of crap lately and we recently kinda separated. She has a lot of insecurities and mental issues which aren't really a problem for me because I know how to deal with...	I'm kinda out of ideas and I want to get my girlfriend to stop being insecure about our relationship, #gondorcallsforaid<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Looking for a good travel backpack for 1-month field school. POST: In July I'll be going to Fiji (Vanua Levu) to do ethnographic research in a village for a month. I'm trying to find a decent-sized backpack that can fit: A sleeping bag (Compressed) thermarest clothes 2 pairs of hiking s...	need moderately-sized backpack to fit 1 month of things inside of it. Prefer to have detachable daypack, but not required. Am I packing too much?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Cliché (17 F) that feels complete guilt about not desiring (19 M) boyfriend of 1 year in a few days POST: So the past few months I believe I've been subconsciously starting to resent my boyfriend. I haven't been interesting in having sex with him but I get the "hots" for other ...	girlfriend is annoyed with boyfriend, doesn't want to have sex. wants to break things off but is also a huge baby for boyfriend<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22 M] am still attached to my ex [25 F] of five months. Don't know what to do. POST: So, my ex broke up with me about five months ago, and a month later she was already in another relationship. We dated for a little over a year, and with it being my first relationship I made a lot...	My ex has a new BF (who I assume was either a rebound or was an asshole who was stealthily wooing her during our relationship), but my feelings are returning. The fuck do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18m&f] Not paying full attention? POST: 18 m and f in relationship for almost a year. We are currently in a LDR for now. When i [m] talk to her, i am always 100% focused on her. I always put down what I'm doing, whatever that may be. (And by talk, I mean gchat, fb chat, skype, etc.)...	gf doesn't pay much attention to me when she talks to me. i always pay all my attention to her. should i do anything about this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] am trying to figure out if I'm interested in someone [16 F] POST: A bit of context. I have never dated before. I have found girls attractive all throughout school but I've never really had any experience with dating them. Recently, I started seeing one and initially it was u...	Inexperienced. Started seeing a girl. Lost what I think was interest though I don't really know. Any help is appreciated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I have a doozy for ya' reddit POST: So I have liked this girl since freshman year of high school (14 years old). I am now 21 years old, and we still talk all the time. We would hookup all the time, off and on in high school although we never really "Dated." A couple years ago she s...	Liked a girl in highschool. Bestfriend dated her. They broke up. Now she wants my nuts again.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 F] with my party guests [various M/F] what's the polite way to handle people who didn't RSVP that may still show up? POST: This is for a 3-year-olds birthday. I know, not generally the fanciest of events, but we're throwing a big-ish party for various reasons (another daughter...	people who didn't RSVP for a kid party are suddenly sounding like they might show up, but I didn't buy enough cake or passes to the park. Wondering what proper etiquette is if they show up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M 21] past relationships have left me heartbroken and emotionless. Not sure what to expect. POST: In before "emo kid/ grow up/ stop being a drama queen" I assure you in the next paragraph I will convince you I am not so. I have had a wild adventure with relationships in the pas...	past relationships include incurable diseases/cheating/self harm that have left me heartbroken, will I ever find someone?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] am frustrated by SO [30M] not committing to plans and changing his mind at the last minute. POST: 21F, 30M, ~13 months. My fella and I get along quite well and vastly enjoy each others company without any major friction. However, there's been a behavior that's started to bug ...	SO changes his mind about plans together and it hurts me, because I look forward to spending time with him. I don't think there's ill intention, but I need to express my feelings to him somehow without sounding possessive.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my SO [29M], death in his family and I'm not there POST: My SO's uncle died last night. I'm 4 hours away on business and am scheduled to be here until Thursday pm. (Currently Tuesday am). He's completely devastated but he's telling me he doesn't want me to cut my tri...	I want to help my SO through the death of his uncle but am away on business. Should I go home even though he says he doesn't want me there?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Still feel guilty every time my mom (52F) asks if I'm (24F) going to church. POST: I grew up Catholic, went to Catholic school all the way through college. Sometime late high school/early college I decided I didn't believe most of the doctrines, but still occasionally participated in...	I definitely don't plan on living or promoting a religious lifestyle and neither does my SO but I think mom still has hope.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (21M) really tempted to send a rant message/email to my ex (21F); 4 months ago; 3 year relationship POST: She cheated on me after emotionally manipulating me. I still love her, I have loved her for 8 years. We broke up a few months ago and trying to be the bigger man I never got a...	Can't stop thinking about sending an anonymous message to my cheating ex and her new boyfriend. Don't want to act on impulse of revenge and anger.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the biggest let-down you've ever experienced? POST: Could be anything whatsoever. For me it probably was my first experience with the German Agency for Work (Arbeitsamt), only a month ago. I was fresh out of school after having finished the IB, and I planned to apply to Lufthansa...	I went to the German Work Agency dreadfully tired and with naively high expectations, and signed a contract forcing me to apply to loads of places per month instead.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Today (Valentine's Day) is the 5-year anniversary of the first date I had with the girl who ended up breaking my heart. How do I deal with the memories? POST: 5 years ago today, I went on my first date with a girl who ended up being the love of my life. Here's some background informati...	Was going to propose to girl of my dreams, she cheated on me, then dumped me. Valentine's Day is the anniversary of our 1st date. I hate this "holiday".<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Has anyone ever experienced these concussion symptoms before? POST: So I was playing football in 9th grade and hit a dude. No need to explain the story behind the hit, suffice to say he was short so the top of his helmet caught me right in the chin (ok so maybe he hit me a bit too). As I...	got hit playing football, experienced double vision, but instead of normal double vision one part was normal and the other part of the double vision was vertical.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What should I do for the second half of summer? POST: Alright, so I was planning on just working and taking classes all summer. Note that I go to school ~2 hours from my parents house. I'm living at a cousins house for summer A while taking classes and working, so I won't be paying much...	Taking classes/working during summer A, can't figure out if I want to do this or do something else for summer B.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by shaving my pubes in the shower. POST: Ok, so a little back story- At the time I was a fairly inexperienced 14 year old guy who didn't know much about puberty or sex at the time. Cue the story. Ok, so it's getting around time to go to bed for school tomorrow. I hop in the shower, look...	Shaved my pubes in the shower and didn't clear all the evidence. My parents corner me, and I have a close shave with punishment.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19F] am pretty sure he [19M] is digging me.How can I be sure and how do I move forward? POST: This is a pretty typical story. I got hired at the library on my campus. I was hired alongside three other new employees, including this guy Seth. He's super adorable and super nerdy. Tal...	This guy at work and I spend forever flirting. I want to make a move but I'm not exactly sure how.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm the kinda guy that likes to plan ahead... POST:...and so today, I began saving up to buy my girlfriend an engagement ring. I don't plan on proposing for another 8-10 months, but hey, that's me. My problem is not unique: I've never done this before. So I put it to you, good people...	Saving for an engagement ring, don't wanna get raped on the price, help me save some money and I may or may not give you some of it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [18/m] and I need advice for valentines day about a [18/f] girl POST: So I have this girl in my class who is everything I look for in a girl, and things have been hot and cold between us for some time but I dont know where we're currently standing. So my question is, shoul...	Should I try something with a classmate that I am very good with, or should I not so I dont make our friendship weird if she doesnt like the sentiment.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'd [23F] love to ask [29M] out, "crush at second sight" type of deal, but can't gauge interest. POST: Met a guy in a small town mall last year. Connected briefly over a common professional interest and left it at that. Fast forward to present day and we are working together (not in...	Crush at second sight". Amazing guy vibes. I'm def interested, but can't tell if he is. How best to proceed on asking him out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Looking for some help on Nike free run 3s... POST: Hey, ok so I'm a total newbie here - I did check the FAQ and do a search but didn't come up with much, but if I should be posting somewhere else please let me know. So I ordered 2 pairs of nike free run 3s in youth sizing, because my oth...	is it better to get a size which fits more 'glovelike' or have lots of space for my toes, even though it feels like maybe too much space?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I like doing things, but I simply can't push myself to start doing things.. POST: The title might sound a little confusing, but I had no idea how to put it more clear. I'm not just 'lazy', I'd like to say that I have a lot of trouble pushing myself to start doing things.. I study Sociolo...	I don't dislike doing things that I have to do, but it takes me an extreme amount of effort/energy to finally get myself to doing things and therefore I procrastinate everything I have to do and I am always stressed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [25/M] just found out my girlfriend [21/F] goes to a pro-anorexia website fairly often POST: Relationship length: 2 months Background: I was at her place and wanted to look up a song on youtube that she mentioned. I opened a new tab in Firefox, which then shows previews of s...	Girlfriend went to a pro-anorexia website, I found out because of Firefox previews (1st in the list, most visited?).. What to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: any suggestions for my outrageous summer to do list? POST: i've had a traumatic semester (literal trauma) and it's been a truly horrible few months. after thursday i've somehow survived six classes while dealing with serious depression and anxiety and a host of other psychological issues...	bold if you lived in nyc/the jersey shore what would you put on your summer to do list to make it the best summer of your life?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a crush on a 10-year-old POST: I'm 18 years old. I've been friends with this one guy for 4 years, his girlfriend and her 3 kids for maybe 3 years. Her kids are 10, 7, and 5 and I've always loved them and played games with them, showed them the ropes on the school they just moved t...	I spend a lot of time with this 10-year-old and see a lot of good things in her that I think would make her an excellent mate years down the line and that seems really creepy to me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (19/m) been struggling to keep it together with my gf (19/f) for months and just told her how I feel. Wondering if I made the right decision. POST: So my gf and I have been together off and on for about 14 months now. The first ten months were great but then she went away to co...	Gf slept around when we were on break, hard to trust her in long distance relationship especially since her attitude towards me changes on weekends. Told her that, she's pissed. Don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] having conflicting feelings about maybe-ex girlfriend [17 F] of 3 months, she broke up but wants to get back together POST: My girlfriend and I had been dating since mid-May, and this was my first relationship. As we tried to get physical I realized that I really wasn't com...	Conflicting feelings about my bipolar girlfriend who broke up with me, now she wants to get back together. Should I?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The friendship component disappeared from my [23F] 8 month relationship with my bf [24M]. Advice on rekindling? POST: My SO and I met in February, and have been virtually inseparable since. We moved in together within a month of dating, which was great at first, but we quickly became...	Bf & I have been together for about 8 months, are still in love, but stopped being friends. How do you keep that part of a relationship alive?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19 F] Having issues with relationships with guys in general - scared it might become far more serious in the future POST: To put things bluntly despite my young life so far, with all my relationships a negative pattern is seemingly emerging. I've only had two serious relationships i...	Had brief experience with serious relationships, then slept around a lot - now second guessing self worth. Why can't I seem to form or find someone wishing to enter into a serious relationship with me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Don't know who to talk to, might be pregnant again. POST: Hey, sorry if this isn't an appropriate post but I've been lurking for a while now. First thing first, I'm not the one maybe pregnant, but my fiancé seems to be having some symptoms. So my fiancé and I had an unplanned baby girl ...	fiancé and I have very protected sex, but she is getting symptoms of pregnancy and don't now who to turn to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17m] am in a sexual relationship with my gf. My mother [55f] is slowly putting together pieces. She is extremely against it. POST: So this post will be very short. I am currently in a sexual relationship with my girlfriend of 8 months and we are planning a future (I know we're sti...	I am intimate with my gf regularly. I want to disclose to my mother what's happening since she is slowly catching on. How do I without her going berzerk?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What would you do reddit? POST: I've been chasing after this girl for close to 2 years now, she's against weed and every time we stop talking for a while I smoke up again because really I enjoy it, I only stop for her because of her personal stance on it, and of course the hinted idea of...	Girl problems, want to smoke weed as result, girl has problem with weed, do anyways? possibly even move on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 22m and 22f having a problem with relationship of almost 8 months. POST: From 22m. Last night she reveled to me that during our first month together she was still messing around with her Ex of three years. I'm not sure how to respond to or handle the news. She said that she has cut ...	girlfriend of almost 8 months told me she was messing with her ex of three years until a month into our relationship. I don't know how to handle it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (23/m) believe I'm carrying the relationship with my girlfriend (23/f) and I'm starting to feel pushed away. POST: First of all, I love my girlfriend very much, getting to be with her is practically a dream come true. With that out of the way, I've always felt like I'm putti...	I feel like I put more effort into our relationship, which seems to be growing colder, and I want to address it without judging her personality.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Starting from the bottom and not sure what to do POST: Throwaway acct here. So basically, I am 24, and have been living with my parents for 2 years now. My father owns a small business on the side of a corporate job, which I have been managing in exchange for living rent free. Mean...	might be homeless very very soon (tomorrow), have no money, car, friends, family and don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my 'friend' [18 F] 2-3 weeks, trying to figure out what she wants. POST: So there is a girl who's family are very close to mine, parents do everything together and i recently uploaded a picture to Facebook in which she told her mum that I looked attractive, I took it a...	Women confuse the fuck outta me, seems interested then not then she kisses me and then she doesn't seem interested anymore. Don't want to creep her out by trying to initiate conversation. Fuck.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Received a random amount of money from previous college, what to do? POST: Please let me know if this should be posted elsewhere instead, I can't seem to think of any other subreddit to ask in. I am a sophomore in my university, but I am a transfer student after spending a year a...	Received money from school I'm no longer attending, can I keep it or will it be taken back out of my account?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: GF (18) broke up with me (18M) after 17 months for complicated reasons, but still wants to be friends. what should I do? POST: Long term GF broke up with me last week because she wants to focus on college/her future, and said that we can resume our relationship once she has achieved what ...	GF broke up with me to focus on career and still loves me and wants to hang out and talk but also see other people. What should I do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Let's MindMeld. Help with 3.5 yr old fighting sleep. POST: Hello Parents. My husband and I are having an issue with our daughter at bedtime and I need your insight, advice, stories of victory, and wisdom. Our daughter is 3.5 and she has always been good about sleeping. Normally she will ...	3.5 yr old daughter catches the giggles until 1-2am despite being tired from her day. It's like she is fighting sleep but stays in her bed and doesn't play, just entertains herself. HELP!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16F] just discovered I'm pregnant with my boyfriend [19M] of one year. I want an abortion. the thought of it brings him to tears POST: The title is pretty self explanatory. I never thought this would happen to me. I found out today and am still in shock. I sat my boyfriend down, l...	I'm 16 and pregnant. I want an abortion but my boyfriend gets so emotional at the notion of it, and my own emotions are tearing me apart.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] received some inheritance. Family are upset that I'm not treating them to something. I already am. POST: My biological dad was never in my life in a meaningful way. I was raised by my mother and my step dad. My biological dad would sometimes visit and spend a day or two with ...	I received some inheritance from my dad and shared some of it with my family. They expect more. I don't know how to approach this whole thing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I (22m) get my girlfriend's (22f) self-esteem and confidence up? POST: I've seen a lot of good advice on this subreddit, so hopefully you guys can help me out too. I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 and a half years. I knew she had self-esteem issues from the start, b...	Girlfriend's self-esteem issues stem from verbal and psychological abuse from her father as a child, need to find a way to boost her confidence and self-esteem.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22M] about to go on a first date with [21F] whose never been on a date. I am also inexperienced on dating. Any tips or suggestions to have a fun/comfortable night? POST: My friends set me up to meet this chick at a party, and yada yada yada we got to talking and she said yes to a da...	tips or suggestions for a first date. Both socially awkward. Shes excited but nervous, I want her to have fun and feel comfortable around me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25 F] Fiance [25 M] has let his ex-convict brother basically move in with us without asking me. POST: My fiance and I have been together for five years. We live together, though this is a fairly recent arrangement... as in the past six months. Overall our relationship is good. T...	Fiance has all but let his half brother move in with us, half brother was convicted of rape a while ago.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: My neighbor poured her coffee all over my car today. What should I do from here? POST: I recently moved into a small apartment complex in California. I live on the side of the building, away from the assigned parking lot. So I park on a curb that's a bit closer to my unit, along with a...	My neighbor is getting mad that I'm parking in her spot even though it's not an assigned parking area, so she poured her starbucks all over my car today.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20 F] My SO [21 M] treats his friends better than me. How should I address it? POST: Whenever my boyfriend does things with his friends or our shared friends, he is so gracious and generous. He drives without asking for gas money, he goes out to dinner with them, he makes and shares...	My SO is incredibly gracious and accomodating toward his friends and I dont feel like he treats me in the same manner.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by showing my Virtual Reality headset to a cute girl, that I used the night before for "Adult VR Experiences" POST: [Got the Google Cardboard VR and super stoked.] Had a quick session last night with some lotion and other things. This VR is great, and made out of cardboard, so scents l...	Used VR for adult things, scented lotion got on it, girl straps on ready to enjoy a roller coaster VR experience only to smell my sins.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Need help with this insanely hot chick at work POST: So I work at a store and my job is to basically fill the shelves, her job is to put back returns and to make sure all the shelves are neat etc. She follows me around every shift we are on together and always laughs at what I ...	Hot girl at work i can tell is into me and wants the D but doesn't reply when I asked her out for coffee before work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[27M] and my girlfriend [25F] of 5 years just split up. I have been by myself in a hotel for almost 50 days now, and I think I realized some things. Help? POST: So after 5 great years together, we broke up almost 2 months ago. A week afterwards I was sent out of town to work on a l...	Broke up with girly because we werent taking the next steps, and after two months of self-introspection I realized I was a child about it all. Need advice, because Im still in love.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He(29M) told me(23F) he would be home hours ago.. Now he won't return my calls or my texts POST: Maybe not the best place or time but I have massive anxiety and It's now almost 1. I probably won't get any sleep tonight. I suffer from extreme anxiety problems and I feel like I can't b...	Boyfriend was supposed to come home from work hours ago. Now he's not responding to texts, calls, and his fb said he checked it not too long ago. What should I think?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Not sure what I [18F] should make of this friendship with [17M] POST: We're both seniors in high school and have recently gotten out of bad relationships within the past 6 months. We became very close friends over the summer, and often do things couples would do, like get food or cat...	My guy best friend who had been flirting with me said we're just friends, and now I don't know how to approach the friendship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Need help combining finances. POST: I am freshly engaged and a relatively new graduate just starting my career. My fiancé and I recently started talking about combining our finances since starting my new job. (He's had a steady one for about 4 years making 40ish a year) I am very w...	My non-finance savvy fiancé and I are thinking about combining finances. Any advice on best way to handle this and dealing with credit cards??<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my first everything [25 M] four months, should I tell him I love him before leaving? POST: I'm on exchange and about to go back to my country. I met a guy I really like and we have been seeing each other for most of my stay. I'm about to go back to my country and he al...	I've been dating a guy but I'm leaving the country, is it a bad idea to tell him I love him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (18m) like this one girl (18f), but I get really paranoid on almost everything she does. POST: Hey Reddit, I'm starting to like this one girl, but before I go any further I want to try and get to know her better. So the problem is that (that I've always had) I get really paranoid ...	I get paranoid about every little negative thing that happens, and I end up dwelling on these things unable to concentrate on anything, and just generally feeling bad.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[20/F] with my "friend" [25m] around 8 months, he lost interest. Is it okay for me to feel this sad? POST: I don't want to go into too much detail, because that's not what really matters here. Basically we became long distance friends through a mutual hobby, we texted every single ...	Guy lost interest and it was finalized, we no longer talk. Is it normal and acceptable to feel this bummed?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (20f) boyfriend (21m) get annoyed with each other over little things and I need this to change. POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for three months and everything has been completely wonderful except it seems like every week or so we get annoyed with one another over litt...	boyfriend and I get annoyed over not seeing each other and take it out on one another. I need help making it stop.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25/M] and my SO's [24/F] hobbies do not align - what does the future hold? POST: Hello all, after some lurking it seems like this is a very helpful subreddit from which I can glean some insight... Background: My current girlfriend and I originally started dating in high school. ...	Girlfriend is perfect for me (and I think she feels the same!), but our hobbies don't match up - what does the future entail?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Hedgehog ownership POST: Hey everyone, I just went through a really nasty breakup and need to make some changes. I decided I wanted to look into owning a pet. Although a dog would be nice, I am not sure about it as I've never taken care of dogs before, only cats and hamsters. I've been doing...	Does anyone have any experience with caring for and owning a hedgehog, and would like to share some information stories, or tips with me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What questions posted on AskReddit have you developed a general rubric for answering? POST: I see a lot of questions popping up repeatedly on AskReddit, and I've realized that my answers are almost nearly the same every time they come up. What generic answers have you developed that you ...	Basically for any relationship advice where the person doesn't know how to tell their SO something, I repeat exactly what they say back to them and add a couple of reassuring words.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Advice on telling my boss I'm quitting POST: So I know the universal rule on telling your current employer that you're leaving is basically "Don't" but I have a somewhat unique situation. I've been with my current (shitty retail) employer for 3 years. I'm currently a Department Supervisor. ...	I have a very good and very caring boss who is worried I might be leaving. I probably am leaving very soon. Do I tell him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Gf (22f) thinks I (25m) need to call her more during the week day. But I feel like its not necessary EVERYDAY. POST: Hey all, So my gf and I don't get to see each other during the weekday since we both work full time jobs. We've been dating for about 5 months now and have gotten pret...	My gf and I can only see each other on weekends. She likes to chat every day and I didn't call her last night. She mad..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [24F] approach my boyfriend [28M] of 6 months about his weight loss/obesity issues? POST: Hey all. I have been dating my boyfriend for about six months now. We had been friends for about a year before we dated, and have moved in together and everything is going extremely wel...	boyfriend is obese, was making fitness progress before we were dating, now isn't. I don't want to marry him unless he continues to make progress. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: writing a letter to cancel sending of mortagge loan to collections POST: Hello, I have recently missed 2 consecutive mortgage payments which led to my account being sent to collections. I was out of the country and left someone in charge of paying my bills online...somehow they ove...	missed 2 mortgage payments, account was sent to collections. have good history and brought the account to current. need to protect credit score and "reverse/cancel" the sending to collections.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Relationship ambivalence with a LTR: normal or a sign? POST: Ages: I'm 32, he's 37 We've been together 6.5 years, unmarried, living together for 5. Things are good overall. Lots in common, we make each other laugh, fight fairly, and he pulls equal weight around the home. I still fi...	I'm having doubts and crushes on other guys. He doesn't want to marry but wants full commitment. I don't know if this is normal or if I should bail.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my teammate/mentee [16 F] power dynamic issues? POST: When I was a junior, I was the captain of my debate team, and met a girl who was a freshman at the time when she joined the team. We became friends, but never really spent time together outside of debate. I just gra...	Became "adult" mentor of my schools debate team and have a crush on former classmate. Best to let this go, or should I pursue?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Mother takes ativan and ambien with two bottles of wine. Dr assured me they would not give her Rx anymore. EMS was called for second time last night and she has new script from same Dr. (eastern NC) POST: She is 49 and has developed a bad drinking problem the past couple years. She has...	Asked dr to not give prescription because it is being abused, they agreed, then gave her refills. She has majorily injured herself 3 times because of intentionally mixing pills with alcohol.<\|endoftext\|>