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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[26M] broke up with my GF[26/F] after 1 year. I feel like she "isn't there" - good reason? POST: I broke up with my gf of a year after my feeling alone in the relationship finally snapped. We are both professionally successful, and the relationship has no glaring issues (ie cheatin...	Really amazing woman and I have fun, but I don't feel she is emotionally available. Was I just in breaking up with her over it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 27M Girlfriend of 3 years and I broke up. Now maybe back together but I feel irrational. Need advice. POST: We went through a really rough time last year and broke up. She was the love of my life. The light in my darkness. We never fought, we barely argued, we just got complace...	irrational feelings of betrayal when GF jumped in bed with new man right after breakup even though we were broken up. How do I process this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend left for two months right after we started dating. I'm afraid I'm fucking it up. POST: I'll be 19 this month and he's 20. We've been dating since May and things moved really quickly. He got a job out in the country a month ago though and won't be coming home until August. ...	Boyfriend left for two months, is showering me in compliments, but I just don't feel connected to him a lot of the time, can't reciprocate and am an emotional wreck.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (25M) long term / best friend (26M) only talks to me for Amway Sales pitches. How do I handle this? POST: I'm sure I'm not the only person out there thats run into this situation before, but I don't really know how to handle this. I've known the guy for 15 years and we've grown ...	Friend of 15+ years and his wife are involved with Amway. Every conversation is about selling me things. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Looking for some Financial Advice POST: I have some shares in Chevron. 500 shares, to be exact. I was given them when I was about 10 years old, and I've never done anything with them. However, I was informed by the broker who handles my account that they hit a record high not long ...	Should I sell my 500 shares of Chevron, take the tax hit from the record high, and wait to re-purchase at 65-70 while missing out on the dividends?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [26M] screwed up, now she [25F] is having troubles with it. POST: We've been dating for a few months now. Prior to us even meeting, I was trying to stop my porn habit. It used to be pretty bad (3-5 times a day). About a month or two into our relationship, we watched a porn to...	Been dating 3 months, looked at porn for the past few weeks, she found out and has become depressed at the thought of sex.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23/F] dealing with my [16/M]: I think my brother is going down the wrong path and I want to help him. POST: At the moment I live with my parents and younger brother. He turned 16 recently and thinks he's an adult. I love my brother, but he's not responsible, he's failing his clas...	What can I do to help my teen brother improve his life, as in help him with school and improving academically and emotionally?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 F] with my 25 M friend 6 years, should I text him? POST: Should I text him? An old friend of mine, who I have had a crush on since high school, and who I had sex with a year ago recently moved back into the area. He has been "seeing" another girl for some time, but he is stil...	He is seeing someone casually, just moved to my area, and we have had a thang in the past. Should I ask him how he feels?! How should I approach this? Is it ethical?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [28 M] having problems coping with an ex-abusive relationship to take things seriously with my new [27 F] girlfriend after 8 months... POST: I used to be in a relationship that, in hindsight, was very abusive -- she would deliberately manipulate and gaslight me into blaming mysel...	Taking the suspicion learned from an abusive relationship into a new, better one. Don't know how to move past it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making pancakes for a collegue POST: This is my first TIFU post so here it goes: Me and my collegue have been sharing a car for the past 3 weeks and we both like to bake and we share our results. Last week I told her I made some pancakes and that she wanted some, so I did some for h...	Baked pancakes for a collegue, send her a gif with a girl DTing a sausage by mistake and she thought I'm sending her mixed messages. She mad now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How come nutritional information doesn't include a statistic like "You will gain X lbs by eating this?" POST: I mean, I understand why nutritional information is listed in caloric, fat, etc. content because those metrics are objective whereas weight gain would be subjective. However, th...	I'm lazy - why the hell not just tell me how fat I'm going to get when I eat your food? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm a waiter in Missouri and my boss wants to start "taxing" my tips, is this legal? POST: I have been looking all day and I feel like an idiot, but the laws in Missouri are hard to find concerning tips and wages. I earn $3.00 an hour plus my tips. Last week I calculated that I ...	Owner plans on "taxing" my tips every night at a restaurant in Missouri. Clueless waiter here trying to find proof of what rights I have.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help! Is My Boyfriend a Pedophile? POST: My boyfriend (27M) and I (31F) have been together for eleven months, and just bought a house last month. Until tonight, I thought everything was perfect: our personalities fit, our life and career goals matched, the sex and chemistry was *gr...	I found a porn story my boyfriend wrote about a ten-year-old boy with his name getting fucked by a 40-year-old woman, and now I think he's a pedophile. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] have a crush on this girl [17F] but I have not talked to her in 13 months POST: Last summer, not the on that just ended (2015 summer) I took a summer school course that was offered for students who wanted to get ahead in their courses. These courses weren't held at normal hig...	Got a crush on this girl I met in a course I took over a year ago. Havent talked to her since then, but still have a crush.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: new-ish to seattle, no social life, don't know anyone outside of work. reddit, how the hell do i make new friends? POST: first off, i'd like to offer this article as it explains a huge bit of what i'm dealing with at the moment: [article via the seattle times]( it's a rather long read, ...	The testes of the right whale are likely to be the largest of any animal, each weighing around 1,100 lb!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] think of breaking up with my girlfriend [18 F] 1month, because she has tendency of falling into love with someone else POST: Hello Reddit, I'm actually in relationship with one girl for 1 month now and in last week she did confide in me that she has tendency of changing boy...	I think that my relationship with my girlfriend is pointless if she has tendency of leaving me for some stranger who will have interest in her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a cup of tea.. POST: Mandatory this didn't happen today, but a couple weeks ago. So as the title says, I was making a cup of tea. I had some water already boiled and ready to go. Perfect. I'm in the kitchen pouring a cup of said boiled water into a mug with my tasty orange pe...	Made tea, got high, poured girlfriend a cup. But the only thing that got high on her was her right hands skin temperature..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: 4+ year journey from Fat to Thin, Female to Male, Drop Out to Doctor POST: 4+ years ago I was in a very dark place. 19[F] I had major depression, was estranged from my family, dirt broke, in an abusive relationship and failing my science degree. My coping mechanisms were food addiction ...	if anyone tells you it is easy, they are straight up lying. But it is possible and it can be done.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Did I miss my chance and will trying to reconnect make me seem crazy? POST: Here's the deal, through half of college I had an enormous, head over heels teenager crush on this boy (let's call him Bill) who was in some of my classes. We always worked together on projects and assi...	Have had an intense crush on a guy for four years. Haven't seen him in a year and a half and still think about him. Would I seem nuts to try to reconnect? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: I wish I could TALK to my dog. POST: Some backstory: My dog [Midji] and I have lived with my parents since May of 2011 after I graduated college. Midji has become super mega best friends with my parents cat, Kitty Cat, and friendly with my parents 14 year old Basset Hound, Madison. I moved to...	recently moved to a city after living with my 'rents after almost 2 years. Had to leave my dog at home with them while I worked out some apartment issues. Finally brought her with me. Feeling doubtful about my decision.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Question for those that have flown while being overweight. POST: Forgive me for posting this here, it's not exactly dealing with losing weight, exactly. I just don't know where else to ask, every search I do comes up with another subreddit full of stories demonizing people for flying whil...	Flying in less than a month, sill just over 300lbs, absolutely terrified of not fitting in seats. Anyone that's done this at that size willing to share their experience?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [34F] [married one year, together for 10 years] has made it clear to me [32M] that she is very unhappy, would leave me and go home to her mom if she/we had the money, and has expressed suicidal thoughts. POST: I'm really confused, and sad, but sort of numb. She has had these ...	Relationship of 10 years is spiralling out of my control and it got to the point my wife said she wants to be alone to find herself, and is very depressed about who she is, but I don't understand.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (30/m) kept a secret from my wife of 2 years (29/f). She now feels betrayed and can't trust me. POST: So here's the deal: My wife 29,f of 2 years, has a friend who we've grown close to. I enjoy hanging out with her husband. About 3 months ago her friends husband texts me to say th...	I (30/m) didn't tell my wife (29/f) of 2 years that her friend and her husband were experimenting with polyamory. Now she feels betrayed and can't trust me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Come in Reddit, We have a situation. POST: Hello my good friends of Reddit, I a college student, like I suspect a huge chunk of Reddit it is. Have noticed something very grotesque lately. The advancement of memes or "advice" animals being broadcast across of social mediums such as Faceb...	Facebook is becoming a lower version of 9gag (who knew that was possible) Who thinks this needs to be stopped?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Did anyone see things flying in the sky last night in CT? POST: Last night around 10:00 I was at a friends house and we went out side to smoke a cigarette. We were looking up in the sky at the stars because where he lives there isn't that much light pollution. After looking for a few min...	My friend and I saw star like object jetting across the sky last night and wanted to know if anybody saw the same thing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it common to not get paid your first day of work? POST: I am talking more so about part time jobs, not some big corporate official job. I just got hired at a burger joint and went in for my first four hours of work. For about two of the hours I was walking around with the manager le...	Should I not get paid for my first day because it was training, even though I did menial work such as clean bathrooms?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my Girlfriend[44 F] of 3 years. Motivated versus relaxed, ambitious versus content POST: I am a 26 y/o entrepreneur running a martial arts/fitness facility. I am really interested in growing into other areas with my work and, in general, I am always moving, planning, w...	I hyperactive and ambitious, my g/f is content and free spirited, how do we learn to be life partners/ homemakers?!?!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] has been in a on and off relationship with GF [22F] for two years and i'm not sure if i should walk away from this for good. POST: I should mention that this is my very first relationship and first experience romantically pretty much. She and i met two years ago and hit it of...	Girlfriend and i have broken up and gotten back together several times, insecurities and drama is at an all time high and i have no idea what to do or how to fix this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (M/17) need advice because girlfriend (F/16) Made out with another guy POST: My girlfriend and I were friends with benefits for about a month then started dating maybe three weeks ago and I really like her. I recently found out that she madeout with another guy a couple days ...	Girlfriend madeout with a dude while drunk and high for three seconds, told me she will never talk to him and will do anything to be with me, took her back but still have second thoughts.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Want to get back together with my former gf... POST: Hey there, my former gf and I are both pretty young- we're both 19, but we're one year apart in school (I'm a sophomore in college, she's a junior). Last semester, we started to get together and then started a relationship for six ...	I want to get back together with my ex. We didn't end on a bad note, and were really happy together when we were in a relationship. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey reddit, I'm quite socially immature. What are some additional ways I can overcome this obstacle in my life? POST: Background I guess. Parents decided for some unbeknownst reason to move into the middle of butt-fuck nowhere. Ended up with 4-5 years of "seclusion" from most social inte...	Secluded for years due to moving. Social abilities stagnated where I lived, and I'm socially immature struggling to cope with social situations.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27 M] fiancee [25 F] is panicking about moving away after the wedding for my new job POST: I'll try to be brief -- I'm a graduate student starting a new job in September across the country. My fiancee (whose entire family lives here) originally told me she has no problem moving (...	Fiancee is panicking about moving away from home after our wedding, but there's no way I can stay here in my line of work and I've already signed a job contract. What should I do here?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [15m] Relationship issues, This girl I like [15f] POST: I'm a 15 year old guy, a sophomore in high school and i have never had any real relationship. I've come close to a real boyfriend-girlfriend relationship a few times but either nothing happened or I somehow fucked it up. B...	I like a girl that I'm not friends with. She is friends with my cousin [17f] whom I am very close with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Should I let my cat out? POST: So my kitty has been wanting out. Again. We decided to let him out last year since he showed interest in the outside world, and the first few times he was outside he would immediately go hide under the house and stay there for a day or two. We'd have to go loo...	my cat has a history of getting lost outside, a flea allergy, and there are dogs around that wanna eat him, though he can easily hide. Should I let him out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (18M) hate drinking, my girlfriend (17F) just started and lately has been doing it a lot. How do I get past it? POST: I hope I'm in the right place for this as I have never posted here. My girlfriend and I bonded over the fact that we were both in high school and not drinking...	My girlfriend who never use to drink, is now drinking. How do I stop it from bothering me so much?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my friend/acquaintance [19 F] moral/emotional-ish dilemma POST: So there's this girl I've known for about a year, I've hung out with her quite a few times and we get along pretty well. I have some isolation problems so I don't text her or hang out with her as much as I...	I want to hook up with a girl that I think is cool but I don't want to get emotionally attached or a relationship<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, am I the only one who has a "work mom"? How awesome is yours? POST: So I manage a place that is for the most part guys between 18 & 30.. There's a lady I work with who is around 40 that is pretty much everyone's "mom". She brings us food, asks about our lives, and generally is ju...	I have a "work mom" and she's awesome. Tell us about yours! Also, don't fuck with mine or we'll cut you.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by sitting on a baby POST: So, my friend invited me and another friend to her house. We got there, ate and messed around and after her mother got home from work we decided that we'll all go out to walk the dog in the park before we headed home. And I have to say, I LOVE dogs, so for the ...	Excitement for a dog led me to sit in the lap of a baby in a stroller after which I walked on as if nothing happened.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: writing a story and need someone who knows demonology to answer some question please :D POST: i know a little demonology but i cant find a certain "type" of demon i need for my story. The plot of it is that one day a girl is attacked my a evil guy but the guy is killed by a demon and the...	writing story,need type of demon for main char, must be about to kill but not that evil, kinda misunderstood demon type or something close to it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by intercepting a high five between two people I didn't know. POST: My high school has a robotics after-school program that I've been part of for a few years. My mother works at the school, so usually I have to stay a while after meetings before I can get home. This often results in me w...	(seriously? It's not even that long); I jumped in to intercept a high-five between two random people, accidentally hurt one of them, and ran off.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've never had a girlfriend. Is this weird? [15 yo male] POST: Alright, I've just started reddit so forgive me for anything un-redditlike. I'm a fifteen year old heterosexual boy from Wales and I have never had a girlfriend. Ever. I'm pretty sure that I'm the only guy in my year (g...	I'm a 15 Y O guy who has never had a girlfriend, I'm polite but girls go for the impolite guys. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Plagued by tibialis anterior injury POST: So I'm a new runner - or I'd like to be. I'm an active person, and for months I've been trying to add running to my workouts, following a sensible C25K plan so I don't do too much too fast. The problem is, sometime last fall I injured my right tibi...	Tibialis anterior injured months ago, still painful everytime I run. Tried everything, but still can't run more than two minutes.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: 401(k) Traditional versus Roth - Doing the Math Questions POST: So everyone knows you choose Traditional if you're in a high tax bracket now and it will be lower later and choose Roth if you are in a low tax bracket now but will be bringing in more money in retirement. But no one ...	Are there other factors to choosing Roth versus Traditional or should I just figure out if my tax bracket will go up or down like the rest of the world (well, USA)?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my 21[F] friend of 3 months, im falling in love and I think she is too. Only problem is she has a boyfriend. POST: UPDATE: She broke up with him today...I dont know how to proceed or even if I should.. Original: So I am starting medical school this Fall, and moved out...	Boy meets girl, girl has boyfriend, boy and (maybe) girl developing feelings. Should boy tell girl about feelings?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[20F] lukewarm about 9month relationship with [20M] SO. Advice? POST: I've been together with my SO for 9 months. He decided he loved me very early on, like 2 weeks in, I agreed in a whirlwind. The relationship moved very quickly, we're living together now in a year long lease and ...	I don't want to leave, I don't want things like this. On different pages, too scared to commit to the wrong thing, too scared to hurt him by refusing. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29M] have been dating [22F] for four months, she still gives me mixed signals POST: I hope that you give me some perspective, sorry for my english, I met this girl back in april and we have been seeing each other since, about once or twice a week. We have had sex and things have...	Been seeing a girl for 4 months, she posted pictures of her ex about a week ago. She thinks I don't know. Don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Can I get over it? And should I try? POST: I have been with my husband for almost 9 years (married for 4). Started dating when I was 16 and he was 18 so we had the whole high school sweethearts thing and got married when I was 21 and he was 23. A bit young perhaps... Here is t...	I might have caught my husband looking at child porn (maybe) and I can't get it out of my head.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need to win this contest for my bf reddit! POST: Not sure if this is the right place for this. I work 2 jobs but I can't afford to get my bf a nice b-day present. We have been struggling to put food on our plates for months and we've had to borrow money from family a few times, which ...	Help me win an iPad for my bf's birthday by thinking of a name for the new electronic scanners they will be using at his company.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is he emotionally distant or after one thing? POST: I'm 20 and he's 21. We met about a month ago and really hit it off. We're still in that "getting to know each other" stage, but we talk(or used to) very often and whenever we're together, it almost always leads somewhere physical. ...	Guy I've been seeing for 4 weeks doesn't show any feelings of attachment, just desire to have sex. Should I stay or should I go? Or is there more to his distance?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What totally ridiculous things have your roommates/flatmates done to upset you? POST: I just recently moved in with my best friend and his girlfriend (also a good childhood friend) to a nice country home. I am coming off a break up and a lost job, not the best of times for me personally....	My roommates (couple) adopted a cat for me, then decided they wanted to keep it and took all the stuff I bought for it. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My partner[25M] surprised me with a $5k antique ring. I[24F] was not as happy as I should be. POST: I love my partner very much, we've been best friends since we were 17, and I have no question that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. We have talked about our future a lot, ...	I didn't want a surprise engagement, and I didn't want an expensive ring. That's what I received, and now this big moment in our lives feels so wrong to me. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my girlfriend [16 F], been with her 3 months, I broke a promise with her and she is very mad with me. POST: Ok guys me and my girlfriend have a normal conversation on the telephone and i confessed that I Have and ex-girlfriend and i kissed my ex in her lips. So her...	I broke a promise that is no lies and no secrets and i kept a secret that i havent kissed a girl yet nor have a girlfriend. Any suggestion on what to do now?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by letting my friend DD POST: The gameplan was to hit on MILFs. A lot of them. A whole lot of them. So, a couple of my friends and I pregamed hard at one of our houses. Im talking tequila, whiskey, vodka, other fun stuff, whatever. It all went down easier than five dollar Thai hooke...	I passed out in my friends running car while he ran inside to get some stuff. He passed out and his dad ended up finding me in the car an hour later.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Do I have an Invasive procedure obligation? POST: Forgive me for the wall. Yesterday, I admitted myself into the ER for pneumonia. I had had it in the past and basically knew that's what it was, but I had to ride it out before (to avoid antibiotics, hospital bills and I had stupidly thought...	is it okay to opt out of an Invasive, non-lifesaving procedure. Can I even opt out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (29f) don't know how to date since I put my dating life on hold 4 years ago for my adopted daughter (5f). How do I do it with her best interests in mind? POST: I posted earlier this year (check my post history if you'd like to see the details, it got a bit messy) while I was going...	want to start dating. How should I tell my daughter/ when? Should I wait until she's a bit older until I start dating?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20m) want to stop a girl im seeing (19f) from going back to being an escort but i dont know how. POST: Shes not my girlfriend but we have a really really close connection, shes the sweetest gentlest soul ive ever met but had a very dark past (sexual abuse etc). shes been an escort...	Girl ive been seeing and really like wants to go back to sex work, i want to talk her out of it and she seems to want to be talked out of it but i dont know what to say.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M 21] am tired of my feelings for my ex-best friend/unrequited love [F 22] POST: So it's been more than a year since my best friend left my live (we'll call her Juliet) during a period of time where I almost time. To sum it up quickly Juliet was a girl I had a crush on I was 9 who...	I've been developing my life for last year but still miss my best friend who turned into a unrequited love.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unable to emotionally connect with women. POST: First things first, I am a straight male 22 y/o. When I am hanging out with men I find it very easy to form an emotional bond with them. Most men I meet I get along very easily with. When it comes to women however the complete opposit...	I need some advice on how to see beyond women simply in a sexual way. I'd like to form emotional bonds with women.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a bachelor's in chemistry. What certifications or degrees should I go back for? POST: Background: I turned 22 at the end of June, and I graduated 2 months ago with my B.S. in chemistry. I've settled into my new job and am finding that I have a lot of spare time. I used to fill it ...	B.S. in chem wants to find a certification to make some money on the side. Halp me reddit.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My [22M] SO rejected a home made Christmas gift from me [22F], and I'm not sure how to react. POST: I was in the process of knitting my SO a Christmas gift that I didn't finish on time as we were busy during the holidays. He didn't know I was making him something, but I busted ...	My SO of a year rejected a home made gift because he felt that it gave him a sense of obligation towards me and believes that gifts are a way for people to try and get closer to others.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: When dating, when does the conversation get deeper? POST: I've not dated a lot, but I'm not completely inexperienced (m/21). However, I always found myself losing things to talk about at one point. I'm thinking maybe my conversions in dates are always long small talks like what does ...	at what point can a person start talking about moving forward and becoming exclusive, finding out/revealing what they want to happen from now on with they person they're currently dating?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] three years, boyfriend is on medication which have taken away sex drive, and I really fancy my boss [34, M]... POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, had a really good relationship. I've always felt like he wasn't affectionate ...	What should I do, I feel lust towards my boss but still love my boyfriend, but we have no passion anymore?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Girlfriend [21 F] 1 year, she breaks up with me and then travels to California for the month... Tips? POST: So here's my story. I've been dating this girl for a year now, today was actually our "anniversary". She left me at the beginning of the month completely ou...	Girl fucks over guy, upsets him. Any feedback is awesome, this is kind of weird for me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: A tip for improving your credit score, when all the right ways aren't working. POST: Back Story, I had absolutely no idea how credit worked, I wish there was required course in high school, or as a prerequisite to get credit. I was 22 and had a credit score of 490. WOW. I had alway...	Contest all derogatory marks on your credit score at all 3 agencies and they may get removed even if you were at fault.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Maid of Honor needs Advice (23F) POST: A friend of mine, J, asked me 2 years ago to be her maid of honor, she and I had been close friends as children, and when she developed a serious illness I was there for her. I accepted, albeit hesitantly because our relationship is more of a te...	childhood friend turned acquaintance asked me to be maid of honor, accepted, month before wedding nothing is done and she's a bridezilla. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I really don't know what to do. I, without thinking, gave my number to a mentally handicapped girl, and now she won't stop calling me. POST: I promise you this is not a troll. I've known this girl basically my entire life, we went to church together when we were kids and we've known ea...	Gave a family friend who's mentally handicapped and had a huge crush on me for years my number, and she's calling me constantly. Is there any way to deal with this without hurting her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: How do you "break up" with a vendor you've decided not to use when you're at the contract signing stage? POST: We were looking at a photographer that we'd liked for a while. I'd originally contacted her about a year ago after we first got engaged because her work was alright and he...	How do I tell the first photographer, who thinks we're using her and is expecting the contract and invoice back, that we're going with someone else without it being super awkward?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M], 5-year relationship with [28 F], strong feelings for co-worker [27 F] POST: Throaway account. I'm having a hard time right now. I'm in a great stable relationship with my SO but there's this other girl from work who has hit my weakest spot. My current relationship is gr...	Was happy with my SO, co-worker girl showed up, I got curious and now I'm not in a good place. Seeking to pull out and not hurt anyone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Waiter refuses to give us an extra table POST: A few nights back my wife, father-in-law and I are going out for dinner and some beers. We tried looking for some burger places, but they were either closed or my FIL didn't like the look (he's picky about food). In the end we tried Mexi...	douchebag waiter refuses to accommodate 3 customers, we go up the street and spend more than normal for 3 people and left a fat tip for the waiter.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Owing Money POST: I'm a 23 year old female. My friend invited me to go to Ocean City Maryland with her family for college week. The cost of the trip is $86, and I need to pay her aunt back. Her aunt and I both live in Virginia, roughly about half an hour apart, while my friend and her famil...	I owe my friend's aunt money, and have tried to pay it back several times, but now said friend wants it at a really inconvenient time for me. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23/M] really confused about "relationship" with [30/M] POST: Ok, so let me preface by saying that I [23/M] have only had 1 serious relationship, which lasted nearly 5 years. So, needless to say, Im new to the whole dating thing. About 6 months after I broke up with my ex, I star...	So, is this normal? How long do people usually talk before becoming official? I understand that there's no standard and each relationship is different, but Im still confused. le sigh<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (22m) with (24f) Religion getting in the way of Relationship. Please Help. POST: So there's this girl that started working at the news station I'm employed at. She was hired about 4 months ago, and I could tell immediately that we had a connection, particularly since we were bo...	YEC girlfriend thinks that being with me has made her drift away from God, and now wants to break up with me because I'm not religious enough for her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend's dad has 3 wives. How to explain this to my parents? POST: I knew long ago that my boyfriend has a half-brother that is the same age as him. I asked him why but he said he didn't know and refused to ask his dad. Recently, I found out from his relatives that his dad actu...	my bf's dad has 3 wives. How to tell this to my parents? They are old-fashioned and religious.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25f Australian] German boyfriends [30] friends make no effort to speak English to me. How can I make them engage me in conversation? POST: I have been living in Germany for just over a year and dating an amazing German man for 5 months. Whenever we hang out with his friends (who ...	my Germans not that great, my boyfriends German/English speaking friends just don't seem to want to talk to me. What should I do to make them talk to me? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22M] My wife [21F] always plays the victim and paints me as a bad guy, what do I do? POST: I am starting to feel as though there is nothing that I can do right. She blames me for everything. She is constantly berating me and calling me names on top of it. I never do that to he...	my wife is always the victim and I'm starting to feel like a bad person. I don't know what to do anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Bypassing the recruitment agency and contacting the employer directly... a big no no? POST: A little background, I work in IT, specifically in the banking sector. I was working abroad for 3 years and I came back to the UK late last year and have been looking to go abroad again. I have found t...	Ideal job, I'm a perfect match, recruiter is useless, after 3 months thinking of contacting the employer directly. Thoughts??<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Just left girlfriend of over a year for no apparent reason. Trying to figure out why. Please help POST: My girlfriend and I of over a year had an argument about her not currently trusting me after smelling smoke on me after promising I wouldn't smoke anymore. It got heated and ended up wi...	I left my girlfriend of over a year for no apparent reason. On paper she's perfect for me, but I can't FEEL the love anymore. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [21F] in love with a friend [21M] but he's in a relationship. Have you ever ended a current relationship for another? POST: I've known him about 2 and a half years now. The whole time he has been with the same girl. In the beginning I was also with someone, but that ended a...	Friend cheated on his gf with me a while ago, we stopped talking, hooked up again last weekend, feelings are back<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having an entire class see my 6 year old penis. POST: Obviously this didn't happen today, but rather it was about 10 years ago. However it's time I told the world my story, and what better a way to do so then (for the most part) anonymously on the internet. Anyway, so during my routi...	Really needed to pee during recess, ended up peeing unto a bush in front of an entire 5th grade class.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Help me get over ex's kinks. POST: OK. So reddit is probably the worst place in the world to ask this, but it's kind of sensitive so it's not like I can ask my mother for advice. Basically, my last boyfriend was a kinky freak. Like, probably the most perverted guy I ever dated and h...	my ex was a pervert and burdened me with his shameful fetishes; how do I not look at every guy I date like a potential freak?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] sometime hate being around my GF [21 F] of 4 months. POST: We've been dating for about 4 months, she's still a full time student, I'm in Grad school and working full time. When I'm not near her, I constantly wish I was single. I don't like doing social things with her becaus...	GF is becoming a mental burden, but I still really like being with her when it's just us. Should I break it off ASAP or ease my way out of it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit- What is the guiltiest fap you have ever had? [NSFW] POST: In other words, what Fap made you feel the guiltiest/awkwardest after wards? I'll start, one time I was on vacation in California and I hadn't fapped in over 3 1/2 weeks. My mind was filled by all these weird desires. My...	I unknowingly came on the heads of a 20 something year old couple from my hotel balcony. All because I was being stupid while fapping.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (M53) I just discovered the woman (F33) I asked out is considerably younger than I am. Is there a creepy factor here? POST: Reddit seems to be the go to, so I'm hoping you ladies can offer a guy some perspective. I'm a 53 year old guy. I have two kids (who live with me) and am...	I asked a woman out without knowing her actual age. It turns out she's 20 years younger than me. Problematic or socially awkward in any way?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How would one go about finding information on their own last-name being changed? (info inside) POST: When I was around 2-3 my last name was changed (I am 22 now). I remember being in court, but that's about it. I don't remember anything that was said. The only other thing I can remember ...	my last name was changed when I was young, and I haven't been told why. Are there ways to get official information?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25/F] have had a FWB [35/M] for 2 months and today he gave me a USB drive of uncomfortable pictures. POST: I recently started a casual relationship with a guy. We have more of a FWB type of relationship and have been seeing each other for about two months. We ended up having sex a...	FWB gave me a USB drive of pictures of him having gay sex because I told him I liked gay porn. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's the craziest thing you've ever done "for love?" POST: This girl I was really, really food friends with moved from Texas (where we live) to North Carolina. I was infatuated with her, and I thought she was with me too. 6 months after she moved and not stop texting, she asked...	Drove 19 hours with the misinterpretation that apple pie=sexy time, showed up only to find she actually meant apple pie, and they had already eaten it...I left empty handed and blue balled.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32F] with my unavailable crush [39 M] - how do I move past this. POST: I've been single for around a year, several long term relationships before that. I've really struggled to meet anyone that I've really connected with, until recently. A few months ago I was on a work assignmen...	I met my ideal man but he has a girlfriend and I'm like a lovesick teenager who can't get over it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: F(20) Ashamed of Feelings Anytime I Have Them POST: Whenever I begin to develop feelings for other people, I immediately feel ashamed and it keeps me from pursuing a relationship. It takes me months to finally admit my attraction, and when I do it is met with rejection. I have only t...	I have never been in a relationship and I believe it is caused by a fear and shame of my feelings for other people. I am looking for a way to remedy this feeling.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by wearing a vest. POST: Okay so this happened today. So I don't generally wear vests, I don't like them, they make me feel fat and hot. I only ever wear them when its winter and its freezing and I mean FREEZING. I thought today was one of those days... it was not. After walking aroun...	Wore a vest on a warmish/cold day, got hot and bothered, dumped in on the floor of the prayer room and went to pray.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [27/F] tell my ex-lover [30/M] that I've gained a lot of weight since he last saw me? POST: Three years ago, I had a fling with Fabrizio, a guy from Italy. We were VERY into each other while it lasted but he shortly moved to the Middle East after that. We kept in touch wit...	How do I [27/F] tell my ex-lover [30/M] that I've gained a lot of weight since he last saw me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Single parents, how did you end up out of the relationship with the other person? POST: So, I've [27m] been going out with this lady [31f] for a few months now and it is going pretty great. A few weeks ago we found out that she is pregnant. My obvious course of action here is t...	My lady is pregnant and not keeping it. I support her no matter what. If she had kept it, I would still be there. Why doesn't that approach seem to work for anybody else?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M/] with my Girlfriend[26 F] of two months. Her ex-boyfriend of two and a half years is flying in from america to celebrate his birthday with her. Am I overreacting? POST: Would you be okay with this? I don't think I am. We live in europe and she told me he had already booked...	Her Ex-boyfriend is flying in to celebrate his birthday with her. I feel super uncomfortable. Am I overreacting?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I've been fixing & removing viruses off of friends' laptops for free. Recently I've been working solely on computers that my friend's brother keeps "messing up." The most recent laptop had tranny porn on it. Should I mention it to him or his brother? POST: His brother is at least 28 year...	I keep fixing his computers because he's a sloppy user - he downloads shemale porn. Is it impolite to state what the actual cause of this computer's issues are?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How to approach an acquaintance? POST: Throaway, obviously. Well, there's this guy.. I've known him for about 2 months. I met him first when he was introduced to me by a mutual friend. Back then, I was really close to this friend, but we kind of don't really talk anymore, because he ...	developed a crush to a guy whom I didn't notice before and now don't know how to start communicating with more frequently.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by using the bathroom at a friend's house. POST: So I was at a friend's house and we were just sitting around playing games and i feel a shit coming on. I excused myself to the bathroom and started my shit. I thought it would be a normal one but it decides to be the wettest shit ever. I ...	Took a shit the Hulk would be shocked by in my friends toilet the first time I went over. Not allowed over again and paying for plumber.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] boyfriend [19M] of one month lied about his age and I'm feeling very confused. POST: We started dating just over a month ago. Things have been going really well. He's smart, kind, funny, all the things I look for in a partner. He told me when we started dating that he was 20...	boyfriend of one month lied about his age and is actually three years younger. No idea how to navigate a relationship with someone this much younger and if it's ethical.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: my ex [20F] keeps drunk texting me [20M] despite her breaking up with me [lasted 1.25 years] POST: So, my ex broke up with me last week, after a relationship in which we were happy until the last two weeks. She lost her feelings for me, and even after me asking if that happened, she ...	I got broken up with and now the person who broke up with me won't leave me alone. It almost feels like a cruel joke.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [26/M] Haven't had a relationship in 4 years, can't really talk to women; depression issues. POST: So, I know it's sad. A little bit of a backstory before I say I need help: I've dealt with issues of depression (up and down) for 13 years now; and I've never been able to climb ...	Can't seem to be happy about myself, suffer from lots of depression and have relationship issues. How do I fix this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Problems with my [27F] SO's [26M] somewhat estranged family POST: Me and my SO have been together for 2 years, and will be getting engaged soon. We'll be looking to get married within a couple of years. However, we have quite a few problems with his family and what to do about inviti...	SO's partially estranged sister doesn't invite me to anything, we're discussing wedding plans and I don't want her there. He feels like he has to invite her. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [F22] tell my boyfriend [M23] of 1.5 years about my past that has recently resurfaced? POST: About 2.5 years ago I was pretty good friends with this group of people, a mix of guys and girls. I was about 19/20 years old and there was this couple. I knew the girl (who was 26) ...	I slept with a guy 2.5 years ago who had a girlfriend. Now the girl is stirring up drama. Do I tell my boyfriend my past or let it go?<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[26M] broke up with my GF[26/F] after 1 year. I feel like she "isn't there" - good reason? POST: I broke up with my gf of a year after my feeling alone in the relationship finally snapped. We are both professionally successful, and the relationship has no glaring issues (ie cheatin...	Really amazing woman and I have fun, but I don't feel she is emotionally available. Was I just in breaking up with her over it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 27M Girlfriend of 3 years and I broke up. Now maybe back together but I feel irrational. Need advice. POST: We went through a really rough time last year and broke up. She was the love of my life. The light in my darkness. We never fought, we barely argued, we just got complace...	irrational feelings of betrayal when GF jumped in bed with new man right after breakup even though we were broken up. How do I process this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend left for two months right after we started dating. I'm afraid I'm fucking it up. POST: I'll be 19 this month and he's 20. We've been dating since May and things moved really quickly. He got a job out in the country a month ago though and won't be coming home until August. ...	Boyfriend left for two months, is showering me in compliments, but I just don't feel connected to him a lot of the time, can't reciprocate and am an emotional wreck.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (25M) long term / best friend (26M) only talks to me for Amway Sales pitches. How do I handle this? POST: I'm sure I'm not the only person out there thats run into this situation before, but I don't really know how to handle this. I've known the guy for 15 years and we've grown ...	Friend of 15+ years and his wife are involved with Amway. Every conversation is about selling me things. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Looking for some Financial Advice POST: I have some shares in Chevron. 500 shares, to be exact. I was given them when I was about 10 years old, and I've never done anything with them. However, I was informed by the broker who handles my account that they hit a record high not long ...	Should I sell my 500 shares of Chevron, take the tax hit from the record high, and wait to re-purchase at 65-70 while missing out on the dividends?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [26M] screwed up, now she [25F] is having troubles with it. POST: We've been dating for a few months now. Prior to us even meeting, I was trying to stop my porn habit. It used to be pretty bad (3-5 times a day). About a month or two into our relationship, we watched a porn to...	Been dating 3 months, looked at porn for the past few weeks, she found out and has become depressed at the thought of sex.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23/F] dealing with my [16/M]: I think my brother is going down the wrong path and I want to help him. POST: At the moment I live with my parents and younger brother. He turned 16 recently and thinks he's an adult. I love my brother, but he's not responsible, he's failing his clas...	What can I do to help my teen brother improve his life, as in help him with school and improving academically and emotionally?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 F] with my 25 M friend 6 years, should I text him? POST: Should I text him? An old friend of mine, who I have had a crush on since high school, and who I had sex with a year ago recently moved back into the area. He has been "seeing" another girl for some time, but he is stil...	He is seeing someone casually, just moved to my area, and we have had a thang in the past. Should I ask him how he feels?! How should I approach this? Is it ethical?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [28 M] having problems coping with an ex-abusive relationship to take things seriously with my new [27 F] girlfriend after 8 months... POST: I used to be in a relationship that, in hindsight, was very abusive -- she would deliberately manipulate and gaslight me into blaming mysel...	Taking the suspicion learned from an abusive relationship into a new, better one. Don't know how to move past it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making pancakes for a collegue POST: This is my first TIFU post so here it goes: Me and my collegue have been sharing a car for the past 3 weeks and we both like to bake and we share our results. Last week I told her I made some pancakes and that she wanted some, so I did some for h...	Baked pancakes for a collegue, send her a gif with a girl DTing a sausage by mistake and she thought I'm sending her mixed messages. She mad now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How come nutritional information doesn't include a statistic like "You will gain X lbs by eating this?" POST: I mean, I understand why nutritional information is listed in caloric, fat, etc. content because those metrics are objective whereas weight gain would be subjective. However, th...	I'm lazy - why the hell not just tell me how fat I'm going to get when I eat your food? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm a waiter in Missouri and my boss wants to start "taxing" my tips, is this legal? POST: I have been looking all day and I feel like an idiot, but the laws in Missouri are hard to find concerning tips and wages. I earn $3.00 an hour plus my tips. Last week I calculated that I ...	Owner plans on "taxing" my tips every night at a restaurant in Missouri. Clueless waiter here trying to find proof of what rights I have.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help! Is My Boyfriend a Pedophile? POST: My boyfriend (27M) and I (31F) have been together for eleven months, and just bought a house last month. Until tonight, I thought everything was perfect: our personalities fit, our life and career goals matched, the sex and chemistry was *gr...	I found a porn story my boyfriend wrote about a ten-year-old boy with his name getting fucked by a 40-year-old woman, and now I think he's a pedophile. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] have a crush on this girl [17F] but I have not talked to her in 13 months POST: Last summer, not the on that just ended (2015 summer) I took a summer school course that was offered for students who wanted to get ahead in their courses. These courses weren't held at normal hig...	Got a crush on this girl I met in a course I took over a year ago. Havent talked to her since then, but still have a crush.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: new-ish to seattle, no social life, don't know anyone outside of work. reddit, how the hell do i make new friends? POST: first off, i'd like to offer this article as it explains a huge bit of what i'm dealing with at the moment: [article via the seattle times]( it's a rather long read, ...	The testes of the right whale are likely to be the largest of any animal, each weighing around 1,100 lb!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] think of breaking up with my girlfriend [18 F] 1month, because she has tendency of falling into love with someone else POST: Hello Reddit, I'm actually in relationship with one girl for 1 month now and in last week she did confide in me that she has tendency of changing boy...	I think that my relationship with my girlfriend is pointless if she has tendency of leaving me for some stranger who will have interest in her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making a cup of tea.. POST: Mandatory this didn't happen today, but a couple weeks ago. So as the title says, I was making a cup of tea. I had some water already boiled and ready to go. Perfect. I'm in the kitchen pouring a cup of said boiled water into a mug with my tasty orange pe...	Made tea, got high, poured girlfriend a cup. But the only thing that got high on her was her right hands skin temperature..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: 4+ year journey from Fat to Thin, Female to Male, Drop Out to Doctor POST: 4+ years ago I was in a very dark place. 19[F] I had major depression, was estranged from my family, dirt broke, in an abusive relationship and failing my science degree. My coping mechanisms were food addiction ...	if anyone tells you it is easy, they are straight up lying. But it is possible and it can be done.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Did I miss my chance and will trying to reconnect make me seem crazy? POST: Here's the deal, through half of college I had an enormous, head over heels teenager crush on this boy (let's call him Bill) who was in some of my classes. We always worked together on projects and assi...	Have had an intense crush on a guy for four years. Haven't seen him in a year and a half and still think about him. Would I seem nuts to try to reconnect? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: I wish I could TALK to my dog. POST: Some backstory: My dog [Midji] and I have lived with my parents since May of 2011 after I graduated college. Midji has become super mega best friends with my parents cat, Kitty Cat, and friendly with my parents 14 year old Basset Hound, Madison. I moved to...	recently moved to a city after living with my 'rents after almost 2 years. Had to leave my dog at home with them while I worked out some apartment issues. Finally brought her with me. Feeling doubtful about my decision.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Question for those that have flown while being overweight. POST: Forgive me for posting this here, it's not exactly dealing with losing weight, exactly. I just don't know where else to ask, every search I do comes up with another subreddit full of stories demonizing people for flying whil...	Flying in less than a month, sill just over 300lbs, absolutely terrified of not fitting in seats. Anyone that's done this at that size willing to share their experience?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [34F] [married one year, together for 10 years] has made it clear to me [32M] that she is very unhappy, would leave me and go home to her mom if she/we had the money, and has expressed suicidal thoughts. POST: I'm really confused, and sad, but sort of numb. She has had these ...	Relationship of 10 years is spiralling out of my control and it got to the point my wife said she wants to be alone to find herself, and is very depressed about who she is, but I don't understand.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (30/m) kept a secret from my wife of 2 years (29/f). She now feels betrayed and can't trust me. POST: So here's the deal: My wife 29,f of 2 years, has a friend who we've grown close to. I enjoy hanging out with her husband. About 3 months ago her friends husband texts me to say th...	I (30/m) didn't tell my wife (29/f) of 2 years that her friend and her husband were experimenting with polyamory. Now she feels betrayed and can't trust me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Come in Reddit, We have a situation. POST: Hello my good friends of Reddit, I a college student, like I suspect a huge chunk of Reddit it is. Have noticed something very grotesque lately. The advancement of memes or "advice" animals being broadcast across of social mediums such as Faceb...	Facebook is becoming a lower version of 9gag (who knew that was possible) Who thinks this needs to be stopped?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Did anyone see things flying in the sky last night in CT? POST: Last night around 10:00 I was at a friends house and we went out side to smoke a cigarette. We were looking up in the sky at the stars because where he lives there isn't that much light pollution. After looking for a few min...	My friend and I saw star like object jetting across the sky last night and wanted to know if anybody saw the same thing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it common to not get paid your first day of work? POST: I am talking more so about part time jobs, not some big corporate official job. I just got hired at a burger joint and went in for my first four hours of work. For about two of the hours I was walking around with the manager le...	Should I not get paid for my first day because it was training, even though I did menial work such as clean bathrooms?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my Girlfriend[44 F] of 3 years. Motivated versus relaxed, ambitious versus content POST: I am a 26 y/o entrepreneur running a martial arts/fitness facility. I am really interested in growing into other areas with my work and, in general, I am always moving, planning, w...	I hyperactive and ambitious, my g/f is content and free spirited, how do we learn to be life partners/ homemakers?!?!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] has been in a on and off relationship with GF [22F] for two years and i'm not sure if i should walk away from this for good. POST: I should mention that this is my very first relationship and first experience romantically pretty much. She and i met two years ago and hit it of...	Girlfriend and i have broken up and gotten back together several times, insecurities and drama is at an all time high and i have no idea what to do or how to fix this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (M/17) need advice because girlfriend (F/16) Made out with another guy POST: My girlfriend and I were friends with benefits for about a month then started dating maybe three weeks ago and I really like her. I recently found out that she madeout with another guy a couple days ...	Girlfriend madeout with a dude while drunk and high for three seconds, told me she will never talk to him and will do anything to be with me, took her back but still have second thoughts.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Want to get back together with my former gf... POST: Hey there, my former gf and I are both pretty young- we're both 19, but we're one year apart in school (I'm a sophomore in college, she's a junior). Last semester, we started to get together and then started a relationship for six ...	I want to get back together with my ex. We didn't end on a bad note, and were really happy together when we were in a relationship. Advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey reddit, I'm quite socially immature. What are some additional ways I can overcome this obstacle in my life? POST: Background I guess. Parents decided for some unbeknownst reason to move into the middle of butt-fuck nowhere. Ended up with 4-5 years of "seclusion" from most social inte...	Secluded for years due to moving. Social abilities stagnated where I lived, and I'm socially immature struggling to cope with social situations.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27 M] fiancee [25 F] is panicking about moving away after the wedding for my new job POST: I'll try to be brief -- I'm a graduate student starting a new job in September across the country. My fiancee (whose entire family lives here) originally told me she has no problem moving (...	Fiancee is panicking about moving away from home after our wedding, but there's no way I can stay here in my line of work and I've already signed a job contract. What should I do here?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [15m] Relationship issues, This girl I like [15f] POST: I'm a 15 year old guy, a sophomore in high school and i have never had any real relationship. I've come close to a real boyfriend-girlfriend relationship a few times but either nothing happened or I somehow fucked it up. B...	I like a girl that I'm not friends with. She is friends with my cousin [17f] whom I am very close with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Should I let my cat out? POST: So my kitty has been wanting out. Again. We decided to let him out last year since he showed interest in the outside world, and the first few times he was outside he would immediately go hide under the house and stay there for a day or two. We'd have to go loo...	my cat has a history of getting lost outside, a flea allergy, and there are dogs around that wanna eat him, though he can easily hide. Should I let him out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (18M) hate drinking, my girlfriend (17F) just started and lately has been doing it a lot. How do I get past it? POST: I hope I'm in the right place for this as I have never posted here. My girlfriend and I bonded over the fact that we were both in high school and not drinking...	My girlfriend who never use to drink, is now drinking. How do I stop it from bothering me so much?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my friend/acquaintance [19 F] moral/emotional-ish dilemma POST: So there's this girl I've known for about a year, I've hung out with her quite a few times and we get along pretty well. I have some isolation problems so I don't text her or hang out with her as much as I...	I want to hook up with a girl that I think is cool but I don't want to get emotionally attached or a relationship<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, am I the only one who has a "work mom"? How awesome is yours? POST: So I manage a place that is for the most part guys between 18 & 30.. There's a lady I work with who is around 40 that is pretty much everyone's "mom". She brings us food, asks about our lives, and generally is ju...	I have a "work mom" and she's awesome. Tell us about yours! Also, don't fuck with mine or we'll cut you.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by sitting on a baby POST: So, my friend invited me and another friend to her house. We got there, ate and messed around and after her mother got home from work we decided that we'll all go out to walk the dog in the park before we headed home. And I have to say, I LOVE dogs, so for the ...	Excitement for a dog led me to sit in the lap of a baby in a stroller after which I walked on as if nothing happened.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: writing a story and need someone who knows demonology to answer some question please :D POST: i know a little demonology but i cant find a certain "type" of demon i need for my story. The plot of it is that one day a girl is attacked my a evil guy but the guy is killed by a demon and the...	writing story,need type of demon for main char, must be about to kill but not that evil, kinda misunderstood demon type or something close to it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by intercepting a high five between two people I didn't know. POST: My high school has a robotics after-school program that I've been part of for a few years. My mother works at the school, so usually I have to stay a while after meetings before I can get home. This often results in me w...	(seriously? It's not even that long); I jumped in to intercept a high-five between two random people, accidentally hurt one of them, and ran off.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've never had a girlfriend. Is this weird? [15 yo male] POST: Alright, I've just started reddit so forgive me for anything un-redditlike. I'm a fifteen year old heterosexual boy from Wales and I have never had a girlfriend. Ever. I'm pretty sure that I'm the only guy in my year (g...	I'm a 15 Y O guy who has never had a girlfriend, I'm polite but girls go for the impolite guys. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Plagued by tibialis anterior injury POST: So I'm a new runner - or I'd like to be. I'm an active person, and for months I've been trying to add running to my workouts, following a sensible C25K plan so I don't do too much too fast. The problem is, sometime last fall I injured my right tibi...	Tibialis anterior injured months ago, still painful everytime I run. Tried everything, but still can't run more than two minutes.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: 401(k) Traditional versus Roth - Doing the Math Questions POST: So everyone knows you choose Traditional if you're in a high tax bracket now and it will be lower later and choose Roth if you are in a low tax bracket now but will be bringing in more money in retirement. But no one ...	Are there other factors to choosing Roth versus Traditional or should I just figure out if my tax bracket will go up or down like the rest of the world (well, USA)?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my 21[F] friend of 3 months, im falling in love and I think she is too. Only problem is she has a boyfriend. POST: UPDATE: She broke up with him today...I dont know how to proceed or even if I should.. Original: So I am starting medical school this Fall, and moved out...	Boy meets girl, girl has boyfriend, boy and (maybe) girl developing feelings. Should boy tell girl about feelings?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[20F] lukewarm about 9month relationship with [20M] SO. Advice? POST: I've been together with my SO for 9 months. He decided he loved me very early on, like 2 weeks in, I agreed in a whirlwind. The relationship moved very quickly, we're living together now in a year long lease and ...	I don't want to leave, I don't want things like this. On different pages, too scared to commit to the wrong thing, too scared to hurt him by refusing. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29M] have been dating [22F] for four months, she still gives me mixed signals POST: I hope that you give me some perspective, sorry for my english, I met this girl back in april and we have been seeing each other since, about once or twice a week. We have had sex and things have...	Been seeing a girl for 4 months, she posted pictures of her ex about a week ago. She thinks I don't know. Don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Can I get over it? And should I try? POST: I have been with my husband for almost 9 years (married for 4). Started dating when I was 16 and he was 18 so we had the whole high school sweethearts thing and got married when I was 21 and he was 23. A bit young perhaps... Here is t...	I might have caught my husband looking at child porn (maybe) and I can't get it out of my head.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need to win this contest for my bf reddit! POST: Not sure if this is the right place for this. I work 2 jobs but I can't afford to get my bf a nice b-day present. We have been struggling to put food on our plates for months and we've had to borrow money from family a few times, which ...	Help me win an iPad for my bf's birthday by thinking of a name for the new electronic scanners they will be using at his company.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Is he emotionally distant or after one thing? POST: I'm 20 and he's 21. We met about a month ago and really hit it off. We're still in that "getting to know each other" stage, but we talk(or used to) very often and whenever we're together, it almost always leads somewhere physical. ...	Guy I've been seeing for 4 weeks doesn't show any feelings of attachment, just desire to have sex. Should I stay or should I go? Or is there more to his distance?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What totally ridiculous things have your roommates/flatmates done to upset you? POST: I just recently moved in with my best friend and his girlfriend (also a good childhood friend) to a nice country home. I am coming off a break up and a lost job, not the best of times for me personally....	My roommates (couple) adopted a cat for me, then decided they wanted to keep it and took all the stuff I bought for it. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My partner[25M] surprised me with a $5k antique ring. I[24F] was not as happy as I should be. POST: I love my partner very much, we've been best friends since we were 17, and I have no question that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. We have talked about our future a lot, ...	I didn't want a surprise engagement, and I didn't want an expensive ring. That's what I received, and now this big moment in our lives feels so wrong to me. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my girlfriend [16 F], been with her 3 months, I broke a promise with her and she is very mad with me. POST: Ok guys me and my girlfriend have a normal conversation on the telephone and i confessed that I Have and ex-girlfriend and i kissed my ex in her lips. So her...	I broke a promise that is no lies and no secrets and i kept a secret that i havent kissed a girl yet nor have a girlfriend. Any suggestion on what to do now?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by letting my friend DD POST: The gameplan was to hit on MILFs. A lot of them. A whole lot of them. So, a couple of my friends and I pregamed hard at one of our houses. Im talking tequila, whiskey, vodka, other fun stuff, whatever. It all went down easier than five dollar Thai hooke...	I passed out in my friends running car while he ran inside to get some stuff. He passed out and his dad ended up finding me in the car an hour later.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Do I have an Invasive procedure obligation? POST: Forgive me for the wall. Yesterday, I admitted myself into the ER for pneumonia. I had had it in the past and basically knew that's what it was, but I had to ride it out before (to avoid antibiotics, hospital bills and I had stupidly thought...	is it okay to opt out of an Invasive, non-lifesaving procedure. Can I even opt out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (29f) don't know how to date since I put my dating life on hold 4 years ago for my adopted daughter (5f). How do I do it with her best interests in mind? POST: I posted earlier this year (check my post history if you'd like to see the details, it got a bit messy) while I was going...	want to start dating. How should I tell my daughter/ when? Should I wait until she's a bit older until I start dating?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20m) want to stop a girl im seeing (19f) from going back to being an escort but i dont know how. POST: Shes not my girlfriend but we have a really really close connection, shes the sweetest gentlest soul ive ever met but had a very dark past (sexual abuse etc). shes been an escort...	Girl ive been seeing and really like wants to go back to sex work, i want to talk her out of it and she seems to want to be talked out of it but i dont know what to say.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M 21] am tired of my feelings for my ex-best friend/unrequited love [F 22] POST: So it's been more than a year since my best friend left my live (we'll call her Juliet) during a period of time where I almost time. To sum it up quickly Juliet was a girl I had a crush on I was 9 who...	I've been developing my life for last year but still miss my best friend who turned into a unrequited love.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unable to emotionally connect with women. POST: First things first, I am a straight male 22 y/o. When I am hanging out with men I find it very easy to form an emotional bond with them. Most men I meet I get along very easily with. When it comes to women however the complete opposit...	I need some advice on how to see beyond women simply in a sexual way. I'd like to form emotional bonds with women.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a bachelor's in chemistry. What certifications or degrees should I go back for? POST: Background: I turned 22 at the end of June, and I graduated 2 months ago with my B.S. in chemistry. I've settled into my new job and am finding that I have a lot of spare time. I used to fill it ...	B.S. in chem wants to find a certification to make some money on the side. Halp me reddit.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My [22M] SO rejected a home made Christmas gift from me [22F], and I'm not sure how to react. POST: I was in the process of knitting my SO a Christmas gift that I didn't finish on time as we were busy during the holidays. He didn't know I was making him something, but I busted ...	My SO of a year rejected a home made gift because he felt that it gave him a sense of obligation towards me and believes that gifts are a way for people to try and get closer to others.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: When dating, when does the conversation get deeper? POST: I've not dated a lot, but I'm not completely inexperienced (m/21). However, I always found myself losing things to talk about at one point. I'm thinking maybe my conversions in dates are always long small talks like what does ...	at what point can a person start talking about moving forward and becoming exclusive, finding out/revealing what they want to happen from now on with they person they're currently dating?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] three years, boyfriend is on medication which have taken away sex drive, and I really fancy my boss [34, M]... POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, had a really good relationship. I've always felt like he wasn't affectionate ...	What should I do, I feel lust towards my boss but still love my boyfriend, but we have no passion anymore?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Girlfriend [21 F] 1 year, she breaks up with me and then travels to California for the month... Tips? POST: So here's my story. I've been dating this girl for a year now, today was actually our "anniversary". She left me at the beginning of the month completely ou...	Girl fucks over guy, upsets him. Any feedback is awesome, this is kind of weird for me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: A tip for improving your credit score, when all the right ways aren't working. POST: Back Story, I had absolutely no idea how credit worked, I wish there was required course in high school, or as a prerequisite to get credit. I was 22 and had a credit score of 490. WOW. I had alway...	Contest all derogatory marks on your credit score at all 3 agencies and they may get removed even if you were at fault.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Maid of Honor needs Advice (23F) POST: A friend of mine, J, asked me 2 years ago to be her maid of honor, she and I had been close friends as children, and when she developed a serious illness I was there for her. I accepted, albeit hesitantly because our relationship is more of a te...	childhood friend turned acquaintance asked me to be maid of honor, accepted, month before wedding nothing is done and she's a bridezilla. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I really don't know what to do. I, without thinking, gave my number to a mentally handicapped girl, and now she won't stop calling me. POST: I promise you this is not a troll. I've known this girl basically my entire life, we went to church together when we were kids and we've known ea...	Gave a family friend who's mentally handicapped and had a huge crush on me for years my number, and she's calling me constantly. Is there any way to deal with this without hurting her?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: How do you "break up" with a vendor you've decided not to use when you're at the contract signing stage? POST: We were looking at a photographer that we'd liked for a while. I'd originally contacted her about a year ago after we first got engaged because her work was alright and he...	How do I tell the first photographer, who thinks we're using her and is expecting the contract and invoice back, that we're going with someone else without it being super awkward?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M], 5-year relationship with [28 F], strong feelings for co-worker [27 F] POST: Throaway account. I'm having a hard time right now. I'm in a great stable relationship with my SO but there's this other girl from work who has hit my weakest spot. My current relationship is gr...	Was happy with my SO, co-worker girl showed up, I got curious and now I'm not in a good place. Seeking to pull out and not hurt anyone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Waiter refuses to give us an extra table POST: A few nights back my wife, father-in-law and I are going out for dinner and some beers. We tried looking for some burger places, but they were either closed or my FIL didn't like the look (he's picky about food). In the end we tried Mexi...	douchebag waiter refuses to accommodate 3 customers, we go up the street and spend more than normal for 3 people and left a fat tip for the waiter.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Owing Money POST: I'm a 23 year old female. My friend invited me to go to Ocean City Maryland with her family for college week. The cost of the trip is $86, and I need to pay her aunt back. Her aunt and I both live in Virginia, roughly about half an hour apart, while my friend and her famil...	I owe my friend's aunt money, and have tried to pay it back several times, but now said friend wants it at a really inconvenient time for me. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23/M] really confused about "relationship" with [30/M] POST: Ok, so let me preface by saying that I [23/M] have only had 1 serious relationship, which lasted nearly 5 years. So, needless to say, Im new to the whole dating thing. About 6 months after I broke up with my ex, I star...	So, is this normal? How long do people usually talk before becoming official? I understand that there's no standard and each relationship is different, but Im still confused. le sigh<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (22m) with (24f) Religion getting in the way of Relationship. Please Help. POST: So there's this girl that started working at the news station I'm employed at. She was hired about 4 months ago, and I could tell immediately that we had a connection, particularly since we were bo...	YEC girlfriend thinks that being with me has made her drift away from God, and now wants to break up with me because I'm not religious enough for her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend's dad has 3 wives. How to explain this to my parents? POST: I knew long ago that my boyfriend has a half-brother that is the same age as him. I asked him why but he said he didn't know and refused to ask his dad. Recently, I found out from his relatives that his dad actu...	my bf's dad has 3 wives. How to tell this to my parents? They are old-fashioned and religious.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25f Australian] German boyfriends [30] friends make no effort to speak English to me. How can I make them engage me in conversation? POST: I have been living in Germany for just over a year and dating an amazing German man for 5 months. Whenever we hang out with his friends (who ...	my Germans not that great, my boyfriends German/English speaking friends just don't seem to want to talk to me. What should I do to make them talk to me? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22M] My wife [21F] always plays the victim and paints me as a bad guy, what do I do? POST: I am starting to feel as though there is nothing that I can do right. She blames me for everything. She is constantly berating me and calling me names on top of it. I never do that to he...	my wife is always the victim and I'm starting to feel like a bad person. I don't know what to do anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Bypassing the recruitment agency and contacting the employer directly... a big no no? POST: A little background, I work in IT, specifically in the banking sector. I was working abroad for 3 years and I came back to the UK late last year and have been looking to go abroad again. I have found t...	Ideal job, I'm a perfect match, recruiter is useless, after 3 months thinking of contacting the employer directly. Thoughts??<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Just left girlfriend of over a year for no apparent reason. Trying to figure out why. Please help POST: My girlfriend and I of over a year had an argument about her not currently trusting me after smelling smoke on me after promising I wouldn't smoke anymore. It got heated and ended up wi...	I left my girlfriend of over a year for no apparent reason. On paper she's perfect for me, but I can't FEEL the love anymore. Help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [21F] in love with a friend [21M] but he's in a relationship. Have you ever ended a current relationship for another? POST: I've known him about 2 and a half years now. The whole time he has been with the same girl. In the beginning I was also with someone, but that ended a...	Friend cheated on his gf with me a while ago, we stopped talking, hooked up again last weekend, feelings are back<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having an entire class see my 6 year old penis. POST: Obviously this didn't happen today, but rather it was about 10 years ago. However it's time I told the world my story, and what better a way to do so then (for the most part) anonymously on the internet. Anyway, so during my routi...	Really needed to pee during recess, ended up peeing unto a bush in front of an entire 5th grade class.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Help me get over ex's kinks. POST: OK. So reddit is probably the worst place in the world to ask this, but it's kind of sensitive so it's not like I can ask my mother for advice. Basically, my last boyfriend was a kinky freak. Like, probably the most perverted guy I ever dated and h...	my ex was a pervert and burdened me with his shameful fetishes; how do I not look at every guy I date like a potential freak?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] sometime hate being around my GF [21 F] of 4 months. POST: We've been dating for about 4 months, she's still a full time student, I'm in Grad school and working full time. When I'm not near her, I constantly wish I was single. I don't like doing social things with her becaus...	GF is becoming a mental burden, but I still really like being with her when it's just us. Should I break it off ASAP or ease my way out of it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit- What is the guiltiest fap you have ever had? [NSFW] POST: In other words, what Fap made you feel the guiltiest/awkwardest after wards? I'll start, one time I was on vacation in California and I hadn't fapped in over 3 1/2 weeks. My mind was filled by all these weird desires. My...	I unknowingly came on the heads of a 20 something year old couple from my hotel balcony. All because I was being stupid while fapping.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (M53) I just discovered the woman (F33) I asked out is considerably younger than I am. Is there a creepy factor here? POST: Reddit seems to be the go to, so I'm hoping you ladies can offer a guy some perspective. I'm a 53 year old guy. I have two kids (who live with me) and am...	I asked a woman out without knowing her actual age. It turns out she's 20 years younger than me. Problematic or socially awkward in any way?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How would one go about finding information on their own last-name being changed? (info inside) POST: When I was around 2-3 my last name was changed (I am 22 now). I remember being in court, but that's about it. I don't remember anything that was said. The only other thing I can remember ...	my last name was changed when I was young, and I haven't been told why. Are there ways to get official information?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25/F] have had a FWB [35/M] for 2 months and today he gave me a USB drive of uncomfortable pictures. POST: I recently started a casual relationship with a guy. We have more of a FWB type of relationship and have been seeing each other for about two months. We ended up having sex a...	FWB gave me a USB drive of pictures of him having gay sex because I told him I liked gay porn. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's the craziest thing you've ever done "for love?" POST: This girl I was really, really food friends with moved from Texas (where we live) to North Carolina. I was infatuated with her, and I thought she was with me too. 6 months after she moved and not stop texting, she asked...	Drove 19 hours with the misinterpretation that apple pie=sexy time, showed up only to find she actually meant apple pie, and they had already eaten it...I left empty handed and blue balled.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32F] with my unavailable crush [39 M] - how do I move past this. POST: I've been single for around a year, several long term relationships before that. I've really struggled to meet anyone that I've really connected with, until recently. A few months ago I was on a work assignmen...	I met my ideal man but he has a girlfriend and I'm like a lovesick teenager who can't get over it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: F(20) Ashamed of Feelings Anytime I Have Them POST: Whenever I begin to develop feelings for other people, I immediately feel ashamed and it keeps me from pursuing a relationship. It takes me months to finally admit my attraction, and when I do it is met with rejection. I have only t...	I have never been in a relationship and I believe it is caused by a fear and shame of my feelings for other people. I am looking for a way to remedy this feeling.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by wearing a vest. POST: Okay so this happened today. So I don't generally wear vests, I don't like them, they make me feel fat and hot. I only ever wear them when its winter and its freezing and I mean FREEZING. I thought today was one of those days... it was not. After walking aroun...	Wore a vest on a warmish/cold day, got hot and bothered, dumped in on the floor of the prayer room and went to pray.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [27/F] tell my ex-lover [30/M] that I've gained a lot of weight since he last saw me? POST: Three years ago, I had a fling with Fabrizio, a guy from Italy. We were VERY into each other while it lasted but he shortly moved to the Middle East after that. We kept in touch wit...	How do I [27/F] tell my ex-lover [30/M] that I've gained a lot of weight since he last saw me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Single parents, how did you end up out of the relationship with the other person? POST: So, I've [27m] been going out with this lady [31f] for a few months now and it is going pretty great. A few weeks ago we found out that she is pregnant. My obvious course of action here is t...	My lady is pregnant and not keeping it. I support her no matter what. If she had kept it, I would still be there. Why doesn't that approach seem to work for anybody else?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M/] with my Girlfriend[26 F] of two months. Her ex-boyfriend of two and a half years is flying in from america to celebrate his birthday with her. Am I overreacting? POST: Would you be okay with this? I don't think I am. We live in europe and she told me he had already booked...	Her Ex-boyfriend is flying in to celebrate his birthday with her. I feel super uncomfortable. Am I overreacting?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I've been fixing & removing viruses off of friends' laptops for free. Recently I've been working solely on computers that my friend's brother keeps "messing up." The most recent laptop had tranny porn on it. Should I mention it to him or his brother? POST: His brother is at least 28 year...	I keep fixing his computers because he's a sloppy user - he downloads shemale porn. Is it impolite to state what the actual cause of this computer's issues are?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How to approach an acquaintance? POST: Throaway, obviously. Well, there's this guy.. I've known him for about 2 months. I met him first when he was introduced to me by a mutual friend. Back then, I was really close to this friend, but we kind of don't really talk anymore, because he ...	developed a crush to a guy whom I didn't notice before and now don't know how to start communicating with more frequently.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by using the bathroom at a friend's house. POST: So I was at a friend's house and we were just sitting around playing games and i feel a shit coming on. I excused myself to the bathroom and started my shit. I thought it would be a normal one but it decides to be the wettest shit ever. I ...	Took a shit the Hulk would be shocked by in my friends toilet the first time I went over. Not allowed over again and paying for plumber.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] boyfriend [19M] of one month lied about his age and I'm feeling very confused. POST: We started dating just over a month ago. Things have been going really well. He's smart, kind, funny, all the things I look for in a partner. He told me when we started dating that he was 20...	boyfriend of one month lied about his age and is actually three years younger. No idea how to navigate a relationship with someone this much younger and if it's ethical.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: my ex [20F] keeps drunk texting me [20M] despite her breaking up with me [lasted 1.25 years] POST: So, my ex broke up with me last week, after a relationship in which we were happy until the last two weeks. She lost her feelings for me, and even after me asking if that happened, she ...	I got broken up with and now the person who broke up with me won't leave me alone. It almost feels like a cruel joke.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [26/M] Haven't had a relationship in 4 years, can't really talk to women; depression issues. POST: So, I know it's sad. A little bit of a backstory before I say I need help: I've dealt with issues of depression (up and down) for 13 years now; and I've never been able to climb ...	Can't seem to be happy about myself, suffer from lots of depression and have relationship issues. How do I fix this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Problems with my [27F] SO's [26M] somewhat estranged family POST: Me and my SO have been together for 2 years, and will be getting engaged soon. We'll be looking to get married within a couple of years. However, we have quite a few problems with his family and what to do about inviti...	SO's partially estranged sister doesn't invite me to anything, we're discussing wedding plans and I don't want her there. He feels like he has to invite her. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [F22] tell my boyfriend [M23] of 1.5 years about my past that has recently resurfaced? POST: About 2.5 years ago I was pretty good friends with this group of people, a mix of guys and girls. I was about 19/20 years old and there was this couple. I knew the girl (who was 26) ...	I slept with a guy 2.5 years ago who had a girlfriend. Now the girl is stirring up drama. Do I tell my boyfriend my past or let it go?<\|endoftext\|>