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SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Need Help! Getting involved in a sketchy company...
POST: This past month I've went through an interview and accepted a job as a "Team Lead" at Cameron Alexander Inc. a marketing/sales outsourcing firm in Wisconsin. I am pretty fresh out of college and in a major that isn't business related. ... | Going to be starting work for a company that seemingly doesn't exist and I'm worried about getting screwed or scammed. Need some advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21 F] boyfriend [21 M] of 6 months wants to sell me a computer part at full price?
POST: Not really sure how to feel about this one here. First of all, my boyfriend is pretty great overall in terms of how much I enjoy spending time with him and how much we have in common. It's be... | Boyfriend of 6 months wants to charge me full price for a computer part he was selling anyway, and I don't know how to feel about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Reddit, my boyfriend [25] is moving across the country for six months on Sunday. What can I [19f] do to pass the time and how can I deal with my emotions?
POST: My boyfriend if moving about 1500 miles away from me for six months and I am heartbroken over this. I am currently a full-t... | My boyfriend is excited about his move while I am not handling it well. How do I accept it and what can I do to pass the time?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17M] am stuck on a girl [16F] who's dating another guy
POST: I've known this girl for a while, and gradually developed feelings for her. A little over a year ago I decided I really wanted to date her. However, I waited way too long. I thought it would make sense to wait until I co... | I've been into her for a long time, she started dating someone else just before I was going to ask her out, should I tell her how I feel?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: Dad has enough money to pay but wont; I'm choosing between Vanderbilt and UT Austin (in state).
POST: Hi! Like the title says, I'm stuck between Vanderbilt and UT Austin. I KNOW that financially UT is the practical choice, but I really really really really really despise it there.
I know ... | I was wondering how you guys were able to pay for college? How much money can/should I get in loans before the debt is not worth the education/experience? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [15 M] with my crush [15 F] since the first year of secondary school, not sure how to approach her.
POST: So I have liked the same girl since the first year of the UK's secondary school (I am now starting my 5th year Y11). I have never really been able to properly befriend her sin... | Had a crush on the same girl for 4 years, never really had the courage to approach her, and want not sure how to ask her out now.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [m,22] want to have dates, but not want to leave my gf [21]
POST: Hi. /r/relationships. Throwaway for obvious reasons:
[M]e, 22 and my g[f], 21 live in a happy LDR for ~3 years. I love her and never want to lose her. But I want to date other girls. Not because I want to finish my ... | I want to date other girls, but don't want to hurt or end my ~3 year LDR. LDR related feeling or "common problem"?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs
TITLE: Need some unbiased advice.
POST: I am a 22 year old college grad from a medium sized state school with a degree in biosystems. I currently hold a lab tech job making $17.78 an hour for a contractor, with no room to grow. It is an hour away from my residence but, I vanpool there so I do not ha... | 1)job as lab tech, pays low, miserable, far away, but I vanpool. 2) family company, high pay, but have to drive and deal with family more often.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my GF [20 F] of 7 months, I don't want her along on a music festival
POST: 3 days long music festival in mid July, mostly hipsterish/indie music to put it simply. It's the type of music she doesn't like/enjoy, to be honest the stuff that she likes is total garbage in m... | My girlfriend insists on coming along with me to a 3-day music festival and I don't want her to because I think she'd be a party pooper.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by almost setting the whole dormitory on fire
POST: So there was me, living in a 2 - man dorm room, coming home from a party being extremely drunk at ~4am. So I was hungry, went to the fridge, saw some eggs and thought to myself "damn, I want scrambled eggs". So I grabbed a pan, oil, pu... | Got home drunk, made scrambled eggs, put dishwashing liquid in hot pan which got fried, got scared, poured cold water, created fireball, result is minor burns and less money.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] am dating someone [19F] who doesn't believe in love
POST: Well, first I should tell you a little bit about her. I know her since we're very young (10 yo), but she was just a friend I didn't have much relation with. After years of not being in touch with her, we met at college... | i'm dating someone who doesn't believe in love. I've been having an informal relationship with her for almost 2 years but now we are officially because she has overcome her ex.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Top Priority: Emergency Savings or Starting to Invest
POST: Hi guys, I was hoping you might provide some feedback on a couple of specific questions I have. I am turning 30 in a couple of months and my wife and I are just getting ourselves sorted financially. We have lived in our ... | Have no emergency fund and some debt. Also have $20,000 in investments. Should I use the investments as EF and pay them back instead?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Boyfriend acts weird with his phone
POST: I've been dating my bf for over 4 months. I believe we both should respect each other's privacy so I don't go around looking for his phone trying to snoop or anything. But I also don't care if he goes through my phone.
The thing is, h... | Bf of 4 months acts suspicious with his phone when i'm around like he is hiding something. When confronted says it's my imagination, but when i told him i was going to look through his phone freaked out.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need advice: [23 F] looking for real connection but usually ending up with casual sex
POST: So I'm needing a little advice here, both male and female perspectives are appreciated.
After going through a while of one night stands and some short-lived relationships, I've been looking ... | Want to meet and get to know a guy for a genuine connection, but tend to end up with one night stands. Need advice to change that.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 M] have recently met with a girl [15 F] and we are both really interested in each other. Problem is, she is really young. What do I do?
POST: First off, I know that this breaks that divide your age by 2 and add 7 rule. I was honestly just wondering how weird this is and what I ... | Is a 19 year old male with a 15 year old female weird? It feels uncomfortablet solely because I feel judged but she came to me first and we talk like everyday and I haven't connected with anyone like this etver basically.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[21 M] still get shivers when reminded of ex [19 F] one year after she moved on, help please
POST: We were a horrible on/off couple for five years. I slept with others during our "breaks" while she posted nudes on online forums for attention when we weren't talking. I ended the rela... | Had a bad on/off relationship for five years, she moved on a year ago, I'm still getting panic attacks when seeing her name and being reminded of things she liked. Please help!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (F) I work sales. I have the hots for a client
POST: I, (24) work sales for a recycling company. I've been at this job for about 6~ months. I'm successful in this industry- I would attribute this to my gender and slightly above average looks. 99% of the time I deal with older m... | Reddit, My better judgement tells me not to mix business with pleasure, but, part of me tells me..this could be something good. What say you?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (24M) wants to smoke weed. It is a deal breaker for me (23F).
POST: I'll start by saying that this is not a debate about what is morally wrong or right. I am pro-legalization of marijuana, do not believe people deserve punitive sentences for possessing or using.
So as t... | Boyfriend wants to smoke weed. It's a deal breaker for me because I value health. Stay together or break up?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What do I do about my job?
POST: Throwaway account here. I work for a fairly major corporation in the animal care industry. I am, in my own and a few other coworkers opinions, a strong, smart and quick worker. (not trying to toot my own horn, it makes a difference.)
We all knew there w... | Hours at work cut from 33.5 to 13, not sure when they will be back up. Look for new job, or stick it out for a bit to see if there is improvement?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I think I'm being discriminated against and wrongfully terminated. Help?
POST: So, about two weeks after getting hired by a large grocery chain I was injured while moving boxes in the back of the store. When I called in about the injury, the manager told me not to file a claim... | After being injured at work, I'm being brought on to work hours that go against my religious beliefs. I'm to be fired if I don't work them anyway. Help?****<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am a 21 year old (M) in a brand new relationship with a 20 year old (F). Today I'm pretty sure I stumbled on her hiding something. What do I do?
POST: This girl and I have been dating for about a month and things have been going pretty well. I'm really into her and she seems to be ... | Dating new girl for a month, see her text her best friend about her recently ending it wit her ex, don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17M] talking to [16F], Where texting about her problem today "It doesn't matter goodnight" is she mad or does she not care to explain more into?
POST: *Some background information*
Okay so i have know this girl for three years recently I have grown an
attraction for her. She ha... | Texting girl that I liked talk about her problem today and ask a question she says "it doesn't matter Goodnight". Need help to find out what that means.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: (NAW) I hate my nephew so much I'm so thankful I'm childfree!!
POST: So my fucking 5 year old nephew Cannon (who's fucking stupid enough to name their son Cannon?) He is the most annoying kid on this stupid planet, every five minutes it's "mama k mama k" (his nickname for my mom) "mama ... | Have an absolutely annoying 5 year old nephew, I hate my sister and I especially hate my brother in law for having this abomination so far this has been the worst Christmas I've ever had.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: More likely to rekindle sparks with an ex if you became friends, or had no contact?
POST: The relationship (~1 year long) ended on good terms, but my ex (28M) had lost the spark and felt it unfair to me (25F) to keep seeing me. We still care a lot for each other and have lots of comm... | Are you more likely to re-develop feelings for an ex if you have contact with her, some, or none?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20m] have a beautiful gf [19f] with awful self-esteem. Any suggestions on helping her?
POST: Hi all,
I have a beautiful girlfriend of 3 years. I'm talking absolutely stunning and people fall in love with her all the time to the point where I constantly have to fight off guys. No... | GF lost a lot of weight but still holds some real rough self esteem issues. How do I show her how beautiful she is?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: How can I talk to women in groups?
POST: So I'm a guy (24yo) who's recovering from mild social anxiety. I'm trying to get out of my shell and meet new people, and just talk to more strangers in general. It's kind of an awkward process, but whatever.
My biggest hangup so far has bee... | recover from social anxiety, sort of getting the hang of talking to strangers, but not sure how to approach girls that are with a group of friends.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to bring up shopping for engagement rings *together*?
POST: My boyfriend (37) and I (27) are talking about 2013 being the year we get engaged. We've been together for 1.5 years.
I like to believe that he has good taste (which he does for the most part) but the rings I've seen him... | boyfriend looking at not-so-attractive engagement rings; how do I make the suggestion that we look together, yet letting him still have the element of surprise?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend's (21) mother told her that she had to break up with me (20) yesterday.
POST: I've known my girlfriend for a month now and we've been dating for 9 days. Yesterday she got a text from her mom demanding she come home. Apparently her mother had issue with us staying at sch... | I never met her mom and now she never wants to meet me and is trying to force her daughter to break up with me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [31 F] with my mother [54 F], unhappy at the thought of her moving closer.
POST: My mother has basically been a gigantic mess for the past three years. Now she's thinking of moving closer, and the thought is not a pleasant one. She's currently several provinces away.
My parents ... | Mother is fairly needy and is thinking of moving closer, but is also having medical issues. Not sure how to maintain balance and distance while also being supportive.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] just found out that my mom has cancer; when I told my boyfriend [24M] he didn't drop everything to be with me
POST: I've been with my boyfriend over two years, both aged 24, but we took a break last summer as he freaked out when I moved to his city to go to school. Got back t... | Mom has cancer, I told my boyfriend on the phone while he was hanging out with friends. He did not drop everything to be there for me. What does that mean?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (19F) Girlfriend of ~6 months got very drunk and made out with another guy at a spring break party. She called me (19M) right afterwards and apologized profusely before I hung up. I think I love her and don't know how to proceed.
POST: So she was on a spring break vacation down so... | Girlfriend made out with another guy, I don't know how to proceed. I want to forgive her and move on, and figure out how to avoid this ever happening again.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is Taco bell and Dunkin Donuts considered conflict of interest?
POST: Here's the story: I am employed at Dunkin' Donuts. It is a minimum wage job and I am in high school but I'm graduating this year so I wanted to start a second job to help me pay for college this fall. I casually men... | I work at Dunkin Donuts and Taco Bell. Can I be fired for this on the grounds of conflict of interest?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being a proactive student and trying to be financially responsible.
POST: I recently moved out of my parents home into a duplex. I am attending a college and moving into my second year, I had already submitted my FAFSA and accepted the appropriate amount of financial aid required for ... | Make sure you don't care about your financial aid information being correct or you will be out of classes. Seriously...stupid.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] am being more drawn to summer fling than actual BF [21]
POST: This past summer, I had a summer fling with a guy [21] that I worked with. We both just let it end since we went to different schools and weren't interested in long distance.
In September, I started dating one of ... | Is there some way to fix the complacency and lose the attraction towards talking to my ex-fling over my current BF?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it possible for my bf [28m] to love me [28f] but still feel sad about his ex?
POST: They were together for 7 years, I get it, that's a long time to have someone in your life.
We got together shortly after they ended things and have been together for coming to 2 years now.
He adm... | He admitted to sometimes mourning the loss of his relationship with his ex of 7 years. We've been together almost 2 years, kind of feel down that apparently I don't make him happy enough to just forget..<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M 22] caught my girlfriend [F20] in what appears to be a lie.
POST: We have been friends for 7 years and romantic for 3 amd living together for 1.5 years. This morning we went on a coffee date and bumped into a friend who used to live in the same building as us (we moved out about... | she said she was home alone, friend said he saw other mutual friend hit the elevator button to our floor and say he was heading to our place to study. Am I crazy?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: If a girl postpones a date, am I supposed to make the future plans?
POST: I'm a 24m that asked out a 23f after talking to her on OKCupid, IMing, and calling her for 2.5 weeks. She has a weird night schedule as a nurse where she works long hours for 5 days straight one week, then gets... | Girl wants to postpones date last minute. Do I ask her out again or wait for her to come to me?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22F] with my BF [23 M] of 2 weeks, discovered my gonewild posts.
POST: Going to mark this NSFW just in case anyone gets triggered or something by the story.
My boyfriend of two weeks is a charming, funny guy that I met at work. We had been acquaintances at work for a short time... | BF of two weeks is very upset I didn't tell him I post to gonewild. Should I have told him even though our relationship is rather young?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with [20 F] that ive been dating for> 2 months/talking to for 6 says she is still dealing with an Ex-boyfriend
POST: Me and this girl went to high school together and 3 years out we re-met at a party. We hit it off pretty well and began talking. She then went away on school... | Says she tends to push people away and asks me to not let it get to that. Also says that she wants her personal therapy time.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I've been seeing a girl [18f] for about a month. She asked me [24m] to have one of my shirts to remind her of me when she is home for thanksgiving. What should I make of this?
POST: We've been seeing one another for a bit over a month. I'm in med school (25m) and she is a freshman in... | Title basically. Girl I've been seeing for a month asked me to have one of my shirts to remind her of me when she goes home. What should I make of this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27/f] with my fiancé [28 M] 3 years, addicted to video games, pregnant with second child and thinking about aborting it bc I'm essentially a single parent.
POST: the title says it all. He only truly cares about gaming and is always yelling at me when I ask for help with the baby.... | Fiancé has crippling wow addiction and is no help to our one year old son. Now I'm pregnant again and am thinking about aborting it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: French bank charging me a fee they said they wouldn't. I'm now across the world and just want my account closed. Do I actually need to pay it? (CA)
POST: Hi personal finance! This is gonna be a bit long, but I've found myself in a situation and I'm not sure what's best to do.
Last... | I have a bank account in France. They promised to wire me my money for free when I closed it, but they ended up charging me (my account balance is now negative). Do I really actually need to pay it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Landlord sold house. Giving us 30 days to move and 2k for family of 3 to move. Los Angeles, CA
POST: I have been renting from him for over 3 years.
He was like a family friend to us and I never thought he would try to kick us out that quickly.
I have known for about 4 months that he h... | Rented for 3 years. Verbal agreement was yearly. Technically my lease ends may 30, not the 2nd. Only getting $2000 total between 3 people who dont plan to move out together. 30 days to move.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend[29f] and I[29m] split up, now her sister[25f] wants to date me.
POST: I posted earlier on askmen but I didn't really include a lot of important information.
Exgirlfriend and I were dating for 3 years. Our relationship was headed towards marriage, however towards the end ... | girlfriend and I broke up. Me and her sister now are seeing each other it's overall a great relationship. We have a lot in common and I want us to last<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my crush [18 F] who is causing me a lot of pain.
POST: So this girl and I have been really good friends for a few months now, and things were going super well. We went to a movie together and then had a dinner date as well both went extremely well.
So I have asked to ... | My best friend/crush cancels on me over and over again and I'm not happy anymore ever. What can I say to her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30 M] with my Wife[31 F] 2 years, Married, unhappy, wife wants a baby, I can't tell her I want out...
POST: X-Post /r/confession
Throwaway, cuz this would not be good if she saw.
My wife and I have been married for 2 years now, this is our second marriage for each of us, and we ... | My heart is not in my marriage anymore due to fighting and arguing over kids, and money. Fighting has gotten physical. I want out, but am scared of the confrontation and the loss that comes with it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being invited back to a girls place in a club and then instantly losing her
POST: So, as usual, this wasn't today, it was yesterday. It also wasn't actually me but my flatmate.
Basically, we are freshers at a UK university and we went to an event with all of the other freshers. They ... | friend found a girl that was dtf but the alcohol decided the response could wait until the end of this jam. Chance to fuck was missed<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I don't understand people
POST: People make no sense. Racism, religious wars, any form of hatred toward another human being makes almost no sense to me. Had the person done something to physically or emotionally harm you, sure, go for it, hate them. Don't be a dumb fucking racist. Don't... | If you can't think using logic, please leave the planet. The world doesn't need hatred based in ignorance. Hate that which deserves hate, not something so trivial as someone else's happiness/success/skin/opinion.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [19M] with my girlfriend [19F] of 2 months, possible pregnancy from hook-up before we started dating
POST: So I'm not sure how to approach my current situation.
My girlfriend and I started seeing each other in January and entered a relationship mid-February. So far everything has be... | GF thought she could be pregnant from hook up with ex from before she and I started seeing each other, test came back negative, but now I'm worried it could've been a false negative.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Having a problem with a home improvement contractor. Need some possible legal advice.
POST: Last month I contracted a local, state-licensed home improvement contractor to build a small room in my backyard. They took measurements, made a design and site plan, and applied for a building p... | Hired home improvement contractor submitted a building plan that was rejected by the city, has now kept over $1500 for what he says are his expenses. I'm mad as hell.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24M] girlfriend[25M] of 8 months is struggling with depression and I don't think I can deal with it.
POST: When my previous relationship ended a big part of a messy and prolonged break-up had to do with my ex struggling with depression. Now that my current girlfriend is strugglin... | I want to try to be a good boyfriend and help her through this, but at the same time I can't see how I can. What can I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Probably dumb to ask but I'm [21m] a college senior dating a freshman [18f]. What to do about relationship after I graduate?
POST: We just started dating a two months ago and I just started thinking about how I'm graduating this semester. Basically, it's probably too early to think a... | senior in a relationship with freshman, not sure what to do with it after graduation this semester because I don't want to be the reason for her missing out on her college experience.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 30F with my BF (40M) of 8 months, living together for 4 months continues to support (economically) and contacting his GF of 11 years and no plans of when this will end.
POST: Hello redditors! This is a throwback account because my so knows my account.
Ok here is the drama :)
I m... | my Bf of 8 months who I live with continues to support his GF of 11 years economically living in his house (11 hours from where we live) and has no plans of moving out.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/m] stuck on two different girls, girl A [18/f] and girl B [17/f]
POST: I honestly don't know where to turn or what to do anymore, I have liked girl A for over 3 years now and we have been such amazing friends, and thats all I thought it would ever be. So about a year and a ... | I am in love with both girls, I don't want to hurt either one of them anymore and I need advice on what to do and how to do it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Girlfriend is mad at me for a reason I don't think is right...what's your opinion?
POST: Our mutual friends were meeting at a bar and invited the both of us to come. As we were waiting, she decided to take a nap as I continued working on homework. They ended up calling me about 20 minute... | Girlfriend got mad at me when I went to bar without her because she wouldn't wake up from her nap when I tried to wake her and she told me to "just go".<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my GF [24 F] of 11 months, I worry about her chronically and I want to stop! Feel like it's only a matter of time before worrying ruins it.
POST: Dating for 11 months, with the last 3 months being long distance. We met abroad then had to go seperate ways for work.
Any... | Nothing wrong with the girl. Just me worrying to the point of being unable to get out of 'it'. Need help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Over zealous police officer lied to my co-worker. Should she report this to his supervisor or let sleeping dogs lie?
POST: My co-worker told me she was pulled over this morning for loud music. I asked if she got a ticket but she only received a warning. The warning was from a state troop... | Cop possibly lied to my co-worker about a local ordinance and even threatened arrest for a noise violation. Should we press the matter further or leave it alone?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22/F] can't get over infidelity by ex-husband [28/F] even when I'm seeing new people (x-post /r/survivinginfidelity)
POST: My ex-husband and I were together for four years, married one. He has been my only serious relationship. We had both agreed that we wanted kids together, but ... | Was cheated on by husband over a year ago, can't get over feeling like new guy I'm dating will do the same<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My wife [41/F] of 12 years suddenly tells me[42/m] she feels emotionally distant from me due to our arguments and has moved with her parents. We have 2 children together[8/m 10/m], and 1 each from a previous relationship[17/f 18/f].
POST: So a week ago my wife tells me she does... | Wife feels emotionally distant due to the way I am in arguments, moved to parent, looking any advice I can to save marriage. Thanks<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [27M] girlfriend [25F] won't move in with me because I live next to my ex
POST: I've been with my girl for a year and a half and we wanted to move in together soon. The plan was always for her to move in wth me at my house because I own it and she only rents and its a really nice ... | I live next door to my ex and my girlfriend said she won't ever move in with me as long as I live next to her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting
TITLE: I super duper hate parenting... please help or tell me how to make it better
POST: ok so here is my basic background, i am almost 30, married and we enjoy the worlds best and sweetest toddler ive ever known to exist.
problem?
i H A T E parenting. I didnt even at first realize this, it... | dont know how to enjoy parenting, i feel im only "me" when i have a chance to be me. tired of "surviving" and want to thrive, please help <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: Someone took my phone. How do I get it back?
POST: Last weekend I put my phone in my pocket when leaving a nightclub. Said phone must have fallen out just before I left. My Mum then received a text from my phone just a day or two later tell her to call some number so they can return the phone... | Lost phone. Person found it, said they'd give it back. Decided to keep it. Is there anyway to get the phone back with tracking or through recent usage.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [20 M] of 10 months who cheated (?) before is going away for a couple of days and I think i'm over-analyzing.
POST: My boyfriend and I started to casually see each other during the summer last year. We weren't "serious" but the feelings were there.
He tried... | Boyfriend going away for a couple of days, can't stop stressing over whether or not he will cheat(?) again and don't know what to really do/how to feel.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Just got a new job!
POST: I just recently accepted a new job in the IT field I have been trying to get into ever since I finished school. I am really excited and cannot wait to start in two weeks. I have already started to fill out the necessary paper work that needs to be done for the job.... | My girlfriends ex works at the company I got a job at. Tried to coerce and almost threatened me to not accept the job. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: Planning to travel the world for a year and want to take my two cats. Thoughts and suggestions welcome! Any advice?
POST: So here's the deal: I'm dying to travel the world. I've got the itch again and I've gotta get out of here except this time I have two wonderfully friendly and amazing ca... | want to take my cats traveling with me, need advice on the short trips like backpacking and staying at hostels. Thanks!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: My [20/M] girlfriend [20/F] randomly stops talking to me for an hour or more at a time on a frequent basis.
POST: Background: We have been dating for four years, we are now college sophomores. She and I go to different colleges that are about 5 hours apart. I worry about her a ... | My girlfriend goes off the grid without telling me, I tell her to just tell me what she's doing beforehand, she never does.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (21m)... I have a girlfriend (22f) and she doesn't seem to ever want to spend time with my family or get to know them.
POST: We have been dating for 2 1/2 years... She has come on little camping trips with us but it seems like I gotta talk her into it... She is shy... And now I as... | what should I say?... I just feel like she doesn't really understand. Should I be upset or am I being a selfish asshole?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: sooo, my friend might think I have a thing for her boyfriend... How can I prove I don't?
POST: Basically, we went out all together, and I generally talked to him a bit cause I thought he was getting left out, and I was the only one apart from her that knew him well enough. And yeah, my f... | how can I make it clear to my friend I don't like her boyfriend in that way, without making it obvious that I think she's suspicious?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/f] My boyfriend [18/m] is struggling a tad. What's something nice but un-intrusive that I can do for him?
POST: Hey everyone (including you, Sugar, if you're reading this- spoilers....).
So my boyfriend is having a rough day today. His mother, sister (who needs so much he... | My boyfriend is struggling a little right now, with emotions and his work schedule. Being long-distance and non-Skype-capable, what is something nice I can do for him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Injured, losing my mind.
POST: Hi runners,
I know you guys aint therapists but maybe one of you has walked (haha! pun?) this path before me and can shed some light.
Long story short: I got injured, still not 100% sure what it is (Dr says the muscle has detached from the bone in my calf/... | My life is built around the assumption that I can run to deal with stress. Injured and can't run, totally losing it. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Redditors, What is the most Inopportune moment that you have laughed out loud at something on reddit?
POST: For me it would've been while I was reading the post a while back about guys getting awkward/random boners. I had been browsing the thread on my laptop in my parent's kitchen with ... | read hilarious random boner comment with father in room. Caused him to come over and read the comment and laugh with me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21f) don't know if I made the right decision breaking up with my bf (24m)
POST: I ended it 24 hours ago and I'm not sure if I made the right decision.
We have been in a long distance relationship for over a year now and I am tired of it. We managed to see each other often, but ... | LD boyfriend was not willing to put any effort into the realtionship and self medicated with drugs. I ended it, but am now second-guessing that decision. Help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: So my girlfriend(26f) of 6 years just left me(25m) and it feels like my whole world is over.
POST: It seems like it all started when she went on a work trip out of state for a week, then when she got back she seemed really distant. I started to suspect that she had cheated but thats... | she says we've grown apart and we're not compatible. I feel like we're giving up to easily. Idk what to do<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/m] and [18/f] Thought relationship might be over, had sex with another girl but not wanting to end it
POST: So i've been seeing this girl for about 5-6 weeks, I knew her in High School but we never really dated or anything. A couple of days ago we had an argument, and all o... | Fought with girl im seeing, slept with another while intoxicated with the mindset we were over, and now wanting to see if we can still have a relationship<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I feel like I can only love one person at a time, is there something wrong with me?
POST: I (18F) feel so very unattached to everyone but one person at a time.
I have a boyfriend currently, and love him very much, but I feel like he is the only person I would care about leaving if I... | Is it wrong to only feel attached to one person at a time? I feel as if I can only love one person.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I [21/f] feel like I have to give up my dream to be with my boyfriend [21/m] long-term - am I crazy?
POST: We've only been dating for a little under a year, but I definitely think we could be in it for the long haul. We talk about a future together regularly, and have even talk... | There is a strong possibility my career goal will not work out if I stay with my boyfriend. Is it worth giving up my dream to stay with him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19 F] think my SO [21 M] of 1 year might have masturbated to his ex-girlfriend's Facebook photo
POST: So this might be me wildly overthinking this, feel free to knock some sense into me as necessary but here goes nothing
Yesterday morning I woke up my SO at his apartment, we fool... | I think my SO might have masturbated to his ex's Facebook, am I wildly overthinking the circumstantial evidence? Or is it justified? What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [F 22] and my boyfriend [M 21] cannot go one day without arguing. I feel so alone and so broken.
POST: Guys I really need help... I don't know what to do anymore I love my boyfriend of basically over a year so much but everything I do everything I say just everything about me is w... | Boyfriend and I argue constantly and I feel like I'm never going to be enough for him. I don't know what to do anymore.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning
TITLE: What to do? This might not be a good time to get married.
POST: I'm engaged to my SO of 6 years and I have already picked a date about a year and a half away and started looking at venues and dresses and things. My parents have been fighting more than usual lately, and my mother is... | I still want to get married, but maybe this isn't the best time. Has anyone else eloped and then either renewed their vows or had a fancy ceremony later?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I (20f) am helping my boyfriend (22m) grieve the loss of his mother.
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. His mother had been battling liver disease for a long time and passed away almost 2 weeks ago. I understand that he is going to go through many stages ... | my boyfriends mom died almost 2 weeks ago, and I don't know how to help him out of his grief.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] was seeing this girl [20 F] for the last month, everything was going great and now it seems she's ignoring me. Anybody have similar stories to share?
POST: This girl and I met through mutual friends and there was instant attraction. We started going on dates, hanging out, be... | Girl and I hit it off, strong connection and attraction, everything seemed great. Now I'm being ignored. Why? What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by Telling the Truth
POST: There's this girl.
She's tall, thin, with long brown hair and big brown eyes. She's funny, she's smart, she is gorgeous, and she is playful, and she is everything I look for in a girl.
Already, there are 2 things going against us being together.
1-She is... | I told my crush I liked her and instead of just being normal about it all, she humiliated and embarrassed me in a locker room full of teenage girls.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Help me (21 F) to not kill my roommate's (21 F) boyfriend (25)
POST: I've been living with my roommate, I'll call her Ally, for 1.5 years, and we have another roommate (F 20) I'll call Kat, and now it seems basically a 4th roommate, Ally's obnoxious boyfriend (M 25).
Ally has been w... | roommate's boyfriend is obnoxious to me and horrible to my roommate. How can I make her see it or at least learn to deal with him when he is around?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is your Craziest "what are the odds" story?
POST: Tell me your story in which the chances of it happening were extremely unlikely. Was it a series of decisions that lead to an improbable outcome? Was it meeting someone you hadn't seen for years? Was it an abnormal decision that save... | Series of unfortunate decisions leads to a car accident and physical injury, but a series of fortunate decisions saves my life. So many variables playing together that result in an odd experience. So reddit, what is your story?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not thinking things through
POST: First post! This happened about 3 years ago. I was hanging out at the school near our townhouse with my stepsister, her friend, and my little brother. I had my bike and was riding around the playground and field that were there. I notice a soccer ball... | Rode bike into a soccer ball, flipped and hurt back, bike got taken away and had to walk home in pain<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: LDR gf [27F] is sad, doesn't want to talk right now, but says it's not about me [31M] when I ask. Giving her space, but is it possible it *is* about me?
POST: I mostly just want her to feel better, and I'd like to help no matter how I can. It's tough because I can't be supportive fro... | gf sad, doesn't want to talk, says it's not about me, could it be about me anyway?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: The guy I [22f] have been seeing for two months simply assumed we're boyfriend and girlfriend. I have been using this to justify my cheating by telling myself that I never consented to a relationship. How do I fix this situation?
POST: First let me give some important background info... | Not sure if I'm cheating or not because we never established exclusivity. However, it is clear from his actions and words that he's assumed we're exclusive.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Not sure how to deal with my (21F) boyfriend's (22M) behavior when he is busy. (2 years)
POST: I know this pales in comparison to many other relationship problems. It's been eating away at me, though. He doesn't talk to me when he's busy.
A simple heads up or text that said he would... | My boyfriend reads but does not respond to my messages when he is busy, and he could be busy for days on time. How do I talk to him about this without sounding clingy or overbearing?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [16/M] parents took $300 out of my back account without asking to presumably pay the bills, I feel really conflicted.
POST: I want to start by saying my family isn't rich, I wouldn't say we were poor but we're low middle class, sometimes we struggle to pay the bills and just last ... | My parents took money from my account without telling me to presumably pay some bills, I feel really conflicted and horrible due to being mad.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How can I [22F] stop being insecure about my boyfriend's [22M] relationship with his ex?
POST: My boyfriend Sam and I have only been together for about six months. Prior to me he was in a three year relationship with his now ex-girlfriend, Emma.
The major issue that is coming ... | I am insecure over my boyfriend's relationship with his ex and it is made worse because I know she wants to get back together with him. It is starting to push me away from him because I am scared of getting hurt.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I feel like I'm in the wrong major.
POST: I'm currently undecided, but heavily leaning towards earth sciences. I haven't officially declared it, but I'm pretty sure that's what I'm going to do.
I feel like this isn't the right major. My real passion is music. Given the choice, I'd happ... | I want to be a music ed major, but I'm worried about money and having a successful career after I graduate, as well as getting through my undergrad. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: 25 (M) not sure how to proceed with 24 (FM)
POST: Here's the story:
I (25) met this girl (24) this past weekend while out on the town and we immediately hit it off. We talk and find out that we have a lot of common interests and I figured I'd ask her out on a date (not something I n... | I met a girl and made out with her the same night, first date ended with awkward kiss. How do I proceed on second date?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My best friend(m20) and his (ex)girlfriend (19) are tearing up our friendgroup
POST: I'm really frustrated here, and I hope you guys can help me.
Before reading this text i'll explain how it is:
Currently I'm in a friendgroup of ~10 people. 4 guys 6 girls and there's two couples wit... | Two people very close to me and my girlfriend are tearing up our friendgroup by setting people against eachother. Reddit, what is your advice?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking
TITLE: Help preparing more healthy foods.
POST: By foods, I mainly mean snacks. I'm a first teacher and have very little time for cooking (which really sucks, because it's one of my favorite things to do). I found that I snack a lot during the day since I don't have time to eat a proper lunch- I ... | Quick, easy, and healthy snack recipes that I can prepare on the weekends and eat during the week at school. Also, quick, easy, and healthy dinner recipes.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Went to cuddle my dog, ended up setting off mom's vibrator
POST: So this happened approximately 7 minutes ago. Apologies if formatting blows, i'm posting on my phone because bed.
My parents are going away for a month long vacation tomorrow morning. So, living on a farm, a family meeti... | family meeting, snuggling with dog out of boredom, mom tries to hide vibrator, earthquake ensues, embarrassment, meeting finally over<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: 3 Weeks in China. What am I missing?
POST: I'm spending about three weeks in China, hosteling my way from Beijing to Shanghai by train, hitting a bunch of cities along the way. Here's my itinerary:
Tianjin (2 full days): Wudadiao, Old Town, antique market, Ancient Culture St., Tianhou Temp... | I'm visiting Tianjin, Kaifeng, Luoyang, Xi'an, Nanjing, Suzhou, Hangzhou, and Shanghai. What should I see, and where should I eat?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm tied up in depressing relationships with my family. Reddit, how do you change how you interact with people you love without causing too much damage?
POST: I realized some years ago that I was too wrapped up in my family's lives and not living my own. Ever since I could remember, I'... | I'm a doormat to my family, no matter what I do to change it. How do i fix it without cutting them out of my life?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [16F] have two boys [both 16M] fighting over me, and more are getting involved. What do I do?!
POST: A few weeks ago, I met a guy, A, in my study hall and we hit it off really well. We hung out and flirted all the time, but after awhile, it seemed like he was getting distant, so I ... | I liked guy A, who shut me down. I'm now dating guy B, who is guy A's friend, and they are both trying to prove themselves worthy. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl trouble, advice would be great!
POST: So i'll try and keep this as short as i can, First i'll give you an idea of my situation.
I'm 17 years old and am currently studying at college, in September i'm going to university which is far away from where i live.
I study on a cours... | I think im in love with a girl, Shes moving away soon, How can i let her know i at least care!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by asking a girl when her wedding was
POST: This girl and I used to be pretty solid friends. Naturally we drifted apart a little bit once she got engaged (I'm a dude).
Well, today I was thinking about how many weddings I had gone to this summer and I started wondering why I hadn't got ... | asked an old friend when she was getting married. Turns out she told everyone that her engagement was called off months ago and I didn't notice.<|endoftext|> |
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