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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] Think I Should Be Able To Go Reasonable Places Without Answering To The Will Of My Parents [38F/40M], Am I Asking For Too Much? POST: The current situation: I was planning with my girlfriend and some friends to go to a hockey game in the city this evening. I don't drive, but...
Parents don't let me go places on my own power because they don't want to "deal with" worrying about me. Well when will they just have to "deal with it" and let me be an actual adult?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is there a way to effectively deal with intense tooth pain caused by wisdom teeth? POST: Okay, basically my wisdom teeth on the right side of my mouth have changed path since the last time I visited a dentist (6ish months ago, and were expected to have room to grow) and they are now cur...
Impacted wisdom teeth, assloads of pain, hard to eat/drink, nothing but Norco helps (and barely), need a new way to deal with intense pain.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having sex with my friends ex girlfriend POST: Okay so I was never much of a good story teller but I have to get this off my chest. my friend and his ex girlfriend were dating for about two years, around a week ago he decided to break up with her. he said that he didn't feel the same...
I lost my virginty to my best friends ex girlfriend a week after they broke up and can't say a word about it<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Girlfriend [17F] didn't get me[17M] (Been dating for 5 months) A damn thing for my birthday and I was kinda surprised. Should I say anything to her about me being upset about it? POST: Everythings been going great in our relationship and she is great. Been dating for 5 months and ...
Girlfriend of 5 months didn't get me a damn thing for my birthday. Should tell her that it kinda upset me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Halp! I need to end this before it gets out of hand without being an ass! POST: I recently started seeing this guy (side note: he's 20 and i'm 25, I usually don't date younger guys) and the first date was awkward, of course, and I didn't really feel much of a "spark," as it were. I d...
I tried dating this guy, but he is unattractive, boring, a bad kisser, and we have nothing in common. He has grown attached and I don't know how to end it without being mean.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, i have a female dilemma. should i sleep with them? POST: **Background:** I just got out of a 2.5yr r/ship abt 1-2mths ago and still trying to get over her. **The girls** Girl#1 = Met her at a pub and got to know her. communication via internet. she's not really good looking but...
2 girls who look worse than road-kill but one has nice boobs and the other has a decent body. should i do the nasty or save my eyes from the evil curse?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my girlfriend [21F] of 5 years, I think she's distancing herself from me, impending break up? POST: Over the past couple weeks, I've noticed she's becoming more distant. Every time I try to set up a date or just hang out, something comes up, and she is too busy. Most no...
Girlfriend upset with my grades, distancing herself from me. Today is her birthday, won't let me spend time with her. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: I just found out my brother in law threw a shoe at my cat! POST: My brother-in-law moved in with my husband, father-in-law, and myself. He brought his cats that had babies. My husband and I kept 2 of the babies and we already had 2. We now have 6 cats in our house. My husband and I work full ...
Brother-in-law decided throwing a shoe at my cat was the best way to stop it from eating plastic. I told him that is not OK but now I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23/M] with girlfriend [22/F] of 6 months. Bad sexual experience and now she says she doesn't feel as safe with me. POST: About a week ago me and my girlfriend Madison decided to meet up to hang out. For the past 3 or so months she's let me in on a sort of a "Rough" fetish that sh...
Girlfriend tells me she has rough sex kink, doesn't stop me despite asking if she's okay several times and asking her if she remembers the safe word, now she doesn't feel safe around me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] want to feel in love with my boyfriend [24M] POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for one year now. Once we met, we literally didn't spend a night apart and it's been that way since. We both consider ourselves old souls, so it's nice to find someone who understands mos...
boyfriend and I lack intimacy. He's okay with it, and I'm not. Not sure how to handle it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What if the Mayans were right? POST: Just recently H.R 347 bill was passed, basically making any peaceful protest a crime in the United States. Not only that but the NDAA bill was already signed, and governments around the world are bombarding people with Internet limitations bills. The ...
Worlds going to shit, America becoming dictatorship, and war is on the horizon, is there some plausibility behind the Mayan's prediction? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Buying a house and I'm afraid the flood insurance may be too much. Help? POST: Okay guys. I'm in contracting to buy a house for 148k with an FHA loan. Making less than 20% down payment, so MIP is applied (I plan to refi when 20% equity is achieved). Inspection has happened; everyth...
in contracting on a house, thought my flood insurance would be cheap, turns out it won't. What can I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Found out my [M24] SO [F24] of 2~ months is currently seeing someone and has been for 8 months. Uncomfortable about how to proceed... POST: I've been seeing a girl for like 10 weeks, 5-6 dates during this time period (crazy work schedules). lots of talking inbetween dates, we met on ...
just read it. I'm not really comfortable getting more involved (emotionally or sexually) if she is not willing to give up her fuckbuddy. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26F] am starting to develop feelings for my boyfriend's [27M] best friend [30M] POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. I love him very much and before this always felt we had a strong relationship. I've never had conflicting feelings until now. My boyfriend's...
Boyfriend's best friend is going through a rough break up. I've been spending a lot of time with him since then and have started to develop feelings for him. feeling very conflicted and unsure of where to go from here.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] - Help - trouble with parents POST: I know this isn't as serious as posts but I need perspective. Some background: I've been dating this girl for >2 years. We met in high school; she's a senior now and I'm a freshman in college. I go to a local comm...
I'm young and still dealing with her parents in what's been a longterm realtionship. I returned her late when we thought we wouldn't get caught. We did and now no one will talk to me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need to convince my naive friend [25F] to break up with her married boyfriend [~50M] POST: Ok so my friend Nina has been with her boyfriend Sam for 4 years. He is twice her age, married and lives in another city with his wife and kids. I love my friend but she is very naive and wil...
My friend needs to break up with her married boyfriend who is twice her age, but she can't see it. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Anyone else is annoyed by all his/her friends drinking endlessly every time we meet? + I am not sure if I am in love with my best friend.. POST: I am 19yo male, close to 20. No matter what we plan to do, they drink and drink and drink. It is like that since we turned 16 where beer becom...
Everyone Drinks 24/7 when we meet while I can't enjoy alc and I am not sure if I like or love my best friend.. My life feels like sh°t atm...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Unplanned pregnancy and doubt POST: I am 27/f and my boyfriend is 32/m. We have been together about 6 months and I just found out that I am apparently knocked up. This was very unplanned as I am on the pill and really expected the damn thing to work. The problem, though, is not neces...
Told boyfriend I'm pregnant and the abortion option never came up. Now I don't know how to tell him that I feel it needs to be a consideration.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm worried that I [20F] lie to my boyfriend [20M] about the smallest things and it's eroding our relationship. POST: We've been dating for a year, LDR for most of it. I worry that I might be a compulsive liar--I never lie with the intent to deceive or hurt others, and my only lies a...
I tell small lies (sometimes white lies) to my boyfriend and I want to stop because I want to save our relationship, but I don't know how to approach it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Small business scam help/advice needed POST: I work for a small business in New Jersey making just over minimum wage. I believe the owner is trying to peel small amounts of my wage for himself to keep. Almost every check I've received from him has been messed up. I'm kind of tired of d...
Owner is messing with my wage, my supervisor is a douche bag friend of the owner. Any advice or knowledge is welcome and thanked.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: [Injury] Insolvable Tibial Posterior Tendon Pain POST: While I have not run since November 2012, I still am having pain in my tibial posterior tendon which started in December 2013. I have seen two prestigious doctors from Boston's MGH and have had multiple x-rays and a MRI with no diagnos...
injured tendon in right leg since 2011, not run since nov 2012, been to docs. Images show leg pain and inflamed tendon.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] and my ex [21 M] breakup 2 months ago, he stayed friends with my friends, I don't kow how to deal with it POST: I met him thru our mutual friend and we kinda combined our friends. So my girlfriends when out with his boyfriends, it was big group of people. Thats how we met a...
My ex is friends with my friends, and they go out without me, it hurts my feelings that my friends chose him over me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/m] I've a crush for that straight guy [20/m] for 6 months now and I fell pretty alone and anxious POST: So I'm living in Europe for 1 year for a student exchange. When I arrived I met that straight expat guy that studies in the same university and course as I do and we beca...
I moved alone to Europe, I live, study and hang out with my straight crush, I've no friends to help me right now and I'm as anxious as I've never been before.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: The internet says I can buy a house. A real estate agent I work with agrees. POST: Hey guys, I recently paid off a credit card and decided to check out quizzle.com to see how my credit was looking. My credit score was way better than I was expecting at 685, and it said that I could...
24 year old with 685 credit score making $26k a year employed for 4 years. car loan with balance of ~$23k. Can I get a mortgage? Should I?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/m] I'm wondering if fighting for love at all costs is worth it and if any of you have stories of "love conquering all"? POST: First off, this question is relevant because my girlfriend and I broke up a week ago and we were together a year and a few months. In my head, I wan...
I want to be with only one woman and I will always want to fight for her. Any real life stories of such a thing?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I don't mean to offend anyone, but I have a serious question regarding children born from rape, when the mother decides to keep the child... POST: How do you manage to keep the child? My own feelings are that the child is part of a person who was the cause of a traumatizing, and horrible...
How do you love a child you had from rape? Does looking at this child conjure memories of the event/person?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I want to have consensual sex with our mutual best friend (19F/20M) POST: So I have been friends with Eric for about 2 years, we go to college together and we are best friends. Me and Eric casually hooked up a few times, and then about 8 mon...
I'm in college, I want to hookup with an old fling/best friend who is really close my recent ex.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [21/M] recently broke up with my GF[21/F] of 3 years in a very bad way. Want to apologize her. Need help. POST: So, recently I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years only with facebook. It was messy, I was angry on her, I was afraid to end it, I was not nice, I did not write ...
fucked up breakup thingy, made my now ex gf sad, want to send her letter to ease her pain.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 M] have a really problematic relationship with my girlfriend [20 F] POST: So here's the thing. I'm a 28 year old guy, and I'm in a problematic relationship. I've been dating my girlfriend for the last two years (since she was legal, reddit! It's not *that* problematic). And...
Problematic relationship with my girlfriend. I think she's getting paid for sex. How do I figure out what to do next?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [24 M] and my ex [23 F] broke up with me, but starts flirting with me again. What do I do? POST: So I had a relationship with this girl for about 3 months. Then she broke up with me. I was really sad for a while, because I was really crazy about her, but she said she was affraid ...
Gf breaks up, wants to try again, breaks up, keeps flirting with me, runs away, more flirting, more running away.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I [26M] have been trying to go on dates and find a relationship for over 2 years now. Can't meet anyone POST: Hello reddit, I usually always have a positive onlook on life and keep telling myself that one day I will get lucky. I got my master about 2 years ago. Since then i've been...
Middle eastern in Brussels, can't find date for over 2years, no real free time, starting to feel lonely.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [21/m] I've been dating a girl (21/f) for two months and I'm insecure all the time POST: Ok today is another of those days. I'm insecure about the girl I've been dating for two months now. I don't think there really is a reason to it and it's starting to drive me nuts. So a wh...
I've been seeing a girl for two months now, I think it's safe to call this a pre-relationship (prelationship). I get insecure about lots of stuff all the time. What should I do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Need advice on religious [ex]girlfriend POST: So we've been on/off for a while, a little over 2 years. It was the best 2 years of my life. She has shown me pleasures of life and changed me for the better forever. However, there is one big ass problem with our relationship( actually its h...
Religious ex-girl, we still have feelings, but 'god' is in the way-ish, what should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] found out my girlfriend of 4 years [24F] sent half naked (shirtless, with bra on) to a friend POST: This starts as these things usually do with snooping around on her computer. Went into dropbox, found a pic. Curiosity got the better of me and opened her sent email. Sent the ...
Went snooping, found an email containing a half naked pic of my SO sent to a friend/professional contact. Unsure if I should confront or see where this goes..<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of 2.5 years of dating. POST: We are really good for each other. I can't imagine someone who is more compatible with me intellectually and by personality, social situation, etc. The only thing missing is the spark. We never had that spark. She wa...
I'm with a really amazing girl that's very, very compatible with me but it concerns me that I never had the 'butterflies' for her, when I do get that feeling for other girls.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [16 F] stepmom [40 F] told me "all [my] friends leave me" because I have Asperger's. POST: Background info: Stepmom's son/my stepbrother [10 M] was diagnosed as having Asperger's at a very young age. She always flaunts about how she's a huge deal in the Autism society and tries to...
Struggles with Asperger's led to my stepmom telling me "that's why all your friends leave you." How do I approach her about this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Great girl from OKC wants me to meet her parents, I think POST: So I meant this great girl from OKC a while back and we hit it off pretty quickly. Last week we met up for the first time (we live 2ish hours apart) when she drove to my town. The date went great and she ended up spendin...
Met a girl from OKC a while back. She drove 2 hours to visit me. Now its my turn to visit her. Not sure if I should meet the parents or not because we're not officially dating or anything.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27/f] with my boyfriend [24/m] of 1 year, says he doesn't want to be "tied down" POST: Has anybody ever staid in a relationship where one partners was not ready to get married yet? If so, did you eventually get married or did you break up? I told my boyfriend about a job opportu...
Boyfriend said he didn't want to be "tied down" yet, have you ever staid in a relationship where one member was not ready to get married yet?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (26/f) let my wifes (30/f) actions drive me crazy. POST: I wrote a post about a yr ago that can easily be found in my submissions. My wife is still really close to her ex's family. She was with her for I think 3 yrs and took care of her mom when she was really sick with COPD. We've...
My wife makes visits to be with her ex's family and sometimes has run ins with her ex that she doesn't tell me about until asked.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 M] think I made a huge mistake in marrying my wife [23 F] because she got pregnant. POST: We have a one year old together now and she (my daughter) is the best thing to ever happen to me. I love my wife's family and love her as the mother of my child, but I think I made a mista...
I got married too quickly after a serious relationship because we got pregnant. Now I'm realizing it might have been the wrong decision and need advice.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21/F] am painfully complacent with my SO[21/M] of 2 years POST: We've been together for 2 years and we've successfully navigated some serious issues, all on my part. I've struggled with anxiety for the last 4 years, and it got really bad during October of last year when I tried t...
My boyfriend is stable and predictable and I love him. But I'm so bored by our relationship and I don't know what to do about it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Is this common, and will it ever change? POST: Hey guys, I've been married to my wife for 6 years now and I feel like she's is a bit of a blank slate. I'm 28 and she's 30. Yeah, that's kind of confusing but I'll explain. My wife has very few actual interests or hobbies, if any...
): My wife has no real interests, hobbies, and never grows as a person. No self-reflection and no motivation to learn something new. Is this common, and will it ever change?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [34/m] know if it's over with my wife [33/f] of almost 12 years? POST: Hey everyone. I'm losing my mind. I don't think my wife likes me anymore, and I'm pretty sure she hasn't for a long time. We have 1 child who is 2. We used to make a lot of money and lived the good "DINK...
She's never happy and I'm pretty sure it's my fault. How do I know when there's no coming back?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Love Rectangle? POST: I'm looking for some advice here guys, I have never been in a situation as messy as this and don't know what to do... Let's start at the beginning, the very beginning: I have a really good friend who we'll call 'K', we've known each other for years. He met a g...
I like a girl who likes me and a good friend of mine while her best friend also is crushing on me. What do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The guy (20M) I've (22F) been dating for a couple weeks referred to my best friend (21F) as "the ugly fat friend" and won't genuinely apologize. POST: Throwaway because redditors are creepy about digging through your posting history and nitpicking shit, just had that happen in anothe...
Guy I've been dating badly insults my best friend, won't genuinely apologize, I want to call our arrangement off. Am I overreacting?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: Rejected from target school. Need some advice. POST: My target school was Rutgers University. Just the normal Liberal Arts & Sciences School at New Brunswick. Unfortunately I was rejected. I irresponsibly had a one shot plan so now I'm left with safety schools. Those include Sacred Heart...
Dealing with post-rejection stress and need some advice on how to properly move forward/if I'm over-reacting<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My best friend(F18) comes to me(M17) for every thing and now tells me that I am needy. Need advice! POST: Me(M17) and my best friend (F18) have been friends for over a year by now. She has helped me through the most difficult part of my life and I go to her for advice or to talk to h...
best friend comes to for advice and stuff like that, and she tells me that I am needy and I still want to ne friends.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend [25m] repeatedly calls me [24f] his female roommates name. POST: We've known each other for a year now and have been dating since October. He has been living with the roommate for a little over a year and a half. Roommate is currently in a on-again off-again relationship wi...
Boyfriend repeatedly calls me his female roommates name. I feel she embodies what he finds attractive, more so than me. Need outside opinion so I don't get duped in another relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Did i break bro code?! I had drunk sex with a friends "the one" POST: So this last Sat was my 24th birthday and a few close friends and I were out at a bar. One of my friends had invited a girl hes close with that he has confessed he has feelings for (he has actually said that she is his...
I had extremely rough sex with someone my best friend told me he had strong feelings for but who was verbally express no interest other than friendship with him...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I tell a friend [23M] about how I don't really feel safe around him anymore [23F]? POST: Backstory: So I've had a really good friend in this guy who I will call J and have been since the beginning of high school (about 9 years now). He's nice, blah blah blah, but occasionally ...
friend is creeping me out and I don't know whether I should just stop meeting him all together or communicate this somehow. Help!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you leave someone that is such a huge part of your life? POST: I've been with my girlfriend for over 5 years. Some of the time she can be a great girlfriend. She can be sweet, loving, kind and sexy. But these days the amount of time I think she's a great girlfriend seems to be ove...
I'm in a long term relationship that isn't bad but I know isn't right for me. How do you make the call to take the pain and leave the relationship?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: All I[18M] want to do is play music for my ex[18F] 9 months, broke up almost a week ago. POST: So basically the way i've been getting through my breakup is hitting the gym/being physically active everyday, and playing and singing songs. But now I feel guilty that I hardly ever sang f...
My ex loved when I sang for her but i barely did. so now should record something and show it to her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 M] and my girlfriend [20 F] of about 9 months are moving in together officially and I'm paranoid I don't love her POST: My girlfriend and I have been living together for quite awhile now. At first it was because she had nowhere to go for the summer and then even after she got a...
I personally don't believe I could fall out of love in an instant after building something for so long but my anxiety says otherwise<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Last night, I had this interesting exchange with a cop. Was I in the wrong? POST: Last night, me and a few friends were out on the town. We hit some bars and had a few drinks, but not enough that I was inebriated. Rather, I felt confident and friendly. Now, I am a huge dog lover. I love...
Told that I was in the wrong for kindly asking a police officer the name of his dog during a nice night out.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [23M][24F] Is persistence worth it? POST: Met this girl in class. Was partners with her and spent a lot of time in class with her (6+ hours/week). Lots of chit-chat, brought my a-game and made her laugh a lot. Anyone after that we hung out at the bar a couple times and I got **too** ...
Asked a female friend out to dinner via text. She never responded and has stopped corresponding since. I believe she has someone else in her life. Should I attempt to save the friendship or let the bridge burn?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Apartment Mold: What can we legally do? POST: So my apartment had some minor flooding from hurricane Irene and the rain after. We lost a couple personal possessions and I had to take off 3 days from work to fight the flooding and keep us from losing anymore. The landlord even offered ...
Bergen County, NJ. Mold in our apartment. Landlord won't do major fix without us moving out/downgrading to another apartment. What can we do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being way too honest (accidentally?) POST: So you know some of those letters you get from those "pre-college programs" that "offer a wonderful experience" blah blah blah and add some bonafide colleges to visit or study in right? So I got a couple of those in high school. 'course I lo...
read something bad about a program, thought I kept it to myself but actually said it out loud, silence (and a person) later told me that three of them actually enrolled in said program.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, please help. Can I, within the state of Illinois video record a towing company towing my car. POST: My obvious thought is of course! But I don't want to cross any legal boundaries so I just wanted to double check. My parents live in a condo complex where they own a condo (fully p...
Car got towed, leaving LOTS of damage to the car, want to warn my neighbors to video tape the towing company because that could be the only evidence they might have if their car is damaged.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is the best form of (male) hair removal? POST: I've been looking for the best form of hair removal lately and decided to come to the ranks of Reddit before I make any purchases. I am a guy and have been shaving a good deal of my body for a while but I have always had certain difficu...
What is the best form of hair removal for men that covers a large area and works in sensitive areas (groin) that is relatively cheap?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: What charm school will teach me to be more professional? Or is it bad bosses? POST: Warning, wall of text. Background: 14 years of experience as web designer and digital strategist. I got hired at a really small software firm (<15 people) last winter to escape a previous job that I'd been o...
Was supposed to be a strategist, tricked into crappy designer role. VP takes away autonomy, I can't pick a color without him practically writing me up for it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M21] am sick of my lingering feelings for my ex-best friend [F22] POST: Today is my 21st birthday and it also marks the one year anniversary of the end of my multi year friendship. I'll post a link of a previous reddit where I explained it all(, but now I just need help to finally...
One whole year has passed since the lost of my friendship, but I still feel pain despite making major improvements towards my life<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it possible to be spiritual without being religious? POST: I'm not religious anymore. When I was little my parents introduced me to the idea of God and Heaven but rather than taking me to Sunday School or church they basically told me that if I wanted to go to Church or had any questi...
Is it possible to achieve the same sense of serene happiness that some religious people seem to get without subscribing to a religion?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I have no idea where we stand. POST: So I started actually hanging out with a guy that I have known for quite some time. I assumed it was always platonic, but one night I went to a party and he happened to be there as well. We talked for a while and his friend pulled me aside to tell...
Drunk makeout with guy friend. We start hanging out a lot more after the fact, but he doesn't want to acknowledge that anything happened. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M] with my gf [25 F] - do I tell my ex gf I'm now seeing someone, and do I cut ties w/ ex entirely? POST: I broke up with my last ex about a year and half ago, after 4 years together. For that year and a half we remained on good terms, and at one point tried to date again, whi...
Still on amicable terms with ex gf, should I tell her I'm with someone else? Also, should I cut ties with her entirely?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [M/21] with my GF [F/22] 4-5 months. I am way too nervous to break up with her. POST: We have been going out for a couple of months now and we have been through so much and have had a lot of good times together, but I'am no longer interested in her. She has self-confidence and dep...
I'm no longer interested in my GF, but she suffers from depression. How do I let her down without hurting her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (23M) girlfriend (24F) seeks out attention via social media. POST: My girlfriend of 2 years seems to intentionally seek out attention from other guys. She does this by posting various messages on social media sites. Some specific examples of the types of messages she posts would ...
Girlfriend seeks out attention from other guys like she is single, yet still explicitly shows that she's in a relationship with me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex [23M] is planning to have a new years party. His mum [45] was going to look after our daughter [1]. Untill i [23F] found out there were going to be drunk people at the house. POST: Ex and i have known each other since we were 14. Our daughter is currently 1. We seperated, he h...
Ex's mum is taking daughter for the night, until ex told me that he's going to have smashed people over his house. Not comfortable with it at all.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Reddit - what are the ramifications for refuting a CC charge? POST: Long story short - my wife an I purchased a cake for our son's 1st birthday party. The cake was not cheap (by our standards, $500.00) - and they totally botched the order. The outside of the cake looked like what we asked f...
bought a cake - cake was wrong. Bakery won't refund, we want to refute the charge. What should we know?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by talking about an obsessive guy I used to date POST: Basically I bumped into this guy yesterday in Tesco that I went on a couple of dates with in the UK like 3 years ago. He used to text me every few months and I just would never text him back but he still continued to text like a weir...
Tried to avoid an obsessive guy I used to date, but ended up recording the entire conversation of me telling a friend how I avoided him and accidentally sent him the recording.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] with my newly ex-gf [26 F], mood swings almost 2 months later POST: Hey all Roughly 2 months ago (give or take a week), my GF of 5 years broke up with me. She had simply fallen out of love. I, however, had most definitely not (I was actually planning on proposing to her. F...
2 months after end of first relationship (5 years), wild mood swings starting from feeling "meh" to utter misery. Usually after exercise. Help?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by Burning Out a Bug POST: So i had just gotten home from working a shift at the grocery store, and of course it was crazy busy because tomorrow is Turkey Day. There are a couple clumps of pompous grass fairly near the stairs to my apartment and there was some bug in them making a never ...
Bug wouldn't shut up, set pompous grass on fire like a fucking idiot. Neighbor put it out and then called the fuzz on me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 F] with my boyfriend [33 M] of 1 year who is addicted to online slots POST: it is honestly the most annoying thing ever. He started playing online slots a few months ago and I rolled my eyes because really? Pressing a button and waiting for a completely random arrangement of p...
My boyfriend stays up all night playing online slots, used my credit card on websites where it was potentially frauded and refuses all grown up responsibilities to play instead.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: (USA) How can I go to college when I make $8.10 per hour part-time? POST: Hi! I'm a college student who recently got kicked out. My parents refuse to give me the tax information I need to complete the FAFSA and I make $8.10/hour on part-time. My rent is about $500 with utilities an...
Can't file for FAFSA because parents refuse to give me tax info - need to figure out how to stay in school on $8.10/hr.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How do I deal with this like a non-asshole? POST: So I met this girl when the semester started. (College semester). I think we hit it off reasonably well. After a week or two, I got to the point where I thought "well, I guess I should ask her if she wants to go grab a drink ...
Met a chick, dug her, found out she was engaged. A couple of months later she's no longer engaged, and I'm still into her. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What affect e-book prices, and why isn't this being done? POST: I've delayed buying an e-reader because I enjoy having a physical book in my hands. I like the tactile feel of books, the weight, smell, and turning pages. However, I'm going to be traveling extensively soon and can't lug ...
Why are e-books more expensive than physical books, and wouldn't a better system be to bundle them together for a few extra bucks?*<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[21F] Ex-Girlfriend and I[23M] broke up after nearly 2 years, She dropped a huge bomb last night and I feel terrible. POST: So we have been broken up for nearly a month. I want to fix things and get back together. She was on board for a bit but would constantly retract if she got t...
Ex-Girlfriend of 2 years says she was never sexually attracted to me. We just had a very strong emotional connection. I think the birth control is messing with her she says other wise.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Take a stable, well-paying (but horrible) job in a city I hate, or run away and go work in Australia or the UK for 6 months? POST: Context: Broke up with long-term BF, he's moving, house is gone. Planning on going back to school for a two-year post-grad degree next year. Offered a job in a ...
I HAVE NO WHERE TO BE (literally). My heart is broken. I want to run away. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [23 M] 5.5 years, happy relationship, having dreams where he cheats on me POST: I've been with my boyfriend for 5.5 years. We live together and have a great relationship. We've discussed getting married, our families love us and support us eventually getti...
Having dreams where my boyfriend cheats on me, even though we're happy and I know he would never do that. Not sure what to do about it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [22F] stop thinking so negatively about myself? POST: I'm not sure how to start, or if I'm even posting in the right spot. The way I think about most things really pisses me off sometimes. I'm a 22F who is still a virgin (never had a boyfriend, or been kissed). I'm probably ...
How do I stop myself from thinking so negatively about myself when I have no real reason to be. Could all of these thoughts be a sign of Asperger's?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Can you challenge a home appraisal? PMI related. POST: I purchased a condo in the Boston area in the summer of 2015 and am going through a refinancing, offered to me with no closing costs by my current lender, to reduce my APR to below 4%. We went through an appraisal about three ...
Can I challenge a very recent appraisal based off a much more comparable sale of a home to my own to speed up the process of decreasing and then eliminating PMI?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: am I a cynic or just genuine? POST: I recently moved into an apartment with my friend who I've known for many years. I'm 22 atm, male, work full time, have a gf, participate in sports, etc. everyone I know goes out to bars, clubs, drinks, etc every weekend and love it. Don't get me...
don't drink, roommate has pre game in our apartment. How am I supposed to act without looking like "I'm too good to party" lol<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Help getting in talk with a girl! POST: Okay, so 3 days ago i was to a first aid class! 8 hours strait. One of my old classmate was there, together with a girl, both girls 18 years and such. But i've talked a little with this girl nothing special, a little chemistry between us, nothing spec...
Met a girl at a first aid class, talked a lot, never got her name, Met her the other day, texted the mutual friend, got her name, and she doesn't remember me...<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20F) am having issues communicating with my SO (20M) about some of what I think are things that could be potentially risking the breaking of our relationship POST: I am going to college in the fall and working part time at the moment. I almost fear I may have to start working full...
How should I confront boyfriend about not possibly going to college and working part time and me having to work full time and go to college full time<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 M] made out with a girl [23 F] I met at a party, not sure how to go forward, if at all. POST: Met a girl I really liked at a friend's party last night. After talking for a while, we ended up making out until she had to leave. Drunkenly friended her (and other people I met there...
Made out with a girl I met at a friend's party. Would like to see her again, but not sure how to go forward (if at all).<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I was thinking about marrying her. What do I do now? Me [23M], my girlfriend [23F] POST: Hi guys, A little background... I've been with my current girlfriend for 10 months. We were great together. Sure, we had our ups and downs but we thought this was it and we were going to get mar...
found out my girlfriend was talking about how good looking her ex hook up is with her friend. Does she still have feelings for him?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 F] am hurt by my husband's [23 M] watching shows like Game of Thrones because of nude scenes. POST: Hi everyone. This is a throwaway account because I am embarrassed to be posting about this. My husband and I are newly weds, and we are religious (not Christian). We are a tradit...
It is hurtful to me when my husband watches sexual scenes with nude women. How do I talk to him about it without sounding demanding an unreasonable?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by helping a kid win a contest POST: So I'm at the store. And I'm kind of in a hurry (which plays into things a bit). I'm rushing around trying to get things done, and a kid comes up to me (early college age, maybe) and says "Hey, I like your shoes!" They're a particularly bold pair of s...
in a rush, spent $200 to help a total stranger win a contest that probably doesn't exist because I'm too socially awkward to say no.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Looking to buy my first cell phone on my own. What carrier should I go with? POST: When my parents paid for my cell phone, I always had Verizon, but now that I'm buying my own phone, I want to know what companies you all recommend. I would like unlimited texting, a good amount data (does...
Need a new phone. Which carrier has an affordable one person plan with unlimited texting, some data, some minutes and good service?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I have a problem that I haven't realized for over 17 years. POST: Ah, my first post! Hello dear Redditors! I hope you can give some good advice on something that's been worrying me. I also have a horrible feeling this problem may sound fake as all hell. Whether you believe it or not is all ...
Have had vivid hallucinations and slight paranoia for over 16 years but thought it was normal until a week ago. What is really wrong with me? How can I deal with this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Matching an employers 401K contributions when your 21. POST: My work offers 3% 401K matching. Going up 1% a year up to 7%. My coworker doesn't seem the importance of losing 3% a check for literally free money. Not to mention potential future dividends. $100 today seems better tha...
Thanks for not letting me be that guy who didn't give Bill Gates $500 so co found Microsoft because he needed new tires.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] with my bf [23 M] of three years, spits in my face when he gets mad, and I don't know how to stop this cycle POST: My bf and I were arguing. He got worked up so much that he was boiling with rage, and I was just upset yelling about what I felt was right. At this moment, he ...
Bf spit in my face when angry, and I want to know how I can determine whether this relationship can be fixed or if I'm wasting my time. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Having a crisis about whether or not I should transfer colleges POST: I (F19) am a freshman in college. I came to the North for school from the South and experienced the worst winter of my life. Early on in my first semester, a lot of bad things happened at once in my personal life that mad...
I don't know whether I want to transfer schools because I suffered from seasonal depression or if it's because I actually don't like the school I'm currently attending.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by throwing my broken laptop in the dumpster POST: About two weeks ago, I was packing my things to move apartments and I came across an old laptop that I stopped using a while back because the part where you plug in the charging cord was broken. I really didn't need it anymore, so I chun...
I threw my broken laptop in the dumpster, some guy dug it out and got my contact info from my resume saved on the hard drive.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [26/f] Dealing with a very introverted [23/m] SO POST: First, some background: I started dating this guy I knew in high school but recently reconnected with, about two months ago. Everything was great, we were regularly talking and seeing each other on weekends. One month later...
SO says we need to "get to know each other better", but makes no effort to talk/hang out. Time to move on?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [24 F] and I [29 M] broke up because she wasn't ready for a relationship but still wants to be with me and I'm so confused. How likely is it that she'll stop being selfish one day? [UPDATE] POST: [You can read the original thread here.] But update is, following the br...
She decided she was open to not being selfish because she didn't want to be without me. We're dating again but I'm cautious.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I(18M) have a depressed gf I am in love with. I'm not right for her.(18F) POST: So I have been in love with my SO for 5 years. I started dating her 8 months ago. She has been depressed since I met her 8 years ago and it got better and worse at different times. In the past two months,...
I need help on breaking up with my depressed girlfriend. Im not right for her and I want her to be happy.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [28m] doesn't love me and I thought I [23f] was ok with it, but maybe I'm not POST: So, here's the haps: My boyfriend [28m] and I [23f] have been dating for nearly 2 years now. We met in school and things started off very casually. About 6 months in we decided to make it...
I thought I was ok being in semi-one-way relationship, but I'm not sure that I am. What now?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by pretending to steal a babies nose. POST: My SO has a pretty big family. Especially considering I ever only knew 1/2 of my family that was already fairly small (Gma, Gpa, and 4 kids with their kids). Although there is no overt pressure from her family members, everyone wants us to have...
I pretended to steal a babies nose in an awkward encounter. She thought it was real and now believes she has no nose. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21/m] like this girl [??/f] on my course, does she like me or is this just friendly? POST: She sat next to me when she could have sat somewhere else. She flicked her hair towards me on many occasions... it smelt really nice. She also looks at me with one hand under her chin smilli...
! Not too sure if this girl likes me or is just being friendly. She's done a few things that make me believe she does, but I can never be too sure!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Ex (30M) is moving across the country. I'm (26F) suddenly desperate to keep him here POST: We have tried more times than I can count to make a relationship work. We love each other. We thought we were meant to be. But we just can't make it happen. It's heartbreaking for me still. But...
I don't want to be with ex, but now that he's moving away I'm feeling desperate for him to stay<|endoftext|>