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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Not looking for front page or upvotes- just some real, honest to goodness advice from people who care about people. Can your forgive someone who made up their past? POST: (Can YOU forgive someone who made up their past* I'm on my phone and spelling has been toooough) My boyfriend and I ...
I have no friend and want reddit to be my friend tonight. Give me relationship advice. My boyfriend lied about a huge thing. Is that forgiveable?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [F/18] doesn't want to get on the pill and it makes me uneasy. POST: So my girlfriend [F/18] and I have been together for about a month and we have sex pretty regularly, but she will not go on the pill and I don't know what to do. I use a condom every time and I would't...
Girlfriend doesn't want to go on the pill because she would have to tell her parents and thinks it will fuck up her body and it all makes me really uneasy.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by asking my friend to make out. POST: This was on my birthday party a few nights ago (1/10) and I had a party bus and invited all my close friends to it. The night goes on and we're all drunk as shit and whatever and people are taking their shirts off and it's turning into "that" kind o...
I had a birthday party, I thought "birthday boy is special", asked a friend to make out, got denied, it got awkward and she hasn't spoken to me since.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [22 M] started to compare me [20F] with other women and it affects my self-esteem POST: We have been together for 10 months now, at first everything was perfect, love,romance and he is the best guy in the world. The last semester at school we were separated from our ori...
My bf started to compare me with other women, it affects my self steem and makes me feel like he doesn't like me anymore.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (25 F) co-workers (21 M, 22 M, 21 M) keep recording/taking pictures of me and then putting it on their snapchat story. I am NOT okay with this. POST: First of all, I am not a social media person. I don't have an Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter or anything remotely close. I ...
coworkers want to make me vine and snapchat famous (jk, but they do post me) and keep recording me without my consent. I told them to stop but they refuse.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24m] fiancee [26f] is being forced to quit her job to spend time with me when I come over 3000 miles away for Xmas. POST: I don't know what to say to her - I feel really bad that this has happened. She works at a large supermarket as a casheer in USA, and I'm coming over from the...
my fiancée is being forced to quit because they won't give her time off at Xmas to see me who's travelling 3000 miles to see her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] have fallen hard for my girlfriend [17F] of six months and it often feels she doesn't feel the same. POST: I'm going to preface this by saying sorry for me sounding really whiny, full disclosure it is pretty whiny of me and it's mostly just a rant. That said, thanks for liste...
I go out of my way to make her my top priority, and sometimes I don't feel very prioritized sometimes and it hurts. Basically just needed to vent anonymously, thanks for listening.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: I need some career advice - should I accept a clinical research job or continue with my applications to grad school? POST: I am currently employed at a non-profit where I am responsible for enrolling our patients (many chronic disease) into programs that get them free drugs. I do a lot of oth...
Should I accept a job in clinical research with room for growth and put off grad school OR go ahead with my applications and go to school?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How Do I (20M) explain to my love interest (20F) that I am severely depressed? POST: There is a girl in my life, we have had our history and things have happened but for a long long time she has been interested in me. She talks to me for 8 hours a day sometimes. We never got a chance...
girl im in love with is crazy about me too, but she is a lot to handle and i am tired and depressed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 F] with my boyfriend [18 M] of five months, I'm jealous of my boyfriend spending time with other people, help? POST: So my boyfriend and I have been dating for the past five months. I love him very much and can't imagine my life without him. My parents don't know we're dating ...
My boyfriend thinks I'm clingy and I want to fix it but I don't know how to be less clingy?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By hitting a glass wall of a local mall.. POST: I was in bed, a bit groggy when I have received a text message from a friend that he wants to meet and talk about something.. My eyes did the involuntary shut-off while reading this when he actually called.. Insisting that he'll be at the l...
A ass friend woke me up from sleep demanding a meetup at mall where I bump hard at the mall's glass wall..<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my ex girlfriend [21 F] of one and a half years, we keep in contact A LOT, but she didn't tell me about her new boyfriend POST: Okay, so me and my ex see each other about 2 times a week, text almost daily, grab lunch together and *she asks me* almost 9 out of ten times...
ex gf and me keep in contact intensively, flirt, but she didn't once tell me about her bf of more than a year!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Major employment conundrum. What do I do? POST: So... I'm not happy in my current job for several reasons. One is that I don't get any sick or personal time. I work in a professional industry where these things are typically standard, but not for this employer. No sick or personal time,...
To lie to my boss and go to an interview in person, or to potentially hurt my chances of getting hired by requesting a phone or skype interview instead?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25M] with my Ex GF [25F] of 2.5 years - Am I an asshole for wanting to keep letters she wrote to me? POST: About a month ago we broke up after a bit of a messy situation. I cheated (one off black out drunk thing as opposed to calculated affair, for clarity rather than an excuse) ...
Should I give a letter my ex wrote to me back to her because she has asked for it or am I justified in wanting to keep something which means a lot to me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend [26 M] and I [25 F] slept together and it ruined our friendship. How do I move on? POST: I was close friends with this guy for about 3 years. He was the very first friend I made when I moved to a new city, and we spent a lot of time together. There was always chemistry be...
Had sex with a close friend and he immediately cut off all contact with me. How do I get closure without knowing why he did that?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My guy [25] and I [23] hit it off. However, I wish he wasn't so feministic sometimes. POST: He[25] and I[23] have been dating for a few weeks. I have never been in a dating relationship with more mutual appreciation than this. He is in touch with his sensitive side and it is absolute...
Guy acts flamboyant and girly sometimes. 100% straight, but am worried I'll get fed up with it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by standing up too quickly POST: So this actually happened this morning...well late last night, 2:30 AM. (Saturday night/Sunday Morning) A few friends and I were in the hot tub after having more than a couple of drinks. We had a good evening, supper out, drinks at home, board games, car...
Spent too much too much time in a hot tub. Didn't allow for temperature adjustments, blacked out and now i have bruises and bumps on my forehead, big meeting in the morning with a prospective client.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: Finally made the decision to quit my job! POST: I have been in a lot of distress for a while now and I think I have boiled it down to it being my job. I had this thought yesterday if my Head, Heart and Feet aren't aligned then I shouldn't be doing it anymore. I work in IT with bad m...
Quitting job that is making me crazy, making a total career change and sticking with my gut against what others think!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Dealing with what I said/did drunk POST: So, last night I was in a party with a group of friends, everybody was pretty drunk, and I ended saying/doing some stupid things. Not everything I did makes me worried, but 2 cases are making me lose my mind: 1)The classic drunk talk: I said to one...
Was drunk, did stupid drunk things, am worried about the hellish mocking treatment my friends are going to give me if they discover it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [16m] stay out of the friendzone with a girl I started talking to? POST: I just finished the first week of school and I made a new friend. It's a girl in one of my classes who is really cute and nice. On the first day of school she talked a bit to me in class, so I walked wi...
Talking to new girl, want to avoid the friend zone. How do I act to show her that i'm more boyfriend material than friend material?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: When a good friend (22 F) started to share food and drinks with me (26 M), she likes me or I'm over thinking? POST: Hello Everyone, I (26 M) met my friend (22 F) at work for over a year and half now and we always chatted/texting every day about our lives/families/friends/work. Somet...
I know sharing food or drink is very common between good friends, but was that moments telling me she likes me or am I over thinking? . <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: scumbags POST: I live in a city where my "friends" are just limited to the people who i grew up with, mostly the same culture as mine. I have never actually thought of them as actual friends but more so as acquaintances. They always end up hanging out together and never bother to invite...
People are selfish and only concerned about themselves at the end of the day. Most "friends" aren't really your friends except the super close ones and your family.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 F] am considering moving in with my boyfriend [21 M] 1.5 year but have concerns. POST: My boyfriend is planning on moving out by the end of the summer. He thinks he'll need two roommates and left it open for me to move in with him. We both are serious in the relationship and ha...
in a serious relationship, live at home with overprotective mother and it isn't the best situation for me. Should I put aside my concerns about cohabitation and my family's opinions and move in with boyfriend?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[18M] with my ex-girlfriend [18/F] 6 months, moved on not sure what to do next, doubtful. POST: So me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago and now I feel I'm finally over it, me and her have started becoming friends not too close but we'll chat from time to time and I'm not uncomf...
Ex and I have started becoming friends may or may not get back together, unsure about the future if it doesn't work out.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by taking the bus to work. POST: This happened last Tuesday, not today. I work in the city for a small graphic design firm and I usually end up taking the bus instead of walking. I get on the bus and pop in my headphones and start my spotify playlist. At the next stop a really cute girl ...
Took bus to work, saw cute girl, ended up getting charged with harassment and now face up to 6mo. in jail or a $2,500 fine.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it okay that we're still friends? POST: Reddit, today I found out my friend, one of my best friends in the world in fact, has stolen a couple thousands of dollars worth of someone else's property in the form of trading cards. He got caught, and is doing his best to give them back. For...
my best friend stole someone else's property, is giving it back, and I'm conflicted about whether I should still be friends with him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (23/F) suddenly not attracted to my boyfriend (21/M) of one month overnight. POST: My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 2 months, one month of which has been exclusive. We were always crazy about each other, seeing each other every day, fucking every day, the ...
I was attracted to my boyfriend one day and the next day I was not. I want to be attracted to him again. Help!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Would any artists be interested in doing a rendition for a tattoo idea? POST: Ive been working on my first tattoo since 2007 and i think i finally have the courage to go thru with it Since i am not artistic in a drawing sense and my more artistic friends are perplexed by my idea, I have...
i want someone to draw me a tattoo of the words "BR& NEW" with the ampersand being made up of the letters "a", "n", and "d<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] went on two dates with this girl [20F]. After the 2nd one, she told me she really likes me, we kissed, and I dropped her off. Now she is ignoring me. POST: So I went on two dates with this girl I met at a cupcake place in my college town. I got her number, and we went on one ...
Had two dates with a girl who was into me, planned a third and she bailed, now she is ignoring me and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my ex-gf/friend [19F] 2 years, am I not supposed to get jealous? POST: **BACKGROUND** So I'm super crazy about this girl that I really care about. We've been bf/gf before (only for a few weeks) about a year ago. We stopped talking after we broke up, but recently became ...
Became friends with an old ex recently, even though I don't want to be with her it still hurts when she talks about guys.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Having enormous trouble finding an apartment in price range, and have to be out next month. POST: Unfortunately, my landlord has decided to end the lease, and she told me late in June. Lease ends Sept 1st. Since my price range is pretty low, I had to find roommates but don't know anyone in...
version: can't find roommates, and can't find a studio in my price range. Have to be out Sept 1st.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [29M] break up with my live-in GF [26F] of 6 years. POST: Been together 6 years. I love her. but she's not the one. I want to call it quits, but it's very hard. There's no event triggering this breakup. I wasn't wronged. I'm not vengeful. There aren't many emotions involve...
Live-in GF of 6 years is madly in love with me and can't envision our life apart. I want out. How do I break up with her as gently and as soon as possible?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 22/m, with 21/m 1 year. Should I add my ex who I haven't spoken to in two years on Facebook? POST: Two days before I left for college I started dating my first boyfriend. He eventually pressured me in a non-pressure-y way to come out and change my relationship status for him on Faceb...
Dated a guy, we broke up, we haven't spoken in two or three years, want to add him on Facebook and start talking again should I or am I just setting myself up for drama?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Today, a group of people randomly started ring my doorbells and they looked sketchy. POST: A group of strangers rang my bell in an aggresive approach in the middle of the day. This woke up my infant and caused the dog to start barking histerically. My wife then checked the window and ...
A bunch of people randomly started ringing our doorbells while walking around our house which freaked out my wife and daughter. WTF mate? [sort of related](<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Friends of mine f(20) and m(21) just broke up after a 4 month relationship and she won't stop calling me crying POST: Mutual friends of mine started dating in March, at the start everything was great they were both happy but a few weeks ago they broke up. In the breakup all of thei...
friend f(20) just broke up with her boyfriend of 4 months and she won't stop calling me crying because she has nobody else to talk to<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Can we talk about the other way to fall in love? POST: Curious to see if others have had a similar experience in their relationship and what the outcome was. Me (F/30) and my SO (M/30) have been dating for six moths or so. When we first started dating, it was not the intense passio...
Anyone out there not experience those intense initial feelings for your SO but had them grow over time? What was it like?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25M] older brother is dating someone much younger [29M][18F]. POST: I've seen my brother with many types of girls. He doesn't have any issue with commitment as he's been in a couple of year long relationships and the longest was close to 18 months. However, for the past year, he'...
I am uncomfortable with my brother being in a relationship with a much younger girl. Should I bring this issue up to my brother or just be supportive of their relationship?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [21 M] losing interest with my girlfriend [ 21 F] of 1 year because I feel like we don't have enough in common. POST: I like my girlfriend. I think she's cute, funny, attractive and smart. We are different, but I always thought it's good to be different from your s/o to balance o...
I feel unhappy in my otherwise good relationship because I occasionally feel like I want someone who has more in common with me. I'm not sure how to proceed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I (F28) offer to pay for my own engagement ring, despite the fact that my SO (M31) is a romantic? POST: My SO and I have been talking about getting married, something we both want to do. He's the best man I've ever been with, considerate, intuitive, affectionate, definitely a ...
SO makes twice what I do but was bad with money when he was younger, so he has debt and I don't. Should I offer to pay for my own engagement ring?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Long distance 24(f) and 32(m)...how to make it work? POST: We have always been kind of long distance (an hour one way)and have been dating just short of 2 years. Monday evening my boyfriend informed that he had taken a job in 1,600 miles away. We had discussed this but it was not su...
I am having a panic attack about how to do this (NO REALLY I had to leave work early yesterday because I was having a panic attack).<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What do I do with this situation? (20/F), (19/F), (18/M) POST: I am going to make this very short and sweet, because the whole story would take hours to write. I (20/F) was in a relationship with a boy (18/F) for four years. We broke up because of long-distance issues, as we go to d...
Was in a relationship with a guy for a long time, he gets a new girlfriend, starts attempting (sometimes succeeding) to cheat on her with me. Should I tell the gf?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Why is it so hard to break up? POST: My boyfriend [25M] and I [24F] have had a rocky relationship ever since I can remember (we've been dating about three years). Although we're extremely compatible in many ways, we hit this cyclical pattern over a year ago where I get anxious/upset ...
My relationship has always been rocky and logic tells me I should end it, but I seriously love my boyfriend and can't seem to let go. Is it time to give up?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23F] was on SO's [23M] phone browser and Grindr was one of the tabs opened POST: We have been dating long distance for almost a year and when he came to visit recently I needed to use his phone for something. When I clicked on the browser app, I noticed one of the tabs to be Grind...
Found Grindr open on boyfriend's phone. We don't have problems in the bed at all. Not sure what to make of this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Did I just mess up by sending this to one of my professors? POST: To clarify the context; I am at med school and some of my classes have a practical component. I am being deducted marks for not providing my signature on a sign-in sheet, though I did attend the session. Anyway, to try a...
a torrent client can be seen in a screenshot I sent a professor (but it's not from a college computer). Is it remotely possible this could cause me difficulty?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32 M] with my SO [34 F], money has gone missing from wallet about 5 times in past months. What should I do? POST: I have been dating a wonderful girl for about 3 years, we decided to move in with each other last year and things have been great so far. I work incredibly early in ...
Money has gone missing from my wallet a few times these past few months, my GF who lives with me is the only one around when it happens. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M19] am controlling of [F21] and need advice in general. POST: I'm busy with college shit at the moment and this is just me procrastinating with my problems, so I figure why not ask you guys. Seriously thank you so much for help I've received in the past. On topic now, I apologize...
I am controlling yet don't know if wrong or justifiable, yet she has lied and I don't feel safe honestly, what should I do? Scared to lose her and she's scared to lose me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to give a dollar to a homeless guy POST: Ok, so this didn't happen today, but whatever. I was walking down the street when I saw a homeless guy and since I was in a good mood I decided to give him a dollar. I didn't have much cash in my wallet, but I thought I could feel some i...
thought I was grabbing a dollar from my pocket, it turned out to be a receipt, I tried to hand it to a homeless guy <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why are books considered more reliable than Wikipedia? POST: Roommate and I are having a discussion about why Universities don't allow Wikipedia as a source, despite its frequent editing and citation requirements. We've looked at academic sources on the matter and there isn't really a "T...
Books are impossible to change but often edited by (an) informed peer(s). Wikipedia is easily changed but peer review can be suspect.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: How do I deal with my leadership team better? POST: I want to refrain from a wall of text, so I'll try and be as concise as possible. - leadership team does not like being challenged on a vision that isn't in alignment with their own personal best interests. -presenting leadership with in...
I work with a bunch of self-absorbed douches who use corporate speak to further their own self-interests rather than actually perform their job better and benefit both current/existing clients and the company itself.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My husband seems to be obsessed with Asians and Asian porn, while I am not Asian. Does he not find me attractive because I'm not Asian? POST: I'm female (25) and my husband is a white guy (26), and he is obsessed with Asians and Asian porn.... He goes on reddit and looks at Asian por...
Does my husband find me less attractive because he is so into Asian women and I myself am not Asian? Why does he feel the need to watch Asian porn everyday, even when he doesn't masturbate to it everyday?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my date [17 F] for a few months, still have anxiety POST: Hey everyone, I am a senior in high school and a girl I have been seeing is a month younger than me, however, she is a junior (will explain more why this is/could be an issue). I first met her about three months...
Want my date to know I am still interested in her and want to become official, but I am not comfortable enough due to anxiety.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/m] my gf (19/f) cheated on me, don't know what to do. POST: I was out this past weekend visiting my friend at his university when at 3:45am on Saturday my girlfriend called me, crying, to tell me she did something horrible. Basically over the shitty quality of my phone and ...
while i was out of town my girlfriend made out with a guy at a party. Don't care a huge deal about the kissing, it's more about trust. What to do reddit?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my 'friend' [23 F] who is sending me extremely mixed signals. POST: I'm taking a gap year in New York and I met this girl who's doing something similar a couple of weeks ago. We were out at a bar and we ended up making out a lot that night. I hung out with her since an...
Girl hooks up with me and then decides she doesn't see me that way despite acting as if the opposite was true.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M] with my parents [40's M/F], my parents saw me naked with a boner while I had a freind over. Now they think I'm gay. POST: So "Chuck" stayed over at the weekend and we did what guys do after watching porn. Chuck wanted to know how big I was and not being shy I showed him by...
Parents think I'm gay, I'm not how do I convince them or do I ride it for new clothes first?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex [16/M] randomly ignores me [17/F] and then hits me up after? POST: Okay so basically we had a thing over the summer. It was short and he cut me off around when school started but I really really liked him. Anyway, we still kinda talked but it was always him starting the convers...
My ex (he cut me off) keeps randomly being hot and cold. Why? Why won't he just cut me off?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Will we ever get back together? [22F] and [20 M] POST: So my boyfriend broke up with me 2 1/2 weeks ago. It was completely out of left field and I was left shocked and devastated. He and I had been together a little of 4 years. We both were very happy and have been planning to move i...
Advice please! I want to get back together but worry he will move on or forget me. Not sure what to do!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (28F) get my fiance (36M) to understand we need to start saving for our upcoming wedding? POST: I'm a 28(f) having a rather difficult time conveying to my significant other (36m) that we need to work on saving money for our October wedding. I feel like every time I turn arou...
finance spends money on toys and shoes when we should be saving for our wedding. Help me teach him new money saving ways<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18m] may be getting bored/tired of my 2 year relationship with my gf [18f]. Advice on what to do? POST: I am in my first year of university, and she is in her last year of high school, which could be part of the issue. However, this feeling started a few weeks into university (I l...
My feelings towards my gf of 2 years aren't what they used to be. Is this normal? Or is this a sign of a failing relationship?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 3 years. Refuses to talk to me. Cheating? POST: For three years, the two of us have been happy as ever. I really love her a lot and she loves me too. One morning, I woke up and called her like I always do. She hung up. I called again. She hung up a...
Refuses to talk to me out of the blue. Tells me I don't make her happy. Continues to refuse to talk to me. Cheating on me? What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] need some emotional advice POST: I don't know how to describe it really.. The title is as close to what I mean to say. Yesterday my gf [20F] of 2 months and I were on the verge of a break up. She said she feels that I don't show my feelings, not for her but in general. For ex...
gf told me I need to talk and show more feelings and I think she's right. How do I do it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [35F] with my bf [27M] of 8 month duration,is that too much of a gap? POST: We met few months ago, we clicked, felt in love etc... It's been so good, we have a great relationship, we respect each other differences and opinion, we communicate a lot, great sexual chemistry and also ...
8 years gap,everything is good and I am the old one so worried about him missing the fun part of life (aka figuring out what he likes)!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [17/m], she's [17/f] and we like each other. My biggest concern: Our families are close friends. POST: I don't even know where to start. It's been a month since I moved here and I got to spend time with them. Our parents have been friends for many years now, and I don't wan...
Me and my parents' friends' like each other. I don't want to hurt our parents' friendship because of us. What do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Puppy playing at park - other owner aggressive towards him [help] POST: Hi all, looking for some advice. I have a 6m old kelpie, buzz, who goes with me daily to a dog park, where we meet with the same off-leash group of 20ish dogs/owners. He's not aggressive at all, but can be a little rough,...
other owner at park harsh with my dog for playing to rough with his. Have tried talking to him about it, hasn't helped.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: The pettiest of petty revenges POST: So, I was enjoying a drink outside yesterday, and my cousin is over. He comes outside with a full glass of orange juice. He takes a sip, then says, "I don't like this, ehhhh," and snatches my drink away as I go to take a sip. He gulps it all down i...
Cousin drank his OJ and my drink, so I shot him and fucked his sister, and gave that ho' herpes.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of 9 months, was I being rude? POST: I left her car lights on after taking her car out yesterday for a quick run to the pharmacy for lube. Her battery was dead. I apologized. I called my friends and she called hers and eventually her friend came o...
Helped my gf jump her car; snapped at her once and she thinks I was being rude throughout. What am I not getting?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Making some big changes to my financial situation soon, and need your guys' opinion. POST: I have a lot of debt and when I ran the numbers, I got frustrated at how long it would take to get out of it. Rent and utilities cost me about $1800/mo, and I'm not exactly living in a "luxur...
Do I throw $45k at student loans and rent another apt, or use it as a down payment on a house.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (19M) feelings for a friend (19F) are coming back. POST: I really wish I could get over my friend I had a crush on, I thought for awhile that everything I felt for her was slowly subsiding but now its all just coming back. I don't even know why I care so much about this girl, its ...
Redeveloping feelings for crush I had an almost relationship with, I need them to go away without cutting her out of my life.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Bf doesn't understand I need space. Advice? POST: My bf (23) and I (23) have been together for 2 years. He has always been pretty insecure and I know for sure that he feels like he doesn't deserve me eventhough I always tell him I love him, how perfect he is for me, and that I want h...
I need time away from my bf and his insecurities. He doesn't understand. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Accountants/Mathematicians of Reddit:Why is my way of calculating the contribution margin ratio wrong for this question? POST: I was working on this question for homework and because of a little problem with how math is calculated sometimes, I ended up getting the question wrong. Yet, I ...
Doing accounting homework, math with parentheses gave wrong answer, took out parentheses, got right answer. Reread post's title.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Suddenly she decided to stop talking to (m)e. (18/18) POST: We have been talking a lot( every day), over the past months. She was the one "pushing" it(initiating etc.) for the most part. I think she liked me, a lot. But then she just said she didn't want to talk to me anymore, ...
Girl talks to me a lot, then she suddenly says she don't want to talk to me anymore. Gives presumably bad explanation.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My 18F best friend and I [18M] go to college (sophomores) across the country from each other. I'd like some advice. POST: So, I should preface this by saying that I've known her for a little over 4 years, and that she's always been a bit of a wild child. Her family is pretty lax when...
Best friend and I go to school far away from each other. She's being a little bit too adventurous with weed and alcohol for me to feel comfortable. What to do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Submitting a letter of general interest to a company- is it too much to follow up afterwards? POST: I am working with a career counselor of sorts, and she recommended that I send a cover letter expressing interest/inquiring about possible positions at a certain company. I sent the letter to t...
What would be an appropriate follow up, if anything to a general interest cover letter that was sent 2 weeks ago and hasn't received a response?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] with my meeting girls need some advice. POST: I was dating a girl for over a year and she broke up with me a couple months ago. Im pretty much over her now and have been talking to some girls online. All is going well but I havnt really been through this ever, my ex kinda do...
Im so bad at this :/ haha how do I get a girls number and suggest a place with out sounding cheesy or desperate? Keeping in mind that weekends are out of the picture..<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] 2 years, does self-debate mean I shouldn't break up? POST: I've been in a relationship for over two years with a girl, she is the only girl I've been with for over a couple months. This past couple months have been very different between us and I h...
I don't know how to handle my situation and I don't want to lose someone if it's for something that shouldn't be a deal breaker.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by wearing my wife's clothing on a job interview POST: I've been unemployed for several months and it's been almost impossible to find work. Today, I had a job interview that I'd been trying to arrange for the past six weeks. I woke up to prepare and everything started off great, I was...
I got a job after wearing my wife's clothes because my new boss is gay and thinks I'm cute (and gay).<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Experienced Redditors: Should I (25F) marry my high school sweetheart (25M)? POST: This is pretty straightforward: I've been with the same guy since junior year of high school (9 years); we are each other's first everything. We did long-distance throughout college (no cheating from ...
I am in a great relationship with my high school sweetheart who wants to propose. I have fundamental doubts about marrying your first love, and would like perspective from experienced Redditors on this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by shaving my pubes. POST: For some reason I decided to shave my pubes.so I'm in the bath and Im shaving down there,all is well until I get to the much hated 'gooch'.i begin weighing the possibilities-will I cut myself? Or will it be fine? Well it wasn't fine,I cut myself;really badly,...
shaved pubes,cut myself.ended up clogging bath,had pipes removed,their filled with bodily fluids and hairs.awkaward man to man talk then pubes begin itching. Fml<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16M] caught my best friend [17M] making out with my [16F], advice? POST: Okay, so, I'm actually so angry right now. So we've been dating for nearly a year and a half, our relationship was going so well, we'd go on dates, have those sappy movie nights at her house, her parents lo...
Caught my gf making out with my "best friend", he makes the situation worse, need advice on how I should deal with them.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: I had an extraordinarily dramatic falling out with my roommate and left. She destroyed some of my stuff. What are my legal options? POST: The cops were called twice. First by her (she said I wasn't packing fast enough) then once by me after she threw a sealed glass soda bottle at my he...
Roommate detroyed my xbox and some other stuff as I was leaving. Am I able to pin a destruction of property charge on her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Wife(28/f) wants to spend New Year w/ her friends partying away from Me(31/m) POST: My wife is a chinese immigrant and I'm a white american. After we got married (2yrs, dated 1yr) I feel she decided that family events were no longer obligatory to be a part of. We're just retu...
wife wants to celebrate New Year w/ her friends (who are all single) instead of me, I find this hurtful and inappropriate... Am I wrong?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (F19) take the next step with crush (M19)? POST: I posted here a couple of days ago because i wasnt sure if this guy liked me. Honestly im still not sure but ive been flirting more with him and said he looks cute in certain snaps etc. We dont see eachother a lot irl, but whe...
I like this guy and i think he might like me, how do i take the next step when i meet him?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [19 M] afraid to talk to my long distance gf [19 F] about problems I'm having. POST: I have been having a tough year in college. Some anxiety, difficulty making friends, and high stress classes. Most of the time I'm fine, but when my stress starts to mount up, I need someone to t...
Do I talk to my gf about the bothersome things in my life, or should I just shut up about my 99 problems?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: GF [26 F] traumatized and won't talk to me due to slip of a tongue. POST: We just finished a romantic night out yesterday telling each others our deepest secrets and said we'd communicate and make things work on the long term. (we've been together for a year) Once we were in the car...
Misheard something GF said from traumatic experience - asked what she meant - told me she didn't say that and cried the rest of the night. She won't talk to me despite us just establishing that we could talk anything out.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with the guy I have been seeing [31 M] for 2 months, afraid of being the rebound. POST: So I met this guy a few months ago through a mutual friend (lives in another city). I was new to the city and he thought his friend *Alex*, who lives here could help me network to find a...
How do i reconcile my own fear of being the "rebound Girl" and my desire to continue to see where this goes?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [19] F wondering if pursuing a [36] M is a bad idea... POST: Alright, so I'm wondering if seventeen years is too big of an age gap? I'm almost half his age, but really interested in him, possibly more than a friend. We go to the same University, and often run into each other and freq...
Maybe falling for a guy almost twice my age, wondering if we should be friends or if I should make a move? Also, ideas for admitting a crush to an older man without seeming childish?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Ex-GF[21F] of 4+ years wants to be friends with me [21 M] and won't stop hounding me about it POST: -So my ex-gf of 4+ years and I broke up end of July 2014 because she said I was holding her back from doing stuff and she didn't "feel the fire" in our relationship anymore. This wa...
EX-GF of 4+ years wants to hang out and be friends after breakup. Has asked me on 2 different occasions to which I replied no. What should I do now? And is this what she really wants? My friendship?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Found out my dad [60] may be cheating on my mom [56], worse than it sounds, details inside. POST: The other day, my brother stumbled upon a word document on my dad's computer when borrowing it for homework. He sent pictures of the document to me. Inside, was several craig's list styl...
Brother found a word document containing (male on male) BDSM ads, one of which my dad had drafted reply to. Parents in committed relationship. No idea how to go forward.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Some anonymous jerk is sending my [25M] gf [25F] her old nudes from a previous relationship. POST: My girlfriend of six months recently received a facebook message from an obviously fake account (no friends, no photo, etc...). The message contained nothing but a nude photograph of he...
My gf is receiving old nude photos of her from an anonymous sender on facebook. We don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My just recent ex gf cheated on me and now found out she's pregnant [M/23 and F/22] POST: Okay so first things first lets lay down what happened. My ex and I have dated for only a few months we were super happy and in love with each other and felt no need to hide how we felt. T...
Ex cheated on me, is pregnant, might be mine or other guy's, still have feelings for her, want to help anyway i can to fix this<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22M] would like my [21F] SO of 6 years to move in with me. Are we supposed to be 100% financially independent from the moment we move in together? POST: The title pretty much sums it up. My GF and I have been together for almost 6 years now (just a few days to go), and I believe ...
want gf to move in. How to handle money from parents? Do I start spending less money? Are we supposed to be 100% financially independent from the moment we live together?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: What could cause the "about to go on stage / kiss my crush / start an adventure" butterflies feeling in the total absence of legitimate anticipation / nervousness / excitement? POST: So we all know that "butterflies in the stomach" feeling we get when we're about to do something exciting l...
feeling the anticipatory butterflies of an adrenaline rush all day, wondering what might be the cause of that and whether I can just sit back and enjoy it or whether I should worry about it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having a first date at a supermarket POST: This was a few weeks back. So I met this girl online and I was to meet her in Manhattan at 8:00pm. I live out east so the commute is about an hour's drive in. No problem. Get to the toll booth before entering the city, and realize I fucking f...
Forgot to bring wallet do date, wandered in the streets in hot weather looking to use Apple Pay; ended up with our date at the supermarket.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I[27/M] fell in love with a Jehovah's witness[22/F] and she fell in love for me too. I want to make this work. POST: My problem is her family. Her father is an elder at the church, and apparently dating someone outside of the faith could damage his image. I have no religion, an...
I like her, she likes me. Her family wants her to be with a JW, I joined the faith at my own will and they want her even farther from me now.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Farmers of Reddit: What's your life like? POST: I live in London. It's an awesome city with tons of amazing things to do and people to meet, but the more I think about it, the more I feel that as the years go on, I will either not have enough time or enough money (if I spend less time wo...
City boy dreaming of giving it all up a starting a small/medium organic farm. In my fantasies it's an almost perfect life. Correct my misconceptions and tell me the good, the bad, and the ugly. Thanks!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update] I[30F] just found out I might be the other woman. Do I give him a chance to explain? POST: Original post [here]( I finally talked about it with him. He told me they ran into each other at a bar and he wasn't paying attention to his phone, she grabbed it when he wasn't look...
They really are separated, but yup, I'm the other woman. FML. Removed myself from the situation.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Co-signing little sister's Sallie Mae student loan? POST: Hi, so I have a question. My 20-year-old sister apparently didn't get enough money through financial aid to be able to pay for her tuition bill at her college. To be honest, I don't know how billing works at her school but a...
Sister needs a loan to be able to afford school. Parents can't help at the moment. Hesitant about Sallie Mae because I feel like I hear bad things. **Are there any other possible student loan options?** <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU Being a clumsy shit POST: I do rowing, and when it gets hot we sometimes take a dip between practices. Often we get a bit rough, and there's a bit of pushing. We have a female coxswain as well, whom often partakes in the shenanigans. Now this FU is made up of two FUs. The first is while ...
Grabbed coxswain's boob, gave her a black eye, has to remain face to face with her for many practices to come.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I wrong here? POST: My girlfriend (37) of about a year has done a few things that I (35) find sneaky. She used to be an avid twitter follower and (before we met) had several relationships start from twitter connections. She was talking to a guy from twitter around the time that ...
Girlfriend says she loves me and acts like she loves me, has a somewhat precarious past with social media, and has googled some strange things about past relationships.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend 25[M], I feel guilty about things that happened before we were ever even together POST: I've been seeing my boyfriend for around half a year and I won't go into mushy detail but we really are great together. However, every few weeks, I'll start feeling horr...
I am stuck in crazy mode and feel like I did something wrong by entertaining the idea of getting back with my ex before my SO and I were even a couple. Do I even mention it or just get over myself?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24F] physically beat the crap out of my abusive ex [25M] about a month ago. People are either horrified or see me as some sort of example of female revenge, either way I don't want to talk about it or feel like I need to justify myself anymore. How do I get others to move on? POST...
I beat up my abusive ex a month ago. People in my small town see me as a pariah or hero and I just want to be me. Looking for suggestions on how to go forward.<|endoftext|>