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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (28/M) with dating partner (32/F) of 4 months, has she been hurt in previous relationships? POST: I'll cut to the chase. We've been dating for 4 months. Things are going very well. She said we're 'together', isn't ready to throw a title on it, but isn't seeing anyone else. She h...	We've dated for 4 months, she's slowly lowering her guard, bit by bit. Could she have been really hurt before?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32 M] with my new gf [27 F] of 1 month, worried about her ex posting on her FB profile almost daily POST: I recently started dating this girl (27f) after being single for a year. I have known this girl for 10 months now but I was not over my ex so we kept a distance. The breakup ...	Dating 27f who says she is emotionally available but it doesn't show. She keeps communicating with ex on FB publicly almost everyday. I don't want to be hurt. Is this a red flag?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] Sister [19F] is horribly rude to my Mom [50F] and I can't take it anymore. What should I do? POST: Like I stated in the title, my sister and I are staying with my parents while we are on break from college, and I've realized my sister has a real mean streak. I won't say th...	Sister yells at mom when they get into arguments, and it really upsets my Mom. Do I respond or stay out of it? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what things do people insist on doing without reason? POST: -Rant Ahead- My younger brother (I'm 14, he's 10.) is really starting to get on my nerves. We recently got a PC at my Dad's house to use as a shared gaming computer, and we are all fairly tech savvy. Whenever he gets on...	Brother decides Skype kills performance of gaming PC that has 8 GB of RAM despite me telling him otherwise, litters desktop with shortcuts, doesn't know about Steam library.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: After 3 dates, I [22M] was rejected by [22F]. She offers to be friends, and I decline. However, now I am having second thoughts. Am I crazy to think that we can be friends? POST: I normally would just move on, but I think this girl would make a good friend. Quick background: Met thi...	Go out on 3 dates with a girl, and she rejects me but offers to be friends. I decline at first, but now I think I can be friends with her without expecting anything more. Should I try to be friends?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20f'] dated guy [21m] for about 2 months before he began ignoring me, a month later he says hes sorry and wants a second chance POST: I was dating this guy for about 2 months. he was very sweet and took me on dates I met his family and friends and everything. We spent almost ever...	dated guy for 2 months, then dumps me, wants a second chance a month later. should I give it to him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with my girlfriend [20F] of 2.5 years, she caught her parents cheating on each other and she doesn't know what to do. POST: Hey reddit, Sorry if some of this is confusing, I'm typing this based off of the information that I've been given. Earlier this afternoon my girlfri...	Girlfriend suspects her parents of cheating, wants to take action but I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[17M] with my crush [16F] that i talk to on and off since 6 years ago POST: Alright I'm really confused with my situation. There is a girl that I've known since middle school and when we first met we started out as acquaintances. During 8th grade I'd see her I. The halls a lot and...	I have a crush on this girl I used to have a thing with. We're still friends but she's changed a lot this year. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] am feeling unsastified by the girl I'm dating [21F] even though I feel I shouldn't be. POST: I'm currently dating a very sweet girl who I've connected with pretty well. We've been doing great, but there's been a nagging voice in the back of my head telling me that I could be ...	Feeling unsastified by girls physical appearance and feeling extremely shallow about it. On the other hand feeling like I couldn't do any better and would just end up alone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Should I move to another country? POST: Hi, I'm 25 yr/old from Europe. I'm living in a foreign country with my family and my girlfriend of 8 years. My family is living here for about 10 years, I came here 2 and a half years ago and my girlfriend came 1 year ago. We are all living together i...	I want to move to another country, but I don't know what to do because the situation is pretty complicated with my gf and parents.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26m) brother (23m) is a paranoid psychotic who recently decided he doesn't need medicine. In the future how can my wife and I hide from him? POST: I hate my brother. He has every emotional illness you can name. He has been on hundreds of different medication cocktails his entire ...	My emotionally disturbed brother is off his medicine, and one day in the future I fear he will be violent and want to find my family. How can I hide forever?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU The real meaning on "Jerking off" POST: So last night me and my friends were driving and I decided to tell them this story and they wanted me to post it on this subreddit. So me and my older brother were having a conversation about standing up for others and the what to say when you get ...	brother told me that " Jerking off"meant being a jerk. Pushed a kid and told him "stop Jerking off" and the kid was confused and I was embarrassed after learning the real meaning<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by passing out drunk in a girls room which she read as me trying to put on the moves. POST: Be a 8/10 3.14 girl that I met. Well me and her friends go out and get drunk then head back to their place, college apartments. These are apartments where each individual room has its own bathroom...	took a 15 minute shit at a qt πs house which she thought I way laying in her bed waiting for her to come have sexy time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Trying this whole weight loss thing. MyFitnessPal ID inside. POST: So I'll make this brief, cause I'm sure no one wants to read a giant wall of text. I'm 5'6, 250 pounds. I feel terrible an am tired of it. Tired of hating my body, tired of being winded after the shortest of walks or climbs ...	I'm a fat ass looking for friends to motivate me. My Fitness Pal - Tirawi. Add me on there and friend me on here.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [29/F] fiancee called me [28/F] worthless in front of our friends because I am a middle-school teacher POST: I am a middle-school english teacher and my fiancee is a software engineer. I love my job and cannot imagine a more rewarding (or tough!) job. We had a dinner party at ou...	Fiancee called me worthless in front of our friends because I'm a middle-school teacher and "those who can't do teach"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (20/M) long distance girlfriend gets really upset when I go because she is so jealous POST: I met this girl and then she had to move so we've been in a long distance relationship for like 3 months and she told me that she knows she is really jealous and she doesnt want this to rui...	my long distance gf gets really upset when I go out because she is scared of me cheating on her. How do I help her control her fear ?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] for 1 year, I can't get over that she's been with other guys. POST: Even as I'm typing this, it sounds ridiculous but I need other people to help me realize how crazy I'm being. I've been with my girlfriend for one year and love her completely. I...	girlfriend has gotten with other people. it really weirds me out to think about it. any advice besides not thinking about it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [34M] with my [36F] girlfriend of two months, surprised me with sudden anger outbursts (not directed at me) POST: We really hit it off after a few weeks, and we went exclusive shortly afterwards. The chemistry/conversation between us is amazing, and we both share a lot of interest...	GF of two months in high pressure job, recently she gets super angry (at random things, not me) and I get a bit scared. Should I be?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] have a friend [19M] with an abusive parent. How can I be supportive or helpful? POST: Someone I was very close to years ago recently got back in touch with me. Friendship rekindled very quickly but I was disappointed to hear that hes still living in a shitty environment. He...	Friend has abusive parent. Try to keep things positive and remind friend that they are worthwhile and its not their fault. Try to tell them not to make excuses for their shitty parent. Is this right?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 27M working with her her 25F. Broken up 8 months. She cheated. I have a lot of unresolved emotions. POST: Coping with anger So the ex and I met through work. We dated a couple of years. She cheated with a married coworker, dumped me, and started dating a different coworker. I'm...	work with the ex, she cheated with married, she dumped me, and now she's dating another coworker. NC 8 months. I am incredibly angry and have a lot of unresolved emotions.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [15 M] with my crush [15 F] who just got asked to junior prom POST: First: Am I too young to be posting here? Story: So I've been crushing on this girl for the past few weeks, and we were good friends for a while (at least 5 years) before that (we're both sophomores). I was pla...	My crush got asked to junior prom in a few months but I don't know how serious it is. I don't want to make anything awkward. Should I still make a move?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU making a banana smoothie. POST: So little back story. Recently I've started really enjoying smoothies. So I've started making one every night. No problems. Unfortunately the only fruit available to me is bananas. So after having banana smoothies for so long I tried to mix it up. I us...	I eat banana smoothies every night. Start experimenting. End up with banana sauce/baby food crap all in my moustache and a bad taste.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my ex [20 M], broke up 2 years ago, just told him about the miscarriage I had right after we split POST: I was with this guy for a few months when I was in college. Right after we broke up, I found out I was pregnant and then had a miscarriage before I figured out what...	Just told a guy I dated years ago that I had a miscarriage after we broke up, how can I best support him and the feelings he has about it/should I at all?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Having a hard time understanding ex-BF(25M) on his 1 night stand during our break (23F) Need more perspective please POST: First, this isn't about me being upset that he "cheated" because he didn't, we were broken up. And no, I didn't ask him, he told me he slept with someone e...	Can someone please provide perspective on casual sex and how it's different from sex with someone you love? I'm having a hard time moving on from my bf having sex with someone while we were broken up because I can't understand.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Hey, guys/girls. Went through a harsh break-up, all is good now! You can do it! POST: So basically, she was the world to me. I based everything I ever did around her. We were happy, living together for 3 years. It's been 5 months now since she told me I should move on. 5 months since I fo...	Lost weight, saw her out. Didn't think much of it, felt nothing. LIFE IS FUCKING AWESOME. Hang in there if you're struggling!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Dad (67/M) doesn't believe in depression and frowns upon medication for just about any reason. I am suffering greatly. I need help but reaching out to him makes me feel worse. POST: How do I make him understand how serious my pain is? I am incredibly overwhelmed with pain from a s...	How do I approach getting my Dad to acknowledge my pain and help support me? I desperately need support from someone, especially in my family.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What's the best way to handle coworkers [24F and 28M] not inviting me [24F] their wedding? POST: I've been at this job for two years now and I sit next to the man who is getting married. We don't small chat too much, but we're cordial. We talk for about a half hour every morning. He'...	Two coworkers getting married. They invited both departments, but not me. How do I tell them that's pretty hurtful? Is it something I should even think to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] am still friends/coworkers with my ex [24F]. How do I deal with this in future relationships? POST: Some background/context: Myself and my ex dated all the way through college, and split up about 6 months afterwards. We were having problems which I won't go into, but the fin...	Working with an ex, comfortably friends, need advice on how to make sure that this does not cause problems in the future.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] met my new flatmate [2?F] and think I'm thinking of being unfaithful to my GF [24F] of 7 months. POST: * TL;DR:	Met girl more exciting than current GF. Considering infidelity but I know it's wrong. How should I handle this situation and/or how did you?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Help me teach my daughter how not to run over the orange cones POST: My daughter just graduated high school with honors. She received a partial scholarship to a local college. She starts classes in August! We're so proud. One problem though - for one reason or another she never lea...	18 year college student old needs help getting her driver's license. Having a hard time with maneuverability skills test.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] had a threesome with my boyfriend [22M] of one year. Was going to do it again but not sure anymore. POST: I'll keep this fairly short. My boyfriend and I had a drunken threesome with a girl we met at a party, three days ago. I have no regrets about this, and didn't feel jeal...	Had threesome with long term BF. Everything went fine. Now I feel weird because he's really pushing for it to happen again, soon.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Girlfriend [ F, 20] has anger issues.... POST: My girlfriend and I both age 20, have been dating for about 2 and a half years. She had a strict Chinese upbringing, that left her very negative, and sheltered. Her parents are constantly fight which also puts a lot of stress on her. ...	Girl friend gets mad a lot, doesn't wanna talk about it ever, what can I do as a good boyfriend?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Getting over someone who doesn't want me (m21) POST: Ive been in a dying relationship. The relationship started failing two months ago and im having a terrible time getting over her. Ive taken the necessary steps to try and move on but I cant put my love for her away. Im always goin...	Im having a hard time finding someone and its very discouraging. Especially when I don't meet people very often and dating sites dont get me a lot of attention.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: To afriad to change in front of him... POST: We've been going out for almost 3 years now. Both sophomores in college, LDR since the start of college. We've had sex multiple times, but I can't seem to stand up naked in front of him and put my clothes on. I make him leave the r...	Had sex multiple times, too afraid to stand naked in front of him, he's understanding but got a little mad once, and he never compliments my body.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [21f] tell my fiancé [24m] I'm bored? POST: So my fiancé and I have been together for over 2 years. We've lived together for over a year and a half, and I am unbelievably happy in every aspect of our lives..excpect our sex lives. First off, he's a transgender man and so we...	I'm madly in love with my wonderful fiancé, but I'm bored with our sex life. How I tell him without hurting his feelings?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I need to stop behaving like this... POST: Hi everyone, I'd written out a post but it was stupidly long, so I'm trying to summarise! If you need any more details, please just ask :) I have an amazing relationship with my boyfriend – we've been going out for five years and we're bo...	I have major abandonment issues that lead me to harass and torture my depressed boyfriend to reassure me that he's not going anywhere. I need to stop. Help!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is a long distance relationship worth the pain of loneliness and insecurities? POST: My LD boyfriend (20M) and I(18F) have been dating for two years. He lives in NY and I live in Sweden. We only see each other for two weeks twice a year. None of us have currently the opportunity to m...	Dating my boyfriend in NY from Sweden for two years. Distance is killing my feelings and our relationship. What do I do? Is it worth it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] am becoming distant with the friend [21F] I trust the most. Please note there's no romantic feelings between us, we're just friends. POST: * Okay, so here's the story. I met this girl online from the Philippines roughly 3 years ago (I live in Scotland, UK). We hit it off bril...	Becoming distant with my greatest and most trusting friend who lives 6500 miles away. I'm concerned she's going to fade into the shadows. How do I stop this from happening?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: should i marry girlfriend of 4.5 years... however... POST: Reddit, What's up? Throw away acct obviously. However, major life altering predicament I need help with. I'm planning on asking my beautiful, smart and highly courageous gf to be my wife. Me (23) her (22) met in college (bee...	Gf of 4.5 years leaving to grad school. always wanted to marry her. feelings are mutual. thinking of proposing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M/] with my GF [22 /F] duration 2years, dont know what to think POST: Me and my girlfriend are on the verge of breaking up. Let me explain, My GF`s dad has ALS and its in the final stages. He does not have long to live. My girlfriend and I have only had sex once or twice in ...	Me n my girlfriend are on the verge of breaking up due to lack of sex. I feel as if she`s not into me even though she has alot on her plate.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by letting my little bro watch Fight Club... POST: So this actually happened a few months back, my little bro (16) really wanted to watch Fight Club, so I thought ill watch it with him as its such an awesome movie. My bro appreciates classic movies so i thought he'd really enjoy it, whic...	Watched Fight Club with my little bro and didn't realise it would inspire him to create his own Fight Club at school for 12 year olds.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: College student [19 M] just found out my 20 year old [F] ex-girlfriend of three years is pregnant. POST: This is my first post on here ever, so please excuse any errors I make. I'm not really sure if I'm doing this right, but first thing's first, I am going to be a full-time third-...	Ex-gf of 3 years is now pregnant I'm a full-time student with no job, both of our parents can't find out, and I don't know what to do. Please help. :(<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18//F] with my college roommate [18//F] have a weird relationship and I like her a lot. POST: So I met my roommate for this next semester of college in May over an app that my school sponsors. She's everything that I was hoping for in a roommate and I'm very glad to have met her....	my roommate for college is great and I have a crush on her and I feel like she kind of leads me on but I also feel like I'm screwing something up by sharing my feelings for her with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with a guy [22m] that I met online - should I be worried that he's still using his online dating profile? POST: I've been seeing a guy I met on Tinder for about 6 weeks now (usually see each other once/twice a week). We haven't gone all the way yet, but have had several date...	Been seeing a guy on Tinder for 6 weeks; things are going very well. Noticed on the way to the last date that he's still messaging girls on Tinder.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20 F) Want To End A Long Distance Relationship With Him (21 M). How Do I Go About Doing It? POST: I'm going to try to write this in the shortest form I can, so bare with me. I met G close to 3 months ago on a non-dating chat website. We quickly found out we had a lot in commo...	Met a wonderful guy online, started "dating", talked about living together and marriage, came to the realization I don't want a relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How long should I wait to set up a date with a girl if she's really busy? POST: Evening Redditors, So I was walking back to my dorm two weeks ago when this girl walks out of a building and waves at me. I wave back politely, then look back to see if anyone was behind me. Noting that...	How much time should I give a really busy girl to set up a date before giving up? We're both college freshmen.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Newby who wants to lose his man-boobies! POST: Hey all - insert overused long time lurker reference here. The reason I have taken the plunge this very moment, is because I'm fed up of putting it off until tomorrow. I've been doing that for too long; tomorrow should have been 11 months a...	I lost weight, gained more weight, lost a little bit of weight and now want to lose more weight. Help me bruddas and sisters!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Came home from Thanksgiving to find a threatening letter on my door from Super in the next building... POST: So my girlfriend and I came home from a day of visiting family only to find a small bag filled with a few scraps of paper in it (envelopes with our address and names on them) hung...	A small bag of our trash was found in the building next door's trash area and the super wrote us an extremely angry and threatening letter. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my boyfriend [18 M] duration, about 6 months, Boyfriend breaks up with me for no reason, still wants to be friends and this might be a break and time for us to reconnect? POST: Boyfriend been depressed for a week or so, ask him why says he doesn't know try to help him...	Boyfriend broke up with me. Being all nice and friendly, helping me every step of the way. Does he want me back?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28F] have recently found out my mum [65F] is an insensitive jerk online. How do I confront her? POST: Reddit, I'm not sure what to do. Over the last couple of years I've started to notice that my mother shows a shocking lack of empathy for victims of sexual assault, mental healt...	My mum, who has mental health issues, has been an insensitive jerk online. How do I talk to her about her behaviour?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25\M] am attracted to my sister [30/F] and I am disturbed by my own thoughts about her. POST: (x-post from /r/offmychest) earlier this week my sister sent me topless photos of herself by accident. i wrote "umm what?' and she replied 'oops sorry lol my bad. delete those please.' a...	sister sent me photos of herself exposing her breasts, i enjoy them too much and now i think i am attracted to her. How should i get this off my chest to her or should i just keep it all inside?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my more than friend [19 F] who I have known for almost two years (but never met in person), and she wants to start seeing somebody POST: Hey all! First time that I have ever posted here, and I am starting to understand the need for a subreddit like this. I'm absolutely...	Met a girl on reddit, been talking to her for many months but she lives very far away. She met a guy, and I need help letting her go (or doing something about it).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27/f] dad [65/m] keeps finding reasons for me to stay at home. We are like best friends, and there is a long history of conflicting emotions when it comes to me living at home... POST: To keep a long history short: I have the best dad I could possibly ever ask for, or want. He i...	Parents, dad especially, give mixed opinions of my living with them. I am ready, they don't think I am. But then, a minute later they think I do. I'm confused as hell.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me. (23F) and bf (M23) struggled with his sex addiction. How do I trust now? POST: I'm on mobile so I'll give you basic info. We have been together 7 yrs. We are very much in love and aside from this issue we get along beautifully. Off and on he has struggled with porn, nasty perso...	My boyfriend and I have been working through his sex addiction. Now that It's my turn to change I can't.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: I found six kittens. What should I do!? POST: On Monday I pulled six kittens out of my back yard. I live in Philadelphia so it's not really a backyard it's more like a cement slab. I kept hearing a kitten cry so I went outside to investigate. I couldn't find it anywhere so I just let it go fo...	found me some kittens and they are chillin n my backyard. I want to keep one when it is old enough to be taken away from its mother but I don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] with my boyfriend [19 M] of 6 months constantly cancels plans with me :( POST: My boyfriend and I are both science students at a university so we are both relatively busy. I am doing 4 subjects while he is doing 3. He constantly tries to make plans with me but only follow...	Boyfriend constantly bails on plans (from twice a week to once every two weeks) and it makes me sad :(<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to tell my [30s F] mom [60s] that she can't live with us without hurting her too much? POST: Due to a series of bad decisions, my [30s F] mom [60s f] is out of a job (and a few years from being able to draw on social security or her pension), and can't afford… anything. Again. M...	Mom can't live with us for sanity reasons. Can't seem to get that through to her without tears and "unintentional" guilt-trips.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking TITLE: I keep messing up... POST: I'm a pretty new ~~chef~~ cook. I am constantly making mistakes, it seems. I have been trying to make stuff from that Eat Good and Cheap PDF that floated around for a while. ( Last night I tried to make the Creamy Zucchini Fettuccine (which rhymes!) and I did pr...	I'm apparently bad at cooking. Is it worth it to keep trying to learn how to make new things? Am I doomed?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [23M] Recently ended a 6 year relationship with my high-school sweetheart [22F].. How do I get my life back together the right way? POST: While i've heard and tried all the obvious answers on how to get over her, I need some real advice (no drugs/drinking please...i'll explain below)...	23M just got out of 6 year relationship. Can't deal with such an extreme life change on my own, need help doing it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with my girlfriend [18F] she now wants a break and be friends. POST: me and her started talking in December of 2014 and we hit if off really well and we had so much in common and had gone threw many of the similar struggles in life. at first i didn't want to jump into a rela...	I told her i didn't do breaks and that being friends wouldn't work but i don't want to loose her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Gf [f/17] and I [m/17] have been on and off a couple times (multiple breakups), kisses other dude [m/17] day after one breakup, continues trend, back in relationship, what to do with both of them? POST: So, gf and I had strong relationship for 10 months. Then, things started to get w...	gf and I broke up and got back together a couple times, she and friend kiss when not dating, I'm scared she's still really attracted to him, I want to know how to approach her and him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [M/22] thinking of asking acquaintance [F/19] out to a party of close friends. Bad idea? POST: Guy in last year of college here. I started taking this musical extracurricular class two weeks ago and met a sophomore girl who also came there alone like me. We really seemed to click and...	Want to ask a girl out to a party with my close friends, don't know if it'll backfire or make her feel really awkward.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [17/m] Having trouble balancing relationships in the rest of life POST: I have intrinsic motivation that pushes me to succeed in school and extracurricular activities. I also have emotional, physical and mental desires to have a personal relationship; plus, I feel like pursuing...	I don't know how to balance my life goals with having a relationship. I've tried and failed, and I have some ideas for solutions. I would very much appreciate any feedback!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (24F) Having Financial Disagreements with Bf (31) POST: I'm a 24 year old female and I'm having financial disagreements with my boyfriend (31) who I live with. We were friends with benefits for most of last year, our "official" relationship started last December and we moved in toget...	Lived with bf while I was unemployed, now I have a job and he thinks I should spoil him with presents.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to I behave around my bulimic sister? POST: My sister has had bulimia for probably a decade now. Long story short she has stopped drinking alcohol (we think) after a serious hospital trip. Now I am 100% sure she is still binging and purging on a vacation we are currently on. My m...	my sister is for sure purging after eating around my family, parents are too scared to confront her, my confronting her seems ineffectual. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's the stupidest argument someone has used against you? POST: I'm a girl, and I have a twin brother. I was talking to my friend once, and she brought up the fact that my brother and I were twins. I told her a funny story about how someone asked if he and I were identical. T...	Some guy tells me that my twin brother and I are identical, even though we're the opposite gender, and backs it up by saying John Elway had an identical twin sister.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (29/F) broke up with my boyfriend (28/M) of 4 months because of money/career differences, am I horrible person? POST: Met boy, dated for 4 months....questioned our chemistry from the get-go but we had a ton of common interests, values, likes/dislikes, I thought we could build somet...	I make twice as much money as a man I dated, and cited this as the reason to break up. Am I a horrible person?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] having serious issues with my Roommates [20 M] this semester. POST: I got random roommates in my apartment complex this year for school (I am a transfer kid, and didn't know anyone). They are two ~20 year olds who are from Saudi Arabia. At the start of the year, they promis...	Roommates play loud music all the time/ dont respect my "say". Moving rooms would be a serious hassle, but at this point I am open to pretty much anything.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 F] with my entire family; step-dad and mom are having another baby and trying to cope? POST: So my family consists of my step-father [31 M], my mom [37 F], and my three-year old brother. Recently, after I came home from a vacation, they dropped the news on me that I'd have a n...	My newest sibling will be 17 years younger than me and we're moving and I'm not as excited as I feel I should be.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [37 M] with my wife [40F] 5 years marriage 2 children, she has a secret Mr Big POST: Hello, one week ago I thought I had the perfect marriage. My wife and I have great communication, a healthy sex life and our relationship is very healthy. This all changed when I discovered a secr...	wife has a old flame like Mr Big I discovered. I want help bringing it up to her since I technically snooped.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] asked out my co-worker [23F] POST: First time posting, bare with me. About 4 weeks ago I finally got the nerve to talk to a worker of mine that seemed cool at first glance, to my surprise she is better than cool. Getting to know her we share some of the same interest (video...	After asking her out Friday and not getting a no, and texting her yesterday but no reply. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[18M/F] with my ___ [18M/F] duration, short-description POST: I attend a boarding school and I [16M] met this girl [15F] a few months ago. We hit it off and it seemed like everything was going great. She flirted a lot with me and asked me to ask her out to a dance but i couldn't be...	Girl flirted with me a lot and told me she liked me but then when i asked her out she said she just wanted to be friends but she always ignores my texts now so i'm not sure how to mend this..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by unleashing the storm at my girlfriends house POST: Today I fucked up huge guys. I am writing you this while locked inside the bathroom and I seriously don't know what I'm going to do. Here is some background on the situation. For the past few days I haven't been able to poop. I don't ...	Unleashed the storm in my SO's toilet and now I have a chocolate tie, a new pet snake, and a lot of explaining to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] has been talking to his ex. I [F25] don't know how to handle it.. POST: We had an issue less than two months into our relationship. Person text him saying I had cheated. Person is still unknown. Boyfriend said this had happened before. Said he was going to text his ex...	Should I be worried that he is talking to his ex and thought it wasnt a big enough deal to tell me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Ladies, please help me solve my dress dilemma! POST: Going to a friend's party tomorrow, it's a "masquerade ball," and she wants everyone in something sparkly. I have 2 options: one is a floor length gown that I'd prefer not to wear if I don't have to, because I don't want our hoste...	Dress is itchy/intolerable for a whole evening. Hack my dress so I don't upset my hostess!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Bites and barks POST: I've raised puppies since I was little, and this is a new one on me. My puppy only wants to chew on me. He's not being malicious or trying to hurt me, it's just that every time I pet him for more than a minute, he responds by trying to bite the petting hand. I ...	My puppy bites at me playfully every time I pet him for too long, and no redirection method helps him understand that biting is a no.***<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Hooked up with this girl 2 days ago. What now? POST: So I'm having a pretty shitty week at college and wed my friend invites me to hang out with his class at the bar.I'm having a shitty day so I just drink and try to make idle conversation.Notice this girl at the table is notic...	I want to hook up with this girl from my friends class but ended up with another chick, how do I salvage my chances with girl nº1?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] have a hard time getting over my girlfriend's [18F] past even after nine months POST: Some backstory: I have only had one previous girlfriend, and that was for a year. The most I did with her was kiss. My girlfriend has hooked up with (I'm assuming that just meant randomly ma...	Girlfriend was my first, I was her sixth. I think it's possible that I might end up with her, but her past sexual experience really gets me down sometimes because my experiences have only been with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [40 F] with my sister [29 F], she has stopped eating and I'm the only one that takes it seriously. POST: My sister has always been a yo-yo dieter, going from chunky to curvy to skeletal. She fell in with a bad guy who she described as a "feeder," and she ended up ballooning up to ...	My sister is living off of meal replacement shakes. I think her eating disorder has returned. Mother brushes me off. Do I talk to her or wait and see?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Life Advice (please?) Crossroads are a real bitch. POST: I am 24 years old. Due to unfortunate circumstances I currently live in an attic with my boyfriend at his parents house, we currently can't afford to move out. I am planning on going to school next semester, I am currently in pursu...	Take job I don't want with good pay and possibly be stuck there forever ( I've already been in the field for 3 years) or go back to school and remain poor for the next 5 years<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25] with my SO [25], we're having trouble sharing the bed. POST: My SO and I moved in together a few months ago but have been together a number of years. Everything else about moving in hasbeen pretty great but we have trouble at night. We have a standard sized double bed which ...	My SO wakes me up every night by taking the blankets and pushing me to the edge of the bed, how can we both get a peaceful sleep?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm almost 18 and ready to move out as soon as I can, but I have a very emotionally abusive father. Reddit, how am I supposed to leave without tearing my family apart? POST: I'm graduating from my local highschool this Sunday, with an average grade and classes at a local private college...	My father is emotionally abusive to my siblings and me (Mostly myself) and I need to leave for my own mental health, but I cannot without tearing apart the family. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Gf(17) of 8 months and I m(17) are on a break from each other for space and time. Need help POST: So this is a throw away for various reasons, my Gf of 8 months has been acting strange, I ask her what is wrong and she tells me nothing but something obviously was as today we are offic...	Gf if 8months wants a break, she told me she needs space and time from each other, I'm not sure if I've fucked up recently or it's something else.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] of 1.5 years, just told me I'm only sort of trying at us, and only for you." POST: I basically don't know what to do. I asked why we never really talk anymore and her "I love you's" always have a too attached as she never says it first. And then sh...	Yelled at son, Got yelled at by mother(gf), told she loves me but isn't really trying for our relationship any more. Meeting to talk about future if any.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Drowning in Debt, Death Sentence Credit Score & Can't find a job [24f][CAN] POST: Hi There. I am a 24F Living in British Columbia, Canada As the title suggests, I'm in a pretty desolate situation with seemingly zero hope for the future. I Have 8k CC Debt (TD Visa, MBNA Mastercard...	Desperate [24f] Drowning in Debt, has a 360 Credit Score, can't find a good job. Depressed and Desolate. Please help/advise!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[19M] girlfriend[18F] always stops me from touching her, but then always does the same to me without asking and often in public spaces. POST: So me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years and it was long distance for most of that time but recently we moved closer together....	My[19M] girlfriend [18F] doesn't let me be affectionate at all but is herself when we're in public, makes me uncomfortable.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: To be creative or comfortable? POST: Hey Reddit, I'm looking for opinions about pursuing life goals that are outgoing versus ones that are more reserved. I see advantages and disadvantages to both and I'm torn between the two. Here's the thing: I'm a student right now studying in the arts an...	whether you live a progressive or conservative lifestyle, it's possible to be happy, but I haven't yet found my place along that line. Thoughts?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22/M] girlfriend [21/F] of 6 months just told me she cheated POST: I went over to my girlfriend, because we have exactly a half year today. I even bought a bunch of roses for her. When i arrived, i noticed things weren't looking right. I asked her if everything was okay, and she ...	My girlfriend just told me she cheated on me. I don't know who to deal with it. What are your experiences in a situation like this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Europe on a Budget? POST: Hey r/travel. ive been posting stuff here every so often lately because i'm studying abroad soon. i really want to go to a decent amount of popular european destinations, but don't have a terribly large sum of money to go about doing this. i would say about 5000...	i want to go to european countries, but have a limited pocket book. what are some money saving tips around europe?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: [Serious]Reddit, how can I make a livable income from home? POST: My wife has a full time job with a large retailer and she is making her way up the ranks. She has been there for a few years. I have had a few on/off jobs that haven't worked out, and I've been let go a few times in the past ...	Please tell me how I can work from home so my wife can make it to work on time and now have to go bankrupt paying for child daycare?***<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25M] dated [24F] for a little less than a year, but she went back to her ex. POST: We met each other about two years ago, we were both in another relationship. We were friendly, but could feel a sexual attraction between us, but nothing ever came of it. We stayed in touch. About...	Dated girl for 10 months. She warned me not to get too involved as she was still getting over her ex. Last night she confronted me that she was getting back with her ex. Devastated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25/m] have been dating a girl [23/f] for about a month, now she's gone cold turkey. POST: I met a girl about a month ago. Instantly hit off and even got down and dirty on the first night. We've talked everyday since and usually hang out 2 times a week, going out, sleeping over eac...	Met month ago, great in person, but barely talks outside of face to face even to point of going 2 days of saying almost nothing and not making any effort to see me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How can my SO get help for his depression since he currently doesn't have health insurance?? POST: Does anyone know how I can help my boyfriend with his cycle of depression which is affecting our relationship? He currently does not have a career that has health benefits and will soon be ...	Boyfriend's depression is affecting our relationship, how can I get him help when he doesn't have health insurance yet??<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: (Serious) --Not bragging looking for genuine advice-- POST: Alright, so like the title suggests I'm here with (what I believe) is some awesome information and I'm looking to find out how I can use this to improve my quality of life. For background purposes: I'm 23 years old, worki...	Just found out I have a 750 credit score, what can/should I do to improve my quality of life given this factor.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23/F] with my boyfriend [24/M], together for four years. Two years ago he had an emotional affair and today he said really shitty things about what happened that enraged me all over again. POST: As the title says, two years ago my boyfriend got very emotionally involved with a gi...	Boyfriend had an emotional affair 2 years ago. Today he invalidated everything he put me through by saying the only bad thing about emotional affairs are that they lead to physical ones.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I love my boyfriend, and I know he loves me, but he puts no effort into our relationship. I don't want to breakup with him. How can I change this? POST: To start I love my boyfriend. A LOT. But, he never wants to do anything, sleeps 3/4 of his lie, doesn't currently have a job (he's ...	my boyfriend puts no effort into our relationship, but we love each other and I dont want to leave him. any ideas on how to change this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: First year filing taxes for our "big kid" jobs and the wife and I are confused POST: Sorry if this isn't the right place for this, but I tried Google and it didn't help at all. So I graduated school December 2014 and started substitute teaching in a couple districts in January of...	Wife was getting a sizeable refund this year, but for every W-2 I added, the refund got lower, even though we both withheld the same amount.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I end a Friendship over this? (F18, F17) POST: My(18) bestfriend(17) blows me off constantly. She says shes busy when I know for sure she is not. She babysits during the day and then that is it. I have known her for many years. This past summer she started acting funny toward...	My bestfriend is treating me like a stranger. I am leaving for school and do not quite need the stress. Is there anything I can do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: LDR 29f in 9 month LDR with 27m and no sign of the LD part ending POST: me and my bf of 9 months have been in a LD exclusive relationship. he is based in one city and i travel for work. i asked him three times if he wanted me to move and what he thought our long term potential ...	is my LD boyfriend of 9m (27m) not ready, not into me, or just trolling me? (29f) is he just not that into me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: NSV: Ate like crap all weekend, didn't gain a pound POST: This weekend a good female friend of mine from high school came to visit. We haven't seen each other in awhile, and this trip was to celebrate her birthday, so I decided Friday through Sunday would be binge days. Special occasion and...	Thought I was binging like crazy but then realized I was making healthier choices by default and not eating after I was full. Didn't gain a pound.<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (28/M) with dating partner (32/F) of 4 months, has she been hurt in previous relationships? POST: I'll cut to the chase. We've been dating for 4 months. Things are going very well. She said we're 'together', isn't ready to throw a title on it, but isn't seeing anyone else. She h...	We've dated for 4 months, she's slowly lowering her guard, bit by bit. Could she have been really hurt before?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32 M] with my new gf [27 F] of 1 month, worried about her ex posting on her FB profile almost daily POST: I recently started dating this girl (27f) after being single for a year. I have known this girl for 10 months now but I was not over my ex so we kept a distance. The breakup ...	Dating 27f who says she is emotionally available but it doesn't show. She keeps communicating with ex on FB publicly almost everyday. I don't want to be hurt. Is this a red flag?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] Sister [19F] is horribly rude to my Mom [50F] and I can't take it anymore. What should I do? POST: Like I stated in the title, my sister and I are staying with my parents while we are on break from college, and I've realized my sister has a real mean streak. I won't say th...	Sister yells at mom when they get into arguments, and it really upsets my Mom. Do I respond or stay out of it? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what things do people insist on doing without reason? POST: -Rant Ahead- My younger brother (I'm 14, he's 10.) is really starting to get on my nerves. We recently got a PC at my Dad's house to use as a shared gaming computer, and we are all fairly tech savvy. Whenever he gets on...	Brother decides Skype kills performance of gaming PC that has 8 GB of RAM despite me telling him otherwise, litters desktop with shortcuts, doesn't know about Steam library.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: After 3 dates, I [22M] was rejected by [22F]. She offers to be friends, and I decline. However, now I am having second thoughts. Am I crazy to think that we can be friends? POST: I normally would just move on, but I think this girl would make a good friend. Quick background: Met thi...	Go out on 3 dates with a girl, and she rejects me but offers to be friends. I decline at first, but now I think I can be friends with her without expecting anything more. Should I try to be friends?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20f'] dated guy [21m] for about 2 months before he began ignoring me, a month later he says hes sorry and wants a second chance POST: I was dating this guy for about 2 months. he was very sweet and took me on dates I met his family and friends and everything. We spent almost ever...	dated guy for 2 months, then dumps me, wants a second chance a month later. should I give it to him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with my girlfriend [20F] of 2.5 years, she caught her parents cheating on each other and she doesn't know what to do. POST: Hey reddit, Sorry if some of this is confusing, I'm typing this based off of the information that I've been given. Earlier this afternoon my girlfri...	Girlfriend suspects her parents of cheating, wants to take action but I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[17M] with my crush [16F] that i talk to on and off since 6 years ago POST: Alright I'm really confused with my situation. There is a girl that I've known since middle school and when we first met we started out as acquaintances. During 8th grade I'd see her I. The halls a lot and...	I have a crush on this girl I used to have a thing with. We're still friends but she's changed a lot this year. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] am feeling unsastified by the girl I'm dating [21F] even though I feel I shouldn't be. POST: I'm currently dating a very sweet girl who I've connected with pretty well. We've been doing great, but there's been a nagging voice in the back of my head telling me that I could be ...	Feeling unsastified by girls physical appearance and feeling extremely shallow about it. On the other hand feeling like I couldn't do any better and would just end up alone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Should I move to another country? POST: Hi, I'm 25 yr/old from Europe. I'm living in a foreign country with my family and my girlfriend of 8 years. My family is living here for about 10 years, I came here 2 and a half years ago and my girlfriend came 1 year ago. We are all living together i...	I want to move to another country, but I don't know what to do because the situation is pretty complicated with my gf and parents.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26m) brother (23m) is a paranoid psychotic who recently decided he doesn't need medicine. In the future how can my wife and I hide from him? POST: I hate my brother. He has every emotional illness you can name. He has been on hundreds of different medication cocktails his entire ...	My emotionally disturbed brother is off his medicine, and one day in the future I fear he will be violent and want to find my family. How can I hide forever?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU The real meaning on "Jerking off" POST: So last night me and my friends were driving and I decided to tell them this story and they wanted me to post it on this subreddit. So me and my older brother were having a conversation about standing up for others and the what to say when you get ...	brother told me that " Jerking off"meant being a jerk. Pushed a kid and told him "stop Jerking off" and the kid was confused and I was embarrassed after learning the real meaning<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by passing out drunk in a girls room which she read as me trying to put on the moves. POST: Be a 8/10 3.14 girl that I met. Well me and her friends go out and get drunk then head back to their place, college apartments. These are apartments where each individual room has its own bathroom...	took a 15 minute shit at a qt πs house which she thought I way laying in her bed waiting for her to come have sexy time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Trying this whole weight loss thing. MyFitnessPal ID inside. POST: So I'll make this brief, cause I'm sure no one wants to read a giant wall of text. I'm 5'6, 250 pounds. I feel terrible an am tired of it. Tired of hating my body, tired of being winded after the shortest of walks or climbs ...	I'm a fat ass looking for friends to motivate me. My Fitness Pal - Tirawi. Add me on there and friend me on here.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [29/F] fiancee called me [28/F] worthless in front of our friends because I am a middle-school teacher POST: I am a middle-school english teacher and my fiancee is a software engineer. I love my job and cannot imagine a more rewarding (or tough!) job. We had a dinner party at ou...	Fiancee called me worthless in front of our friends because I'm a middle-school teacher and "those who can't do teach"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (20/M) long distance girlfriend gets really upset when I go because she is so jealous POST: I met this girl and then she had to move so we've been in a long distance relationship for like 3 months and she told me that she knows she is really jealous and she doesnt want this to rui...	my long distance gf gets really upset when I go out because she is scared of me cheating on her. How do I help her control her fear ?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] for 1 year, I can't get over that she's been with other guys. POST: Even as I'm typing this, it sounds ridiculous but I need other people to help me realize how crazy I'm being. I've been with my girlfriend for one year and love her completely. I...	girlfriend has gotten with other people. it really weirds me out to think about it. any advice besides not thinking about it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [34M] with my [36F] girlfriend of two months, surprised me with sudden anger outbursts (not directed at me) POST: We really hit it off after a few weeks, and we went exclusive shortly afterwards. The chemistry/conversation between us is amazing, and we both share a lot of interest...	GF of two months in high pressure job, recently she gets super angry (at random things, not me) and I get a bit scared. Should I be?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] have a friend [19M] with an abusive parent. How can I be supportive or helpful? POST: Someone I was very close to years ago recently got back in touch with me. Friendship rekindled very quickly but I was disappointed to hear that hes still living in a shitty environment. He...	Friend has abusive parent. Try to keep things positive and remind friend that they are worthwhile and its not their fault. Try to tell them not to make excuses for their shitty parent. Is this right?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 27M working with her her 25F. Broken up 8 months. She cheated. I have a lot of unresolved emotions. POST: Coping with anger So the ex and I met through work. We dated a couple of years. She cheated with a married coworker, dumped me, and started dating a different coworker. I'm...	work with the ex, she cheated with married, she dumped me, and now she's dating another coworker. NC 8 months. I am incredibly angry and have a lot of unresolved emotions.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [15 M] with my crush [15 F] who just got asked to junior prom POST: First: Am I too young to be posting here? Story: So I've been crushing on this girl for the past few weeks, and we were good friends for a while (at least 5 years) before that (we're both sophomores). I was pla...	My crush got asked to junior prom in a few months but I don't know how serious it is. I don't want to make anything awkward. Should I still make a move?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU making a banana smoothie. POST: So little back story. Recently I've started really enjoying smoothies. So I've started making one every night. No problems. Unfortunately the only fruit available to me is bananas. So after having banana smoothies for so long I tried to mix it up. I us...	I eat banana smoothies every night. Start experimenting. End up with banana sauce/baby food crap all in my moustache and a bad taste.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my ex [20 M], broke up 2 years ago, just told him about the miscarriage I had right after we split POST: I was with this guy for a few months when I was in college. Right after we broke up, I found out I was pregnant and then had a miscarriage before I figured out what...	Just told a guy I dated years ago that I had a miscarriage after we broke up, how can I best support him and the feelings he has about it/should I at all?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Having a hard time understanding ex-BF(25M) on his 1 night stand during our break (23F) Need more perspective please POST: First, this isn't about me being upset that he "cheated" because he didn't, we were broken up. And no, I didn't ask him, he told me he slept with someone e...	Can someone please provide perspective on casual sex and how it's different from sex with someone you love? I'm having a hard time moving on from my bf having sex with someone while we were broken up because I can't understand.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Hey, guys/girls. Went through a harsh break-up, all is good now! You can do it! POST: So basically, she was the world to me. I based everything I ever did around her. We were happy, living together for 3 years. It's been 5 months now since she told me I should move on. 5 months since I fo...	Lost weight, saw her out. Didn't think much of it, felt nothing. LIFE IS FUCKING AWESOME. Hang in there if you're struggling!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Dad (67/M) doesn't believe in depression and frowns upon medication for just about any reason. I am suffering greatly. I need help but reaching out to him makes me feel worse. POST: How do I make him understand how serious my pain is? I am incredibly overwhelmed with pain from a s...	How do I approach getting my Dad to acknowledge my pain and help support me? I desperately need support from someone, especially in my family.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What's the best way to handle coworkers [24F and 28M] not inviting me [24F] their wedding? POST: I've been at this job for two years now and I sit next to the man who is getting married. We don't small chat too much, but we're cordial. We talk for about a half hour every morning. He'...	Two coworkers getting married. They invited both departments, but not me. How do I tell them that's pretty hurtful? Is it something I should even think to do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] am still friends/coworkers with my ex [24F]. How do I deal with this in future relationships? POST: Some background/context: Myself and my ex dated all the way through college, and split up about 6 months afterwards. We were having problems which I won't go into, but the fin...	Working with an ex, comfortably friends, need advice on how to make sure that this does not cause problems in the future.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] met my new flatmate [2?F] and think I'm thinking of being unfaithful to my GF [24F] of 7 months. POST: * TL;DR:	Met girl more exciting than current GF. Considering infidelity but I know it's wrong. How should I handle this situation and/or how did you?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Help me teach my daughter how not to run over the orange cones POST: My daughter just graduated high school with honors. She received a partial scholarship to a local college. She starts classes in August! We're so proud. One problem though - for one reason or another she never lea...	18 year college student old needs help getting her driver's license. Having a hard time with maneuverability skills test.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] had a threesome with my boyfriend [22M] of one year. Was going to do it again but not sure anymore. POST: I'll keep this fairly short. My boyfriend and I had a drunken threesome with a girl we met at a party, three days ago. I have no regrets about this, and didn't feel jeal...	Had threesome with long term BF. Everything went fine. Now I feel weird because he's really pushing for it to happen again, soon.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Girlfriend [ F, 20] has anger issues.... POST: My girlfriend and I both age 20, have been dating for about 2 and a half years. She had a strict Chinese upbringing, that left her very negative, and sheltered. Her parents are constantly fight which also puts a lot of stress on her. ...	Girl friend gets mad a lot, doesn't wanna talk about it ever, what can I do as a good boyfriend?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Getting over someone who doesn't want me (m21) POST: Ive been in a dying relationship. The relationship started failing two months ago and im having a terrible time getting over her. Ive taken the necessary steps to try and move on but I cant put my love for her away. Im always goin...	Im having a hard time finding someone and its very discouraging. Especially when I don't meet people very often and dating sites dont get me a lot of attention.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: To afriad to change in front of him... POST: We've been going out for almost 3 years now. Both sophomores in college, LDR since the start of college. We've had sex multiple times, but I can't seem to stand up naked in front of him and put my clothes on. I make him leave the r...	Had sex multiple times, too afraid to stand naked in front of him, he's understanding but got a little mad once, and he never compliments my body.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [21f] tell my fiancé [24m] I'm bored? POST: So my fiancé and I have been together for over 2 years. We've lived together for over a year and a half, and I am unbelievably happy in every aspect of our lives..excpect our sex lives. First off, he's a transgender man and so we...	I'm madly in love with my wonderful fiancé, but I'm bored with our sex life. How I tell him without hurting his feelings?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I need to stop behaving like this... POST: Hi everyone, I'd written out a post but it was stupidly long, so I'm trying to summarise! If you need any more details, please just ask :) I have an amazing relationship with my boyfriend – we've been going out for five years and we're bo...	I have major abandonment issues that lead me to harass and torture my depressed boyfriend to reassure me that he's not going anywhere. I need to stop. Help!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is a long distance relationship worth the pain of loneliness and insecurities? POST: My LD boyfriend (20M) and I(18F) have been dating for two years. He lives in NY and I live in Sweden. We only see each other for two weeks twice a year. None of us have currently the opportunity to m...	Dating my boyfriend in NY from Sweden for two years. Distance is killing my feelings and our relationship. What do I do? Is it worth it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] am becoming distant with the friend [21F] I trust the most. Please note there's no romantic feelings between us, we're just friends. POST: * Okay, so here's the story. I met this girl online from the Philippines roughly 3 years ago (I live in Scotland, UK). We hit it off bril...	Becoming distant with my greatest and most trusting friend who lives 6500 miles away. I'm concerned she's going to fade into the shadows. How do I stop this from happening?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: should i marry girlfriend of 4.5 years... however... POST: Reddit, What's up? Throw away acct obviously. However, major life altering predicament I need help with. I'm planning on asking my beautiful, smart and highly courageous gf to be my wife. Me (23) her (22) met in college (bee...	Gf of 4.5 years leaving to grad school. always wanted to marry her. feelings are mutual. thinking of proposing.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M/] with my GF [22 /F] duration 2years, dont know what to think POST: Me and my girlfriend are on the verge of breaking up. Let me explain, My GF`s dad has ALS and its in the final stages. He does not have long to live. My girlfriend and I have only had sex once or twice in ...	Me n my girlfriend are on the verge of breaking up due to lack of sex. I feel as if she`s not into me even though she has alot on her plate.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by letting my little bro watch Fight Club... POST: So this actually happened a few months back, my little bro (16) really wanted to watch Fight Club, so I thought ill watch it with him as its such an awesome movie. My bro appreciates classic movies so i thought he'd really enjoy it, whic...	Watched Fight Club with my little bro and didn't realise it would inspire him to create his own Fight Club at school for 12 year olds.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: College student [19 M] just found out my 20 year old [F] ex-girlfriend of three years is pregnant. POST: This is my first post on here ever, so please excuse any errors I make. I'm not really sure if I'm doing this right, but first thing's first, I am going to be a full-time third-...	Ex-gf of 3 years is now pregnant I'm a full-time student with no job, both of our parents can't find out, and I don't know what to do. Please help. :(<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18//F] with my college roommate [18//F] have a weird relationship and I like her a lot. POST: So I met my roommate for this next semester of college in May over an app that my school sponsors. She's everything that I was hoping for in a roommate and I'm very glad to have met her....	my roommate for college is great and I have a crush on her and I feel like she kind of leads me on but I also feel like I'm screwing something up by sharing my feelings for her with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with a guy [22m] that I met online - should I be worried that he's still using his online dating profile? POST: I've been seeing a guy I met on Tinder for about 6 weeks now (usually see each other once/twice a week). We haven't gone all the way yet, but have had several date...	Been seeing a guy on Tinder for 6 weeks; things are going very well. Noticed on the way to the last date that he's still messaging girls on Tinder.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20 F) Want To End A Long Distance Relationship With Him (21 M). How Do I Go About Doing It? POST: I'm going to try to write this in the shortest form I can, so bare with me. I met G close to 3 months ago on a non-dating chat website. We quickly found out we had a lot in commo...	Met a wonderful guy online, started "dating", talked about living together and marriage, came to the realization I don't want a relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How long should I wait to set up a date with a girl if she's really busy? POST: Evening Redditors, So I was walking back to my dorm two weeks ago when this girl walks out of a building and waves at me. I wave back politely, then look back to see if anyone was behind me. Noting that...	How much time should I give a really busy girl to set up a date before giving up? We're both college freshmen.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Newby who wants to lose his man-boobies! POST: Hey all - insert overused long time lurker reference here. The reason I have taken the plunge this very moment, is because I'm fed up of putting it off until tomorrow. I've been doing that for too long; tomorrow should have been 11 months a...	I lost weight, gained more weight, lost a little bit of weight and now want to lose more weight. Help me bruddas and sisters!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Came home from Thanksgiving to find a threatening letter on my door from Super in the next building... POST: So my girlfriend and I came home from a day of visiting family only to find a small bag filled with a few scraps of paper in it (envelopes with our address and names on them) hung...	A small bag of our trash was found in the building next door's trash area and the super wrote us an extremely angry and threatening letter. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my boyfriend [18 M] duration, about 6 months, Boyfriend breaks up with me for no reason, still wants to be friends and this might be a break and time for us to reconnect? POST: Boyfriend been depressed for a week or so, ask him why says he doesn't know try to help him...	Boyfriend broke up with me. Being all nice and friendly, helping me every step of the way. Does he want me back?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28F] have recently found out my mum [65F] is an insensitive jerk online. How do I confront her? POST: Reddit, I'm not sure what to do. Over the last couple of years I've started to notice that my mother shows a shocking lack of empathy for victims of sexual assault, mental healt...	My mum, who has mental health issues, has been an insensitive jerk online. How do I talk to her about her behaviour?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25\M] am attracted to my sister [30/F] and I am disturbed by my own thoughts about her. POST: (x-post from /r/offmychest) earlier this week my sister sent me topless photos of herself by accident. i wrote "umm what?' and she replied 'oops sorry lol my bad. delete those please.' a...	sister sent me photos of herself exposing her breasts, i enjoy them too much and now i think i am attracted to her. How should i get this off my chest to her or should i just keep it all inside?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my more than friend [19 F] who I have known for almost two years (but never met in person), and she wants to start seeing somebody POST: Hey all! First time that I have ever posted here, and I am starting to understand the need for a subreddit like this. I'm absolutely...	Met a girl on reddit, been talking to her for many months but she lives very far away. She met a guy, and I need help letting her go (or doing something about it).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27/f] dad [65/m] keeps finding reasons for me to stay at home. We are like best friends, and there is a long history of conflicting emotions when it comes to me living at home... POST: To keep a long history short: I have the best dad I could possibly ever ask for, or want. He i...	Parents, dad especially, give mixed opinions of my living with them. I am ready, they don't think I am. But then, a minute later they think I do. I'm confused as hell.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me. (23F) and bf (M23) struggled with his sex addiction. How do I trust now? POST: I'm on mobile so I'll give you basic info. We have been together 7 yrs. We are very much in love and aside from this issue we get along beautifully. Off and on he has struggled with porn, nasty perso...	My boyfriend and I have been working through his sex addiction. Now that It's my turn to change I can't.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: I found six kittens. What should I do!? POST: On Monday I pulled six kittens out of my back yard. I live in Philadelphia so it's not really a backyard it's more like a cement slab. I kept hearing a kitten cry so I went outside to investigate. I couldn't find it anywhere so I just let it go fo...	found me some kittens and they are chillin n my backyard. I want to keep one when it is old enough to be taken away from its mother but I don't know what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] with my boyfriend [19 M] of 6 months constantly cancels plans with me :( POST: My boyfriend and I are both science students at a university so we are both relatively busy. I am doing 4 subjects while he is doing 3. He constantly tries to make plans with me but only follow...	Boyfriend constantly bails on plans (from twice a week to once every two weeks) and it makes me sad :(<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to tell my [30s F] mom [60s] that she can't live with us without hurting her too much? POST: Due to a series of bad decisions, my [30s F] mom [60s f] is out of a job (and a few years from being able to draw on social security or her pension), and can't afford… anything. Again. M...	Mom can't live with us for sanity reasons. Can't seem to get that through to her without tears and "unintentional" guilt-trips.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Cooking TITLE: I keep messing up... POST: I'm a pretty new ~~chef~~ cook. I am constantly making mistakes, it seems. I have been trying to make stuff from that Eat Good and Cheap PDF that floated around for a while. ( Last night I tried to make the Creamy Zucchini Fettuccine (which rhymes!) and I did pr...	I'm apparently bad at cooking. Is it worth it to keep trying to learn how to make new things? Am I doomed?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [23M] Recently ended a 6 year relationship with my high-school sweetheart [22F].. How do I get my life back together the right way? POST: While i've heard and tried all the obvious answers on how to get over her, I need some real advice (no drugs/drinking please...i'll explain below)...	23M just got out of 6 year relationship. Can't deal with such an extreme life change on my own, need help doing it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with my girlfriend [18F] she now wants a break and be friends. POST: me and her started talking in December of 2014 and we hit if off really well and we had so much in common and had gone threw many of the similar struggles in life. at first i didn't want to jump into a rela...	I told her i didn't do breaks and that being friends wouldn't work but i don't want to loose her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Gf [f/17] and I [m/17] have been on and off a couple times (multiple breakups), kisses other dude [m/17] day after one breakup, continues trend, back in relationship, what to do with both of them? POST: So, gf and I had strong relationship for 10 months. Then, things started to get w...	gf and I broke up and got back together a couple times, she and friend kiss when not dating, I'm scared she's still really attracted to him, I want to know how to approach her and him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [M/22] thinking of asking acquaintance [F/19] out to a party of close friends. Bad idea? POST: Guy in last year of college here. I started taking this musical extracurricular class two weeks ago and met a sophomore girl who also came there alone like me. We really seemed to click and...	Want to ask a girl out to a party with my close friends, don't know if it'll backfire or make her feel really awkward.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [17/m] Having trouble balancing relationships in the rest of life POST: I have intrinsic motivation that pushes me to succeed in school and extracurricular activities. I also have emotional, physical and mental desires to have a personal relationship; plus, I feel like pursuing...	I don't know how to balance my life goals with having a relationship. I've tried and failed, and I have some ideas for solutions. I would very much appreciate any feedback!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (24F) Having Financial Disagreements with Bf (31) POST: I'm a 24 year old female and I'm having financial disagreements with my boyfriend (31) who I live with. We were friends with benefits for most of last year, our "official" relationship started last December and we moved in toget...	Lived with bf while I was unemployed, now I have a job and he thinks I should spoil him with presents.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to I behave around my bulimic sister? POST: My sister has had bulimia for probably a decade now. Long story short she has stopped drinking alcohol (we think) after a serious hospital trip. Now I am 100% sure she is still binging and purging on a vacation we are currently on. My m...	my sister is for sure purging after eating around my family, parents are too scared to confront her, my confronting her seems ineffectual. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's the stupidest argument someone has used against you? POST: I'm a girl, and I have a twin brother. I was talking to my friend once, and she brought up the fact that my brother and I were twins. I told her a funny story about how someone asked if he and I were identical. T...	Some guy tells me that my twin brother and I are identical, even though we're the opposite gender, and backs it up by saying John Elway had an identical twin sister.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (29/F) broke up with my boyfriend (28/M) of 4 months because of money/career differences, am I horrible person? POST: Met boy, dated for 4 months....questioned our chemistry from the get-go but we had a ton of common interests, values, likes/dislikes, I thought we could build somet...	I make twice as much money as a man I dated, and cited this as the reason to break up. Am I a horrible person?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] having serious issues with my Roommates [20 M] this semester. POST: I got random roommates in my apartment complex this year for school (I am a transfer kid, and didn't know anyone). They are two ~20 year olds who are from Saudi Arabia. At the start of the year, they promis...	Roommates play loud music all the time/ dont respect my "say". Moving rooms would be a serious hassle, but at this point I am open to pretty much anything.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 F] with my entire family; step-dad and mom are having another baby and trying to cope? POST: So my family consists of my step-father [31 M], my mom [37 F], and my three-year old brother. Recently, after I came home from a vacation, they dropped the news on me that I'd have a n...	My newest sibling will be 17 years younger than me and we're moving and I'm not as excited as I feel I should be.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [37 M] with my wife [40F] 5 years marriage 2 children, she has a secret Mr Big POST: Hello, one week ago I thought I had the perfect marriage. My wife and I have great communication, a healthy sex life and our relationship is very healthy. This all changed when I discovered a secr...	wife has a old flame like Mr Big I discovered. I want help bringing it up to her since I technically snooped.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24M] asked out my co-worker [23F] POST: First time posting, bare with me. About 4 weeks ago I finally got the nerve to talk to a worker of mine that seemed cool at first glance, to my surprise she is better than cool. Getting to know her we share some of the same interest (video...	After asking her out Friday and not getting a no, and texting her yesterday but no reply. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[18M/F] with my ___ [18M/F] duration, short-description POST: I attend a boarding school and I [16M] met this girl [15F] a few months ago. We hit it off and it seemed like everything was going great. She flirted a lot with me and asked me to ask her out to a dance but i couldn't be...	Girl flirted with me a lot and told me she liked me but then when i asked her out she said she just wanted to be friends but she always ignores my texts now so i'm not sure how to mend this..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by unleashing the storm at my girlfriends house POST: Today I fucked up huge guys. I am writing you this while locked inside the bathroom and I seriously don't know what I'm going to do. Here is some background on the situation. For the past few days I haven't been able to poop. I don't ...	Unleashed the storm in my SO's toilet and now I have a chocolate tie, a new pet snake, and a lot of explaining to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend [M26] has been talking to his ex. I [F25] don't know how to handle it.. POST: We had an issue less than two months into our relationship. Person text him saying I had cheated. Person is still unknown. Boyfriend said this had happened before. Said he was going to text his ex...	Should I be worried that he is talking to his ex and thought it wasnt a big enough deal to tell me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Ladies, please help me solve my dress dilemma! POST: Going to a friend's party tomorrow, it's a "masquerade ball," and she wants everyone in something sparkly. I have 2 options: one is a floor length gown that I'd prefer not to wear if I don't have to, because I don't want our hoste...	Dress is itchy/intolerable for a whole evening. Hack my dress so I don't upset my hostess!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Bites and barks POST: I've raised puppies since I was little, and this is a new one on me. My puppy only wants to chew on me. He's not being malicious or trying to hurt me, it's just that every time I pet him for more than a minute, he responds by trying to bite the petting hand. I ...	My puppy bites at me playfully every time I pet him for too long, and no redirection method helps him understand that biting is a no.***<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Hooked up with this girl 2 days ago. What now? POST: So I'm having a pretty shitty week at college and wed my friend invites me to hang out with his class at the bar.I'm having a shitty day so I just drink and try to make idle conversation.Notice this girl at the table is notic...	I want to hook up with this girl from my friends class but ended up with another chick, how do I salvage my chances with girl nº1?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] have a hard time getting over my girlfriend's [18F] past even after nine months POST: Some backstory: I have only had one previous girlfriend, and that was for a year. The most I did with her was kiss. My girlfriend has hooked up with (I'm assuming that just meant randomly ma...	Girlfriend was my first, I was her sixth. I think it's possible that I might end up with her, but her past sexual experience really gets me down sometimes because my experiences have only been with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [40 F] with my sister [29 F], she has stopped eating and I'm the only one that takes it seriously. POST: My sister has always been a yo-yo dieter, going from chunky to curvy to skeletal. She fell in with a bad guy who she described as a "feeder," and she ended up ballooning up to ...	My sister is living off of meal replacement shakes. I think her eating disorder has returned. Mother brushes me off. Do I talk to her or wait and see?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Life Advice (please?) Crossroads are a real bitch. POST: I am 24 years old. Due to unfortunate circumstances I currently live in an attic with my boyfriend at his parents house, we currently can't afford to move out. I am planning on going to school next semester, I am currently in pursu...	Take job I don't want with good pay and possibly be stuck there forever ( I've already been in the field for 3 years) or go back to school and remain poor for the next 5 years<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25] with my SO [25], we're having trouble sharing the bed. POST: My SO and I moved in together a few months ago but have been together a number of years. Everything else about moving in hasbeen pretty great but we have trouble at night. We have a standard sized double bed which ...	My SO wakes me up every night by taking the blankets and pushing me to the edge of the bed, how can we both get a peaceful sleep?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm almost 18 and ready to move out as soon as I can, but I have a very emotionally abusive father. Reddit, how am I supposed to leave without tearing my family apart? POST: I'm graduating from my local highschool this Sunday, with an average grade and classes at a local private college...	My father is emotionally abusive to my siblings and me (Mostly myself) and I need to leave for my own mental health, but I cannot without tearing apart the family. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Gf(17) of 8 months and I m(17) are on a break from each other for space and time. Need help POST: So this is a throw away for various reasons, my Gf of 8 months has been acting strange, I ask her what is wrong and she tells me nothing but something obviously was as today we are offic...	Gf if 8months wants a break, she told me she needs space and time from each other, I'm not sure if I've fucked up recently or it's something else.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [24 F] of 1.5 years, just told me I'm only sort of trying at us, and only for you." POST: I basically don't know what to do. I asked why we never really talk anymore and her "I love you's" always have a too attached as she never says it first. And then sh...	Yelled at son, Got yelled at by mother(gf), told she loves me but isn't really trying for our relationship any more. Meeting to talk about future if any.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Drowning in Debt, Death Sentence Credit Score & Can't find a job [24f][CAN] POST: Hi There. I am a 24F Living in British Columbia, Canada As the title suggests, I'm in a pretty desolate situation with seemingly zero hope for the future. I Have 8k CC Debt (TD Visa, MBNA Mastercard...	Desperate [24f] Drowning in Debt, has a 360 Credit Score, can't find a good job. Depressed and Desolate. Please help/advise!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[19M] girlfriend[18F] always stops me from touching her, but then always does the same to me without asking and often in public spaces. POST: So me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years and it was long distance for most of that time but recently we moved closer together....	My[19M] girlfriend [18F] doesn't let me be affectionate at all but is herself when we're in public, makes me uncomfortable.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: To be creative or comfortable? POST: Hey Reddit, I'm looking for opinions about pursuing life goals that are outgoing versus ones that are more reserved. I see advantages and disadvantages to both and I'm torn between the two. Here's the thing: I'm a student right now studying in the arts an...	whether you live a progressive or conservative lifestyle, it's possible to be happy, but I haven't yet found my place along that line. Thoughts?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22/M] girlfriend [21/F] of 6 months just told me she cheated POST: I went over to my girlfriend, because we have exactly a half year today. I even bought a bunch of roses for her. When i arrived, i noticed things weren't looking right. I asked her if everything was okay, and she ...	My girlfriend just told me she cheated on me. I don't know who to deal with it. What are your experiences in a situation like this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Europe on a Budget? POST: Hey r/travel. ive been posting stuff here every so often lately because i'm studying abroad soon. i really want to go to a decent amount of popular european destinations, but don't have a terribly large sum of money to go about doing this. i would say about 5000...	i want to go to european countries, but have a limited pocket book. what are some money saving tips around europe?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: [Serious]Reddit, how can I make a livable income from home? POST: My wife has a full time job with a large retailer and she is making her way up the ranks. She has been there for a few years. I have had a few on/off jobs that haven't worked out, and I've been let go a few times in the past ...	Please tell me how I can work from home so my wife can make it to work on time and now have to go bankrupt paying for child daycare?***<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25M] dated [24F] for a little less than a year, but she went back to her ex. POST: We met each other about two years ago, we were both in another relationship. We were friendly, but could feel a sexual attraction between us, but nothing ever came of it. We stayed in touch. About...	Dated girl for 10 months. She warned me not to get too involved as she was still getting over her ex. Last night she confronted me that she was getting back with her ex. Devastated.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25/m] have been dating a girl [23/f] for about a month, now she's gone cold turkey. POST: I met a girl about a month ago. Instantly hit off and even got down and dirty on the first night. We've talked everyday since and usually hang out 2 times a week, going out, sleeping over eac...	Met month ago, great in person, but barely talks outside of face to face even to point of going 2 days of saying almost nothing and not making any effort to see me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How can my SO get help for his depression since he currently doesn't have health insurance?? POST: Does anyone know how I can help my boyfriend with his cycle of depression which is affecting our relationship? He currently does not have a career that has health benefits and will soon be ...	Boyfriend's depression is affecting our relationship, how can I get him help when he doesn't have health insurance yet??<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: (Serious) --Not bragging looking for genuine advice-- POST: Alright, so like the title suggests I'm here with (what I believe) is some awesome information and I'm looking to find out how I can use this to improve my quality of life. For background purposes: I'm 23 years old, worki...	Just found out I have a 750 credit score, what can/should I do to improve my quality of life given this factor.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23/F] with my boyfriend [24/M], together for four years. Two years ago he had an emotional affair and today he said really shitty things about what happened that enraged me all over again. POST: As the title says, two years ago my boyfriend got very emotionally involved with a gi...	Boyfriend had an emotional affair 2 years ago. Today he invalidated everything he put me through by saying the only bad thing about emotional affairs are that they lead to physical ones.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I love my boyfriend, and I know he loves me, but he puts no effort into our relationship. I don't want to breakup with him. How can I change this? POST: To start I love my boyfriend. A LOT. But, he never wants to do anything, sleeps 3/4 of his lie, doesn't currently have a job (he's ...	my boyfriend puts no effort into our relationship, but we love each other and I dont want to leave him. any ideas on how to change this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: First year filing taxes for our "big kid" jobs and the wife and I are confused POST: Sorry if this isn't the right place for this, but I tried Google and it didn't help at all. So I graduated school December 2014 and started substitute teaching in a couple districts in January of...	Wife was getting a sizeable refund this year, but for every W-2 I added, the refund got lower, even though we both withheld the same amount.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I end a Friendship over this? (F18, F17) POST: My(18) bestfriend(17) blows me off constantly. She says shes busy when I know for sure she is not. She babysits during the day and then that is it. I have known her for many years. This past summer she started acting funny toward...	My bestfriend is treating me like a stranger. I am leaving for school and do not quite need the stress. Is there anything I can do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: LDR 29f in 9 month LDR with 27m and no sign of the LD part ending POST: me and my bf of 9 months have been in a LD exclusive relationship. he is based in one city and i travel for work. i asked him three times if he wanted me to move and what he thought our long term potential ...	is my LD boyfriend of 9m (27m) not ready, not into me, or just trolling me? (29f) is he just not that into me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: NSV: Ate like crap all weekend, didn't gain a pound POST: This weekend a good female friend of mine from high school came to visit. We haven't seen each other in awhile, and this trip was to celebrate her birthday, so I decided Friday through Sunday would be binge days. Special occasion and...	Thought I was binging like crazy but then realized I was making healthier choices by default and not eating after I was full. Didn't gain a pound.<\|endoftext\|>