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kjocip | 1,608,849,761 | 34 | AITA for asking for cookie dough in exchange for buying eggs? | Yes, this is a ridiculous petty argument between siblings, but I am genuinely wondering whether I'm in the wrong for this (and my sister, 15F, is definitely making me feel bad for it). I am 17F. Basically, she's making cookies for our neighbors for Christmas. She asked if I wanted to help, and I said I would if I could... | YTA | asshole |
mxtzjm | 1,619,301,405 | 6 | AITA for closing the blinds? | Late yesterday afternoon, my Gran (late 80s) had a fall while out. To cut a long story short, she has a broken leg which needs surgery but it took us a while last night to speak to her friends etc to find out what happened. I went to her house to make sure windows and blinds were closed etc during the night. We don’t k... | NTA | not_asshole |
suunjr | 1,645,119,929 | 294 | AITA for thinking my daughter doesn't need to go to daycare if my wife is a stay at home parent? | My wife and I found out recently that we will be having a new baby in the fall.
We currently have a 1 and a half year old that will be around 2 years old when baby is born. My wife is self employed so she is able to take care of our daughter on weekdays while I am at work. In addition we currently send our daughter to... | NAH | not_asshole |
oewk7m | 1,625,583,325 | 5 | AITA for wanting my friend to leave after a few days. | My friend (23F)and I (23F) have known eachother for about 10 years. We were friends the moment we met. We are very close to eachother’s family and we have a solid friendship. But Recently she’s been just aggravating me to the point where I don’t even want to hang out with her. When we were growing up we had sleepovers ... | NTA | not_asshole |
104yyou | 1,673,023,724 | 13 | AITA for prioritizing my immediate family over spouses extended family over Christmas break? | Normally my family ( 2 (somewhat older) kids, spouse, myself) would spend Christmas at our cabin and then return to town and spend it with extended family (grandparents, aunts etc). Three years ago my husband's uncle died and since then he insists that we spend Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and Boxing Day visiting with ... | NTA | not_asshole |
s2yn1x | 1,642,077,928 | 886 | AITA for rejecting my husband's constant barrage of clothing gifts and donating them? | English is NOT my first language so excuse any discrepancies.
Me and my husband tied the knot last August and prior to that we have been dating for the past four years.
Anyways, my husband has this incessant and absurd habit of constantly buying me clothing when I did not ask for it. At first I was truly mesmerized... | NTA | not_asshole |
gkeroi | 1,589,567,803 | 1 | AITA for getting mad at my roommate for taking unemployment checks and still working and getting paid under the table | A bit of context, im still working from home and he is out of work because of the virus. He works in window and glass repair so he still gets called in from work to do board-ups (replace broken windows with boards until they are fixed) and then he gets paid cash that isnt taxed. He is also getting paid more on a weekly... | YTA | asshole |
wotv49 | 1,660,550,758 | 1,022 | AITA for taking back what belongs to me? | I (19F) have a cousin (27F) who got engaged about six months ago. During the wedding preparations, my cousin mentioned wanting to buy a diamond necklace to match her reception gown. My aunt asked me if I could let her 'borrow' the diamond necklace I had obtained from my great-grandmother after her death. Everyone in my... | NTA | not_asshole |
1jhv3dq | 1,742,720,443 | 19 | AITA for Not Letting My Friend Stay Over After She Missed the Last Subway? | Context
A few newer friends (met this past summer, hung out 4-5 times) and I planned to go to a club night with free entry before 11 PM. We were struggling to find a pre-drink spot since no one lived close to the club. A couple of days later, two friends decided to skip the club due to low funds and suggested a low-key... | NTA | not_asshole |
1j77dh9 | 1,741,526,056 | 75 | AITA for not bringing my girlfriend to a football game ? | So a little back story, i recently turned 20 and for my birthday my parents gifted me a ticket to the PSG-Marseille Classico in Paris, they gifted me this trip with my brother, so i will take the train/sleep in a hotel and go to the game with him. Prior to booking they did not ask her if she would be interested in comi... | NTA | not_asshole |
svcsya | 1,645,172,143 | 14 | AITA for not wanting to take care of my sister’s dog anymore? | Sorry in advanced as this is gonna be a long post.
Backstory:
I (28F) got a puppy (C) back in Nov 2021 since I have left my job due to burnt out and had more time to properly train and accompany C while securing a remote work arrangement.
A week after I got C, my sister (26F) decided that it was a good idea to get a ... | NTA | not_asshole |
ojrgd1 | 1,626,217,959 | 64 | AITA for yelling at my friends? | My (24f) six friends and I have booked holidays together. Four of them arrived on Saturday, the the rest of us (me, my boyfriend and Mary) are arriving now.
We have booked at the camping a month and a half ago, we all agreed on sharing a 7-person tent.
On Friday, my boyfriend told me than one of the four friends (Mark)... | NTA | not_asshole |
w9l80u | 1,658,944,166 | 1,050 | AITA for refusing to cut my hair for my sister's wedding? | Throwaway account
I (25M) am a long haired dude. For some background, my hair currently goes down to about the bottom of my rib cage. I've had long hair since I was about 5 years old and haven't had a haircut that sat above my collarbone since. It's just how I like it.
My sister (29F), who we'll call Sara, is getting... | NTA | not_asshole |
ggyb2v | 1,589,102,392 | 5 | AITA for not getting this girl I’ve been with for a few months a Mother’s Day gift? | Cause she’s a mom and the sole parent raising her son. I didn’t get anything, I feel like I didn’t need to get her anything because she’s not my mom.
My friend in particular one that knows her well thinks she’ll be upset if I didn’t get anything. Should I have? | NTA | not_asshole |
13x059l | 1,685,571,889 | 7 | AITA for not allowing my best friend to join a Collab I made? | Before I begin, I'd like to explain what a Collab is. A Collab is a multi-owned account on TikTok about a specific fandom or whatever you'd like. Discord is widely used with these accounts as a main source of communication.
Some background information, I've made many collabs before and my friend has joined about 50% ... | NTA | not_asshole |
dlutbq | 1,571,809,360 | 2 | WIBTA if I lodged a complaint against our janitorial staff? | Obligatory long time judger, first time potential asshole.
Some background...about 3 months ago, we got a new cleaning staff at my job, aka one middle aged woman (A) who is occasionally joined by her daughter.
A is very nice, but over the past several weeks has become extremely tiresome. My coworkers and I have a ve... | YTA | asshole |
d4kjvf | 1,568,554,733 | 0 | AITA for calling out an abuse victim? | (I didn't know what to call the post, but I hope this name works.)
In school I have a friend group of 6 people with me including and theres no drama between anyone except that some of us have depression and a lot of issues at home, but we don't bring up that in our little group. Everything was going well until a 7t... | ESH | asshole |
k7tn24 | 1,607,260,812 | 6 | AITA for wearing my dad’s clothes? | Both me (17 M) and my sister (14F) both wear my dads (46M) cloths. I have commandeered one of his t-shirts and we constantly orris his hoodies and jumpers.
My dad has no problem with this, as-long as if he wants to wear something we let him, there his clothes after all.
However my mother (41 F) takes great issue with... | NTA | not_asshole |
cg31dk | 1,563,737,702 | 18 | AITA For tapping a car while parking (no damage) and not saying anything | Had a rough morning today, slept through my alarm and was driving frantically to work, only to find no parking. I finally found a spot i needed to parallel park into and proceeded to do so slowly when the back corner of my car tapped the car behind me. This car had a bumper guard and i was going slow enough that neithe... | YTA | asshole |
w79tej | 1,658,707,163 | 0 | AITA for getting upset about not being a bridesmaid at my brothers wedding? | i know, the title seems weird but PLEASE let me explain. i(17f), have always had a close bond with my brother(20m) which is understandable since we have the closest age gap and are both the youngest. our parents both own their own successful businesses, so we grew up in a very nice home, with lots of nice things. every... | YTA | asshole |
ivt03p | 1,600,523,900 | 495 | AITA for refusing to speak to my Dad after her broke our family apart a second time? | A couple years ago, my Dad had an affair with a 19yo German exchange student that stayed with us for a year. Let's call her G.
When G left for Germany, my Dad stopped sleeping in the same bed with Mom & he eventually moved out under the pretense that he wanted to leave my Mom because she's too jealous and also ir... | NTA | not_asshole |
dg94f2 | 1,570,763,305 | 172 | AITA for throwing someone's sheet down the garbage shoot? | I had my favorite clothes in the dryer (in the laundry room on my floor). I check on them often bc I don't want to over dry/ shrink them. I noticed a nasty neighbor put a fitted sheet in the drier with my clothes. It was definitely not an accident, the drier was running, they had to stop and restart it.
Like) why are ... | NTA | not_asshole |
jb7pz1 | 1,602,704,021 | 19 | AITA for not wanting to pay for sound proofing so that my neighbour can’t hear my TV | (Obligatory sorry for formatting, am on mobile) Backstory: I bought a ground floor apartment 4 years ago and my neighbour upstairs was here already. He is very nice and we get on well as neighbours, we aren’t friends or anything like that. I’m a female in my twenties and he’s in his forties and so is his girlfriend who... | NTA | not_asshole |
fbp68r | 1,583,038,410 | 3 | WIBTA if I asked my roommate to move out? | background: I (32F) have two roommates (25F & 23F) who I originally met through work and whom I’ve known for about five years. I’ve lived with the older one, who I’ll call P, since August and the younger one, H, since December.
In the months we’ve lived together, P has been home an average of 2 nights a week. The... | YTA | asshole |
10g2nji | 1,674,137,436 | 214 | AITA for telling my parents they choose people comfort over ours | English isn't my first language excuse me for any errors.
Yesterday we all ( me, my parents and 3 siblings) were up unusually late at night we started talking about memories and had really great time also we didn't have a family talk for a long time, we spend time in our rooms. *So keep this part for later*
One of t... | NTA | not_asshole |
i9bik1 | 1,597,363,803 | 8 | WIBTA for telling my brother to get his head out of his ass | obligatory mobile upload warning, I apologize. TL;DR at bottom
I (17F) have a younger brother(14M) who will be going to the same high school as me next week. Since we live in a small town with a high school of around 400 students, he has had teachers that I had in the past and will continue to have them. Since I am a... | NTA | not_asshole |
156pa2x | 1,690,045,068 | 1 | AITA Parking next to school. | So, I have kids in school. The school is in a residential area. If I don’t get there early I can’t get a parking place close to the school. There are large grass verges, and the school has told us many times not to park on the verges and recently sent a reminder to parents, telling us that some of these areas are priva... | YTA | asshole |
cv3aia | 1,566,702,374 | 4 | AITA for kicking the cat out of the bathroom while taking a dump? | So my Mom thinks it's perfectly normal to let the cat into the bathroom and pet it, while using the toilet. And she says my Father agrees; the cat is shy and that's when they get their best "petting time". I think this is weird and unhygenic, but apparantley when i told my Mother i had to kick the cat out of the bathr... | YTA | asshole |
xqmj6w | 1,664,394,763 | 553 | AITA for telling a manager at my job "not really" when asked if I want to work on my day off? | Note: This is a repost because the first one was deleted for not giving why I think I could be the asshole
This happened a while ago. One of the assistant managers at my work had spent the entire day treating me like shit and being very rude to me. I was scheduled to be off on the next day off and before I left said m... | NTA | not_asshole |
1dja6pr | 1,718,770,014 | 1 | AITA For Yelling At My Parents Over Chores | I'm a 16 yo male and I;m living at my freinds house right now. I have had a problem with my parents for a long time, ever since my dad got fired whenI was 12, my life has been a lot harder for me. The day he got fired was the day I was supposed to go out to eat to celebrate my perfect repot card for the quater. My dad... | NTA | not_asshole |
w0iehy | 1,657,983,093 | 3,187 | AITA for telling my step and half siblings I am not part of their family? | Here's the deal. I'm 18m. I turned 18 in March and I crashed at a friends place rather than stay at my dad's house. I'm starting to kinda get on my feet, got a place with my friend and we split rent and we are working on our futures together. I have two younger sisters who are 16 and 15. They still live with our father... | NTA | not_asshole |
bm9kph | 1,557,343,553 | 0 | AITA for telling my ex boyfriend to leave me alone after finding out he has been abusing drugs and alcohol? | A little bit of back story: I recently broke up with my boyfriend because I simply wasn't happy anymore. We were heading in different directions in every aspect of life. I wanted stability, to get married, have kids. He was okay with barely working, not getting married, not having kids. You get the point. He also ... | NTA | not_asshole |
tv382q | 1,648,968,963 | 1 | AITA for asking my friend to stop talking about his ex? | hello everyone! it's my first time posting on this forum so i apologise if it's not as juicy as the other stories LOL
if relevant, i'm 20, F.
So my friend (20M) got cheated on by his girlfriend (20F) about 5months ago, and he says that he's over her (he's obviously not).
He talks about his ex like as if she's still h... | NTA | not_asshole |
g8svgh | 1,587,958,589 | 0 | WIBTA if I quit a job I just started | So as of last Friday I started babysitting two children for a Jewish family , usually I wouldn’t mention the religion part but it kinda comes into play. They are very religious where I am not and the parents and their kids constantly talk about the Torah and it just makes things awkward on my end just because I can’t r... | NAH | not_asshole |
1ce2evg | 1,714,181,301 | 1 | WIBTA if I go to a house party when my fiancé isn’t comfortable with it | I (20m) have been with my fiancé (21f) for 6 years. In the first year of dating, I texted other girls and she caught me. We talked about it at the time and she decided to stay with me. I am not going to make excuses about it, it was a shitty thing for me to do and I have done all I can to make it up to her.
I have jus... | YTA | asshole |
bs934s | 1,558,649,862 | 0 | AITA for suggesting my pregnant sister might give birth to a "spacker?" | A very long story shorter (original was nearly 6,000 characters and the limit is apparently only 3,000 so got auto-blocked) but I told my sister than she might give birth to a "spacker."
Context: My sister is 28 and her on-off boyfriend of four or five years is 40 with three kids (11,9,7) already. For around the last ... | YTA | asshole |
1639r3d | 1,693,189,860 | 1 | AITA over a bottle of water? | I left two bottles of water in the fridge,so I won’t be dehydrated before work. I specifically left two because when I only leave myself one, my boyfriend drinks it before me.
Before heading for work, I asked him where the other bottle of water was, while holding the last bottle in his grubby paws, he said he drank i... | NTA | not_asshole |
9uyykc | 1,541,593,356 | 4 | AITA for getting pissed and honking at a cyclist | A couple of days ago I was leaving my school with my and drove past my school where a lot of cyclists come onto the road. I had right of way, however I was very careful because a lot of cyclists don't know or ignore traffic rules and just think they have right of way because they're a cyclist (which frustrates me quite... | NTA | not_asshole |
10oq7il | 1,675,045,706 | 67 | AITA for not returning the dog? | Throw away account, and I'm on mobile, so sorry for any formatting issues.
A few months ago I temporarily homed a pregnant dog that had been abandoned. In the meantime, both the dog and her puppies were up for adoption so they could find their forever families. I'm not a professional in rescuing, but do care deeply a... | NTA | not_asshole |
161kr49 | 1,693,023,011 | 1 | AITA for causing my ex husband to not see his sick father before he passes? | Throwaway account.
I (33f) was with my ex husband (39M) for 8 years. He was in the military and about a year in to our marriage, he received orders to be relocated overseas. I was nervous but I have no family so there really was no reason for me to stay. Two days before we were due to leave, I found emails between hi... | NTA | not_asshole |
18nksur | 1,703,157,709 | 7 | AITA for making my mom sad? | This is my first post on reddit and I'm a little shaky and unstable right now so please excuse me if there are any typos or errors in this
So for context I just got out of school, I'm feeling really tired and a little irritated so when I got home i went straight to the living room and plopped down on the sofa. A few m... | NTA | not_asshole |
u1h4fo | 1,649,709,917 | 5 | AITA for getting involved into my fathers parenting? | So my (23F) father has never really been around, parents got divorced, mom has a happy marriage with her wife now.
I’ve been to rehab (which he paid for, since his job pays a bit better than my mom’s) and tried to contact him as a part of my therapy, and we had a couple awkward conversations about both of us, our feeli... | NTA | not_asshole |
l852j3 | 1,611,956,394 | 20 | WIBTA If I moved out? | Hi. Throwaway I don't want this with my main account.
In the UK lock down has come back and it's been torture. I have an autistic sister, 11, who has been stressing me out. Usually I would have help looking after her but my mum has given up and spends most days in bed, then goes to work. My dad has been stressed in h... | NTA | not_asshole |
jzkw9x | 1,606,149,184 | 16 | WIBTA if I asked my mom if I can look at my report cards by myself first? | So I’m in grade 10. Online classes. And sometimes I feel like I have no privacy. I’m 15 and my sister is in college at 17 BUT we both still sleep on the same bed on the floor of my parents’ room. Granted we’re just living in our grandma’s place while our house is being built but there’s another room that is mine and my... | NTA | not_asshole |
b9w5ko | 1,554,495,677 | 138 | AITA for not attending my friend’s wedding because her husband will be in military attire? | I have been friends with her for 4 years. She is 21 and getting married to her boyfriend who is 24 and an officer in the army. Their wedding invitations came two months ago and I RSVP’ed. Her wedding is in July. There was no indication on the invite that people can come in military attire.
I was talking to my friend y... | NAH | not_asshole |
u1nrqp | 1,649,728,561 | 8 | AITA for how I treated my mom? | I (15m) got into an argument my my mom (41f) at least a couple of hours ago. Things have been tense between me and my mother for a while now. Two days ago I had told my mom how my therapist suggested my mom come in to do therapy with me one day so that my therapist could talk to both of us at the same time and we could... | NTA | not_asshole |
16t2y2o | 1,695,768,757 | 1 | AITA for not wanting to talk to a guy anymore? | AMTAH for not wanting to talk to a guy anymore? I (15F) have this friend (16M) who asked me out. I’m gonna start this off with saying that we don’t go to school together, but we live near each other. He added me off of instagram, (my snap is in my bio) and I added him back. We didn’t talk much,until I texted him. All I... | ESH | asshole |
152evl4 | 1,689,629,906 | 1 | AITA for wanting our car to be on Gabapentin for the rest of summer? | My partner and I have a 4 year old cat (Eustace) and a three year old dog (Mango) that Eustace has known since she was a pup.
Behavioral issues with Eustace started last year when we moved into a home that has a retention pond and lots of wildlife (and stray cats) visiting it nearly daily during the summer.
Apparentl... | NTA | not_asshole |
1aygrky | 1,708,734,849 | 8 | WIBTA If i decided not to sign a lease with my friends after agreeing to move in with them? | I'm in a sticky situation here. Basically, months ago some of my closest friends (1 girl, 3 guys) decided we'd like to move into a house together. At first, i took the lead, compiling an extensive list of all the houses to rent in the area (listing the price, whether it was pet friendly, etc) i took into account every... | NTA | not_asshole |
13gbgk4 | 1,683,965,715 | 46 | AITA For Refusing To Call My Bio Grandfather Grandpa After He Asked | (Fake Names)
I (19f) am the first born child of a wonderful married couple. My dad has a mom, step-dad, and bio dad. His bio dad left his mom for another woman when she was pregnant with him so she raised him and his brother as a single mom for a long time. His step-dad was the person he called Dad and my brother (17m... | NTA | not_asshole |
jqleh7 | 1,604,875,588 | 4 | AITA for calling my moms reason dumb | (I’m new to Reddit so sorry if I do anything wrong) (I’m also 13 and a male)
The story begins a day ago when I was chilling in my room when my mom texted me that she would take me out to eat because we haven’t in a while so I said ok and went to get ready. I got ready and was waiting for her and she said go fix your ha... | NTA | not_asshole |
10r1sez | 1,675,275,595 | 27 | AITA for not being enthusiastic with gifts | My partner told me that I'm an a-hole regarding presents.
On my birthday I got a pair of shoes, which is the worst thing to buy me as I'm very picky (I want anckle support, my feet is between shoe sizes... I usually spend a week looking and trying shoes).
So she got hurt because I wasn't enthusiastic about ... | NAH | not_asshole |
ff5ur1 | 1,583,634,010 | 6 | AITA for not telling a girl that her boyfriend keeps asking for nudes? | This guy who I (F/24) was vaguely seeing when I was about 18, keeps messaging me on all forms of social media. Recently he messaged me while I was at work to tell me that he couldn’t stop thinking about the nudes I’d sent him (about 6 years ago). He then asked me to send him more, and said that he’d only recently delet... | NAH | not_asshole |
i10gz3 | 1,596,166,652 | 4 | WIBTA for not going back to my parents' family name after my divorce? | I am a late-thirties trans woman. I began my transition when I was in my early twenties, and grew up with an abusive mother (I'll spare the details, but I have lingering mental health stuff due to shit she pulled on me from childhood to my late twenties). For that reason, and my mother's transphobic response when I cam... | NTA | not_asshole |
zh64gi | 1,670,613,757 | 584 | AITA because I want my BF to spend Christmas with me without his friend? | ​
**For Context**: Me (26F) and Vladimir (27M) have been dating for 6 years. We’re living together and we’re very happy. We both have great jobs, we’re doing great. Happier than ever.
We’ve spent Christmas together for the last 5 years. Three years ago we moved out from our hometown, and this year, we plan... | YTA | asshole |
15tmzbe | 1,692,277,360 | 1 | AITA 25 YO living at home like a child | I (F53) have been living with my BF (M59) for 19 years His kids were 7, 9, and 12 when I moved in and love them all dearly and would do anything for them but I am also pretty independent having moved out of my family home at 16 and forging my own carrer and life and believe that supporting and enabling them is importan... | NTA | not_asshole |
k4yxp9 | 1,606,871,953 | 24 | AITA for making a big deal about my father posting videos of me on youtube without my permission? | Before I start I'd like to say that I(15f) am a very private person and this has caused some fights with my parents before. I don't like sharing my feelings with them. Recently they've been very hurt by me not wanting to tell them what is wrong with me and just saying that I need therapy. They finally took me to a doct... | NTA | not_asshole |
upfot5 | 1,652,529,329 | 3 | AITA for not paying internet/electricity for a month? | So.. Small Background story.
I am 21 (Nonbinary,they/them) and live together with a good friend (23, Male).
We live together since about two years We have 3 cats currently
Lets call my roommate jack
We both have ptsd, Depression and autism, so its already a thing for itself living together.
So, I guess thats should... | YTA | asshole |
113l9zn | 1,676,534,092 | 185 | AITA for sticking up for my little cousin (11M) and telling his stepmom (29F) off? | I (F16) have two aunts (41F,45F) and one uncle (43M). This weekend my mom (40F), dad (42M), brother (6M) and I went over to my uncle's house for a surprise celebration. We had no idea what was going on and we were told it would be huge news. After the whole family arrived, my uncle and his new wife Katie (29F) announce... | YTA | asshole |
rympwq | 1,641,602,191 | 0 | AITA for talking about my friend in a bad way? | On mobile, using fake names for privacy
I (14M) have 2 friends R (15F) and J (14M), and one person who I'm somewhat friends with, O (13F). This story is about all of them.
A few weeks ago at school there was an audition for a play, and J and O were there. R was not there, because she had found out O was trying out fo... | YTA | asshole |
1g50myc | 1,729,088,720 | 7 | AITA for asking to go to Michigan on my 18th birthday | I 17f am preparing for my first ultra (26.2+) my friend jackson 19f was supposed to come to missouri from ohio to run it with me. (Note: I moved to Missouri right after my high school graduation at 16 since I am an early graduate) However, he got an ankle injury during training. He texted me if there were any more race... | NTA | not_asshole |
iasm57 | 1,597,585,750 | 31 | WIBTA if I didn’t participate in the party my parents are throwing for me? | Gonna try to make this as to-the-point as possible, but I’m pregnant and emotional and still upset a full day later.
So, I (28F) am pregnant with my first. My parents (both 50) came to me about a month ago to talk about a gender reveal party. It wasn’t something my husband and I totally wanted to do, but them being ex... | NTA | not_asshole |
ex6v01 | 1,580,567,327 | 21 | AITA for asking my parents for a birthday present? | My parents are extreme homebodies. For every birthday me and my sis have to come home and the way we celebrate is me, my sis and my mum cook a nice meal. The one and only time we got presents was when we were 10 and for some reason there were no presents after that ever. Neither for Christmas. Me and my sis however wou... | NAH | not_asshole |
yrt3yu | 1,668,117,690 | 18 | AITA for not telling my wife where the keys to the pantry are stored? | My wife (42F) and I(43M) had a little disagreement about keys today. We just moved into a house we finished together, and after installing lots of keyed door locks, I had about 20 door keys from the locksets on my keychain. I plan to rekey all the locks eventually, so this is temporary. Sometimes she uses my keys wh... | YTA | asshole |
1hdb1su | 1,734,092,573 | 7 | AITA for not buying my girlfriend boba when I was upset? | My girlfriend (24F) and I (25M) just had our biggest fight over feelings, emotional needs, and boba.
Things started on my end. I told her I was feeling down because I felt brushed off and dismissed when she didn't call or talk with me after I had asked multiple times after having a really rough day. She replied the ne... | NTA | not_asshole |
afqcuw | 1,547,428,408 | 3 | AITA in this conversation with my mom? | Context: I am staying the night st my Dads to watch football ( I am a teenager and my parents are divorced, my dad likes football and has cable so I go there to watch it) and after football I get into a call with my friend whom I’ll just call X and at around 1130 he mentions going to a dog show tomorrow and invited me ... | NAH | not_asshole |
13sswf8 | 1,685,146,479 | 9 | AITA for wanting to go to a concert instead of my grandfathers visitation? | (Just to be clear I will be attending the funeral )
For context my grandfather was the most extraordinary man I've ever known he was selfless and caring, humorous and he had the biggest heart ive ever seen, he was always going out of his way to do anything he could for everyone he met and he was probably one of the... | YTA | asshole |
e0jiwl | 1,574,524,134 | 670 | AITA for refusing to meet my birth-mother? | A couple days ago was my birthday. My twin sister wanted me to spend this weekend with her (Thursday through Sunday). So obviously, I went to go pick her up. She lives in a group home (due to her adoption falling out). On our way home she mentioned a party on Sunday that our sister is having for her. I wasn’t informed,... | NTA | not_asshole |
iqr6ns | 1,599,833,385 | 35 | AITA for asking MIL to text/let herself in? | So my MIL was supposed to visit for 4 days (she lives in another city). I’m working from home full time due to Covid and have been since March.
I also had a ton of meetings on and off throughout the day the day she was to arrive and my SO would be working (MIL usually arrives very close to when SO is off work so SO d... | NTA | not_asshole |
1c520hd | 1,713,226,213 | 3 | AITA if I drop out of the wedding party? | Long story short - My partner and I share groups of friends together. I met the bride through my partner years ago and that’s how I know her. We’ve all hung out so much and we were all very close. My partner and I were both in the wedding party and we were very honoured.
My partner had an affair on me - and I told her... | YTA | asshole |
zd3v8r | 1,670,238,090 | 612 | AITA for saying my step siblings can’t come on a holiday my mother is planning for the 2 of us? |
I apologize if there are any spelling or grammatical mistakes in this text because English isn’t my first language.
I 16F am currently living with my step father and mother, my mother is planning to take me on a massive holiday for my graduation gift. We were talking about this during dinner and my step father cuts i... | NTA | not_asshole |
c8wghf | 1,562,203,681 | 0 | Aita for only watching the womens world cups to stare at the womens athletic bodies. | I dont like soccer that much at all. I pretend to like it though and act really interested with my friends. My friends (combo of guys and girls) actually like soccer and enjoy it for the sport. When I watch with them I only watch and stare at the girls butts and fantasize about the short soccer shorts and most the ... | NTA | not_asshole |
h7ub2w | 1,591,999,913 | 0 | aita for telling off my mother? | my (17f) mother (34f) has been a tyrant since online school started. to start off, my grades going into lock down all culminated into an average of 92%. in addition to that, my grades could not go any lower than the ones had going into lock down. my lowest grade was an 88.
despite my high gpa, my mother made me co... | ESH | asshole |
mtm5us | 1,618,782,026 | 5 | AITA for being mad at a friend for bailing on her plans? | Obligatory apology for format, since I'm using mobile.
So, this situation may not be as interesting as others on this sub, but I want to know if I'm overreacting to the situation.
At my job, our schedules come out a month in advanced, so if you have plans and need time off, you have to ask a month or so before the ... | NTA | not_asshole |
d07ypz | 1,567,722,896 | 4 | AITA For sending videos to my mum and dad. | so I have a pretty annoying little sister who turned 15 last month, she has started hanging out with a group of girls that I personally didn't trust as I knew one of the girls older sisters and that family is really into drugs and alcohol. I never really told my parents as I figured they knew (the dad is in jail for dr... | NTA | not_asshole |
ptz455 | 1,632,415,007 | 6,683 | AITA for leaving early from my husband's party? | I(28F) and my husband(30M) are newlyweds. We got married this August and had a very small wedding. We just bought a wonderful townhouse that is great for us and our 2 dogs. We both work full time and split the bills. All of the families get along very well and we couldn't be happier.
The only issue that we have is th... | NTA | not_asshole |
zgq537 | 1,670,570,692 | 58 | WIBTA if I kick out my handicapped older brother | WIBTA if I kick out my handicapped adult brother, who begged me to let him stay after his longtime g/f kicked him out, because of his unparalleled lack of hygiene, tendency to manipulate others to pity him for slack, and frequent complete lack of regard for others and their property?
He's turned himself around s... | NTA | not_asshole |
ghyk9s | 1,589,237,918 | 16 | AITA for yelling at my boyfriend about only tipping $1? | My boyfriend and I just ordered curbside pick up from a pizza place nearby. Our order was $20 and I heard him only leave a $1 tip over the phone. When he got off the phone I told him that it was a dick move to only tip $1 on a $20 order, even if it's takeout, especially because the people at the restaurant are working ... | NAH | not_asshole |
zx52tm | 1,672,218,580 | 7,834 | AITA for turning down a place as my brother's fiancee's bridesmaid and telling her I won't be attending their wedding? | My brother is 13 years older than me and I have known my whole life, all 19 years, that he would have preferred to remain an only child. We are not close. He has never had time for me, never wanted me in his life or to be in mine. When he moved out he stayed distant from me. He'd speak to our parents, visit them, but i... | NTA | not_asshole |
191hv56 | 1,704,708,289 | 8 | AITA for not wanting to send money without knowing full price? | My partner wants to rent a car to drive from one province to another. She sent to visit her family and is now looking to return by car. A credit card is required to rent a car and they do not accept debit cards unless you are an international visitor. She does not have a credit card. Her friend that lives there has agr... | NAH | not_asshole |
asi20i | 1,550,625,517 | 1 | AITA for (possibly) affecting my boyfriend’s uni choices? | Hear me out.
My boyfriend has been talking about wanting to study in the Netherlands ever since we met. However, he had to retake his A-Levels exams and therefore missed many deadlines for uni applications, limiting his choices; not to mention he also didn’t score high enough to earn scholarships so many places were ... | NAH | not_asshole |
17rf0mj | 1,699,542,496 | 2 | AITA for trying to calm my GF but using the wrong word? | My (25m) gf (25f), was going to take a local veterinary license exam (something more towards legislarion and acts) tomorrow. Although she said it's open book, she only started actually studying 2 weeks before and she was complaining to me she's troubled and anxious and sometimes don't really understand the question.
I... | YTA | asshole |
tqr0bd | 1,648,525,655 | 21 | AITA for refusing to 15-16hrs straight without any extra pay? | Backstory : I joined this workplace back in last week of October. At the time of joining they said that working hours will be 10-7 and Monday to Saturday - I know the normal working hours are 8-8.5hrs in India but I accepted it since the office was pretty near to my place like within 5kms radius.
But since Day 1 of my ... | NTA | not_asshole |
13wunyw | 1,685,559,316 | 3 | WIBTA for confronting my father about my past trauma relating to him before I move across the country? | Obvious throwaway to avoid being recognized.
I'll provide a bit of background because this post will be me pouring my heart out.
I am 22m, living in a first-world, English-speaking country. I am currently waiting to move across the country, I just need to wait for my mate's home to be ready for me to move in.
My fat... | NTA | not_asshole |
fbncpe | 1,583,029,232 | 133 | AITA for spooning/bear hugging my girlfriend on the air mattress in her parents living room | My girlfriend and I are thinking about getting married so we’re visiting her parents together before we actually get serious about it. They put an air mattress in the living room for us because they don’t have a guest room. I personally wanted to stay in a hotel but my girlfriend said that it was worth saving the money... | NTA | not_asshole |
pzeac7 | 1,633,113,641 | 599 | AITA for Consequences for my 15-year-old son? | My ex and I share custody of our only child, a 15-year-old boy. We were scheduled this weekend to fly around 2,000 miles to a football game, we've done this every year for the last 7 years (except 2020 with COVID). Asked him multiple times to confirm he wanted to go, spent hours and hours and a lot of non-refundable $ ... | NTA | not_asshole |
12b5dz9 | 1,680,572,587 | 9 | AITA to ask for payment from my best friend's sister with disability? | Sorry it’s gonna be really long story and english is not my first language.
I am small business owner f(32). My best friend since childhood moved to another country and started a family there, but we're still close.
Backstory: A few years ago i started my small business. Best friend's older sister ("Older Sister") ... | NTA | not_asshole |
k1b37k | 1,606,377,091 | 514 | AITA for putting my foot down and telling my friend he can't be a part homeowner? | Sorry if I seem to ramble. Also I'm using a throw away as the person I'm talking about know my regular handle.
I am currently in the process of buying my first house and am past the point of no return. The purpose is to move out for the first time with a long time friend. I had discussed that one of us buy a home and ... | NTA | not_asshole |
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