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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19m] confused by my [17f] ex gf, not sure how to procede.
POST: So we dated for 1.5+years and it was very up and down the entire time but through it all we never forgot how to care about each other. Then this past summer, she leaves me, because I'm unable up adequately give her th... | I tell my ex that I've accepted I can't change the past, and that I know I will need to move on from her, she responds that isn't true.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me recently single (approx 2 mo) [27/m] met this amazing girl I'm really into, now having self sabotaging doubts because I fear it may be too soon.
POST: So I broke up with my g/f of 6+ years about 2 and a half months ago. I met this girl on Tinder with the intention of just casually... | Recently single about 2 months, met new amazing girl, having self sabotaging thoughts and don't want to screw it up. Seeking insight/advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24/f] feeling hopeless in relationship with [24/m]
POST: am [24/f], boyfriend is [24/m] of 3 years (well 2.5 as we broke up for a few months). Truthfully, I am unhappy. I am feeling overwhelm with his depression. Growing tire of his lack of motivation and verbal abuse. I under... | My boyfriend is suffering from depression, has no motivation and is verbally abuse sometimes. It's breaking me down, don't know if I can handle it anymore.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] just went out with a girl [17 F], she says she wants to be friends "for now." I want to know if there is hope for a relationship.
POST: I just had my first date with a girl I really like. The date went well; I took her for tea and we ended up talking for over an hour and I t... | I had a great date with a girl. She said she wanted to stay "just friends for now" because she would be away all summer, but we would be going to the same university after that.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I´m pissed off at millions of people!!!
POST: The millions of people sharing this "20 strangers meet for the first time and make out" crap. How many posts I read about how beautiful it is and how it made them smile. Others elaborated more on what this video shows us about the human natu... | Pissed off at reaction to viral video "First Kiss", an advertisement, because it shows lack in critical thinking in our society and further promotes unrealistically beauty standards.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [M27] on the verge of breakup with my GF of 3 years [F22], she's at her mother's house tonight, I could pick her up or leave her there, what should I do?
POST: Some backstory:
My girlfriend and I have had an incredibly rocky relationship over the last 3 years. We have had hundred... | My relationship with my GF is extremely unstable and I can end it tonight by not picking her up. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: General question about relationships from me [22m]. How do you move past the bumps that are bound to happen along the way?
POST: Hey everyone.
I think this is easiest to pose as a general question, rather than to give specifics for my situation (partly because I don't have specifics... | So tell me, /r/relationships...when you think the person is worth the effort, the time, and your heart, how do you keep yourself from giving up?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I have heard in here that you should not support each other financially if you are not married. My boyfriend is the only person who can co-sign for me (CA)
POST: I decided to go back to school. The upgrading portion (since I have been out of school for so long) was covered by a gov... | Need a $5000 Student Line of Credit, which needs a co-signer, only person who can co-sign for me is my boyfriend.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Trust vs. Needs?! Help!
POST: I dated my best guy friend (20 at the time), after my 20th birthday in November. Things were great, fantastic really. We fooled around, never went all the way though. Late December, he got distant, and pulled out of what we were doing because things got ... | Dated best guy friend, break up, end up hooking up a couple times, trust is shot, but want to continue on? Different view points please?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I need some sound advice on young marriage...
POST: My girlfriend and I are sixteen and have been in a loving, committed relationship for well over a year. I realize that we are scary young, but to be honest we are EXTREMELY mature for our ages. (yes, I know that is a far from modest... | We are a stable, loving couple despite our age. However, because of her family and health issues, my mother thinks I should "jump ship" rather than getting more involved.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am a complete mess
POST: Im 18 and i just got out of my first serious relationship and he is 19. I loved him and I like to think that he loved me and we broke up a little over a week ago.
Since we broke up, I've gotten asked out twice both times I said no. The first one I said no ... | just got out of a serious relationship, two guys ask me out I say no because it's too soon. Now I like a guy who lives far away and I feel guilty.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Out of practice dating advice
POST: I (college junior) started dating this freshman girl that I met during the fall in an organization that I am part of. We've gone on three dates, text relatively frequently and have been keeping in touch over the break via facebook messages. So far ... | Been briefly dating college freshman. She appears interested but nervous hanging out with me. I need advice on making the relationship more casual/comfortable.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [29M] got cheated on, should I give my gf[21F] a chance
POST: My gf of 2 years posted online for a roleplay a few weeks back while I was away, basically asking other people to tell her humiliating sexual things to do.
As far as I can say she had never cheated (as in sex or dating)... | GF posted online for humiliation instructions, doesn't seem to have done anything else. Lied when asked about it. Should I continue or talk to her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I give my best friend an amazing prom?
POST: So, like many other seniors, I have my prom this weekend. I'll be going with one of my best friends (I'm a girl, he's a guy). Lets call him Tom. This school year I removed myself from a bad group of friends, losing the group that I woul... | My best friend treats me like the sun shines out of my ass, and I'd like to let him know I appreciate him.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by making a girl cry about her deceased father
POST: Now this just happened.
So we are in drama class getting ready for the big play this week. The whole class goes fine. Now I have 2 friends. Let's call them, Sophie and Sophie Jan, both have the same names but one has the added Jan. So... | made a girl cry because I said a joke that I didn't think about before saying, everyone at school hates me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My bf cheated a long time ago, I just found out, hasn't affected our relationship for the past 2 years. What is my next step?
POST: I am a mid-20s female, dating a mid-20s male for almost 3 years. Long story short: Yesterday I was checking my email on my boyfriend's computer, didn't ... | Bf cheated about 2 years ago, I believe it only happened once, other than that our relationship is great. What to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Already gonna meet her parents, family and friends in one sitting due to misunderstanding. Im feeling really uncomfortable.
POST: Im dating this girl for a few weeks now. In my opinion we are still in the phase of getting used and to know each other. However last week it was her birt... | By misunderstanding im meeting her entire close social circle in one sitting by agreeing to go to her birthday. Thinking of explaining im not ready yet and not gonna come.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: I cashed a potentially bad check
POST: Long story short, I was applying to a few jobs a couple weeks ago. One responds back with a pretty fishy looking email, offering $500 a week to complete some mundane tasks. Seems obviously sketchy, but I figure I don't have much to lose.
Long... | Possibly fell for a check cashing scam, but before I realized it I thought the smart move was to cash it and wait and see that way.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20M] I always misinterpret things and think women are interested in me when they're not. How do I stop doing this?
POST: I have a major problem in my life with thinking that someone is interested in me when she is not.
I guess this issue started when I was in high school. I thought... | I always think women have feelings for me when they really don't, I have no idea how to stop myself from doing this<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[30f],him[27m] after a year of trying, failed friends with benefits, not sure if there's any salvage
POST: He can't enjoy sex with me anymore because it makes him uncomfortable that I want more.
I can't enjoy sex with him because I finally accepted it doesn't mean anything to him ... | Our friends with benefits situation has deteriorated and I'm not sure what it means when he says we're "still friends".<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with my best friend [25F] of 8 years keeps ditching me on my birthday.
POST: My best friend and I have know each other since high school and kept in touch through college. She is a great person but relatively spoiled (lives at home, has part time job)and her parents support ... | my "best friend" keeps ditching me last minute on my birthday. Is it worth forgiving her again or am I just setting myself up for disappointment??<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Credit disaster when younger keeping me from finishing my education.
POST: Hey there PF.
When I was a young man I took out as many credit cards/ lines of credit as a could and was about as irresponsible as i could be with them. I was 20, couldn't pay them, my student loans were g... | How do i afford school without having to work 50 hours a week OR how do I improve my credit score enough to get private student loans.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I deal with my (18m) girlfriend (18f) of 4 years becoming a lingerie model?
POST: Hey,
So I've run into a bit of an issue here and I'm hoping you nice folks can help me out.
I've been dating my girlfriend, we'll call her A, for four years now. She is the epitome of the word ... | Girlfriend is very attractive, got massive offer from magazine to do lingerie shoots, i'm feeling insecure. Halp<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [24 F] of 2 years told me [24 M] yesterday that she had been lying about how many guys she had slept with for our whole relationship.
POST: So here's the story.
My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years, and she had always told me that she was very careful ab... | Girlfriend lied about the amount of people she had slept with for 2 years, turned out to be a lot more then originally stated.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: (19F) Having unnecessary trust issues with my boyfriend (21M) of 1 year
POST: Edit: I posted this on /r/BPD and figured to give it a try on here.
My boyfriend and I have an amazing relationship. We are two peas in a pod, I am his first for many things and I know for a fact he is in ... | My boyfriend of 1 year is absolutely amazing but I feel as if my BPD is out of control with trust issues and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Tax question from a poor guy.
POST: About 5 years about I went to H&R Block to file my taxes and at the end they were like oh you owe ~$600. So I was to poor to pay H&R block to file that I owe money, so I just left. This would have been the 2nd time I filed taxes and the reason I ... | owed $600 in taxes 5 years ago need to make everything right now would have gotten a return the last 4 years but never filed again.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/travel
TITLE: A week to myself in Buenos Aires! Suggestions?
POST: This February, I'll be starting my semester abroad in Buenos Aires, Argentina. However, the cheapest tickets I could get (arriving Feb. 14th) are scheduled for a week before my program starts (Feb. 20th). I have family friends who I can s... | I'm going to Buenos Aires and have a week to myself before my study abroad program starts. I need suggestions about what to do!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [24M] of 2 years, encourages experimenting.
POST: Hello Relationships!
So my boyfriend and I have been together for a bit over 2 and a half years now, he's known I've been bi curious for the duration of our relationship but it doesn't come up often.
Howe... | I want to get down and dirty with another woman, boyfriend says he's cool with it, what if he's not.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by congratulating a colleague for the funeral of his dad.
POST: This happened to me 2 days ago on Monday morning on my intern ship. Also, I'm not an English native speaker, but wanted to share this with your guys
Last Monday I overheard some colleagues that they went to another colleagu... | Congratulated a colleague with his birthday, only to know it wasn't his birthday but the funeral of his father.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/self
TITLE: 28 YO College Dropout, Advice On a Career Change Please?
POST: Preface: At 22 years old, I dropped out of college to start a mobile DJ business and become a partner in a bar. I am now 28 years old and currently employed full time in NYC as a production manager at a successful music venue. In ... | I'm successful as a manager in one industry but want out. I have very basic programming abilities. Should I get a 4 year degree, find a fast track BA or just learn by myself?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Girlfriend (23) and I (23) broke up about a month ago. I need Help
POST: her and I dated for about 2 years. Beforehand we were friends for about 6 years. So anyways we started living together about 7 months in. Everything was going great. Then I lost my job and had trouble keep... | dated a girl for 2 years. Lived together. Lost my job. Broke up because of money. In love with her and will do anything to get back with her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Ways to improve speech?
POST: Hey everyone lately I've been recording myself and noticed that my voice sounds really goofy and slurred up. When I was younger sometimes people would say I mumble but I never had any actual speech problems that I had to get help or anything. (I'm 23 now.)... | Can you help me find free resources to improve my speech since I sound like someone talking who sounds muffled and slurs their words together unintentionally?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: (UK) Money stolen from account by relative; Bank said I either prosecute or they withdraw the reimbursed money. I didn't prosecute, but the money hasn't left my account yet.
POST: So, I won't get into why I did not prosecute my relative for the stolen money (it has been paid back b... | The bank should have taken out reimbursement money from my account about 2 months ago, but despite me calling them numerous times, they have yet to take it out. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Nana passed away while paying for Brother's college. Now he wants me to keep writing checks from her bank account (TX)
POST: update from this:
Bascially, I have been acting as my grandmothers "secretary" since she went blind -- I was writing checks and answering correspondence for her ... | My brother was going to school on my grandmother's dime; now that she has passed away, he wants me to continue to pay out of her account.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, I need to buy an engagement ring for my GF in the next month or so. Anyone had any advice for someone looking to make the purchase online?
POST: Me and my GF have been talking about getting married for a while, but sort of enjoying one another for the time being and putting thing... | I need to propose to my GF in the next month in order to get the ball rolling on our dream wedding, can online retailers be trusted?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Questions about my (f22 & m23) serious long term relationship and possibility of long distance and being open
POST: I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years now. We met during freshmen year of college and started dating second semester. So we both had some time to mess aro... | I have been dating my bf for almost 4 years and we are thinking about being open and having sex with others if I have to relocate for work.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M] with 22[F] known her for about a month, don't know what to think about her expression of liking me.
POST: So I live with my little brother, and he is into the EDM rave scene. One weekend (about 3 weeks ago) he comes back home from a show and invites a lot of his friends. ... | Met girl at party at my house, started talking, but recently not as much. What should I think/do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] hooked up with my best friend! [23M] I feel gross but he seems really excited and happy.
POST: Such a cliche typical issue but it's not super like me so here I am! Last night I hooked up with my friend. I knew I was staying over and before going in kind of wondered if somethi... | sage redditors how do I navigate this without it being awkward and terrible?? I feel like I want to just agree to agree it's nothing and move on, but to him it's not nothing...<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Need help understanding this, help please.
POST: Well to start off I am an M 20, and the person in question is F 19. So, I have been talking back and forth typically via email with this girl over the course of the summer, I met her back in January, and I am confused by some of the th... | Girl says unsure to give me impression of not interested, then acts in ways giving me the opposite impression of her being interested.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My family doesn't accept my boyfriend [M28] because he's white. His wealthy, Southern family has totally loved and welcomed me. How do I [F28] handle this?
POST: Hi everyone. First time posting here, so hopefully I'm doing it right.
My boyfriend and I are both 28 and we've been dati... | My black family doesn't accept my white boyfriend. He's everything they've ever wanted for me -- except he's not black.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [Help] [Discussion] Getting two dogs to get along? Tips? Advice?
POST: Hello! I was looking for advice on getting two dogs to get along. Our dog Cas is 2yrs old, a shy and I'll admit, somewhat spoiled bishon. Since she's been our only dog she's a bit shy around other dogs, and part of that ha... | we introduced our older dog to our rescue puppy and while they seemed somewhat indifferent of each other at first our older dog has become terrified of the puppy, hides, eats less, etc.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not asking a girl out quick enough
POST: So this FU is spread over most of this year. I had this girl in quite a few of my classes sophomore year of high school (I am a junior now) and had developed quite the crush on her. Me, being the little shy kid with bad hair, would not ask her ... | Crush on girl, didn't ask her out. Got close to her in the summer, but then was ignored by her, now she is flirting with someone else<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [28/f] kindly share news of my pregnancy with my SIL [39/f] who can't have children?
POST: My sister-in-law and I have never been close, especially when I was a teen. She has always wanted a baby, will always volunteer to help out with any baby/children related things and ha... | How do I gently tell my baby crazy" sister-in-law who can't have kids that I'm pregnant?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is she [16 F] trying to blow me [16 M] off?
POST: So there is this girl that I have known for a while and am in to. So about a week back I ask her out on a date and she agrees. We go on that date and I feel like it was pretty successful, and at the end she told me that she was sorta ... | Go on date with girl, says she is likes me. Seems like is trying to blow off going on a second date.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [41 M] leaving my wife [36 F] of 3 years. Typed version of breakup letter.
POST: My wife and I have been together for 5 years and married for 3 of them.
About a month ago I handed her the following letter (I've changed the names) I was going to place it on the door for when she... | It's been a month since I gave her the letter. She told me she hadn't loved me in a year and a half and didn't want to work on anything so I'm moving out next month. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] have been seeing this amazing girl [23 F] for a few months, having disagreements on religion
POST: So yeah I [24 M] am an atheist and she [23 F] is VERY southern baptist. We've only been seeing each other for a few months, but she is absolutely intoxicating. I can honestly s... | Atheist meets Christian, falling in love, religion is important to Christian, not to atheist. Looking for advice on how, or if, this can work out.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I am ashamed to admit I have an "overindulgence" problem.
POST: Sorry for the wall of text. I really don't know where to turn.
I am a 24 year old college graduate. I've had a contract job since July 2014. Other than paying bills for healthcare and student loans, I usually spend my money on... | I love food. I love food a little too much now I am obese. I tried tracking my calories but lost the momentum after college. I need help getting my life straightened out.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my GF [27 F] of 2.5 years, are at an impasse. Not sure what to do.
POST: Well, essentially we have been together for 2.5 years. The last.5 year has had a lot of pressure to move in together... which is not exactly the problem. I'm ready to take that step but she beli... | Girlfriend and I need to move to the next step (living together), she says we need to be engaged for that to happen, I'm ready to live together but not to get engaged. Is it doomed?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20/F] my boyfriend[21/M] of a few months essentially cheated, but wont accept my forgiveness.
POST: I really need other perspectives on this/general advice.
ive been away from my boyfriend for the holidays, and he get very drunk for new years at his close friends house (at this tim... | (now ex) boyfriend drunkenly cheated, cant get over it to let me forgive/try to move forward with him<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Disputing dental bills after turned to debt collection
POST: Hello PF,
I've read several threads on debt collections and the proper way to handle them, and was hoping to get some advice to make sure how to proceed correctly.
In 2012, there was a billing dispute with a dental off... | Dental dispute, was told I paid balance in full several times but kept getting revised charges. Sent certified letters, phone calls, emails for 2+ years, only got bills in response. Now turned over to collection agency.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27m] with my summer fling [24f] of this summer. She's moving at the end of August, how do I make sure it doesn't get messy?
POST: We met on the internet, like fucking bosses, and hit it off real well. It took a couple weeks for our schedules to line up, and in the interim between... | I just started dating a lady who is moving away in a few weeks, how do I make sure neither of us falls for the other and makes things messy when the big day comes?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I need help retrieving access to the router (It's scheduled to shut off internet access after 0.30 AM)
POST: Hello reddit,
I am a 19 year old student who still lives with his parents due to financial reasons. The problem is that my parents recently have bought a new router, on which the... | Need help retrieving access to the router, would resetting the router settings on the backside of it work? Will it still function correctly?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: College Freshman, [m18], looking for advice on asking out sophomore classmate, [f19].
POST: Hi there. Glad I found this subreddit because I definitely could use some advice!
Back story:
First day of class, I really didn't know anyone there. This was also a sophomore level class, so... | Want to go ask out classmate on a coffee date and hope that something sparks. How to go from *friendly classmate* to dating situation?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me(20M) with GF(18F) of 9 months. I want to break up but feel like I'm trapped and would be mean to end the relationship.
POST: Good evening,
About 10 months ago I met a wonderful young lady, got to know her, and decided pursue a relationship with her. She has a daughter who is now ... | Want to break up with girlfriend, but don't want to leave her daughter without a father the way mine did to me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: M[21] Girl I've been seeing [18] slept with one of my friends, should I just get over it?
POST: Backstory: I've known her the past 10 months it was only at her birthday (5 weeks ago) i realised we had feelings for each other. Been talking, texting etc. and gone on 2 dates. Then i fin... | Girl I've been seeing [18] slept with a friend of mine. All of my friends are saying I've got no right to be mad at her because we're not going out. Thinking about cutting ties.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by typing my name wrong. (NSFW?)
POST: So this obligatory happened around a week ago.
I work at the IT department in a pretty big university. Last wednesday i was feeling pretty ill, and decided to stay home. If we are planning not to show up to work that day, we usually send an email ... | Sent an email to my work calling in sick, autocorrect fucked up my name to "Analie" I now have a new nickname at work.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M22] asked a girl [F22] out. She agreed, but I don't know if she realizes that I intended for this to be a date. What do?
POST: She's a coworker. We've hung out once before with another coworker, but I want to spend some time with just the two of us. I texted her a couple days ago... | I asked a girl out, but I don't know if she considers it a date or if she's expecting other people to be there.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Was he [38m] just not that into me [27f]? And what does this text mean?
POST: In May of this year, I started dating Paul. At first, our dates were pretty sporadic, perhaps every other week or so. After a few months of dating, we started hanging out more regularly and hooking up.
Af... | It looks like this guy just wasn't that interested in me and now I'm wondering how or if I should respond to his latest text.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Friend [24 F] Know each other for about 6 months, I think i am in love with her, but... she lives in another country.
POST: Okay so this girl and I have know each other for about 6 months, and i am pretty sure i am in love with her. Maybe its because i haven't met h... | I have grown a lot of feelings for a friend of 6 months who lives in a different country. How should i approach this?.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: In a VERY serious relationship, but having major trust issues. How can I and when will I get over this? Am I wasting our time?
POST: I am 20(f) and he is 23(m). Our whole relationship is a long story, but I'll do my best to be precise. We started seeing each other the end of March tw... | Boyfriend cheated, I stayed and found out I was pregnant. We have a child now and I still don't trust him. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I'm looking for a way to organize my music, and my search has reached an impasse. Do you have any suggestions?
POST: I hope I'm posting this in the correct subreddit, so I apologize in advance if I'm intruding. I'm in need of some help. You see, I currently use an iPhone 4, but I'll soon... | iTunes is ruining my life. I need a way to organize my music files on my Windows 7 laptop by what I've already edited on iTunes.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [17M] with my Dad [50M], spending huge amounts of money
POST: Well its in the title, my dad has no financial plan, he is 50 years old and today he bought two massage chairs for 800$, he goes out almost every day to thrift shops or he surfs ebay and craigslist and spend all of his ... | I'm not sure what to do, he wont go to therapy or talk to anyone and he is on the road to financial ruin, he lives paycheck to paycheck and doesn't even have money for next months bills.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I resolve this issue with my roommates?
POST: I moved into an apartment this past September with three other roommates. We each have our own bedrooms and bathrooms, and we all share a living room and a kitchen. I am not close with my roommates; One of them I have only seen a coupl... | Roomate constantly using kitchen for hours on end in the evening cooking, doing dishes, hanging out with friends. I can't use the kitchen.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [34M] fiancee [25F] and I are at odds because I don't want to wear a wedding ring. I think my reasons are legitimate and I am willing to compromise, but she won't hear it.
POST: This will probably seem like a minor problem compared to some of the other posts on here, but I'm hopin... | I can't wear jewelry, which means I can't wear a wedding band. Fiancee is upset by this, and we can't find a compromise that makes us both happy.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Need advice with two strays attacking my cat on my own front yard.
POST: So, my 6 month old cat (I rescued him from the street when he was almost 4 weeks old) has started to discover the outside of the house. Last week he started to get used to wander by the front yard, going by the side of t... | Two strays got used to wander around my yard. I bring a kitty home. It grows up, goes outside and is attacked by them. No idea what to do to protect my cat.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [29 M] breakup or fight for my 3 year relationship with my girlfriend [25F]?
POST: Our relationship was great for the first two years, but when the third year hit, everything went south. We stopped having sex, one way conversations, bored when we are with each, etc. I know t... | Girlfriend stopped loving me, but I still love her a lot. Should I fight for it or just end it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Relatively mundane question about challenging traffic tickets
POST: Hello everyone. First time posting here.
Back story: I am currently twenty years old and have had my license since I was sixteen. I have never been in a collision (with me being responsible or otherwise) and had neve... | drove without headlights, first time ever pulled over, got a ticket. Do I have any chances of getting it waived? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [20/M] being too cautious and boring by not drinking for my girlfriend [19/F]
POST: So my girlfriend attracts a lot of attention, from guys on the street to people we know. I've seen all manners of things even her co-workers who know both of us try to steal her from me. In short... | I hold back on drinking just in case someone hits on my girlfriend and causes a confrontation, is this right or wrong?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [23F]. An acquaintance [22F] keeps a secret Tumblr blog about my boyfriend [27M].
POST: An acquaintance [22F] keeps a Tumblr blog about my boyfriend [27M]. We know it is definitely her blog because it is linked to her instagram account and the Tumblr's profile picture is clearly ... | A girl my boyfriend barely knows keeps a Tumblr blog depicting a fictional relationship between her and him. Not sure if I should confront her about this?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19, M] with my girlfriend [20, F] 7 months, Talking to her Ex again
POST: So I have been dating this girl for about 7 months now, we got together just as she was leaving another relationship which was 3 years, her first true boyfriend.
When we started dating, she did not miss h... | Shes talking to her Ex who was horrible to her and being off with me, what advice do you have for me to help keep things together? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: We just found my missing cat under a foreclosed home in our neighborhood. How do we get her out?
POST: My cat Lyra has been missing for a month. We looked everywhere, made posters, made a CL post, etc. Finally, today we saw her in a hole under the porch of an abandoned home. There is another ... | Cat has been missing for a month. Now that she's found, she's too scared to come out or be rescued.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Be rude? Hear my high pitched scream
POST: Okay so this is my first post on this sub and its on mobile so excuse any typos or formatting problems.
So I was on vacation hanging out by the pool with my family and here my favorite country artist ia comin to the beach and while I was th... | Groups of people would push their way rudely in front of me at a concert so I screamed my best fan girl scream in their ear.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Hooked up with my new roommates who happened to be a virgin. Need advice!
POST: She has been my roommate for not long and stays at the rental house for a couple times every couple weeks. Last time she was over we drank with the rest of the roommates and some friends. Ended up making out and... | Got really drunk, new roommate asked to cuddle. Things got heated and ended up having sex. How do I fix this situation because I still have to live with her for a year.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: girlfriend [20] got drunk and slept at another mans apartment, I [M 23] am scared she cheated
POST: So last night my girlfriend went out to a club with her friend. She told me she would be sleeping at her friends. The next day she tells me she did indeed end up sleeping at her friend... | girlfriend got drunk and slept at another mans apartment, she swears she didn't cheat. Not sure if I am being naive by believing her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [20F] make friends with coworkers [F 40s-60s?] with the significant age gap?
POST: Hi there! Well, my problem is this is my first job (I'm now working in a hospital) that's mainly older women (and one guy!). At 17, I went to college and have my associate's degree in medical... | I'm the youngest in a older male/female profession, I can tell it's sort of a communication gap between me and my new coworkers. Help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Did I [25M] Just Blow My Chance With A [23F] Girl I'm Interested In Over Snapchat?
POST: The context is that we are in grad school, have spent some really good time together in social situations, and I have gotten a lot of signs she is interested in me (touching me, inside jokes, res... | sent a stupid playful snapchat, seems like I got rejected despite having gotten tons of signals she was interested in me leading up to this,<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Need help with my pregnant wife.
POST: Hi Reddit,
My wife is 19 weeks pregnant, woo hoo! We're both really excited about the baby, but the pregnancy has been difficult on our relationship. I just need some wisdom from those who have been there. My wife and I have been together for... | wife suffers badly from stress, is off meds because of pregnancy and not interested in sex, should I lay off about it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (f/24) moved back home and don't know what to do if I see my old friends around town?
POST: I have resentment towards them (2 people, both females, 9+ years of friendship) because when I was going through some deep things they weren't there at all. I had a fling with one of them an... | my best friends and I from childhood aren't on good terms. I moved back to my old town? I have resentment towards them but still love them. Idk how I should respond if I see them (which will happen)?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Surprise to me! My [24 M] girlfriend [25 F] of two years is on vacation in Rio with two guys.
POST: So I learned yesterday that my girlfriend of two years is staying in a hostel in Rio de Janeiro with two of her male friends from college. She had traveled with them previously before,... | Girlfriend is on vacation with two males. I trust her, she took offense to the fact I considered it inappropriate and weird. not sure why I feel so anxious and bad about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I think that some close friends snubbed me. What should I do?
POST: This might seem like making a mountain out of a molehill, but I honestly think something is wrong here.
These friends of mine, a couple I have known for years, didn't invite me to their party (I know how minor that soun... | good friends of mine didn't invite me to their party, feeling snubbed, not sure if to ask about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (f) 25, an only child and my parents are divorcing
POST: It's been 8 months since my dad announced he was no longer in love with my mum, had found another woman and wanted a divorce. It came completely out of the blue to both me and my mum.
The marriage had been rocky for years... | 8 months ago my dad walked out on a 35 year marriage and left the family in the pieces. I'm stuck in the middle of 2 highly emotional, blackmailing parents at the age of 25.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24, Female], I can't figure out why people don't like me
POST: I am almost 25 years old, and have achieved very little so far due to having a very rough life. Now, for the first time, I am completely happy with who I am and am thoroughly enjoying living. I am now trying to find a... | I'm a great person who keeps getting bad luck. I've never loved before, I think that may have something to do with it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not putting the cat out.
POST: This happened a while ago. When I get in from work, i take off all my motorbike gear and set it down inside the front door. That evening, I'd forgotten to put one of our cats, Frodo, out for the night.
I came down in the morning, all was well, putting ... | Cat pissed on floor, soaked bottom of bike helmet, face got covered in cat piss, had to wear carrier bag over my head in side pissy helmet for two days. Ammonia is horrible.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Complete lack of give a damn and motivation at my job. Advice please?
POST: Hey Reddit, I work full-time as a programmer at a company. I've been there about two and a half years, but the last 6 months or so I've completely lost any motivation to do a single thing. I try to force myself... | I have 100% apathy at my job, and can't force myself to accomplish anything. What would you do to solve this, and how would you bring it up to your boss, if that's needed?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Calling all Engineers! What would you say... you do here?
POST: I'm finishing up a masters degree in opera singing in Vienna, Austria, and I've been scraping by teaching English these past few years to pay the bills. Now I have another couple of years, probably, before I'm competitive ... | I have a B.S. in Mechanical Engineering but haven't used it, and I'd like to know what an engineering job is like to see if it's something I'd be interested in.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My sister [F25] met her boyfriend[M26] on eHarmony and they've been living together for 2 years, but he won't make a commitment.
POST: My question is, what is the right decision for my sister(25) to do? Her boyfriend(26) has admitted to my father that he has no intentions of marriage... | Sister's boyfriend has made it clear he does not want the relationship to move further, what is the right thing for my sister to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my [18 F] Do you think she is just being nice?
POST: So I went out with this girl last week it went ok and she said that we should hangout more. I asked her on Thursday is she wants to hang out this week end and she said "Yeah Maybe". I thought that she lost interest s... | Wondering if girl is being nice or kinda likes me? What should I do to show her that I like her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [36F] have spent every single Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas with my husband's [40M] family and wanted to spend this Christmas with my family.
POST: I [36F] have spent every single Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas with my husband's [40M] family and wanted to spend this year... | I want a stress-free Christmas at home with my husband and kids this year.; my husband insists we spend this holiday the same way we spend every single other holiday...with his family. What to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to get rid of a fly.
POST: Not TIFU, but last week so I figure close enough. Apologies in advance for grammar / layout, on a crappy phone at the moment.
Australia's a wonderful place. Boiling hot summer complete with hordes of flies make for a good Christmas time. Anyway last ... | Tried to stop a fly from going up my nose, ended up blasting snot all over my phone, giving myself a bleeding nose and burning my eyelids.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Lawyers/ethics junkies/landlords of reddit... Would love your opinion.
POST: I moved into a house with 4 other people in August. On September 23rd, I broke my wrist. The broken wrist rendered me unable to perform my duties at my job, so I was put "on call" and was basically laid off (the... | Broke wrist, got kicked out of house, am still being bugged to pay rent and utilities even though I don't live there anymore and roommates vetoed my reasonable suggestions of people who COULD live there and pay it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: What should I do?
POST: So this girl and I have been talking for quite a while, we met each other last year and became good friends over that time. I always thought she was cute, but she never seemed interested in anything more, so I never pushed the issue.
Then at the start of summ... | Hooked up with a good friend of mine, not sure how to react or talk to her about the situation. Need advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Security Guards of Reddit, what are your best stories?
POST: I used to work un-official security for Hollister, we were one of the smaller stores and weren't classed as important enough to be assigned security.
One day I'm stood talking to a customer and a guy walks in, picks up a stack ... | Guy steals t-shirts, I wiped him out and give Indiana Jones'esque quote to all the people stood watching.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the nastiest thing you've ever experienced during sex?
POST: When I was a teenager I was quite the lady slayer (lol jk) but one time I struck gold with a girl who wanted to hook up but didn't want a relationship. Basically the most amazing thing ever. She had given me head a few t... | I was having sex with an alleged "ho" and she popped her cherry all over my couch and me. Even on my brand new shoes.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Is having children objectively worth it?
POST: I have been thinking about this a lot lately. Am a mid-20's male with a SO that has a desire for a couple rug rats. Problem is... all my adult life I have been staunchly against the concept. Even though as of late I have had an inkling that ... | Don't think kids are worth the energy input to happiness output ratio... Hope reddit can either enforce my ideas or lead me to new ones... Thanks<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24F] with my SO [26 M] of 1 year - need help navigating communication issues.
POST: SO and I have been together for just about 1 year, living together for 5 months. We both have stable jobs, have similar lifestyles/humor/interests/hobbies, etc.
The only area where we really diff... | SO and I have opposite communication styles. How to tackle this early on so that it doesn't fester as the relationship grows?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, over the past few weeks my girlfriend let another guy pursue her. Should I be worried?
POST: I've been dating this girl for nearly two years and we've had a lot of amazing times. I started grad school this past year and have had increasingly less time with her as time went on. S... | my girlfriend of two years let another guy pursue her, but says it was innocent. Either way, I am in a bad place right now. Please help.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Redditors, Have you ever had a plausible idea for a genius invention?
POST: Hi reddit, I'm 19 and I currently go to Virginia Tech University in the U.S. Ever since I was little i would always come up with inventions in my mind that I didn't have the ability to make myself and would never... | I came up with an idea to speed up finding spaces in parking garages years ago, never did anything about it and someone else invented it recently. Any of you have similar stories?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Should I [17/m] learn to socialize with everyone or try to get one really good friend?
POST: I'll make it short. I've always been really bad at socializing with everyone when I am somewhere with people around. I don't really care for meaningless hanging around, but I always wan... | Should I attempt to become closer friends with someone (I already have at least one in my mind) or should I try to find enjoyment out of casual hanging around?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [F/22] with my gf [F/22], of 7 months -- Question about a "free pass" for my semester abroad
POST: My girlfriend and I are doing a long distance relationship for 4 months starting in January. She said that wants me to be able to have sex with who ever I want to get more experience... | Girlfriend has given me free pass while in another state for one semester so that I can get on her level regarding sex. Should I take it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19F] left a note for my friend [18F] telling her to break up with her boyfriend [18M] of one year.
POST: So, there's a bit of a backstory here that I'll try to keep you updated on.
My friend's boyfriend is, for want of a better word, not a fantastic guy. He's always been pretty c... | Good friend of mine has an abusive boyfriend. I left her a note telling her she should consider leaving him, and he got angry.<|endoftext|> |
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