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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20F] have caught my dad [58M] explicitly talking to another woman. This is not the first instance. Reddit, how can I help my mom [48F].
POST: Reddit, I have just caught my father explicitly speaking to a woman over Facebook from his homeland that he plans to visit in December. His... | I caught my dad cheating again. I have not told my mom yet. But in this case, what can my mother and I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, if you could drop all ties to your current life (jobs, relationships, etc), what new direction would you take? What would you do that you felt unable to before?
POST: We've all built up a structured life based on family, friendships, jobs, all your social obligations and expectat... | Reddit, you've dropped all your baggage and are free to carry on as you wish. How would you take advantage of this? How would you try to do things differently?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Not sure what to do
POST: So, a few months ago (maybe 5 or 6) I read messages on my bfs phone to this girl who sent him this dirty message and then another one saying "sorry, you're the only person who wont think Im weird when sending messages like that". His reply was somethin... | bf recieved dirty messages a while ago, asked him not talk to her anymore, found messages from her from 3 days ago.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22F) have become increasingly attracted to muscular men. My boyfriend (23M) is a beanpole.
POST: My boyfriend is 5'9, 130 pounds. So I suppose he isn't a beanpole, he's at a comfortable weight. Skinny used to be my type, and to be fair I still find my boyfriend very attractive. ... | I've lately started to prefer somewhat muscular guys over thin guys, but my boyfriend is very thin. I feel bad and worry about losing attraction.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend (18f) seems a little controlling to me (18m) but maybe I'm the one completely far off and wrong.
POST: I'll try and keep this short for everyone.
Me and my girlfriend have been together for 14 months tomorrow but have continued to fight over me talking to other girls. An... | Girlfriend wants me to tell her everytime I talk via text or social media with someone of the opposite gender. I think its kinda controlling.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Might be catching feels again for bestfriend [20/F] that I [19/M] went on a couple of dates with way back when. What do, Reddit? What do?
POST: End of high school, my best friend and I mutually admitted to liking each other and decided to go on a couple of dates. Due to schedul... | went on a few dates 2yrs ago with best friend, but it never lead to relationship. Might be catching feels again and don't want to hurt our friendship or her relationship. (See questions above)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my ~GF [25? F] of ~2 years. She thinks the best part about me is how funny my girlfriend is... How do I tell her the truth?
POST: Hi there /r/relationships!
My ~ex girlfriend and I have been kinda together for about 2 years now. I use the approximate "~" sign since sh... | My girlfriend tells me the best part about me is how funny my girlfriend is, when really I think its 5th best. This makes me feel really inferior and insecure. How do I tell her she is wrong?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (28f) hate being his (30m) mistress (2.5 months)
POST: My new not-yet boyfriend still has a wife, but they've been separated for almost a year. They're at the very end of their divorce. My understanding is that all the paperwork, except the final papers, has been signed.
So far t... | I'm sleeping with another woman's husband, and I'm torn between feeling really bad about it and not giving a crap, to the point where I wish he did not care either.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [20/M] have no idea what I should do with my relationship with her [22/M]
POST: I've been kind-of (Explain in a minute) seeing this girl *Laura for the last five months. We met in April at college and were seeing each other for a while. But I kept having doubts about us that I coul... | Considering being friends or something more with a girl I've been seeing for a while, but keep getting massive anxiety. She's a good girl and overall a good match but I keep having doubts. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Changes are apparently noticeable (Ramble and rant about my progress).
POST: In 5 days, I will have been dieting and exercising for a month.
After weighing myself a week ago, I was down 5 lbs.
My routine has been gym 3-5 times a week with cardio and weight training. I've also been tryin... | A former model/fitness guru friend commented on the change in my figure. Motivation and self-esteem is now off the charts. Ready to lose that 30 lbs.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [26M] think my wife's [25F] drinking may be causing problems in our marriage.
POST: My wife and I have been married for just over one year. She works full time in education while I complete my second year of MBA school. She is basically the sole breadwinner of our family and has ... | Wife likes to get blackout drunk at least twice per month, while I don't really drink at all. She feels judged and I feel embarrassed. What should we do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: In a relationship I don't want to be in but I don't know how to end it safely (28m, 18f)
POST: I've been "with" Sarah for about 3 months now and I've really hated our relationship. I'm 28/she's 18. I cheated with her on my girlfriend of 3 years and was subsequently dumped by said gir... | In a relationship with a girl I don't love (or like) but she won't let me break up with her. Help me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with my bf [31M] of 5 months, last month we had an argument, he said that he doesn't love me. I tried to be patient but I'm slowly feeling resentful.
POST: We have been dating for 5 months. We had ups and downs. Last month I told him that I think I'm ready to say I love him ... | BF told me he's not ready to say he loves me. I don't know how to deal with it, slowly feeling resentful.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22m] just graduated college. My gf [21f] is now being oppressively hit on by guys that she thought were good friends. How can I help from the next town over?
POST: My gf and I started dating in September when I was a senior at the university that she had just transferred to (she i... | my girlfriend is practically being sexually assaulted by guys who have been her friends for a while and who know she has a boyfriend.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (21F) kissed someone else a year ago when bf (21M) broke up with me, still brings it up?
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together (sort of) for 1.5 years, but friebds for 8 years. A few moths into the relationship, we were fighting loads and he decided he'd had enough, told me ... | Kissed someone else day after bf broke up with me and ignored me, still brings it up a year later especially when I bring up his lies through our relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Should I(28/m) ask my ex(28/f) to a Valentine's Day dinner?
POST: So my ex and I have been hanging out quite a lot in the past few months. She initiated the the first time, and since we have both been inviting each other to do things like cross-country skiing, hiking, running a... | I've been hanging out a lot with my ex who is also my co-worker, and I've been getting *what I feel like* are green lights and I want to ask her to dinner for Valentine's Day. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: Loseit: Can you help me choose healthy snacks?
POST: I've been working out with a personal trainer for the past few weeks and I love it. I don't know how much I've lost since we're doing weight in's next week. But, what I do know is my clothes are fitting looser and right now that's enough ... | I have terribly unhealthy snacks with me while I'm on campus. I'm trying to lose weight, but I HATE being hungry. Can you give me some healthy snack suggestions?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [24 F] possibly ask this dude [28 M] out?
POST: I know this sounds silly, but as a woman in the Western world, asking a guy out is something I'm going to have to learn. I've reached a point in my dating career where I'm confident, but I need to know if this entire premise i... | Interested in getting to know a dude I last spoke to over a year ago. Saw him on Tinder. Haven't matched yet. How can I approach him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Friends with benefits... and then some? Or not?
POST: 27m/22f. Lady and I have been dating for the past four months or so. About a month ago, we established that we would be friends with benefits. (intimate/sexual, but not exclusive, and not in a serious relationship.) Since then... | Girl seemed to want more than friends with benefits, until I seem to want it back, upon which she becomes cold and distant.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 F] ended things with the guy I've been seeing [22 M] for 2 months because he's graduating in May and is unsure of his level of commitment
POST: I began seeing this guy about 2 months ago. Neither of us were particularly interested in a relationship because we're college kids an... | He is leaving in May, I don't want to keep falling in love with him and get hurt when this ends, so I ended things. Am I wrong to leave?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How do I(16/m) talk to this girl(14/f)
POST: So I've been going to this church for going on 2 years already. I know a good amount of people, go to youth group, etc. There's this one super pretty girl that I'm REALLY attracted to, unlike anything I've ever experienced. From what... | I really like this girl that I haven't met, I have some connections, I need advice on how to meet her and talk to her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I'm not sure what to do anymore.
POST: Hi there, I have class soon so I will try to be quick.
I'm an 18 year old freshman away at school. I graduated high school as valedictorian, highly motivated in school and learning. However for some reason, I never really had a love for any school or ... | Do you suck at life if you drop out of college and enroll in a school near home while you figure your shit out?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Asked a 19F out after getting signals that she's interested, and now I [27M] am a creep.
POST: Let's call her Swan. You can call me Bob in your replies.
Swan smiles at me when she thinks I can't see her. I can't really describe this smile except that it makes me feel wonderful. A... | 19F rejects 27M because age difference is "creepy", but I still want her. What do I do next? Do I have a chance?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: [HELP] Please give me pointers on my diet.
POST: I'm 17, almost 18 and I'm still in high school. Unfortunately, I'm unable to cook anything healthy and that definitely isn't helping. I started this back in November and so far have lost 26 pounds.
I don't have the means to really exercise s... | I fast for about 12 hours (don't eat breakfast or lunch) then I eat only dinner. 1000-1300 Calories on weekdays, 1400-2000 calories on weekends. I don't feel tired or weak at all.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22f) with (25m) have been dating exclusively 3 weeks. Was kissed by 2?m at a bar last night. Help!
POST: So the title pretty much says it. I've been out of town with some friends. we went to a bar last night and I got super hammered. I spent some of the night talking to a newer fr... | I got drunk when I was out of town and another man kissed me. My boyfriend and I have only been dating a short time. How/do I tell him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, have you ever found something hidden or buried, that you were so excited to find, and it ended up being worthless junk?
POST: Here's my story. When I was about 12, me and my friends were riding our bikes in a not-so-great neighborhood. We found this weird, concrete block that was... | Me and a couple of friends found a hidden box, turns out there wasn't drugs or money in it, but just a bunch of happy meal toys.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: My mom is ruining her life with an online shopping addiction. Has anyone here made it through an addiction similar to this one? How did you do it? Help.
POST: Almost every day, my mom has a new package or four arrive at the house. Jewelry, toys for her grandchildren, exercise material sh... | mom spends a lot of money on useless shit online, sending her even further into terrible debt. don't know what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Me [33 F] find that I'm terrified to date because I realize I just have terrible taste in men
POST: My track record with my past boyfriends is simply awful. In the past I had absolutely dreadful self esteem, it's slowly getting better and I'm really proud of myself about that.
... | I pick the wrong guys to date and now find I'm scared shitless of re-entering the dating world.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My wife has always been hyper jealous, even of tv nudity. Personality disorder?
POST: My wife [32] of the last 14 years has always been hyper jealous. One time I was teamed with a group of people in college to do a project as a video. I showed my wife the video and instantly she accu... | Hyper jealous wife is jealous of even T.V. or movies that have nudity. To the point of accusing me of wanting to sleep with them. Does this type of disorder have a label?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Short relationship w/ friendzone entering the mix....please help
POST: Disclaimer….First off I finally came out of the wood work to ask a question regarding my first relationship in 3 years and it took me 1 minute to find the right forum and about 20 minutes to figure out how t... | I've been in an extremely short relationship with a lovly lady, yet am having a previous longtime "friend zone" entering the mix….Do I Stay the course or stray from the path and roll the dice with the "friend"?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend(18) has a romantic "thing" with fictional anime/video game characters. Is this normal and should I (18m) worry at all?
POST: I don't know if this is a girl thing, in terms of falling romantically in love with these anime or video game characters but it worries me a litt... | My GF who I've known for 6 years and been dating for 6 months falls in love and fantasizes about anime and video game characters, should I give a fuck?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 M] with my FWB [19/F] for several months, made me lose a friend.
POST: I'm 27, and a late starter in college. Over summer semester a friend of mine essentially gave me the cold shoulder after I told him I have a FWB classmate who is 19.
He said I'm "taking advantage" of this ... | Friend is salty I'm nailin a 19 year old. Do people seriously think this is 'wrong' in any way?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Someone wrote my phone number on a bathroom wall, what do I do?
POST: It started around middle of last year. I get calls from either pay phones or blocked numbers, or texts. From what I've been able to glean from the callers is that it is posted in alabama (I've never been there) and in ... | My phone number is posted on the wall of a place I've never been to and I get calls from gay people wanting to hook up. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (26m) who's dating a college girl (24f) that loves other mens attention on the interweb.
POST: Long story short I have been dating this woman for almost a year now. We don't really have any problems other than this. Yet we have all the same interest and life views. Incredibly sma... | Currently on a long distance relationship while girlfriend finishes school. She loves attention from men online and thrives off them. Has ignored my feelings about it and now has gotten sneaky about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: my father passed away a while ago and left me (24yo) some money. i want to know if i can do more. help?
POST: my father passed away in 2006 and left my mom and i 400k(=200k/each). However, as I was 16 at the time, I didn't get the money til I turned 18.
When I turned 18, I was obv... | 98k in CD earning less than 1% maturing yearly. no debt. am I doing enough with my money?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22M] and my GF [21F] of 2 years, had protected sex (condom and she's on the pill), but she experienced a really bad cramp "in her uterus" area about 24 hours after sex. Should we get Plan B?
POST: So my girlfriend and I got heated after she came over, and we ended up having sex. I... | GF and I had safe sex (condom and pill), but she experienced cramps about 24 hours later that disappeared with a bowel movement. Should we get Plan B?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to woo my ex and spilling hot oil all over my arm
POST: Okay so obligatory this happened about 4 weeks ago. Anyways my ex is a touchy subject but we broke it off and she moved to another state about 2 months ago. About a month ago she hit me up wanting to see me so i flew her... | Trying to impress my ex and poured water into a pot of hot oil, oil shoots everywhere and severely fucked up my hand and arm for a month.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Insurance Total Loss questions
POST: Hopefully someone can point me in the right direction here.
I had an accident on my vehicle and called my insurance company. My rep referred me to a body shop 25KM from my house, I thought this was very fishy but I agreed.
This shop made me sign d... | Is it my insurances fault if they authorized repairs on the vehicle when it actually falls within the criteria to be deemed a total loss.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What's the best way to get over a breakup?
POST: So Reddit, I was just recently broken up with by my girlfriend of 3.5 years. We dated all throughout college, and today she decided that she "wanted to do things on her own". It wasn't an ugly breakup, and to be honest, I wasn't very surpr... | Girlfriend broke up with me, I live alone in a major city, far away from my friends. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/m] Helped my friend [20/f] cheat on her boyfriend [20/m] when i didn't know she had one. (Long distance.) What should I do?
POST: EDIT: Thanks all, I think I'm going to call it quits with her.
I would not have done this with her had I known she had a boyfriend. I didn't th... | Unknowingly helped a girl cheat on her boyfriend. Boyfriend blames me. They're still together. I value our friendship. Is it worth staying friends or should I run away?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Long hypothetical question on sexuality, reddit...
POST:...We develop a full conscious memory in the dream state. When you do something with somebody in the dream, they will have a full memory of what happened when they wake up whether you tell them or not, because dreams are shared. The... | Would you rather be straight in the real world and gay in the dream world or gay in the real world and straight in the dream world?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Think there might me a mutual attraction between mme (23M) and my coworker (18F)
POST: First off dating is fine at our job as long as one doesn't hold any authority over the other. We work different shifts so there shouldn't be any awkward encounters in case something goes wrong. Al... | Attracted to a coworker of mine and been single so long i feel like i might be missing clues or overvalueing them.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Childhood friend [F25] wanted a closer relationship with me [M24] but now is backing off. Help.
POST: So we've known each other since 2nd grade. Lost contact after 5th. Found each other around 16-17, she went off to college and we started to Skype and show body parts. We became a cou... | I enjoy her company, and exploring her body, she enjoys both until she leaves my place. Neither want to ruin the friendship. What should I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Lights
POST: I have a bit of an odd living situation. I live with my mom, my brother, and my sister in a tiny apartment. I sleep in the living room, brother in one room and mom and sis in another. I get woken up by people needing to get food or drinks or go out the front door because... | Brother leaves light on waking me up all the time. I turn on light in his room to wake him up. Repeat until lesson learned.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 25f, Ex bf 26m. Together 5yrs but broken up for 1 and a half. I miss him even though he was so mean sometimes...
POST: My ex bf and I met in college. I was so in love with him. I still am. He told me he loved me...sometimes. He was hilarious and fun and rocked my socks but he had ... | I miss and love my ex even though he was mean and we broke up a long time ago and I'm with someone new...will i ever get over him?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (23/ F) am having issues with too much commitment
POST: I am 23, pretty much constantly moving around, and only staying in each place 4-6 months because of the nature of my work.
I find it very cathartic to my emotional stability to integrate myself into my community as much as p... | I move around frequently, and would like advice on how to date without getting too invested and getting my feelings hurt each time<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: (17/m)i have strong feelings for my very good friend(18/f) and cant get rid of them
POST: so basically i met this girl around 8 months ago and from the second i saw her i was like wow. at first we were very shy towards each other but now we are fairly close. we know a lot about... | cant shake the feelings for my friend but dont want to get rid of her shes too much of a good friend what the hell do i do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [28 M] with my ex [26 F] 3.5years, how to regain own identity
POST: So we split up 2 nights ago, and it's still very raw (to be expected), but she is my best friend, I opened myself up to her so much, shared every part of me with her, that she's a much as part of me as all the bit... | Gf of 3.5 years (and best friend) broke up with me, having trouble seeing how return to self.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [24 M] interested in my boss [20's F] and not entirely sure where to go in a professional manner.
POST: I enjoy reading this sub and decided to post my situation.
I started a retail job that I intend to be temporary. I've been working for a little over a month. Currently paying... | I'm interested in my boss and we have a good connection, but I don't want to put myself in a compromising position.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19M] with my GF [19F] 2 years, Can't stop thinking about whether I actually want be with her.
POST: For more than half of the entire relationship with my Girlfriend of 2 years I have had the though of breaking up with her run through my head at least once a week.
As soon as we ... | Constantly doubt whether I want to be with my girlfriend, is this a commonly occurring thing in healthy relationships or not?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, can someone explain (in simpler terms), what exactly is going on with the eurozone/Greece stuff, and how that affects me?
POST: I live in the USA. I worry CONSTANTLY over everything, and this whole sovereign debt thing is starting to make me all gloom and doomy. To complicate mat... | I'm expecting my first child in January. All the sovereign debt stuff is freaking me out because everything's so sensationalistic, and I don't understand it. Are things going the way of Mad Max, or will it get better?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What is the most immature behavior you have ever witnessed by your peers?
POST: For me, a high school freshman, it was probably during a disagreement between a friend of mine and a girl I don't like.
The girl was saying mean things to my friend and behind her back. I got frustrated and... | A girl who hated my friend and I in junior high mocked us for a year straight because I told her it would be best to just ignore us and we'd be okay with her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by drinking enough vodka for several people.
POST: It wasn't really today, but I'm still dealing with the fallout so I think it is fair to post.
So I am pretty quiet and reserved as a general rule. I am known for being conservative and sweet, and happy but hands-to-myself when drunk.... | Drank enough vodka to kill a guy, went from conservative to drunk ho, pissed off all the people I care about most and kind of want to kill myself now.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I really need advice about my relationship, ergo this post.
POST: My boyfriend(18m) and I (19f) have been dating for over 2 years. Recently, I had a huge fallout with my friends, and they all dumped me. (it's a long story) This has caused an immense amount of depression and negative ... | boyfriend has been distant and moody more than usual and it is really upsetting. What should I do? (But honestly just read above, explains more)<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] buying house from my [63 M] controlling, bossy, but good father
POST: My dad owns 2 houses and offered to sell me one for a great price. i agreed and a few months later we are coming down to closing. He has bought me new tile floors, windows and helped me paint. All in all ... | Father is an old tempermental bastard and makes me feel like I cant live in my own home without his approval first.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22/m] am supposed to be moving out with my girlfriend [20/f] of 10 months next week, but I'm freaking the shit out because she's cheated on me in the past and I'm doubting I can move past it. Ever.
POST: So my SO and I are due to move out for the academic year (We're students). Du... | Girlfriend has cheated on me in the past and I'm afraid to continue the relationship now that it's getting really serious. Should I break up with her because of this doubt?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [mid-twenties M] with my gf [early twenties F] of 3/4 year, she lives at home, her dad is a low-level tyrant, don`t know what to do.
POST: My gf`s dad for the first time enforced a rule where I can`t sleep at my girlfriend`s place (they live together). He is very used to getting h... | How do I respond to a tyrant father when the gf still lives at home. lots of unneccessary headaches<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30F] with my BF [35M] 4 months, BF is getting divorced: wait it out or move it along?
POST: BACKGROUND: I started dating a kind and handsome man roughly four months ago. Aside from being legally married with 2 kids, he meets all criteria on a dream man list I wrote (and subsequen... | Dating a guy who is getting a divorce. Not sure if low-totem-pole status is temporary function of divorce limbo or an indication that I am not a priority. Wait it out or move on?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Uninsured partner broke his arm, needs orthopedic doc to set bones and put on cast. Help please with advice.
POST: Last night, my partner broke his radius and ulna. We went to the ER and they took xrays and put him in a splint, but due to swelling they said he had to wait to get a cast... | Uninsured partner broke 2 bones in his arm. Needs orthopedic care ASAP in Western MD/Baltimore area. Need advice<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what's the worst un-intended consequence you've ever experienced? I'll start.
POST: I've been talking to girl for a while now, and I finally got the courage to ask her out. She said yes! We've been dating for a couple of months now and we finally decided to have sex. We planned i... | I donated blood to my blood bank like a great citizen, and after that, I couldn't hold an erection longer than 1 minute for sexy times.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: 7 years together, time to ask the question?
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for 7 years, shes 25, i'm 28. I love her more than anything. I would like nothing more than to lock it down, and start our journey together. Let me try to explain. Her parents are very old fashioned,... | I spend way too much time worrying about dissapointing her or her family. To the point where I am afraid to ask her to marry me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Anxiety
POST: Alright so lets kick this off by saying I have been single for about 5 months and in that time I struggled with confidence issues, feeling like I had no real friends (bar one really great guy) while simultaneously trying to break out of my shell and make some new friends. ... | Girl I'm seeing is too cool for me, scared she's not as into it. Also money/house/uni issues and feel anxious all the time.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [35M] with my wife [28F] together 5 years, an issue concerning children.
POST: My wife and I started as friends. When we decided to move from friends to a couple, she gave me a rundown of things that she knew could be potential issues and the fact she doesn't want children was in ... | Changed my mind about wanting children, tried to talk to my wife about it. It didn't go well and she has already left. What can I do to get her to sit down and talk to me about this rationally?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Not paying down student loans as fast as possible to buy a rental property: Stupid, wise, or somewhere in between?
POST: Hey /r/personalfinance,
To try to be as brief as possible:
* About to get married to a fantastic, working, frugal girl.
* Able to save around $2k per mo... | Is it stupid to keep paying student loans for longer to be able to take on *more* debt that I can (hopefully) leverage out into much greater profits later?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 22f likes sex more than fiance 25m. Preparing for therapy. Help!!!
POST: My fiance's mom came up this weekend for his birthday Monday (25M). He let me give him a hand job while his mom and brother were drifting off to sleep in our living room (with the bedroom door open), and the who... | I like sex more then he does. Preparing to seek therapy. Wanting to hear from people who've gone for a similar reason, to know what its like, and what they had you do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by getting accidentally high at work
POST: So actually it happened several days ago, I had a terrible toothache and was too lazy to go to the dentist, plus I had some important things done at work and also I'm a bit afraid of dentists...so I decide to man up and go to work, well 2 hours ... | mixed pain killer pills ,redbull and scotch in a really short period of time - got really high..while at work<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My family [various] has an unspoken tradition of writing letters on Christmas, but I [26F] am too depressed to think of anything to say. Help?
POST: So like the title says, my father kind of started a tradition of writing these beautiful, heartfelt letters to everyone on Christmas,... | Every Christmas my family writes each other wonderful heartfelt letters. Everything I try to write comes out horrifically depressing and self-centered. How can I not make Christmas suck?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is it worth it to wait for someone who isn't ready for a involved relationship?
POST: I(19M) started going out with this amazing girl(19F) who had become my best friend during my first semester of college, and according to me, everything was going great. We spent a lot of time togeth... | I love my girlfriend, but she doesn't want to get seriously involved for up to a year. Is it worth the pain to wait?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being the Laundry Police
POST: Ok... I live in a predominantly Korean neighborhood. Today is basically laundry day in my apartment building as well since a lot of people work. we have four washers, four dryers, and they are all pretty large. I went downstairs with one load to insure I... | took revenge on entitled laundry doer by stopping all of her dryers. She was standing behind me the whole time.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: 20f, feel insecure initiating a hookup with 22M FWB
POST: Me and a fellow student at my college had casual sex a few times last year, i guess you could call it FWB but every time was after nights out drinking
Given I didn't see it as anything serious, i started dating a guy who was ... | Have I screwed this up or can i just text him? and what do I say experienced FWB's of reddit?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (24f) don't know how to tell my husband (25m) that I don't like anal. *TMI*
POST: My husband and I have been dating for two years, married for one. When we first started dating I really enjoyed anal, we did it very often and it was always fun. After having a baby though I was left ... | husband keeps trying to have anal sex, but I can't get any enjoyment out of it after experiencing an anal tear after child birth. He doesn't seem to understand and keeps getting annoyed with me.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (28f) in love with my best friend(29m) that I known for years, unsure if it's worth pursuing a relationship..(nearly 6years)
POST: First a little about him. He's really an amazing guy, he had a pretty rough childhood, and was forced to become a parent at 18, when he took guardian... | I'm failing in love with my best friend, but afraid of losing his friendship if I pursue a relationship. help...<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] am super conflicted about whether or not to continue being in a relationship with my [18 F] girlfriend of 2.5 years
POST: I met my girlfriend on the first day of band camp my freshman year of high school, and immediately new that I wanted to date her. I spent my entire fresh... | The girl I am dating moved to college and I am not very happy, and I am not sure what I should do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets
TITLE: Just ordered a custom leather sectional. I have two and a half months to teach my cat to claw everything other than a couch...
POST: *Long winded background:*
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I just invested in a beautiful leather sectional which will be finished and delivered by the middle of August.
Bought th... | What are some **must-have** cat scratching posts/surfaces I can use to keep my cat uninterested in a new $8,000 leather sofa? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Should I not pursue her?
POST: So I met this girl online (she is 23, I am 24) and we setup a date last monday. We just went out and grabbed some dinner and drinks and chatted. Things were going really well and we both shared a lot of laughs. After dinner I made sure not to contact he... | Meet girl online, had a great first date, she was contacting me consistently until I asked for another date...should I give up?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/college
TITLE: My roommate has poor social skills and is making it hard for me to maintain my social life.
POST: I went with a random roommate and started my freshman year a couple weeks ago. My roommate is a nice guy and has had trouble making friends in the past. He's a little overweight and might be a... | Roommate can't take a hint and is making it hard for me to hangout with my friends without him.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend [27M] doesn't understand my [22F] religious upbringing.
POST: I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and feel like the relationship is great. However, there are times where he'd like me to stay the night, and as much as I would, I live with my very conservative and... | my boyfriend is frustrated that I can't sleep over at his place, because I try to respect my religious parents' wishes.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: TIFU: by letting a bill go to collections
POST: Background: I have medical bills from an auto accident last July. I have insurance, but they have refused to pay two of the bills in the entirety. I have been going back and forth with them in particular over the ambulance bill. My co... | medical bill went to collections 11/30/2014. Can I pay it ASAP and avoid the ding to my credit?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] in a new FWB type relationship with teenage mother [18 F]
POST: So, I got on Tinder and did the whole "swipe right till you run out with anyone you'd even remotely consider" technique. Finally got a match with a girl who looked cute in her profile pic. Then I read her profi... | With a teenage MILF, can't help but feel I'm doing something wrong here. Should I break this off?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22M] with my girlfriend [21F] of three years unhappy because we don't do anything
POST: Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years and lived together for three. We've had issues in the past but it's really stating to make us unhappy. We have absolutely nothing in com... | girlfriend does nothing, wants me to do pretty much everything in our relationship. We have nothing in common and it's killing us.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [60+ F] am having trouble processing impending death of formerly estranged step-brother [70+ M]
POST: For the first 20+ years of my life my late mother (a wonderful woman to whom I was very close) warned me against my step brother: he's a lair and a thief, she said, and can't be tr... | What can I say to my dying brother when I'm consumed by regret that I didn't try harder to get to know him before it was too late?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Boyfriend of 4 years hurt me [26 F] in a very personal way
POST: Long story short: My farther was an alcoholic, I grew up disgusted and afraid of alcohol, seeing a drunk person on tv now became barley tolerable for me (it used to cause panic) Seeing drunk people in public makes me wa... | Boyfriend of someone with a trauma with alcoholism gets drunk, although its the worst thing he could have done. Op is unsure what to do next, take revenge, leave or somehow try to forgive.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by eating too many mini muffins.
POST: A few weeks ago I broke my wrist. After going to the hospital and getting plastered up I stopped at my local shop to by some food (knowing that I couldn't do much else with a broken wrist).
Once I got home I ate a whole box of mini muffins, about 20... | I break my wrist, puke into a bucket, trip and land on my wrist and throw puke all over myself and the carpet.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Advice when dealing with a particular female
POST: Hey friends, my story isn't too long so I'll start from the beggining.
Was a depressed shut in in high school for the most part, dates 2 different girls for my entire high school career. First one cheated on me a few weeks in ... | I like this girl from work, I think we are at the point where we should be formally dating.. we still refer to each other as friends. I want to take it to the next level. How do I do it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25/M] have insecurities in my relationship with my [25/F] GF because of her past relationship
POST: So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and a half. Right before we started hanging out she got out of a relationship that lasted about 5 or 6 years. I've never ... | my current girlfriend was very serious with someone before me and he is trying to "catch up" with her and that makes me nervous.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How can I resolve this silly conflict between my GF and my parents over Christmas?
POST: Hello,
I feel a bit silly turning to Reddit for help for what I think is an extremely silly problem, but I have nowhere else to turn.
OK, first, my girlfriend is from Europe and I met her studyin... | My parents don't want my foreign girlfriend over for Christmas and my gf wants me to ditch my family for her. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Need serious help/advice dad is cheating on my mom with a gay dude
POST: So reddit yes I'm only 17 but recently discovered some sexual text messages on my dad's phone. First i noticed them as he had left his phone on normal mode and constant imessage notifications came through, it was a ... | Dad is cheating on mom with a gay guy => i have all the evidence to get my dad "caught" should I confront someone know about this situation? <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Relationship] I (25F) broke up with my boyfriend (25M) of 4 months out of panic, he said lets take a break instead. We're back together and now i feel insecure.
POST: I was going through a lot of school stress, work stress and family stress last weekend which blew up at a family vac... | took a break, got back together, i feel like he doesnt love me anymore, i also dont know what i feel<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [28F] Friend's Daughter [12F] Tried To Get My Son [7M] To Show Privates
POST: He was staying at their house while I was out of town with my parents, when I picked him up he told me about something that had happened while he was there. She showed him her privates and asked him to s... | My friend's daughter tried to get my son to show her his privates, my son told his mother, and she didn't even tell me a thing.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [21/m] Fellow relationship over-analyzers of Reddit, how did you stop, and how can I stop?
POST: I'm starting to really like this girl from school, we are in the early stages of texting etc but I tend to over-analyze everything too much. I try and assume stuff based on her text... | Really starting to like this girl from school, need help on how to stop overanalyzing due to the fact I may blow it if I continue.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (21/F) need job advice...please?
POST: Hello. I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask but I have a job orientation coming up this week. It's for a popular fast food place where I will be paid min. wage. I also have an interview at a small, well known store and my family migh... | Need job advice. They are all minimum wage jobs but I really need the money so am considering taking on more then one.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is not dating for a while a good idea, following a break up?
POST: Hey
So about a month ago my boyfriend (M/34) ended our relationship (F/23) after about 1.5 years together. I was devastated, my whole world felt like it had ended. It was my only my second relationship and my longest... | Recent break-up, got straight back into dating but feel a bit exhausted, however whenever I try not to date I start feeling lonely and bored. Would a break from dating do me good?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: She (F16) is super emotional and overly attached to me (M16)
POST: I've known a female friend of mine for a couple months now and have always had a feeling she was into me, but I never pursued that kind of relationship at the warning of other friends who said she could get a little..... | Female (super emotional) friend, asked if I was into her, feigned interest to not hurt feelings, now she's an OAG, need escape plan!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [20F]Agreed to watch my brothers [25M] cats [3moF and 4F]while he finds an apartment. The 4F is very agressive towads the other and towards my cat [1M].
POST: So my brother "Dick" used to live with my boyfriend "Dan" [21M] and I, but he recently moved out because there was constant d... | Watching brother's 2 cats, one of them is super agressive to the other and to my cat. Should I deal with keeping them separated or do I refuse?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [26 F] get over my resistance to dating?
POST: To be honest, I don't like the concept of dating. I guess it's a bit intimidating? I've never been on an official date; however, I've been on a number of dates-in-disguise and have had a couple gray/confusing "relationships" tha... | I avoid dating because I take it too seriously and have the hope that a potential relationship would just arise out of friendship. Any suggestions on how to break through my resistance/change my mindset?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [38F] with my husband [41M] 5 years, he claims he kept something from me to protect me, I feel he lied to me
POST: Husband and I, married for 3.5, together for 5. He has a daughter (19)that lives out of state. She drove out here to visit (its about a 20 hour trip). He tells me Sun... | My husband had apparently known for weeks about plans for his ex-wife to drive out here with his daughter, told his mother, didnt tell me until 3 days ago. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26F] with boyfriend [28M] of 1.5 years. Big wealth disparity yet he insists on splitting costs.
POST: I'm currently a PhD student in a university where my boyfriend is a postdoctoral researcher. We both want to eventually work in academia and become professors.
My family are ver... | I have a lot more money that BF does, and he insists on splitting all costs 50-50. How do I convince him to allow me to pitch in more?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (23f) lost, don't know what to do?
POST: I'm so lost in life right now, my bf (23m) of 4 years and I broke up two weeks and half ago. I'm pretty messed up from that relationship, he verbally abused me for a long time. Now I'm trying to find myself again, but I'm a little confused... | broke up after 4 year relationship, messed me up. Have many plans from job change to where to live, don't know where to start.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by shutting the car door on my foot
POST: Today I went to see Transcendence with my boyfriend. He was interested because he's finishing school for IT and loves computers, while I was stoked about the premise (and of course Johnny Depp!).
As we were leaving the theatre he was ranting ab... | I insulted people who couldn't watch Transcendence by saying they weren't overly smart and/or had poor attention, then closed a car door on my foot.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] am in a new relationship with [23M]. I just found out he knows nothing about me...
POST: I have been in a relationship with a guy I work with for 3 months now. When we started dating things moved pretty fast and big words were used fairly early, which is fine.. that happens w... | I'm in a new relationship. He says he loves me but doesn't know anything about me. Sign it's not gonna work?<|endoftext|> |
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