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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Friend turned BF (sort of). But I want to go back to just friends. POST: Throwaway account, since a lot of my friends know I reddit. We're 19/20, female(me)/male(him). Almost exactly a year ago this boy from my high school and I became friends through a shared friend giving my ...
Friends started dating-ish long distance. But we're not right for each other romantically. How do I go back to just friends?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can anyone identify these...spots? on the top of my hand/forearm? My general doctor of 18 years can't. POST: Hey guys, just looking for a little bit on help figuring out what these spots (that's what I call them, anyways) are. For the past few months they've been simply popping up/comi...
I have spots on my arms that come up every night, my doctor can't figure out what they are. Help?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: This community needs to take a chill pill, check the hate, and get constructive. POST: I guess it's because of its largeness and thus being more of a sample of the general population (and I suppose lax moderating), but the level of anger and volatility towards posters in this sub is pre...
At the end of the day, compassion is the only way you're actually going to have a small chance of getting through to someone. Check the hate, and remember why we're here.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (23f) am confused and not sure how to proceed with a guy I know (28m) POST: I met this fellow, who I'll call Jake because that's his name and he has no idea what reddit is, a few years ago through mutual friends. We were both in long term relationships that ended roughly a year ag...
talk all the time but never hang out, feeling like a friend more than a dating candidate. Should I look elsewhere?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/f] needing help with ex-boyfriend [19/m] after mutual breakup POST: My ex-boyfriend and I broke up in November after we decided that our long distance (4 hours on the train) relationship was not working out. However, he said that if I ever wanted to be involved with him ag...
Ex-boyfriend told me that even though he has a new girlfriend he would still consider being with me if I ever chose to get back with him. I miss him terribly but I don't want to be an awful person<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: M 25 5'8" 190 can't lose those love handles! POST: So I started dieting about a month ago, and after a solid 30 days of unbreaded grilled chicken breast and ground turkey, protein shakes, broccoli, and egg whites for breakfast I still am having issues losing the weight around the middle. I'...
Having trouble losing midsection fat. Working out daily doing alot of HIIT training, gaining muscle just can't lose that midsection. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [29 M] gf [27 F] of 6 years seems to have a thing for coworker [M] POST: Long story short, my fiance is an accountant at a large firm in New York City. She works with some really cool folks but it seems there is one guy she tends to bond with more, eating lunch, shooting the shit ...
A slow budding friendship at her job could be blossoming into more than just a friendship. Am I overreacting?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [15M] tutor a girl [15F] in math. She says we are friends but when her friends come around she acts like a complete snob and is rude to me. POST: High everyone, I want to thank you all for advice/input into this situation. I would normally talk to my sisters but they have a horribl...
I tutor my friend and when it just us she is fine. But when her friends are around she acts like a compete jerk.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm a busy person with a pair of 10kg dumbbells. Can you recommend a good set of daily exercises? POST: Hey guys; thanks in advance for any help you can provide! Let me give you a bit of background. My life is fairly busy at the moment (working full time and doing a Masters as well) an...
Have a pair of 10kg dumbbells and 20-30mins a day: what's a good daily / weekly workout routine?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a date with a super hot nerdy girl, and my dating record so far has been miserable. Tips / Tricks for attracting and keeping the ladies? POST: So I'm a standard nerd. 26, living with some roommates. I haven't dated in years but earlier this year I got on OKcupid and its been no...
Just started dating again and I've found about as close as it comes to perfection. I don't want to fuck this up. Help?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my boyfriend [24M], weird friendship with his ex [23F] POST: My boyfriend Will and I have dated for 1 year. Before that, he dated Emma for 2 years. Will met Emma through his friend who shared an apartment with Emma at college. Because of this, it meant that Emma is also...
Developed a weird facebook friendship with my boyfriend's ex, who is in his friendship group, not sure how to proceed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (22M) can't stop fucking it up with my gf (24F) POST: Hello! I made a post about a month ago expressing how hard I was trying to get my ex back after I treated her like absolute shit in the last 6 months of our 2 year relationship. I'm talking she'd leave my house crying almost eve...
I won my ex back, now back to my synical ways because it makes me feel good to hurt her, what's wrong with me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl who is very special to me is leaving on a plane tomorrow night. I have something to pass to her. She did mention that i shouldn't trouble myself to send her off. Should i go? POST: Forgive me if I have violated any rules of this reddit. Its slightly towards relationships...but n...
Girl who is very special to me is leaving tomorrow night. I have a drawing to pass to her. She did mention that i shouldn't trouble myself. Should i go?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (24f) lost my love (27m) who died in his sleep, complicated relationship. POST: On Tuesday the love of my life died, and I can't even begin to describe the level of fear and despair and depression I feel. He died in his sleep and I still don't know what caused it. We were together...
My lovely man died and I'm beyond fucked up. Need help coping don't know where to start and I don't feel safe in my own head.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: I'm [M/19] and need advice on a girl[F/19] I want to ask out - Barely know her POST: So I met this girl during a club meeting at my university. I ended up always being too shy to talk to her more than a quick sentence or two in a group situation. I saw her on tinder and sadly I don'...
I barely know a girl that I met at a school club, didn't match on tinder, should I still ask her out in person?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [16 F] of almost 1 year wants to break up/take a break until she can get her mind sorted out because of personal issues POST: So Sara has been having issues for a while, she had become more distant with me and hasn't been telling me everything like she us...
Sara doesnt want to be together because of her personal issues but might want to get together later. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [14 M/] with my old friend [14 M/F] 3 months, she now hates me POST: Hello! i have known this girl for 3 months and we have built a great relationship, But she has some family members who don't care about her and she suffers from anxiety/depression, She stopped texting me and bloc...
How would i try and talk to her again, I can tell she needs help but i don't know how to approach her with this. Thanks<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [20M] trying to get back into dating after a year and a half. POST: So as the title says, I'm trying to get back into dating after a year and a half, when my ex broke up with me. I've got tinder and a few matches, but I feel like I've lost the ability to flirt, or be charming, or...
Trying to get back into dating after a year and a half, feel like I've lost the ability to maintain conversation with girls, how do I get the courage back to do just go for it? Words of advice? Thanks!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: Tifu by being tired and asking a question. POST: This is more like a year ago but still. So I have these two friend's one the sister of my best friend lets call her D and the other is a girl that I liked for a really long time now lets call her C. Right I stay at my best friends house almost ...
got high went to bed girl I like asked to sleep in bed I asked stupid question missed chance of a life time.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18M] with my GF [20F] of 4 months, I'm in a relationship I no longer want. POST: I'm just starting university, met this girl and we hit off. we've been dating for 4 months now and I no longer feel like I want to be in the relationship. I just got bored. However my girlfriend is...
I don't want to be in a relationship anymore but I don't know how to end things because of the bullet points.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom (57) have been distant ever since she learned who I (29/m) really am. POST: Last summer, my sister took her own life. It was very tough on the family, and my mom made some serious effort to be there for me more. Not that she was bad to me, in fact she was wonderful but I live ...
After my sister's death, my family learned that I'm a daredevil and now my mom is distancing herself.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Losing touch with a best friend POST: So I (18M) recently started university and didn't make too many friends in highschool and they all moved almost an hour away for Uni, so I try to stay in touch with them and see them at least once every couple of weeks, and if I can't I try...
I may have said something stupid and made one of my best friends think I have a crush on her and now she's ignoring me. Advice?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by reporting an online game cheater POST: *^(note i'm trying to avoid mentioning the game or other personal info as per reddit's rules.)* While watching some game matches played by a friend, he mentioned his rank bracket was full of auto-playing accounts. I've decided to investigate it...
reported a player who had 100+ alt-accounts benefitting his main account, all of them were banned, turns out the player behind them has cancer and did it so he could play that game more often.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32/M] with my girlfriend [32/F] of 6 months are having "troubles" in the bedroom. POST: Please do not be judgemental about this, as many have. I met my girlfriend at a party. She was in a very unhappy marriage. Her husband did not abuse her or anything like that, there was just ...
Am in a 6 month relationship with a woman who is going through divorce. Sex used to be extremely frequent, but the frequency has dropped off.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My mother is recently widowed and I think she is being taken advantage of. Has anyone else dealt with this sort of situation and is there anything I can do? POST: Hey Reddit, I am at my wit's end here and I'm really hoping someone has some advice to help me with this. My father passed aw...
My mother's boyfriend is a scumbag and I'm afraid he is going to keep stealing from her and taking advantage of her but she wont listen to me. Is there anything I can do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex [30m] is having a hard time with my [33f] reasons why POST: I ended a 4-yr-long relationship recently because I did not see a future between us. He was amazing to me, I love him desperately, we were very close, but I am at an age where I have to look ahead. I want children, a...
Ended mostly wonderful relationship because I'm getting older and didn't see a future together--how to help my ex accept this and move on?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Everytime I [27M] ask my (former) co-worker [23F] to hang out, she immediately suggests "we all" (group of co-workers) should hang out soon; what's going on? POST: I made friends with a co-worker, and so we would spend most of the day chatting (instant message) at work, covering all ...
Whenever I ask my (former) co-worker to hang out, she agrees but wants to hang out as a group with our mutual friends/co-workers. What's happening here?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm 19/M and I don't think I want to be with my 22/M boyfriend any more, but I need somewhere to live I can't break it off. What do I do? POST: We've been together for almost 10 months now. We both say we love each other and well I do love him, but it's fading away and I'm not ...
I don't think I love him any more, we fight, I'm basically staying at his so I can live for free while going to College. I can't stop thinking about being with other guys.*<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Dad (50-something) gave me (his 20-something son) an apology letter for my birthday. Not sure he has anything to apologize for? POST: Throwaway for obvious-to-me reasons. Along with a bunch of great gifts that my parents usually give me for my birthday, my dad gave me an envelope. I...
Got an apology letter from my dad along with great birthday gifts. Apparently, he's sorry for sometimes being angry, but I don't know why he should be sorry. How should I react to this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What aspects of everyday life seem to be simple for others, but are beyond your grasp? POST: I'll start. I consider myself a fairly intelligent and logical person. I read often, am a decent writer, and am well-spoken. In most situations, I can easily analyze problems to find the most ...
Although normally an even keeled person, if given a simple math problem I go straight into Mathematical Fight or Flight.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I fucking hate that damn rabbit POST: My boyfriend and his roommate have a pet rabbit that they allow to hop freely around the house. Now don't get me wrong, I love animals and rabbits are pretty cute, but this bunny gets on my last fucking nerve. I want to point out that my boyfriend...
boyfriend has a rabbit that pisses, shits and chews on the apartment and both him and his roommate could care less.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do we (27M/24F) politely end our friendship with another couple (20s M/F)? POST: Hi everyone, My girlfriend and I are looking for advice on how to break up with some friends, a couple (we will call them Don and Debbie) who are very persistent, bordering on clingy. This situatio...
Friends are too clingy. Girlfriend and I want to end the friendship. How do we explain that we don't want to be friends?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [CA] Can landlord retroactively add breed restrictions to my lease? POST: So we moved into this house 4 months ago. We have a 1 year lease. The ad said "dog friendly, cat friendly, pet deposit required"--no breed or weight restrictions. We moved in with our two chi-mixes and paid the ...
Lease doesn't have breed restrictions, landlord consented for us to adopt a large breed dog, but said we had to get rid of the dog or move out when we told him it was a pit.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [Late 20s M] with my Neighbors [50-60? M], conflicted about interacting with them after learning about a recent incident. POST: Growing up I've always had to hear about a couple inconsiderate neighbors from my folks, they've never done anything malicious or damaging, just inconsid...
Inconsiderate neighbors were disrespectful to my folks, unknown to me. I recently had a friendly interaction with them that I feel conflicted about. How to proceed?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30's F] with my office/work of 10 years, receiving constant unprofessional internal emails POST: Hi all, I need some external insight into this problem and figured you guys would be best. Yay reddit! I have worked in a particular education office for almost 10 years. We were int...
work emails system abused by same idiots sending messages about raffles, kids, non work related stuff. How to stop it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Biking home from work, sedan with 4 people threw a large soda at my head POST: So the story starts out as me riding home from work at around 10 pm at night and I'm tired. As I'm waiting for the crosswalk to change lights, this old beat up sedan comes up to turn right next to me. It was...
I was riding home and some guys in a car threw a large soda at my head. I was scared for my life and don't know what I should do with their license plate<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my _bf__ [25 M] are on one of those dreadful breaks, but wait more confusion from my first love POST: I hate speaking about my personal issues and being vulnerable but here goes internet world...be gentle. welp. I am currently on a break with my boyfriend. It has been...
My boyfriend and I are on a break. We are being distant. I know we may not end up together. I am moving soon. My first love wants to hang out. Should I even bother?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend[23 F] broke up with me [20 M] and I'm not sure what's going on POST: So we have been together for 2 years and a couple weeks ago due to our situations she had to move back home which is a couple hours drive from where I live. We knew this was going to happen so we talke...
My ex-girlfriend has been giving me mixed signals about whether we are friends or more than that and I don't know what I should do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Why did my ex just stop by to see me for a few min and tell me I can text her before 4pm m-f but not too much because she loves her bf? POST: I am 28 my ex is 25 we dated on and off for almost 4 years. I'll be honest we had a really rough relationship. I've never not been cheated on so I ...
! Gf visits me to tell me how great everything is and how much I messed up but tells me to text her when she isn't with her bf<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23M] ex gf[22F] is my best friend, her new bf [22-24M] doesn't want her being friends with me. POST: Hello all. Long story short, met this girl in college, she fell in love with me pretty early on but unfortunately my love for her didn't come until later in the relationship. By ...
Ex gf is my best friend, she's started dating someone else, new bf told her "him or me"<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I turned 18, mom suggested a student loan company to get me through school, I'm being crushed under thousands of dollars in unsubsidized debt because of something stupid my mother advised. How have your parents ruined your life? POST: In 2007 I took out a student loan, there was no way m...
My mom advised me to take out debt I would in no way be able to start paying on in five years. I don't know where to go from here, $400and up payments a month.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25M] am sick and tired of a manager's [40 to 50F] shit. What do I do? POST: Hi reddit, So I've been at this job for 1.5 years full-time and 2 years prior during my University years and have continually dealt with this particular manager's bullshit (I work for the Canadian federa...
a Manager who's not my manager likes to complain about me even though I've been really low profile for quite a while.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (23f) don't know what to do after a 4 year relationship break up. POST: Hello everyone, My ex and I dated for 4 years. We fought a lot but we love each other even more. A week and half ago we decided to end it because he's been treating me really badly and I cried almost every nig...
dated my ex for 4 years, still friends. A week and half after break up he is actively looking maybe seeing someone. I feel hurt and abandoned what do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: After 18 months, I still want her... POST: This story will probably sound really lame to most of you, but I'm pretty lost right now. Two and a half years ago, my freshman year in college I was a huge gamer. I had been playing WoW with the same group of people for 3 years at that poin...
How can someones feelings towards you change to complete polar opposites and why would the thought of her with someone else still make me nauseous and anxious after almost two years?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Can you know if it's over? POST: Hi guys and gals, My gf(26) and I(29) have been together for a little more than 2 years. We live together since about a year, and I fell into a deep depression for the past 8 months. It has been awfully hard for her and she has been very patient for ...
I'm depressed, my gf is longing for the beginnings, now we are drifting apart. We care for eachother, but something seems broken. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20m] have been seeing a friend[20f] for about a month and have become interested in her, but I'm not sure her interest is there, should I tell her how I feel? POST: So I've been seeing a girl who lives in my complex for only a short while, about a month or so at this point. We reg...
been hanging with a friend regularly for the last month and have developed feelings for her. Im not sure her interest is there and I'm wondering if I should tell her how I feel or wait for signs of her interest.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by peeing in a stairway POST: Like many stories here, this happened years ago. Back in the day when I attended summer school for SAT's I'd usually hold my piss for until class ended. But for some odd reason, the fucktard of an instructor held us in until the school itself closed, and I ...
there was no bathroom so I pissed in a stairway. Security told me to wait so he can call the cops, I booked it, and made a memory that makes me LOL every time I think of it<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with the craigslist poster [40-50F] who sold me a kitten 6 weeks ago: I had to put down the kitten today, how can I politely suggest that she spay the mother? POST: Hi, /r/relationships. Today's a rough day for me, as I'm putting down a 3 month old kitten. He was born happy ...
Had to put down a 3 month old kitten because of congenital defects, I want to suggest that the mother of the kitten is spayed as politely as possible.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I've(m/25) been seeing a girl(f/23) for three weeks now and really like her. Just found out I'm going overseas for 4 months in August. POST: I think we have really good chemistry and she's definitely the kind of girl I'd like to be with who recognizes equality with a relationsh...
Met a girl I really like. Leaving in August for 4 months and she's going to be gone quite a while up until then.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [20 M] just now feeling depressed about a break up with my now ex-girlfriend [17 F] after a few weeks, we just kind of grew apart... POST: Ok, over the summer I started dating this girl who is now a senior high school and I'm finishing my first year of college. The relationship w...
A girl and I where way to busy for a relationship so we broke up, and I still care about her very much.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29M] with my best friend [28F] putting up the facade of our lives because she's seeing someone else. We might hit up Vegas and elope. POST: So here goes. This needs to get off my chest. She is extraordinarily special to me, on the level of "this is probably the love of my life." ...
We're either eloping or we're not and she's being ridiculously romantic and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (21/f) My boyfriend (24/m) of 3 years has confessed that I am no longer as high of a priority. POST: My boyfriend and I were friends 5+ years before deciding to be in a committed relationship. We have now been together for almost 3 years. During our relationship we have gone from liv...
long time bf and I previously did everything to make relationship work, but since getting a new job my boyfriend has decided that the job in more important than our relationship<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (23F) have recently moved in with my boyfriend (29M) but have fallen into the trap of not being social. POST: I'll start off saying our relationship (of a year plus a complicated two years before that) is great and I'm very happy and in love with my boyfriend. I moved interstate ...
How do I get out of the lazy trap of staying in with my boyfriend all the time instead of going out with friends/meeting people<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: "Fiance" of a year disappeared to Missouri and I found out that he is a compulsive liar. Now I am unsure as to what I should do. POST: My "Fiance" of a year had to go to Missouri to help his Mom move and to help his Dad move a vehicle down to that area. Or so he said. He has be...
Love of my life disappeared and is now acting on his compulsive lying disorder. I do not know whether I should help him or ditch him. I also don't want to ditch him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Am I weird for not wanting to date? [18 M] POST: I'm 18 years old, just graduated, I don't really ever want to date. I've only had one real relationship and that was in 7th grade (which, I agree, isn't saying much). i'm incredibly introverted, but I'm told i'm a cool guy, and m...
I'm not comfortable with the idea and pressures of dating and i don't know if I'll ever be ready. Is it okay to not date?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with guy I dated [30M], ask him what went wrong? POST: I wanted to know if this would be a bad idea. I had 2 dates with this guy, and he seemed really into me. We met at a bar where he asked for my number. He wanted to plan a second date (dinner and a movie) right after the ...
We went on 2 dates and he seemed really excited about me, but then did a complete 180. I want to ask him if I did something wrong, or he's just not interested.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (f/18) don't feel the same about my boyfriend (m/20) POST: We dated for one and a half years, I broke up with him and was single in May then got back together around Halloween. Now things don't feel the same. He moved to Utah, Im from California, in November and honestly gett...
LDR boyfriend is coming for visit and I'm not crazy excited like he is, is there something wrong with me? Is this a sign that we should break up?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend (18F) of over three years is afraid she's missing out on someone else, what can I do? (21M) POST: We have been together for over three years now. I've fallen head over heels for her for quite a while now, but last night she told me she's afraid about our future. I have ...
My girlfriend of three years is worried I'm not the one for her since I'm the only boyfriend she's ever had, what can I do and what have you done?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, I'm needs some advice about businesses and shares POST: I began working for this company (a franchise-to-be restaurant) about 4.5 years ago. I started at a dish washer while still in college, but now I am more of an assistant to the owner. I take care of all the marketing (we...
Was given shares in a private company but i don't have the shares certificate in my hands. What should i do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Guilt from [20] gf. I am [21] male POST: Hey, this is a bit weird. When I get home at night, I like to get on my computer, or lay on the couch with my gf. However, when I do lay down on the couch, she constantly jumps on me, tickles me, etc. and I get frustrated. I'm tired, I do spe...
GF of about 1.5 years constantly wants to pick or play, I don't. I feel bad for it and she makes me feel bad for it, should I?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [15 M] have had a crush on a girl [15 F] for months, and now she's going to a different school POST: So, I'm not confident. I can fake it, on a stage or something, but in real-life situations, I freeze. I've had a crush on a good friend of mine for a few months now, and I haven't t...
Fell for a friend, don't want to make our friendship weird, and now she's going to a different school.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [28F] is miserable due to my [32M] wish to delay having children. POST: We have been Married for a few years. Together for just over 10. Like everyone else, we have our ups and downs (Mostly ups!) but lately things are spiraling downhill fast due to her desire to have childr...
Wife wants the baby, she wants the baby now. I wanted to wait. Wife resents the hell out of me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [18F] almost positive that my boyfriend [20M] is in love (and possibly cheating on me) with another woman. [20F] POST: So my boyfriend and I have been dating on-and-off for two years now. Our relationship has been pretty good, but some things have come to light that I'm not so co...
I have reason to suspect that my boyfriend is in love and maybe even cheating on me with his close friend from high school, but I have no physical proof other than what I've been told. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Open invitation to work for company I'm interning for but "not an official job offer?" POST: So last night, I had dinner with my mentor (the director of graphic design) and the art director of the company I'm interning for. I had requested this meeting in order to talk about their paths afte...
Was told I had an open invitation to come back to work for company I'm interning for, then told the next day that "it wasn't an official job offer."<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[21F] SO[22M] recently started smoking pot and I'm trying to get used to it. POST: I'm a 21f, he's a 22m and we've been together for almost 6 years. We don't live together. I'll preface by saying that I have nothing against smoking weed, it's just something that I'm not intereste...
SO smokes, I don't. I would like some insight on how to bridge the gap between feeling uncomfortable about him smoking and get to the point where it doesn't bother me at all.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[23F] SO[27M]'s friend[23F] is overstepping a huge boundary and flirting loads. What's my place? POST: For a short back story on my SO and I, we have been together for four years with a year long break up inbetween. everything has been going well and the reason we broke up before w...
SO's friend is the snarky sneaky devil and is trying to do him regardless of my existence. What am I supposed to say?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit: where should I move in the US and why? POST: Some background details: * I'm about to graduate college (ultrasound degree) and need to start applying for jobs. Wherever I get a job I will move to, but I would like reddit's opinion on where I should apply and why. * I'm a 25 yea...
I'm graduating and moving soon. What are good places around the US to move to that the cost of living isn't too high?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [M22]with my brother[M15]and sister [F15] are having a hard time dealing with our dad[D47]I think he's emotional abusing us POST: I have no idea how I'm going to explain this so I will just try my best sorry. This has been going on all our lives. He has been like this all his l...
Whenever my dad gets mad of something he always gets mad at us and even blame us a lot and he's selfish a lot and he can never lose an argument because you cannot convince him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: When should I (30/M) ask her (28/F) to be my girlfriend? POST: Hi guys and gals, I need help finding the right direction. It has been about 10 years I have dated someone new, and so I am bit out of practice. I did managed to get four dates with the a girl that I really like. From ...
Went on four dates already, but I am not sure when I should ask her to be my girlfriend or what is the next step?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23f] think I left my fiancé [26m] last night and I'm not sure I made the right decision POST: My fiancé and I have been together for 3 years, got engaged in June. We've had a seemingly good relationship. We've had our fair share of fights but have always gotten through them. We've...
I left my good-guy fiancé lastnight because I just feel like I'm not ready and might be missing something. Am I messing up my life?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I haven't signed a new lease, can the company I'm renting from screw me over? POST: Hey Redditors, I've got a question pertaining to the non-existent lease I'm under right now... I've been renting my house for a year + almost two months now. I was getting tossed around to new property m...
after 1+ year of renting, I haven't been asked to sign a new lease. can this get me in trouble in any way?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My fiancee (23F) and I (23M) can't have a honeymoon and it's really bringing her down. POST: Basically, I've been with my fiancee for 6 years, I love her a whole lot, all that jazz. We weren't planning on getting married for another year or so but a few months ago she found out she ...
We can't have a honeymoon and fiancee is upset, it's been a year of ups and downs already. How can I make things right?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: A guy [18M] likes me [22F] and I have no interest. He constantly messages me even though I told him I need space. POST: I have never even met this guy. I talked to him on Yik Yak and then Kik, and added him on Facebook. He constantly tells me how I am so cute and how he really really...
Much younger guy I met on Yik Yak/added on Facebook seems to have a crush on me but I am not interested. Tried to explain this but he keeps flirting with me even though I don't reciprocate.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 F] with my boyfriend [31 M] of 2 years, and his model mayhem account POST: My boyfriend of 2 years has a model mayhem account. He has had it for longer than I have known him as he used to be really into photography. He has met a few girls off the site and taken photos of them....
My boyfriend of 2 years has a model mayhem account and I believe that he probably masturbates to the girls on there. Am I overreacting by being upset by this?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/F] Muslim currently in a relationship where my atheist boyfriend [22/m] and I clash over religion, even though I don't practice Islam despite being a Muslim. POST: Firstly, excuse the numerous poor grammatical errors I've made in the title. I'm not exactly sober right now. ...
I'm a hypocritical, non practising, believing Muslim girl who gets butthurt when her "~unhalal~" boyfriend insults Islam. Help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIGotPranked by my former Math Teacher POST: So my former math teacher is really awesome, lots of jokes and everything. He usually goes off on a tangent (lol) and tells us random stories (He's got the biggest dog in the neighborhood, proceeds to show a picture of a horse, etc.)(yes, the stori...
Teacher tells crazy stories and we take some time to catch the April Fool's stories. One story he tells is too crazy, but it's actually real.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: eBay is charging me $31 for an item that I deleted after someone attempted to scam me out of it. What do I do? POST: Okay, so, about a month ago, I tried to sell my laptop on Ebay. It was the first item I'd sold on that account, so I had no feedback. I had read that scammers tend to go f...
Someone tried to scam me for a laptop, marked it as paid for, and now eBay wants their cut of the money that I never got.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Accepted a pricey gift from my ex of 2 years, didn't tell current SO. POST: My exbf and I dated for a year & a half. We broke up once before (because he was acting fucking shady and i think he was cheating) and it really wasn't much better second time around so I ended it. We didn't ...
broken phone, short on cash, wealthy ex bought me a replacement, then tried to use it to manipulate me into sleeping with him again. should I tell the new SO about what I did?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can my girlfriend move to a new apartment to get away from her druggy roommates? POST: Backstory: My girlfriend lives with 3 other girls. Girl 1 smokes weed every day and does pills, girl 2 does crack, and girl 3 sells pills. Shes been talking to a cop friend, and he says that reporting ...
Girlfriends roommates do and sell drugs and she doesn't want to get in trouble or be pointed to for calling them out on it. Apartment ignores the problem.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Uncertain about whether or not I should talk to my SO about something: POST: I am a female, early twenties. My S.O. and I have been together several years and are very close, 100% comfortable with each other, live together, very much in love and happy. I am struggling with whether ...
Having nightmares about something that happened in my past, don't know if I should tell my SO about them or not.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I tell her or leave her? POST: So I'll start by saying that I'm 35 and i went back to college to try to better my life. I look really young, like 22, so everyone assumes I'm that age and i don't really advertise my age. I've been seeing this girl who's 22. It just started as...
I'm 35 and she's 22 and she doesn't know my real age. Should i tell her or leave her?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Texting with her = Interestingly Frustrating POST: I'm a 21 year old male, she's 21 as well. We've known each other for a few years now. Obviously texting problems are very petty. However, this was bugging so I wanted to see what you guys think of this... I started talking to her ag...
Texting. She doesn't initiate conversation or ask questions, but genuinely seems interested and enthusiastic when texting. She also does not attempt to revive conversations that hit a lull... What the Frack?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How about things that should have gotten you fired from your job, but didn't? POST: Between my 2nd and 3rd years of university I needed a summer job desperately but the market in my city, even for shitty jobs, was basically dried up. I finally got an interview around the end of May for a...
lied to get job as a DBA and then altruistic Access monkeys on tech forums built all of my databases for me<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 23F and 25M thinking of moving back in with parents, how will this affect the relationship? POST: Hi everyone, I searched this sub for a similar post but didn't really find anything so hopefully this isn't a common thing that I'm reposting! My bf(25M) and I (23F) have been tog...
been living on our own for 8 months but stressed about money so thinking of moving back home with parents. How did this go with other couples?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Redditors of Arizona, I could use some assistance please! (Around the phoenix area) Serious! POST: Hey guys, Me and my friend are about to embark on a journey from the small town of Lenoir in North Carolina to somewhere around Goodyear/Phoenix area of Arizona. Now the assistance I need is ...
Im moving to the phoenix/goodyear area of Arizona looking for places to put in application that will do on the phone interviews, looking for nice places to live and any advice for two friends moving across the country together.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [19M] How to approach a girl I've never met? POST: Basically, what are some tips for approaching a girl in college you know absolutely nothing about, and only see infrequently walking to class or see her eating dinner with her friends? Long version of my particular story: There's t...
I think I like this girl I don't even know. She smiled back at me once. How do I meet her?!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [21F] frustrated at my boyfriend [24M] who has chosen to continue our long distance relationship after 3 years, despite an option to end it POST: My boyfriend and I went to the same undergrad school but he graduated before me. When he graduated, we made the decision to stay toget...
Boyfriend has chosen to go to law school across the country from where I will be going to grad school, despite an option at a (potentially even better) school and I don't know how to handle it without seeming bitter.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] with my boyfriend [22 M] 1 year next month, he drops by unexpectedly and it drives me nuts! POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, and he has a key to my place because sometimes he comes over when I'm not here to wait for me, or he comes over ...
How do I tell my boyfriend that I don't want him to just drop by on me anymore, without making him feel like he's unwanted? I just need him to ask me first!<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] for 2 years, not feeling any sexual attraction: will things get better when we start having sex? POST: Started dating. She doesn't want sex before marriage. She is very attracted sexually. I start suffering from blue balls often. We start getting s...
I'm not having sex with my gf because of her religious believes. I'm feeling bad that there is no attraction/seduction/arousal in our relationship. Will things get better if we marry and start having sex?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (27F) boyfriend (29M) is 'anti-marriage', and I really want to get married. Is it irrational for me to be upset? POST: My boyfriend of 9 months and I are blissfully in love. We have plans to move in together and start a life together, buy a house, get a dog, etc. The problem: I ...
I want to get married, but my boyfriend doesn't. Should I let this get in the way of us having a lifelong partnership?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [19/m] cheated on my gf [18/f] two years ago POST: So it all starts around three years ago, when we first met. At first I had just broken up with my ex and I didn't want a serious relationship, so we ere just friends with benefits for a while. Then we started dating, and six ...
cheated on my gf two years ago, we have now the perfect relationship but she coult find out and I don't know if I should tell her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] just received the "we need to talk" text from my girlfriend [26F]. What does this likely mean? POST: I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 years now. Today she went out for lunch with her coworkers and when she got there she sent me a text saying she had arrived and th...
My girlfriend sent me the "we need to talk" text and switched her phone off and I'm freaking out at work. What does this text mean?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 F] with my (Abusive) Mother [47F] I'm attending my grandfather's funeral on Saturday, and I've avoided her fr months. She's supposed to be there. Can anyone help me plan to minimize the damage? POST: BACKGROUND: My mother is abusive, and refuses to admit this. Last September s...
Attending funeral where my abusive mother will be- How do I avoid a blowout and minimizing damage in the event of one. We don't speak and she's been trying to force contact.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I don't know if this is the right sub, but I [19F] think I have a stalker[26?M] POST: A little over a year ago, I met a man who we will call "K" gave me his phone number. Soon after, I told him that I wasn't interested in a relationship with him. K came into my work a few times, but ...
Guy keeps coming into my work place and watching me, but doesn't do anything else. He leaves when he knows that I've seen him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having a threezie in my parents house. POST: Like most posts this happened when I was younger. Roughly 15. I was talking with this girl from my school on the MySpace (fuck I'm getting old) and we would regularly talk about sex. She was more open minded than most and we started talking...
my stepfather almost caught me mid Eiffel Tower threezie but just thinks my friend and I are gay now.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [35M] am pretty sure that my wife [37F] is not attracted to me. POST: When I met my wife 7 years ago, we were both in great shape. I'm 6'4", and was 215 at the time. However, I've always been somewhere between 250-300 since high school, with a very sedentary lifestyle. After we'...
My wife won't have sex with me, and I'm fairly certain it's because she isn't attracted to my obese body. I'm consistently losing weight, but uncertain is this going to ever make her attracted to me again?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [35 M] with my close family and friends, they all think I'm unhappy or depressed because I'm not married. Why do they assume I'm unhappy? POST: Hello. I'll try not to rant. Last night we had a large extended family birthday party. My uncle, who I've always been close with, patte...
my close friends and family members think I'm unhappy and make awkward comments about it. I am very happy! What gives?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: Can't afford the college I'm going to. I'm constantly worried that I'll be forced to drop out due to costs. POST: Some basic info for people who'd rather not read a large text. - Parents are going through bankruptcy so they can't cosign loans - I have bad credit history from medical bills ...
Scared I'll be kicked out of school because I can't afford it. Trying everything I can but I don't know what else to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (28 F) am unsure if I should buy concert tickets for my boyfriend (36 M) POST: I was unsure how to word the title because my reason behind all of this is a bit petty. Anyways, here it goes. At the end of the month, a 3 day music festival is coming to town with a lot of big artist ...
boyfriend promised two dates, they didn't happen. Now it's time to buy tickets for us and I don't want to.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why is it that redditors support science, yet also support homosexuality when there is no scientific backing to it? POST: Meaning, there is no DNA evidence to conclude that someone is attracted to the same sex. Humans were meant to procreate and reproduce and homosexuality completely goe...
I don't think being gay is natural. This isn't about marriage or even religion, just purely scientific. If I am ignorant about specific studies that have proven homosexuality can exist prove me wrong (observations don't count).<|endoftext|>