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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [22/F] tell my boyfriend [23 M] That I don't like his gift?
POST: My boyfriend got me this figurine thing for my surprise graduation gift, and it's cute but really pointless and kind of expensive for being totally useless. It's a bear figurine from Swarovski if anyone was cu... | Boyfriend got me a useless gift and said he could exchange it if I wanted. Should I say something or would that be even worse?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 M] don't find my girlfriend [30 F] (for six months) sexually attractive but love her with all my heart.
POST: Normally, I'd say that it doesn't make any sense to continue this relationship but she truly loves me with everything she has and would do everything for me. I also lov... | I'm not physically attracted to my girlfriend but love her and want to be with her. However she wants that I love her physically which is exhausting for me. What to do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is it worth my time? [m22][f18]
POST: I am a 22 male and a couple months back a girl started working at the store I work at(18). Well it started out just friends, I flirted because I was interested she playfully flirted back. Well at one point she decided to tell two of my friends th... | Crazy for this girl, she is crazy for me we both are into the idea of us but she is confused and not ready...Want to know if I should just wait it out and if so how long?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: How do I make friends from different social groups?
POST: I'm in high school, and there is a girl I like. Problem is, we're from two way different social circles (I in a group of geeks and nerds, and her in super athletic even smarter people.) Anyway, she is one of the most popular kids,... | How can I rekindle a friendship from 4 or 5 years ago with a girl who is smarter, more athletic, taller, more attractive, and more popular?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by hitting on another woman in front of my wife
POST: Didn't happen today, but you know how it goes.
I was at a party and drank quite a lot with some other people from my University (am a graduate student). My wife was at another party with her friends (all girls). After my party ended I... | don't change seats when your drunk husband is sitting next to you. He will hit on whoever sits in your seat.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: My parents argue and I'm honestly going insane by this. Don't know what to do.
POST: My parents always argued and it honestly never bothered me too much, even as a little kid. Some time ago, don't know exactly when, can't remember, those fights intensified. They are more numerous and louder... | Parents arguing about alcoholism on one of the parties. No idea how to cope with that and get things done school-wise.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are the chances that I will pass a hair follicle drug test?
POST: After turning in over two hundred job applications this year, I'm almost secured for steady employment, waiting tables at a country club. My employment is contingent on a passing drug test.
I am a [paruretic] meaning... | I've smoked marijuana twice in the past 90 days. Will I test positive for THC on a hair follicle test?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [19 F] of 7 months: our relationship feels imbalanced, and my efforts don't seem reciprocated
POST: We are both 2nd year university students, studying the same course. We've been going out about 7 months, the longest I've ever been in a relationship. She'... | I think I love my girlfriend, but I don't feel anything coming from her. I really just wanted to tell someone anonymously, but any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks for taking the time to read!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: My girlfriend and I had a fight. I think I handled it pretty well.
POST: So my girlfriend and I (25M, 21F) had our second fight ever. We've been together for 2 years now.
Basically, I work at a club and she came in to visit me like normal but when I finished work and went to hang ou... | Had a fight about something silly with my girlfriend. I got frustrated, lost my cool and went for a walk. I never called her any names. Came home, said sorry, had sex. Handled it like a boss."<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/f] My boyfriend [21/m] won't get a job, plays Xbox all the time, and is failing college. It's a major turn off and I don't know how to approach him about it.
POST: I met him right before he graduated high school and here we are a little bit over a year later and I love him ... | SO won't get a job because his Mommy said so, is going to drop out of college, and spends an unhealthy amount of time gaming. How can I let him know that I am sincerely concerned about his lifestyle?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice
TITLE: Someone posted a supremely creepy picture to an all men Facebook group my boyfriend is a member of. Details within. Am I right to be this squicked out?
POST: My boyfriend is a member of this dumb all-men secret Facebook group. They mostly post misogynistic jokes and naked pics of pr... | my boyfriend just showed me a post someone made to a secret Facebook group of a girl at a bar. The posts and comments are gross. How do I make this right in my mind?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24/F] get the feeling that my bf [28/M] holds back in our relationship because he was hurt once before. How do I better understand this and not take it personally?
POST: My bf and I have been together for two years. Before me, he was with a girl for four years and then had about a... | My bf was hurt by an ex before and still treads lightly in our relationship now because he doesn't want history to repeat itself.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [30 M] not sure if I am still in love with my GF [29F] 12 years, I dont know if I still feel the same
POST: Hi I am using a throwaway as my gf uses reddit.
I've been with her for 12 years. Been living together for 5 years. Over the last 2 years I feel I'm not in love with her.
I... | Been with partner for a long time. Not sure if I feel the same for her, I don't know what todo. No on to turn to<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of over two years, I sometimes feel like I'm missing out?
POST: I've been with my girlfriend for over two years, and she's moved to be with me, yet lately I sometimes get these feelings that I'm missing out on being single. I'm perfectly happy and ... | Feel like I'm missing out on being single, though madly in love with girlfriend and would never choose to be single over being with her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] with my (unknown, prolly going downhill) [19 F] 2 mths, it's probably gonna end in the next few hours
POST: To be honest I kinda already know there's no way forward, but I just want to put this case to rest once and for all.
So there's this girl I'm interested in, known fo... | Hanging out with her, she offers to introduce friends to me. Also mentions that only ever met 2 guys that have met her criteria<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27f] brought raisins to my bf [27m] place. There was about a quarter left and she got into it. I'm panicking please help
POST: I don't know why I'm posting, probably for reassurance. I'm going out of my mind right now, but my bf's dog (I think of as my own). Got into the last quar... | I stupidly left a can or raisins on my bf's nightstand, and our dog ate the remainder of it (about a quarter of the can). Raisins are toxic to dogs.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How big of an asshole am I [32 M] being to my friend [22 F], and how do I stop?
POST: It seems as though the two people that I consider to be my best friends are also my most unreliable friends, both of which are female. I mention them both to highlight the issue.
For one of these t... | Feeling bitter about a a slow response from a crush that is known to be slow to respond, How do I get over it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: I [18m] i just miss my ex [16f].
POST: We dated for 8 months, i broke up with her, first 2 months of being broken up were a crazy mess of ups and downs, then no contact for 7 months, until two weeks ago when i talked to her, since then we have decided to be friends, because she missed me ... | im pretty sure im just an idiot who wants his ex back because i think shes amazing and honestly i love her still .<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [21F] in a happy relationship [with 21M], but I've developed a crush on a mutual friend [22M]
POST: I've been in a happy, healthy relationship with my boyfriend Jack for almost 2 years now. We met through mutual friends, and were friends ourselves for a short while before we sta... | Despite being in a fulfilling relationship I would like to see lasting a long time, I have developed a crush on a mutual friend. I feel guilty and awkward. How do I make this go away?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [28/M] not sure how to tell this girl [26/F] (5 dates, about a month) about my insecurities
POST: A bit of background on me: I have been single my entire life and have never dated/slept with anyone, ever, until meeting this girl. This is a MAJOR source of insecurity for me and I ... | Formerly forever alone and insecure about it, met a nice girl, don't know how to open up and tell her the truth without scaring her away<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21F] broke up with my BF [21M] of almost 5 years because I felt unhappy but I'm now heartbroken.
POST: My BF and I had been dating since we were in highschool. In our almost 5 years he fit really well in my family and established a strong friendship with my uncles and created a 4W... | I felt unhappy in my relationship and all close friends and family told me to leave but now I'm heartbroken and wondering if I made a mistake.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Am I (20/f) a bad girlfriend to my gorgeous gamer(21/m)? Please help
POST: My boyfriend (21m) and I (20/f) are both gamers. While I engage in more than 50 hours (max) of gameplay with him a week, it shits me when he I ask him to do something important (over skype/text usually) ... | Boyfriend and I are gamers but he gives games too much priority over education and often our relationship. Am I being unreasonable/possessive?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Apparently I'm an asshole with a bad sense of humor
POST: So I made a friend online, just kinda happened. Been talking for nearly a year, all playful banter and stuff. She sends a message one day talking about how she was diagnosed with mental issues. (She mentioned earlier about dep... | I'm not funny, I'm rude, and I don't know how to deal with people telling me their problems.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Work said I was on call, I got called in to work now they say that I wasnt on call need help.
POST: Hey I work as a casual for a company (going to leave it unnamed) and I was put on call, on my roster it said
monday: on call
Tuesday: on call
So I was like thats weird we dont normally ... | was put on call for work now they are saying I wasnt technically on call, I feel like ive been duped I didnt make any plans yesterday or today because I "thought" I was on call<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M/18] want to ask out a girl [F/17] who is in a long distance relationship.
POST: I recently moved across the country this past summer, prior to starting my senior year of high school. With that being said, I don't know anyone that well yet, even 4 months into the year.
However,... | I like a girl who's in a long distance relationship with someone who's in college 8 hours away. I feel that she's a perfect fit. Should I pursue her? If so, how? If not, then what?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: I'm (23m) throwing away a dream situation (25f).
POST: I'm an idiot. I dated this girl for 6 months and she's perfect. She's incredibly laid-back, friendly, athletic, and we get along so well. We've never been in a fight. My friends love her. She's gorgeous. The sex is incredib... | The greatest, coolest, and prettiest girl I know is in love with me, I may be in love with her, and I told her I don't want to be with her<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to Handle Girlfriend's Overbearing Mother?
POST: We're both 24 and finishing grad school, have been dating about a month and a half, and have been friends around seven months. Neither of us is financially independent. She lives with her single mother, who raised her (deadbeat dad... | Girlfriend's mother is ruining our relationship with her neediness. Girlfriend is passive. Is it worth putting up with?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 F] with my BF [27M/F] 5 years, lived together and he paid rent, now we're broken up and he say I have to pay up
POST: Just what the title says. Sorry for the long version - we moved around a lot! I lived with my boyfriend since we started dating. In college, he'd stay at my ap... | Boyfriend and I lived together for two years with me not paying rent. Now we are broken up and he wants to sue for that money. Does he have grounds?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] feel like my ex [24F] who broke up with me 5 months should apologize
POST: Yesterday I found out that my ex has a boyfriend, and was devastated yet again. The same pain and suffering came back to haunt me. I've written a couple of posts here about my breakup before because I ... | Ex left me in a really indecent way, told me it was my fault, I apologized for my wrongdoings she didn't. 5 months later she has a new boyfriend now, and I have nothing.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Read Gf's journal entry kind of by accident, idk what to do now that I have
POST: My girlfriend (23) and I (29) have been together for two years and she moved in about six months ago. We are really open with one another, or so I thought until today. Her laptop was sitting open on the... | Stumbled upon some writing by my gf leading me to believe something is very wrong. Not sure what to do.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: Her [21/f] habit of silent and angry/sad reaction is finally wearing me [28/m] down
POST: We've been in this relationship for nearly 3 years. At the beginnig when I would say something to upset her, she would storm away and not talk to me for a day and half. And once she re-est... | Gf of 3 years cuts communication after getting upset without telling me why until much later. She's improved since we first met but I'm at my limit in dealing with it any longer. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A very silly rant that I need to get out.
POST: Okay this may sound absolutely dramatic and ridiculous. But its really bothering me and I just need to say it. My boyfriend rated me a really long time ago. He gave me a 9 and stated I would of been a 10 if I had a nicer butt. He didnt... | My SO rated me a 9 a very long time ago and I am giving it to much thought and complaining about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Debating whether or not to ask her out (m/15)
POST: I'm in grade 10 (15 years old) and I've known this girl since 7th grade and I've always really liked her. In 8th and 9th grade I dated other girls because while I did like her, I thought our friendship was too valuable, and she prob... | Liked this girl for about 3 years now, didn't want to ask her out because of our friendship. Don't see her much now and debating whether or not I should.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge
TITLE: Be EXTREMELY loud in the computer lab? Maybe you shouldn't forget to log off...
POST: This story is from a friend of mine while we were in college.
We were in the computer lab at our university where everyone understands is a place for studying, working, etc. It is NOT a place to bla... | Asshole plays music in the computer lab, my friend uses Asshole's account to send fake emails to Asshole's classes and professors saying everyone should skip.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I keep my standards and continue being Forever Alone?
POST: 22m here on the cusp of dating a 18f. A slight problem is that I'm a virgin and she's extremely experienced. A bigger problem is that she talks about ex-boyfriends a bit. It normally wouldn't bug me so much, but the g... | Girl continues to plummet down my list of standards yet I keep making exceptions due to my inexperience. Should I just take the leap or keep my standards high and move on?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, as cliched as this may be, how do you get over someone?
POST: I responded to a post about being "hung up on someone" and that is my problem. It really puts me in a bad mood thinking about it so here is my story.
Met a girl in college a few years ago, got to know each other but I... | Horrible at dating women, but was in a position where I could choose girl 1 or girl 2. Picked girl #2, but to this day think about what could have happened if I picked girl #1.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: I want it gone.
POST: I recently discovered this subreddit, and while my friend laughed at some of the stories and pictures, I found them to be inspiring, and to take control before it controls me.
I'm 18 years old and I weigh about 260 lbs. I'm not really unhealthy, I just don't even fee... | I need tips on losing fat before early July. Anything will help. Anything you need to know, I'll say it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26/F] with my husband [25 M] of one year, is his twisted humor okay, or am I blowing it out of proportion?
POST: My blonde five-year-old daughter (husband's stepdaughter) has recently had a huge growth spurt. We bought her new clothes, including new underwear.
As I was foldin... | Husband joked about selling daughter's used underwear to old men. I asked him to leave for tonight and he refuses.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by texting my devoutly christian and conservative roommate about my one-hitter while I was secretly getting high on our apartment balcony
POST: So this actually happened last night but I wanted to share it here because I was freaking out for awhile.
I live in an apartment with two girls,... | Told my conservative roommate that my one-hitter "RIPS" while blazed. Lived to tell the tale thanks to LoL.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my friend[17F], I feel like an emotion sponge for this girl. What do I even do?
POST: Me and this lady have been friends throughout my high school career. That's all fine and dandy for the most part save for when she gets into a relationship with some other guy. I wanna... | A lady ignores me every time she has a boyfriend, until emotional problems happen with this boyfriend. I'm to nice to tell her to leave me alone. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 /F] constantly fighting with my mom[46/F].
POST: My parents are the sweetest people you would ever find, they have always loved me and encouraged me. They always take me out on weekends and they get me whatever i want and let me do my own thing.I still find myself constantly f... | I just want advice on what exactly is going wrong, why am i so bad to my mom even though she is the best?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by trying to take down a Football player.
POST: So I'm typing this now because i couldn't use my right arm on thursday.
I'm in Highschool gym class and we are playing football, its only second period and the grass we are on is still wet from the morning dew. I am a Distance runner but w... | I tried to block a football player running at full speed and broke my right collarbone and sprained my left wrist before finals.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I might lose my job, advice please, I'm scared.
POST: I'm going to do my best to give details without giving away my identity, so please bear with me. I'm desperate.
Basically, I've received two performance based warnings for similar incidents. I just had another incident happen yesterday ... | Might get fired or put on probation for 30, 60, or 90 days? I need advice on what to do in either situation. Fight for my job? Just take the probation to prevent getting fired?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (19/F) am having issues with my unmotivated, lazy bf. (20/M)
POST: My 20 year old boyfriend (been dating for one year) does not work, lives with his mother, and does not have his high school diploma. He failed English his senior year and has failed the CBE test more than once. He h... | My boyfriend (year long relationship) refuses to have any motivation to finish his high school diploma, get a job, etc. Should I give him an ultimatum and take a break so he might take initiative to finish it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How can I [25M] get over my ex [25F] of 5 years when we share a son and constantly see each other?
POST: Background: She and I dated long distance throughout college, got pregnant together (accidentally) at 21, had the child and raised him together with no arguments over child suppor... | Can't get over my ex because we share a son, and we have to see each other all the time. How does one get over an ex when one is forced to interact with them for the good of the child?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25F] with my boyfriend [24M] of almost 3 years just told me he took another girl out to dinner several months ago.
POST: In comparison to the extent of cheaters here, this will seem like nothing, but I still feel betrayed.
My bf and I (generally speaking) are happy, and we get o... | boyfriend feels really guilty about taking another girl out on a date when he felt like he needed validation in his looks. Now he's trying hard to fix things, but I still feel betrayed...<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by not knowing how to shut off my car for 6 months
POST: Well im 23 years old.. got my first car about 6 months ago a 95' lincoln mark viii its a beauty. Well i bought the car and the battery kept dying and figured when i got it, needs a new battery right? buy a new 130$ battery thought ... | Thought my car had a draw in the battery kept dying. Wasnt Turning the Key back to the position it needed to be to shut off i turned the key as far back as it could go.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [20 M] FWB [19 F] asked to be my girlfriend and I said yes. I am regretting that decision.
POST: I feel like such a scumbag but I think I need to be honest about my feelings instead of pretending I don't have them.
So I met this girl online about 2 months ago and we hit it off. S... | Do I break up with her? Ask to back to being FWB? Ask for an open relationship? How do I go about these things?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I [28 M] tell someone I'm dating [29F] that I have doubts about the future of our relationship?
POST: Hello! First time poster, long time lurker.
I've been dating someone for about four months now. We don't argue, we generally have a decent time and we get along well! She's ... | Having doubts about getting into a long term relationship with someone I'm dating, wondering whether to bring it up and if so, how. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 F] with my crush [21 M] duration, short- I really am starting to have feelings and don't know how to initiate :(
POST: I've only jut started going out drinking with my friends, and we frequent a bar at night which is open till late, like early morning late, and the place is ve... | Chubbier than his ex gf girl wants to start talking to a guy but afraid of rejection and can't initiate conversation<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: A girl [19F] that I [18M] have been dating for a bit says she wants to just be friends. Should I ask if she wants to try a relationship?
POST: A little background: we have been going out since April. We like each other a lot but live about 2 hours away, but go to the same university... | Girl asks if we can just be friends but I'm very certain it's just because she's afraid of being hurt in a relationship. Do I pursue a relationship with her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I (m20) am an idiot. Went too far on a first date even though I'm not sure if I want a relationship with her (f19). How to proceed?
POST: So recently I (m20) went on a date with this girl (f19), and we have a ton in common. At the end we went to her place, and started fooling around.... | gave/received oral sex on a first date, but not sure if ready for a relationship. How do I tell her about my doubts?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Girlfriend feels insecure and i can't comfort her or i don't understand. Help?
POST: My gf and i (were both 17) have been together for 3 months, and shes always felt insecure about herself. I don't understand what to do or how to react. I've tried convincing her otherwise but it only... | Gf feels insecure, don't know how to deal with it. Normal things aren't working. Need female perspective/advice<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by letting a white kid show me his Taekwondo skills.
POST: So this event actually took place a long time ago back when I was in the 3rd grade. During Lunchtime we were having a break and we were playing on the playground. Well the whitest kid I know had been taking Taekwondo lessons. He ... | trusted someone to show me some Taekwondo ended up having to go to E.R. to get 7 staples in the back of my head.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Ulcerative Colitis & acne medication? Need advice!
POST: Howdy Reddit,
I'll cut to the chase: I used Acutane, an anti-acne medication, back around 8 years ago. This stuff worked amazingly well, but was told of possible side-effects. I finished the treatment with no issues, and was happy... | I used Acutane, anti-acne drug, and it worked wonders. Now I have UC, and am pretty sure of a connection. Can I sue to pay back my medical costs?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [20/m] My best friend (19/m)
POST: Greetings true believers!
I discovered myself this summer, found out that I've been repressing my homosexuality. Over the past 5 years I've had a crush (I never knew it was love) on my best friend yadaa, yadda. It's the same basic story some o... | Admitted liking friend, he didn't help me when I was sexually confused, told me there was something wrong with me, told me to drop it. Should I resent him for abandoning me when I asked for help?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My Boyfriend of 3 months wants to buy me an Apple Watch for Christmas.
POST: Okay so here is the situation, I [M23] have been in a relationship with this guy [M28] for only about 3 months. We are serious/committed/you-get-the-point. For the first day I met him I just know that this w... | My Boyfriend of 3 months wants to buy me an apple watch for christmas, I say no, he gets angry.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [18/M] I did something that would end a 4 year friendship if I confessed. Should I confess?
POST: I am too embarrassed to say what it is, but I betrayed my best friend of 4 years. It is the biggest regret of my life so far, and it lingers in the back of my mind every single day. It i... | I did something that would end a friendship, and all the friendships around it, do I confess or try to forget the past?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Wanting to Date a Former Student, Meet Her Kids, So On
POST: Hey all! Simple questions, but I have only found inelegant answers elsewhere on the internet.
25/yo male here. Never really had a relationship last a long time (a year is about my limit), never lived with anyone, never co... | Want to ask a former student out who is older than me in the least awkward way possible. Also want to say that I think it's awesome she has kids, and that I'm looking for a family myself without imposing on her.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to deal with a micromanaging mother?
POST: I've just finished my second year of university (I'm 19/m) in Toronto, CA, and once again I'm struggling to get work in my hometown while my mother incessantly nags me about it. What's worse, my mother invited my girlfriend (20) of 5 mon... | Mom nagging me to get a job, while girlfriend and i are trying hard to get one. Both getting sick of it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Hey Reddit : what's the weirdest rule you've ever had at school?
POST: I go to a private high school everyday and for the last 4 years that I've been there they kept making stricter rules. Before, it was a school where you were mostly free to do normal things, now it's really like we're ... | I used to go to a wonderful school where we were free, now it's like we're living under a dictatorship because of some weird, unnecessary rules.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My SO (24/M) has started basically living in my (25/F) apartment. How to tell him to leave without starting a fight?
POST: Throwaway because we both reddit. My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. We have apartments in the same complex, because I wanted to move closer to... | My boyfriend has basically started living at my apartment, I want him to live at his apartment. How to tell him to please pack his stuff and leave in the nicest, most loving way possible?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Sudden changes in communication mannerisms? (I'm 21M, she's 19F)
POST: Unfamiliar situation wrapped inside of an unusual circumstance; please bear with me!
A girl I've known for five years - my best friend and mutual crush of the past two years - just returned from a summer abroad. ... | Long-time mutual crush's communication mannerisms changed suddenly to be less warm; not sure what it means (if anything).<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I[M?17] met someone [F19]...but I'm too annoying!
POST: So I'm a queer non binary boy whose met this really cute girl. We like the same music, she's into the same stuff as me, and she's been texting with me for a little bit, so I think she's interested.
However, she doesn't alwa... | I think I'm annoying this girl I like, but I don't know how to confront her without seeming too insecure.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: My impulse spending is finally under control! :D
POST: I've been thinking about buying diamond earrings for months now. Today I was in the store, saw a pair I like, and even tried them on. But when I was looking at my reflection I thought, "I just completely paid off my card so I c... | If you have impulse spending problems, think about your dreams and goals in life, and how much it's worth stealing money from your future self to buy something current self wants all of sudden for no reason.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm (18m) in love with my best friend(18f)
POST: So I'm in love with my best friend of 2 years. It gets complicated so I'll do my best to explain the situation.
I'm going to call her Grace. I met Grace through my oldest friend who you could also call a best friend. When I first met ... | I am in love with my best friend who is also my best friend's girlfriend but, I'm a little morally conflicted as to whether or not I should pursue a relationship.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What was your biggest heartbreak (or regretful relationship), and how has it affected your following relationship(s)?
POST: I'll post mine if this becomes active.
TL;DR: | Girl led me on for 2+ yrs. Broke my heart. I don't take time to get to know girls now, just date, and not for very long.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [34 M] with my 28 [F] and her close friend 27[M], Their super close friendship I find suspicious and need some perspective.
POST: My fiance and I have been together for 3 1/2 years and have always have a good relationship with fair communication. The anxiety im feeling right now ... | Fiance spends a large amount of time talking to her friend everyday who i recently discovered used to date her. Am I being silly by feeling nervous?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22F) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (39M) for six months now, and I'm wondering how the friends/family of other couples with a larger age gap feel about it
POST: My boyfriend and I are really great together, but we've kept our relationship pretty low key so far beca... | I want to introduce my older boyfriend to my friends/family soon, and would like to hear some experiences that others in a similar situation had.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19 F] falling in love with my married [40 M] professor?
POST: So, in response to someone else's recommendation this is a cross-post from something I put up in the college subreddit.
It's pretty stupid. I don't really want to pursue anything with him, but I get nervous whenever I ... | I have feelings for someone I can't have and don't want to have who specializes in a field I'm interested in pursuing post-college. Any advice for coping?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by telling someone I was stoned.
POST: If you guys know me from my last FU, My name is Jay and I did it again. Last time I fucked up I got high for the first time and this time. I told someone I was high. Well this is how it went down, I work in an airport hotel known as the Sheraton, it... | Got high all day and told the CEO of the building I work in that I was high and got shit canned in front of some people.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it too early to tell my [26/m] girlfriend [24/f] that I love her?
POST: I met this girl online and we've been official for about a month and a half, and we dated for a month prior to making it official.
I love the shit out of her, no question, she's amazing and I think we have a ... | Been dating somebody for a total of 2.5 months -- I love her, but I can't tell if she does. Do I just say it, or wait?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (M24) am thinking about leaving my girlfriend (F24) of 2+ years.
POST: Not sure what to do. We have been dating for 2 and 1/2 years. We are in our second apartment together and have gone through a lot. This is the girl I once was convinced I'd marry, but now I am questioning our f... | I am considering breaking up with girlfriend whom I have been with for over 2 years and would like some feedback and/or advice.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: He's (23m) been leading me (22f) on for years. How can I turn my hurt into anger so I can detach?
POST: I met this guy Brent in 2011. We had mutual friends on Facebook and he added me. We ended up talking regularly as friends but I developed a small crush on him around November of 20... | guy leads me on for over a year. Wants to make things serious next year by visiting me when he will conviently be visiting a friend of his. Get me outta here.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Name and address used in a postal fraud scheme and credit card info stolen to pay for the whole thing. (self-repost...want input)
POST: Sorry for the repost but I wanted some input about what to do. Last week I get a message at home from some random girl in Texas saying she wants to talk... | D-bags steal my info and CC and use it in a nefarious plot to defraud people and I have info which might be a dead end but I am tempted to send an inflammatory email.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24F] am afraid I can't move in with my boyfriend [26M] of 7 months because of his dog.
POST: I have been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months now and we are very compatible. We both are in love with each other and definitely want to stay together and get married and have childre... | Want to move in with boyfriend, he has a mean dog. I also have a nice dog. Our dogs don't get along. Need some advice!<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: Well done, you hear voices - we're all fucked up.
POST: I mean, yeah, I get it's a serious problem, but you're being attention-whorish about it now.
Yeah, I also get that she broke up with you, it's a shame but you said it was over since Christmas when I told you she was shit from day ... | You're my brother, don't go crazy and try to kill me because of your voices and alcohol. Please. <|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21/m] Struggle with the Idea of my Girl [19/f] with Other Guys...
POST: Been dating this girl for about 8 months now and I do care for her a lot. We both had relationships with people before our current one. However, for months she was totally hung up on guys she used to date and ... | Both have ex's, she talked about hers way too much and too personal early on, got it implanted in my head.**bold**<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22F) keep crying whenever I'm intimate with my boyfriend (22M)
POST: This is such a stupid question. So basically, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3.5 years, and we're in our last year of college. We started being fully intimate about 6 months ago. It doesn't hur... | I'm still crying happy, scared, vulnerable tears whenever I'm intimate with my boyfriend. It's not very sexy and I feel silly. How do I fix it?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M], she [25 F] - Am I oversensitive?
POST: So we have fallen in love with colleague of mine. She was still coming to me at work, texting with me, hanging out with me till late morning. However I was very careful with her and wanted to see how she behaves first as I noticed she... | Is someone who is in love even able to have something with total creep? Am I over sensitive as I am unable to get over the fact that she had something with friend of mine before we even started dating?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: I need help and advice!
POST: My friend has been grossly neglecting his puppy, and I really want to do something about it.
Some background: he got her as a puppy (about 3 months old) from a pet store. Things were already hesitant for me because he works a retail job with a minimum shift of ... | friend" is neglecting his dog, what do I say to the cruelty officer to get her into a good home?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [37 M] with my long gone ex fiance [32 F] 9 years together, 4 years my ex, Why did she cut all contact?
POST: I lived with a woman for 9 years from the time she was 19 until she turned 28. I took her to another country and supported her through school. We had our ups and downs, bu... | after 9 years together, my ex completely cut me off, as if she were dead. I just want to know some possible reasons.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [27 F] with my husband [30 M] 6 yrs, want to have kids but he wants them sooner than I think we are financially ready.
POST: Basically my husband works a 22k/year job with no real prospects of moving up. I'm in school and will graduate with a degree in civil engineering in 4 year... | make $36k/yr w/29k savings. going to school for civil engineering. Both want kids, I think it may be too soon.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 F] of five months, I'm afraid she's still in love with her ex.
POST: We've been together for about five months now. They were together for two-ish years when she was in highschool. She was 18, and he was 22 when they split up two years ago.
She stil... | Girlfriend shows a lot of interest in an ex. It's making me uncomfortable. Am I in the wrong? How do I proceed?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Found a bug in the schools computers, friend reported it to principle. Should I feel bad?
POST: I found a bug in my high schools computer system (dont ask me what it is). Since all computers in the district are connected under one network, and with some simple keystrokes I can keep all c... | Found a bug in schools computers. I can keep all computers off. Friend emailed principle about the bug and im not sure if im suppose to be happy about it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23 M] am in a LDR with my [22 F] girlfriend for 3 months now, who is perfect on paper yet I cannot get over the idea that I do not love her, like I did my ex who broke my heart 7 months ago.
POST: I broke up with a girl who I was in love with and who broke my heart after saying th... | Ex gf broke my heart and I still think about her. New gf of 7 months loves me but I just don't feel the same way. Will this just take time or should I not be with her?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girl and I have serious feelings for each other, but she feels guilty because her ex and I are friends. Help?
POST: Last year in college I joined with a band, whose singer and guitarist lived in an apartment with his girlfriend and some other friends. We had all our practices there, ... | Girl is sacrificing our relationship so her ex/my friend won't be hurt, even though he's in another state and has graduated our college.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: looking for a push, or some guidance into a traveling and more free lifestyle, tell me about your experiances
POST: right now i'm very.. comfortable. i just turned 22 (canadian), i'm making a bit more than 60k a year, own a 250k+ condo, my job is government and ends in a 70% pension an... | have picture perfect gov job that bores the hell out of me, and has me locked down, want to be free to travel and really experiance life while i'm young<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [18/m] desperately need help with second thoughts about breaking up with girlfriend [17/f]
POST: fairly recently i broke up with my girlfriend of about 1 1/2 years and after not talking for a month or so we are back to being able to talk like friends and im having second though... | i broke up with my GF but now i feel i may have fucked up, but i dont want to hurt her again in case it turns out my feelings werent as genuine as i hope.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24M] with my gf [25 F]. She wants to do a Master's Degree, but struggles with undergraduate.
POST: So my girlfriend wants to attain her Master's in Public Health.
But,
1. She doesn't know what job opportunities it can open.
2. I think she only does it because of the PERCEIVED... | GF wants to go to graduate school, but based on my experience with her is for the wrong reasons and I seriously doubt she can handle it.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [24M] best friend [24M] tells every girl I meet and show any interest in not to sleep with me.
POST: My best friend whom I have known for 15 years and has been my best for almost 10 has started telling the women whom I take out not to sleep with me.
It has only started with the ... | Best friend tells women not to sleep with me. Not sure if I should confront him, what could be the benefit.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[29F] with a grocery store cashier[20M], would like to know how to ask for phone number or add on social media, but just as friends and not romantic.
POST: For the past couple of months, I've [29F] become friendly with the cashier [20M] at my grocery store. I end up at his register... | Share the same taste in humor/movies/music as my grocery store cashier. Would like to be friends, but not romantically. What do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should I do it?
POST: Hi! Okay to start off, my boyfriend is 19 and I(f) am 16.
We have been together about 9 months, there has been a lot of stuff going on with my family and them trying to press charges on him ect. we NEVER see each other and it is very stressful for us.
We have b... | long time boyfriend and I on break, not sure if getting back together, long time guy friend wants to have sex.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I am I [24 M] in a toxic relationship with my girlfriend [23 F] that I have been with for five years?
POST: This is an international relationship we are having. I have been with her for over five years. Over the course of the relationship a few times she would stop talking to me for ... | I have a girlfriend that leaves and comes back months later/ puts me down, and gets into weird relationships with other girls.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [26m] How do I get my gf to dress better?
POST: I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over two years, and while I love her and think she is attractive, the way she dresses is such a huge turn off. She mostly wears hand-me-downs and stretched out, haggered t-shirts that a... | Normally attractive girlfriend dresses in really ugly clothes that make her look very unattractive and she thinks I'm shallow for suggesting she wear nicer things.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs
TITLE: I'm having these weird muscle contractions
POST: Age: 16
Sex: Male
Height: 185
Weight: 65
Race: Caucasian
Duration of complaint: 3-4 years, maybe more
Geographical location: Netherlands
Location of complaint: Hand, Feet & face muscles
*****
First of, I'm Dutch, and thus it c... | Weird muscle contractions after being idle in my feet, hands and mouth. The intensity can fluctuate from day to day.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is he (25/M) lying to me(20/F) or just a twitter joke?
POST: I've been talking with this guy from okcupid for about a month now. We were supposed to meet up this week, but according to him he had a family emergency and went out of state for the week. I found his twitter to see if he ... | Guy I've been talking to has tweets that say "When bae..." then a funny photo after. I can't tell if this is a twitter thing or if he might have a gf?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (25/M) insane empathy over my SO (23/F) of 3 years and her GF (22/F) of 2 months most likely breaking up is killing me
POST: All obvious polyamory and unnecessary 3-some conversations aside it's killing me. I'm a very empathetic person, to the point where it takes over my entire c... | My SO and her girlfriend might be breaking up and this hurts me almost as if it was happening to me. What do I do?<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by being easily scared
POST: Backstory to this: I am a 15 year old who likes to cook and help cook. I work at a restaurant (props to them for hiring me, I am about to turn 16) which makes cinnamon buns and pastries of all kinds. Keep in mind, this was at home, not at the restaurant. I am... | My asshole brother jumpscared me, pepper flew into my eye, had pain equivalent to being burned alive, rushed to ER, almost went blind.<|endoftext|> |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [25 M] with my SO [25 F]: 1 yr duration. She has difficulty with sex because of childhood abuse and it makes me feel unwanted, although I know it shouldn't.
POST: I love my SO to death. We are very emotionally intimate, and I have yet to meet a more genuine person in my (albeit sh... | How can I convince myself that I am not to blame, and what can I do to help her feel comfortable during sex?<|endoftext|> |
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