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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [21/F] goofed up with my FWB [19/M] and the DTR conversation and now I just need to talk it out. POST: We met in a diploma program at one of the local colleges last year that was pretty draining, to the point that everyone in the program just sort of hung out together even wh...	I've asked my literal FWB to Define The Relationship for the second time since the start of the relationship and he's stalling out on me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32 M] and my wife [24F]of 3 years keep arguing over our son and his primary language. POST: To start. My wife and I are still madly in love with one another. Everything in the romance department is great, and our child only brought us closer together. With that said, our opinions...	My wife wants to teach our 3 year old Russian and English and I think it's already confusing him. How do I convince her this is a bad idea?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend [20 F] with my other friend [26 M] for 3 months, wants to break up close to his birthday POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. My 20F friend has been seeing my 26M friend for a few months and now wants to break up with him. This arose primarily because he told her he loved ...	Friend wants to break up with her boyfriend close to his birthday. She wanted to already but he flipped out and threw stuff before she even brought it up. Looking for advice on how she should go about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [00 M/F] with my ___ [00 M/F] duration, short-description POST: So, I'm currently a sophomore and last year my grades weren't great (two d's and a few c's). I really wasn't into school at all and I just slacked it off like an idiot. So, after that, my parents took away my phone fo...	What do I tell my mom in order for her to let me make my own decisions, and manage my time the way I please ( not including the privileges I lost. Those aren't coming back :/ ).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: She(27?) has a boyfriend, should I(31/m) still tell her that i like her? POST: I've met this girl, lets call her Amber, through my sports team a few months ago while recovering from a bad break up. We haven't talked much due to both of us being a bit shy and awkward, but I thin...	Girl I have a crush on has a boyfriend, can I still tell her that I like her without having further intentions?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My new fiancee [25m] has given me [25f]an ultimatum to permanently delete any and all old photos of my ex. Is this a reasonable demand? POST: Engaged for a couple of months, together for a year, best friends since teenage years. Finally together and happy as can be, but... The ex of ...	fiancee is acting insecure and wants me to delete/revise my past. Do I oblidge him or stand my ground?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I 25M have a date with a 25F tomorrow, and she is not responding to my texts POST: So I have two previous posts with this throwaway you can look at for more context. But basically, I met this girl at a bar last week, and we hit it off really well. She texted me first actually the n...	She was a fast texter, and now a slow texter. We have a date tomorrow and she hasn't responded.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: M[27F] with my best friend since high school [27F], she recently traveled to the city in which I live, did not tell me, posted on social media-which I saw, now I am feeling devastated. POST: My friend and I have known each other since the first day of high school. We did not go to th...	Old best friend came to town, did not tell me, posted to social media and I found out after they left.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend has been really depressed lately, how can I help cheer her up? Please Help Reddit! POST: My friend (she is 16) is one of my best friends (I am a guy), she was in a relationship a guy who treated her really nice for a year or so, but he moved to a new school and they broke u...	we have been friends for about 4 years, we are both 16, I am male she is female, she is depressed I do not know how to help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 M] of 1.5 years, question about [friends]? POST: Hey, Reddit. I have a little bit of a problem in my relationship. Not even a problem, but a bother, rather. My girlfriend is a lot more comfortable hanging out with guys. She barely has female friend...	Girlfriend has many guy friends who end up having a crush on her, it bothers me but she says it's nothing to worry about.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl [23F] still may want to date me [25M] but for personal reasons needs to stop all dating for a time. I want to wait for her to be ready, but have questions. POST: Hey everyone! Here's the situation: As the title says, I was dating a woman and things were going pretty well, but s...	Girl I was dating needs an indefinite amount of no-dating time, but may want to pick up again later. Should I try to keep in touch from time to time or completely back off until she contacts me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Need to go to NYC/Chelsea to help sister, how should I do this? POST: My sister is falling into depression...she just got married and her husband is on tour constantly trying to make a career in music, so she is all alone. She had wanted to get a dog for company or to "help her when she'...	what is the best way to stay in manhattan, perhaps near chelsea, for 2-3 weeks for the lowest cost?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20f] need some help learning how to show the guy I'm dating [20m] how I feel. POST: My problem in a lot of my previous relationships is that I don't show how I feel. I show love and affection through little acts, like doing favors or remembering someone's favorite movie and bringi...	I am bad at communicating how I feel verbally, but the guy I am seeing seems to best communicate affection verbally. I really want to make this work, so how do you verbally communicate affection without sounding or feeling stupid?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I[21 M] end a Long distance relationship with my GF [21F] of 6 months? POST: We met when we were in the same city and a week later she moved back home. In terms of travel it only takes like 4 hours to get to each other. But the distance has become an issue. After all this tim...	Long distance relationship. Don't know how to end it. Only text and stay over. Do I call, or go down for the day? any ideas please?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do you know it's right? I (f24) ecently ended a year long relationship with my boyfriend of the same age and I'm having second thoughts. POST: I (f24) recently broke up with my boyfriend also 24 because I wasn't getting enough out of the relationship. When we are together it is a...	broke up with bf after a year, a good relationship when we're together but don't see each other enough which makes it difficult. How do you know you've made the right decision?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by putting a golf club through my neighbor's windshield... POST: So this past weekend I was doing construction work for my next door neighbor lifting loads of dirt in a wheelbarrow for his foundation. The work was pretty intense and my whole body was sore, but my hands were particularly ...	Muscles sore from doing construction work all day, went to hit a golf ball, golf club locked onto neighbor's truck's windshield, glass everywhere, didn't yell "fore."<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18] am possibly visiting my boyfriend[23] and his abusive family after thanksgiving to meet his estranged mom and little brother. POST: Alright here we go, said boyfriend had a terrible adolescence bouncing around between tolerable family members and rather violently abusive family...	Boyfriend of a year wants backup at a family function full of past abusers, feel guilty about resisting due to recent extrication from my own abusive family. Am I being dreadful? Should I just buckle down and do this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the biggest lie you've told that has had lasting effects on your life? POST: I'll start: When I was college, I didn't really ever do that well, but I always kept my grades high enough to graduate. But, my senior year, I slacked off way too much, and by the time I realised how bad...	failed out of university, didn't tell my parents about it, they found out weeks before graduation, shit hit the fan.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My ex [19/f] is scared to try again [19/m]. POST: She says she still has feelings for me but is scared if it doesn't work out again that we wont be friends any more. How can I make her feel not as scared to try again? In our first relationship I wasn't the most initiative and f...	My ex is afraid on trying again, yet misses our flirty side and thinks that's why she misses our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting to excited about a girl on Okcupid POST: I have used Okcupid in the past and even gone on a few dates with it. They were mostly duds. But, then one night I get on there and I read this girl's profile. It was amazing. I don't want to mention to much but, here is the gist. She...	Got to excited about a girl I've never met; got a date scheduled; she cancelled last minute; now I am let wondering what could have been.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having a macro for autospam when contacting support... POST: So a few minutes ago i contacted an internet store because i had 6 white dots on my screen, dead pixels or something. The girl that answered me in the live chat asked for my order number and i got into my account and copied...	Contacted support about a fail with my computer, was gonna say thanks but instead sent a message with my order number 99 times by tapping a macro.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Happily divorced people of reddit, when did you realize your marriage was over and it was time to file? POST: Edit: Holy crap. Front page. Thanks all! TL;DR:	Your comments gave me the balls to express that shit needs to change because the outlook for the future looked bleak. Husband apologized, let down his walls, asked for forgiveness, and promised to become a better person.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not hiding my makeshift vibrator better POST: I was 16 and horny as hell, so what do I do? Use my parents' back thumper massager (this kind as a vibrator. Here's where I fucked up. It was annoying to retrieve it from the upstairs living room closet where it was normally stored so,...	Used my parents' back massager as a vibrator, my dad found it when our house flooded and I reaped the consequences.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by asking my ex-gf too many questions and separately derped hard in front of my family, but as I was opening my laptop to post this I had an epiphany regarding a headcannon philosophy. I'm at a [6] and falling. NSFW? POST: ^(let's call her)Monique and I have been officially exes for two ...	Learned my ex-girlfriend was having sex with a more recent ex-boyfriend of hers, and didn't realize my mom was being racist and mentioned it to other family.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I was taxed on income that I was told I wasn't going to be. Now the person wants to make it up to me by paying the difference... POST: This may be unique to this sub so I apologize. I (27f) work on a college campus and I was approached by a grad student (30sf) who received a fellows...	grad student misunderstood the financial situation regarding a freelance project. I am okay with letting it go, but she isn't. I'm afraid this will set her and her family back. What can I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [52 M/F] with my ___ [43 F] 13 year relationship, 9 year marriage, Is "support" better or worse than being single? POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. My wife has always been kind, funny, smart, supportive, the list goes on. My history will show we've had our up...	My SO and I have no attraction for each other but she's supportive. I've never been single and am unsure if I should try.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Southwestern Airlines Flight 5453 is an Easter Egg in the movie Thor; yet no one on r/Marvel knows why. Do you? POST: Ok, so almost a week ago I made [this post] in /r/Marvel asking what Southwestern Flight 5453 was. I was watching Thor the movie the other days and during the part where...	Southwestern Airlines Flight 5453 was mentioned in the movie Thor, and is an Easter Egg...yet no one knows what it is. Do you?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Just witnessed a crazy public breakup...whoa POST: I picked up my best friend and her boyfriend after a long day of medallion hunting, and everyone was in a very chipper mood. We decide to go out for a couple brews and wings at a local restaurant's happy hour. All was fine, except my friend's...	My friends boyfriend goes apeshit over absolutely nothing, creates a huge scene in a popular restaurant and dumps beer all over everyone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Anyone who understands ticketing system, help?! POST: I didn't get to go to Comic Con last year, so this year I set my alarm to wake in time to get tickets from Comic Con for the 4-day pass. TicketLeap's site wouldn't go through and after a long time of trying, I couldn't stay because to...	I got tickets for Comic Con in my cart but it says sold out. Do I still have them in my cart?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Date(f15) dumped a popcorn bucket on my head cause I(M16) tried kissing her... POST: So tonight I went on a date with this girl in my Chemistry class. We went to the movies to see the Cloverfield movie. We got our snacks and sat in our seats and we're watching the little movie tr...	I went on a date with this girl and we were talking and made eye contact and smiled so I went in for the kiss. She freaked out and dumped a popcorn bucket on my head. Where did I screw up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18m]Stuck in a hard place with girlfriend[18f] POST: For the past few months things between my girlfriend and I have become strained, it is arguably due to the result of another girl a meet at work, we'll call her M. M is a decently cool person to be around and is all around fun, bu...	Girlfriend[18] and I[18] of 1 year have become distant because I feel incredibly guilty about drunkingly making out with another girl, whom I may have feelings for<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: This story is one of many from my younger days... POST: I've posted this as a comment before but then I discovered this subreddit. It's 8th grade and I'm sitting in the computer lab taking some test for some class, after we all finished the teacher said we could talk. Well this girl ...	Asked a girl out, dumped her 3 hours later, she made some people hate me, I made everyone hate her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: About a week ago, AskReddit help me save a kitten. Here's the conclusion! POST: [kitty picture]( About a week ago, I posted [this] thread in AskReddit because I had found a kitten with diarrhea problems. Well, I tried just about everything in the thread... and it worked! I honestly cou...	Reddit helped me save a cat who has now been adopted by a no-kill shelter until they find a home for him. His new name is Tidder (reddit backwards)!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M] with GF [29 F] of 1.5 years. I cannot perform in bed due to low libido, GF frustrated. POST: Im not the most aggressive guy and I have trouble in the bedroom area and my GF complains that I am not initiating enough. We never really had that good of a sex life to begin with....	Can't perform in bed, GF thinks im not interested in sex at all, but I feel ashamed to admit that I just can't<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am an adult [22/F] and my parents [56/F, 57/M] still hit me POST: I am 22 and live with my parents following a breakdown I had because I was raped and assaulted by several men (not at once, over a period of about 2 years) The problem is that every time I have a serious argument wi...	I am an adult forced to live with parents who still hit me whenever they are angry and I don't know what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Public humiliation; is there a right way to do it? me[m22] she[f22] POST: male 22, she 22. So if you look at my history, you'll see I've been dating a girl (according to her, exclusive) for 3-4 months. It turned out, she had another boyfriend. We found out about each other. I end...	Is revenge ever a good idea? I have ample opportunity to. (I don't want to do anything illegal, where do slander and harassment come in?)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it possible to go to full time University studying, after working for a number of years and having monthly outgoings? POST: Hi Reddit :) Probably a silly question, but here we go! I'm 28 and looking to change career. I live in the UK and I really like the idea of becoming a paramedic...	I want to change job but have set bills so not sure if it's possible to go study full time at uni (can't be done part time online) while still paying my bills.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [22F] show my appreciation to my boyfriend [24M] of 4 months who pays for almost everything? POST: My boyfriend makes more than double what I do, and therefore pays for most of what we do. At first, I tried to make sure we alternate paying for things, but he now knows what...	Boyfriend makes more money than me and pays for the majority of our activities. What can I do to show my appreciation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Doctor charging me for two surgeries. Am I getting monumentally screwed? POST: Hello Reddit. This is not an interesting post by any means, but you are an intellectual crowd and I need some advice. I recently moved to a new town and the cysts on my head (common, genetic, benign) were ge...	A new dermatologist partially removed my mole, then fully. They charged me for two surgeries and I cannot afford it. Do I contest it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Personal Issues] I [18/M] am stuck on her [17/F] and am trying to let go. POST: Hey, hello! :) I have a bit of an issue. About a year ago, I left my girlfriend (We will call her Hannah) of the time and began talking with the girl (whom we will call Rebecca) that picked me up off th...	Got really attached to a girl who didn't like me that way, trying to let her go to be with the girl who does like me that way. Time span 1 year.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (28m) deal with the ex that won't leave here (31f) alone POST: My GF of nearly 7 months has an obnoxious ex that simply won't leave her alone. She doesn't see him, but he texts her almost once a week, and when he does it's anywhere from 2-10 messages. Keeps sending them and ...	My GF has an ex that texts her multiple times a week saying he loves n misses her. They broke up over a year ago. It's starting to bother me more n more.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Animal Behavior Question! POST: We recently got a new kitten (about 8 weeks old) and we already have another cat (around 5 months old), but they are not getting along. We introduced scents and everything first and now when we let the older cat roam around the house, she completely isolat...	Five month old cat is isolating herself from the world since new eight week old kitten came into the home. Is this normal?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not reading the drink label POST: Unlike a lot of post this happened about 5 minutes ago. Little backstory I am half black and half white and I live In japan for work. been here 2 years and do not know Japanese. Anyway I was in a rush to catch the train because I lost track of time ...	at arcade to long rushed to get drink and catch train. Didn't realize drink was grape vinegar and spit it on Japanese guy then missed train.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26/F] longtime friend [26/F] may have fallen out with me because I quit drinking. Should I attend her wedding anyway? POST: I went to high school and later lived with my friend Shelley. We used to party a lot together, but also had a deep and what I thought was a genuine relation...	Longtime friend has become distant supposedly because I quit drinking. Should I try to rectify the situation and/or attend her wedding anyway?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [32 M], the primary breadwinner, want to buy a new car; my wife [29 F] won't let me, despite us being able to easily afford it. POST: I hope this is the right sub for a combined relationship/financial question, but the gist is that I want a new car, and she doesn't. Some specifics...	I can easily afford to buy a new car, and I very much want one, although I don't need one, and she doesn't want to get back into debt.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Why am I offended? POST: Tonight after work as a karaoke dj, I shut down my system, turned off lights, and went up to the bar to wait for patrons to leave. All employees usually hang out after the door is locked, doing closing work, chatting, hanging out. We're all really good friends. La...	coworker had me do extra work just because I need excercise. Don't know if my feeling hurt/angry is justified.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Been in a relationship for almost half a decade. Engaged for ~2 of those years. Now he's moving to the other side of the country and is planning to be gone for 6 years. What the hell do I do?! POST: Decided to post this under a throwaway. Long story short: We're both in our early 20s. Up...	My 5 year relationship will become a long distance one in 6 months time. I can't help but feel like we're totally fucked.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF[ 19F] of 1.5 years.Girlfriend and her roommate are inviting 2 guys to sleepover in their studio for 4 days, I'm against it, am I Wrong? POST: Background information: Hi, i'm 21, my girlfriend is 19(lets call her Kate)and we've been dating for the last year and a...	Girlfriend lives in studio in NYC with girl roommate. Girl roommate invited two guys (one she doesn't know) to sleep over for 4 days. I feel uncomfortable , and girlfriend doesn't understand why.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [26 F] 6 months: Today she said I work too much POST: My girlfriend and I see each other every day, cook dinner together most nights and go out to dinner 2-3 times a week. We also get to go do a lot of fun activities on a frequent basis... Things have bee...	If you've been in a relationship where your partner was upset when you took on 10 more hours a week for a substantial pay raise, how did you talk about it with them?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Obligatory "How did you meet your SO" thread. It's nearly valentine's day, and I'm pretty sure not all of you have shared your stories yet. So let's here them! POST: Way back in 2009, an online friend of mine (that I got to know through a game) suddenly disappeared. I thought maybe he ju...	Online friend disappeared. Found his facebook, messaged his friends. Found out he was sick. Made him a get well soon card. He is my boyfriend now. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by locking my girlfriend and I in a shower in a deserted university POST: This was a few years back. Our hot water cylinder was having issues, it was the middle of winter and cold showers were not very nice at all. So, we decided we'd shower at the university we attended. It was a Saturd...	got stuck in aa university shower with my girlfriend, climbed into ceiling and smashed a hole in the wall of the women's toilets to get out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My girlfriend (20/f) called for a break with me (20/m) what do I do? POST: brief context: my girlfriend of 3 years has been going through a lot in the recent past. Her mother and step father filed for divorce tearing apart her family, she works a 10 hour shift on Saturday and S...	My girlfriend of 3 years, due to a number of reasons has called for a break and i'm not sure what exactly I should do or how I should deal with this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Mid-20s M/F - Lack of response to date offer? POST: Work friend left for another position. I always had a feeling she liked me in a dating sense (ha, there was a good deal of staring when she thought I didn't see). I asked if she wasn't seeing someone, if she'd be open for a coffee o...	Asked friend out; how long would silence on my date offer be an "answer?" 2 days? 3 days? Why is a non-response a thing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/m] Starting to have doubts about continuing a relationship with a [19/f] and leaving her for a [19/f] POST: The two 19/f are also friends and I feel like I never should have gotten close to the 2nd one. For starters, let's name the first 19/f, the one I'm currently dating, ...	Two 19/f are friends, Brittany (I'm dating) and Susan (just a friend). Starting to develop feelings for Susan. Feeling like an asshole.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (m 27) have stopped talking to my so called "Friend" (F 24) because she is total douche, was I wrong? POST: before you start to guess, I had a little feelings for her and I think it wasn't mutual so I moved on and I am dating a very nice girl who I very much like but! this gi...	Closest female friend used me as a punching bag and when I stopped taking it I cut her off and now am feeling guilty<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Where can this go? I [19F] went out to a night club with him [20M] POST: We met up on Friday and went bar hopping and the night ended for us at a night club. We were dancing (I thought it was innocent dancing) and he kissed me. He kissed me a few more times, I had to confront him abo...	Went out with guy and we danced/kissed. Meeting up today - how to feel/act. Alcohol is probably a huge factor.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my neighbors [30s? M/F], just had to call the police and file a domestic violence claim. POST: I have lived in my town home for about 2 weeks. I quickly noticed how thin the walls are between me and my roommates town home and the neighbors town home. I can hear just abo...	Neighbors got into a fight, probably physical but I only heard stuff didnt see. The cops let the guy go, now I do not feel safe and I feel bad for the wife. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] Only Attract Unstable Women? Why Is That? POST: I am a 21 year old male who has just gotten out of a relationship with a woman who was a sufferer of non verbal learning disorder, depression and anxiety. Before my ex-girlfriend, I never had any other relationship experiences ...	It seems to me that the girls I'm attracting are either mentally unstable or are full of drama. Why am I only attracting those kinds of girls?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: This is rock bottom now......the climb begins POST: In the last 3 years - i have done the following in the below order: - married - wife cheated on me so divorced - fell in love again - got engaged - broke up with the woman who i got engaged - lost my best friend - came close to getting ...	i am a fucking mess, hit rock bottom while on a roller coaster ride the last three years, no idea how to feel, help....<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17m] am attracted to my brother [19m]'s ex [16f] POST: My brother had a pretty weird relationship with this girl who's younger than both of us, but in turn closer to my age. They "dated" for six months, but she didn't really like him for a long portion of the relationship, so she ...	Everyone (myself included) wants me to date this girl but her sister likes me and she dated my brother. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my Boss [late 30s?F] how to deal with the potential fallout of quitting? POST: I've been working at Boring Ltd since November when I was hired as a contractor on a 3-month temp-to-perm contract. Initially things were fine and I was made permanent from the middle of Janu...	What do I say to boss who thinks of herself as mother goose to get me out of working for her without angering her so much she makes me cry?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Everything going SO well, so one thing had to turn out not so great [STD's] POST: So I was super excited in early November when I got an email saying STD's were 40% off on Magnet Street. The ONE thing FH was adamant about was doing magnet save the dates. We decided on [this] photo,...	Save the dates printed the photo much darker than the original one, can hardly see FH's face, I'm sad.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] feel trapped with boyfriend [22M] because of reasons related to his autism. Am I a bad person? POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3+ years and we are vastly different people. We have different interests & different values, but none of that seemed to be an issue f...	Boyfriend has a lot of issues related to undiagnosed autism that leave me feeling trapped & isolated, but can't leave him because he has no one else.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Not sure if this is even an issue. Just looking for some outside opinions. POST: My girlfriend(F,19) and I(M,18) have been dating for 5 months. Everything is going great so far. We have had no major issues but every now and then there is a small argument which is resolved quickly. La...	seen less of girlfriend of 5 months because of her friends wanting to hang and now we hardly talk. Looking for outside opinions.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17/M] gf [16/F] of one year just missed her period, if she's pregnant, what do I do? POST: Throw away account, obviously. She and I have been going out for about a year, and I am absolutely confident that I love her and vice versa. We have been having unprotected sex for a few m...	GF missed her period. We have had unprotected sex, but haven't gotten a test yet. I am fearful, and don't know what to do if she is pregnant.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22/F] My boyfriend [23/M] never compliments me. Is it ridiculous that I am bothered by it? POST: The title basically says it all. My boyfriend and I have been dating about a year and a half, and in that time he has never complimented me. I'm not talking about fawning over me, he sim...	My boyfriend has never complimented me, he's just not that type of person. It's not a deal breaker but it does bother me, am I being ridiculous? How do I get over this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by using my shower as a steam shower POST: This happened last week... I like to take really, really hot showers. So much so, I've had to turn my water heater up to the maximum setting, so I don't run myself out of hot water. Well lately I've been trying to use my normal shower as a ste...	Took a very hot shower. Shower head flew off and hit me. Burnt by scalding hot water and stubbed my toe on the way out of the shower. Still had to fix everything.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21m] am dating someone [20f] who is taller than me. Am I worrying too much? POST: So I have been dating my girlfriend (long distance) for about 3 months now and we have finally decided to meet up in person and hang out for a day. The issue that I've been worrying about though is ...	I feel like height might become an issue in our relationship. Am I letting this bother me more than I think it's bothering her? Do women really care as long as their man is caring, loyal and respectful?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend (20M) said he's "not sure he loves me" (19F) but has said it before??? POST: We've been together for 5 months now. Told him this morning, and he said he's not sure. Freaked me the fuck out. I asked him what he meant the first time (he said it first), and he said he though...	Shaken up because he's "not sure he loves me" but I'm pretty dang sureeee I am and now I feel like we're not putting in same amount of risk in this whole thing<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 F] since elementary school best friend [23 F] has been cheating on her boyfriend of 4 years and they plan on getting married in the near future. POST: So I have this friend we will call her "Marie" and she has been one of my best friends since we were kids. Her parents love me...	My best friend has been cheating on her boyfriend of 4 years and plan on getting married, do I inform her boyfriend?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] of 1yr, expected to move in. POST: hi /r/relationships, i'm having a problem in my relationship & a harder time putting my thoughts together. my girlfriend & i have a long history, we get a long great but we are not on the same page about a move-i...	let my gf know im interested in living with her, expressed discomfort in set, nearby deadlines & months later i am a lazy, disappointing wad for not being there yet.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21/M] started dating this girl [20/F] again, FWB [20/F] is too attached to me and I need to cut things off POST: Back around November-December I started going out with this girl K from my CS class at school. Beautiful girl, kind, and there was strong chemistry between us. I went b...	Was dating this girl I really liked, we took a break, started hooking up with another girl. I'm dating first girl again, don't know how to cut things off with my fwb.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: The Crop Top Dilemma POST: Hi everyone. I've been on my journey since May and have lost just about 35 pounds (F/18/5'2"/SW: 190, CW: 155). For the most part, it's been really great. I know that I'm feeling a lot better and looking much thinner. For the most part, I'm happy with my body. H...	I should be more comfortable with my body than I am right now. I still feel like everyone perceives me as a fat girl.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Tactful way for me [18f] to encourage my mum [51f] to lose weight? POST: My mum is the kindest, sweetest woman I know, but since my brother and I were born her weight has slowly been creeping up and I'm starting to worry about her health. Honestly, she's not as bad as a lot of peopl...	my mum is overweight, gets offended when my dad discusses helping her get fit. How can I gently persuade her before her health is damaged irreparably?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[M29] gf[F25] of 6 months is still really good friends with her ex. I love this girl so much. POST: This is a throwaway account. My girlfriend of 6 months is best friends with her ex. She has tried and tried to be with this guy, but nothing has come out from it. She had told me t...	Gf is friends with her Ex Bf. He still has feelings for her, but she only sees him as a friend. I don't want to leave her. Is there a way for this to work?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Engineering student, broke, bad grades, need help POST: I'm 21 years old. I'm less than half way done with my Computer Engineering degree. I've always had an unhealthy diet, smoked for 3 years, played lots of video games, and expected everything to come easy for me. Just this sum...	College student, lots of debt, bad grades, motivated now, wants to return to school but held back by debt, advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Found out I have a son (almost 4) and trying to keep my girlfriend of 8+yrs (who is not the mother of my child) happy... POST: Soooo.... this is a little late but I didnt know about reddit until recently and I love you.... all of you.... well I found out I have a son, via certi...	Have a 4 year old son who I didn't know about until recently....girlfriend is unhappy about it....need advice. Thanks<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [25F] met a lovely man [27M] and I'm not sure how to proceed without being pushy. POST: First off thanks Reddit. I'm not socially awkward in the least, I just haven't been in a relationship in almost 3 years and have no idea how to date anymore. Thursday night I was out with...	Met a guy and we hit it off really well, he tried to meet with me and it didn't work out and I tried to meet with him and it didn't work out. How do I persist without being pushy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (20F) dad (55) is coming to visit me while I'm studying abroad. He's also going to meet my Bf (19M) of 6mo POST: Like the title says, my dad is coming to visit me in the country that I'm studying abroad in. I have a boyfriend, who is native to the country. We're an interracial cou...	Dad and boyfriend are going to meet for the first time. I'm nervous. Does anyone else have any experience in being an interracial couple and dealing with parents?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the dumbest thing your brother has ever done? POST: It is 2 am here and I am so pissed at my brother right now that it's witholding me from sleeping. Here's the story. My brother bricked his laptop a few days ago by trying to install a driver that would let his touchpad be able t...	My brother bricked his laptop a few days ago for something trivial, borrowed my laptop and did the exact same thing to mine, making me lose lots of schoolwork.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (28f) want to move in with my boyfriend (34m), but we have very different income levels and he already owns a home. POST: I was reading this thread and noticed that most people agreed that they should look for a place that he could afford to pay for half the rent. I have a simila...	I want to move in with my boyfriend, but he makes a lot more than me, and he owns a home I cannot afford.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] need help composing a message to my friend [24M] POST: My friend, Jake and I haven't talked in over a year. We had a class together, hit it off really well, and we ended up sleeping together. We both agreed at the end of the semester that we were both in different places in...	I want to contact someone from my past, but I do not know how to compose a message where I do not come off as a creep.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with new fling [18 F] 3 weeks, what does she want from me? POST: So I met this girl 3 weeks ago, we've hung out 3 times and have been very open with each other. Of the three times we hung out, we had sex on two of those occasions. Since we've known each other, she's initiat...	Met girl, hung out three times, had sex twice. Starting to like her more, even though I don't show it. But don't know what she wants. / Is she just trying to get a reaction out of me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I(40f) had premonitions about hooking up with my highschool ex (40m). A month later we are now dating. POST: I was with my high school boyfriend for about 5 years before we broke up. As soon as we broke up i meet my ex husband moved 6 hours away and had kids. We me and my high school...	I (40f) had a premonition that i would hook up with my high school ex (40m) and it happened a month later.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [F32) boyfriend [M33] has decided to go on 10 day vacation with his ex girlfriend [F?old] and her kids POST: The vacation was planned and paid for while they were still together. He said that they (Him, ex, and her 2 kids) are staying in the same room. Immediately, I didn't feel ...	Boyfriend going on vacation with ex and hiding his relationship with me to keep ex from getting mad. I'm upset. Unreasonable or nah?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by drinking an 'X' amount of days old green tea frap from Starbucks. POST: So.. I go to Starbucks often with my SO and she almost always gets the green tea frap. So often, I actually went today, on my way home, to this Starbucks close by my college. I ordered her green tea, and I got my ...	got sick, lost sense of taste/smell, drank (at most) a weeks old green tea frap from starbucks. Since I couldn't taste it, idk if it'll make me sick or not. oh well<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Life insurance help!!! Term only of variable Term/whole??? POST: I have read the wiki and some discussion on whole versus term life insurance, however i can't seem to determine the best path for me. First off I am a recent college grad making ~35K, single, living at home to save mo...	I am wondering whether a term v. variable (term/whole) life policy is the best option in my current financial standings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Insecurities with a friend, how to be just friends after being shot down. POST: I am 23M she's 25F. Known each other about nine months. We met online though common interests groups then started hanging out in real life not long after. I do just generally enjoy her company and hangi...	Told friend I like her, she said no. Still friends, but how can I get over her without losing a friend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Did I just concrete myself as a young man or break my family further apart? POST: Here's the situation: I am a 17 year old guy who is agnostic (due to my conflicting beliefs in the bible and my sexuality) and I have two of the best parents I could ever hope for. However, right now they a...	Family under lots of stress because of possible divorce; is my refusal to go to church adding to that stress or making me appear to stand strong in my own beliefs?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: (CA) Will be making $47,000 a year starting March 1st. What/how should I invest in Canada? POST: I have been lurking this subreddit for a while now and most of the posts I see are American and many talks of the 401k. I don't feel like I learn very much because 401k is irrelevant to...	Living in Canada. Going to be making $47k, with $14k in PC interest plus savings account. I want to invest in something that will make me money (doesn't have to be much). What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can i still become a US citizen? POST: I came here when i was 11 (in 2005) I'm 17 now. I came here legally but my Visa expired in like 2009 and I'm now an Alien. I want a job and car but i need papers for all that. Let me get to the point. In 2010 my neighbor had a fire while we weren'...	Came here legally in '05 (11 yrs old). Visa expired in '09 and I'm an alien now. Closet caught fire and burned half of my passport. Can i apply for citizenship with just a birth certificate?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] with my ex [23F] 5 years, feel like I need to leave permanently POST: Had a bad break up with my ex about half a year ago. I had to cope with a dying relative, while she was struggling with depression and it destroyed our relationship. She broke off contact for a while afte...	LTR ended, she's moved on. I want to leave permanently for both our sakes. How should I handle it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by jerking off in front of my neighbor POST: This happened this afternoon. So to put context to the situation I was jerking it like usual; i have the summer off from college, i had the house to myself and every guy knows free house coupled with summer boredom the only logical thing to do...	Had the house to myself decided to rub a couple out, didn't realize i had the shutters up, and ended up scaring my religious neighbor with my "devil dick"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my husband [33M] should I stay or should I go? Am I/have I been experiencing emotional abuse/neglect? POST: I'm 30 weeks pregnant with #3, been together since I was 19. Husband won't go to counseling with me. I went and explained a year ago and she asked why i would sta...	Husband is uncaring jerk, don't want to screw up kids. Should I stay or go? Tips, advice and experiences please.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (M 28) not sure how to handle my exes (F 29) (F 26). Please help. POST: I have two ex girlfriends and they are each presenting interesting challenges for which I would appreciate any advice. One is a girl that I was deeply in love with (dated about two years). She screwed me over...	I want one person out of my life, and one back in to some extent. How do I do this?.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Just found my [24M] girlfriend's [23F] second identity as a horrible internet troll. I feel sick. What do I do now? POST: Elena and I have been dating for two and a half years. Our relationship is great and I love her deeply Elena and I have a very open relationship when it comes to...	Just found out my gf has been secretly trolling the internet by using a different browser. She has a fake account for just about everything, and uses it to say some really horrible stuff.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: So there's this really attractive girl in my Statistics class... POST: I decided to extend an invite to said girl for my group project for Statistics. I did this mainly because I figured I could put in some time and hopefully get laid (college girls are easy), all while finishing this project...	I invited a cute girl into my group project in hope of getting laid, and this girl decided to finish the whole project instead!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my gf [19F] 5 Months, I feel surprisingly uncomfortable with her sexual attraction to females. slightly [NSFW] POST: Story Yesterday my Girlfriend told me that when she watches porn, she mainly focuses on the female actor, which led to us discussing the subject of...	For some reason I can't get over the fact my GF seems to be mainly turned on by thoughts of sexual activities with other girls.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is 23 too young? POST: Boyfriend and I are both 23. We meet at 15 and became good friends in high school. We started dating the summer after high school and have seriously and exclusively dated throughout college. I am at the point where I'd like to start considering marriage. ...	Dated bf for 5 yrs, want to start considering marriage… he's not ready or willing to consider it. Suggestions welcome.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] upset with my girlfriend [19 F] for giving her info to another guy at a party. POST: OK, first off, I know the title may sound misleading, so I'll explain. I've been dating my girlfriend for the past several months. We both go to the same campus. She likes to go out to pa...	Girlfriend gave some guy her number after she just met at a party when they were both drunk. Found out a week later that he's been creeping on her. Don't know how to handle it.<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [21/F] goofed up with my FWB [19/M] and the DTR conversation and now I just need to talk it out. POST: We met in a diploma program at one of the local colleges last year that was pretty draining, to the point that everyone in the program just sort of hung out together even wh...	I've asked my literal FWB to Define The Relationship for the second time since the start of the relationship and he's stalling out on me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32 M] and my wife [24F]of 3 years keep arguing over our son and his primary language. POST: To start. My wife and I are still madly in love with one another. Everything in the romance department is great, and our child only brought us closer together. With that said, our opinions...	My wife wants to teach our 3 year old Russian and English and I think it's already confusing him. How do I convince her this is a bad idea?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend [20 F] with my other friend [26 M] for 3 months, wants to break up close to his birthday POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons. My 20F friend has been seeing my 26M friend for a few months and now wants to break up with him. This arose primarily because he told her he loved ...	Friend wants to break up with her boyfriend close to his birthday. She wanted to already but he flipped out and threw stuff before she even brought it up. Looking for advice on how she should go about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [00 M/F] with my ___ [00 M/F] duration, short-description POST: So, I'm currently a sophomore and last year my grades weren't great (two d's and a few c's). I really wasn't into school at all and I just slacked it off like an idiot. So, after that, my parents took away my phone fo...	What do I tell my mom in order for her to let me make my own decisions, and manage my time the way I please ( not including the privileges I lost. Those aren't coming back :/ ).<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: She(27?) has a boyfriend, should I(31/m) still tell her that i like her? POST: I've met this girl, lets call her Amber, through my sports team a few months ago while recovering from a bad break up. We haven't talked much due to both of us being a bit shy and awkward, but I thin...	Girl I have a crush on has a boyfriend, can I still tell her that I like her without having further intentions?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My new fiancee [25m] has given me [25f]an ultimatum to permanently delete any and all old photos of my ex. Is this a reasonable demand? POST: Engaged for a couple of months, together for a year, best friends since teenage years. Finally together and happy as can be, but... The ex of ...	fiancee is acting insecure and wants me to delete/revise my past. Do I oblidge him or stand my ground?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I 25M have a date with a 25F tomorrow, and she is not responding to my texts POST: So I have two previous posts with this throwaway you can look at for more context. But basically, I met this girl at a bar last week, and we hit it off really well. She texted me first actually the n...	She was a fast texter, and now a slow texter. We have a date tomorrow and she hasn't responded.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: M[27F] with my best friend since high school [27F], she recently traveled to the city in which I live, did not tell me, posted on social media-which I saw, now I am feeling devastated. POST: My friend and I have known each other since the first day of high school. We did not go to th...	Old best friend came to town, did not tell me, posted to social media and I found out after they left.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend has been really depressed lately, how can I help cheer her up? Please Help Reddit! POST: My friend (she is 16) is one of my best friends (I am a guy), she was in a relationship a guy who treated her really nice for a year or so, but he moved to a new school and they broke u...	we have been friends for about 4 years, we are both 16, I am male she is female, she is depressed I do not know how to help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my girlfriend [20 M] of 1.5 years, question about [friends]? POST: Hey, Reddit. I have a little bit of a problem in my relationship. Not even a problem, but a bother, rather. My girlfriend is a lot more comfortable hanging out with guys. She barely has female friend...	Girlfriend has many guy friends who end up having a crush on her, it bothers me but she says it's nothing to worry about.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl [23F] still may want to date me [25M] but for personal reasons needs to stop all dating for a time. I want to wait for her to be ready, but have questions. POST: Hey everyone! Here's the situation: As the title says, I was dating a woman and things were going pretty well, but s...	Girl I was dating needs an indefinite amount of no-dating time, but may want to pick up again later. Should I try to keep in touch from time to time or completely back off until she contacts me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Need to go to NYC/Chelsea to help sister, how should I do this? POST: My sister is falling into depression...she just got married and her husband is on tour constantly trying to make a career in music, so she is all alone. She had wanted to get a dog for company or to "help her when she'...	what is the best way to stay in manhattan, perhaps near chelsea, for 2-3 weeks for the lowest cost?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20f] need some help learning how to show the guy I'm dating [20m] how I feel. POST: My problem in a lot of my previous relationships is that I don't show how I feel. I show love and affection through little acts, like doing favors or remembering someone's favorite movie and bringi...	I am bad at communicating how I feel verbally, but the guy I am seeing seems to best communicate affection verbally. I really want to make this work, so how do you verbally communicate affection without sounding or feeling stupid?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I[21 M] end a Long distance relationship with my GF [21F] of 6 months? POST: We met when we were in the same city and a week later she moved back home. In terms of travel it only takes like 4 hours to get to each other. But the distance has become an issue. After all this tim...	Long distance relationship. Don't know how to end it. Only text and stay over. Do I call, or go down for the day? any ideas please?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do you know it's right? I (f24) ecently ended a year long relationship with my boyfriend of the same age and I'm having second thoughts. POST: I (f24) recently broke up with my boyfriend also 24 because I wasn't getting enough out of the relationship. When we are together it is a...	broke up with bf after a year, a good relationship when we're together but don't see each other enough which makes it difficult. How do you know you've made the right decision?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by putting a golf club through my neighbor's windshield... POST: So this past weekend I was doing construction work for my next door neighbor lifting loads of dirt in a wheelbarrow for his foundation. The work was pretty intense and my whole body was sore, but my hands were particularly ...	Muscles sore from doing construction work all day, went to hit a golf ball, golf club locked onto neighbor's truck's windshield, glass everywhere, didn't yell "fore."<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18] am possibly visiting my boyfriend[23] and his abusive family after thanksgiving to meet his estranged mom and little brother. POST: Alright here we go, said boyfriend had a terrible adolescence bouncing around between tolerable family members and rather violently abusive family...	Boyfriend of a year wants backup at a family function full of past abusers, feel guilty about resisting due to recent extrication from my own abusive family. Am I being dreadful? Should I just buckle down and do this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the biggest lie you've told that has had lasting effects on your life? POST: I'll start: When I was college, I didn't really ever do that well, but I always kept my grades high enough to graduate. But, my senior year, I slacked off way too much, and by the time I realised how bad...	failed out of university, didn't tell my parents about it, they found out weeks before graduation, shit hit the fan.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My ex [19/f] is scared to try again [19/m]. POST: She says she still has feelings for me but is scared if it doesn't work out again that we wont be friends any more. How can I make her feel not as scared to try again? In our first relationship I wasn't the most initiative and f...	My ex is afraid on trying again, yet misses our flirty side and thinks that's why she misses our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting to excited about a girl on Okcupid POST: I have used Okcupid in the past and even gone on a few dates with it. They were mostly duds. But, then one night I get on there and I read this girl's profile. It was amazing. I don't want to mention to much but, here is the gist. She...	Got to excited about a girl I've never met; got a date scheduled; she cancelled last minute; now I am let wondering what could have been.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having a macro for autospam when contacting support... POST: So a few minutes ago i contacted an internet store because i had 6 white dots on my screen, dead pixels or something. The girl that answered me in the live chat asked for my order number and i got into my account and copied...	Contacted support about a fail with my computer, was gonna say thanks but instead sent a message with my order number 99 times by tapping a macro.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Happily divorced people of reddit, when did you realize your marriage was over and it was time to file? POST: Edit: Holy crap. Front page. Thanks all! TL;DR:	Your comments gave me the balls to express that shit needs to change because the outlook for the future looked bleak. Husband apologized, let down his walls, asked for forgiveness, and promised to become a better person.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not hiding my makeshift vibrator better POST: I was 16 and horny as hell, so what do I do? Use my parents' back thumper massager (this kind as a vibrator. Here's where I fucked up. It was annoying to retrieve it from the upstairs living room closet where it was normally stored so,...	Used my parents' back massager as a vibrator, my dad found it when our house flooded and I reaped the consequences.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by asking my ex-gf too many questions and separately derped hard in front of my family, but as I was opening my laptop to post this I had an epiphany regarding a headcannon philosophy. I'm at a [6] and falling. NSFW? POST: ^(let's call her)Monique and I have been officially exes for two ...	Learned my ex-girlfriend was having sex with a more recent ex-boyfriend of hers, and didn't realize my mom was being racist and mentioned it to other family.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I was taxed on income that I was told I wasn't going to be. Now the person wants to make it up to me by paying the difference... POST: This may be unique to this sub so I apologize. I (27f) work on a college campus and I was approached by a grad student (30sf) who received a fellows...	grad student misunderstood the financial situation regarding a freelance project. I am okay with letting it go, but she isn't. I'm afraid this will set her and her family back. What can I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [52 M/F] with my ___ [43 F] 13 year relationship, 9 year marriage, Is "support" better or worse than being single? POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. My wife has always been kind, funny, smart, supportive, the list goes on. My history will show we've had our up...	My SO and I have no attraction for each other but she's supportive. I've never been single and am unsure if I should try.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Southwestern Airlines Flight 5453 is an Easter Egg in the movie Thor; yet no one on r/Marvel knows why. Do you? POST: Ok, so almost a week ago I made [this post] in /r/Marvel asking what Southwestern Flight 5453 was. I was watching Thor the movie the other days and during the part where...	Southwestern Airlines Flight 5453 was mentioned in the movie Thor, and is an Easter Egg...yet no one knows what it is. Do you?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Just witnessed a crazy public breakup...whoa POST: I picked up my best friend and her boyfriend after a long day of medallion hunting, and everyone was in a very chipper mood. We decide to go out for a couple brews and wings at a local restaurant's happy hour. All was fine, except my friend's...	My friends boyfriend goes apeshit over absolutely nothing, creates a huge scene in a popular restaurant and dumps beer all over everyone.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Anyone who understands ticketing system, help?! POST: I didn't get to go to Comic Con last year, so this year I set my alarm to wake in time to get tickets from Comic Con for the 4-day pass. TicketLeap's site wouldn't go through and after a long time of trying, I couldn't stay because to...	I got tickets for Comic Con in my cart but it says sold out. Do I still have them in my cart?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Date(f15) dumped a popcorn bucket on my head cause I(M16) tried kissing her... POST: So tonight I went on a date with this girl in my Chemistry class. We went to the movies to see the Cloverfield movie. We got our snacks and sat in our seats and we're watching the little movie tr...	I went on a date with this girl and we were talking and made eye contact and smiled so I went in for the kiss. She freaked out and dumped a popcorn bucket on my head. Where did I screw up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18m]Stuck in a hard place with girlfriend[18f] POST: For the past few months things between my girlfriend and I have become strained, it is arguably due to the result of another girl a meet at work, we'll call her M. M is a decently cool person to be around and is all around fun, bu...	Girlfriend[18] and I[18] of 1 year have become distant because I feel incredibly guilty about drunkingly making out with another girl, whom I may have feelings for<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: This story is one of many from my younger days... POST: I've posted this as a comment before but then I discovered this subreddit. It's 8th grade and I'm sitting in the computer lab taking some test for some class, after we all finished the teacher said we could talk. Well this girl ...	Asked a girl out, dumped her 3 hours later, she made some people hate me, I made everyone hate her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: About a week ago, AskReddit help me save a kitten. Here's the conclusion! POST: [kitty picture]( About a week ago, I posted [this] thread in AskReddit because I had found a kitten with diarrhea problems. Well, I tried just about everything in the thread... and it worked! I honestly cou...	Reddit helped me save a cat who has now been adopted by a no-kill shelter until they find a home for him. His new name is Tidder (reddit backwards)!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M] with GF [29 F] of 1.5 years. I cannot perform in bed due to low libido, GF frustrated. POST: Im not the most aggressive guy and I have trouble in the bedroom area and my GF complains that I am not initiating enough. We never really had that good of a sex life to begin with....	Can't perform in bed, GF thinks im not interested in sex at all, but I feel ashamed to admit that I just can't<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am an adult [22/F] and my parents [56/F, 57/M] still hit me POST: I am 22 and live with my parents following a breakdown I had because I was raped and assaulted by several men (not at once, over a period of about 2 years) The problem is that every time I have a serious argument wi...	I am an adult forced to live with parents who still hit me whenever they are angry and I don't know what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Public humiliation; is there a right way to do it? me[m22] she[f22] POST: male 22, she 22. So if you look at my history, you'll see I've been dating a girl (according to her, exclusive) for 3-4 months. It turned out, she had another boyfriend. We found out about each other. I end...	Is revenge ever a good idea? I have ample opportunity to. (I don't want to do anything illegal, where do slander and harassment come in?)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it possible to go to full time University studying, after working for a number of years and having monthly outgoings? POST: Hi Reddit :) Probably a silly question, but here we go! I'm 28 and looking to change career. I live in the UK and I really like the idea of becoming a paramedic...	I want to change job but have set bills so not sure if it's possible to go study full time at uni (can't be done part time online) while still paying my bills.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [22F] show my appreciation to my boyfriend [24M] of 4 months who pays for almost everything? POST: My boyfriend makes more than double what I do, and therefore pays for most of what we do. At first, I tried to make sure we alternate paying for things, but he now knows what...	Boyfriend makes more money than me and pays for the majority of our activities. What can I do to show my appreciation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Doctor charging me for two surgeries. Am I getting monumentally screwed? POST: Hello Reddit. This is not an interesting post by any means, but you are an intellectual crowd and I need some advice. I recently moved to a new town and the cysts on my head (common, genetic, benign) were ge...	A new dermatologist partially removed my mole, then fully. They charged me for two surgeries and I cannot afford it. Do I contest it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Personal Issues] I [18/M] am stuck on her [17/F] and am trying to let go. POST: Hey, hello! :) I have a bit of an issue. About a year ago, I left my girlfriend (We will call her Hannah) of the time and began talking with the girl (whom we will call Rebecca) that picked me up off th...	Got really attached to a girl who didn't like me that way, trying to let her go to be with the girl who does like me that way. Time span 1 year.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (28m) deal with the ex that won't leave here (31f) alone POST: My GF of nearly 7 months has an obnoxious ex that simply won't leave her alone. She doesn't see him, but he texts her almost once a week, and when he does it's anywhere from 2-10 messages. Keeps sending them and ...	My GF has an ex that texts her multiple times a week saying he loves n misses her. They broke up over a year ago. It's starting to bother me more n more.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Animal Behavior Question! POST: We recently got a new kitten (about 8 weeks old) and we already have another cat (around 5 months old), but they are not getting along. We introduced scents and everything first and now when we let the older cat roam around the house, she completely isolat...	Five month old cat is isolating herself from the world since new eight week old kitten came into the home. Is this normal?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not reading the drink label POST: Unlike a lot of post this happened about 5 minutes ago. Little backstory I am half black and half white and I live In japan for work. been here 2 years and do not know Japanese. Anyway I was in a rush to catch the train because I lost track of time ...	at arcade to long rushed to get drink and catch train. Didn't realize drink was grape vinegar and spit it on Japanese guy then missed train.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26/F] longtime friend [26/F] may have fallen out with me because I quit drinking. Should I attend her wedding anyway? POST: I went to high school and later lived with my friend Shelley. We used to party a lot together, but also had a deep and what I thought was a genuine relation...	Longtime friend has become distant supposedly because I quit drinking. Should I try to rectify the situation and/or attend her wedding anyway?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [32 M], the primary breadwinner, want to buy a new car; my wife [29 F] won't let me, despite us being able to easily afford it. POST: I hope this is the right sub for a combined relationship/financial question, but the gist is that I want a new car, and she doesn't. Some specifics...	I can easily afford to buy a new car, and I very much want one, although I don't need one, and she doesn't want to get back into debt.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Why am I offended? POST: Tonight after work as a karaoke dj, I shut down my system, turned off lights, and went up to the bar to wait for patrons to leave. All employees usually hang out after the door is locked, doing closing work, chatting, hanging out. We're all really good friends. La...	coworker had me do extra work just because I need excercise. Don't know if my feeling hurt/angry is justified.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Been in a relationship for almost half a decade. Engaged for ~2 of those years. Now he's moving to the other side of the country and is planning to be gone for 6 years. What the hell do I do?! POST: Decided to post this under a throwaway. Long story short: We're both in our early 20s. Up...	My 5 year relationship will become a long distance one in 6 months time. I can't help but feel like we're totally fucked.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF[ 19F] of 1.5 years.Girlfriend and her roommate are inviting 2 guys to sleepover in their studio for 4 days, I'm against it, am I Wrong? POST: Background information: Hi, i'm 21, my girlfriend is 19(lets call her Kate)and we've been dating for the last year and a...	Girlfriend lives in studio in NYC with girl roommate. Girl roommate invited two guys (one she doesn't know) to sleep over for 4 days. I feel uncomfortable , and girlfriend doesn't understand why.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [26 F] 6 months: Today she said I work too much POST: My girlfriend and I see each other every day, cook dinner together most nights and go out to dinner 2-3 times a week. We also get to go do a lot of fun activities on a frequent basis... Things have bee...	If you've been in a relationship where your partner was upset when you took on 10 more hours a week for a substantial pay raise, how did you talk about it with them?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Obligatory "How did you meet your SO" thread. It's nearly valentine's day, and I'm pretty sure not all of you have shared your stories yet. So let's here them! POST: Way back in 2009, an online friend of mine (that I got to know through a game) suddenly disappeared. I thought maybe he ju...	Online friend disappeared. Found his facebook, messaged his friends. Found out he was sick. Made him a get well soon card. He is my boyfriend now. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by locking my girlfriend and I in a shower in a deserted university POST: This was a few years back. Our hot water cylinder was having issues, it was the middle of winter and cold showers were not very nice at all. So, we decided we'd shower at the university we attended. It was a Saturd...	got stuck in aa university shower with my girlfriend, climbed into ceiling and smashed a hole in the wall of the women's toilets to get out.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My girlfriend (20/f) called for a break with me (20/m) what do I do? POST: brief context: my girlfriend of 3 years has been going through a lot in the recent past. Her mother and step father filed for divorce tearing apart her family, she works a 10 hour shift on Saturday and S...	My girlfriend of 3 years, due to a number of reasons has called for a break and i'm not sure what exactly I should do or how I should deal with this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Mid-20s M/F - Lack of response to date offer? POST: Work friend left for another position. I always had a feeling she liked me in a dating sense (ha, there was a good deal of staring when she thought I didn't see). I asked if she wasn't seeing someone, if she'd be open for a coffee o...	Asked friend out; how long would silence on my date offer be an "answer?" 2 days? 3 days? Why is a non-response a thing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/m] Starting to have doubts about continuing a relationship with a [19/f] and leaving her for a [19/f] POST: The two 19/f are also friends and I feel like I never should have gotten close to the 2nd one. For starters, let's name the first 19/f, the one I'm currently dating, ...	Two 19/f are friends, Brittany (I'm dating) and Susan (just a friend). Starting to develop feelings for Susan. Feeling like an asshole.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (m 27) have stopped talking to my so called "Friend" (F 24) because she is total douche, was I wrong? POST: before you start to guess, I had a little feelings for her and I think it wasn't mutual so I moved on and I am dating a very nice girl who I very much like but! this gi...	Closest female friend used me as a punching bag and when I stopped taking it I cut her off and now am feeling guilty<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Where can this go? I [19F] went out to a night club with him [20M] POST: We met up on Friday and went bar hopping and the night ended for us at a night club. We were dancing (I thought it was innocent dancing) and he kissed me. He kissed me a few more times, I had to confront him abo...	Went out with guy and we danced/kissed. Meeting up today - how to feel/act. Alcohol is probably a huge factor.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19F] with my neighbors [30s? M/F], just had to call the police and file a domestic violence claim. POST: I have lived in my town home for about 2 weeks. I quickly noticed how thin the walls are between me and my roommates town home and the neighbors town home. I can hear just abo...	Neighbors got into a fight, probably physical but I only heard stuff didnt see. The cops let the guy go, now I do not feel safe and I feel bad for the wife. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M] Only Attract Unstable Women? Why Is That? POST: I am a 21 year old male who has just gotten out of a relationship with a woman who was a sufferer of non verbal learning disorder, depression and anxiety. Before my ex-girlfriend, I never had any other relationship experiences ...	It seems to me that the girls I'm attracting are either mentally unstable or are full of drama. Why am I only attracting those kinds of girls?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: This is rock bottom now......the climb begins POST: In the last 3 years - i have done the following in the below order: - married - wife cheated on me so divorced - fell in love again - got engaged - broke up with the woman who i got engaged - lost my best friend - came close to getting ...	i am a fucking mess, hit rock bottom while on a roller coaster ride the last three years, no idea how to feel, help....<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17m] am attracted to my brother [19m]'s ex [16f] POST: My brother had a pretty weird relationship with this girl who's younger than both of us, but in turn closer to my age. They "dated" for six months, but she didn't really like him for a long portion of the relationship, so she ...	Everyone (myself included) wants me to date this girl but her sister likes me and she dated my brother. What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my Boss [late 30s?F] how to deal with the potential fallout of quitting? POST: I've been working at Boring Ltd since November when I was hired as a contractor on a 3-month temp-to-perm contract. Initially things were fine and I was made permanent from the middle of Janu...	What do I say to boss who thinks of herself as mother goose to get me out of working for her without angering her so much she makes me cry?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Everything going SO well, so one thing had to turn out not so great [STD's] POST: So I was super excited in early November when I got an email saying STD's were 40% off on Magnet Street. The ONE thing FH was adamant about was doing magnet save the dates. We decided on [this] photo,...	Save the dates printed the photo much darker than the original one, can hardly see FH's face, I'm sad.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] feel trapped with boyfriend [22M] because of reasons related to his autism. Am I a bad person? POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 3+ years and we are vastly different people. We have different interests & different values, but none of that seemed to be an issue f...	Boyfriend has a lot of issues related to undiagnosed autism that leave me feeling trapped & isolated, but can't leave him because he has no one else.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Not sure if this is even an issue. Just looking for some outside opinions. POST: My girlfriend(F,19) and I(M,18) have been dating for 5 months. Everything is going great so far. We have had no major issues but every now and then there is a small argument which is resolved quickly. La...	seen less of girlfriend of 5 months because of her friends wanting to hang and now we hardly talk. Looking for outside opinions.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [17/M] gf [16/F] of one year just missed her period, if she's pregnant, what do I do? POST: Throw away account, obviously. She and I have been going out for about a year, and I am absolutely confident that I love her and vice versa. We have been having unprotected sex for a few m...	GF missed her period. We have had unprotected sex, but haven't gotten a test yet. I am fearful, and don't know what to do if she is pregnant.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22/F] My boyfriend [23/M] never compliments me. Is it ridiculous that I am bothered by it? POST: The title basically says it all. My boyfriend and I have been dating about a year and a half, and in that time he has never complimented me. I'm not talking about fawning over me, he sim...	My boyfriend has never complimented me, he's just not that type of person. It's not a deal breaker but it does bother me, am I being ridiculous? How do I get over this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by using my shower as a steam shower POST: This happened last week... I like to take really, really hot showers. So much so, I've had to turn my water heater up to the maximum setting, so I don't run myself out of hot water. Well lately I've been trying to use my normal shower as a ste...	Took a very hot shower. Shower head flew off and hit me. Burnt by scalding hot water and stubbed my toe on the way out of the shower. Still had to fix everything.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21m] am dating someone [20f] who is taller than me. Am I worrying too much? POST: So I have been dating my girlfriend (long distance) for about 3 months now and we have finally decided to meet up in person and hang out for a day. The issue that I've been worrying about though is ...	I feel like height might become an issue in our relationship. Am I letting this bother me more than I think it's bothering her? Do women really care as long as their man is caring, loyal and respectful?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend (20M) said he's "not sure he loves me" (19F) but has said it before??? POST: We've been together for 5 months now. Told him this morning, and he said he's not sure. Freaked me the fuck out. I asked him what he meant the first time (he said it first), and he said he though...	Shaken up because he's "not sure he loves me" but I'm pretty dang sureeee I am and now I feel like we're not putting in same amount of risk in this whole thing<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 F] since elementary school best friend [23 F] has been cheating on her boyfriend of 4 years and they plan on getting married in the near future. POST: So I have this friend we will call her "Marie" and she has been one of my best friends since we were kids. Her parents love me...	My best friend has been cheating on her boyfriend of 4 years and plan on getting married, do I inform her boyfriend?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my girlfriend [22 F] of 1yr, expected to move in. POST: hi /r/relationships, i'm having a problem in my relationship & a harder time putting my thoughts together. my girlfriend & i have a long history, we get a long great but we are not on the same page about a move-i...	let my gf know im interested in living with her, expressed discomfort in set, nearby deadlines & months later i am a lazy, disappointing wad for not being there yet.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21/M] started dating this girl [20/F] again, FWB [20/F] is too attached to me and I need to cut things off POST: Back around November-December I started going out with this girl K from my CS class at school. Beautiful girl, kind, and there was strong chemistry between us. I went b...	Was dating this girl I really liked, we took a break, started hooking up with another girl. I'm dating first girl again, don't know how to cut things off with my fwb.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: The Crop Top Dilemma POST: Hi everyone. I've been on my journey since May and have lost just about 35 pounds (F/18/5'2"/SW: 190, CW: 155). For the most part, it's been really great. I know that I'm feeling a lot better and looking much thinner. For the most part, I'm happy with my body. H...	I should be more comfortable with my body than I am right now. I still feel like everyone perceives me as a fat girl.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Tactful way for me [18f] to encourage my mum [51f] to lose weight? POST: My mum is the kindest, sweetest woman I know, but since my brother and I were born her weight has slowly been creeping up and I'm starting to worry about her health. Honestly, she's not as bad as a lot of peopl...	my mum is overweight, gets offended when my dad discusses helping her get fit. How can I gently persuade her before her health is damaged irreparably?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[M29] gf[F25] of 6 months is still really good friends with her ex. I love this girl so much. POST: This is a throwaway account. My girlfriend of 6 months is best friends with her ex. She has tried and tried to be with this guy, but nothing has come out from it. She had told me t...	Gf is friends with her Ex Bf. He still has feelings for her, but she only sees him as a friend. I don't want to leave her. Is there a way for this to work?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Engineering student, broke, bad grades, need help POST: I'm 21 years old. I'm less than half way done with my Computer Engineering degree. I've always had an unhealthy diet, smoked for 3 years, played lots of video games, and expected everything to come easy for me. Just this sum...	College student, lots of debt, bad grades, motivated now, wants to return to school but held back by debt, advice?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Found out I have a son (almost 4) and trying to keep my girlfriend of 8+yrs (who is not the mother of my child) happy... POST: Soooo.... this is a little late but I didnt know about reddit until recently and I love you.... all of you.... well I found out I have a son, via certi...	Have a 4 year old son who I didn't know about until recently....girlfriend is unhappy about it....need advice. Thanks<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I [25F] met a lovely man [27M] and I'm not sure how to proceed without being pushy. POST: First off thanks Reddit. I'm not socially awkward in the least, I just haven't been in a relationship in almost 3 years and have no idea how to date anymore. Thursday night I was out with...	Met a guy and we hit it off really well, he tried to meet with me and it didn't work out and I tried to meet with him and it didn't work out. How do I persist without being pushy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (20F) dad (55) is coming to visit me while I'm studying abroad. He's also going to meet my Bf (19M) of 6mo POST: Like the title says, my dad is coming to visit me in the country that I'm studying abroad in. I have a boyfriend, who is native to the country. We're an interracial cou...	Dad and boyfriend are going to meet for the first time. I'm nervous. Does anyone else have any experience in being an interracial couple and dealing with parents?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the dumbest thing your brother has ever done? POST: It is 2 am here and I am so pissed at my brother right now that it's witholding me from sleeping. Here's the story. My brother bricked his laptop a few days ago by trying to install a driver that would let his touchpad be able t...	My brother bricked his laptop a few days ago for something trivial, borrowed my laptop and did the exact same thing to mine, making me lose lots of schoolwork.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (28f) want to move in with my boyfriend (34m), but we have very different income levels and he already owns a home. POST: I was reading this thread and noticed that most people agreed that they should look for a place that he could afford to pay for half the rent. I have a simila...	I want to move in with my boyfriend, but he makes a lot more than me, and he owns a home I cannot afford.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] need help composing a message to my friend [24M] POST: My friend, Jake and I haven't talked in over a year. We had a class together, hit it off really well, and we ended up sleeping together. We both agreed at the end of the semester that we were both in different places in...	I want to contact someone from my past, but I do not know how to compose a message where I do not come off as a creep.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with new fling [18 F] 3 weeks, what does she want from me? POST: So I met this girl 3 weeks ago, we've hung out 3 times and have been very open with each other. Of the three times we hung out, we had sex on two of those occasions. Since we've known each other, she's initiat...	Met girl, hung out three times, had sex twice. Starting to like her more, even though I don't show it. But don't know what she wants. / Is she just trying to get a reaction out of me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I(40f) had premonitions about hooking up with my highschool ex (40m). A month later we are now dating. POST: I was with my high school boyfriend for about 5 years before we broke up. As soon as we broke up i meet my ex husband moved 6 hours away and had kids. We me and my high school...	I (40f) had a premonition that i would hook up with my high school ex (40m) and it happened a month later.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [F32) boyfriend [M33] has decided to go on 10 day vacation with his ex girlfriend [F?old] and her kids POST: The vacation was planned and paid for while they were still together. He said that they (Him, ex, and her 2 kids) are staying in the same room. Immediately, I didn't feel ...	Boyfriend going on vacation with ex and hiding his relationship with me to keep ex from getting mad. I'm upset. Unreasonable or nah?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by drinking an 'X' amount of days old green tea frap from Starbucks. POST: So.. I go to Starbucks often with my SO and she almost always gets the green tea frap. So often, I actually went today, on my way home, to this Starbucks close by my college. I ordered her green tea, and I got my ...	got sick, lost sense of taste/smell, drank (at most) a weeks old green tea frap from starbucks. Since I couldn't taste it, idk if it'll make me sick or not. oh well<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Life insurance help!!! Term only of variable Term/whole??? POST: I have read the wiki and some discussion on whole versus term life insurance, however i can't seem to determine the best path for me. First off I am a recent college grad making ~35K, single, living at home to save mo...	I am wondering whether a term v. variable (term/whole) life policy is the best option in my current financial standings.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Insecurities with a friend, how to be just friends after being shot down. POST: I am 23M she's 25F. Known each other about nine months. We met online though common interests groups then started hanging out in real life not long after. I do just generally enjoy her company and hangi...	Told friend I like her, she said no. Still friends, but how can I get over her without losing a friend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Did I just concrete myself as a young man or break my family further apart? POST: Here's the situation: I am a 17 year old guy who is agnostic (due to my conflicting beliefs in the bible and my sexuality) and I have two of the best parents I could ever hope for. However, right now they a...	Family under lots of stress because of possible divorce; is my refusal to go to church adding to that stress or making me appear to stand strong in my own beliefs?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: (CA) Will be making $47,000 a year starting March 1st. What/how should I invest in Canada? POST: I have been lurking this subreddit for a while now and most of the posts I see are American and many talks of the 401k. I don't feel like I learn very much because 401k is irrelevant to...	Living in Canada. Going to be making $47k, with $14k in PC interest plus savings account. I want to invest in something that will make me money (doesn't have to be much). What do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can i still become a US citizen? POST: I came here when i was 11 (in 2005) I'm 17 now. I came here legally but my Visa expired in like 2009 and I'm now an Alien. I want a job and car but i need papers for all that. Let me get to the point. In 2010 my neighbor had a fire while we weren'...	Came here legally in '05 (11 yrs old). Visa expired in '09 and I'm an alien now. Closet caught fire and burned half of my passport. Can i apply for citizenship with just a birth certificate?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] with my ex [23F] 5 years, feel like I need to leave permanently POST: Had a bad break up with my ex about half a year ago. I had to cope with a dying relative, while she was struggling with depression and it destroyed our relationship. She broke off contact for a while afte...	LTR ended, she's moved on. I want to leave permanently for both our sakes. How should I handle it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by jerking off in front of my neighbor POST: This happened this afternoon. So to put context to the situation I was jerking it like usual; i have the summer off from college, i had the house to myself and every guy knows free house coupled with summer boredom the only logical thing to do...	Had the house to myself decided to rub a couple out, didn't realize i had the shutters up, and ended up scaring my religious neighbor with my "devil dick"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27F] with my husband [33M] should I stay or should I go? Am I/have I been experiencing emotional abuse/neglect? POST: I'm 30 weeks pregnant with #3, been together since I was 19. Husband won't go to counseling with me. I went and explained a year ago and she asked why i would sta...	Husband is uncaring jerk, don't want to screw up kids. Should I stay or go? Tips, advice and experiences please.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (M 28) not sure how to handle my exes (F 29) (F 26). Please help. POST: I have two ex girlfriends and they are each presenting interesting challenges for which I would appreciate any advice. One is a girl that I was deeply in love with (dated about two years). She screwed me over...	I want one person out of my life, and one back in to some extent. How do I do this?.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Just found my [24M] girlfriend's [23F] second identity as a horrible internet troll. I feel sick. What do I do now? POST: Elena and I have been dating for two and a half years. Our relationship is great and I love her deeply Elena and I have a very open relationship when it comes to...	Just found out my gf has been secretly trolling the internet by using a different browser. She has a fake account for just about everything, and uses it to say some really horrible stuff.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: So there's this really attractive girl in my Statistics class... POST: I decided to extend an invite to said girl for my group project for Statistics. I did this mainly because I figured I could put in some time and hopefully get laid (college girls are easy), all while finishing this project...	I invited a cute girl into my group project in hope of getting laid, and this girl decided to finish the whole project instead!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my gf [19F] 5 Months, I feel surprisingly uncomfortable with her sexual attraction to females. slightly [NSFW] POST: Story Yesterday my Girlfriend told me that when she watches porn, she mainly focuses on the female actor, which led to us discussing the subject of...	For some reason I can't get over the fact my GF seems to be mainly turned on by thoughts of sexual activities with other girls.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is 23 too young? POST: Boyfriend and I are both 23. We meet at 15 and became good friends in high school. We started dating the summer after high school and have seriously and exclusively dated throughout college. I am at the point where I'd like to start considering marriage. ...	Dated bf for 5 yrs, want to start considering marriage… he's not ready or willing to consider it. Suggestions welcome.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] upset with my girlfriend [19 F] for giving her info to another guy at a party. POST: OK, first off, I know the title may sound misleading, so I'll explain. I've been dating my girlfriend for the past several months. We both go to the same campus. She likes to go out to pa...	Girlfriend gave some guy her number after she just met at a party when they were both drunk. Found out a week later that he's been creeping on her. Don't know how to handle it.<\|endoftext\|>