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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 21 M with my ONS 22F met at at party, got drunk had sex not sure how to approach the situation now POST: I am a typical college student who likes to drink and Thursday was a typical college night out. A teammate from my rugby squad invited me for some drinks at his home and there ...	Had a ONS, want to see the girl again but not sure how to ask it without sounding creepy/too serious.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: (31m) Can't get my mind off this girl, is it any sign? POST: Edit: oops, typo in the subject. "Is it a* sign" I made [this post] yesterday and no one commented. It was probably too long. I'll make this one short. There is a girl (26f) I've been seeing for maybe a month and a half ...	I am so torn. Do I go for a girl who I really like, who appeals to my wild side... but at the same time I know she is not going to help me achieve my professional goals? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Adopted a 2-year-old cat 8 days ago and would appreciate some advice! POST: Hi guys, 9 days ago I posted [this] thread about my intention to adopt a cat the following day. In short, I did! She's really cute and the way she looks around curiously at stuff/spazzes at nearly the exact same time...	adopted a new cat 8 days ago, initially very cuddly and affectionate, let her out of her safe room three days in, now she's really timid/not so big on cuddles<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22M] am interested in asking out a girl [18F] that I practice a karate with. POST: Throwaway because people follow my main. I have been practicing karate for the past 11 years. I love it. It has made me into a disciplined and more confident person. About a year ago a girl named "...	22M wants to ask out 18F, worried about matrurity gap and potential discomfort at the dojo if things go south.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Gave Personal loan on vehicle, now total loss after accident, CAN I ask for loan to be paid in full? POST: Background: When I graduated from High School a family member gave me an old truck as a gift. It was awesome, but the truck had no A/C and wasn't a car I was going to keep for...	Remaining balance on the personal loan is $450, now the vehicle is salvage, insurance offer of $2400 for the total loss, can I request loan to be paid in full?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex-girlfriend [20/F] broke up with me [21/M] just broke up with me and I'm having trouble getting over her POST: My ex-girlfriend [20/F] broke up with me [21/M] in the early morning hours of November 1st. To give you a little background, the relationship had been a little rocky be...	She and I had some minor incompatibility issues and were working on things, but my behavior pushed her overboard. What can I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By somehow getting a stick stuck in my leg POST: This happened about a year ago. So, I was at summer camp, and we were doing like... ninja activites. We were running from people basically. I was over-excited as hell (I have ADHD) and I run running at full speed, IN THE WOODS. You see whe...	Worshipped sanic, ran at the speed of light and ran into a stick, have a scar now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [M25] and I [F26] recently broke up after almost two years together and I am not that torn up about it. Do breakups just keep getting easier the more you go through? POST: When I had my first breakup I was twenty and it CRUSHED me. I was depressed for months, cried every...	It seems I handle each breakup better and better as time goes on. Do others feel this way? Or am I just becoming bitter?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Myself (m26) and gf (24) are tired of always having to make plans with relatives who live down the road. POST: The gf and I have been together for 10 mos and have lived together for 4 mos. I have a 1st cousin (m34) down the road who I always hung out with. My cousin has a wife (f28) ...	Myself (m26) and gf (24) are frustrated with relatives who used to hang out with me frequently but haven't bothered to do so since gf moved in with me. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24/F] boyfriend's [28/M] best friend [late20s F] got him an expensive birthday gift, not sure how to feel POST: Back story, we've been together two years. I don't make a ton of money but I always try my best to get my bf something really nice even if it means I don't get to shop ...	Boyfriend's female best friend got him a bday gift that probably cost more than what I got him and I feel a little weird.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Parents of Reddit: What is the best way you have communicated to your child? POST: I am currently 21 years old, but I have been thinking about this question for quite a while now. I have known people who enjoy the idea of a child, but once they have a child they have no idea on how to ...	I made a set of videos for my children now that I am young (21 yrs old) so that they can listen to what I say and we can relate.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My current GF [21f] of about 4 months just told me [23m] in a super casual way that she had a miscarriage when she was 16. POST: We went out to grab lunch today, the restaurant wasn't too busy but there were a few patrons there, and we were all kind of in one area of the restaurant s...	my girlfriend told me that she had a miscarriage at 16 while we were out to eat lunch, it made me very uncomfortable and now I feel like I'm seeing her differently<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf [24F] left me 2 weeks ago, me [29M] because i nagged her about her shitlord mother. POST: 7 year relationship, it hurts a lot still. She got mad after i criticized her mother because she keeps pushing me away or try to piss me off. She exploded and told me to fuck off. I calle...	lost gf because i nagged her about her mother being a cunt. Then kicked me out because of it and told me to never come back.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making my mother think I'm a satanist. POST: Like many TIFUs, this didn't happen today. It was a few months ago. I went on reddit on my phone one day (strange, I know) and, I don't exactly remember how, but reddit led me to the website for the Church of Satan. I think the website w...	I left the Church of Satan website open on my smartphone and my mother may or may not think I worship the prince of darkness.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M23] don't want my SO [20] to feel left out; bar with friends POST: I have been with my girlfriend for just shy of 2 years and she has always had trouble with our age difference - mainly her inability to go to bars. I have basically stopped going out with friends over the last t...	my GF had previously easily been upset when I go out with friends to bars (she can't get in and feels left out) - I may go to bar with friends this weekend..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[24F] want to know how to forget [25M] who doesn't love me POST: When we're together I feel so good and happy, he just spend all the time telling me how amazing i am. we get along incredibly well. He doesn't love me and has always slept with other girls. I offered him to get seri...	He used to like me, things were never serious, now he doesn't care. How do I forget about him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what is the ballsiest thing you have ever done, and how did it turn out? POST: A ~~little~~ backstory- Before my parents got divorced, I would wash my dad's truck and my mom's Jeep every other Saturday. At 10-11 (the time this happened), washing a car consisted of me washing the...	Some bitch thinks that tan kids doing work are illegal immigrants, I man up and get her arrested for trespassing. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I file for bankruptcy? POST: I'll give as much information as I can. Feel free to ask for me if needed. About 4 years ago shortly after I separated with my wife at the time I moved into my own place. About a week later I was laid off of my job. Economy was busted at the ...	I have about $22,400 in debt and only net about 19,000 a year. Should I file for bankruptcy? Try to negotiate charge-offs? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Significance in the face of irrelevancy; people crave it. How do I use this fact? POST: What ways of approaching life and others take advantage of the fact that people seem to crave to be relevant in the face of their own contingency? The significance that people attribute to objects, e...	People want to feel valuable; to have confirmed the subtle truth that they are the centre of the universe. How can I exploit this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I(18M) found out the girl(18M) I like would have dated me. What do I do? POST: A little backstory, Katy I had known each other back in sophomore year. We hardly talked to each other but we knew each other were good people. She is around 5'4 and is super smart. She is also a peer lead...	Girl I liked but didn't make move on. Turns out she would have gone on a date. Now she's talking t another guy. Who do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [21 M] end the relationship with my girlfriend [20 F] of one year? I have lost the "spark" POST: We are both juniors in college and have known each other since freshman year. Besides small disagreements and arguments, we get along well and love being with each other and love...	Not sure if I want to end a stable relationship with my girlfriend of 1 year. I have lost the "spark"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (23F) new boyfriend (24M) got so jealous while I was casually talking to another guy that he scratched himself until he was bleeding. Red flag? POST: I've been seeing this guy, Chris, for about two months now and so far things have been amazing. He's very sweet, a good listener, a...	New bf got so jealous of me talking to another guy at a party that he hurt himself. Just too much alcohol or is this a bad sign?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Sweaty palms - how do you deal with it? POST: I'm suffering from hyperhidrosis (excessive sweating), mostly in my palms, feet, and slightly in my armpits (deodorant takes care of that, for the most part). While the sweating in the feet hardly bothers me, unless I'm barefoot at home, the...	I suffer from sweaty palms, regardless of any reason. How do you deal with it/treat it on daily basis? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18m] am in love with my best friend [18f] of many years. Should I say how I feel? POST: I've known my best friend for many years, she's been there when I needed her most and vice versa. I've had feelings for her since middle school. we never lost touch even after I moved away for ...	I've been in love with my best friend for many years and have never worked up the courage to tell her, should I risk it or keep things the same?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F21] found nakey pics of my bf's [M27] ex-gfs on his laptop and now I feel sad, how do I undo this sadness? POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, and he's never cheated on me or anything like that. In fact, our relationship is pretty great, he's my best friend ...	Stumbled across very sexy pictures of my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends on his laptop, I feel so sad now, how do I unsee what I saw? How do I fix this relationship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I[m/21] jump away from being the "quiet one" at my new job? POST: I recently got a new job that I really like. My coworkers are great and the job is great. However I've been developing a bad case of anxiety over the past few years. I don't talk to anyone as much anymore so I l...	New job, used to being a quiet person, have been pretty quiet for the first week of work. Would like to start being social.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend [23/F] of 2 years just dumped me [25/M] out of the blue. Confused on what to do... POST: So my girlfriend of 2+ years just dumped me, pretty much out of nowhere. Our relationships has been relatively solid throughout. A few hiccups that we worked through, nothing crazy. N...	Girlfriend of 2+ years abruptly broke up with me saying she needed to be alone to figure out where she's going with her life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20/F] am having a problem with my [23/M]bf of 4 years, with his weed addiction. POST: My bf changed so much within the past couple of years that its getting to the point where I feel like I don't know him anymore. He use to take care of his body really well and prioritize his life...	BF getting high 24/7 it's affecting the relationship and I'm getting tired of complaining and arguing. Should I consider moving on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] gf [22F] of 4 years is about to move away for college. I want her to go because it will be amazing for her, but I want to break up. POST: We have been together for a long time, I really love this girl and she is planning to move away for school to do her Doctorate at one of ...	gf is moving away for school and I don't know what to do. How do I deal with the situation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Maybe not as serious as most posts here, but I [23m] text my friends [20s m&f] and am ignored often, but then they'll turn around and text me with their own stuff, never acknowledging mine. POST: So yes, I realize this is probably not as urgent or important as most posts here, but it...	My friends ignore my texts but then text me with their own conversations; I want to keep up the friendships but am annoyed at their ignoring me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: How can I (25F) present myself more professionally? POST: [First time poster. If this is the wrong place for this, please let me know!] I am 25(F) and have never felt like I know how to be in a professional setting. Its a little strange because I have always worked a variety of job...	How should a 25F with no real guidance in the professional world or with appearance begin to present better in this sense?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: GirlF[19]riend really cold, said she's on medication POST: Hello guys. I, [M/19], normally do not do this because I can say I'm quite experienced when it comes to relationships and what not, but this time I'm just way too confused and seriously do not know what to do.. Everyth...	GF really cold, no sex, no kisses. I confront her so we break up. We get back together, she tells me she's on xanax. I dont know what to do, need help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [24 M] [24 F] Girlfriend went to ex's apartment last night POST: last night my girlfriend was out in the city drinking & catching up with her friends. She ran into her ex along the way, she didn't talk to him at first but later on in the night he called her & she went over to his apa...	She went to her exs house, left cause it didn't feel right, but she still went & talked with him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: should i call her (also posted on r/offmychest and r/dating_advice) POST: so im gonna tell you a story then after that ask a question related to the story Story: so 5 weeks ago i got girls number (we were both going to a camp in the wilderness in different groups) and was super happy beca...	i got a girls number, someone told me she was already dating, still think about her and its getting to a weird point.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He [27/M] asked me [F/22] out on a second date in the middle of a very bad first one. I said yes. How do I get out of it? POST: Long story short I was set up with a very nice and successful guy on a date... It went ok but I wasn't attracted to him in the slightest. He spoke so softl...	Bad date asked me out again in the middle of dinner and I freaked out and said yes. How do I politely say I don't want to go out with him again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can reddit please help diagnose my little brother? POST: And maybe help me figure out what to do with him? He just got kicked out of college for bad grades and moved back in with our mom. He managed to find a job at a coffee shop. This is not inherently a problem. The problem is, in...	my little brother froze in maturity at 11 and lives w/mom w/out any ambition -- is this a problem and if so, what do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: This weekend, I'm [20M] going on my first date with one of my classmates from university [27F] Any advice on how to make this first date great for the both of us? POST: A little bit of back story first. I met my classmate during the first week of university back in September, we got ...	I've asked one of my classmates from university out, who is 27 years old and we are going for our first date this weekend, any advice on how to make this date great for the both of us?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am 25F who looks average here. I fancy a 31M who is from the upper middle class. Should I just give up that he will be into me? POST: I recently started to attend an art class. I met him when I was in class. We enjoyed chatting with each other and I like his cheerful personality. ...	I am 25F and I fancy a 31M. Given that I am just average looking and he is from the upper middle class, should I just give up the idea that he will pick me over hot girls?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Fiance (30F) did some nice things for my (30M) birthday and also planned on making me dinner. Then it went downhill. POST: So I stayed up late last night because hey, today is my birthday. I got home from work tired, but grateful and said thank you and gave hugs for what she did. T...	I wanted to sleep on my birthday after work and celebrate tomorrow instead. Fiance gets mad and spoils the day.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] want to get back together with my ex-gf [23F]-- Advice needed POST: Hi all, this is my first time posting anything on reddit so excuse me if i make this into something confusing. We are currently "on a break", but I can't really tell the difference between that and essentia...	ex wants me to prove something to her to give her some sense of security about our future(monetary means), I don't know how or what to prove.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice on how to deal with the aftermath of a break-up (27M, 24F, 1 yr 3 mnths) POST: I think I want to end my relationship but I'm scared about how I would cope afterwards. I'd want to pretend that the last year of my life never happened and erase every trace of him but every time ...	How do I go about getting over a break-up? I want to throw all the gifts he gave me away and erase every last trace of him but every time I think about doing it, I feel so depressed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by thinking I was more clever than a monkey POST: The TIFU from the guy punching out a monkey reminded me of when I went to Thailand with my wife: Where we were in Hua Hin, Thailand, we found out there's a place called Monkey Mountain, so we had to go and check it out (obviously). We br...	Tried to taunt a wild monkey by eating a banana in front of him; he responded by swarming me with his 20+ friends, stealing the rest of my food along with my banana, and covering me in monkey shit.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I shop online so that I don't have to deal with people. I needed help with an order and had to interact with a person. Everything went better than expected. POST: Hi Reddit. I find one of the worst things about holiday shopping is dealing with the people. The crowds are one thing, but pus...	I shop online so I don't have to interact with real people. I needed help with an order and the woman I dealt with was kind, polite patient, gave me free shipping and offered to send me more stuff for free.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Any redditors have a parent who moved away when you were young? Or possibly a parent who moved away from their child? POST: I'm interested to find out both sides of the story here. The woman I'm in love with lives about a thousand miles away from me. My ex and my son live here. If I ...	Girlfriend lives 1k miles from me. I'd like to find out how it might affect my child if I move.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (22m) started seeing someone (21f). First few dates went great then something happened, confused now. POST: So I started seeing this girl a bit ago, we went on our first date/first time meeting because it was a mutual friend who set us up and it went amazing. Had a ton of fun, ende...	started seeing girl I really like, something went wrong with her ex, went out again and it felt a little awkward when leaving, she didn't respond to last text and idk what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to get over her (complex situation) POST: So here's the back story: I met this girl online when I was about 12-14. She was a couple of years younger than me, but her maturity level was on par with mine, and I was pretty mature for my age. We got along great, and kept talking/pla...	Known a girl for 10+ years and have strong feelings for her, but she lives far away and is happy being with someone else. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Landlord didn't check for damp and mould has damaged my property. What do I do? POST: I'm a student living in a house with 5 other students. We moved in 5 months ago. Yesterday, I found mould in my bedroom in an alcove where I keep my books. Upon further investigation, I found other pa...	Mould damaged £300 of books. I think my landlord is responsible since he failed to have anything checked and I want him to pay.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [16/M], I'm taking a (18/F) to the upcoming dance and I have a question for the females... POST: If you were her, what would you think of me just texting you for the purpose of just talking to you? If you want more backstory: I knew her and had a crush on her for 3+ years, bu...	I want to get to know my date for the dance but I don't know how or if I should. Put yourself in her place: what would you think?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Dating] [28M] Clueless how to bring up interest in a relationship with [26F] POST: So I'm 28M and have never been in a serious/long-term relationship. I've never been good at putting it out there and as a result I usually wind up drifting apart from whoever I'm interested in. Bu...	— Don't know how to bring up interest in a relationship with someone I've known for a while and have recently been spending time with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: 17 year old seeking highschool vs. ged advice POST: So as of right now i'm in my senior year of high school and might have to do another year of high school. Still living with my family and we are barely scraping by, i had in mind that if i need to repeat a year of high school i will go tak...	might need to do another year of high school, should i take the ged to save some time to get a job?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/f] He [22/m] won't commit, finds out I slept with someone else, gets super upset, says he thinks he loves me?? POST: I met a guy about 4 months ago, starting seeing each other. He moved a little less than a month later, but continues to talk to me every day without fail. He...	talk to guy daily, he won't commit, gets upset when I sleep with someone else, claims to love me, and now acts like none of it happened. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 F] boyfriend [26 M] of 3 yrs financially and emotionally supports his widowed mother... Is this foundation ok for serious relationship/marriage? POST: My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship for 3 years. Both of us are 26 and love each other very much. However, ...	I am dating someone who emotionally and financially supports his mom. His dad passed away suddenly, so they are still healing. Is this foundation OK for a long term relationship or marriage?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: LDR boyfriend (25/m) cut communication and I (25/f) am ready to move on. How should I do this? POST: I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for a year, together for two and a half years. We live about four hours away. My move in date (to his city) was set for this summer. We've always ...	I want to date someone else after my LDR bf checked on and needed some time alone. This is going on longer than expected and I'm just done.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leaving my ipad in the lecture theatre POST: Just a little background. This week is the beginning of the summer term in my post grad degree. Me and my mate study a quantitative degree in finance decided to take a finance elective (optional module) which deviates a lot from what we nor...	First week of class. Shit talk with friend on fb about the lecture. It synced to ipad. Professor found ipad. Deciding what to do with my life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [f21] absolutely adore my boyfriend [m22], but I don't want to be in a relationship. Does that even make sense? POST: relationship length: almost 2 months. Some background information: Not even three month ago, I was in a shit-tastic relationship for three years. I tried s...	I love my boyfriend, but I can't stomach being in a relationship. How do I talk to him about this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20, M] Ex cheated on me, now I'm constantly suspicious of my new girlfriend POST: Back in June, my girlfriend who I had dated several times in the past cheated on me with the biggest scumbag loser I know. We had been back together about 4 months this time [she is also 20] and had be...	] Ex cheated on me, now I have a new girlfriend who is great but I keep suspecting her of cheating for no reason and I feel like the biggest jealous asshole of all time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I found a dagger with a note attached to it sticking in the ground in my back yard. Should I be worried? POST: Back Story: I purchased a foreclosed home back in May. A few weeks after moving in a neighbor and her husband came to my door with cookies, she told me the real reason t...	Kid who used to live in my home before it was foreclosed keeps returning. Recently leaving a dagger with a note on it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [22F] drop the issue of porn use with my SO? [23M] [2 Year Relationship] POST: I've been in a relationship my SO for almost 2 years now. Our relationship is very healthy. We accept each others flaws for what they are. We support each other. And we discuss everything. In fact, wh...	BF and I have sex 5-7 times a week. He still looks at porn almost everyday. No other relationship problems. Should I let that go even though it bothers me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How should I react to my [20F] father [40sM] when I see him at my Aunts memorial? POST: Hey redditors. Me again. I'm Ace, my Father is Kalim, and I'll introduce others as necessary. On phone so I apologize for any errors. Background : My dad is a fucking leech. OK, maybe that's a...	Anyway, I'm not sure what to do when I inevitably come fave to face with Father. What should I do? How can I prepare? What should I say? I've been stressing over this for a week.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] don't know how I feel about my new friendship [17F] POST: Two-ish months ago a girl told a friend of mine that she and I met almost 2 years ago and at the time she liked me. She told my friend to have me text her. I contacted her and we've been talking a lot since then. A we...	I think i might be falling for a girl who is in a relationship and i dont know what to do or even how I feel really.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24F) bf's (28M) mother (45F) feels lonely and like she has nothing to live for. We want to help but don't know how. POST: Hi everyone, first of all, sorry for the formatting and my english. I write from phone and I am not native. Some background: My bf's mom, Helen, and her hus...	Bf's mom moved from a tiny crowded apartment into a bigger house. She feels lonely, with no hobbies and nothing to look forward to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My (22/M) girlfriend (21/F) will occasionally go days without talking to me. POST: Hi everyone. I've been with my girlfriend for just over 5 months now. Over the past maybe two months she has occasionally gone days without talking to me, but then once we get back into communic...	Girlfriend has gone a couple days avoiding me, I've got no idea what is going on, and I don't know what to do about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M/F] with my Girlfriend [16 M/F] 3 years, she is getting jealous of me talking to a friend too much POST: So, as can be seen from the title, both me and my girlfriend are teenagers. We've been together for roughly 3 years- a relatively long time given our age. At the start o...	Girlfriend is upset with how much I talk to mutual friend and wants to put a time limit on how long I can talk to them a day. She also believes that this friend is trying to make them feel jealous.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [26/m] am confused about things with [26/f] POST: So I've known this girl for almost 14 years and we've always talked off and on as very good friends. 4 years ago my ex at the time got very jealous over her and I speaking so we stopped talking about 8 months back me and my ex b...	girl I've known for 14 years broke up with her now ex-fiance, says she loves me but isn't ready for a relationship still acts more than friendly but suddenly started pulling away to little to no contact.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I'm 16 years old and I'm against the wall POST: I'm 16 years old and have been in the same school system since 2nd grade and know quite a bit of people from elementary school now being a sophomore in high school. Even though I know everybody (If I saw their face I would know who they are) b...	I'm a teenager with no social life and and I have possibly the worst reputation for a minor in history. What the hell.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you "open" up reddit? POST: As of lately I've been feeling socially superficial, such as I'm not actually connecting with anyone yet I'm still talking to them about things. I know that I have issues that started from a messy first "serious" relationship and from there I haven't re...	I'm a closed off person and I want to know how people open up\ get help opening up to people to establish better friendships<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M/F] and my Girlfriend [20 F] of 6 months, dated after 9 years of friendship and just broke up. POST: So there is this girl I have been best friends with since I was 12 (7th grade). We dated once in high school, but were mostly just really close friends for the duration of ou...	Decided to try a long distance (3 hours away) relationship with my friend of 9 years. Ended up breaking up last week because she is uncertain about her future. How do I handle this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with my narcissist father [54M], should I interfere with his love life? POST: This may be better over at /r/raisedbynarcissists but I figured it'd be nice to have some unbiased opinions too. So I [F22] have been low contact with my narcissist father [M54] for a couple years...	Father [M54] is being a typical narcissist to his GF [F49] of 3 years, I'm [F22] not sure if I should speak to her about it or keep my nose out of it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [21F] completely lost my sexual appetite, it's hurting my relationship with my SO [21M]. POST: I've been with my current boyfriend about a year now. It's been a rocky relationship, full of up and downs. In the beginning of the relationship, we had great sexual chemistry. Eventua...	I'm never horny anymore, but my boyfriend still wants to have sex all the time. How can I get my sexual appetite back?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are your most memorable interactions with a delivery person? POST: Today I ordered a pizza about an hour before I had to work. Out of a stupid impulse I tried to take a quick shower before it arrived. About mid shower I hear my apt buzzer, I rushed out in a towel to get it. I handed...	I have to pay the cute pizza delivery girl dripping wet in a towel with my roommate's nickels and dimes.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is a possible one-time investment into a Roth IRA worth it? POST: Before Tax Day I have the opportunity to invest up to $5,000 into a Roth IRA. I'm in my mid twenties and will be getting married next year and think that I have it in my budget to move this money without being too terribly...	If I have the money, should I invest up to $5,000 in a Roth IRA while I'm in my mid-twenties if it means I might not be able to regularly contribute every year?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21f] with my boyfriend [22m] of 2 years. Am I putting our relationship on hold by leaving for school? POST: I [21f] been dating my wonderful best friend [22m] for a little over two years now. We met in college, and spent a lot of time with each other there. He graduated and we ha...	I'm leaving for grad school and we will have to be long distance for an extended period of time, so I am worried I'm preventing us from progressing in our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] am having problems with my parents [48M&46F] regarding moving into my own place while my dad is in hospital. POST: I'm due to move into a flat next week with some friends before I start my second year of university. I'm very excited about this and have been for a while. My fa...	Due to move out next week. Dad is hospitalised. Mum practically trying to force me to stay home til he's better. I don't want to wait and feel selfish. Advice/opinions?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Maybe I am imagining this but still... POST: So I interviewed for a job back in November. Due to various circumstances they were not able to make an offer until recently. In the mean time I have lost just under 45 lbs. When I first interviewed the girl at the front desk was very friendly an...	(what does that stand for anyway) Hot girl was super friendsly and comfortable around me when I first met her. 45 lbs later shes shy, blushing and staring at me. Felt good and weird.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So i need some ideas to catch a food thief... POST: So I live in a residence at university. Each floor is only accessible by key by people who live in that wing of the building. Ie people above and below me have access to my floor. All students are on a meal plan. I like to cook and in ...	Some kid has been stealing food from my common room at uni between 2 and 4am for the past few weeks. Any ideas on catching him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Girlfriend of 5.5 years left me for our roommate and is making me finish paying off our lease. What should I do? POST: So here's some back story. Around 7 months ago my girlfriend and I moved up to the Boston area to finish college/grad school. We had been together for 5 years when we mo...	Girlfriend left me after 5.5 years to go out with roommate and I am now being forced to pay rent to make it easier on their sex lives.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 F] friend [25 M] wants to come on vacation with me and another group of friends POST: Okay so I really don't know what to do in this situation. I have a trip planned with a group of friends for over the summer. My friend is mutual friends with them, but they don't ever hang o...	going on a trip with group of friends, they don't want my other friend to come. Don't know how to tell him he can't come<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, can a company intentionally keep all your tips as a server and just pay you a salary? POST: Hello Reddit, I recently joined the staff of a very large hospitality organization (which shall remain nameless) in California. I work as a server in the restaurant connected to a cor...	I don't receive any off the gratuity any of my tables leave for me, is this legal if they pay me a higher salary than minimum wage?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Advice on Music Industry Jobs POST: I hope this is the right subreddit to post this in, but I am trying to find some fellow redditors who have worked in the music industry and could give advice to a soon to be graduating college student on how to get a job in the music industry in genera...	Soon to be college student wants to know how you got your job in the music industry and any advice you could give to help her on her job quest.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] hopelessly in love with [25F] medical student GF of 3 years. She wants to be friends, I can't get over her POST: Serena and I started dating when we graduated school. The first feeling of love was incredible I never experianced anything like it. We traveled the world going ...	GF wants to become freinds. Is there anyway I can win her heart and love? If not how can I get over her and tell family and friends its over?!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Question re: Professionalism POST: Summary: I'm dealing with a recruiter in New York, they set up an interview for me, knowing I had another to go to later in the week. After the interview organized by the recruiter, verbal offer was made. I of course, state my interest but always have said ...	recruiter is being an ass after I told him I wanted to wait for another offer to come in, which he had known all along.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/f] I'm really scared and my relationship might be over POST: Hey, /r/relationship_advice. I've been so scared today, and I really need some help. A little background first, I'm a 20 yr old woman, I live in California, and I've been dating a guy for about 5 months now. So,...	An old friend from high school had sex with me. Now I feel terrible because I told my boyfriend I wouldn't be drinking<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [23M] know if she's 24[F] blowing me off or if she's actually busy POST: So this girl [24F] and I 23[M] were co-workers for 6 months but she got let go 3 months ago. So total we've known each other 9 months. She's in a LDR but she's cheated on her bf with me several times. ...	we used to hangout almost everyday, last 3 weeks it seems like there's always an excuse for why we can't hang out<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what is your best shit story? POST: Mine is from quite some time ago... I was in 9th grade, I went to online school so about 3 times a year I had to go to this building for testing. I went there for the Final exam of the school year but my father didn't have a lot of gas in his c...	shat myself while riding bike, went into church, flung them against the wall, they stuck, saw a guy outside heading my way, got the fuck out of there, biked 14 miles home.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I continue using Financial Engines? POST: My resolution this year was to audit my finances with a fine tooth comb. That meant start using YNAB, bump 401k to employer match max and open a Roth IRA. Not bad for two months, plus using my tax return I paid off two notes which ...	Financial Engines changes 0.50% to manage my 401k. I don't know anything about investing, is the service worth it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [16 F] best friend [15 F] is better than me at everything and everyone likes her more... how do I deal with this? POST: Self-explanatory, I think. I'm not going to lie, I'm pretty bland. I'm not extremely unattractive but I'm not pretty either. I'm kinda too fat, kinda too loud, ...	Best friend is a rare pepe, I am a normal pepe, and I don't want to hate her for being better than me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My brother (30) just sent me (F/25) money randomly and I don't really want it POST: My family is close and we joke with each other about almost anything. We all (parents and 4 siblings) have really good relationships. We help each other out with financial situations and whatnot. I ...	My brother sent me a random card and check as a graduation present from 2 years ago. What do I do with it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I 22/f ran into my ex 26/m last night, I thought we were okay but I overheard him talking crap about me to another woman. POST: Last night I went out to the local bar with a friend to have a few drinks, dance and have some fun. My ex and I broke up back in February, it wasn't exactly...	Ran into ex, overheard him talking about our bad break up to another girl. I can't really escape our break up since we have the same circle of friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [F 22] deal with living with my ex [26 M] while trying to find my own place? POST: I took a mental health day and decided that it's time to break up with my boyfriend. We've been together 2 years and have lived together since May when I graduated college. There's just too m...	Living with my soon-to-be ex boyfriend for probably about a month or so until I can afford my own place, need advice on how to survive the awkward living arrangements in the meantime.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [25/M] afraid of coming off as needy to my new girlfriend [24/F] POST: So I'm a fairly new relationship with a girl [24/f] that I met on okcupid. We've been dating for almost 2 months now, and I asked her to be my girlfriend exactly a week ago. She seems like a great girl, ...	New girlfriend hasn't responding back to me for a while when she's usually very chatty, making me worried, and magnifying my other concerns.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my GF [23 F] were apart for 2 weeks when she slept with someone else. I don't know how to proceed with my life. POST: I can't get her out of my head. I can't stop crying. I've been miserable for the past 3 weeks, sleeping most of the days away, hardly eating. I don't f...	Girlfriend slept with someone else, and I don't know if I should get back with her or not. Have any of you gotten back together with your SO's after they cheated?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [16/M] Not sure if my co-worker [17/F] is being very flirtatious or just friendly POST: First day at my new job at taco bell, so I had to do some computer training and This girl (we'll call her Veronica) comes into the office I was doing the the training at eating an apple s...	First day at work girl is more friendly then everyone else pinches my ass during the day, but mentions she has a boyfriend(Possibly long distance)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [37 F] had a revenge affair and i [38 M] can't get over it. POST: My wife and i have been married for ten years and have two kids, a boy (8) and a girl (6). We went through a rough patch In our marriage where we were barely communicating or having sex and i had a three mont...	My wife slept with her bestfriend while i was in the doghouse for an affair and i can't get over it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Religious holidays are coming up and my dad wants me (M16) to miss school because of it, when I don't. POST: Let's cover some background here. My dad is quite religious, while my mom is not. They are divorced, so I spend my week during my mom's and weekend at my dad's. My dad has ...	my dad wants me to take off school for religious holidays, when i don't. how do i handle this situation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [23 M] of three years, gets upset about everything POST: I have lived with my boyfriend for the last three years and he gets upset about any little thing. He works from home and gets upset if I make any nosie while hes working, but he also gets upset when ...	boyfriend gets upset about everything; I want to break up but am not sure how since we have lived together for so long.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Does he have a point or is he just being jealous. Advice please. POST: Let me be clear here first and foremost that I have never had any interest in this girl nor do I think I will. Me and my suite mate (20 M both) have been friends since we started college here last year but recent...	I have been spending time with my suitemates girlfriend since before they were dating and now hes asking me to stop.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Being away for the night POST: Hi r/parenting! I have a 21 month old girl who I adore. I stay home with her (and go to school online) and have always been her primary caretaker. In total, my husband and I have had about five dates since she was born. She even came with us on our honeym...	I'm seeing a midnight showing of the Hobbit. Never been away from the kid for the night. Losing my mind a little. help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is this appropriate behavior from my [30F] formerly-unfaithful husband [28M]? POST: My husband cheated 6mo ago. To make a long story short, a significant disconnect between us led him to start flirting with a coworker (which consisted mostly of sexual innuendos), which led to kissing...	Previously-unfaithful husband turned normal conversation with an unmarried woman sexual - is this appropriate behavior for a married person? Or am I overreacting?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit when were you the other woman/man? Did you know and would you do it again? POST: I had just graduated high school and was about to leave for basic when a good male friend of mine decided we didn't want to go to basic without having a good lay before. I knew that earlier in the yea...	I was the "other" woman without knowing, when I found out I tried to come clean only to be blamed with "rape" and basically became an outcast.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend [F18] and I [F17] have feelings for each other, but we're both getting over heartbreak. POST: Background: We go to the same college and we've known each other for four months. We've been casual friends the whole time. Not too close, but we obviously like each other's co...	College friend [F18] and I [F17] have casually discussed the possibility of a relationship but we don't want to be each other's rebound. Now we're at an impasse. What's the next step?<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 21 M with my ONS 22F met at at party, got drunk had sex not sure how to approach the situation now POST: I am a typical college student who likes to drink and Thursday was a typical college night out. A teammate from my rugby squad invited me for some drinks at his home and there ...	Had a ONS, want to see the girl again but not sure how to ask it without sounding creepy/too serious.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: (31m) Can't get my mind off this girl, is it any sign? POST: Edit: oops, typo in the subject. "Is it a* sign" I made [this post] yesterday and no one commented. It was probably too long. I'll make this one short. There is a girl (26f) I've been seeing for maybe a month and a half ...	I am so torn. Do I go for a girl who I really like, who appeals to my wild side... but at the same time I know she is not going to help me achieve my professional goals? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Adopted a 2-year-old cat 8 days ago and would appreciate some advice! POST: Hi guys, 9 days ago I posted [this] thread about my intention to adopt a cat the following day. In short, I did! She's really cute and the way she looks around curiously at stuff/spazzes at nearly the exact same time...	adopted a new cat 8 days ago, initially very cuddly and affectionate, let her out of her safe room three days in, now she's really timid/not so big on cuddles<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22M] am interested in asking out a girl [18F] that I practice a karate with. POST: Throwaway because people follow my main. I have been practicing karate for the past 11 years. I love it. It has made me into a disciplined and more confident person. About a year ago a girl named "...	22M wants to ask out 18F, worried about matrurity gap and potential discomfort at the dojo if things go south.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Gave Personal loan on vehicle, now total loss after accident, CAN I ask for loan to be paid in full? POST: Background: When I graduated from High School a family member gave me an old truck as a gift. It was awesome, but the truck had no A/C and wasn't a car I was going to keep for...	Remaining balance on the personal loan is $450, now the vehicle is salvage, insurance offer of $2400 for the total loss, can I request loan to be paid in full?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex-girlfriend [20/F] broke up with me [21/M] just broke up with me and I'm having trouble getting over her POST: My ex-girlfriend [20/F] broke up with me [21/M] in the early morning hours of November 1st. To give you a little background, the relationship had been a little rocky be...	She and I had some minor incompatibility issues and were working on things, but my behavior pushed her overboard. What can I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By somehow getting a stick stuck in my leg POST: This happened about a year ago. So, I was at summer camp, and we were doing like... ninja activites. We were running from people basically. I was over-excited as hell (I have ADHD) and I run running at full speed, IN THE WOODS. You see whe...	Worshipped sanic, ran at the speed of light and ran into a stick, have a scar now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend [M25] and I [F26] recently broke up after almost two years together and I am not that torn up about it. Do breakups just keep getting easier the more you go through? POST: When I had my first breakup I was twenty and it CRUSHED me. I was depressed for months, cried every...	It seems I handle each breakup better and better as time goes on. Do others feel this way? Or am I just becoming bitter?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Myself (m26) and gf (24) are tired of always having to make plans with relatives who live down the road. POST: The gf and I have been together for 10 mos and have lived together for 4 mos. I have a 1st cousin (m34) down the road who I always hung out with. My cousin has a wife (f28) ...	Myself (m26) and gf (24) are frustrated with relatives who used to hang out with me frequently but haven't bothered to do so since gf moved in with me. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24/F] boyfriend's [28/M] best friend [late20s F] got him an expensive birthday gift, not sure how to feel POST: Back story, we've been together two years. I don't make a ton of money but I always try my best to get my bf something really nice even if it means I don't get to shop ...	Boyfriend's female best friend got him a bday gift that probably cost more than what I got him and I feel a little weird.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Parents of Reddit: What is the best way you have communicated to your child? POST: I am currently 21 years old, but I have been thinking about this question for quite a while now. I have known people who enjoy the idea of a child, but once they have a child they have no idea on how to ...	I made a set of videos for my children now that I am young (21 yrs old) so that they can listen to what I say and we can relate.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My current GF [21f] of about 4 months just told me [23m] in a super casual way that she had a miscarriage when she was 16. POST: We went out to grab lunch today, the restaurant wasn't too busy but there were a few patrons there, and we were all kind of in one area of the restaurant s...	my girlfriend told me that she had a miscarriage at 16 while we were out to eat lunch, it made me very uncomfortable and now I feel like I'm seeing her differently<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My gf [24F] left me 2 weeks ago, me [29M] because i nagged her about her shitlord mother. POST: 7 year relationship, it hurts a lot still. She got mad after i criticized her mother because she keeps pushing me away or try to piss me off. She exploded and told me to fuck off. I calle...	lost gf because i nagged her about her mother being a cunt. Then kicked me out because of it and told me to never come back.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making my mother think I'm a satanist. POST: Like many TIFUs, this didn't happen today. It was a few months ago. I went on reddit on my phone one day (strange, I know) and, I don't exactly remember how, but reddit led me to the website for the Church of Satan. I think the website w...	I left the Church of Satan website open on my smartphone and my mother may or may not think I worship the prince of darkness.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M23] don't want my SO [20] to feel left out; bar with friends POST: I have been with my girlfriend for just shy of 2 years and she has always had trouble with our age difference - mainly her inability to go to bars. I have basically stopped going out with friends over the last t...	my GF had previously easily been upset when I go out with friends to bars (she can't get in and feels left out) - I may go to bar with friends this weekend..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[24F] want to know how to forget [25M] who doesn't love me POST: When we're together I feel so good and happy, he just spend all the time telling me how amazing i am. we get along incredibly well. He doesn't love me and has always slept with other girls. I offered him to get seri...	He used to like me, things were never serious, now he doesn't care. How do I forget about him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what is the ballsiest thing you have ever done, and how did it turn out? POST: A ~~little~~ backstory- Before my parents got divorced, I would wash my dad's truck and my mom's Jeep every other Saturday. At 10-11 (the time this happened), washing a car consisted of me washing the...	Some bitch thinks that tan kids doing work are illegal immigrants, I man up and get her arrested for trespassing. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I file for bankruptcy? POST: I'll give as much information as I can. Feel free to ask for me if needed. About 4 years ago shortly after I separated with my wife at the time I moved into my own place. About a week later I was laid off of my job. Economy was busted at the ...	I have about $22,400 in debt and only net about 19,000 a year. Should I file for bankruptcy? Try to negotiate charge-offs? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Significance in the face of irrelevancy; people crave it. How do I use this fact? POST: What ways of approaching life and others take advantage of the fact that people seem to crave to be relevant in the face of their own contingency? The significance that people attribute to objects, e...	People want to feel valuable; to have confirmed the subtle truth that they are the centre of the universe. How can I exploit this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I(18M) found out the girl(18M) I like would have dated me. What do I do? POST: A little backstory, Katy I had known each other back in sophomore year. We hardly talked to each other but we knew each other were good people. She is around 5'4 and is super smart. She is also a peer lead...	Girl I liked but didn't make move on. Turns out she would have gone on a date. Now she's talking t another guy. Who do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [21 M] end the relationship with my girlfriend [20 F] of one year? I have lost the "spark" POST: We are both juniors in college and have known each other since freshman year. Besides small disagreements and arguments, we get along well and love being with each other and love...	Not sure if I want to end a stable relationship with my girlfriend of 1 year. I have lost the "spark"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (23F) new boyfriend (24M) got so jealous while I was casually talking to another guy that he scratched himself until he was bleeding. Red flag? POST: I've been seeing this guy, Chris, for about two months now and so far things have been amazing. He's very sweet, a good listener, a...	New bf got so jealous of me talking to another guy at a party that he hurt himself. Just too much alcohol or is this a bad sign?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Sweaty palms - how do you deal with it? POST: I'm suffering from hyperhidrosis (excessive sweating), mostly in my palms, feet, and slightly in my armpits (deodorant takes care of that, for the most part). While the sweating in the feet hardly bothers me, unless I'm barefoot at home, the...	I suffer from sweaty palms, regardless of any reason. How do you deal with it/treat it on daily basis? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18m] am in love with my best friend [18f] of many years. Should I say how I feel? POST: I've known my best friend for many years, she's been there when I needed her most and vice versa. I've had feelings for her since middle school. we never lost touch even after I moved away for ...	I've been in love with my best friend for many years and have never worked up the courage to tell her, should I risk it or keep things the same?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [F21] found nakey pics of my bf's [M27] ex-gfs on his laptop and now I feel sad, how do I undo this sadness? POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, and he's never cheated on me or anything like that. In fact, our relationship is pretty great, he's my best friend ...	Stumbled across very sexy pictures of my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends on his laptop, I feel so sad now, how do I unsee what I saw? How do I fix this relationship?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I[m/21] jump away from being the "quiet one" at my new job? POST: I recently got a new job that I really like. My coworkers are great and the job is great. However I've been developing a bad case of anxiety over the past few years. I don't talk to anyone as much anymore so I l...	New job, used to being a quiet person, have been pretty quiet for the first week of work. Would like to start being social.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend [23/F] of 2 years just dumped me [25/M] out of the blue. Confused on what to do... POST: So my girlfriend of 2+ years just dumped me, pretty much out of nowhere. Our relationships has been relatively solid throughout. A few hiccups that we worked through, nothing crazy. N...	Girlfriend of 2+ years abruptly broke up with me saying she needed to be alone to figure out where she's going with her life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20/F] am having a problem with my [23/M]bf of 4 years, with his weed addiction. POST: My bf changed so much within the past couple of years that its getting to the point where I feel like I don't know him anymore. He use to take care of his body really well and prioritize his life...	BF getting high 24/7 it's affecting the relationship and I'm getting tired of complaining and arguing. Should I consider moving on?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22M] gf [22F] of 4 years is about to move away for college. I want her to go because it will be amazing for her, but I want to break up. POST: We have been together for a long time, I really love this girl and she is planning to move away for school to do her Doctorate at one of ...	gf is moving away for school and I don't know what to do. How do I deal with the situation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Maybe not as serious as most posts here, but I [23m] text my friends [20s m&f] and am ignored often, but then they'll turn around and text me with their own stuff, never acknowledging mine. POST: So yes, I realize this is probably not as urgent or important as most posts here, but it...	My friends ignore my texts but then text me with their own conversations; I want to keep up the friendships but am annoyed at their ignoring me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: How can I (25F) present myself more professionally? POST: [First time poster. If this is the wrong place for this, please let me know!] I am 25(F) and have never felt like I know how to be in a professional setting. Its a little strange because I have always worked a variety of job...	How should a 25F with no real guidance in the professional world or with appearance begin to present better in this sense?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: GirlF[19]riend really cold, said she's on medication POST: Hello guys. I, [M/19], normally do not do this because I can say I'm quite experienced when it comes to relationships and what not, but this time I'm just way too confused and seriously do not know what to do.. Everyth...	GF really cold, no sex, no kisses. I confront her so we break up. We get back together, she tells me she's on xanax. I dont know what to do, need help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [24 M] [24 F] Girlfriend went to ex's apartment last night POST: last night my girlfriend was out in the city drinking & catching up with her friends. She ran into her ex along the way, she didn't talk to him at first but later on in the night he called her & she went over to his apa...	She went to her exs house, left cause it didn't feel right, but she still went & talked with him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: should i call her (also posted on r/offmychest and r/dating_advice) POST: so im gonna tell you a story then after that ask a question related to the story Story: so 5 weeks ago i got girls number (we were both going to a camp in the wilderness in different groups) and was super happy beca...	i got a girls number, someone told me she was already dating, still think about her and its getting to a weird point.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He [27/M] asked me [F/22] out on a second date in the middle of a very bad first one. I said yes. How do I get out of it? POST: Long story short I was set up with a very nice and successful guy on a date... It went ok but I wasn't attracted to him in the slightest. He spoke so softl...	Bad date asked me out again in the middle of dinner and I freaked out and said yes. How do I politely say I don't want to go out with him again?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can reddit please help diagnose my little brother? POST: And maybe help me figure out what to do with him? He just got kicked out of college for bad grades and moved back in with our mom. He managed to find a job at a coffee shop. This is not inherently a problem. The problem is, in...	my little brother froze in maturity at 11 and lives w/mom w/out any ambition -- is this a problem and if so, what do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: This weekend, I'm [20M] going on my first date with one of my classmates from university [27F] Any advice on how to make this first date great for the both of us? POST: A little bit of back story first. I met my classmate during the first week of university back in September, we got ...	I've asked one of my classmates from university out, who is 27 years old and we are going for our first date this weekend, any advice on how to make this date great for the both of us?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am 25F who looks average here. I fancy a 31M who is from the upper middle class. Should I just give up that he will be into me? POST: I recently started to attend an art class. I met him when I was in class. We enjoyed chatting with each other and I like his cheerful personality. ...	I am 25F and I fancy a 31M. Given that I am just average looking and he is from the upper middle class, should I just give up the idea that he will pick me over hot girls?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Fiance (30F) did some nice things for my (30M) birthday and also planned on making me dinner. Then it went downhill. POST: So I stayed up late last night because hey, today is my birthday. I got home from work tired, but grateful and said thank you and gave hugs for what she did. T...	I wanted to sleep on my birthday after work and celebrate tomorrow instead. Fiance gets mad and spoils the day.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] want to get back together with my ex-gf [23F]-- Advice needed POST: Hi all, this is my first time posting anything on reddit so excuse me if i make this into something confusing. We are currently "on a break", but I can't really tell the difference between that and essentia...	ex wants me to prove something to her to give her some sense of security about our future(monetary means), I don't know how or what to prove.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Advice on how to deal with the aftermath of a break-up (27M, 24F, 1 yr 3 mnths) POST: I think I want to end my relationship but I'm scared about how I would cope afterwards. I'd want to pretend that the last year of my life never happened and erase every trace of him but every time ...	How do I go about getting over a break-up? I want to throw all the gifts he gave me away and erase every last trace of him but every time I think about doing it, I feel so depressed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by thinking I was more clever than a monkey POST: The TIFU from the guy punching out a monkey reminded me of when I went to Thailand with my wife: Where we were in Hua Hin, Thailand, we found out there's a place called Monkey Mountain, so we had to go and check it out (obviously). We br...	Tried to taunt a wild monkey by eating a banana in front of him; he responded by swarming me with his 20+ friends, stealing the rest of my food along with my banana, and covering me in monkey shit.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I shop online so that I don't have to deal with people. I needed help with an order and had to interact with a person. Everything went better than expected. POST: Hi Reddit. I find one of the worst things about holiday shopping is dealing with the people. The crowds are one thing, but pus...	I shop online so I don't have to interact with real people. I needed help with an order and the woman I dealt with was kind, polite patient, gave me free shipping and offered to send me more stuff for free.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Any redditors have a parent who moved away when you were young? Or possibly a parent who moved away from their child? POST: I'm interested to find out both sides of the story here. The woman I'm in love with lives about a thousand miles away from me. My ex and my son live here. If I ...	Girlfriend lives 1k miles from me. I'd like to find out how it might affect my child if I move.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (22m) started seeing someone (21f). First few dates went great then something happened, confused now. POST: So I started seeing this girl a bit ago, we went on our first date/first time meeting because it was a mutual friend who set us up and it went amazing. Had a ton of fun, ende...	started seeing girl I really like, something went wrong with her ex, went out again and it felt a little awkward when leaving, she didn't respond to last text and idk what to do<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How to get over her (complex situation) POST: So here's the back story: I met this girl online when I was about 12-14. She was a couple of years younger than me, but her maturity level was on par with mine, and I was pretty mature for my age. We got along great, and kept talking/pla...	Known a girl for 10+ years and have strong feelings for her, but she lives far away and is happy being with someone else. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Landlord didn't check for damp and mould has damaged my property. What do I do? POST: I'm a student living in a house with 5 other students. We moved in 5 months ago. Yesterday, I found mould in my bedroom in an alcove where I keep my books. Upon further investigation, I found other pa...	Mould damaged £300 of books. I think my landlord is responsible since he failed to have anything checked and I want him to pay.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [16/M], I'm taking a (18/F) to the upcoming dance and I have a question for the females... POST: If you were her, what would you think of me just texting you for the purpose of just talking to you? If you want more backstory: I knew her and had a crush on her for 3+ years, bu...	I want to get to know my date for the dance but I don't know how or if I should. Put yourself in her place: what would you think?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Dating] [28M] Clueless how to bring up interest in a relationship with [26F] POST: So I'm 28M and have never been in a serious/long-term relationship. I've never been good at putting it out there and as a result I usually wind up drifting apart from whoever I'm interested in. Bu...	— Don't know how to bring up interest in a relationship with someone I've known for a while and have recently been spending time with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: 17 year old seeking highschool vs. ged advice POST: So as of right now i'm in my senior year of high school and might have to do another year of high school. Still living with my family and we are barely scraping by, i had in mind that if i need to repeat a year of high school i will go tak...	might need to do another year of high school, should i take the ged to save some time to get a job?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18/f] He [22/m] won't commit, finds out I slept with someone else, gets super upset, says he thinks he loves me?? POST: I met a guy about 4 months ago, starting seeing each other. He moved a little less than a month later, but continues to talk to me every day without fail. He...	talk to guy daily, he won't commit, gets upset when I sleep with someone else, claims to love me, and now acts like none of it happened. Help?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 F] boyfriend [26 M] of 3 yrs financially and emotionally supports his widowed mother... Is this foundation ok for serious relationship/marriage? POST: My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship for 3 years. Both of us are 26 and love each other very much. However, ...	I am dating someone who emotionally and financially supports his mom. His dad passed away suddenly, so they are still healing. Is this foundation OK for a long term relationship or marriage?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: LDR boyfriend (25/m) cut communication and I (25/f) am ready to move on. How should I do this? POST: I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for a year, together for two and a half years. We live about four hours away. My move in date (to his city) was set for this summer. We've always ...	I want to date someone else after my LDR bf checked on and needed some time alone. This is going on longer than expected and I'm just done.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by leaving my ipad in the lecture theatre POST: Just a little background. This week is the beginning of the summer term in my post grad degree. Me and my mate study a quantitative degree in finance decided to take a finance elective (optional module) which deviates a lot from what we nor...	First week of class. Shit talk with friend on fb about the lecture. It synced to ipad. Professor found ipad. Deciding what to do with my life.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [f21] absolutely adore my boyfriend [m22], but I don't want to be in a relationship. Does that even make sense? POST: relationship length: almost 2 months. Some background information: Not even three month ago, I was in a shit-tastic relationship for three years. I tried s...	I love my boyfriend, but I can't stomach being in a relationship. How do I talk to him about this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [20, M] Ex cheated on me, now I'm constantly suspicious of my new girlfriend POST: Back in June, my girlfriend who I had dated several times in the past cheated on me with the biggest scumbag loser I know. We had been back together about 4 months this time [she is also 20] and had be...	] Ex cheated on me, now I have a new girlfriend who is great but I keep suspecting her of cheating for no reason and I feel like the biggest jealous asshole of all time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I found a dagger with a note attached to it sticking in the ground in my back yard. Should I be worried? POST: Back Story: I purchased a foreclosed home back in May. A few weeks after moving in a neighbor and her husband came to my door with cookies, she told me the real reason t...	Kid who used to live in my home before it was foreclosed keeps returning. Recently leaving a dagger with a note on it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Do I [22F] drop the issue of porn use with my SO? [23M] [2 Year Relationship] POST: I've been in a relationship my SO for almost 2 years now. Our relationship is very healthy. We accept each others flaws for what they are. We support each other. And we discuss everything. In fact, wh...	BF and I have sex 5-7 times a week. He still looks at porn almost everyday. No other relationship problems. Should I let that go even though it bothers me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How should I react to my [20F] father [40sM] when I see him at my Aunts memorial? POST: Hey redditors. Me again. I'm Ace, my Father is Kalim, and I'll introduce others as necessary. On phone so I apologize for any errors. Background : My dad is a fucking leech. OK, maybe that's a...	Anyway, I'm not sure what to do when I inevitably come fave to face with Father. What should I do? How can I prepare? What should I say? I've been stressing over this for a week.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] don't know how I feel about my new friendship [17F] POST: Two-ish months ago a girl told a friend of mine that she and I met almost 2 years ago and at the time she liked me. She told my friend to have me text her. I contacted her and we've been talking a lot since then. A we...	I think i might be falling for a girl who is in a relationship and i dont know what to do or even how I feel really.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24F) bf's (28M) mother (45F) feels lonely and like she has nothing to live for. We want to help but don't know how. POST: Hi everyone, first of all, sorry for the formatting and my english. I write from phone and I am not native. Some background: My bf's mom, Helen, and her hus...	Bf's mom moved from a tiny crowded apartment into a bigger house. She feels lonely, with no hobbies and nothing to look forward to.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My (22/M) girlfriend (21/F) will occasionally go days without talking to me. POST: Hi everyone. I've been with my girlfriend for just over 5 months now. Over the past maybe two months she has occasionally gone days without talking to me, but then once we get back into communic...	Girlfriend has gone a couple days avoiding me, I've got no idea what is going on, and I don't know what to do about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 M/F] with my Girlfriend [16 M/F] 3 years, she is getting jealous of me talking to a friend too much POST: So, as can be seen from the title, both me and my girlfriend are teenagers. We've been together for roughly 3 years- a relatively long time given our age. At the start o...	Girlfriend is upset with how much I talk to mutual friend and wants to put a time limit on how long I can talk to them a day. She also believes that this friend is trying to make them feel jealous.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [26/m] am confused about things with [26/f] POST: So I've known this girl for almost 14 years and we've always talked off and on as very good friends. 4 years ago my ex at the time got very jealous over her and I speaking so we stopped talking about 8 months back me and my ex b...	girl I've known for 14 years broke up with her now ex-fiance, says she loves me but isn't ready for a relationship still acts more than friendly but suddenly started pulling away to little to no contact.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I'm 16 years old and I'm against the wall POST: I'm 16 years old and have been in the same school system since 2nd grade and know quite a bit of people from elementary school now being a sophomore in high school. Even though I know everybody (If I saw their face I would know who they are) b...	I'm a teenager with no social life and and I have possibly the worst reputation for a minor in history. What the hell.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you "open" up reddit? POST: As of lately I've been feeling socially superficial, such as I'm not actually connecting with anyone yet I'm still talking to them about things. I know that I have issues that started from a messy first "serious" relationship and from there I haven't re...	I'm a closed off person and I want to know how people open up\ get help opening up to people to establish better friendships<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M/F] and my Girlfriend [20 F] of 6 months, dated after 9 years of friendship and just broke up. POST: So there is this girl I have been best friends with since I was 12 (7th grade). We dated once in high school, but were mostly just really close friends for the duration of ou...	Decided to try a long distance (3 hours away) relationship with my friend of 9 years. Ended up breaking up last week because she is uncertain about her future. How do I handle this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] with my narcissist father [54M], should I interfere with his love life? POST: This may be better over at /r/raisedbynarcissists but I figured it'd be nice to have some unbiased opinions too. So I [F22] have been low contact with my narcissist father [M54] for a couple years...	Father [M54] is being a typical narcissist to his GF [F49] of 3 years, I'm [F22] not sure if I should speak to her about it or keep my nose out of it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I've [21F] completely lost my sexual appetite, it's hurting my relationship with my SO [21M]. POST: I've been with my current boyfriend about a year now. It's been a rocky relationship, full of up and downs. In the beginning of the relationship, we had great sexual chemistry. Eventua...	I'm never horny anymore, but my boyfriend still wants to have sex all the time. How can I get my sexual appetite back?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are your most memorable interactions with a delivery person? POST: Today I ordered a pizza about an hour before I had to work. Out of a stupid impulse I tried to take a quick shower before it arrived. About mid shower I hear my apt buzzer, I rushed out in a towel to get it. I handed...	I have to pay the cute pizza delivery girl dripping wet in a towel with my roommate's nickels and dimes.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is a possible one-time investment into a Roth IRA worth it? POST: Before Tax Day I have the opportunity to invest up to $5,000 into a Roth IRA. I'm in my mid twenties and will be getting married next year and think that I have it in my budget to move this money without being too terribly...	If I have the money, should I invest up to $5,000 in a Roth IRA while I'm in my mid-twenties if it means I might not be able to regularly contribute every year?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21f] with my boyfriend [22m] of 2 years. Am I putting our relationship on hold by leaving for school? POST: I [21f] been dating my wonderful best friend [22m] for a little over two years now. We met in college, and spent a lot of time with each other there. He graduated and we ha...	I'm leaving for grad school and we will have to be long distance for an extended period of time, so I am worried I'm preventing us from progressing in our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] am having problems with my parents [48M&46F] regarding moving into my own place while my dad is in hospital. POST: I'm due to move into a flat next week with some friends before I start my second year of university. I'm very excited about this and have been for a while. My fa...	Due to move out next week. Dad is hospitalised. Mum practically trying to force me to stay home til he's better. I don't want to wait and feel selfish. Advice/opinions?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Maybe I am imagining this but still... POST: So I interviewed for a job back in November. Due to various circumstances they were not able to make an offer until recently. In the mean time I have lost just under 45 lbs. When I first interviewed the girl at the front desk was very friendly an...	(what does that stand for anyway) Hot girl was super friendsly and comfortable around me when I first met her. 45 lbs later shes shy, blushing and staring at me. Felt good and weird.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So i need some ideas to catch a food thief... POST: So I live in a residence at university. Each floor is only accessible by key by people who live in that wing of the building. Ie people above and below me have access to my floor. All students are on a meal plan. I like to cook and in ...	Some kid has been stealing food from my common room at uni between 2 and 4am for the past few weeks. Any ideas on catching him?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Girlfriend of 5.5 years left me for our roommate and is making me finish paying off our lease. What should I do? POST: So here's some back story. Around 7 months ago my girlfriend and I moved up to the Boston area to finish college/grad school. We had been together for 5 years when we mo...	Girlfriend left me after 5.5 years to go out with roommate and I am now being forced to pay rent to make it easier on their sex lives.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 F] friend [25 M] wants to come on vacation with me and another group of friends POST: Okay so I really don't know what to do in this situation. I have a trip planned with a group of friends for over the summer. My friend is mutual friends with them, but they don't ever hang o...	going on a trip with group of friends, they don't want my other friend to come. Don't know how to tell him he can't come<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, can a company intentionally keep all your tips as a server and just pay you a salary? POST: Hello Reddit, I recently joined the staff of a very large hospitality organization (which shall remain nameless) in California. I work as a server in the restaurant connected to a cor...	I don't receive any off the gratuity any of my tables leave for me, is this legal if they pay me a higher salary than minimum wage?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Advice on Music Industry Jobs POST: I hope this is the right subreddit to post this in, but I am trying to find some fellow redditors who have worked in the music industry and could give advice to a soon to be graduating college student on how to get a job in the music industry in genera...	Soon to be college student wants to know how you got your job in the music industry and any advice you could give to help her on her job quest.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] hopelessly in love with [25F] medical student GF of 3 years. She wants to be friends, I can't get over her POST: Serena and I started dating when we graduated school. The first feeling of love was incredible I never experianced anything like it. We traveled the world going ...	GF wants to become freinds. Is there anyway I can win her heart and love? If not how can I get over her and tell family and friends its over?!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Question re: Professionalism POST: Summary: I'm dealing with a recruiter in New York, they set up an interview for me, knowing I had another to go to later in the week. After the interview organized by the recruiter, verbal offer was made. I of course, state my interest but always have said ...	recruiter is being an ass after I told him I wanted to wait for another offer to come in, which he had known all along.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/f] I'm really scared and my relationship might be over POST: Hey, /r/relationship_advice. I've been so scared today, and I really need some help. A little background first, I'm a 20 yr old woman, I live in California, and I've been dating a guy for about 5 months now. So,...	An old friend from high school had sex with me. Now I feel terrible because I told my boyfriend I wouldn't be drinking<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [23M] know if she's 24[F] blowing me off or if she's actually busy POST: So this girl [24F] and I 23[M] were co-workers for 6 months but she got let go 3 months ago. So total we've known each other 9 months. She's in a LDR but she's cheated on her bf with me several times. ...	we used to hangout almost everyday, last 3 weeks it seems like there's always an excuse for why we can't hang out<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what is your best shit story? POST: Mine is from quite some time ago... I was in 9th grade, I went to online school so about 3 times a year I had to go to this building for testing. I went there for the Final exam of the school year but my father didn't have a lot of gas in his c...	shat myself while riding bike, went into church, flung them against the wall, they stuck, saw a guy outside heading my way, got the fuck out of there, biked 14 miles home.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I continue using Financial Engines? POST: My resolution this year was to audit my finances with a fine tooth comb. That meant start using YNAB, bump 401k to employer match max and open a Roth IRA. Not bad for two months, plus using my tax return I paid off two notes which ...	Financial Engines changes 0.50% to manage my 401k. I don't know anything about investing, is the service worth it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [16 F] best friend [15 F] is better than me at everything and everyone likes her more... how do I deal with this? POST: Self-explanatory, I think. I'm not going to lie, I'm pretty bland. I'm not extremely unattractive but I'm not pretty either. I'm kinda too fat, kinda too loud, ...	Best friend is a rare pepe, I am a normal pepe, and I don't want to hate her for being better than me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My brother (30) just sent me (F/25) money randomly and I don't really want it POST: My family is close and we joke with each other about almost anything. We all (parents and 4 siblings) have really good relationships. We help each other out with financial situations and whatnot. I ...	My brother sent me a random card and check as a graduation present from 2 years ago. What do I do with it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I 22/f ran into my ex 26/m last night, I thought we were okay but I overheard him talking crap about me to another woman. POST: Last night I went out to the local bar with a friend to have a few drinks, dance and have some fun. My ex and I broke up back in February, it wasn't exactly...	Ran into ex, overheard him talking about our bad break up to another girl. I can't really escape our break up since we have the same circle of friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [F 22] deal with living with my ex [26 M] while trying to find my own place? POST: I took a mental health day and decided that it's time to break up with my boyfriend. We've been together 2 years and have lived together since May when I graduated college. There's just too m...	Living with my soon-to-be ex boyfriend for probably about a month or so until I can afford my own place, need advice on how to survive the awkward living arrangements in the meantime.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm [25/M] afraid of coming off as needy to my new girlfriend [24/F] POST: So I'm a fairly new relationship with a girl [24/f] that I met on okcupid. We've been dating for almost 2 months now, and I asked her to be my girlfriend exactly a week ago. She seems like a great girl, ...	New girlfriend hasn't responding back to me for a while when she's usually very chatty, making me worried, and magnifying my other concerns.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my GF [23 F] were apart for 2 weeks when she slept with someone else. I don't know how to proceed with my life. POST: I can't get her out of my head. I can't stop crying. I've been miserable for the past 3 weeks, sleeping most of the days away, hardly eating. I don't f...	Girlfriend slept with someone else, and I don't know if I should get back with her or not. Have any of you gotten back together with your SO's after they cheated?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [16/M] Not sure if my co-worker [17/F] is being very flirtatious or just friendly POST: First day at my new job at taco bell, so I had to do some computer training and This girl (we'll call her Veronica) comes into the office I was doing the the training at eating an apple s...	First day at work girl is more friendly then everyone else pinches my ass during the day, but mentions she has a boyfriend(Possibly long distance)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My wife [37 F] had a revenge affair and i [38 M] can't get over it. POST: My wife and i have been married for ten years and have two kids, a boy (8) and a girl (6). We went through a rough patch In our marriage where we were barely communicating or having sex and i had a three mont...	My wife slept with her bestfriend while i was in the doghouse for an affair and i can't get over it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Religious holidays are coming up and my dad wants me (M16) to miss school because of it, when I don't. POST: Let's cover some background here. My dad is quite religious, while my mom is not. They are divorced, so I spend my week during my mom's and weekend at my dad's. My dad has ...	my dad wants me to take off school for religious holidays, when i don't. how do i handle this situation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [23 M] of three years, gets upset about everything POST: I have lived with my boyfriend for the last three years and he gets upset about any little thing. He works from home and gets upset if I make any nosie while hes working, but he also gets upset when ...	boyfriend gets upset about everything; I want to break up but am not sure how since we have lived together for so long.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Does he have a point or is he just being jealous. Advice please. POST: Let me be clear here first and foremost that I have never had any interest in this girl nor do I think I will. Me and my suite mate (20 M both) have been friends since we started college here last year but recent...	I have been spending time with my suitemates girlfriend since before they were dating and now hes asking me to stop.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Parenting TITLE: Being away for the night POST: Hi r/parenting! I have a 21 month old girl who I adore. I stay home with her (and go to school online) and have always been her primary caretaker. In total, my husband and I have had about five dates since she was born. She even came with us on our honeym...	I'm seeing a midnight showing of the Hobbit. Never been away from the kid for the night. Losing my mind a little. help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is this appropriate behavior from my [30F] formerly-unfaithful husband [28M]? POST: My husband cheated 6mo ago. To make a long story short, a significant disconnect between us led him to start flirting with a coworker (which consisted mostly of sexual innuendos), which led to kissing...	Previously-unfaithful husband turned normal conversation with an unmarried woman sexual - is this appropriate behavior for a married person? Or am I overreacting?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit when were you the other woman/man? Did you know and would you do it again? POST: I had just graduated high school and was about to leave for basic when a good male friend of mine decided we didn't want to go to basic without having a good lay before. I knew that earlier in the yea...	I was the "other" woman without knowing, when I found out I tried to come clean only to be blamed with "rape" and basically became an outcast.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend [F18] and I [F17] have feelings for each other, but we're both getting over heartbreak. POST: Background: We go to the same college and we've known each other for four months. We've been casual friends the whole time. Not too close, but we obviously like each other's co...	College friend [F18] and I [F17] have casually discussed the possibility of a relationship but we don't want to be each other's rebound. Now we're at an impasse. What's the next step?<\|endoftext\|>