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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] and friend [18 M] have been talking 3 months, but open relationship resulting in anger and jealousy POST: My friend [18 M] and I [18 F] connected on Tinder and have been talking for over 3 months. I consider him one of my best friends, and we talk on the phone a few evening...	Long distance friends with benefits gets upset and jealous of my sleeping with other people, I cherish the friendship but am not sure if I should break it off if it's hurting him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19/F] with my EX [29/M] with my new Crush [20/M]. Ex is jealous of new guy but I'm confused POST: Basically my ex and I dated for 5 months. He was my first somewhat serious relationship. He was also my first everything. He cheated and to top it off he broke up with me. He'd also ...	Ex seems jealous has had crazy behaviour; part of me can't let go but the other half wants to find a new person to be with. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: My dad has been a police officer for 26 years, which he's now quitting because he's terrified of the radical BLM members. POST: He worked as an officer in our town for 25 years and has been working on the force at a local university for the past year. But with everything that's been go...	thanks extreme BLM members for causing a good officer, one who truly, genuinely wants to serve and protect, to quit. And I'm not sure he's the only one.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's the worst job you've ever had? POST: Hey Reddit. I just got finished working the 24-hour race of Le Mans (an endurance race for teams to race their car around the [track] for a full 24 hours from Saturday at 15:00 to Sunday at 15:00. Most teams don't finish.). I expect ...	I worked 36 hours in 4 days at the Le Mans 24-hour race and it sucked. But they paid me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I need advice on how to make friends, while dealing with depression and social anxiety. POST: I have never been one to have a ton of friends (I don't exactly want that either), but I've gotten to the point now where I pretty much have zero friends. I would like to have at least a handful of...	Junior in college (struggling with severe social anxiety and depression), looking for advice on how to make a few close friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [15/f] Disappointed in my mom (40/f). POST: I'm having issues with my mom, and she isn't getting the message that I would like her to be a bit more responsible. She was in a 4 years relationship with a really cruddy guy. While she was with this guy, she took up smoking and drin...	Not a good home life with mom, want to live with my dad. Due to screwed state laws I can't really move in with him unless my mom hands me over.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU POST: This incident occurred when I was in grade 5 (~12 years ago). Just a little bit of background, I was sent to boarding school in India from grade 5 to grade 10 (I'm from Canada). It was an all boys school (and that's my fuck up, the end, just kidding). My room was on the 3rd floor o...	Pooped in my pants, threw the damning evidence down an unknown tunnel, ended up in the ground floor's balcony stinking the place up for a week.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (Update) Me [26m] with my coworker/friend/love interest [25f]. We drunkenly made out, she has a boyfriend, and she cant leave him for a couple of months. POST: Original: I wasn't sure if I should even bother posting an update since the original got downvoted, and people weren't fans...	We kissed again. The bf found out. She's staying at her parents and is going to collect her things today.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Advice for applying for a job in a different department at the same organization? POST: Hi reddit, I work for an amazing, nonprofit organization that has two facilities in two different suburbs in our metro area. I'm currently working an entry level job on the operations aspect. It's a ve...	I'm applying for a job with a probable pay increase in my same organization but in a different department, and I don't know how or if I should discuss it with my supervisor first. Looking for advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Is she being flirty or just a close friend? POST: A little about myself first, I'm 19, in my first year of college, and a sophomore living in the dorms. I'm what most people would probably consider beta seeing as how I'm shy and not the best with social settings. I've never had a girlfrien...	I caught feels for someone and I'm not sure if she's interested in me or just thinks of me as a close friend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm starting a job as a server tomorrow, advice, stories and recommendations would be awesome. POST: I finally got a second job at which I am starting at tomorrow. I'm really excited about it because I'm going to be a server. I am 21/m and I have never worked in the restaurant industry...	About to start server job, I would love to hear advice, stories and recommendations from every aspect of the restaurant business (from waiters and cooks to customers and managers)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18 F] My girlfriend [16 F] wants an open relationship. POST: Throwaway. I really need some help figuring out a lot of emotions I'm having right now. Any help would be appreciated. My girlfriend and I have been dating long-distance for a year. We only get to see each other ev...	My girlfriend of 1 year wants an open relationship to have the freedom to act on her feelings if they arise, while staying with me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my Ex [26 F] 10 year relationship. I'm still hopeful to win her back. POST: So she broke up with me for reason I assume to be because she lost interest and romance with our relationship. We we're both each other's 1st relationship. So we still see each other and hang o...	Ex broke up with me but I'm still hopeful that we'll get back together someday. We still hang out then she blurts that "What if I found someone else to have sex with?"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU at a bra-fitting POST: I was walking around downtown over my lunch break, just getting fresh air, window shopping, and killing time before I had to go back to work. I walked past a lingerie store and suddenly remembered hearing that something like 80% of women wear an incorrect bra size....	Asked an amputee for a "hand". (I've read many other stories like this on Reddit, and never believed a single one of them. I can't believe it happened to me. )<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by helping my friend fix his computer (NSFW) POST: Alright reddit, I fucked up REALLY bad. So last night I was helping my friend fix his laptop over the internet, we reinstalled his OS. Helping someone who knows nothing at all about computers fix their computer is real tiring. So I d...	Staying up at night too late leads to drunken horny sleep jerking and my parents find me rolling around in my own jizz and clean me up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I convince my girlfriend to seek dental care? POST: My girlfriend of 4 years constantly complains that her teeth or gums hurt to the point where she can't chew solid food. I have told her to visit a dentist to get it checked out but every time I do so she just shrugs it off and sa...	girlfriend has teeth problems and fears going to the dentist so she has been putting it off for years and living with the pain.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to get my honey from where I make my money. POST: So it all began when we hired a new girl at work. Not long after she began I started to talk to her a bit and really started to like her. One day I got her number and started to text her. Things got heated right away. She was ta...	liked a girl from work. She loses interest. Accidentally make comment hinting that i want to do things to her. She thinks I'm creepy and I'm stuck working with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M24) have been keeping secrets from (F23) and the guilt has caught up POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for more than five years. We're engaged now and will be getting married at the end of 2013. Throughout the first two/two-and-a-half years of our relationship, I smoked...	I've kept secrets from my girlfriend (now fiancee) of five years about smoking weed and visiting strip clubs and now after proposing, feel extremely guilty.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Some father... POST: I'm one of the many, many gay individuals who have been disowned by a parent or family member. I came out to my father in January and got married to my partner of three years a little under a month ago. Since then, he has stopped talking to me, won't answer my pho...	My father refuses to acknowledge my existence ever since I came out to him and married the love of my life. Now he takes it out on my family because he's too much of a coward to face me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: He's "confused"... POST: I am 20 and he's 24, we've been dating for 5 months and yes I know that's a short time but I believe I'm in love with him. I know he loves me, I can just tell. (I know that sounds dumb) Anyways onto the point, we were happy, very happy with each other. Just a week...	5 month relationship, he says I'm perfect but wants to be single, I'm depressed by this thought and need advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27M] with my roommate's soon-to-be-ex(ish) [27F] POST: Some background about me: Virgin AND never been in a relationship. So, I have this tendency to become infatuated with any girl who is remotely nice. She's been living with us for a month while she gets situated in a new place...	Roommate plans on breaking it off with a girl he doesn't even consider his girlfriend. I like her, she seems to like me enough it wouldn't be ridiculous if I asked her out. Should I even entertain the possibility?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Amazon store card? Can I pay it off early without any extra fees? POST: I was going to check out through amazon for a total of $200, where I saw their ad saying that a purchase over $149 is eligible for 6 months 0% interest through their store card. I can absolutely afford this pur...	Amazon store card, I can afford the balance but want to establish credit and spread the balance over months. Can I just pay it off in a couple months and cancel the credit line with no strings attached?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I have a friend I respect greatly but I think he sees me more as an option and not as a valued friend. Just looking for people with similar situations. POST: I (19f) have a friend(22m) I spend time with sometimes. He's so smart and I love being around him because I feel like I learn ...	Does anyone have a situation where they truly put effort in a friendship when they know fairly well the friend doesn't care either way?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20 M] girlfriend [20 F] of almost a year has herpes and didn't tell me. POST: A few days ago I found a bottle of Valtrex (used to treat cold sores and genital herpes) while helping my girlfriend clean her room. I didn't know what it was at the time but looked it up out of curiosi...	Girlfriend had herpes and didn't tell me. I found out and am thinking about ending things, but I can't tell if I'm overreacting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend of two years "cheated" compares it to me lying in the past. POST: throw way account (surprise surprise). this is a three part question I (20M) broke up with my gf (21f) of two years. After a while she started going on dates with a guy (lets call him Glen). A month after t...	I tell ex-gf i want to get back together, sais she still loves me fucks another guy and now wants to get back together.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by drinking after concussing myself. POST: This happened a few months ago. I live in Germany, which is only relevant because buildings with less than 7 stories pretty much never have elevators. I lived on the 4th floor of my old building, and was heading out to meet up with my new roomma...	I fell down the stairs like a winner and hit my head. Decided to drink afterwards. Did not go well.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (m18) need advice handling break up with long term girlfriend(f18) in a confusing time POST: So i've been with my girlfriend since our junior year of highschool. We are now freshman at the same college. We have the same group of friends and generally get along well. For a while now I...	Think i want to break up with my girlfriend...again. But another girl and the holiday season are complicating things even more.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (19m) need to figure out if my (18f) girlfriend is commited to a long term with my 'baggage'. POST: I apologize for multiple post, but I would really like some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for three of the best years. We've never had a fight that has resulted i...	I (19M) need to ask my girlfriend (18F) of three years if she is willing to commit to being involved in my lifestyle without ticking her off and getting dumped.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by texting my boss POST: So just some quick background here, I work at a hotel as a part time manager, tech guy and tutor. I've known my boss and his family for a few years (his daughter and I went to high school and were in FFA together and his son is in my scout troop). Being a college...	I got a job for a friend who's my boss, complained about an issue to my dad, accidentally sent to boss instead.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How should I [18M] ask out this girl [18F], or should I ask her out? POST: Alright, here's the story. About a year ago, I asked this girl - let's call her Becki - to prom with balloons in her locker with an admittedly cliché "Will you go to prom with me" written on them. While she th...	Unsure how to / if I should ask out a girl who is super flirty and nice one day, while cold and distant the other.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help me [F25] play it cool/take it slow with him [M27]? POST: I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 (!) years roughly a month ago. The break up was long, long, long overdue--when I sat him down to talk about it, he said, "oh, that's a shame" (yes; verbatim!) and got up and left. I thin...	would be: How do I do my best to avoid "rebounding" with this amazing guy? What can I do to make sure we take it slow? Is there hope for us, or am I just being foolish?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (18f) spend less time with my boyfriend (19m)? POST: I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. For the past couple months I have been staying at his house with him and his mom because of issues at my house. So, I see him a lot. I'm in college and I go to class ...	I live with my boyfriend of 1 year, how do I spend less time with him when neither of us have a lot of friends to hang out with?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Dogs really are amazing creatures. POST: Today, my boyfriend and I split up. We dated for just under two years, and have been living together for about eight months. We adopted a dog together. We had discussed marriage, a house, the whole nine yards. However, our lives are going in two separa...	Broke up with boyfriend. Was sad and crying and being a moping mess. Dog forced me to put on pants and go outside, and now I feel so much better. Go dogs.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, how do you get over the internal confusion of 'work social' and 'friend social'? POST: So I've been working in an office for about 3 years now. I've been trying my hardest to kind of mold myself into the office drone so I get in less trouble with management about my language, lou...	Got boring in order to fit in better for office culture. Can't seem to shake it when I go out unless I drink. How can I manage the balance?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: How do I live with this stress/anxiety? POST: I really don't know how to put this. Usually I beat around the bush when I talk about this personal problem, but I do not believe that is the best way to go about it here. So I'll just be as blunt as possible. I am a pedophile. Not a child m...	and basically what Im asking is; how do I live everyday life while fighting/hating my pedophilic mind? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, this may be an age old question, but is it crazy to be hurt by my boyfriend looking at porn? POST: I was trying to find a link to something I was looking at a few days ago, and found a LOT of porn my boyfriend has been looking at recently. Don't get me wrong, we are very sexu...	Boyfriend of 2 years looks at LOTS of porn, I feel like I shouldn't be hurt, but I am. Am I crazy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend of 4 months went on a "skiiing" trip. Quirks followed. Help me (f)? POST: My boyfriend (23)organized a skiing trip with his friends. I (f, 20) overheard conference calls etc that corroborate this. He tells me that at the last minute (a few days out), a bunch of them bail...	Boyfriend of three months goes on a skiing trip but doesn't seem to have skied, just shared a hotel room with an ex and gone out drinking with her. Was he cheating?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f28) will be introducing him (m29) to my friends... POST: I have done a great many embarrassing things while drunk and/or high, which my friendship group of 10+ years have been privy to. I am worried that a couple of my friends may decide to tell my boyfriend humiliating stories a...	friends and boyfriend are due to meet; I'm worried that my embarrassing past will be brought into conversation by my friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Is he(M; 26) lying and/or avoiding me? I (F;25) am confused. POST: Hello ladies, I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend almost 3 weeks ago. Since we both really missed each other while we were apart, everything is great when we're spending time together. However, we're i...	My boyfriend is not giving me an explanation regarding not scheduling a time to see each other, and I might have also caught him lying. Are these red flags or am I over reacting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] and [M23] Had a great first date, but no plans since to hang out. Should I ask him? POST: I'm 20 he's 23. So I met this guy through a mutual friend in May 2013. We didn't start talking until January 17th when we were at the same party together. We went out Feb 1st and I had ...	Went on a date with him and we both had a great time. It'll be 2 weeks since with no plans made. Should I ask him to hang out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I [21 M] am going out to dinner with her [21 F]. Tonight I want to start dating, now I need some advice. POST: It is a bit complicated. I will take it slow and explain. I have been friends with the girl for about two years now, and around autumn of last year I started falling for he...	I got a dinner date with a crush before revealing intent to date. I want to change that tonight. Looking for advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] am constantly worried that my bf [25 M] wishes he was with someone prettier POST: i'm convinced that my boyfriend is only with me because he was lonely/he settled for me because i happened to like him and it makes him feel good. honestly this has been a common factor with ev...	i am extremely insecure in my relationship and would love to stop being like this so i dont ruin everything because i love my boyfriend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26/F] with my boyfriend[39/M] big age difference is only one of the issues..i'm still in love with my ex POST: using a throwaway for obvious reasons. just wondering if anyone else has had experience with an age gap like this. My boyfriend before him was younger and really immatur...	age difference is taking it's toll, might still love my ex, want to end everything with everyone and leave the country, help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I want to part ways with my girlfriend for college, not sure if she feels the same way... POST: I'm 18 years old (male) and she is 17, we've been together for a year and a half, and this fall we will be attending separate colleges. We never fight or really have any problems, I'm jus...	I want to break op with my girlfriend of a year and a half before the summer leading up to college, which is in three weeks. No relationship problems, I've just lost interest and am ready to move on.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Just got 'robbed', need some advice. POST: Hi Reddit! I need some advice. I moved to a new area recently and was looking for a place to get some trees. I finally found someone who was willing to help me out and met him Saturday night to make a trade. The only way that we corresponde...	Looking for trees, gave a guy money with his phone for 'collateral' and he never came back. What can I do to get retribution?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What can I do not to let others misunderstand my weird relationship with a friend? POST: I don't really feel the need to define this relationship, but I want to know whether it may look weird to others and what they could think about it. I'm F22 and my friend, let's call him Dan, is ...	I'm cold with everyone but touchy-feely with my best friend, what can I do not to let others misunderstand?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: My friends are abusing the system, and even as a democratic socialist, I think it's bullshit. POST: I've been a Democratic Socialist since high school (now in my 20s), and I have always felt that the government should help people who cannot help themselves. My sister is mentally disable...	I am a democratic socalist but my friends are hardcore abusing the system. Meanwhile, I can't get disability even if I tried. I can kinda see the other point of view now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by calling 911 for a man who unexpectedly collapsed. POST: Just a few hours ago I was at work getting ready to close the store. I work at a smoothie/fast food chain and am pretty new to the job. With the insane humidity this week the store has been pretty busy with people wanting their q...	Older man enters my fast food workplace, drifts into unconsciousness, calls an ambulance and leaves moments later claiming he's okay.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Just found out my girlfriend has been lying about smoking. What would you do? POST: To give some background. We were both moderate smokers a few years ago, I gave up with the help of a book and encouraged her to quit too. She eventually did, but has repeatedly slipped back into it, bu...	We both used to smoke, I quit, she claimed to. Has lied about it since despite me having caught her a couple of times.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (27F) roomate (24M) won't lock the front door. POST: My roomate and I have been living together for 5 months now and it's mostly great - we mesh in nearly every aspect of cohabitation, except one - he never locks the door. For background I'm from Los Angeles and lived in New York...	I'm a small girl from a big city and my large male roomate from a small town isn't good about locking our door; otherwise a fantastic roommate but it makes me feel unsafe.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit please help, one of my best friends, out of nowhere, started having a manic episode. Does anyone have experience with bipolar disorder? POST: A little over a week ago my best friend called me to tell me his wife (also a very good friend) was acting crazy and he was very scared. Sh...	Friend has bipolar disorder. She's been on meds for a week but gotten worse. She had to be checked into a mental hospital. Any information/experiences/advice would be helpful.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I have €25,000 in savings sitting earning 0.85% p.a, Where can I get a better rate of interest (DE) POST: I have been living in Germany for the past 4 years where I have accumulated this sum of savings. Currently it is sat in a savings account where it makes a pathetic 0.85% p.a. ...	Got a bunch of money in a German acc that I don't need to access, best way to invest it ideally without a minimum 5 year term.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 9 months, she randomly broke down crying and I have no idea why. POST: Me and my girlfriend have a great relationship, we love each other and like each other very much. We recently went to visit a college as we are both graduating in a year, and...	Girlfiend randomly started crying and I don't know why, and she refuses to speak about it. Should I just drop it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: A girl(18yo) came up to me and asked me out. But I blew it. What to do now? POST: Hi reddit, I was in the library today and just doing my school work then suddenly, this girl (I kinda know her in a sense that I know she goes to my school but never really talked to her) gave me a note...	Girl(18) asked me out but I did not know how to respond so I sort of said no. Now I feel bad and dont know what to do since Im attracted to someone else.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32M] with my girlfriend [32F]; 11 months. How do I tell if she is emotionally blackmailing me? Tips on a rational discussion about it with her? POST: Hello. I've never really visited the subreddit, so I'm not 100% sure on protocol. My girlfriend and I had a small fight last sun...	Not sure if girlfriend is being emotionally manipulative, and want to know how to better tell and discuss that potential issue with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I tell someone I don't want to do something that they heavily rely on me? POST: I've been asked to play the bass guitar at a school performance and being the pushover I am I said yes. I started just less than a month ago and the performance is in June, (two months time). I get r...	Need a way to tell a teacher I don't want to perform in a school production with the possibility of angering several other teachers.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [m25] SO [f26] has feelings for someone else POST: My girlfriend of six months and I been going through a bit of a rift lately, and it all culminated into a big conflict last night. I'm going to try to fill you guys in as much as possible without convoluting anything or ranting/g...	My girl confessed her lingering feelings for someone from her past and that she doesn't want to commit to me in case anything could possibly materialize between them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[M16] don't know how to feel about some decision girlfriend [F18] made when we were not together POST: Some back story: I dated this girl for almost a year (2014-2015), she is bi, we broke up a few times during that year, and one time we ended "for real".A few weeks ago she contacte...	girlfriend made some decisions I don't like while we were not together. Should I don't care about what she did then?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [m22] Love my girlfriend [f25] do death and can really picture spending the test of My life with her but recently i have started to flirt with others POST: So as the title says. I have never loved anyone so much as I love her. We have been dating for over half a year and its been a...	can't stop thinking with my dick, how do you other guys hande it? This is my first real relationship..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being autistic POST: This happened a few weeks ago. For clarity, I've been diagnosed as HFA, and while it freaked me out to be diagnosed that way initially (and explained a lot), I'm not really that worried about it and I don't bring it up under most circumstances. I also have a pr...	am autistic, make joke about autism, offend coworker, too embarrassed to explain that I'm not making fun of disabled people.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20F) got flack for not helping clean up at Thanksgiving dinner. POST: Now to elaborate because the title is horrible! Our family Thanksgiving dinners are huge. Probably at least 30 people including the kids. As such, there is a massive amount of food to cook and dishes to clean. ...	Female family cooks and cleans holiday dinner while male family plays video games and watches TV downstairs. I broke this trend this year and am in deep water with the female relatives.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23/F] still have a lot of unresolved issues regarding my ex [22/M]. POST: During the breakup, my ex said everything that was on his mind and I basically got gaslit the entire time. On the other hand, I had some thinking and there's a lot of pent-up resentment from things on his en...	still have unresolved issues with my ex that I need to get off my chest. Should I contact him after 4 weeks of NC? How do I do this without coming off as an crazy ex?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 24 [M] seeking advice about forward females POST: Last night I met a woman that I am interested in pursuing [25], but she is different than all the women I have relationship experience with. I know all women are different but this one actually initiated everything, after we we...	I guess I would just like some tips or advice on how a more forward woman prefers to be treated compared to women that prefer to be pursued.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What extremely nice things have you tried to do for someone, just to get completely shut down? POST: I just picked my boyfriend up from a very hard day at work since he doesn't have a car right now. We get back to his place and he goes to take a nap. I'm not very tired so I decide to cle...	picked up bf from work, cleaned his kitchen, went to wake him up from his nap with a blowjob and got told to go away.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 F] may be in an abusive relationship with my boyfriend [21 M], who was diagnosed with OCD. 1.5 years POST: Last week, I told my boyfriend I was headed to a friend's housewarming party on Friday. Friday nights are usually "us nights," so I felt it was only polite to ask if it we...	My boyfriend is unable to handle me spending more time with my friends than planned at least a week in advance, and my friends think it's abusive.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] pretended to be gay to prove a point, now everyone hates me. POST: Hi reddit. Throwaway account for security. I messed up and I don't know what to do. My best friend and I got into a fight about gay people. I support them and I don't think anyone should be discriminated again...	Made up a story about having a gay experience to try and show my friend that there can be good gays if his best friend is one. He flipped out and told my friends and parents who hate me now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Girlfriend (21) keeps talking to other guys about sex and I (M/22) honestly don't know how to feel about it POST: My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now(5 hours away) and haven't had any issues. Both of us trust each other and plan to live in...	GF talks to her guys friend from class about her sexual experiences and fantasies and I'm not sure how to feel about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 29F - my mother said no one will love me because I'm fat. I don't know what to think. POST: I'll try and keep this succinct. I'm 29F. I haven't dated in a year, after the end of my 12y relationship. I'm 5'6"and weigh approx. 187lbs/85kg. My mother, in a moment of alcoholi...	my mother said no one will love me because I'm fat and therefore repulsive and undesirable. I don't know what to think, aside from that I want to put a bullet in my brain.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: I [28m] want to divorce my pregnant wife [27f] but I am too scared. POST: Old post: I will keep this brief and I don't want to go into to many details, because I am in contact with a lawyer and don't want to reveal too many details online. I will give the important facts. ...	Summary: I am in close contact with a lawyer and am on the path to divorce. I am not sure at this point what will become of the child but it looks most likely there will be some sort of joint custody arrangement.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex-roommates of two years [18/F, 20/F, 21/M] can't agree on how to divide a sum of money that I [23/M] am holding on to. POST: I used to share this apartment with three others. I was the one renting the place, but only on paper. Due to some weird legislation we were eligible for h...	former roommates are in a fight about how to divide some money that i happen to be holding on to. don't know what to do, thinking about donating it to charity because they are childish idiots<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Going to put together an engagement ring... Is it appropriate to use my [23m] SO's [23f] mother's older engagement diamond? POST: My girlfriend and I are both 23 y/o and have been dating for 5 years (since high school) I am currently in massive debt from going through dental school ...	Should I use my girlfriend's mother's 3ct engagement diamond (free) and design a band or should I choose and pay for a ring myself?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is this racist? Minorities welcome. POST: (Throwaway) I haven't been listening to popular music for a while and decided to start. I started to go to Billboard magazine's website about a year ago. After 6 months, I noticed there were no American-born white men/groups on the pop chart, t...	I noticed 95% of Billboard Top 100 charts are either black males or females (black or white), but rarely American white males. Is it racist to notice this fact and tell someone else?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [31M] with my female friend? [28 F] 2 months, distancing herself POST: I had recently been talking with a girl for about 2 months. We had gone out on about 6 dates, and most of them would end up just crashing at my place, no sex or anything to far, which is new/cool. Anyway she a...	Recent girl I've been dating seems to be distancing herself, or I could just be reading to much into everything again. Either way any suggestions how I should react.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfiend [18 M] duration, been dating for 4 years, and things are getting complicated. POST: So, I have been dating a girl for four years. I just want to say that she is wonderful. She is beautiful, a great person, and a great partner. We started dating when we we...	I feel like I want to cheat and separate from my girlfriend, but in the next second I am afraid to be without her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: F[22] wondering if it's a terrible idea to contact my ex's mom to see how she is doing POST: So I dated this guy my freshman year of college. He was my first boyfriend, yadda yadda, he turned out to be a major douche and I broke up with him and moved on, meeting my future husba...	Should I contact my ex's mom to see how she's doing, or should I leave well enough alone and focus on my own life?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [22F] just blindsided me [22M] with a breakup after 2 years. Still extremely confused. Need advice on how to handle this. POST: Hello guys, So my girlfriend and I met 2 years ago in college and we're basically inseparable. We had plans of moving in with each other and ...	My girlfriend broke up with me out of nowhere for reasons that make no sense to me. Might be due to a recent depression issue she's had. Need advice on how to save our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my GF [23 F] duration 1 year, Just discovered her mum has a massive issue with me. POST: So yesterday I found out the my girlfriends mum bitches and complains about me pretty much all the time. Theres no reason for this i'm a polite guest when i go to their house I coo...	Found out my Girlfriends mum pretty much hates me, think it's changing how I see our realtionship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: [F] Should I be concerned about first date? POST: Hey all, I'll keep this short. I met this guy on Badoo and we've been speaking for around 3-4 weeks now and i'm quite into him, we added each other on facebook & insta and I stopped using Badoo since speaking to him. He has a lot fem...	met guy on badoo, been speaking for around 3-4 weeks now, had first date yesterday, he was regularly talking to other women on badoo throughout our day together, should I be concerned?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Just how normal is fantasizing in a relationship? POST: I've been in a relationship for six months. I'm 22 female, and my boyfriend is 23. Before we got into a relationship, I was pining over a guy (NOT my present boyfriend) like a schoolgirl. If I had a trapper keeper, I'm sure h...	But I guess my real question is, do you think my fantasizing over that kid is what's putting a rift between me and my boyfriend? Am I naïve for thinking there's something between me and that other guy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Car loan and repairs vs New car POST: I currently own a used vehicle with 140k miles on it. According to Edmonds and KBB its worth about $2200 as a trade in to dealer. I still owe $3700 @ 9% on the loan that I am paying off @ $210 per month. Recently had to take it in for routine m...	We owe $3700 on an old used car that needs $2500 of repairs over the next year. Should we pay it off as fast as possible and deal with repairs or buy a new(er) car?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Mom caught having an affair for the 2nd time, marriage might be over. I know who it is and debating whether or not to intervene. POST: My Dad just caught my Mom exchanging emails with a guy she had an affair with almost 4 years ago. She exclaimed that she loves the guy and my dad threw h...	Mom was caught cheating on my dad with guy she had an affair with before. Wondering if I should contact the guy and intervene.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of 1 year, having an argument about visiting sisters' sleeping arrangement POST: My girlfriend and I live together with multiple roommates, there are no guest rooms, guests generally stay on the couch. We both live away from our families and love t...	Girlfriend's sister wants to visit, girlfriend relegated me to the couch...how do I show her the inequity between our two responses?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My sister (f26) just told me (m19) that my friend (m16) tried touching her last night. I don't know what to believe. POST: Background on my sister: She's been known to lie and cause trouble her whole life. Because of that, we don't have a good relationship at all. We go most days wit...	my sister said my friend blake was begging for sex in the middle of the night and i don't know if I should believe her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being desperate for money POST: Yeah, I'm sure you guys are probably thinking, "I know where this is headed," and you're probably right. I am going to move out with my boyfriend...Eventually. But renting a house for the first time is filling me with anxiety, just thinking about the a...	Never believe someone is giving you grant money unless they are willing to give it to you through the mail...I feel like an imbecile.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Need health insurance for 4 m/o baby POST: Hello, I have health insurance for my family through my employer. On the plan it's me, my wife and two out of my three kids. My youngest was born in March 2016. Today we went to the doc for her 4 month check-up only to realize she is no lo...	Forgot to enroll my baby 4 month old baby in company health insurance. Looking for options for how to get her coverage until 2017 when I can add her to my family's plan.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Would it be weird? POST: Hi all. I need some advice about messaging someone you're interested in over Facebook. I know in so many cases this is big no-no, but I'd like your opinion. I play music at my church, and about a week ago I was looking out into the crowd and saw a girl...	Wondering if I should message a girl over Facebook that I've said hi to several times before but haven't had an actual conversation with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: R12 Disposal and Vacuum machine in St. Louis area? (XPost from /r/cars) POST: I've got an old Volvo that uses the old R12 standard for air conditioning - and it's not been working since I've had the car. Now that I've got some money sitting aside in the bank, I'd like to look at the cost...	I need an idea of how much it costs to have R12 converted to R134, and if there's anyone local to St. Louis that can do it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Seems like my ex's roommates are interested in me [fixed] POST: So I've been lurking around for a while making comments here and there, but never a post so here it goes. Sorry for making it a dramatic and borderline whiny one: When I was in high school, most of my friends were girls ...	Old friends from high school seem to be interested in me, but I'm definitely not over my ex fiancé who just happens to be their roommate.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Timing is everything POST: I'[m] 29. She's 24. We've been together almost two years. We're really great for each other, have great communication and lot's of fun together, and are genuinely in love. I've been on my own since I was about 17 and am doing well for myself. She's still f...	I've been on my own a decade, we've been together two years, and she wants to live with her parents for at least another year. Feeling anxious about waiting forever.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Throwaway. Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [17 M] of nearly three years, trouble in the bedroom POST: Let me preface this by saying that my boyfriend and I communicate very well within our relationship and we both love each other immensely. That being said, we don't always fit together...	My boyfriend doesn't enjoy sex because he finds me ugly, I'd like a solution that doesn't involve me changing to please him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I Feel like the nuclear family is almost extinct. POST: I noticed this more once I moved into a college town and got out of just my little farm town where i've always lived. I'm not proposing a dooms day or trying to say that america has gone down hill or anything but all the friends i have ...	ALMOST ALL MY NEW FRIENDS AT COLLEGE HAVE SOME TYPE OF FAMILY ISSUE... IS THAT NORMAL?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: 18 year old looking to purchase things online and build credit. No credit history and no official income. Options? POST: I turned 18 a little over a month ago. I want to get a credit card to build credit and to use for online purchases. Please don't lecture me on being careful with...	I have no credit history and no income and I'm in high school looking for a credit card to build credit and purchase things online. What are my options?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Typical high school problem [M17] and [F16]? POST: I'm a junior in high school and just turned 17, right now I'm in a relationship with my first girlfriend, we've been dating for about 9-10 months. I really don't have a lot of experience since this is my first real relationship. I re...	I'm not sure if I'm happy in my first relationship, and the fact that I may have feelings for another girl isn't helping.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] am in love with my[18 F] best friend who has a boyfriend but it's more complicated. POST: So I'm just gonna jump into this, I'm deeply in love with my best friend [of 5 years] and she kinda knows I have feelings for her. At the moment she has a boyfriend and they have been ...	In love with best friend who has a boyfriend but sometimes sends the signals that she wants to be with me and I'm very confused on what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 F] have a really hard time trusting someone after they disappoint even just once, even if it's unintentional or not a big deal. It's affecting my relationship with my 22 [M] FWB of a year. How can I overcome this? POST: The past few days, we talked about going into the city to ...	FWB and I talked about going out today, he forgot and didn't follow through. I really to get over it but don't know how to go about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: BF thinks I'm out of his league, and it's taking a toll on his self-esteem. What do I do? POST: I'm 21F, he's 24. We've only been going out for about a couple months, but we've both fell for each other pretty hard. He's incredibly sweet, handsome, chivalrous, hilarious, and fun. He t...	BF thinks he's the least attractive guy I've gone out with, it's not true and I think he's absolutely amazing. He won't believe me. What do! <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having a nice beach swim POST: Reddit, I live by the beautiful coast of southern California. Not close enough to walk but close enough to bike. Yesterday I got off my night shift at 8AM and decided to ride my bike down to Huntington Beach and take a dip. I've been to this exact beach ...	all my shit got stolen and now I need to steal my own bike. Any tips on bike thievery would be greatly appreciated, I think I'm gonna buy an angle grinder.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Should I tell a supermegafoxyawesomehot girl that I like her? POST: Hai Reddit. Here's the deal: I'm an 18 year old senior in high school with no previous dating/romantic experience. Like, none at all. I'm decently attractive (or so I've been told), intelligent enough, and kind of s...	Hey guys should I tell this really attractive girl I know whose friend likes me that I like her? If yes and she is game, should I suggest we have teh sex?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[24F] boyfriend[24M] of four years does not brush his teeth regularly. How can I get him into this habit without having to act like a mom? POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years now. He is generally well kept, he showers every day and dresses well, but his one big...	Boyfriend makes up excuses why he doesn't need to brush his teeth. It's gross. Nothing I say will make him brush his teeth properly and I feel like a mom for having to nag him about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's something that happened to you that totally backfired, when you never intended any wrong? POST: Go back like 6 years in time. I'm about 13-ish. My little brother has a friend over and they run outside the house without shoes. I think I'm being funny and go lock all the doors and l...	I'm 13, I lock my brother and his friend out of the house for 5 minutes with no shoes, friend's asshole dad comes to the house and bellows at a little me that I'm the asshole.<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] and friend [18 M] have been talking 3 months, but open relationship resulting in anger and jealousy POST: My friend [18 M] and I [18 F] connected on Tinder and have been talking for over 3 months. I consider him one of my best friends, and we talk on the phone a few evening...	Long distance friends with benefits gets upset and jealous of my sleeping with other people, I cherish the friendship but am not sure if I should break it off if it's hurting him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19/F] with my EX [29/M] with my new Crush [20/M]. Ex is jealous of new guy but I'm confused POST: Basically my ex and I dated for 5 months. He was my first somewhat serious relationship. He was also my first everything. He cheated and to top it off he broke up with me. He'd also ...	Ex seems jealous has had crazy behaviour; part of me can't let go but the other half wants to find a new person to be with. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: My dad has been a police officer for 26 years, which he's now quitting because he's terrified of the radical BLM members. POST: He worked as an officer in our town for 25 years and has been working on the force at a local university for the past year. But with everything that's been go...	thanks extreme BLM members for causing a good officer, one who truly, genuinely wants to serve and protect, to quit. And I'm not sure he's the only one.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what's the worst job you've ever had? POST: Hey Reddit. I just got finished working the 24-hour race of Le Mans (an endurance race for teams to race their car around the [track] for a full 24 hours from Saturday at 15:00 to Sunday at 15:00. Most teams don't finish.). I expect ...	I worked 36 hours in 4 days at the Le Mans 24-hour race and it sucked. But they paid me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I need advice on how to make friends, while dealing with depression and social anxiety. POST: I have never been one to have a ton of friends (I don't exactly want that either), but I've gotten to the point now where I pretty much have zero friends. I would like to have at least a handful of...	Junior in college (struggling with severe social anxiety and depression), looking for advice on how to make a few close friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [15/f] Disappointed in my mom (40/f). POST: I'm having issues with my mom, and she isn't getting the message that I would like her to be a bit more responsible. She was in a 4 years relationship with a really cruddy guy. While she was with this guy, she took up smoking and drin...	Not a good home life with mom, want to live with my dad. Due to screwed state laws I can't really move in with him unless my mom hands me over.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU POST: This incident occurred when I was in grade 5 (~12 years ago). Just a little bit of background, I was sent to boarding school in India from grade 5 to grade 10 (I'm from Canada). It was an all boys school (and that's my fuck up, the end, just kidding). My room was on the 3rd floor o...	Pooped in my pants, threw the damning evidence down an unknown tunnel, ended up in the ground floor's balcony stinking the place up for a week.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (Update) Me [26m] with my coworker/friend/love interest [25f]. We drunkenly made out, she has a boyfriend, and she cant leave him for a couple of months. POST: Original: I wasn't sure if I should even bother posting an update since the original got downvoted, and people weren't fans...	We kissed again. The bf found out. She's staying at her parents and is going to collect her things today.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Advice for applying for a job in a different department at the same organization? POST: Hi reddit, I work for an amazing, nonprofit organization that has two facilities in two different suburbs in our metro area. I'm currently working an entry level job on the operations aspect. It's a ve...	I'm applying for a job with a probable pay increase in my same organization but in a different department, and I don't know how or if I should discuss it with my supervisor first. Looking for advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Is she being flirty or just a close friend? POST: A little about myself first, I'm 19, in my first year of college, and a sophomore living in the dorms. I'm what most people would probably consider beta seeing as how I'm shy and not the best with social settings. I've never had a girlfrien...	I caught feels for someone and I'm not sure if she's interested in me or just thinks of me as a close friend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm starting a job as a server tomorrow, advice, stories and recommendations would be awesome. POST: I finally got a second job at which I am starting at tomorrow. I'm really excited about it because I'm going to be a server. I am 21/m and I have never worked in the restaurant industry...	About to start server job, I would love to hear advice, stories and recommendations from every aspect of the restaurant business (from waiters and cooks to customers and managers)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [18 F] My girlfriend [16 F] wants an open relationship. POST: Throwaway. I really need some help figuring out a lot of emotions I'm having right now. Any help would be appreciated. My girlfriend and I have been dating long-distance for a year. We only get to see each other ev...	My girlfriend of 1 year wants an open relationship to have the freedom to act on her feelings if they arise, while staying with me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with my Ex [26 F] 10 year relationship. I'm still hopeful to win her back. POST: So she broke up with me for reason I assume to be because she lost interest and romance with our relationship. We we're both each other's 1st relationship. So we still see each other and hang o...	Ex broke up with me but I'm still hopeful that we'll get back together someday. We still hang out then she blurts that "What if I found someone else to have sex with?"<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU at a bra-fitting POST: I was walking around downtown over my lunch break, just getting fresh air, window shopping, and killing time before I had to go back to work. I walked past a lingerie store and suddenly remembered hearing that something like 80% of women wear an incorrect bra size....	Asked an amputee for a "hand". (I've read many other stories like this on Reddit, and never believed a single one of them. I can't believe it happened to me. )<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by helping my friend fix his computer (NSFW) POST: Alright reddit, I fucked up REALLY bad. So last night I was helping my friend fix his laptop over the internet, we reinstalled his OS. Helping someone who knows nothing at all about computers fix their computer is real tiring. So I d...	Staying up at night too late leads to drunken horny sleep jerking and my parents find me rolling around in my own jizz and clean me up.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I convince my girlfriend to seek dental care? POST: My girlfriend of 4 years constantly complains that her teeth or gums hurt to the point where she can't chew solid food. I have told her to visit a dentist to get it checked out but every time I do so she just shrugs it off and sa...	girlfriend has teeth problems and fears going to the dentist so she has been putting it off for years and living with the pain.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to get my honey from where I make my money. POST: So it all began when we hired a new girl at work. Not long after she began I started to talk to her a bit and really started to like her. One day I got her number and started to text her. Things got heated right away. She was ta...	liked a girl from work. She loses interest. Accidentally make comment hinting that i want to do things to her. She thinks I'm creepy and I'm stuck working with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M24) have been keeping secrets from (F23) and the guilt has caught up POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for more than five years. We're engaged now and will be getting married at the end of 2013. Throughout the first two/two-and-a-half years of our relationship, I smoked...	I've kept secrets from my girlfriend (now fiancee) of five years about smoking weed and visiting strip clubs and now after proposing, feel extremely guilty.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Some father... POST: I'm one of the many, many gay individuals who have been disowned by a parent or family member. I came out to my father in January and got married to my partner of three years a little under a month ago. Since then, he has stopped talking to me, won't answer my pho...	My father refuses to acknowledge my existence ever since I came out to him and married the love of my life. Now he takes it out on my family because he's too much of a coward to face me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: He's "confused"... POST: I am 20 and he's 24, we've been dating for 5 months and yes I know that's a short time but I believe I'm in love with him. I know he loves me, I can just tell. (I know that sounds dumb) Anyways onto the point, we were happy, very happy with each other. Just a week...	5 month relationship, he says I'm perfect but wants to be single, I'm depressed by this thought and need advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27M] with my roommate's soon-to-be-ex(ish) [27F] POST: Some background about me: Virgin AND never been in a relationship. So, I have this tendency to become infatuated with any girl who is remotely nice. She's been living with us for a month while she gets situated in a new place...	Roommate plans on breaking it off with a girl he doesn't even consider his girlfriend. I like her, she seems to like me enough it wouldn't be ridiculous if I asked her out. Should I even entertain the possibility?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Amazon store card? Can I pay it off early without any extra fees? POST: I was going to check out through amazon for a total of $200, where I saw their ad saying that a purchase over $149 is eligible for 6 months 0% interest through their store card. I can absolutely afford this pur...	Amazon store card, I can afford the balance but want to establish credit and spread the balance over months. Can I just pay it off in a couple months and cancel the credit line with no strings attached?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I have a friend I respect greatly but I think he sees me more as an option and not as a valued friend. Just looking for people with similar situations. POST: I (19f) have a friend(22m) I spend time with sometimes. He's so smart and I love being around him because I feel like I learn ...	Does anyone have a situation where they truly put effort in a friendship when they know fairly well the friend doesn't care either way?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20 M] girlfriend [20 F] of almost a year has herpes and didn't tell me. POST: A few days ago I found a bottle of Valtrex (used to treat cold sores and genital herpes) while helping my girlfriend clean her room. I didn't know what it was at the time but looked it up out of curiosi...	Girlfriend had herpes and didn't tell me. I found out and am thinking about ending things, but I can't tell if I'm overreacting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend of two years "cheated" compares it to me lying in the past. POST: throw way account (surprise surprise). this is a three part question I (20M) broke up with my gf (21f) of two years. After a while she started going on dates with a guy (lets call him Glen). A month after t...	I tell ex-gf i want to get back together, sais she still loves me fucks another guy and now wants to get back together.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by drinking after concussing myself. POST: This happened a few months ago. I live in Germany, which is only relevant because buildings with less than 7 stories pretty much never have elevators. I lived on the 4th floor of my old building, and was heading out to meet up with my new roomma...	I fell down the stairs like a winner and hit my head. Decided to drink afterwards. Did not go well.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (m18) need advice handling break up with long term girlfriend(f18) in a confusing time POST: So i've been with my girlfriend since our junior year of highschool. We are now freshman at the same college. We have the same group of friends and generally get along well. For a while now I...	Think i want to break up with my girlfriend...again. But another girl and the holiday season are complicating things even more.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (19m) need to figure out if my (18f) girlfriend is commited to a long term with my 'baggage'. POST: I apologize for multiple post, but I would really like some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for three of the best years. We've never had a fight that has resulted i...	I (19M) need to ask my girlfriend (18F) of three years if she is willing to commit to being involved in my lifestyle without ticking her off and getting dumped.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by texting my boss POST: So just some quick background here, I work at a hotel as a part time manager, tech guy and tutor. I've known my boss and his family for a few years (his daughter and I went to high school and were in FFA together and his son is in my scout troop). Being a college...	I got a job for a friend who's my boss, complained about an issue to my dad, accidentally sent to boss instead.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How should I [18M] ask out this girl [18F], or should I ask her out? POST: Alright, here's the story. About a year ago, I asked this girl - let's call her Becki - to prom with balloons in her locker with an admittedly cliché "Will you go to prom with me" written on them. While she th...	Unsure how to / if I should ask out a girl who is super flirty and nice one day, while cold and distant the other.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help me [F25] play it cool/take it slow with him [M27]? POST: I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 (!) years roughly a month ago. The break up was long, long, long overdue--when I sat him down to talk about it, he said, "oh, that's a shame" (yes; verbatim!) and got up and left. I thin...	would be: How do I do my best to avoid "rebounding" with this amazing guy? What can I do to make sure we take it slow? Is there hope for us, or am I just being foolish?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (18f) spend less time with my boyfriend (19m)? POST: I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. For the past couple months I have been staying at his house with him and his mom because of issues at my house. So, I see him a lot. I'm in college and I go to class ...	I live with my boyfriend of 1 year, how do I spend less time with him when neither of us have a lot of friends to hang out with?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Dogs really are amazing creatures. POST: Today, my boyfriend and I split up. We dated for just under two years, and have been living together for about eight months. We adopted a dog together. We had discussed marriage, a house, the whole nine yards. However, our lives are going in two separa...	Broke up with boyfriend. Was sad and crying and being a moping mess. Dog forced me to put on pants and go outside, and now I feel so much better. Go dogs.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, how do you get over the internal confusion of 'work social' and 'friend social'? POST: So I've been working in an office for about 3 years now. I've been trying my hardest to kind of mold myself into the office drone so I get in less trouble with management about my language, lou...	Got boring in order to fit in better for office culture. Can't seem to shake it when I go out unless I drink. How can I manage the balance?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice TITLE: How do I live with this stress/anxiety? POST: I really don't know how to put this. Usually I beat around the bush when I talk about this personal problem, but I do not believe that is the best way to go about it here. So I'll just be as blunt as possible. I am a pedophile. Not a child m...	and basically what Im asking is; how do I live everyday life while fighting/hating my pedophilic mind? <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, this may be an age old question, but is it crazy to be hurt by my boyfriend looking at porn? POST: I was trying to find a link to something I was looking at a few days ago, and found a LOT of porn my boyfriend has been looking at recently. Don't get me wrong, we are very sexu...	Boyfriend of 2 years looks at LOTS of porn, I feel like I shouldn't be hurt, but I am. Am I crazy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend of 4 months went on a "skiiing" trip. Quirks followed. Help me (f)? POST: My boyfriend (23)organized a skiing trip with his friends. I (f, 20) overheard conference calls etc that corroborate this. He tells me that at the last minute (a few days out), a bunch of them bail...	Boyfriend of three months goes on a skiing trip but doesn't seem to have skied, just shared a hotel room with an ex and gone out drinking with her. Was he cheating?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (f28) will be introducing him (m29) to my friends... POST: I have done a great many embarrassing things while drunk and/or high, which my friendship group of 10+ years have been privy to. I am worried that a couple of my friends may decide to tell my boyfriend humiliating stories a...	friends and boyfriend are due to meet; I'm worried that my embarrassing past will be brought into conversation by my friends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: Is he(M; 26) lying and/or avoiding me? I (F;25) am confused. POST: Hello ladies, I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend almost 3 weeks ago. Since we both really missed each other while we were apart, everything is great when we're spending time together. However, we're i...	My boyfriend is not giving me an explanation regarding not scheduling a time to see each other, and I might have also caught him lying. Are these red flags or am I over reacting.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] and [M23] Had a great first date, but no plans since to hang out. Should I ask him? POST: I'm 20 he's 23. So I met this guy through a mutual friend in May 2013. We didn't start talking until January 17th when we were at the same party together. We went out Feb 1st and I had ...	Went on a date with him and we both had a great time. It'll be 2 weeks since with no plans made. Should I ask him to hang out?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I [21 M] am going out to dinner with her [21 F]. Tonight I want to start dating, now I need some advice. POST: It is a bit complicated. I will take it slow and explain. I have been friends with the girl for about two years now, and around autumn of last year I started falling for he...	I got a dinner date with a crush before revealing intent to date. I want to change that tonight. Looking for advice.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] am constantly worried that my bf [25 M] wishes he was with someone prettier POST: i'm convinced that my boyfriend is only with me because he was lonely/he settled for me because i happened to like him and it makes him feel good. honestly this has been a common factor with ev...	i am extremely insecure in my relationship and would love to stop being like this so i dont ruin everything because i love my boyfriend.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26/F] with my boyfriend[39/M] big age difference is only one of the issues..i'm still in love with my ex POST: using a throwaway for obvious reasons. just wondering if anyone else has had experience with an age gap like this. My boyfriend before him was younger and really immatur...	age difference is taking it's toll, might still love my ex, want to end everything with everyone and leave the country, help<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I want to part ways with my girlfriend for college, not sure if she feels the same way... POST: I'm 18 years old (male) and she is 17, we've been together for a year and a half, and this fall we will be attending separate colleges. We never fight or really have any problems, I'm jus...	I want to break op with my girlfriend of a year and a half before the summer leading up to college, which is in three weeks. No relationship problems, I've just lost interest and am ready to move on.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Just got 'robbed', need some advice. POST: Hi Reddit! I need some advice. I moved to a new area recently and was looking for a place to get some trees. I finally found someone who was willing to help me out and met him Saturday night to make a trade. The only way that we corresponde...	Looking for trees, gave a guy money with his phone for 'collateral' and he never came back. What can I do to get retribution?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What can I do not to let others misunderstand my weird relationship with a friend? POST: I don't really feel the need to define this relationship, but I want to know whether it may look weird to others and what they could think about it. I'm F22 and my friend, let's call him Dan, is ...	I'm cold with everyone but touchy-feely with my best friend, what can I do not to let others misunderstand?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: My friends are abusing the system, and even as a democratic socialist, I think it's bullshit. POST: I've been a Democratic Socialist since high school (now in my 20s), and I have always felt that the government should help people who cannot help themselves. My sister is mentally disable...	I am a democratic socalist but my friends are hardcore abusing the system. Meanwhile, I can't get disability even if I tried. I can kinda see the other point of view now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by calling 911 for a man who unexpectedly collapsed. POST: Just a few hours ago I was at work getting ready to close the store. I work at a smoothie/fast food chain and am pretty new to the job. With the insane humidity this week the store has been pretty busy with people wanting their q...	Older man enters my fast food workplace, drifts into unconsciousness, calls an ambulance and leaves moments later claiming he's okay.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Just found out my girlfriend has been lying about smoking. What would you do? POST: To give some background. We were both moderate smokers a few years ago, I gave up with the help of a book and encouraged her to quit too. She eventually did, but has repeatedly slipped back into it, bu...	We both used to smoke, I quit, she claimed to. Has lied about it since despite me having caught her a couple of times.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (27F) roomate (24M) won't lock the front door. POST: My roomate and I have been living together for 5 months now and it's mostly great - we mesh in nearly every aspect of cohabitation, except one - he never locks the door. For background I'm from Los Angeles and lived in New York...	I'm a small girl from a big city and my large male roomate from a small town isn't good about locking our door; otherwise a fantastic roommate but it makes me feel unsafe.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit please help, one of my best friends, out of nowhere, started having a manic episode. Does anyone have experience with bipolar disorder? POST: A little over a week ago my best friend called me to tell me his wife (also a very good friend) was acting crazy and he was very scared. Sh...	Friend has bipolar disorder. She's been on meds for a week but gotten worse. She had to be checked into a mental hospital. Any information/experiences/advice would be helpful.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I have €25,000 in savings sitting earning 0.85% p.a, Where can I get a better rate of interest (DE) POST: I have been living in Germany for the past 4 years where I have accumulated this sum of savings. Currently it is sat in a savings account where it makes a pathetic 0.85% p.a. ...	Got a bunch of money in a German acc that I don't need to access, best way to invest it ideally without a minimum 5 year term.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfriend [17 F] of 9 months, she randomly broke down crying and I have no idea why. POST: Me and my girlfriend have a great relationship, we love each other and like each other very much. We recently went to visit a college as we are both graduating in a year, and...	Girlfiend randomly started crying and I don't know why, and she refuses to speak about it. Should I just drop it?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: A girl(18yo) came up to me and asked me out. But I blew it. What to do now? POST: Hi reddit, I was in the library today and just doing my school work then suddenly, this girl (I kinda know her in a sense that I know she goes to my school but never really talked to her) gave me a note...	Girl(18) asked me out but I did not know how to respond so I sort of said no. Now I feel bad and dont know what to do since Im attracted to someone else.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32M] with my girlfriend [32F]; 11 months. How do I tell if she is emotionally blackmailing me? Tips on a rational discussion about it with her? POST: Hello. I've never really visited the subreddit, so I'm not 100% sure on protocol. My girlfriend and I had a small fight last sun...	Not sure if girlfriend is being emotionally manipulative, and want to know how to better tell and discuss that potential issue with her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I tell someone I don't want to do something that they heavily rely on me? POST: I've been asked to play the bass guitar at a school performance and being the pushover I am I said yes. I started just less than a month ago and the performance is in June, (two months time). I get r...	Need a way to tell a teacher I don't want to perform in a school production with the possibility of angering several other teachers.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [m25] SO [f26] has feelings for someone else POST: My girlfriend of six months and I been going through a bit of a rift lately, and it all culminated into a big conflict last night. I'm going to try to fill you guys in as much as possible without convoluting anything or ranting/g...	My girl confessed her lingering feelings for someone from her past and that she doesn't want to commit to me in case anything could possibly materialize between them.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[M16] don't know how to feel about some decision girlfriend [F18] made when we were not together POST: Some back story: I dated this girl for almost a year (2014-2015), she is bi, we broke up a few times during that year, and one time we ended "for real".A few weeks ago she contacte...	girlfriend made some decisions I don't like while we were not together. Should I don't care about what she did then?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [m22] Love my girlfriend [f25] do death and can really picture spending the test of My life with her but recently i have started to flirt with others POST: So as the title says. I have never loved anyone so much as I love her. We have been dating for over half a year and its been a...	can't stop thinking with my dick, how do you other guys hande it? This is my first real relationship..<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being autistic POST: This happened a few weeks ago. For clarity, I've been diagnosed as HFA, and while it freaked me out to be diagnosed that way initially (and explained a lot), I'm not really that worried about it and I don't bring it up under most circumstances. I also have a pr...	am autistic, make joke about autism, offend coworker, too embarrassed to explain that I'm not making fun of disabled people.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20F) got flack for not helping clean up at Thanksgiving dinner. POST: Now to elaborate because the title is horrible! Our family Thanksgiving dinners are huge. Probably at least 30 people including the kids. As such, there is a massive amount of food to cook and dishes to clean. ...	Female family cooks and cleans holiday dinner while male family plays video games and watches TV downstairs. I broke this trend this year and am in deep water with the female relatives.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23/F] still have a lot of unresolved issues regarding my ex [22/M]. POST: During the breakup, my ex said everything that was on his mind and I basically got gaslit the entire time. On the other hand, I had some thinking and there's a lot of pent-up resentment from things on his en...	still have unresolved issues with my ex that I need to get off my chest. Should I contact him after 4 weeks of NC? How do I do this without coming off as an crazy ex?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 24 [M] seeking advice about forward females POST: Last night I met a woman that I am interested in pursuing [25], but she is different than all the women I have relationship experience with. I know all women are different but this one actually initiated everything, after we we...	I guess I would just like some tips or advice on how a more forward woman prefers to be treated compared to women that prefer to be pursued.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What extremely nice things have you tried to do for someone, just to get completely shut down? POST: I just picked my boyfriend up from a very hard day at work since he doesn't have a car right now. We get back to his place and he goes to take a nap. I'm not very tired so I decide to cle...	picked up bf from work, cleaned his kitchen, went to wake him up from his nap with a blowjob and got told to go away.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 F] may be in an abusive relationship with my boyfriend [21 M], who was diagnosed with OCD. 1.5 years POST: Last week, I told my boyfriend I was headed to a friend's housewarming party on Friday. Friday nights are usually "us nights," so I felt it was only polite to ask if it we...	My boyfriend is unable to handle me spending more time with my friends than planned at least a week in advance, and my friends think it's abusive.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17M] pretended to be gay to prove a point, now everyone hates me. POST: Hi reddit. Throwaway account for security. I messed up and I don't know what to do. My best friend and I got into a fight about gay people. I support them and I don't think anyone should be discriminated again...	Made up a story about having a gay experience to try and show my friend that there can be good gays if his best friend is one. He flipped out and told my friends and parents who hate me now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Girlfriend (21) keeps talking to other guys about sex and I (M/22) honestly don't know how to feel about it POST: My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now(5 hours away) and haven't had any issues. Both of us trust each other and plan to live in...	GF talks to her guys friend from class about her sexual experiences and fantasies and I'm not sure how to feel about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 29F - my mother said no one will love me because I'm fat. I don't know what to think. POST: I'll try and keep this succinct. I'm 29F. I haven't dated in a year, after the end of my 12y relationship. I'm 5'6"and weigh approx. 187lbs/85kg. My mother, in a moment of alcoholi...	my mother said no one will love me because I'm fat and therefore repulsive and undesirable. I don't know what to think, aside from that I want to put a bullet in my brain.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: I [28m] want to divorce my pregnant wife [27f] but I am too scared. POST: Old post: I will keep this brief and I don't want to go into to many details, because I am in contact with a lawyer and don't want to reveal too many details online. I will give the important facts. ...	Summary: I am in close contact with a lawyer and am on the path to divorce. I am not sure at this point what will become of the child but it looks most likely there will be some sort of joint custody arrangement.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My ex-roommates of two years [18/F, 20/F, 21/M] can't agree on how to divide a sum of money that I [23/M] am holding on to. POST: I used to share this apartment with three others. I was the one renting the place, but only on paper. Due to some weird legislation we were eligible for h...	former roommates are in a fight about how to divide some money that i happen to be holding on to. don't know what to do, thinking about donating it to charity because they are childish idiots<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Going to put together an engagement ring... Is it appropriate to use my [23m] SO's [23f] mother's older engagement diamond? POST: My girlfriend and I are both 23 y/o and have been dating for 5 years (since high school) I am currently in massive debt from going through dental school ...	Should I use my girlfriend's mother's 3ct engagement diamond (free) and design a band or should I choose and pay for a ring myself?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is this racist? Minorities welcome. POST: (Throwaway) I haven't been listening to popular music for a while and decided to start. I started to go to Billboard magazine's website about a year ago. After 6 months, I noticed there were no American-born white men/groups on the pop chart, t...	I noticed 95% of Billboard Top 100 charts are either black males or females (black or white), but rarely American white males. Is it racist to notice this fact and tell someone else?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [31M] with my female friend? [28 F] 2 months, distancing herself POST: I had recently been talking with a girl for about 2 months. We had gone out on about 6 dates, and most of them would end up just crashing at my place, no sex or anything to far, which is new/cool. Anyway she a...	Recent girl I've been dating seems to be distancing herself, or I could just be reading to much into everything again. Either way any suggestions how I should react.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my girlfiend [18 M] duration, been dating for 4 years, and things are getting complicated. POST: So, I have been dating a girl for four years. I just want to say that she is wonderful. She is beautiful, a great person, and a great partner. We started dating when we we...	I feel like I want to cheat and separate from my girlfriend, but in the next second I am afraid to be without her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: F[22] wondering if it's a terrible idea to contact my ex's mom to see how she is doing POST: So I dated this guy my freshman year of college. He was my first boyfriend, yadda yadda, he turned out to be a major douche and I broke up with him and moved on, meeting my future husba...	Should I contact my ex's mom to see how she's doing, or should I leave well enough alone and focus on my own life?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [22F] just blindsided me [22M] with a breakup after 2 years. Still extremely confused. Need advice on how to handle this. POST: Hello guys, So my girlfriend and I met 2 years ago in college and we're basically inseparable. We had plans of moving in with each other and ...	My girlfriend broke up with me out of nowhere for reasons that make no sense to me. Might be due to a recent depression issue she's had. Need advice on how to save our relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my GF [23 F] duration 1 year, Just discovered her mum has a massive issue with me. POST: So yesterday I found out the my girlfriends mum bitches and complains about me pretty much all the time. Theres no reason for this i'm a polite guest when i go to their house I coo...	Found out my Girlfriends mum pretty much hates me, think it's changing how I see our realtionship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: [F] Should I be concerned about first date? POST: Hey all, I'll keep this short. I met this guy on Badoo and we've been speaking for around 3-4 weeks now and i'm quite into him, we added each other on facebook & insta and I stopped using Badoo since speaking to him. He has a lot fem...	met guy on badoo, been speaking for around 3-4 weeks now, had first date yesterday, he was regularly talking to other women on badoo throughout our day together, should I be concerned?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Just how normal is fantasizing in a relationship? POST: I've been in a relationship for six months. I'm 22 female, and my boyfriend is 23. Before we got into a relationship, I was pining over a guy (NOT my present boyfriend) like a schoolgirl. If I had a trapper keeper, I'm sure h...	But I guess my real question is, do you think my fantasizing over that kid is what's putting a rift between me and my boyfriend? Am I naïve for thinking there's something between me and that other guy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Car loan and repairs vs New car POST: I currently own a used vehicle with 140k miles on it. According to Edmonds and KBB its worth about $2200 as a trade in to dealer. I still owe $3700 @ 9% on the loan that I am paying off @ $210 per month. Recently had to take it in for routine m...	We owe $3700 on an old used car that needs $2500 of repairs over the next year. Should we pay it off as fast as possible and deal with repairs or buy a new(er) car?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Mom caught having an affair for the 2nd time, marriage might be over. I know who it is and debating whether or not to intervene. POST: My Dad just caught my Mom exchanging emails with a guy she had an affair with almost 4 years ago. She exclaimed that she loves the guy and my dad threw h...	Mom was caught cheating on my dad with guy she had an affair with before. Wondering if I should contact the guy and intervene.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [21 F] of 1 year, having an argument about visiting sisters' sleeping arrangement POST: My girlfriend and I live together with multiple roommates, there are no guest rooms, guests generally stay on the couch. We both live away from our families and love t...	Girlfriend's sister wants to visit, girlfriend relegated me to the couch...how do I show her the inequity between our two responses?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My sister (f26) just told me (m19) that my friend (m16) tried touching her last night. I don't know what to believe. POST: Background on my sister: She's been known to lie and cause trouble her whole life. Because of that, we don't have a good relationship at all. We go most days wit...	my sister said my friend blake was begging for sex in the middle of the night and i don't know if I should believe her.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being desperate for money POST: Yeah, I'm sure you guys are probably thinking, "I know where this is headed," and you're probably right. I am going to move out with my boyfriend...Eventually. But renting a house for the first time is filling me with anxiety, just thinking about the a...	Never believe someone is giving you grant money unless they are willing to give it to you through the mail...I feel like an imbecile.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Need health insurance for 4 m/o baby POST: Hello, I have health insurance for my family through my employer. On the plan it's me, my wife and two out of my three kids. My youngest was born in March 2016. Today we went to the doc for her 4 month check-up only to realize she is no lo...	Forgot to enroll my baby 4 month old baby in company health insurance. Looking for options for how to get her coverage until 2017 when I can add her to my family's plan.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Would it be weird? POST: Hi all. I need some advice about messaging someone you're interested in over Facebook. I know in so many cases this is big no-no, but I'd like your opinion. I play music at my church, and about a week ago I was looking out into the crowd and saw a girl...	Wondering if I should message a girl over Facebook that I've said hi to several times before but haven't had an actual conversation with.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: R12 Disposal and Vacuum machine in St. Louis area? (XPost from /r/cars) POST: I've got an old Volvo that uses the old R12 standard for air conditioning - and it's not been working since I've had the car. Now that I've got some money sitting aside in the bank, I'd like to look at the cost...	I need an idea of how much it costs to have R12 converted to R134, and if there's anyone local to St. Louis that can do it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Seems like my ex's roommates are interested in me [fixed] POST: So I've been lurking around for a while making comments here and there, but never a post so here it goes. Sorry for making it a dramatic and borderline whiny one: When I was in high school, most of my friends were girls ...	Old friends from high school seem to be interested in me, but I'm definitely not over my ex fiancé who just happens to be their roommate.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Timing is everything POST: I'[m] 29. She's 24. We've been together almost two years. We're really great for each other, have great communication and lot's of fun together, and are genuinely in love. I've been on my own since I was about 17 and am doing well for myself. She's still f...	I've been on my own a decade, we've been together two years, and she wants to live with her parents for at least another year. Feeling anxious about waiting forever.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Throwaway. Me [19 F] with my boyfriend [17 M] of nearly three years, trouble in the bedroom POST: Let me preface this by saying that my boyfriend and I communicate very well within our relationship and we both love each other immensely. That being said, we don't always fit together...	My boyfriend doesn't enjoy sex because he finds me ugly, I'd like a solution that doesn't involve me changing to please him.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I Feel like the nuclear family is almost extinct. POST: I noticed this more once I moved into a college town and got out of just my little farm town where i've always lived. I'm not proposing a dooms day or trying to say that america has gone down hill or anything but all the friends i have ...	ALMOST ALL MY NEW FRIENDS AT COLLEGE HAVE SOME TYPE OF FAMILY ISSUE... IS THAT NORMAL?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: 18 year old looking to purchase things online and build credit. No credit history and no official income. Options? POST: I turned 18 a little over a month ago. I want to get a credit card to build credit and to use for online purchases. Please don't lecture me on being careful with...	I have no credit history and no income and I'm in high school looking for a credit card to build credit and purchase things online. What are my options?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Typical high school problem [M17] and [F16]? POST: I'm a junior in high school and just turned 17, right now I'm in a relationship with my first girlfriend, we've been dating for about 9-10 months. I really don't have a lot of experience since this is my first real relationship. I re...	I'm not sure if I'm happy in my first relationship, and the fact that I may have feelings for another girl isn't helping.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16 M] am in love with my[18 F] best friend who has a boyfriend but it's more complicated. POST: So I'm just gonna jump into this, I'm deeply in love with my best friend [of 5 years] and she kinda knows I have feelings for her. At the moment she has a boyfriend and they have been ...	In love with best friend who has a boyfriend but sometimes sends the signals that she wants to be with me and I'm very confused on what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 F] have a really hard time trusting someone after they disappoint even just once, even if it's unintentional or not a big deal. It's affecting my relationship with my 22 [M] FWB of a year. How can I overcome this? POST: The past few days, we talked about going into the city to ...	FWB and I talked about going out today, he forgot and didn't follow through. I really to get over it but don't know how to go about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: BF thinks I'm out of his league, and it's taking a toll on his self-esteem. What do I do? POST: I'm 21F, he's 24. We've only been going out for about a couple months, but we've both fell for each other pretty hard. He's incredibly sweet, handsome, chivalrous, hilarious, and fun. He t...	BF thinks he's the least attractive guy I've gone out with, it's not true and I think he's absolutely amazing. He won't believe me. What do! <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having a nice beach swim POST: Reddit, I live by the beautiful coast of southern California. Not close enough to walk but close enough to bike. Yesterday I got off my night shift at 8AM and decided to ride my bike down to Huntington Beach and take a dip. I've been to this exact beach ...	all my shit got stolen and now I need to steal my own bike. Any tips on bike thievery would be greatly appreciated, I think I'm gonna buy an angle grinder.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Should I tell a supermegafoxyawesomehot girl that I like her? POST: Hai Reddit. Here's the deal: I'm an 18 year old senior in high school with no previous dating/romantic experience. Like, none at all. I'm decently attractive (or so I've been told), intelligent enough, and kind of s...	Hey guys should I tell this really attractive girl I know whose friend likes me that I like her? If yes and she is game, should I suggest we have teh sex?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[24F] boyfriend[24M] of four years does not brush his teeth regularly. How can I get him into this habit without having to act like a mom? POST: My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years now. He is generally well kept, he showers every day and dresses well, but his one big...	Boyfriend makes up excuses why he doesn't need to brush his teeth. It's gross. Nothing I say will make him brush his teeth properly and I feel like a mom for having to nag him about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's something that happened to you that totally backfired, when you never intended any wrong? POST: Go back like 6 years in time. I'm about 13-ish. My little brother has a friend over and they run outside the house without shoes. I think I'm being funny and go lock all the doors and l...	I'm 13, I lock my brother and his friend out of the house for 5 minutes with no shoes, friend's asshole dad comes to the house and bellows at a little me that I'm the asshole.<\|endoftext\|>