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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my friend [19 F] are in some sort of friendship, romantic relationship, I'm very confused. POST: So i am working at a camp for the summer and I met this girl (19) who is amazing, we are very similar and being with her is very easy. We've been talking for about a month ...	Met this girl at camp, we like each other but dont want to date, she keeps distancing her self from me even when she likes me, what do i do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] was dumped by my [20 F] of 1yr, 'future over you', advice please? POST: We spend a whole year long distance, and I fell hard for this girl when I first met her. She is my age, Italian, and has big blue eyes and olive skin. So when I met her last summer, I figured that the wor...	My girlfriend dumped me for her future. Any of you guys have advice for if I should hold out for her? Or just talk to me about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Fell in love with a married man, what do I do now? POST: We met a year ago while he was on travel for work. After quite a few drinks we end up making out and I went back to his hotel room. Both of us expected nothing more than a one night hook up considering we live two thousan...	I've been carrying on a long distance relationship with a married man for a year now. I didn't know he wasn't separated until recently. Do I cut things off now that I know?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18 M] My friend [19 FtM] friend from elementary school is inviting herself into my life and I'm too nice to tell them I don't want to be their friend? POST: Ok so in 4th-6th grade I had a small group of close friends, 6 of us. One of them was a girl I frequently fought with but alwa...	elementary school friend who was a girl wants to be friends again now as a guy, but the problem is I don't want to be friends with any of my elementary/middle school friends....<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[20F] friend[19 M] wants to move our friendship into a relationship but I keep thinking of him as way younger than me. POST: Basically my friend has admitted to wanting to move to a relationship and I like him as well but his age is bothering me. To brief it down majority of my fr...	Friend wants to date me, I keep picturing him as way younger than me as a result of letting myself think that I'm way older than I actually am.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By answering an EX's phone call POST: So tonight i was hanging out playing some video games late night when i noticed my phone ringing and it was my Ex of a long term relationship in which I was the person being left. At first i was seriously hung up and completely crushed, having a long...	Ex from long term relationship called, trashed our old relationship blocked me out of life. Currently crying self to sleep. GG reddit. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] am in love with my best friend [20 F] and it's making me incredibly depressed. POST: I've been indescribably close to this girl since I was 15. I'm closer to her than anybody else. I value our relationship more than anything else however I can't help but have very strong fee...	I'm in love with my best friend and she might not feel the same way but keeping it a secret is making my life hell. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Why would my ex-fiance [30 M] continue texting me [29 F] when I try to stop after he said we can't be together? POST: My fiance and I were engaged for 1.5 years. I had moved away for work, as we were both struggling but making it work. He blames himself partly for what happened next,...	I cheated on ex fiance four years ago. We talk occasionally. I try to cut conversations short, and he either keeps them going or, worse, gets flirty. Why does he do that?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Break because of distance, looking for suggestions POST: so my girlfriend and I are soon to be apart. I am travelling abroad and she is still at the college where we met. She has been back for a month or so now and i have seen her frequently through that time period, but in less than...	we will be apart for a little over four months, and we're limiting our communications and separating ourselves from one another for the time. any advice would be appreciated<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 F] BF [23 M] of 1 year, gently hinted he would appreciate freebie mistakes/sexual throwaways for the time-being...we are currently long distance. POST: basically, to him having sex with someone he is very into and who he cares about is very different from just getting a releas...	im definitely not considering being occasionally open in our long distance relationship BUT i am still worried that the implied desire for one from my boyfriend is a giant red flag that i am choosing to not see. let me know what you think.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Is bankruptcy something I should consider? Living abroad with debts in the USA. POST: I know I am in a bad situation and only have myself to blame for it. It's too late for what I should have done. All I can do is figure out where to go from here. Had a string of bad luck and ke...	lost job and had other downfalls that lead to serious debt. Living in Europe now but would still like to take care of my debts. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [25M] My FWB [22F] says no more sex because she has a BF now but she still wants groping. Can someone explain this logic POST: We have been FWB for a little over a year now. A month ago she meets a guy through an online dating website, and about a week ago she tells me that she doesn...	FWB wants me to grope her but doesnt want sex because she feels that its wrong while shes in a relationship and I am extremly confused by this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Gift tax (US to EU) or (US in US) help POST: My dad passed away a while back and it was always agreed between him and my uncle (verbally) that when he passed the sale of the house would go to me. This came out to about 200k USD. However now that I'm living away from the US and th...	Dual Citizen, living in Ireland. Father passed away and via verbal agreement with his brother I'm to get half the sale of the house he lived in. My concerns?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [24 M] tinder match my sister's FRIEND [21 F]. Would she keep thing's between us? POST: (Updated title) --- My sister has one friend who is attractive. I met her years ago but she was too young then so i didnt pay attention to her. Its been a few years since I first saw her...	Do you think she would be into it if i casually contacted her? (Only way I can think is through tinder)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I met a guy from okc last week and am unsure of his intentions. POST: throwaway account. I had an opportunity to meet this awesome guy while I was in the city. (i'm from a small town) and i'm going to be straightforward, we had sex literally right after we met. He is a super s...	Met a guy online, fucked, went on a date, felt a connection & still keep in touch. How do I ask what his intentions are?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: This last week I've [M/32] started courting a girl [F/22] long-distance that I met on Reddit. Not sure what I'm doing or how to proceed. Very new at this.. POST: Hi there. I'm currently courting a girl long-distance that I met here on Reddit one week ago. It will be strictly an...	New to dating online-only, need advice on how to steer conversation with someone over IMs/SMS. Also complicated by DD/lg nature of relationship. Thoughts/advice?!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: A quick thank you to this subreddit and an update on my progress. POST: A very sincere thank you from the bottom of my heart, wolves. I started law school this year and fucked up really badly on my first semester's exams. I was totally confused on how to write well and despite my bes...	My exam writing sucked before but now it's good thanks to the motivation from this subreddit and good old fashioned hard work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] and my (ex-)girlfirend [18 F] of four years recently broke up, things are not going well. POST: Hi guys, first post so forigve me my mistakes. Here is the story: Me and my long term girlfriend of four years (me 18 and male, she 18 and female) just broke up, I was the one ...	Just broke up with long term girlfriend who has totally changed and does things that appear to be a-natural for her and hurt me, big time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [15M] with my friend [16F] of 1 year, lied to me about something small and I don't know what to do. POST: So, my friend texted me last night asking me a question. She's really into horses and wanted to know if I liked a photo that she took of her horse in a Halloween costume(she t...	My friend sent me pictures of a costume for her horse that she claimed was her's. I found the exact same pictures online from three years ago.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by spilling grease on my boss. POST: >I'm not that good at story telling, and the whole thing happened and resolved pretty fast. Here's the story. This takes place about a year or so ago. I was at work at a fast food restaurant, trying to move two large buckets of fryer-oil at once to ...	I almost got fired for spilling fryer-oil on my boss, but she realized it wasn't a prank and forgave my fuckup.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [26 M] of 2.5 years-I'm a depression sufferer and he has adhd. Perfect storm of diagnoses for dramatic and painful issues. Help/ experience with couples therapy? POST: There are many resources for being in partnerships with depression and having a partner ...	I am depressed and he has adhd. Perfect storm. Anyone with experience with this kind if relationship or generally with couples therapy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: The day has come. Your post has just made front page of reddit. How do you commemorate your achievement? (if you care about that kinda stuff) POST: I'll start. I've only had a reddit account for a short time but I've been a long time lurker. I always put off making an account cause I o...	Screenshot of the front page. Xbox achievement unlocked icon below the screen shot. Then print out a 36x24 poster to hang up on my wall<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27 M] relationship of 5+ years with my GF [27 F] just ended, should I worry about moving for work? POST: I've posted around about the end of my relationship, and I really appreciate all of the help that I've been getting. Long story short, I found out very recently that my GF of...	My 5+ year relationship just ended. Should I worry about moving to someplace where I don't know anyone in order to find a decent job?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21F] addiction to kpop is destroying a 3 year relationship. [22M] POST: I tried to post this to /r/kpop and was directed here instead. I tend to lurk more than post, so please bear with me for any mistakes I may make in formatting. I've been a die hard fan of kpop for a few yea...	I'm addicted to kpop, in a way I know I shouldn't be, and keep lying about it. I feel like I can't get out, and it's destroying my relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I know there are a million threads like this but mine is slightly different...I will be buying a laptop soon...PC or Mac? POST: I have used Windows my entire life and I am completely self taught on how to do everything computer related so I do some things in what might be considered unco...	I've always used windows. Curious about macs. Need new laptop for college. $1500 max budget. What do you suggest?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it ok for your friend to tell your current SO how your past relationship ended (23, 1.5yrs) POST: I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half and just the other day my friend was talking to my girlfriend and told her how my last relationship ended. Now, my girlfri...	My friend told my current gf (23, F, dating 1.5yrs) about my past mistakes with a previous gf. I feel like it might have damaged our trust. Did my friend do the right thing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My brother [30M] threatens me [20F] POST: My brother has never physically hurt me or anyone in my family. He is not an alchoholic and he does not do drugs or any of that kind of stuff - to the best of my knowledge. He was also a star student. But, he threatens me when he is upset. He...	My brother threatens to hurt/kill me when upset, but has never acted on his threats. Should I be worried?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26M] with my SO [25F] of 2 years, is having second thoughts of moving in together. POST: I have been with my girlfriend for two years this summer. We decided a couple months ago that once our leases were up at the end of this summer we would move in together. We typically spend a...	Girlfriend of going on two years was excited about moving in together and now told me last night that she is having doubts.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend [29M] 4 years, used to be steamy, now it's just awkward? POST: We've been dating for 4 years and living together for 1. Prior to living together, we would have a lot of steamy texting (and phone) conversations. We'd share pictures, fantasies, role-play, t...	We used to sext and share fantasies all the time prior to living together. Now when I try, he shuts it down immediately. What is wrong? How can we fix this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my live in boyfriend/son's father [37M] of 2 years, angry and distant, found needles POST: My live in boyfriend and father of our son has been angry and throwing things recently. He never throws things directly at us however. I've suspected he's been depressed and I set...	Live in boyfriend and father of my son is angry and distant. He throws things, leaves house unexpectedly, rarely interacts, and I found needles of unknown use in home. What would you do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Continually drawn to toxic friendships... WHY? (Updated post) POST: Here's a link to my first post to provide a bit of background to what I'm talking about: I think at some point in everyone's lives people find themselves in some sort of toxic, unhealthy friendship. For whatever re...	Reddit, how can I get better at realizing 'no company is better than poor company'? And why am I continually drawn to these types of relationships with other females?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (22m) and my girlfriend (23f) both suffer mental illnesses. I know that I do not want to marry, have kids. How can I break it off? POST: I've been dating a girl, let's call her Ashley, for just about two months now. She's funny, nice, fairly attractive. We have similar interests an...	due to my personal beliefs and shared mental illnesses I cannot stay with my girlfriend. What is the best way to break it off?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [M20] visit her [F19] at uni? POST: Hi all, just wanted to make a quick post about something that's been bugging me for a while. During this summer, I happened to meet a girl that lives in the same area as me whilst I was back home, visiting my family during the summer. We g...	should i go visit the girl i'm seeing (dated for 2 months) at uni as requested by her or should I just let her enjoy herself? Worried that she'll resent my presence if i visit<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20M) am hesitant about asking out a female friend (20F) POST: Hope it doesn't end up being a wall of text, but here goes. I've known this girl for well over a year now. I've liked her quite a lot during this time, but had gotten over her after somewhat of a breakdown in communica...	Thinking of asking out a female friend I've rekindled a friendship with for my own sanity's sake. Would like to know what are the chances of staying friends if she says no.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what kind of deodorant/antidepressant do you use? POST: Friends, I am dying here. I wear deodorant/antiperspirant every single day, yet I am sitting here dripping like Niagara Falls (Canadian side). Its so vexing that I would rather hear voices in my head telling me to do sin...	I sweat like a motherfucker even with deodorant/antidepressant on. What kind of stuff can I use to stop this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 F] just broke up with my BF [30 M], I'm alone and anxious, please help POST: I've been crazy in love with this man for nine months. It was intense, intimate, and I went way too fast emotionally and started fantasizing about a life together. I have generalized anxiety, and my s...	I have generalized anxiety and I broke up with my boyfriend, who I loved, who had severe depression. I'm so lonely and scared, please help. I'm already in therapy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (m25) am in love and have been with her (f25) for 9 months. I'm starting to feel like she isn't in love with me anymore. Anything I can do? POST: So my girlfriend and I are in a very loving relationship. I love her. She loves me. I am there for her all the time. We do awesome thing...	we love each other but I don't think she's in love with me anymore. Anything I can do to respark that love? Is it even possible?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20 F) snooped through the guy I'm seeings (22 M) meds this weekend - don't know what to do with what I found out POST: For the past two months I've been semi-dating this guy I know from school whose living in my city for the summer. It's been a semi stressful experience for me bec...	Did a shitty thing, found out the guy I'm seeing is on antidepressants - he doesn't know I know. Now what?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My grandma, who was abusive to my mom, is trying to start a relationship with me. POST: I decided a long time ago that I don't want hurtful/abusive people in my life, whether they are related to me or not. So I've not really made much of an attempt to have a relationship with her. She re...	my grandma was a child abuser to my mom, but wants to form relationship with me. I feel guilty rejecting an old lady.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: People who work 50+ hours a week should not have a such a hard time paying their bills POST: I AM SO FRUSTRATED. I work two jobs, one of which I just started this past month and the other is being a full time graduate student. Over the summer, my "pay" for being a graduate assistant is ...	I work many hours and I'm facing a gap in pay periods and the moment which puts me at risk of not being able to pay rent.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 F] don't think I can live with my husband's [29 M] lack of household chores anymore. POST: I love my husband, but I'm not sure I want to live with him anymore. We have been together for just shy of 6 years. We've been married for 2.5 years. I've tried everything I can think o...	My husband doesn't seem to do household chores without direct requests on the day. If this is the only way he can do chores, I think I'd rather be single.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 27M with my FWB 25F of a month, we agreed to date but she still uses tinder POST: I met a girl on tinder and we have been hanging out for about a month and a half now. She has always been saying that she really likes me and wants to date me. But I always told her that I was not em...	Started dating my FWB. Found her using tinder while she thought I was sleeping. Is that a redflag?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M/17] find myself irritated by girlfriend's [F/17] obsessions and gay fanfictions. It's irrational and I hate it. Help? POST: We've been together for about 4 years now, and for the last 3 she has been swapping between obsessions, starting with Yu-Gi-Oh and Merlin, and most recentl...	Girlfriend is typical teen girl on tumblr with fan girl obsessions over TV shows and their stars, and gay ships, and it bothers the fuck out of me and I want to stop being such an ass.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] have been with my gf [23 F] for almost 2 years, but am starting to have feelings for another girl (22 F). What should I do? POST: Ok, so I have been with my gf for almost 2 years. We live together, I know some may say that is to soon, (irrelevant, with a separate story). Bu...	I have a gf of two years. Started to have feelings for another girl after we spent some time together and held hands. I would never cheat. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my GF [23 F] duration = 3 Months, Any chance we'll get back together? POST: So I saw my ex for about 3 months. Not very long and I should really be over it. I don't date very often though (I'm pretty choosy and don't get out enough) so it takes me longer to get over re...	GF of 3 months broke up with me to get back with a guy who had previously told her "I don't want monogamy or a girlfriend". Do you think she will come back to me after their relationship (likely) ends?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [M 19, F 22] Past 2nd Date and no physical contact AT ALL POST: So if you've read my previous posts, you already know the story. For everybody else, here's a quick conclusion: --- I've met a girl at my university who seems to be quite shy (I myself am aswell) and I asked her out fo...	I am dating a girl and we haven't had any physical contact yet, which creates a lot of distance between us.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Dog running away, unsure of how to handle it. POST: Sorry in advance for the lengthy post! My parents and I are taking care of my sister's dog for a year. He (the dog) is a small poodle/shih tzu/something mix, around 7 years old. My sister has been extremely lenient/lacking in ability ...	My family and I are taking care of a energetic dog for an extended amount of time who has developed troublesome habits with his owner. our biggest problem is that he likes to occasionally run away. What are ways to deal with this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a cat-related problem. Should I keep trying to tough it out or will he be happier elsewhere? POST: Just hoping to get some advice from strangers on the internet because I can't make a decision about this. My cat whom I've had and loved for the past 3+ years will throw a tantrum e...	My cat pukes and pisses on my things every fews months for years now. Due to health and school stresses, I can't keep up anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] beat up my [25M] boyfriend for the third or fourth time. POST: Like the title said I have hit my boyfriend for the third or fourth time. He always forgives me usually because I sob uncontrollably after. Of course like every abuser I tell him that I love him, and that I will n...	I [21F] beat the shit out of my boyfriend whenever he sucks at being my boyfriend. Unsure of what to do next. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by drying off with a towel covered in fire ants. (NSFW) POST: This happened two days ago. I am an ESL teacher in Thailand. I live in a small studio apartment. I had just left school, and I was in my apartment, trimming my head with some clippers. I finished cutting my hair and hopped in ...	Grabbed a towel that was covered in fire ants, dried off and got bit all over the privates by ants. Put tiger balm on the bites on my privates, and that only introduced a new type of pain.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29/F] recognize my patterns. I tend to date people who aren't 100% in it from the beginning. This causes a vicious cycle of miscommunication, projection of insecurities, trying to find validation in the wrong places. Does anybody else feel this way and/or have successfully broken t...	Trying to make a circle fit into a square only brings me heartache and depression. Any advice on breaking these patterns?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[25F] having trouble finding people I find attractive who don't JUST want to jump straight in the sack. POST: I have just gotten out of a relationship, I feel a bit burnt as he used to stray a bit during our 5 year relationship. Now I am finding it so difficult to find someone who ...	Want to know if I am being a sexual prude when it comes to early dating and therefore dampening my chances at finding someone!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Convincing Recruiter I Can Do "Senior" Job, Without 5 Years Exp POST: There is an internal job that I have a phone interview for that has "senior" in the title. It's one pay grade above me and requires 5 years of experience. I have 4. What is the best way to convince the recruiter I'm go...	I have a phone interview for a job opening that requires 5 years of experience, when I only have 4. What is the best way I can convince the recruiter I have what it takes?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] feelings for my lesbian friend [21F] POST: Unfortunately this is my first Reddit post so the format of this post may be off. Well, I seem to have placed myself in an awkward position. I work with this girl and the first time we talked, when we first started working together...	I have strong feelings for my lesbian friend. We hooked up at a party but now I am unclear where things are headed between us. We talk but avoid talking about that night. I can only hope she doesnt use reddit.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23F] FWB?? [23M] stopped speaking to me; I don't know where I messed up. POST: So for the last month or so I have been seeing a new guy that I met through online dating. We hit it off right away and our first date lasted for hours, with us just talking and laughing. During the ...	Been seeing someone for a month. We've gone on a few great dates, but haven't heard from him since the last one. Confused about what could have happened.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I overreacting? POST: I (17) have been dating this girl (17) for 3 months now. We were friends before for 3 years and always liked each other in a special way but never done anything about it. In those 3 years, we had a period where we didn't speak as often and she got a new group...	My girlfriend is letting her best friend who used to be in love with her stay over. I'm extremely jealous and angry. Am i being paranoid?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by changing my fuel filter by myself. POST: I'm a DIY kinda guy. I would rather research a topic for weeks and buy the necessary tools in order to do it myself, rather than pay somebody else to do it for me. After a little research on changing my fuel filter, I figured it could be that ...	Trapped under my car. Had a solo cup of gasoline held over my face. The cup eroded away spilling gas all over me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24F] have a serious chemistry with my TA [25M] and don't know what to do about it. POST: As the title says I really click well with my Physics TA. I've only felt this chemistry before with two other guys both of which I had long term relationships with. The reason I'm so intrigued...	My physics TA and I have serious chemistry and I want to know what appropriate options I have now to get to know him better (if any at all). Also what to do once the semester ends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The person I [22F] am dating [21M] is depressed but so am I POST: Okay so here's a little background information: We started dating the spring of 2014 but I moved to Florida in the summer and we did the long distance thing until January 2015. It was hard on him because he is pretty ...	My ex boyfriend and I are both struggling with anxiety and depression. Am I awful for wanting a break? Would a break do more harm than good?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18M] am unsure how to approach this situation with my ex[17M] POST: Using a throwaway, this is all quite secret and my friends know my account name Me and my ex-girlfriend dated for two and a half years, ending things about nine months ago. We faded in and out of talking for eig...	ex and i talked about getting back together in a complicated situation where she has feelings for another guy, I have no idea what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M/F] with my ex girlfriend [20 M/F] of 2 years, civil but confusing breakup POST: Almost 6 weeks ago, my ex is texting me while I'm at a friends birthday party. She tells me that she wants to talk to me in person and I know something is wrong immediately. I'm drinking, so I'm ...	Ex broke up with me and said a lot of things that may or may not be false hope. I know that I need to move on and heal, but what do you make of what she said?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28/F] with my new boyfriend [32 M] 2 months. He doesn't want to take me on dates! POST: Every date we've been on has been something I've picked or planned. At first I gave him the benefit of the doubt since he's new to this city and figured he wanted to get to know me better by ...	My new boyfriend was quick to get serious without wooing me first. Now I feel a bit taken for granted.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Will it be an asshole move if I cut off a childhood friend who has gotten amazingly annoying? POST: This is my childhood friends and since recently he has emerged back into the social scene after moving back to our hometown area. The problem is that, like almost everyone, I dont like pe...	friend has gotten really annoying as he talks about how hes the future 'shit' in the .com industry. Is it okay to cut him off or tell him that this isnt a healthy conversation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22/f] I kissed someone while unofficially dating [21/m] someone else. Is okay to let this one slide? POST: I have been "with" someone (we'll call him Joe) since the beginning of the semester, although we agreed a while back that we weren't looking to be in a relationship. As t...	Made out with a friend of the guy that I'm "seeing" but not in an official relationship with, am wondering if it's okay to allow this mistake.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (21/F) really don't care for sports and my (21/M) boyfriend loves them to the extreme. How to proceed so that I can be true to myself and supportive of him? POST: This might be a stupid question. We've been dating 2 years and I'm having trouble reconciling what is the best co...	My boyfriend really loves sports and I really could not care less, how to reconcile this? Also concerned about his very strong emotional ties to said sports...just want to check with some men that his irrationality is normal.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being overboard POST: So, I met this girl a couple days ago. She's pretty awesome. I was instantly interested in her, and after a while I asked her out on a coffee, to which, she said yes! It is Valentine's Day, so I thought it was a good time to schedule a date. I texted her, she re...	I gave a fucking bouquet to a girl for Valentine's to the girl I just met. Ensuring that I come off as a creep.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] with my guy friend [18 M] 6 months, Should I tell a guy that I like him? and How? POST: I have a guy friend and I really like him but I don't know whether he likes me or not. He is one of those people that is really difficult to read and don't know where he stands on the sub...	I like my guy friend but he is really hard to read. Should I tell him that I like him or not.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: How do I feel that I "fit in" more at Professional School? Or make new friends in a new city? POST: Professional school is pretty much if you took all the nerds and let them set up their own social hierarchy, which is very similar to high school. I hear my 28 y/o classmates talking about wh...	So if you guys would suggest any ways to find real friends at professional school or even external to my school I'd love that.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [19/m] Needs some advice on talking to this girl (18/f) POST: I need some advice on how i should go about talking to this girl. I guess you could say I've known her for a couple years, but only through a few classes in high school. I have no idea if she's interested in me, but there'...	Wanna talk to this girl, i don't see her in person at all anymore, need good way to start talking to her that isn't too forward/weird.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My (18f) boyfriend (19f) always plays video games around me POST: We've been together for over a year. I commute to college, and do a lot of homework at his house during the day (I stay at his house due to issues at home). He works until about 6. When he gets home, I ask questi...	Boyfriend only seems interested in playing video games, even when I'm around. I've talked to him about it, he rolls his eyes, gets mad, and nothing changes.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18M] ending 2.5 years with my girlfriend[18F]. Okay Reddit, I listened to you and I'll do it. But how do I end on good terms? POST: Okay. I slept on it and you guys are right. I need to end this. But how do I end on good terms? Last Nights Thread: Right now we aren't on good te...	Posted last night and have decided to end on good terms, however we are not at a good spot at the current moment. How should I approach this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [23F] can't help but feel jealous when bf [23M] games with my best friend [23F]. Am I overreacting? POST: My boyfriend [23M], let's call him Jake, and I [23F] have been together for 2 years, and I'm really happy with our relationship. We're also both really close with my best friend ...	Boyfriend spends considerable amount of time gaming over Skype with my best friend, and I'm resentful that she gets to "hang out" with him more than I do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [23 F] not be threatened by my boyfriend's [25 M] intelligence? POST: My boyfriend and his college friends all had a reunion last night, and he brought me along. I knew my boyfriend was smart but...jeez, this was at a whole new level. My boyfriend's an engineer who designs...	my boyfriend and his friends (his female friends specifically) are really smart and im afraid he finds me dumb and unstimulating<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Is weight loss really as simple as CICO?? POST: Hey all, I've been lurking this sub for a while and subscribing to the CICO methodology. It seems like pretty straightforward science, but with the recent NYT debate I've read differing opinions elsewhere I can't reason away. Is anyone fam...	Any thoughts about eating more food - healthy foods - vs strictly reducing calories, to maintain metabolism and gradually lose weight?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [27/M] with my Wife [27/F] of 4 years: Crushes on mutual friends POST: I have had an off/on crush with another woman, aged 33. My wife and I are very understanding when it comes to this sort of thing and she is even aware of the situation -- though perhaps not the severity. ...	Can't get woman out of my head -- we are close friends, don't exactly want that to change. Situation is really not that bad considering all relevant parties are informed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [20M] of a year broke up, both not sure we made the right call. POST: Me and my boyfriend had been dating just over a year when we ended it a couple days ago. It was mutual, but still it's sucked a lot. We broke up because we both wanted to be more indepen...	Me and my boyfriend had a mutual break up because we wanted more independence, now not sure if we made the right decision.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27M] with my gf [26F] 2 month. Dating a girl who was sexually assaulted and fell into coke addiction which I just found out. POST: I started dating this girl few month ago she's really attractive but seemed a lil crazy at the time but I kinda just over looked it. We hit off quit ...	just found out the girl I thought is from my dream is a junkie because she was raped multiple times. Should I continue the relationship or cut the cord? not sure what to think right now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (22F) over-analysing a fwb situation with a (23m), need someone to rationalise my thoughts POST: Hey, any advice or general thoughts on this would be useful! I entered a FWB scenario a little while ago with someone I kind of know but I wouldn't really consider us good friends. ...	FWB housemate added me on FB and I don't know whether or not to accept the request because I feel weird being friends with his friend and not him...<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He [33M] wants to move in together, I [27F] want to know he loves me. POST: Hi r/relationships! Using a throwaway, thanks in advance for reading. I'll keep this short: We met almost a year ago and instantly clicked, but for practical/timing reasons, he put off making things serious ...	boyfriend and I want to move in together but I'm too scared because he can't say "I Love You." Am I being wise or unreasonable?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Awkward feelings about my girlfriend.. POST: Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for a few months now but only really became exclusive. We're both 17, and she's an awesome girl and totally gorgeous, but last weekend we were fooling around and about half way through...	My girlfriend stopped the first sexual contact between us as she felt weird and doesn't seem to think of it as a big problem. How do I make her realize how un-wanted it made me feel?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend [21M] of 1.5yrs is having stress problems and i feel as if he hates me [20F] and doesn't want to talk, he has family and trust issues, how do i convince him it's ok to talk to me? POST: So my boyfriend has a huge life changing audition about a month from now that could real...	boyfriend has serious trust issues and won't allow me to help him in his times of stress. How do i let him know he can rely on me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm quite attractive, 30ish, sexually adventurous, but keep not stumbling upon threesomes at the grocery store. How do I go about creating more adventure? POST: There are many things I would like to do and totally would do if the situations presented themselves. But every time I go for a...	So, how do I find normal, attractive, healthy people to fool around with? How do I get up the nerve to do it? Does it actually get easier with experience? How do I care less about their personalities?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (26F) and SO (33M) are getting a roommate. (26F) POST: I'd like to start off by saying they work together, but they're independent contractors and the fact that it isn't going to piss off anyone there. There isn't even "HR" there. I'm really not comfortable sharing anymore details...	SO and I are getting a roommate for the first time. I don't even know what to expect from living with a woman. Please help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26M] am bothered by her [25F] casual views on sex POST: I've been with my girlfriend now for four months and have recently learned a bit more about her sexual history/past relationships. She recently revealed that she has had casual sex with almost all (10+) of her close male fri...	My girlfriend revealed that she has had casual sex with 10+ of her male friends that she still hangs out with. Not sure if I'm rightly bothered or if I should get over it<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How I do it? POST: I want to hook my cousin up with my 'best-friend'. Coincidentally, I've had serious feelings for my 'best-friend' in the past but because I've been let down so many times I officially gave up on her recently. My cousin knows that I was crazy about her. When I was crazy...	Girl I loved wants to hook up with my cousin. Cousin knows I loved her. How would cousin feel if I tried to hook them up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU and left my phone on the bus POST: I actually left the phone on the bus on Saturday. I took the bus home after work and must have set my phone on the seat and forgot about it. I went to bed shortly after coming home and the next morning I spent about two hours tearing my house apart to f...	I left my phone on a public bus and someone was kind enough to turn it in but I have to ride the bus for two hours tomorrow to get it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by breaking my dad's bed with my man hands POST: First post in TIFU, i have been enjoying this subreddit greatly, but now its my turn So i'm pretty big for a student in middle school, i am known in the family for my temper, and my continuous A+ report cards. One day i came back home tir...	TIFU by breaking my fathers bed which is made of metal and wood with my man hands, was not grounded , what i'm feeling is shame now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25F) sent my boyfriend of 2 years (31M) nude pics, and one of the first things he asks me is who else I sent them to first. This is a red flag, right? POST: My ex used to think I was cheating on him, but actually he was cheating on me. So this worries me. I haven't sent him pics i...	I sent my boyfriend nude pics and the second thing he asks me is who else I sent them to. This isn't cool, right?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [19/m] My ex-girlfriend(19/f) is trying to talk to one of my friends. I have nothing against that, and he's not trying to do it to hurt me, but she is borderline crazy. Do I try to tell him? Or should I let them be? POST: So my ex of several months and I have been broken up f...	Borderline-crazy ex girlfriend is trying to make a move on a friend of mine. I want to save him the pain of dealing with a bitch, do I step in?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25F] found out SO [25M] had been with multiple pre-ops and can't get past this. Please help. POST: I found out via email strings my SO had sought out pre-op trans via craigslist in the past. We have been together about 2 years and all the craigslist stuff happened about 6 months b...	Found out SO had been with multiple pre op trans he found on Craiglist in the past, need help getting past it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I hooked up with my ex, who told me that he was in an open relationship. The next morning, it turns out that was a lie. Now he wants to tell his girl... POST: My ex and I are in the same circle of friends, and the girlfriend is an acquaintance, which complicates things. He and I are bot...	Ex lied to me and told me he was in open relationship, now wants to disclose one-night-stand to his current gf, and I don't want to deal. What are my options? Do I have any?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] and my wife [25 F] of 8 months argue fairly often. Had another last night, ended in tears and doubts. POST: Apologizing in advance for this post, it's probably going to be messy. Last night my wife and I got into an argument. At some point I mentioned looking at, say, rack...	my wife says I'm lying when I try and go back an rephrase myself, and she thinks I'm lying when I say I don't get turned on by other girls.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My [20F] girlfriend wants to wait until marriage with me [24M] POST: So we met about 4 months ago, things went perfect for a month, we've been up and downhill a lot since then. Various reasons none related to sex. Actually rarely comes up. We've gotten close a few times but she...	Girlfriend of 4 months doesn't put out, far from doing that, wants marriage first, far off that, is there a way to communicate and get a sexual feeling close, or is it worth just ending?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: NSFW My (26F) sex drive has plummeted. My boyfriend (33M) thinks it's about him but it's not POST: For the purpose of storytelling, I will christen him with the fake name Josh and I will try and keep this short! Sorry for the content I am talking about, but I really could use s...	I used to want and have lots of sex, now I want none. Boyfriend blames himself but it is all on me and my inability to relax and let myself be touched<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: should I pretend that I'm gay to get ahead in life? POST: here's a backstory, I'm anti social and don't really have much of healthy circle, most of my friends are my loser childhood or school friends that I only keep because I don't know how to meet better people. FF to tinder, I started u...	the male matches on tinder are people I would love to be friends, I'm considering just pretending to be gay or bi.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [19m] demanding too much from my [19f] SO of 11 months? POST: Background - I'm highly unromantic(my SO has mentioned that she is okay with this) and staying in army on weekdays. SO is in uni year 1. We only meet each other on weekends for usual couple stuff like dates. SO has ...	I feel my so is being too close with another guy and am asking her to keep a distance. Is it too much to ask for?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: What would you do in this situation? Is it even worth bringing up? POST: I just started a brand new job, and it was my first day. It was slow and I was socializing with my coworker, who was the only other person there at that time. We talked about music and college and all this different st...	My coworker invited me to a party and now is ignoring me about it. It just hurt my feelings and I don't know if I should tell him anything, or if it's worth saying anything at all.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (M 22) new girlfriend (F 19) may be a really bad tipper. Is this worth bringing up? POST: Maybe this is a relatively small issue, but I've been dating this girl for a couple months, and so far I've pretty much always paid when we went out to eat, but tonight she wanted to take me ...	girlfriend paid for dinner but left a really bad tip, should I talk to her about it or just let it go.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by buying plane tickets online and having them sent to my Gmail. I am furious! POST: I have been trying to plan a special birthday for my mom and have been saving for a while. She is turning 60 soon. I work a lot and I try to plan times to spend time with her when our schedules allow. I ...	Google potentially ruined my mom's 60th birthday by posting flight information sent to me in an email to my shared Google calendar with out my permission.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By Accidentally Watching a Satanist Video in a Prayer Room While Someone Was Praying POST: As you all know finals for many universities are next week including mine so me and a friend decided to do some studying. All of the rooms at my university were PACKED except one room at the top fl...	We played a YouTube video in an empty classroom which was actually a prayer room, and somebody came into pray right when "HAIL Satan" came out my friends laptop.<\|endoftext\|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my friend [19 F] are in some sort of friendship, romantic relationship, I'm very confused. POST: So i am working at a camp for the summer and I met this girl (19) who is amazing, we are very similar and being with her is very easy. We've been talking for about a month ...	Met this girl at camp, we like each other but dont want to date, she keeps distancing her self from me even when she likes me, what do i do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20M] was dumped by my [20 F] of 1yr, 'future over you', advice please? POST: We spend a whole year long distance, and I fell hard for this girl when I first met her. She is my age, Italian, and has big blue eyes and olive skin. So when I met her last summer, I figured that the wor...	My girlfriend dumped me for her future. Any of you guys have advice for if I should hold out for her? Or just talk to me about it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Fell in love with a married man, what do I do now? POST: We met a year ago while he was on travel for work. After quite a few drinks we end up making out and I went back to his hotel room. Both of us expected nothing more than a one night hook up considering we live two thousan...	I've been carrying on a long distance relationship with a married man for a year now. I didn't know he wasn't separated until recently. Do I cut things off now that I know?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18 M] My friend [19 FtM] friend from elementary school is inviting herself into my life and I'm too nice to tell them I don't want to be their friend? POST: Ok so in 4th-6th grade I had a small group of close friends, 6 of us. One of them was a girl I frequently fought with but alwa...	elementary school friend who was a girl wants to be friends again now as a guy, but the problem is I don't want to be friends with any of my elementary/middle school friends....<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[20F] friend[19 M] wants to move our friendship into a relationship but I keep thinking of him as way younger than me. POST: Basically my friend has admitted to wanting to move to a relationship and I like him as well but his age is bothering me. To brief it down majority of my fr...	Friend wants to date me, I keep picturing him as way younger than me as a result of letting myself think that I'm way older than I actually am.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By answering an EX's phone call POST: So tonight i was hanging out playing some video games late night when i noticed my phone ringing and it was my Ex of a long term relationship in which I was the person being left. At first i was seriously hung up and completely crushed, having a long...	Ex from long term relationship called, trashed our old relationship blocked me out of life. Currently crying self to sleep. GG reddit. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20 M] am in love with my best friend [20 F] and it's making me incredibly depressed. POST: I've been indescribably close to this girl since I was 15. I'm closer to her than anybody else. I value our relationship more than anything else however I can't help but have very strong fee...	I'm in love with my best friend and she might not feel the same way but keeping it a secret is making my life hell. What do I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Why would my ex-fiance [30 M] continue texting me [29 F] when I try to stop after he said we can't be together? POST: My fiance and I were engaged for 1.5 years. I had moved away for work, as we were both struggling but making it work. He blames himself partly for what happened next,...	I cheated on ex fiance four years ago. We talk occasionally. I try to cut conversations short, and he either keeps them going or, worse, gets flirty. Why does he do that?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Break because of distance, looking for suggestions POST: so my girlfriend and I are soon to be apart. I am travelling abroad and she is still at the college where we met. She has been back for a month or so now and i have seen her frequently through that time period, but in less than...	we will be apart for a little over four months, and we're limiting our communications and separating ourselves from one another for the time. any advice would be appreciated<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 F] BF [23 M] of 1 year, gently hinted he would appreciate freebie mistakes/sexual throwaways for the time-being...we are currently long distance. POST: basically, to him having sex with someone he is very into and who he cares about is very different from just getting a releas...	im definitely not considering being occasionally open in our long distance relationship BUT i am still worried that the implied desire for one from my boyfriend is a giant red flag that i am choosing to not see. let me know what you think.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Is bankruptcy something I should consider? Living abroad with debts in the USA. POST: I know I am in a bad situation and only have myself to blame for it. It's too late for what I should have done. All I can do is figure out where to go from here. Had a string of bad luck and ke...	lost job and had other downfalls that lead to serious debt. Living in Europe now but would still like to take care of my debts. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [25M] My FWB [22F] says no more sex because she has a BF now but she still wants groping. Can someone explain this logic POST: We have been FWB for a little over a year now. A month ago she meets a guy through an online dating website, and about a week ago she tells me that she doesn...	FWB wants me to grope her but doesnt want sex because she feels that its wrong while shes in a relationship and I am extremly confused by this.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Gift tax (US to EU) or (US in US) help POST: My dad passed away a while back and it was always agreed between him and my uncle (verbally) that when he passed the sale of the house would go to me. This came out to about 200k USD. However now that I'm living away from the US and th...	Dual Citizen, living in Ireland. Father passed away and via verbal agreement with his brother I'm to get half the sale of the house he lived in. My concerns?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [24 M] tinder match my sister's FRIEND [21 F]. Would she keep thing's between us? POST: (Updated title) --- My sister has one friend who is attractive. I met her years ago but she was too young then so i didnt pay attention to her. Its been a few years since I first saw her...	Do you think she would be into it if i casually contacted her? (Only way I can think is through tinder)<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I met a guy from okc last week and am unsure of his intentions. POST: throwaway account. I had an opportunity to meet this awesome guy while I was in the city. (i'm from a small town) and i'm going to be straightforward, we had sex literally right after we met. He is a super s...	Met a guy online, fucked, went on a date, felt a connection & still keep in touch. How do I ask what his intentions are?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: This last week I've [M/32] started courting a girl [F/22] long-distance that I met on Reddit. Not sure what I'm doing or how to proceed. Very new at this.. POST: Hi there. I'm currently courting a girl long-distance that I met here on Reddit one week ago. It will be strictly an...	New to dating online-only, need advice on how to steer conversation with someone over IMs/SMS. Also complicated by DD/lg nature of relationship. Thoughts/advice?!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/GetMotivated TITLE: A quick thank you to this subreddit and an update on my progress. POST: A very sincere thank you from the bottom of my heart, wolves. I started law school this year and fucked up really badly on my first semester's exams. I was totally confused on how to write well and despite my bes...	My exam writing sucked before but now it's good thanks to the motivation from this subreddit and good old fashioned hard work.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] and my (ex-)girlfirend [18 F] of four years recently broke up, things are not going well. POST: Hi guys, first post so forigve me my mistakes. Here is the story: Me and my long term girlfriend of four years (me 18 and male, she 18 and female) just broke up, I was the one ...	Just broke up with long term girlfriend who has totally changed and does things that appear to be a-natural for her and hurt me, big time.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [15M] with my friend [16F] of 1 year, lied to me about something small and I don't know what to do. POST: So, my friend texted me last night asking me a question. She's really into horses and wanted to know if I liked a photo that she took of her horse in a Halloween costume(she t...	My friend sent me pictures of a costume for her horse that she claimed was her's. I found the exact same pictures online from three years ago.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by spilling grease on my boss. POST: >I'm not that good at story telling, and the whole thing happened and resolved pretty fast. Here's the story. This takes place about a year or so ago. I was at work at a fast food restaurant, trying to move two large buckets of fryer-oil at once to ...	I almost got fired for spilling fryer-oil on my boss, but she realized it wasn't a prank and forgave my fuckup.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 F] with my boyfriend [26 M] of 2.5 years-I'm a depression sufferer and he has adhd. Perfect storm of diagnoses for dramatic and painful issues. Help/ experience with couples therapy? POST: There are many resources for being in partnerships with depression and having a partner ...	I am depressed and he has adhd. Perfect storm. Anyone with experience with this kind if relationship or generally with couples therapy?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: The day has come. Your post has just made front page of reddit. How do you commemorate your achievement? (if you care about that kinda stuff) POST: I'll start. I've only had a reddit account for a short time but I've been a long time lurker. I always put off making an account cause I o...	Screenshot of the front page. Xbox achievement unlocked icon below the screen shot. Then print out a 36x24 poster to hang up on my wall<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27 M] relationship of 5+ years with my GF [27 F] just ended, should I worry about moving for work? POST: I've posted around about the end of my relationship, and I really appreciate all of the help that I've been getting. Long story short, I found out very recently that my GF of...	My 5+ year relationship just ended. Should I worry about moving to someplace where I don't know anyone in order to find a decent job?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21F] addiction to kpop is destroying a 3 year relationship. [22M] POST: I tried to post this to /r/kpop and was directed here instead. I tend to lurk more than post, so please bear with me for any mistakes I may make in formatting. I've been a die hard fan of kpop for a few yea...	I'm addicted to kpop, in a way I know I shouldn't be, and keep lying about it. I feel like I can't get out, and it's destroying my relationship.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I know there are a million threads like this but mine is slightly different...I will be buying a laptop soon...PC or Mac? POST: I have used Windows my entire life and I am completely self taught on how to do everything computer related so I do some things in what might be considered unco...	I've always used windows. Curious about macs. Need new laptop for college. $1500 max budget. What do you suggest?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it ok for your friend to tell your current SO how your past relationship ended (23, 1.5yrs) POST: I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half and just the other day my friend was talking to my girlfriend and told her how my last relationship ended. Now, my girlfri...	My friend told my current gf (23, F, dating 1.5yrs) about my past mistakes with a previous gf. I feel like it might have damaged our trust. Did my friend do the right thing?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My brother [30M] threatens me [20F] POST: My brother has never physically hurt me or anyone in my family. He is not an alchoholic and he does not do drugs or any of that kind of stuff - to the best of my knowledge. He was also a star student. But, he threatens me when he is upset. He...	My brother threatens to hurt/kill me when upset, but has never acted on his threats. Should I be worried?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26M] with my SO [25F] of 2 years, is having second thoughts of moving in together. POST: I have been with my girlfriend for two years this summer. We decided a couple months ago that once our leases were up at the end of this summer we would move in together. We typically spend a...	Girlfriend of going on two years was excited about moving in together and now told me last night that she is having doubts.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my boyfriend [29M] 4 years, used to be steamy, now it's just awkward? POST: We've been dating for 4 years and living together for 1. Prior to living together, we would have a lot of steamy texting (and phone) conversations. We'd share pictures, fantasies, role-play, t...	We used to sext and share fantasies all the time prior to living together. Now when I try, he shuts it down immediately. What is wrong? How can we fix this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] with my live in boyfriend/son's father [37M] of 2 years, angry and distant, found needles POST: My live in boyfriend and father of our son has been angry and throwing things recently. He never throws things directly at us however. I've suspected he's been depressed and I set...	Live in boyfriend and father of my son is angry and distant. He throws things, leaves house unexpectedly, rarely interacts, and I found needles of unknown use in home. What would you do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Continually drawn to toxic friendships... WHY? (Updated post) POST: Here's a link to my first post to provide a bit of background to what I'm talking about: I think at some point in everyone's lives people find themselves in some sort of toxic, unhealthy friendship. For whatever re...	Reddit, how can I get better at realizing 'no company is better than poor company'? And why am I continually drawn to these types of relationships with other females?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (22m) and my girlfriend (23f) both suffer mental illnesses. I know that I do not want to marry, have kids. How can I break it off? POST: I've been dating a girl, let's call her Ashley, for just about two months now. She's funny, nice, fairly attractive. We have similar interests an...	due to my personal beliefs and shared mental illnesses I cannot stay with my girlfriend. What is the best way to break it off?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [M20] visit her [F19] at uni? POST: Hi all, just wanted to make a quick post about something that's been bugging me for a while. During this summer, I happened to meet a girl that lives in the same area as me whilst I was back home, visiting my family during the summer. We g...	should i go visit the girl i'm seeing (dated for 2 months) at uni as requested by her or should I just let her enjoy herself? Worried that she'll resent my presence if i visit<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20M) am hesitant about asking out a female friend (20F) POST: Hope it doesn't end up being a wall of text, but here goes. I've known this girl for well over a year now. I've liked her quite a lot during this time, but had gotten over her after somewhat of a breakdown in communica...	Thinking of asking out a female friend I've rekindled a friendship with for my own sanity's sake. Would like to know what are the chances of staying friends if she says no.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what kind of deodorant/antidepressant do you use? POST: Friends, I am dying here. I wear deodorant/antiperspirant every single day, yet I am sitting here dripping like Niagara Falls (Canadian side). Its so vexing that I would rather hear voices in my head telling me to do sin...	I sweat like a motherfucker even with deodorant/antidepressant on. What kind of stuff can I use to stop this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24 F] just broke up with my BF [30 M], I'm alone and anxious, please help POST: I've been crazy in love with this man for nine months. It was intense, intimate, and I went way too fast emotionally and started fantasizing about a life together. I have generalized anxiety, and my s...	I have generalized anxiety and I broke up with my boyfriend, who I loved, who had severe depression. I'm so lonely and scared, please help. I'm already in therapy.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (m25) am in love and have been with her (f25) for 9 months. I'm starting to feel like she isn't in love with me anymore. Anything I can do? POST: So my girlfriend and I are in a very loving relationship. I love her. She loves me. I am there for her all the time. We do awesome thing...	we love each other but I don't think she's in love with me anymore. Anything I can do to respark that love? Is it even possible?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20 F) snooped through the guy I'm seeings (22 M) meds this weekend - don't know what to do with what I found out POST: For the past two months I've been semi-dating this guy I know from school whose living in my city for the summer. It's been a semi stressful experience for me bec...	Did a shitty thing, found out the guy I'm seeing is on antidepressants - he doesn't know I know. Now what?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My grandma, who was abusive to my mom, is trying to start a relationship with me. POST: I decided a long time ago that I don't want hurtful/abusive people in my life, whether they are related to me or not. So I've not really made much of an attempt to have a relationship with her. She re...	my grandma was a child abuser to my mom, but wants to form relationship with me. I feel guilty rejecting an old lady.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: People who work 50+ hours a week should not have a such a hard time paying their bills POST: I AM SO FRUSTRATED. I work two jobs, one of which I just started this past month and the other is being a full time graduate student. Over the summer, my "pay" for being a graduate assistant is ...	I work many hours and I'm facing a gap in pay periods and the moment which puts me at risk of not being able to pay rent.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [28 F] don't think I can live with my husband's [29 M] lack of household chores anymore. POST: I love my husband, but I'm not sure I want to live with him anymore. We have been together for just shy of 6 years. We've been married for 2.5 years. I've tried everything I can think o...	My husband doesn't seem to do household chores without direct requests on the day. If this is the only way he can do chores, I think I'd rather be single.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 27M with my FWB 25F of a month, we agreed to date but she still uses tinder POST: I met a girl on tinder and we have been hanging out for about a month and a half now. She has always been saying that she really likes me and wants to date me. But I always told her that I was not em...	Started dating my FWB. Found her using tinder while she thought I was sleeping. Is that a redflag?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M/17] find myself irritated by girlfriend's [F/17] obsessions and gay fanfictions. It's irrational and I hate it. Help? POST: We've been together for about 4 years now, and for the last 3 she has been swapping between obsessions, starting with Yu-Gi-Oh and Merlin, and most recentl...	Girlfriend is typical teen girl on tumblr with fan girl obsessions over TV shows and their stars, and gay ships, and it bothers the fuck out of me and I want to stop being such an ass.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] have been with my gf [23 F] for almost 2 years, but am starting to have feelings for another girl (22 F). What should I do? POST: Ok, so I have been with my gf for almost 2 years. We live together, I know some may say that is to soon, (irrelevant, with a separate story). Bu...	I have a gf of two years. Started to have feelings for another girl after we spent some time together and held hands. I would never cheat. What should I do?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my GF [23 F] duration = 3 Months, Any chance we'll get back together? POST: So I saw my ex for about 3 months. Not very long and I should really be over it. I don't date very often though (I'm pretty choosy and don't get out enough) so it takes me longer to get over re...	GF of 3 months broke up with me to get back with a guy who had previously told her "I don't want monogamy or a girlfriend". Do you think she will come back to me after their relationship (likely) ends?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [M 19, F 22] Past 2nd Date and no physical contact AT ALL POST: So if you've read my previous posts, you already know the story. For everybody else, here's a quick conclusion: --- I've met a girl at my university who seems to be quite shy (I myself am aswell) and I asked her out fo...	I am dating a girl and we haven't had any physical contact yet, which creates a lot of distance between us.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: Dog running away, unsure of how to handle it. POST: Sorry in advance for the lengthy post! My parents and I are taking care of my sister's dog for a year. He (the dog) is a small poodle/shih tzu/something mix, around 7 years old. My sister has been extremely lenient/lacking in ability ...	My family and I are taking care of a energetic dog for an extended amount of time who has developed troublesome habits with his owner. our biggest problem is that he likes to occasionally run away. What are ways to deal with this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I have a cat-related problem. Should I keep trying to tough it out or will he be happier elsewhere? POST: Just hoping to get some advice from strangers on the internet because I can't make a decision about this. My cat whom I've had and loved for the past 3+ years will throw a tantrum e...	My cat pukes and pisses on my things every fews months for years now. Due to health and school stresses, I can't keep up anymore.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] beat up my [25M] boyfriend for the third or fourth time. POST: Like the title said I have hit my boyfriend for the third or fourth time. He always forgives me usually because I sob uncontrollably after. Of course like every abuser I tell him that I love him, and that I will n...	I [21F] beat the shit out of my boyfriend whenever he sucks at being my boyfriend. Unsure of what to do next. <\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by drying off with a towel covered in fire ants. (NSFW) POST: This happened two days ago. I am an ESL teacher in Thailand. I live in a small studio apartment. I had just left school, and I was in my apartment, trimming my head with some clippers. I finished cutting my hair and hopped in ...	Grabbed a towel that was covered in fire ants, dried off and got bit all over the privates by ants. Put tiger balm on the bites on my privates, and that only introduced a new type of pain.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29/F] recognize my patterns. I tend to date people who aren't 100% in it from the beginning. This causes a vicious cycle of miscommunication, projection of insecurities, trying to find validation in the wrong places. Does anybody else feel this way and/or have successfully broken t...	Trying to make a circle fit into a square only brings me heartache and depression. Any advice on breaking these patterns?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[25F] having trouble finding people I find attractive who don't JUST want to jump straight in the sack. POST: I have just gotten out of a relationship, I feel a bit burnt as he used to stray a bit during our 5 year relationship. Now I am finding it so difficult to find someone who ...	Want to know if I am being a sexual prude when it comes to early dating and therefore dampening my chances at finding someone!<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: Convincing Recruiter I Can Do "Senior" Job, Without 5 Years Exp POST: There is an internal job that I have a phone interview for that has "senior" in the title. It's one pay grade above me and requires 5 years of experience. I have 4. What is the best way to convince the recruiter I'm go...	I have a phone interview for a job opening that requires 5 years of experience, when I only have 4. What is the best way I can convince the recruiter I have what it takes?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] feelings for my lesbian friend [21F] POST: Unfortunately this is my first Reddit post so the format of this post may be off. Well, I seem to have placed myself in an awkward position. I work with this girl and the first time we talked, when we first started working together...	I have strong feelings for my lesbian friend. We hooked up at a party but now I am unclear where things are headed between us. We talk but avoid talking about that night. I can only hope she doesnt use reddit.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23F] FWB?? [23M] stopped speaking to me; I don't know where I messed up. POST: So for the last month or so I have been seeing a new guy that I met through online dating. We hit it off right away and our first date lasted for hours, with us just talking and laughing. During the ...	Been seeing someone for a month. We've gone on a few great dates, but haven't heard from him since the last one. Confused about what could have happened.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I overreacting? POST: I (17) have been dating this girl (17) for 3 months now. We were friends before for 3 years and always liked each other in a special way but never done anything about it. In those 3 years, we had a period where we didn't speak as often and she got a new group...	My girlfriend is letting her best friend who used to be in love with her stay over. I'm extremely jealous and angry. Am i being paranoid?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by changing my fuel filter by myself. POST: I'm a DIY kinda guy. I would rather research a topic for weeks and buy the necessary tools in order to do it myself, rather than pay somebody else to do it for me. After a little research on changing my fuel filter, I figured it could be that ...	Trapped under my car. Had a solo cup of gasoline held over my face. The cup eroded away spilling gas all over me.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24F] have a serious chemistry with my TA [25M] and don't know what to do about it. POST: As the title says I really click well with my Physics TA. I've only felt this chemistry before with two other guys both of which I had long term relationships with. The reason I'm so intrigued...	My physics TA and I have serious chemistry and I want to know what appropriate options I have now to get to know him better (if any at all). Also what to do once the semester ends.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: The person I [22F] am dating [21M] is depressed but so am I POST: Okay so here's a little background information: We started dating the spring of 2014 but I moved to Florida in the summer and we did the long distance thing until January 2015. It was hard on him because he is pretty ...	My ex boyfriend and I are both struggling with anxiety and depression. Am I awful for wanting a break? Would a break do more harm than good?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[18M] am unsure how to approach this situation with my ex[17M] POST: Using a throwaway, this is all quite secret and my friends know my account name Me and my ex-girlfriend dated for two and a half years, ending things about nine months ago. We faded in and out of talking for eig...	ex and i talked about getting back together in a complicated situation where she has feelings for another guy, I have no idea what to do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M/F] with my ex girlfriend [20 M/F] of 2 years, civil but confusing breakup POST: Almost 6 weeks ago, my ex is texting me while I'm at a friends birthday party. She tells me that she wants to talk to me in person and I know something is wrong immediately. I'm drinking, so I'm ...	Ex broke up with me and said a lot of things that may or may not be false hope. I know that I need to move on and heal, but what do you make of what she said?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28/F] with my new boyfriend [32 M] 2 months. He doesn't want to take me on dates! POST: Every date we've been on has been something I've picked or planned. At first I gave him the benefit of the doubt since he's new to this city and figured he wanted to get to know me better by ...	My new boyfriend was quick to get serious without wooing me first. Now I feel a bit taken for granted.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Will it be an asshole move if I cut off a childhood friend who has gotten amazingly annoying? POST: This is my childhood friends and since recently he has emerged back into the social scene after moving back to our hometown area. The problem is that, like almost everyone, I dont like pe...	friend has gotten really annoying as he talks about how hes the future 'shit' in the .com industry. Is it okay to cut him off or tell him that this isnt a healthy conversation?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22/f] I kissed someone while unofficially dating [21/m] someone else. Is okay to let this one slide? POST: I have been "with" someone (we'll call him Joe) since the beginning of the semester, although we agreed a while back that we weren't looking to be in a relationship. As t...	Made out with a friend of the guy that I'm "seeing" but not in an official relationship with, am wondering if it's okay to allow this mistake.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (21/F) really don't care for sports and my (21/M) boyfriend loves them to the extreme. How to proceed so that I can be true to myself and supportive of him? POST: This might be a stupid question. We've been dating 2 years and I'm having trouble reconciling what is the best co...	My boyfriend really loves sports and I really could not care less, how to reconcile this? Also concerned about his very strong emotional ties to said sports...just want to check with some men that his irrationality is normal.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by being overboard POST: So, I met this girl a couple days ago. She's pretty awesome. I was instantly interested in her, and after a while I asked her out on a coffee, to which, she said yes! It is Valentine's Day, so I thought it was a good time to schedule a date. I texted her, she re...	I gave a fucking bouquet to a girl for Valentine's to the girl I just met. Ensuring that I come off as a creep.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] with my guy friend [18 M] 6 months, Should I tell a guy that I like him? and How? POST: I have a guy friend and I really like him but I don't know whether he likes me or not. He is one of those people that is really difficult to read and don't know where he stands on the sub...	I like my guy friend but he is really hard to read. Should I tell him that I like him or not.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: How do I feel that I "fit in" more at Professional School? Or make new friends in a new city? POST: Professional school is pretty much if you took all the nerds and let them set up their own social hierarchy, which is very similar to high school. I hear my 28 y/o classmates talking about wh...	So if you guys would suggest any ways to find real friends at professional school or even external to my school I'd love that.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [19/m] Needs some advice on talking to this girl (18/f) POST: I need some advice on how i should go about talking to this girl. I guess you could say I've known her for a couple years, but only through a few classes in high school. I have no idea if she's interested in me, but there'...	Wanna talk to this girl, i don't see her in person at all anymore, need good way to start talking to her that isn't too forward/weird.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My (18f) boyfriend (19f) always plays video games around me POST: We've been together for over a year. I commute to college, and do a lot of homework at his house during the day (I stay at his house due to issues at home). He works until about 6. When he gets home, I ask questi...	Boyfriend only seems interested in playing video games, even when I'm around. I've talked to him about it, he rolls his eyes, gets mad, and nothing changes.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18M] ending 2.5 years with my girlfriend[18F]. Okay Reddit, I listened to you and I'll do it. But how do I end on good terms? POST: Okay. I slept on it and you guys are right. I need to end this. But how do I end on good terms? Last Nights Thread: Right now we aren't on good te...	Posted last night and have decided to end on good terms, however we are not at a good spot at the current moment. How should I approach this?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [23F] can't help but feel jealous when bf [23M] games with my best friend [23F]. Am I overreacting? POST: My boyfriend [23M], let's call him Jake, and I [23F] have been together for 2 years, and I'm really happy with our relationship. We're also both really close with my best friend ...	Boyfriend spends considerable amount of time gaming over Skype with my best friend, and I'm resentful that she gets to "hang out" with him more than I do.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How can I [23 F] not be threatened by my boyfriend's [25 M] intelligence? POST: My boyfriend and his college friends all had a reunion last night, and he brought me along. I knew my boyfriend was smart but...jeez, this was at a whole new level. My boyfriend's an engineer who designs...	my boyfriend and his friends (his female friends specifically) are really smart and im afraid he finds me dumb and unstimulating<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Is weight loss really as simple as CICO?? POST: Hey all, I've been lurking this sub for a while and subscribing to the CICO methodology. It seems like pretty straightforward science, but with the recent NYT debate I've read differing opinions elsewhere I can't reason away. Is anyone fam...	Any thoughts about eating more food - healthy foods - vs strictly reducing calories, to maintain metabolism and gradually lose weight?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Me [27/M] with my Wife [27/F] of 4 years: Crushes on mutual friends POST: I have had an off/on crush with another woman, aged 33. My wife and I are very understanding when it comes to this sort of thing and she is even aware of the situation -- though perhaps not the severity. ...	Can't get woman out of my head -- we are close friends, don't exactly want that to change. Situation is really not that bad considering all relevant parties are informed.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with my boyfriend [20M] of a year broke up, both not sure we made the right call. POST: Me and my boyfriend had been dating just over a year when we ended it a couple days ago. It was mutual, but still it's sucked a lot. We broke up because we both wanted to be more indepen...	Me and my boyfriend had a mutual break up because we wanted more independence, now not sure if we made the right decision.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27M] with my gf [26F] 2 month. Dating a girl who was sexually assaulted and fell into coke addiction which I just found out. POST: I started dating this girl few month ago she's really attractive but seemed a lil crazy at the time but I kinda just over looked it. We hit off quit ...	just found out the girl I thought is from my dream is a junkie because she was raped multiple times. Should I continue the relationship or cut the cord? not sure what to think right now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (22F) over-analysing a fwb situation with a (23m), need someone to rationalise my thoughts POST: Hey, any advice or general thoughts on this would be useful! I entered a FWB scenario a little while ago with someone I kind of know but I wouldn't really consider us good friends. ...	FWB housemate added me on FB and I don't know whether or not to accept the request because I feel weird being friends with his friend and not him...<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: He [33M] wants to move in together, I [27F] want to know he loves me. POST: Hi r/relationships! Using a throwaway, thanks in advance for reading. I'll keep this short: We met almost a year ago and instantly clicked, but for practical/timing reasons, he put off making things serious ...	boyfriend and I want to move in together but I'm too scared because he can't say "I Love You." Am I being wise or unreasonable?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Awkward feelings about my girlfriend.. POST: Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for a few months now but only really became exclusive. We're both 17, and she's an awesome girl and totally gorgeous, but last weekend we were fooling around and about half way through...	My girlfriend stopped the first sexual contact between us as she felt weird and doesn't seem to think of it as a big problem. How do I make her realize how un-wanted it made me feel?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend [21M] of 1.5yrs is having stress problems and i feel as if he hates me [20F] and doesn't want to talk, he has family and trust issues, how do i convince him it's ok to talk to me? POST: So my boyfriend has a huge life changing audition about a month from now that could real...	boyfriend has serious trust issues and won't allow me to help him in his times of stress. How do i let him know he can rely on me?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I'm quite attractive, 30ish, sexually adventurous, but keep not stumbling upon threesomes at the grocery store. How do I go about creating more adventure? POST: There are many things I would like to do and totally would do if the situations presented themselves. But every time I go for a...	So, how do I find normal, attractive, healthy people to fool around with? How do I get up the nerve to do it? Does it actually get easier with experience? How do I care less about their personalities?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (26F) and SO (33M) are getting a roommate. (26F) POST: I'd like to start off by saying they work together, but they're independent contractors and the fact that it isn't going to piss off anyone there. There isn't even "HR" there. I'm really not comfortable sharing anymore details...	SO and I are getting a roommate for the first time. I don't even know what to expect from living with a woman. Please help.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26M] am bothered by her [25F] casual views on sex POST: I've been with my girlfriend now for four months and have recently learned a bit more about her sexual history/past relationships. She recently revealed that she has had casual sex with almost all (10+) of her close male fri...	My girlfriend revealed that she has had casual sex with 10+ of her male friends that she still hangs out with. Not sure if I'm rightly bothered or if I should get over it<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How I do it? POST: I want to hook my cousin up with my 'best-friend'. Coincidentally, I've had serious feelings for my 'best-friend' in the past but because I've been let down so many times I officially gave up on her recently. My cousin knows that I was crazy about her. When I was crazy...	Girl I loved wants to hook up with my cousin. Cousin knows I loved her. How would cousin feel if I tried to hook them up?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU and left my phone on the bus POST: I actually left the phone on the bus on Saturday. I took the bus home after work and must have set my phone on the seat and forgot about it. I went to bed shortly after coming home and the next morning I spent about two hours tearing my house apart to f...	I left my phone on a public bus and someone was kind enough to turn it in but I have to ride the bus for two hours tomorrow to get it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by breaking my dad's bed with my man hands POST: First post in TIFU, i have been enjoying this subreddit greatly, but now its my turn So i'm pretty big for a student in middle school, i am known in the family for my temper, and my continuous A+ report cards. One day i came back home tir...	TIFU by breaking my fathers bed which is made of metal and wood with my man hands, was not grounded , what i'm feeling is shame now.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25F) sent my boyfriend of 2 years (31M) nude pics, and one of the first things he asks me is who else I sent them to first. This is a red flag, right? POST: My ex used to think I was cheating on him, but actually he was cheating on me. So this worries me. I haven't sent him pics i...	I sent my boyfriend nude pics and the second thing he asks me is who else I sent them to. This isn't cool, right?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [19/m] My ex-girlfriend(19/f) is trying to talk to one of my friends. I have nothing against that, and he's not trying to do it to hurt me, but she is borderline crazy. Do I try to tell him? Or should I let them be? POST: So my ex of several months and I have been broken up f...	Borderline-crazy ex girlfriend is trying to make a move on a friend of mine. I want to save him the pain of dealing with a bitch, do I step in?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25F] found out SO [25M] had been with multiple pre-ops and can't get past this. Please help. POST: I found out via email strings my SO had sought out pre-op trans via craigslist in the past. We have been together about 2 years and all the craigslist stuff happened about 6 months b...	Found out SO had been with multiple pre op trans he found on Craiglist in the past, need help getting past it.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I hooked up with my ex, who told me that he was in an open relationship. The next morning, it turns out that was a lie. Now he wants to tell his girl... POST: My ex and I are in the same circle of friends, and the girlfriend is an acquaintance, which complicates things. He and I are bot...	Ex lied to me and told me he was in open relationship, now wants to disclose one-night-stand to his current gf, and I don't want to deal. What are my options? Do I have any?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] and my wife [25 F] of 8 months argue fairly often. Had another last night, ended in tears and doubts. POST: Apologizing in advance for this post, it's probably going to be messy. Last night my wife and I got into an argument. At some point I mentioned looking at, say, rack...	my wife says I'm lying when I try and go back an rephrase myself, and she thinks I'm lying when I say I don't get turned on by other girls.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My [20F] girlfriend wants to wait until marriage with me [24M] POST: So we met about 4 months ago, things went perfect for a month, we've been up and downhill a lot since then. Various reasons none related to sex. Actually rarely comes up. We've gotten close a few times but she...	Girlfriend of 4 months doesn't put out, far from doing that, wants marriage first, far off that, is there a way to communicate and get a sexual feeling close, or is it worth just ending?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: NSFW My (26F) sex drive has plummeted. My boyfriend (33M) thinks it's about him but it's not POST: For the purpose of storytelling, I will christen him with the fake name Josh and I will try and keep this short! Sorry for the content I am talking about, but I really could use s...	I used to want and have lots of sex, now I want none. Boyfriend blames himself but it is all on me and my inability to relax and let myself be touched<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: should I pretend that I'm gay to get ahead in life? POST: here's a backstory, I'm anti social and don't really have much of healthy circle, most of my friends are my loser childhood or school friends that I only keep because I don't know how to meet better people. FF to tinder, I started u...	the male matches on tinder are people I would love to be friends, I'm considering just pretending to be gay or bi.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [19m] demanding too much from my [19f] SO of 11 months? POST: Background - I'm highly unromantic(my SO has mentioned that she is okay with this) and staying in army on weekdays. SO is in uni year 1. We only meet each other on weekends for usual couple stuff like dates. SO has ...	I feel my so is being too close with another guy and am asking her to keep a distance. Is it too much to ask for?<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: What would you do in this situation? Is it even worth bringing up? POST: I just started a brand new job, and it was my first day. It was slow and I was socializing with my coworker, who was the only other person there at that time. We talked about music and college and all this different st...	My coworker invited me to a party and now is ignoring me about it. It just hurt my feelings and I don't know if I should tell him anything, or if it's worth saying anything at all.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (M 22) new girlfriend (F 19) may be a really bad tipper. Is this worth bringing up? POST: Maybe this is a relatively small issue, but I've been dating this girl for a couple months, and so far I've pretty much always paid when we went out to eat, but tonight she wanted to take me ...	girlfriend paid for dinner but left a really bad tip, should I talk to her about it or just let it go.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by buying plane tickets online and having them sent to my Gmail. I am furious! POST: I have been trying to plan a special birthday for my mom and have been saving for a while. She is turning 60 soon. I work a lot and I try to plan times to spend time with her when our schedules allow. I ...	Google potentially ruined my mom's 60th birthday by posting flight information sent to me in an email to my shared Google calendar with out my permission.<\|endoftext\|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By Accidentally Watching a Satanist Video in a Prayer Room While Someone Was Praying POST: As you all know finals for many universities are next week including mine so me and a friend decided to do some studying. All of the rooms at my university were PACKED except one room at the top fl...	We played a YouTube video in an empty classroom which was actually a prayer room, and somebody came into pray right when "HAIL Satan" came out my friends laptop.<\|endoftext\|>