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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I can't handle the stress anymore. POST: Before I explain, let me preface by saying I'm in the 10th grade but stuff is overwhelming right now. My parents are the main problem. I know most teens find their parents to be a "problem", but they truly are what is keeping me down. Everyday I...
All I do is work on assignments, study, and nothing else or I'll fail. When I do poorly on something, even though my parents say everything is okay if I try, they still yell at me. Life sucks.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: i think this girl is trying to steal my bf... POST: i'm 24/f my bf is 21/m. he and i met about 5 months ago and things have been nothing short of amazing. recently, he met this girl that i kind of knew for a while and although she knows we are together, she has been incredibly flirta...
i think this girl who just wants a fling or something is trying to steal my bf whom i love away from me<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29F] am getting married soon... It's hitting me lately that I will never have sex with anyone else ever again!! POST: I'm getting married in six months, and for the most part I'm really excited. But... OMG... Is it normal to sort of freak out when you realize you will NEVER hav...
Wedding is getting closer, it's suddenly really dawning on me that I will never have sex with anyone else ever again, I'm okay with it for the most part I think but my hormones are going crazy<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M] with my [25 F] 5 years, The guy who my GF cheated on me with will be attending a funeral I'm attending. POST:.....Go easy on me reddit. This is my first post on this sub. So my gf cheated on me early on in the relationship, about 1 year in, because I was neglecting her at ...
Found out the guy who my gf cheated on me with will be attending the same funeral as me for my gf's dead sister. Don't know if I should bail.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22M] can't get past thoughts of my SO [22F] of 1 month and her recent ex. It's messing with my head quite a bit. POST: Met a girl, got to know her, really liked her and eventually learned she had a boyfriend. We stayed close over the course of 4-5 months and eventually when she be...
Wanna try and get thoughts of my SO being with her ex out of my head. Can't stop reminding myself that only a few months ago she was intimate with someone else.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why do women want to talk to you when they broke up with you? POST: My girlfriend of about 3 years decided that she was no longer happy with being with me and informed me on Tuesday that she was breaking up with me. I have been through a couple of bouts with her going to a mental hospit...
Three year relationship with me being fully supportive of her anxiety ends on her behalf and she still wants to talk about it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19 F] girlfriend [20 F] doesn't want me to be friends with my ex [19 M], but I do POST: I have been dating my girlfriend for a little over two months now. Things are mostly great and I love her very much. The only problem is, she feels threatened by my ex-boyfriend. Background ...
After a long and hard break-up, my current gf feels threatened by my ex. Should I give up trying to stay friends with my ex or continue to have a relationship with him even though it makes my gf uncomfortable?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [24F] boyfriend [32M] of 3 months just had a call telling him that his mum has died. I have never experienced a close relative dying and am not sure how to react and how best to console him. POST: I am staying with my boyfriend, Adam, this weekend. He had a call less than an hour ...
Boyfriend's mother died within the last few hours. I have never lost someone so close to me and don't know what to do/say when he returns to make this easier on him.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17m] have feelings for both girl 1 and 2 [both 17f]. POST: I [17m] asked a girl [17f] I have been dating for two weeks to be my girlfriend. She said she didn't want a boyfriend. I took that to mean we weren't exclusive, but she just texted me saying she's been crying, and she doe...
This is the first time in my life that any girls have shown interest in me, I have no idea what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF (20) of two years is the most irresponsible person I have ever met, yet I (20m) still *think* shes the love of my life. POST: We have been dating for two years and she is everything I could ever ask for. We have the same interests, personalities, core beliefs, yet we are still ...
I have an amazing girlfriend who loves me and whom I love in return, but her irresponsibility is possibly a deal breaker.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [20M] of 4 months (seeing each other for a year). I am becoming "crazy girlfriend" and I want to stop. POST: Hi Reddit, A little background... My boyfriend and I dated when we were younger in school. We broke up for usual teenage relationship reasons and d...
I have a history of bad relationships and I am beginning to push my boyfriend away and fall into depression because I am frightened of being hurt<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is this the normal status quo for a relationship? POST: I'm currently almost two months down the road with my girlfriend (17), I'm 17 as well, and everything's been going well, or at least I think it has been. There's one issue that's been bothering me since about a month ago. So h...
One sided relationship -> Feel like I'm always the one pushing with no pull from girlfriend, not sure if she's uncomfortable or what.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: First big break up of 3 years. Advice? POST: So honestly im 14M in 9th grade so im still a young lad, My Ex 14F and i started dating in the 6th grade and it was the first relationship I've been in for the both of us, she was very depressed and sad and she said i helped her from cutti...
First big breakup of 3 years over summer, starting from 6th grade, Ex moved on easily and it hurts. Advice to cope?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What are your opinions on a first-time homeowner registry? POST: So, my fiance and I are buying a house. Because of school, work and the whole house thing, we have yet to throw an engagement party so we figured we'd just throw a combo engagement/housewarming party once we've moved everyt...
Would it be completely tacky to have a housewarming/engagement registry somewhere like Lowes or Home Depot to:<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] has never been in a relationship because I fear getting cheated on. POST: Bear with me Reddit, I'm 30 years old and never been in a relationship. I'm the oldest person I know that's never been in a relationship. I've had friends who have been cheated on and the aftermath o...
I'm 30 and have never been in a relationship. I think it's because of my mom cheating on my dad. Need advice.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [19M] make an effort to stabilize a friendship (with [18F]), or should I give her space and time? POST: I'll start out by saying that this situation stems from a failed attempt at entering into a relationship with a good friend. I've moved on from what happened about a month...
I don't know if I should put a lot of effort into fortifying a friendship where a failed relationship attempt was made. I want to stay friends, but don't know what the best course of action is.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I[22f] don't know if I completely ruined my chances with him [23m] and would love some advice! POST: Hey Reddit! Never posted here before, I think this is the appropriate place.. so basically, I'm 22, a virgin, never had a boyfriend and have only been on a couple dates. I've ...
I hooked up (but didn't have sex with) a guy I had met but was interested in dating. Should I text him, or do I not have any chance with him at all?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I am 18 years old and I would like to live on my own asap, what do I need to know? POST: I am currently living with my parent who are living with my dad's brother**(edit-my parents have bad credit right now which is a problem when trying to buy a house, but they are fine financially)**. ...
I want to know how to live on my own. I know I need a job but I also need help finding a job.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by calling 911 on a skunk POST: So I'm going for the prestigious life achievement of being 30 while living in my mother's basement. An inconvenience in my path to glory came this evening as I smelt what could be described as a skunky/burning rubbery smell in my manchild cave. My elde...
Called 911 on potential gas leak. Turned out to be skunk. I live in my mother's basement. Fuck yeah.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [22M] dating a girl [20F]. How do I stop being a shallow douchebag?! POST: I got out of a relationship about three months ago, with a girl that I found really attractive. She dumped me after a year because she fell out of love, shit didn't work out, but this isn't the focus of th...
Dating a girl who's really pretty and super nice, but she has really small boobs which I find unattractive. HOW DO I NOT BE A SHALLOW DOUCHE?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by punching gf in the arm half-awake POST: fyi: not amurrcan I'm a jealous guy and i admit it so a couple of days ago i got one of those dreams that you don't want to have. It's about my gf cheating on me with a fuckin old guy who happens to be our ex-president(clue: j.e.e) so the old ...
Woken up by a kick to the thigh coz of a dream that led me to unknowingly punch my gf in the arm.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[21]M been with my [20]F for four years and I'm starting to think about a break up. POST: Been with my girlfriend for roughly 4 years and things just don't feel the same. I Love her but she's held me back from my freinds and sometimes my family. We met got together back in hig...
Been having second thoughts about my relationship with my girlfriend. She's great but I just want some new experiences with other people and to be with my freinds more.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: I've lost all hope for humanity. POST: It's a windy day here in Orange County, CA. I was going to the bank to deposit some cash into my account ($150.00) so that I can write a check for my rent due this week. I went up to the Wells Fargo ATM with cash in hand and, I shit you not, my cash flew...
I was depositing money into my account and it flew out of my hand and two kids on bikes took it and rode away and I'm screwed. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19/F] Dont know why I get so weird/scared when I get asked out/ POST: I've never dated anyone before. Just started college for the first time. Loving it! I'm not shy at all, I'm outgoing, I love making people laugh... I can flirt easily, so it's not like I'm shy or anything. I ju...
When someone asks me out, (even if I'm interested) why do I always feel so damn scared and weirded out?? Do I just have some sort of anxiety?? What should I do to combat this!?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (20F) and my SO (19M); Is this normal? POST: I've been with my SO for over a year and we moved in together recently and our relationship is still going strong and there haven't been any issues regarding how free time and time together changes when we moved in. We've been very good...
Sex has been less frequent since I moved in with my SO. Neither of us are bothered by it and other aspects of our relationship is great, including still being attracted to each other. Is that normal?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18M] My girlfriend [19F] [LDR] wants to join a sorority. Should I be concerned? POST: So my girlfriend of 4 months and her best friend are looking to join a sorority (Canadian University if that makes things any different). Her best friend is also in a relationship with someone, but...
Girlfriend wants to join sorority. When I asked why she said "I don't know" ... Should I be concerned ?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Working out with limitations POST: Hello! I am a long time lurker that finally got back into the swing of losing weight again. A little back story; I started losing weight in May of 2011 at an all-time high of 260 pounds. I am a F20 5'4 and currently 150lbs. I have been able to lose the wei...
was diagnosed with Ankylosing spondylitis and need some help coming up with new work out ideas to cut the last 17 pounds.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: IN QUICK NEED OF A WITTY REPLY TEXT BE THE SAVIOUR POST: This girl doesn't know what i'd fucking do to have her presence. She told me she had done drugs and I freaked 2 months go by and I talk to her again saying perspectives have changed etc. and I said if there is any chance of tal...
Need a witty reply to this girl and i'll get her back. Text is " my cards aren't on the table, in fact I'm not even playing anymore "<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [18M] I've been in a relationship [20F] for about 6 months now and I don't think she's the one. Should I break up with her? POST: It's my first year in college, and my first relationship. We've been going out for 6 months and she's madly in love with me. I was happy at the start of...
[18m] First relationship, first year college, 6 months, things going pretty smooth, can't imagine future with her [20m], should I break up?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] have no idea how to tell my girlfriend [18F] that I love her. POST: So before you all call me an idiot for something so simple let's get some background. Throughout my teenage years I was an emotionally displaced guy. I received therapy to help with my issues which helped me ...
I am an idiot who can't say "I love you" to the girl of my dreams even when I know I love her.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: Question about flying to China POST: I'll be flying to Bangkok this coming May on a volunteer trip, and I have a stop over in China. It's a very long flight (the flight to China from Toronto will be roughly 15 hours, and then the flight from China to Bangkok is about 5 hours), and I'm an av...
I'm flying to China with my knitting in my carry on bag. I want to know if anyone has had experience with this/if it's allowed.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Dogtraining TITLE: My dog has started acting aggressively towards my mom every time she stands up. Please help! POST: It's been five weeks now since I've been at my parent's house. My Jack Russell Terrier, Eddie, has made it impossible for me to bring him home to my parents. Everyone is confused as to ...
My dog who loved my mum suddenly decided that every time she stands up, he's going to lunge at her and aggressively bark. Behaviour started seemingly out of nowhere. Please help!?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26M] girlfriend [22F] always grabs my ass whenever we're in public. Don't know how to feel about it. POST: I have been dating my girlfriend for two months. Everything is great but whenever we go out in public she constantly has her hands on my ass. Whether it's putting her hands ...
Girlfriend grabs me in public whenever we go out, I'm worried we'll get called out and embarrassed. Possibly overreacting?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [26/F] friends [28/F and 25/F] share an opinion of me that I never knew about and don't know how to feel about. POST: My friend of 10+ years [25/F] and a girl [28/F] I used to be friends with (who I stopped talking to upon realizing how toxic she was) share a mutual friend [36/M] ...
My friends think I'm the type of person who "can only have one friend at a time." What does this mean and how do I respond to them feeling this way about me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [SMALL UPDATE] Me [31/F] with my fiance [29 M] 1 year, holding money because an ex bf "liked" a status about my dog. POST: So tiny update here to this, ( I just got off the phone with him. I let him know I am not happy on how he handled things. He eventually put the money back in ...
Fiance got pissed because an ex bf "liked" a Facebook status. He held money from me that I needed for bills. We just talked and I'm forming an exit plan.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (21) tell my girlfriend (22) I still watch porn? POST: My girlfriend (F22) and I (M21) have been in a relationship for over 5 years now and she truly hates porn as a medium for masturbation. For as long as we have been together she has expressed a disliking for pornography, ...
How do I tell my girlfriend I watch porn when I masturbate, without rocking the boat, while keeping her trust.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Where should I do now, exactly? POST: I'm graduating in May, and I'm in the unusual position of being a twenty-one year old with no debt whatsoever. My parents bought me a new 2009 Subaru Forester when I graduated from high school, and thanks to scholarship money I'm walking away f...
I have a lot of money for a twenty-one year old and I don't know what to do with it, and I don't really care about investing. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21F] I apparently am seeing attention according to [22M] SO/LDR/idk what to call us. 4month relationship. POST: Apologies in advance for the wall text. So I'm an avid snapchat user, and since the update with "My Story," I usually just use that option. I just got my Halloween costu...
LDR called me attention-seeking because of a snapchat story I sent out. Told me to not talk to him until I calm down my attention-whoreness. We've been together for 4months.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My spouse [f28] is having doubts about relocating with me [m29]. POST: My wife and I moved to a new city 1,500 miles from our home so that I could attend a 1 year grad program. The move was never meant to be permanent, and we planned to move back to the general region where we are fr...
spouse says she has doubts about moving with me / doesn't feel the same about me / says I work too much, etc.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Gamerscore is completely gone, can anyone help? POST: Today I borrowed a copy of Assassins Creed Brotherhood from a roommate and was going to replay for a quick brush up on the story before Revelations. I load it up and after the start screen the game says that the device I have my profi...
Borrowed AC2: Brotherhood, tried to play, xbox said my MU was removed even though nothing touched it and now all achievements are gone. Can anyone help me?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: She[25f] ended it with me[24m] last week after 3 years. Should I contact family? POST: My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me last week. For me, it was very sudden. I could tell you all about the things she said and the things I did or didn't do but to be honest, I don't feel like...
Broke up with girlfriend and I was very close to her mom/dad. Should I contact them to say thanks/goodbye ?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Trolls of Reddit, I need your genius POST: So here's the deal, for the past 6 months or so my roommate and I have been participating in a harmless prank war of sorts. You know, just little gags here and there to make the days a bit more interesting. They've been pretty generic and unexci...
My roommate thinks our house might be haunted, I want to use this to my advantage to pull off a prank of epic proportions, please help.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: After ten years, my [33/m] marriage with my wife [33/f] is falling apart because of money POST: Me and my wife lived in three countries. In the first one she found minimum wage jobs and we lived with my parents for one year. In the second one she struggled to get her degree rec...
after ten years, seven married, and three countries, my wife contributes to 20% of household income and we are not getting anywhere. Please advise.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21 F] My Boyfriend [22 M] called me a derogatory name during an argument relating to my sexuality in the past. POST: I had an argument with my boyfriend of 2 years, a couple of nights ago which resulted in us breaking up. Our relationship has been really rocky this past while and we...
had a lesbian relationship before meeting boyfriend, with boyfriend for 2 years, broke up a couple of nights ago, had an argument with him yesterday in which he referred to me as a 'dyke'<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [17M] I thought I was finally over my ex-girlfriend, until she got a new boyfriend. POST: A little insight: My very first girlfriend (yes I know) broke up with me about 7 months ago. The depression it hurdled me into was long and tedious, but recently I've been starting to feel a bit...
I thought I was finally over my ex, then she decides to get a boyfriend, now I'm back to square 1.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] don't know how to approach Valentine's day with the girl I've been dating [21 M/F] for the past two months. POST: So we've been dating for about 2 months and I'm really trying to decide if this is a girl that I want to date long term. So, with that said I'm not sure how to a...
How do I handle Valentine's Day with a girl that I've been dating for 2 months but I'm not sure if I want to date long term?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Has anyone adopted a puppy online without meeting them? (i.e. through a rescue org out of state) POST: Hi all, Just curious if anyone has any experience with this. I'm big into rescue animals as I've fostered, volunteered, and adopted rescues throughout my life but especially the last few y...
Want a Great Pyrenees puppy, adoption mostly only available online through cross-country transport - is it a problem to not meet the puppy first if I want it to mesh with chickens, goats and children (as a pet)?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my boyfriend [32M] 2 years: question about forgiveness and moving on POST: My boyfriend and I have been through some difficult times lately, including but not limited to loss of job, housing and friend. It's been tough on us, but we've managed to solider on. This past ...
BF said horrible things while lashing out, I've forgiven, but would like advice on forgetting and not holding on to hurt.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: How can I get back into my field after suffering some personal issues and basically being unemployed for 5 years? POST: The good: I went to a decent college and got a bachelors degree in computer engineering. I graduated in 2007 and worked for about 2 years afterwards in an entry-level job. ...
Unemployed for 5 years due to depression/being a shitty person, but got my shit together and trying to get a real job again. need advice<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Some school problems, a little confused. POST: Just got introduced to reddit, having a blast and all, but i'm fucking up so hard... So I'm at my first year at college, starting strong and whatnot, but all of a sudden things have gotten down hill. My current major is "Computer Science", w...
Fucked up my current math class, may not get into next math class, sending me far behind. Change major? Or keep going?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: AskReddit, my mom's a really wonderful woman, going through a really shitty divorce, unemployment, and being robbed. How do I help her? POST: Over the past year, my mother and my father's relationship has fallen apart. Four months ago, things started getting bad. He hit her in front of m...
My dad is a piece of shit and has ruined my mom's life, how can I help her get on her feet again?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M24] My best friend [F25] just told me that she'd never have romantic feelings for me. I've been in love with her for 7 years and now I don't know what to do. POST: We dated in high school and early in college, but we ended our relationship when I left the country for 2 years (on an...
I've been in love with my best friend for 7 years, and she just told me she'll never feel the same way towards me.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: How do I talk to my leasing office about switching apartments? POST: I moved into my apartment about 7 weeks ago and I could not have been more excited. I moved to a new city to be with my previously long-distance boyfriend, and we were finally getting a place together. It's my first apartm...
My apartment is infested with creepy crawlers. The leasing office has sent the exterminator 3 times, to no avail. How do I convince them to let me move to a different unit?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend(21m) beat the shit out of someone and I(19f) dont know how to feel about it. POST: So my boyfriend Marcus and I have been together for about 8 months now. Yesterday, we were invited to a party for St. Patricks day. There was alot of drinking there, he had a few drinks, I...
I feel weird that my boyfriend beat the shit out of someone at a party, and i dont know how to handle it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My long distance "boyfriend" (m) and I (f) just went our separate ways. Never felt so awful. POST: We met almost 4 months ago on... Well on reddit. At first we were just casually talking, but things got more intense, we were talking everyday during all of our free time. We fell...
Just broke up with my "boyfriend" Need to talk. Or just get tips to make me feel better from people who lived similar things.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Fat people keep sabotaging my diet POST: I am surrounded by morbidly obese people. My dad weighs almost 400 lbs, for reference. The rest of my family is varying shades of fat, I say that with love I suppose, but also some disgust. I'm sick and tired of their diets and habits interfering ...
my fam and bf are sabotaging my efforts, any suggestions or advice? How do you guys deal with it?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [20 M] break up with my ldr clingy girlfriend [19 F]? POST: To make it short, I've been with this girl, say Sarah, for about half a year in this long distance relationship. We have seen each other five times(varying from a weekend to two weeks) over the course of the last si...
girl is really attached to me, me not as much. I want to break up but don't know how to go about it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, is this girl too old for me? (going on 18 year old male) POST: So, I played a gig tonight at a local bar, and it was the first public performance with my new band. I reckon it went pretty well for a first performance, as everyone was really relaxed, great environment and so on. A...
= met a girl at a gig, i'm 18 in 3 months and she is around 19-20. (me in school vs her in uni). Too much of an age gap?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by playing with a lighter this weekend. POST: Was chilling upstairs in my friends house with 3 other friends. His parents were downstairs pretty drunk with their couple-friend. I get bored. Whip out the majestic lighter. Start tinkering with it. Somehow this amazing idea(not a good idea ...
Burnt my thumb playing with a lighter. Friends parents got suspicious. Would have got myself and friends caught for weed if my friend didn't lie our way out of it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23M] with my GF [29F] of 4 months, got caught and now unsure POST: This is a LDR but I thought I'd post here also. We met online when she was married. I learned she was in a terrible relationship (abuse, cheating etc). We just got caught, I'll leave the details out. He has told...
In a LDR with a married woman with abusive partner. Got caught by him. Child in the middle of this also. Feeling very unsure now<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (23 M) love my girlfriend (23 F) of 4 years, but I don't think i ever want to settle down and commit. Advice? POST: So last year I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 and a half years because i felt like i wasn't ready to commit to a long term relationship and i felt like it was for t...
I have commitment issues but i don't enjoy the empty feelings of one night stands. Keep going back to my ex out of fear of ending up alone in the future.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I get my employer to pay on time? POST: So I've been working for this employer since May 2012, and after looking through each pay check on my bank account, over 60% of my paychecks have been later by at least a day and up to 4 days. The company I work for is very small, HR/Payro...
What else can I do? How do I make my employer pay us on time? I'm in New Jersey, if anybody knows law about this.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[21F] husband[22M] looks at GW posts, and then hides it, after a discussion about how that makes me feel inferior. POST: I apologize for the rambling mess below, I'm not the best about talking about my feelings, and this is my first time posting here... My husband and I have been ...
Husband is still looking at amateur porn models and videos online, akin to sexting, and it makes me feel not good enough.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I was forced to resign a few months back and now I might have some incriminating evidence against the people who forced me out... please help me Reddit... POST: I work for a company and I am the president/CEO, there are a few chair people on our board of trustees who have undermined me f...
Two co-workers came into my office, unplugged the security camera for 3 hours and plugged it back in when they left... Is this illegal?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23M] have told the girl I like [23F] that I'd like to see where a relationship would go with her 3 times. Should I try a 4th? Things are different. POST: First time I'd only known her a month. She was already involved with someone but liked me and was confused (hadn't told me abou...
Lady friend rejected me 3 times for respectable reasons. Scared of reminding her I still like her because this time a rejection would mean she doesn't see anything between us.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by using permanent marker POST: So I walked into religion studies yesterday before our teacher walked in. I decided to troll my friend (lets call him bob). I go up to the teachers desk and grab the first whiteboard marker, now here is the fuck up, i grabbed a permanent one, I went up to ...
used a permanent marker by mistake, wrote a meme on the whiteboard, didn't come off, forced to scrub it off.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Surprise surprise, my [25M] ex gf [20F] of a year is dating again 2 weeks later POST: This is after getting really upset with me for invalidating her/us for doing the same thing. Because I had "made her feel special" and me going off and trying to find someone else so soon made her f...
ex chewed me out for trying to date so soon after the break while doing the same thing. I threw what she had said to me back at her face and then apologized later. I'm still a bad person.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I am struggling with the fact that I could lose my Grandmother in the near future. How do you deal with this type of knowledge? POST: I am really having a hard time here, she means the world to me. I have lost both grandfathers and a few friends, however, nothing will compare to this. ...
Grandma had a stroke during a power outage, even though we were VERY lucky, I feel like I am watching a ticking time bomb.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[19(20 in three weeks)/M] desires advice about her[17-20(?)/F] POST: At the gym I go to there's this girl that works there that I find attractive. We've never spoken before, I can only recall seeing her once in a while back in high school, but I was hoping to approach her cold and...
I wanna ask a girl out at my gym, but I'm unsure just how much younger than me she really is and if asking out someone who works at a gym I go to would be a good idea.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Limber Tail Syndrome? POST: Hello all (I'm sorry, this is long!), I would really appreciate any help. Today I let my dog Homer Jay outside for an hour in our fenced in backyard and when I let him in he was yelping and crying in pain. He was holding his tail in a way that it was a few inche...
Dog has a very painful tail and I believe this may be called Limber Tail Syndrome, looking for any insight, I'm very worried :(<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: AskReddit, What is your take on all the current events regarding proposed gun control? POST: Details: I, personally, am a gun enthusiast. I enjoy the testosterone-fueled fun of blowing things up, and I also feel that comfortablely knowing how to use a variety of weapons is a good idea, b...
What does everyone think about another assault rifle ban, magizine size limits, 2nd amendment rights, etc?*<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: 28 going back to school and have a mortgage. Take out student loans or invest? POST: I'm 28 with a low level IT job. I pull a little over 50k, and own a condo which monthly is $650 mortgage + 525 insane condo fees and zero credit card debt. I've been going back to school part time...
Should I take my money I've saved up and pay towards school without taking out student loans, or should I invest what I have into something?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] with [22 F] met recently, she wants to just be friends because I sent her too many texts POST: 4 weeks ago, met this girl online, we tried for awhile to meet up but never did. A week ago I decided to give things another shot. We texted off and on for the week, I asked if sh...
She wants to be friends because I texted too much due to a misunderstanding. What is a good course of action and timeframe?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[35M] deceased father might have sold a house to my nephew[28M] via a verbal contract, don't know if I should honor it POST: Backstory: My dad retired with his own apartment plus a house he was building, a nice fat figure in his savings account and a nice pension. He became bored...
Dad sold house to nephew via verbal agreement. Dad passed away and there's no proof whatsoever money exchanged hands. I inherited the house. What do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Personal issues] How do I [18M] confess to my best friend[18F] that I have feelings for her? POST: Hi thanks for reading my plea in advance. To explain my situation, right now I have fallen in love with my best friend whom I have yet to meet irl. She was vacationing over here in Cal...
I want to confess to my best friend without feeling regret but I'm always doubtful of the outcome regardless the feelings we may share for each other.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by recently getting married POST: Today I received news that a really good friend I went to high school with moved back to town and is going to start working at my company. My job is really chill and requires you to work on teams so I'm pretty stoked about it. We're sitting in the break ...
friend moves back into town because his wife claims she no longer loves him, start catching up on each others life, I start joking about my new marriage and talk about only getting married once because the process of marriage is difficult.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Reddit, please help me (29f) before i ruin my relationship with my boyfriend (27m) POST: This is a throwaway account because my SO is a redditor. my boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months now, and I couldn't love him more, although sometimes I'm not sure if he feels the s...
boyfriend isn't good at showing love or affection and my anxieties over it could kill a relationship i want to keep.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24m) friends are getting more and more distant. I suspect jealousy, but that does not explain everything. POST: Throwaway because my friends have reddit. Let's hope that they aren't subscribed to this subreddit. Things are going downhill with me and my friends. Since we all star...
Things are going downhill since I do a special internship. I suspect jealousy, but that does not explain why some other friends are thrown under the bus as well.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (23/f) little cousin (16/f) is suffering from a debilitating eating disorder. I am in recovery and don't know how to help. POST: My little cousin is like a sister to me. I was raised an only child and lived in her household for a while growing up (my aunt is like a second mom). I ...
My 16 year old cousin is slowly killing herself due to a severe eating disorder, and I don't know how to talk to her about it because of my own past with anorexia.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26 M] am in a bit of pickle around a dating situation [25 F] POST: So, I met this new girl who I was immediately attracted too. We just clicked. I mentioned we'd meet up for a drink and she jumped at the idea and quickly gave me her number. Two days later, I look in my inbox on F...
frustrated [26 M] who has met an amazing women [25 F] only to get cock blocked by her mate.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What can I do about a man who injured a dog and threatened my mother when the cops won't intervene? POST: The other day my mother was out grocery shopping and called me on her cell phone crying. She told me that she noticed a dog loose that had a collar that kept crossing a near-by busy ...
A man threatened my mother and ran a dog into the line of traffic, and the cops won't do a thing about it.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: ok my life is fucked up right now. POST: ok first of all im a horrible at wrighting and spelling so bear with me. ok so I left my wife about 3 monts ago the fighting and violence just got to be to much for me and I couldn't let my doughter see it any more. I do think its the right mo...
my ex is in love with me, im in love with another girl, other girl is in love with her ex.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20M) love my SO (20F), but I'm not sure I'm IN love with her... please advise... thank you. POST: We have been together for 5 years now. She is the only woman I've ever been with, and I thought she would be the only woman I could ever want. She's genuinely perfect for me. We hav...
Love my SO of 5 years, beginning to rethink however, maybe I'm not IN love with her? I just love her... really care for her. I don't know. Please read the above if you can.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Best friend [F20] just started acting differently towards me [M20]. She has me confused. POST: I [M20] have been best friends with [F20] for the last 2 years since I moved to our city for college. I was quite overweight and insecure for the first couple years of our friendship. La...
Best friend [F20] now acting different towards me [M20] than she has since I've known her. Wondering if she may be interested.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by making my wife happy POST: So it all started out by getting married a month ago. We both knew we would be struggling on finances afterwards and would be tough trying to pay back everything. One day we sat down and prioritized our bills and expenses and decided what to pay. One of th...
My wife hates me for trying to take her on a date after she quits her job using the money I was supposed to use for bills.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19m] great friend [19f] are super touchy feely and hang out constantly. Im confused about the boundaries. Possible mixed signals. Help this fool please. POST: Hey guys ive been a lurker for a while but its time to ask for some advice. My friend ( let's call her alice) is the best...
I am super into my best friend and want to be with her . I'm afraid I'll mess everything up. Please help this fool find his way.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: New to the dating game and a bit confused [25F/24M] POST: After ending a long relationship I'm trying to start dating again. Hooked up with a guy a few times. I have a few concerns and could use some advice. We are in different places for two weeks, and been been chatting onl...
if a guy talks to you all day, is he interested? How can I make him stop talking about past conquests? And when is it right to clarify his ex is out of the picture?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22] GF of 7 months told me M[21] was raped a year ago. She has now told me who did it... What would you, honestly, do? POST: My gf was date raped a year ago, and without going into detail, she did not alert anybody because she felt ashamed, guilty, and felt nobody would believe h...
GF was raped a year ago. I know now the assailant and could potentially find him on uni campus. Just want to see what others would do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is there a good reason to have kids aside from "best experience ever"? AKA - Should we have kids? POST: My wife of two years (been together 12) recently became pregnant by accident and miscarried very early on. Previously, we had never seriously considered children - talked about it yes,...
Not sure if I/we should have kids as the only testimony of the excellence of kids comes from those who are stuck with them already.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Tips on not looking away? POST: Reddit, I have a problem: whenever girls look at me in public, I immediately look away. Objectively, I'm a fairly good-looking guy, and I try to dress well, so I occasionally get attention from attractive female strangers. Normally, this happens on th...
I'm usually a pretty outgoing person, but I have an incredibly hard time even *looking* at women. Any ideas? <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Wife and I are divorcing, setup a no-contact rule. She asked for help with something, I said no, and feel guilty about it. POST: [If you care for some of the background history, find that in my last RA post]( So I was collecting some tools she's had for weeks. I had left them...
Feel guilty for not helping my wife build some stuff in her new apartment, even though she's pushed me away repeatedly and a few weeks ago we decided on "no contact" and started preparing for divorce.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M/F] with my [31 F] of 4 years, Mental Issues POST: I have been having a sort of mental crisis. I'm the guy who has never been very good with explaining feelings. I will try to lay it out logically. 1. Wife has a severe depression disorder that I have helped her with since th...
Cold, ambitious husband feels like wife is holding him back. Is nervious about buying house. Cant figure out the difference between intimate love and posessive love. Husband is like dragon.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (24M) girlfriend (26F) of 3 months has been talking to her ex POST: She got an email from him right before she went away apologising for the way he acted. She replied accepting his apology and I was fine with that. This was right before she went away with her family. She came ba...
My gf is talked to her ex and now say she doesn't know how she feels but she doesn't want to go back to the country to be with him. <|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my girlfriend [18 F] 3 months, thinking about ending relationship for her lack of time outside of school. POST: Basically the girl I'm seeing of 3 months (if you count the time we were together before it would be ~6 months) is great and all we have a great relationship...
Thinking of breaking up with girlfriend, doesn't have time to spend outside of school. Even though we have an amazing relationship.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (24 F). My ex (24 F). I just want to know what's going through her head? POST: A little background: We met in a club then a week after started dating. A month later she broke up with me saying that she couldn't let her guard down because her exes hurt her too deep, that she was no...
I don't understand why some people have commitment issues. This might be because I personally never had it. How can someone resolve their commitment issue? And how long does it usually take to do so?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Dating for 2 months, how worried should I be when I (37M) don't hear back from 27F about event we planned to go to next month? POST: We have been dating (long distance) for two months and I had gotten the feeling that things were on the way to becoming serious. Also we were friends ...
Girl I am dating did not respond to question about future plans we were making and I am not sure how to take it or what to do.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I want to take a light week long roadtrip late spring. Will stop in Virginia at friends dads house. what are some great places to see, party at, etc on the southeast coast. POST: Coming from north jersey. I'm fixing up my car right now, so i was thinking, since its going to be in great w...
Going on possible road trip from North Jersey, possibly southward. Tell me cool places to visit, party at, meet people at. BTW we're all in our mid 20's.<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20/F] went on a date with a guy [23/M] last night, and he is confusing in the way he reacts to me! POST: I met with a guy I was talking to on Tinder the other night. We started chatting, we talked a lot, watched a movie, and about half way through we start making out. I start hint...
Met with guy, kissed him lots, I thought we both wanted sex, but he wouldn't pursue, and I have not heard from him since last night. Did I do anything wrong??<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 23/m needs advice with 19/f gf! POST: Okay me and my gf met online and have been dating for just over a month. She is very mature for her age and has had a very difficult life up until this point. She was born into a world of drugs and was forced into prostitution by her mothe...
Broke up with gf, gf made a date with another guy, got back together with gf but they were still communicating about the date until I found out. What do I do?<|endoftext|>
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21M] with my recent girlfriend [22F] week. First relationship, unsure about how I should regard her male friends POST: Alright so I've been seeing this girl for a few months now, early on in our friendship I had professed my feelings for her but I knew she was in a long distance ...
A male friend of hers will not stop trying to get into her life. Messages her sisters (and now ex) about how he feels about her, gives her unrequested personal life advice etc. What can I do?<|endoftext|>